First of all, thanks in advance for taking the time to read this

1. I've just begun a new job at a new company, and while so far everyone there gets along with each other, it's only a matter of time before personalities begin to clash, because well, humans behave in an all too human way, and because there isn't an established hierarchy.
so, In addition to doing honey jars on the individuals in the company (or one honey jar with seperate packets for each individual), I'd like an oil or powder to use that will help keep everyone getting along and treating each other with respect, even when disagreeing on things.
So, I guess I'm looking for a 'good will towards one's fellow man' sort of oil, whether a 'brand' name or an essential oil.
2. I'm also looking for something to attract others to me on a personal level, for the purposes of networking for work so I come across as a real 'mover/shaker' that people feel compelled to beg me for a business card, and also so i can 'break into' the local music scene. I'm a big fan of electro french-electro music etc... Sadly, non of my friends are. where I live there is a moderatley large underground music scene. Unfortunatley, it is also very cliquey. So, as shallow as it sounds, I'm looking for something to help me 'get in' with the right people, and yes... to become popular

So, something that would get people to 'look at me' ( in a not neccessarily sexual way) and think highly of me, i.e. " that guy looks and comes across as super cool, let's invite him to the very exclusive and VIP after-hours party that DJ SuperCool is playing later"
Obviously, attraction oil is a possibility, and I'd end up combining a bit of it with whatever is recomended.
3. And anything to help one be favoured in general
Any recomendations would be very much appreciated.
Thanks
