I can tell you that it is probably going to take more than one spell kit to break them up, and it is probably going to take more than that to bring him back to you. But it depends on the circumstances. And I would highly advise that you get a reading before attempting such work so that you can hit them and bring him back to you (if the cards indicate so) to you effectively.
http://www.readersandrootworkers.com
But to answer your question you can work on both reconciliation and break up at the same time as long as you cleanse yourself before you go from one working to the next. So you are going to want to probably take the hyssop bath in the break up spell kit before you do the reconciliation work everyday.
1. Marriage Oil- I would not work with this oil if you are trying to just reconcile with someone and you want them to marry you. They are probably not going to purpose to you and do the reconciliation at the same time. I wouldnt waste my energy trying to achieve this. Now if you are married, then perhaps you can work with this to strengthen the idea of the marriage.
2. Reconciliation- This is a great pick for your situation.
3. Follow me boy- Could work as well, but you would have to use this with the Reconciliation oil as they may not follow you if they are angry at you.
4. Bend over- This would work if you want to force them back to you. You could use this with Reconciliation oil to force them to reconcile. I mean if you want a beat them over the head and FORCE them to come back then that is fine. But forcing them doesnt mean you do not still have to work the issues that drove you apart in the 1st place.
Other products you may consider, Come to me, and Return to me. I would use this with the reconciliation oil.
http://www.luckymojo.com/cometome.html
http://www.luckymojo.com/products-return-to-me.html
No you cannot simply add these oils to the male figural candle in the spell kit because it is not a separate male figural candle. It is the divorce couple candle.
However you can do a 3 candle break up spell.
You can learn how to do that below in the links
help-with-multi-candle-break-up-spell-t7256.html
moving-candle-spells-figural-plain-ques ... 65s30.html
I talk about the set up in this link on the first page.
starsinthesky7 wrote:IF you are talking about a 3 candle moving spell. Then you get one black figure candle for the person you want gone dress that with separation/break up oil and other ingredients, and the person you want back you are going to dress the back side of their candle with separation oil and other ingredients, and then the front side with return to me/stay with me oil (personally I would not use stay with me if you are trying to get the person to RETURN. I would use reconciliation). For this candle you can use a white candle.
Then you are going to dress your candle with the love oils/powders in this case that would be reconciliation and return to me. Your candle should be facing your target's candle along with your targets candle facing yours. The person you want to leave should be back to back with your target. You are going to move your target (the white candle) towards your candle which can be red or pink.
THen I would move the black candle away from the target.
This is going to happen over a course of days. So you are going to move each candle a little bit each day. I personally like to work this candle over days as opposed to every 20 minutes. It has just been more successful for me this way becauseI am putting more energy into the spell. BUT you can work it over 20 minutes if that works for you
IF this ritual is too difficult for you, then you can do the spell located on the break up page (
http://www.luckymojo.com/breakup.html) it is located at the bottom with the scissors. This one is quite effective as well.
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