Spells for Better Communication Between Lovers Spouses Mates Friends

Unread post by **catherineyronwode** » Thu Sep 01, 2011 6:31 pm

I think that one reason HE blows hot and cold is because your WORK is hot and cold!

Saint Martha is THE DOMINATOR and the Intranquil Spirit is a DAMNED AND DOOMED spirit. So you are throwing some extremely harsh, coercive, and tough work at him,

Then you are setting lights on a honey jar of SWEETNESS AND LIGHT to which you have added SOOTHING herbs.

It's like you grind him under your heels and then you kiss him. Over and over.

My suggestion is to ease off on the coercive work and focus only on the sweetening and love-enhancing work. Use Peace Water, Marriage Oil, Blessing Oil, and things like that.

Good luck!

devolsyawla · Unread post by **devolsyawla** » Thu Sep 01, 2011 6:52 pm

Thank you so much cat. That is very true will place my order asap for those items. I really appreciate you advice I see what you mean.

Unread post by **jwmcclin** » Thu Sep 01, 2011 6:56 pm

You can work the reconciliation spell (http://www.luckymojo.com/reconciliation.html) and continue working the honey jar as a backup to your work. Also work on your communications with your target...good communication goes a long way.

stelz · Unread post by **stelz** » Thu Sep 01, 2011 7:43 pm

What Cat said.

If you love him, why whallop him with hell beings?

Just a thought. You get the point.

celine_celeste · Unread post by **celine_celeste** » Thu Sep 01, 2011 9:16 pm

Thank you jwmcclin. I will defnitely do this.

Unread post by **Dr Johannes** » Fri Sep 02, 2011 6:24 am

The first thing would be to apologize and talk about the issue, the love between the two of you and your efforts to change the destructive behaviour into something constructive - such as good sex or alike.
The second would be to cleanse yourself, him and the place you live in.
The third would be to work the jar adding Deers Tounge Leafs, Majoram and Balm of Gilead buds.

mommystwin27 · Unread post by **mommystwin27** » Fri Sep 02, 2011 10:59 am

Something else I have found to help tremendously is secretly dressing your target with reconciliation and other love items if you can. I wash my husband's laundry with the washes and I also put the oils in his lotion and dress doorknobs and things that he touches on a frequent basis.

Unread post by **jwmcclin** » Fri Sep 02, 2011 10:04 pm

Deers Tongue Leafs (http://herb-magic.com/deers-tongue.html) for luck in relating (communication) to your target
Marjoram (http://herb-magic.com/marjoram.html) to be relieved from grief and sorrow in a relationship
Balm of Gilead (I love this one)(http://herb-magic.com/balm-of-gilead.html) to soothe pain due to arguments and ease problems.

celine_celeste · Unread post by **celine_celeste** » Sat Sep 03, 2011 7:48 pm

Thank You Johannes and mommystwin27. I purchased the items suggested the other day and will add that to my honey jar, I had some dirty underwear from him that I'm using as a personal concern. He's not even talking to me right now eventhough I've been begging him to forgive me. So, I'm puzzled. This is the first time that we've had a problem this big. I got a reading the other day and my reader said that he is still interested in giving the relationship a try, he's just retreating because he's hurt, and that our relationship will likely survive this. That's great, except for the fact that he's not talking to me right now!
Also, not to sound like a drama queen, but I've made myself sick with anxiety and I haven't been able to concetrate or anything since this has happened. I'm really heartbroken, I keep crying and thinking about this. The upside is I've a lost a couple of pounds because my appetite is gone!
Is there anything that I can do for myself so that I can not worry and obsess about this?

Unread post by **Dr Johannes** » Sun Sep 04, 2011 3:42 am

Hyssop bath with Psalm 51 may e a good idea.

devolsyawla · Unread post by **devolsyawla** » Mon Sep 05, 2011 2:04 am

Since he's so hard headed I thought it might help some. A normal nudge doesn't ever help him. But I'm following what cat's saying

bronzeartist21 · Unread post by **bronzeartist21** » Mon Sep 05, 2011 5:37 am

Hello, I recently began spending time again with my girlfriend who split up with me a few months ago. She called me out of the blue, very upset and missing me. We started spending time together again, mutually deciding that we would take things slow and easy for a while. Over the past month she has been very interested in seeing me, and expressing love and attraction for me. She still doesn't want to tell her family and friends that we are seeing each other, but things have been going well. Over the past week, I have felt her passion waning a bit. This has been a problem before, she's hot, then cold while my feelings are fairly steady about her. The fact that we love each other is not in question but the feeling that she can't fully commit to our relationship nags at me. I don't know what I can do to help with this situation, and was wondering if anyone has a suggestion. Another problem we have had is that there are a couple of friends in her life who exert negative influence upon her regarding our relationship, and that seems to work against us being together harmoniously. I am very committed to her and hope to be married eventually.

Unread post by **jwmcclin** » Mon Sep 05, 2011 7:03 am

Welcome to the forum bronzeartist21. It seems that you may need a reading to really see what is going on with your girlfriend (http://www.readersandrootworkers.org) You can start with a ten minute reading just to get a feeling of what is going on, questions like 'does Suzy Q love me' Does Suzy Q want to be with me' Do I have a future with Suzy Q' Just a few thoughts. On the other hand, Lucky Mojo has hundreds of spells designed to keep a lover from straying to bringing a lover back. If you want to go that route, you can certainly as the reader to work for you or began work on your own. Linked here are a few recommendations considering your post.

Stay With Me (http://www.luckymojo.com/staywithme.html) to keep one's mate from wandering.
Follow Me Girl (http://www.luckymojo.com/products-follow-me-girl.html) to get her to follow you like a loyal puppy.
Love Me (http://www.luckymojo.com/loveme.html) to to draw her closer...
Fire of Love (http://www.luckymojo.com/fireoflove.html) to keep and maintain love in a long standing relationship.
Reconciliation (http://www.luckymojo.com/reconciliation.html) to put an end to any hostility that kept you apart...

Again these are a few recommendations...

celine_celeste · Unread post by **celine_celeste** » Mon Sep 05, 2011 12:32 pm

So, I'm back with an update. Thank you all for the advice that you've given me. I just ordered supplies for the Hyssop bath and I will work on my communication and temper. He finally agreed to get together for lunch this week, which is a big step, since he hasn't been talking to me, just emailing. I think I need to really work on forgiving myself and letting go of what I did.
My fingers are crossed that we can reconcile this relationship. I'm also trying to be patient with him, which is tough! I'm dressing some items with reconciliation oil that I plan on giving to him. We shall see what happens!

celine_celeste · Unread post by **celine_celeste** » Sun Sep 25, 2011 3:37 pm

Here is an update for anyone that may read this. I followed Dr. Johannes advice completely and it worked!

My boyfriend and I have reconciled. We are talking, he's confiding in me again and things are on the way of getting back to normal.
In conjunction with the reconciliation honey jar I also burned a seven day return to me candle since he was barely talking to me. I had to reach out to him a few times before he finally came around to talking to me. Once he agreed to get together with me for lunch I gave him a gift that I had fixed with reconciliation oil. Within two weeks we were together again. Things are slow to getting back to normal, however, I'm happy that there was a turnaround! I still have a honey jar on him though. That won't stop!

Unread post by **aura** » Mon Sep 26, 2011 3:23 am

Congratulations Nina,

it's great to hear good news! Keep up the good work

Unread post by **Dr Johannes** » Mon Sep 26, 2011 7:05 am

I am glad for the two of you, Nina.

bronzeartist21 · Unread post by **bronzeartist21** » Thu Oct 06, 2011 5:07 am

I need help, i'm feeling frustrated and a little discouraged. My girlfriend reconciled a couple of months ago after a breakup, and things were great for a while. She was passionate about me, and expressed wanting to spend time with me. Something has changed over the past couple of weeks. She doesn't seem to want sex very much, she is very slow responding to text messages, I just don't seem to be very important to her. She takes antidepressant medication. I don't know if that is factoring in to this shift in her behavior. The drugs are not new with her. I worry about her maybe becoming interested in someone else. To be honest, I have no idea what's going on. What can I do to draw her passion and attraction for me, and keep her closer to me?

Unread post by **jwmcclin** » Thu Oct 06, 2011 8:06 am

First, consider her health, you did mention that she is taking antidepressants and there are side effects to any medications. You might want to work some Blessing and Healing Conjure to help her illness first. Blessing Spirtual Supplies ()http://www.luckymojo.com/blessing.html and Healing Spiritual Supplies (http://www.luckymojo.com/products-healing.html). If you purchase the spellkit(s), instructions are included.

If you work with Saints, petition Saint Dymphna (http://www.luckymojo.com/saintdymphna.html) for emotional healing.

bronzeartist21 · Unread post by **bronzeartist21** » Thu Oct 06, 2011 9:45 am

Thank you so much for your advice, I will try what you mentioned!

autumnalflower · Unread post by **autumnalflower** » Thu Oct 06, 2011 12:03 pm

I know from personal experience with depression medications that it can decrease sexual desire and she may be in a down spell, I have gotten in several moods where I don't feel like doing anything or seeing anyone. Understanding and being there for her is the main thing and showing her an interest. I really agree with Healing, mine has subsided after finally finding the right medication, but I use healing sachet powders when I get out of the shower when I feel low and it helps a lot. Maybe you can make her a candle and dress it with healing herbs/oils so it will be with her. Just tell her you wanted to give her a gift.

Unread post by **corazon** » Thu Oct 06, 2011 1:30 pm

I agree with jwmcclin and autumalflower, great advice.

Depression is something folks have to deal with day by day and it can change so much in just one day from the next. The medication is not a fix-all, most of the time people have to work at banishing the depression. Try to talk to her about it and see if she opens up. Ask her if there is anything you can do to help her. The healing work is a lovely idea.

Good Luck!

Unread post by **MissMichaele** » Sat Oct 08, 2011 2:38 pm

Depression can sap you of hope and will, and make "what's the use" and "nobody loves me" seem like sober, rational statements of fact. It's good to hear she's getting medical help, but it can take a while for the clouds to lift.

autumnalflower wrote:Maybe you can make her a candle and dress it with healing herbs/oils so it will be with her. Just tell her you wanted to give her a gift.

I like that

bronzeartist, if your girlfriend would appreciate the gift of a candle, and knows what good they can do, you might be able to do spiritual work for her right out in the open, without having to resort to "sneaky tricks" for her good. You could even give her spiritual baths with Healing, Blessing and/or St. Dymphna bath crystals -- separately or mixed together.

Otherwise, you could dress her hairbrush or spike her grooming and laundry products with the oils -- just a few drops -- and burn candles for her, either on your own altar or on a reputable rootworker's altar, or both.

And don't forget --

Prayer is always free at the Crystal Silence League!
http://www.crystalsilenceleague.org

Hope this helps,

Miss Michaele

autumnalflower · Unread post by **autumnalflower** » Sat Oct 08, 2011 4:54 pm

Thanks Miss Michaele, I think the St Dymphna would be good, and if you want put the candle in a bag, and sprinkle with tranquility and healing powders so they get on her hands, I really like the way they feel. Another idea is road opener candles, I just used the vigil candle with great results...it help me to "open up" the good feelings so to say, there are several things to help. But believe me when I say to give her patience, understanding and interest.

Moonbabe · Unread post by **Moonbabe** » Wed Oct 12, 2011 5:49 am

I wanted to see if anyone has encountered after petitioning to the saint or lighting healing and or blessing candles that your intended target seems to decline before improving.

My target as my reader had told me before would go into a hermit state. He has but just before he showed signs of his depression and confusion coming back. With my airr reader, have done clarity work but also some cast off and uncrossing to help clear some of his troubles.
I requested for a St. Dymphna candle to help him with his depression as he has suffered from it before and to heal the past regrets and remorse that seem to bring it about. First week he was great but then changed and will go home and fall asleep which he never was doing and this past weekend which was three days due to a holiday he basically slept it away.

I believe this is a healing period and I know from other workings it takes time, just wondered if this has been experienced before.

Thank you

Spooky · Unread post by **Spooky** » Thu Oct 13, 2011 6:40 am

I've been suffering from problems with trust and jealousy due to the fact that i'm uncertain about what my man's true feelings are towards me. He says he is deeply inlove with me, however he did something in the past that really hurt me and ever since then i've had a hard time believing anything he says now. I try hard to, but negative thoughts are always in the back of my mind. I forgave him and want to move on from it, still being in eachother's lives.. however, I just can't stop questioning what his true desires are.

I'm trying to find ways to figure out what is truly inside his heart. To see if he is genuine. To see if i'm the only person he wishes to be with. To see what his real desires and intentions are. Can anyone help?

Perhaps even suggest some ways for me to fix the jealousy and trust within myself, too. Or even, Ways to make sure he doesn't cheat or lie.

I can't stop worrying about him. I can't stop worrying that i'm going to lose him. I know that my worrying will cause distance between us if I can't stop it. I want our bond between one another to be unbreakable.

Even any charms we could wear that make our bond stronger would help.

Looking for things to do on my own.

Unread post by **jwmcclin** » Thu Oct 13, 2011 7:24 am

You should get a reader to reveal his feelings Spooky. The findings from the reading will guide you in your decision for a future relationship. Make sure that you ask your reader for conjure consultation to do own your own.

http://www.readersandrootworkers.org

Spooky · Unread post by **Spooky** » Thu Oct 13, 2011 7:53 am

Thank you very much. I'll look into having a reading. What about ways to help my own jealousy problems?

Unread post by **MissMichaele** » Thu Oct 13, 2011 8:30 am

Spooky wrote:What about ways to help my own jealousy problems?

King Solomon Wisdom and Crucible of Courage are your friends. You can also mix them with Van Van or Hindu Grass Oil.

King Solomon Wisdom spells and supplies http://www.luckymojo.com/kingsolomonwisdom.html
Crucible of Courage spells and supplies
www.luckymojo.com/crucibleofcourage.html
Hindu Grass spells and supplies
www.luckymojo.com/hindugrass.html
Van Van Spells and Supplies
www.luckymojo.com/vanvan.html

Hope this helps,

Miss Michaele

Spooky · Unread post by **Spooky** » Thu Oct 13, 2011 10:27 am

Thanks! I hope this helps too.

Unread post by **duchess** » Thu Oct 13, 2011 10:51 am

In addition to the wonderful suggestions above, I would also recommend getting some Reconciliation, Chupparosa, and Love Me products to have on hand.

Chuparrosa really fosters communication, trust, and openess.

http://www.luckymojo.com/chuparrosa.html

My boyfriends LOVES the love me products. He says they make him feel "snuggly."

Lots of people use Reconciliation to smooth over a break up but it also works wonders if you've had a fight or a misunderstanding and both need to heal from it.

http://www.luckymojo.com/reconciliation.html

I would also put together and keep working a honey jar. I made one for us as soon as I knew he was a "keeper." It's on my altar at home now and we are still going strong (and living together now) over a year later.

Good luck!

Spooky · Unread post by **Spooky** » Thu Oct 13, 2011 5:16 pm

The reconciliation seems like it'd be very helpful for both of us

I'll try it out!

Unread post by **ConjureMan** » Thu Oct 13, 2011 7:25 pm

Excellent suggestions. I especially love Chupparosa and Reconciliation for this work. It encourages open and healing conversation. A sweet jar and honey jar would be ideal here as well.

For yourself consider a bath to heal your heart.

Unread post by **starsinthesky7** » Sun Oct 16, 2011 9:59 am

I would do some stop gossip work on these so called friends.www.luckymojo.com/stopgossip.html

I would stay away from the follow me girl. Why? Because that is not what you want and it is not going to be geunine love that she has for you. She will just be a puppet following you around. Sounds good but its not going to be the way you love her.

I would start a honey jar with some fire of love, love me, and come to me products. Add some stay with me and chuparrosa to keep great communication and fidelity between the two of you.

aquarius1970 · Unread post by **aquarius1970** » Wed Oct 19, 2011 10:01 am

Hello,
Here is my sitiation. I have been in a relationship for 1 1/2 years. We are in our 40's. Both divorced. In love. Problem is since he had a bad marriage and after that lived with someone for 6 years, proposed, she broke it off he says he will never use the words "i love you" ever again and he would never propose to anyone ever again. He means it, i know he does and gets very upset when the topic comes up. He says he can show it but will never say it. I would like to do something about it but don't know where to begin. I know i cannot do the work myself as i don't have the room and he is usually around. I was wondering what I can do, or perhaps have someone help me in this situation, setting lights etc? Please help!

Unread post by **Mama Micki** » Wed Oct 19, 2011 10:30 am

There are several things you can do without his knowing. They are called "sneaky tricks." Sprinkle powder on his side of the bed and in his shoes and clothing. Mix a few drops of oil with the detergent when you do his laundry. If you are still menstruating, put a few drops of blood in his food, especially something red like spaghetti sauce, meatloaf, etc. Wear oil and powder when he's around. Put oil in his personal products. A honey jar is small and the 4" candle on it burns quickly; put it away when he's around.

Marriage, Chuparrosa, Dixie Love, Love Me, and Stay With Me would be appropriate to help him commit. A marriage figural candle would be good too.

SweetLady · Unread post by **SweetLady** » Wed Oct 19, 2011 12:21 pm

Do spell work to heal a broken heart. Violet leaves,
http://www.herb-magic.com/violet-leaf.html
http://www.herb-magic.com/violet-leaf-whole.html
you can also purchase candle services from LM here:
http://www.luckymojo.com/mojocatcandleservices.html
for this you can send your photos or personal concerns in for the work to be done on your behalf.
for the violet leaves, if you can pull out the inner sole of his shoe and place the leaf or leaves, after praying over them/concecrating them, you can pretty much do the work without him knowing. seems to me the best way to approach this situation would be with healing and supporting him in Love.

JazzLove · Unread post by **JazzLove** » Sat Oct 22, 2011 6:33 pm

So there's a guy who I've been into for the longest, and I know that he's crazy about me as well, but the problem is that he never makes any moves. And I've gotten ENDLESS readings done from many different sources, and they all tell me that there is a 3rd party involved doing certain "Stuff", "rituals", etc to keep me and this person apart. (I don't want to get into all that right now, but I believe it.)

He confessed his love for me, and the next minute took it all back. Gets jealous/angry when I'm with other male friends, but wont make up his mind and be with me. The whole situation is so frustrating. We are great one minute, the next minute, something happens, and we dont speak to one another. It's as if there's something that causes us to fight or have misunderstandings.

I need some suggestions. I bought a lot of oils:
Reconciliation,
Love Me,
Come to Me,
Follow Me Boy,
Look Me Over,
Bewitching,
Attraction,
Kiss Me Now,
Road Opener,
Fast Luck.

What do you all think I should do first?

I was thinking Reconciliation first to eliminate all past hurt, problems, etc. Then Road Opener to clear away all obstacles that are keeping us apart.

Then After that, BAMMM I wanna get to the juicy stuff. Love Me, Kiss Me, Follow Me, Come To Me, WHAT?

lol...I need help!

Jazz

Unread post by **jwmcclin** » Sat Oct 22, 2011 7:49 pm

You have a lot in this message, lets get the point, are you asking (1) to reconcile with a guy? yet you mentioned that he is crazy about you...(2) so was there ever a relationship? If not and you are purely working to get his attention and remove anyone blocking your way than that's where you start, remove the person (obstacles) blocking your way while drawing him to you. Road Opener is the first step, followed by Come to Me/Follow Me Boy/Love Me (if you want a long term relationship) Kiss Me Now, if you want only a quickie... no strings relationship.

You mentioned you had a lot of readings, and didn't say with an AIRR reader. During these readings you should ask for a consultation that includes what work to get your desired results.

luckyboy · Unread post by **luckyboy** » Sun Oct 30, 2011 6:06 am

I have successfully worked with LM products and me and my bf have a pretty good relationship only problem being that I feel like he rather spend time with his friends than with me. it's actually starting to get to me because he recently mentioned he was going to spend the holidays with his friends which almost drove me nuts. like come on it makes me feel like I am second best and I hate it!!!

1) is there anything I can so to make him revolve more of his time around me? I'm not really looking to use stay at home because we don't live together I just want his attention to revolve around me more.

2) would follow me boy do the trick? bewitching, or would look me over be better? I was thinking follow me since I want him to want to spend time with me.

3) whatever oil I choose could I work it on different color candles to get his time and attention on different levels? meaning red for sexually, pink to follow me romantically, yellow for being attracted to me and revolving around me more, purple to work on the mind and follow me mentally constantly thinking of me.

I just really want more of my boyfriends time that's all and i want him to desire being with me more and its like telling him about it is like he just says "I do want to spend time with you"

Unread post by **Devi Spring** » Sun Oct 30, 2011 7:58 am

Stay At Home is designed exactly for your circumstances - getting someone to spend more time at home w/ their partner, rather than out with friends.

You can add some Follow Me Boy if you'd like.

Stay At Home would go well with blue, as blue is used for fidelity. However if you want to add the Follow Me Boy in there, then pink would be a better choice in my opinion.

luckyboy · Unread post by **luckyboy** » Sun Oct 30, 2011 10:05 am

ok devi thanks alot

Sensuous · Unread post by **Sensuous** » Mon Nov 14, 2011 6:11 pm

Hello all,
While I've been visiting the LM site for years, I'm a new to the forum. I've read some of the posts and found them helpful as well as interesting. I have a question to anyone.

Question: I have a man who I know loves me, but lately he's been very distant. What do you suggest I do to re-light the fire we once had?

Can I use a doll? If so, what ingredients do I use when making it and how do I "charge" it for use.

Thank you in advance for your help.

Unread post by **Mary Bee** » Tue Nov 15, 2011 6:27 pm

Hi Sensuous:
I edited out a mention of a non-Lucky Mojo oil in your post. This forum is only for discussion of Lucky Mojo products and their use.

For your question: if you are able to get around this man physically, start feeding him your menstrual fluid in his coffee or food; that will get him to desire you sexually again. For products, try Reconciliation, Fire of Love, Love Meand Come To Me.

You can use a doll baby; if you can get personal concerns of his (hair, fingernail clippings, sexual fluids) to stuff in the dollie, even better. You may wish to get a reading with an AIRR member if you've never done this work before. Lucky Mojo also will make dollies for you; you can call the shop and ask for a specific color and a male or female doll.

Good luck,
Mary Bee

Sensuous · Unread post by **Sensuous** » Tue Nov 15, 2011 7:27 pm

MaryBee wrote:Hi Sensuous:
I edited out a mention of a non-Lucky Mojo oil in your post. This forum is only for discussion of Lucky Mojo products and their use.

For your question: if you are able to get around this man physically, start feeding him your menstrual fluid in his coffee or food; that will get him to desire you sexually again. For products, try Reconciliation, Fire of Love, Love Meand Come To Me.

You can use a doll baby; if you can get personal concerns of his (hair, fingernail clippings, sexual fluids) to stuff in the dollie, even better. You may wish to get a reading with an AIRR member if you've never done this work before. Lucky Mojo also will make dollies for you; you can call the shop and ask for a specific color and a male or female doll.

Good luck,
Mary Bee

Thank you Mary Bee,
I haven't seen him since Saturday the 12th and haven't spoken to him since Monday the 14th. I found out he met someone so I don't think it's possible for me to obtain any of his personal concerns at this point in time. What now? (All I have is a toothbrush a soiled pair of boxers, photos of him sleeping and a mugshot)...

Unread post by **Mary Bee** » Wed Nov 16, 2011 3:55 pm

Wow, you've got some great personal concerns right there!

If you can sew, you can make an entire doll baby OUT of his soiled boxers. Don't wash them before you sew them into the shape of a doll.

You could make the dollbaby out of the boxers and then use the bristles from the toothbrush and a photo in a honey jar. Look at our honey jars for love and reconciliation here:

Honey Jar Kits

If you're not a good seamstress, that's OK! You can get a premade cloth dollie, open it up a little bit, take out some of the stuffing, and put a piece of his boxers inside. Then sew the dollie back up. You would then need to baptize the dollie to "link" it energetically to the man, and then start working on it: loving it up, talking to it, wrapping it in your underwear so he desires you, etc.

If you don't feel confident in doing this work, Lucky Mojo does create dollies; you can call the shop and ask them if they'll make you one with his personal concerns inside.

Good luck,
Mary Bee

Sensuous · Unread post by **Sensuous** » Thu Nov 17, 2011 5:01 am

Oh yes! Thank you so much Mary Bee. You've definitely enlightened me. I'm going to get started right away!

By the way, I have another concern. Last month I went to a local practitioner and she told me what I needed to do. It seems like since then, my boyfriend and my problems worsened instead of improving. She had me bury some things along with his personal concerns. If I want to undo those things she had me do; would it be okay to dig those things up and dispose of them? If so, how do I properly dispose of them?
(the reason I think my problem is from the work of local practitioner, is because a few other people said her work broke them up with their loved ones as well)
Let me brief you: Before my would never stay away, he always came back home NO MATTER what, and by a decent time at that. I went to her for help getting more money in the household because he couldn't get a job after he was released from prison 5 months ago. After I sought help from her; he became more distant and finally,completely stopped coming home or calling.

Unread post by **Mary Bee** » Thu Nov 17, 2011 2:37 pm

If you're concerned with the results of a spell that another practitioner had you do, you really need to speak to that spellworker. In general, though, once spell remains are buried, you let them stay buried. You don't dig them up again; the exception is if someone laid a curse or buried trick for you on your property and then by digging it up (say, from under your front door step) and disposing of it in running water or in a fire you can destroy the curse.

Good luck,
Mary Bee

Sensuous · Unread post by **Sensuous** » Thu Nov 17, 2011 3:31 pm

Okay, I was just checking about the spell that didn't work. That's said, I'll leave it.
So, I've completed my doll and I've consecrated, baptized it named it. I used his boxers to to as the cloth as well as the stuffing. I know I said they underwear were soiled but when I sniffed them to make sure, they smelled kinda fresh. ( I thought they were soiled because I found them underneath his side of the bed and he throws everything there, UGH! I also got the idea of putting his photo in the head of the doll and my photo over his heart, and I used your suggestion to use the bristles of his toothbrush. Now I'm waiting on results. Let's see what happens.

MariaSecreta · Unread post by **MariaSecreta** » Fri Dec 16, 2011 1:31 pm

My boyfriend and I have a generally good relationship and I decided to use menstrual blood to keep him bound to me and it appears to be working. However I have 2 other issues:

1. He's a commitment freak. He is so afraid of commitment and we will probably never get married without a little push...What should I use for this?

2. I want him to pay more attention to me and less attention to other women. He has many female friends and I am confident he wont cheat on me physically, but I feel like he is cheating on me emotionally. What should I use for this?

I'm newer to this practice and am not sure what work I should use for these purposes...Thank you for your help. It's greatly appreciated.

Unread post by **ConjureMan** » Fri Dec 16, 2011 9:06 pm

To make a man pay more attention to you work with Follow Me Boy and Bewitching. This combination works wonders for women. My clients report that their men can't keep their hands off of them.

Take a bath with the bath crystals and pour some of your used bathwater where he'll walk. Wear the oils as a scent when you are around them, use them in a candle spell or use a combination of all three.

Unread post by **Mary Bee** » Sat Dec 17, 2011 8:41 am

Links to CM Ali's suggested products:

http://www.luckymojo.com/followmeboy.html
http://www.luckymojo.com/bewitching.html

Good luck,
Mary Bee

hapinys · Unread post by **hapinys** » Sat Dec 17, 2011 4:10 pm

Awesome combo. I love it

MissNewConjure · Unread post by **MissNewConjure** » Sat Jan 14, 2012 11:12 am

OK so I have posted in here myself for my own problems and have gotten some great answers so I figured I can ask for my friend.

My friend and her boyfriend have been together for quite some time. They love each other but don't say it. He has told her basically that he does love her but for the time being cannot really say it. What she wants is for him to be more open about his feelings because he is very affectionate and shows her he loves her everyday. She also wants him to be more considerate towards her, because he is a people pleaser and will really put everyone before her. For example, if he is supposed to go and visit her (they live about an hour away from each other) and his friend needs help working on a car, he'll blow off the plans for the time being to help his friend. So basically what she is looking for is more sensitivity and consideration.

She doesn't want to do an extreme spell, just something like a dressed candle. Any suggestions? Thanks!

Unread post by **Devi Spring** » Sat Jan 14, 2012 11:15 am

I'd go with Chupparrosa products as it has a more gentle and open intent, along with a dab of Follow Me Boy put in there to encourage him to want to be around her more often. Have her burn some dressed candles on a honey jar for the situation.

MissNewConjure · Unread post by **MissNewConjure** » Sat Jan 14, 2012 11:37 am

Thanks for your response!

She's thinking of a 7 day glass encased candle... should it be red or pink?

Unread post by **Devi Spring** » Sat Jan 14, 2012 11:48 am

I'd go pink for this one.

I like working in threes, so if that's an idea that seems good for you you could try:

Doing a run of three - pink, red (for some extra oomph, and perhaps dressed in a blend that is more heavily FMB than Chupparrosa), and then pink (to temper that, and going back to the more heavily Chupparrosa with a dash of Follow Me Boy)

Or doing three dressed vigils set in a triangle of manifestation around a petition packet with some of his concerns and his picture - pink/Chupparrosa, red/Follow Me Boy, and orange/Road Opener set at the top of the triangle to help remove obstacles to that goal.

MissNewConjure · Unread post by **MissNewConjure** » Sat Jan 14, 2012 11:58 am

I think she's good with the pink vigil candle and dressing it they way you suggested. Now, is there a certain prayer she should say? Or can she just mediate with her intent over the candle everyday?

Unread post by **Devi Spring** » Sat Jan 14, 2012 12:09 pm

She should pray her intents from her heart.

MissNewConjure · Unread post by **MissNewConjure** » Sat Jan 14, 2012 12:11 pm

thank you so much Devi! You have actually helped me previously with advice on a freezer spell, which by the way worked! Your advice is very much appreciated =)