Spells to Break or Cut Soul Ties to Ex-Lover, Difficult Family Member, or Ex-Friends

Unread post by **starsinthesky7** » Fri Aug 05, 2011 7:09 pm

Here is more info on Peace Water

http://www.luckymojo.com/peacewater.html

Unread post by **aura** » Sat Aug 06, 2011 4:26 pm

Hi beautiful,

it sounds like you may be living at home (sorry if I infer incorrectly). Moving out may be alternative if this is the case as it will allow both of you to gain perspective (as an aside, my mother was the biggest nag until I moved out: then I understood why she was nagging in the first place.... since then I've apologized for not having been sensitive/respectful of her house and income and we've had a full decade of closeness and mutual love and respect).

As with the suggestions of others, Peace Water is a wonder worker for keeping things calm and friendly.

Blessings.

Unread post by **Miss Tammie Lee** » Sat Aug 06, 2011 9:49 pm

Definately Peace Water as recommended above.
Moms can be pretty tough sometimes--- but we only get one!!!
Good luck!

BlessedOne · Unread post by **BlessedOne** » Mon Aug 08, 2011 6:18 pm

Dear MissMichaele and Starsinthesky

Thank you very much for your advice.

I guess what i did was to highlight the very poor side of my mother. She is what I would describe as a classic Dr Jekyll and Mr Hyde syndrome. As you know, it is always very difficult to describe the complex dynamics of nature and nurture that makes a person what she/he is. And my mother is a complete typical of that, so I won't go into details.

However, she can be the best mother when she is not in her deranged non-stop screaming and self-righteous mode. She cares for the home and our physical needs like no other mother I know, and she can be very loving with a great sense of humour and fun. At the same time, as far as I remember, and what I can rationalise now, is that she has accumulated extremely bad habits of incessant nagging that has escalated to cursing and swearing in her bid to get things done and the outcome the way she wants over the years.

Yes, I agree with you: if I had no emotional ties with her, I would be very glad to see the back of her, Dr Jekyll side or not. But for some reason, we are not able to cut our emotional ties with her, and I know this because I feel it. There is always a part of me that feels binded to her, and I just want to do all I can to help her be a happier person, and through that a happier family overall. That has always been my one my greatest wishes.

BlessedOne · Unread post by **BlessedOne** » Mon Aug 08, 2011 6:24 pm

And yes MissMichaele, I am aligned with you on this one: I have taken and still am, the no-contact treatment with my mother. It's been almost 2 months, and the one time I had to take her to the doctor 2 weeks ago, I basically made it clear that I would not tolerate the same anymore. She started up again, and I just walked. It created major guilt feelings in me, which has abated a little today, but I am determined to find a real solution to this for the family then perpetuate the situation as we have always done, once and for all.

So if anyone can offer me a "longer" term solution in working on her, I would be most grateful. I had a reading done, and yes the answer is "Your mother is not going to change, for now.". But if continual work is what it takes, i will do it.

deewany · Unread post by **deewany** » Sun Sep 11, 2011 8:14 am

Hey all,
I'm having such a huge problem I don't even know how to deal with it. Ive got to know this guy not ling ago, we decided to meet finally n spent a week together, n my oh my, we had the most brilliant time together, I describe it as the best time in life, n he describes it as magical! His patents gav us blessings all da way, but we went to meet his grandad too, whilst I was in the house, he never said anything at all, instead welcomed me when my bf told he's bringing me home. But 2 days later, grandad was breaking things in the house, saying he is against us getting married. N he has teethe Ed and cursed my bf n his parents if me n him were to get married.

Due to this, his mum is asking me to leave him, to just take it all as a beautiful dream n move on. I can't do that! Da whole time I n him were together, we got gd words and blessings from everyone. Jus what do I do? My bf is Soo confused, on one hand it's his family, on one hand it's me.. He doesn't wanna lose both! What can I do to get grandad to come around? I only hav his picture to work with.. I can get his name too I'm sure.. But I do need to do smthn bout this. I'm not gonna give up on us who don't hav any probe Bcoz of other ppl!

ibelieve1 · Unread post by **ibelieve1** » Sun Sep 18, 2011 11:39 am

My brother in law is married to a woman who doesn't want to be with him but they have two kids together and when he tries to move on she comes back and messes with him and he gets into a state of depression and anxiety. What can I do to help him, I would suggest cut and clear for him but he is paranoid about this stuff, so it would have to be something that I do for him and he doesn't know. They need to work together for the kids but she needs to move on and let him be, when she is not around and he tries to move on he is a happy free spirit. I want there whole family to leave my family alone, they all do it from sisters, the mom, the dad to her.

Unread post by **Dr Johannes** » Sun Sep 18, 2011 1:02 pm

I suggest you work some protection - http://www.luckymojo.com/products-protection.html- on your brother in law. Also setting up a Stop Gossip Honey Jar or a Peaceful Home Honey Jar - http://www.luckymojo.com/mojocatspells.html#honeyjar - between them might provide some nicer conversations and smooth dealings.

Unread post by **Dr Johannes** » Thu Sep 22, 2011 6:44 am

The best course of action is for you to get a reading on the situation. You may find reputable services here: http://www.readersandrootworkers.org/wi ... ootworkers.

When family is against a marriage you can either try to turn them around to favour you by using a Honey Jar spell and various Love Products or you can protect your BF from their influence by using Protection Products. Or you go with a combination of the two.

Lily · Unread post by **Lily** » Tue Oct 11, 2011 8:42 pm

Hello everyone!

I need a little help with cutting ties to several people.

These four people are a group of acquaintances that I no longer feel like communicating with. They are close between each other and I am friendly with all of them. However, they brought too much unnecessary drama into my life and I couldn't focus on more important issues. I don't want to fight with them or anything, just remove myself from their circle and let them find another person to give their attention to. Can I cut and clear them at once or would I need to take four separate bath?

Any help would be greatly appreciated!

Unread post by **jwmcclin** » Thu Oct 13, 2011 8:43 am

You could use Separation Spiritual Supplies (http://www.luckymojo.com/separation.html) to cause the people to calmly move apart or stop communicating.

deewany · Unread post by **deewany** » Fri Oct 28, 2011 9:48 am

Hey all,
I'm in a little trauma here.. My bf, yeh we been having some issues in regards to his grandad not agreeing to our relationship but now he says he don't trust me, Coz if I dint do things, then who did? Anyway it's a long story, but I've had a reading before this conversation wid him, with a lovely AIRR reader n she says, he does love me, it's jus he is very upset over what's happened..
What I want is to increase his trust in me again, and increased communications, any suggestions??

deewany · Unread post by **deewany** » Fri Oct 28, 2011 9:51 am

Thx Dr J,
I have got a reading frm a lovely AIRR reader and she's given me a positive reading together with rootwork suggestions Inc honey jar.. Now jus needing for work to start and get a divination on it!

Unread post by **TBanks91** » Fri Oct 28, 2011 11:23 am

For your boyfriends qrandfather, I would seriously SHUT HIM UP....because for one, your relationship has nothinq to do with his business, a lot of relationships deal with parents or authoritites who feel as if they have to control or dominate who their kids date who....I for one, believe in realizinq who you want to be with...why shatter someone's happiness over rumors and opinions...-anyways, I don't know any of your business, so excuse me for intrudinq under any circumstances, I have said my 2 cents lol.

As for rootwork now:

I would work a SHUT UP...Gossip SpellKit or a Sweetner HJ, for his qranfather leavinq your business alone between you and your boyfriend.
http://www.luckymojo.com/mojocatspells.html#honeyjar

For your boyfriend, I would recommend a line of loveworkinq:
1. Reconciliation Spell Kit or HJ- [to reconcile and reconnect under qood terms and fall in love aqain] http://www.luckymojo.com/reconciliation.html
2. Lodestone Spell Kit - [to draw you both closer and closer usinq maqnetic stones] http://www.luckymojo.com/lodestone.html
3. Dixie Love - [to foster the romance, love & passion you two have, and the crystals can be used to scrub down the house floors and for laundry to strenqhten love, family and happiness in your relationship] http://www.luckymojo.com/dixielove.html
4. Stay With Me - [to keep the man or woman you have already, stronq love work, even ensures faithfulness] http://www.luckymojo.com/staywithme.html

I also would want you to look at these threads to help assist you in other ways....
revenge-on-my-brother-who-told-my-secret-t16196.html
stop-him-from-using-personal-informatio ... 16154.html

Goodluck Deewany,
-TBanks91

Unread post by **TBanks91** » Fri Oct 28, 2011 11:35 am

Hi Deewany, I realized you started two threads, I replied to the last one you started....

bf-says-he-lost-trust-in-me-t16300.html

deewany · Unread post by **deewany** » Fri Oct 28, 2011 11:46 am

TBanks91,
Thanks! N yes, I'm not sure why his grandad n other family members r Soo interested in our life! We were so gd together, n Bcoz of all dis ppl he is influenced, n my bf doesn't trust me n saying he can't hav a Rship wid me Coz he's lost trust in me! Like seriously, wtf?? I dint do anything!!!! And yes, in our culture, elders alwiz have a say.. But me n him, we r da ones who spent da time getting to know each other, n believe me, it was magical, we were also Soo blessed, everywhere we went, ppl thought he was my husband n me his wife, I could c dat sparkle in his eyes everytime someone says dat to me.. We also planned to get married!! I don't undstand honestly, if his grandad was very in control, then y make decisions without consulting him first?? Da Onli thing I told my bf is, I dint do anything, n God is my witness..

But I've got a reading before dis little incident happen Btwn me n him today, n my AIRR worker is already working a HJ on his grandfather, n also working on a Moving Candle Spell for me and him.. N yes, she's also suggested Freezer Vinegar Jar for all his family members who r gosipping abt us etc which I wil be doing soon..

Unread post by **Mama Micki** » Sat Oct 29, 2011 9:09 am

deewany, please do not start a new thread to deal with the same issue. I have merged your two threads together.

Primarose220 · Unread post by **Primarose220** » Tue Dec 13, 2011 6:56 pm

Hi,

What is the best way for me to block myself off from Negative Relatives and Enemies and repeal back to the person who sends it to me?

I would also like the gossipers to be the site of humiliation and all of their secrets to be exposed.

Sincerely,

Primarose220

Unread post by **Devi Spring** » Tue Dec 13, 2011 7:00 pm

I'd put the offenders into a mirror box with Stop Gossip herbs.

Unread post by **Mary Bee** » Tue Dec 13, 2011 7:39 pm

Here are mirror boxes for sale in the shop, if you don't want to make your own:

BXX-HOO-MIX1 Box - Wood Mirror Box Small, Unfinished Oiled Wood $20.00
BXX-HOO-MIX2 Box - Wood Mirror Box Medium, Unfinished Oiled Wood $30.00
BXX-HOO-MIX3 Box - Wood Mirror Box Large, Unfinished Oiled Wood $40.00

And a link to Stop Gossip supplies:

http://www.luckymojo.com/stopgossip.html

And here's a nice discussion about making and using the Mirror Box:

mirror-box-spell-questions-and-answers-t8369.html

Good luck,
Mary Bee

Thrs1979 · Unread post by **Thrs1979** » Wed Dec 14, 2011 6:07 pm

How would I get my husband and his daughter to stop talking? To stop any communication between them to under any circumstance.

Unread post by **ConjureMan** » Wed Dec 14, 2011 10:13 pm

Alum gets people to stop talking, but bear in mind the bond between parent and child is not one easily meddled with and may have complications for your relationships with your husband.

If you find that malicious gossip is going use Stop Gossip work, or use honey jar work to sweeten the parties to you rather than attempting to cut the communication entirely between parent and child.

hapinys · Unread post by **hapinys** » Wed Dec 14, 2011 10:22 pm

What about Mother trying 2 influence son 2 not be with woman? Could alum be used for that?

Unread post by **Mary Bee** » Thu Dec 15, 2011 4:40 am

Hi hapinys:

Alum is not used to influence people in that way. It is a mineral that causes the mouth to "pucker" and stop talking:

http://www.herb-magic.com/alum-powder.html

If a mother wants to influence her son, she can try Influence products or Essence of Bend-Over. Or, she could do a freezer spell to freeze the woman out of the son's life.

Good luck,
Mary Bee

hapinys · Unread post by **hapinys** » Thu Dec 15, 2011 10:30 am

Thx MaryBee but I was thinking more along the lines of if my husband's mom is too influential in our marriage how do I keep them from talking to each other. I would like to keep them as far away from each other, to not talk, etc.

Thx

Unread post by **jwmcclin** » Thu Dec 15, 2011 11:09 am

cat discusses this topic in her book for the correspondence course. While I have been on the receiving end of mother in law issues, it is one of those situations that you work it to your favor. Peaceful Home products etc could get you the results you desire instead of cutting communications between a son and his mother etc etc. Good luck!

Mezan · Unread post by **Mezan** » Mon Jan 16, 2012 12:02 pm

Hi everyone.
I currently have a family member staying with me. The situation is not good, and I would like for this person to move out of my already tiny room on a campus. (To any who have dormed, you know how small these rooms tend to be :-/) I had just come out of having roommates, which I am not used to nor had chosen, and I want and need my space again.
It was only supposed to be for two weeks, but they will likely be staying longer than that because there is no apartment for the individual to leave to, contrary to what they had told me before. I am happy to help, but I hate being lied to and I need my privacy again.
This person is a lazyass and doesn't mind being late to work. There is no drive within them, and no desire to care for oneself. We happen to live in a city where this person could "make it" with 1000 dollars a month. Apparently this is too difficult, because the individual was evicted from their last home.
My question is regarding what to use to get them on the ball, or at least to drop those immature habits and get moving.
I am giving this person until the end of the month to stay here--no more. They are only supposed to stay until the end of the week, according to what they said before, but I know (and they know I know) this isn't true. They work long hours, so I compiled a list of quite a few potential low-rent places they could afford, that are in the area of a job they are switching to.

I currently only have Crown of Success Oil. Should I use Cast off Evil products? I am only helping this family member because I care about their parents.

I know my diction is a little weird, but I'm trying to be ambiguous about gender, just in case.

Unread post by **Mama Micki** » Tue Jan 17, 2012 8:46 am

Stating a person's gender will not identify him or her, considering that there are 7 billion people on this planet, roughly half of each gender. Stating the gender of a person gives us a clearer picture of the situation as well as being proper English. I will assume that you are speaking about a woman.

Crown of Success would help if she were actually interested in succeeding in life. However, Cast Off Evil may be necessary to get her to get rid of the bad habits that led to this situation. King Solomon Wisdom and Clarity may help her to see that is only hurting herself in the long run.

The parents should be the ones helping her, not you. If they are not able, another relative with greater resources should step in.

Unread post by **duchess** » Tue Jan 17, 2012 9:20 am

Dear Mezan,

I would also work on getting something done as quickly as possible. Most university dorms have policies against people not in the contract living with you especially if they are not students. If this is the case (and I would check your contract), and if you are found out, your living situation could be at risk too. I understand family is family but it is not fair to put yourself in this situation. I would have a heart to heart with your family member stat and explain the situation and be firm. Beg and plead with friends and family to help you get out of this situation if you have to--you cannot put your education at risk. In the meantime, since I know that you may not be able to light candles in your dorm, consider having the MISC light a Fast Luck or petitioning St. Expedite (just make sure you pay him with flowers and pound cake after).

Best of luck for a speedy resolution!

newbie2012 · Unread post by **newbie2012** » Thu Feb 09, 2012 1:12 pm

Hi,

I have parents who are sending me psychic attacks with incense and I would rather not use Reversing candles on them unless it is a last option.

I burn money drawing candles a lot and protection candles with oils and now even my protection candles has a lot of black streaks. And I noticed as soon as the white candle that I used for protection finishes, that is when I feel the inflammation of attacks attaching to my Aura and chakras.

I did do a freezer hoodoo spell using a piece of paper, visualizing them being frozen and put that paper into the freezer. I even did it the 2nd time adding Commanding Oil to it. So far, it is not working it seems.

My question is how can I stop my parents whom I no longer talk to nor want to see to stop sending me negative energies, cursing me out with incense just so my money spells can work better with a lot less resistance?

A peace candle petitioning to have my parents be super sleepy and tired and forget about me totally?

Please let me know. Thanks.

christa198730 · Unread post by **christa198730** » Sat Feb 11, 2012 12:52 am

hi, I need someones advice on what I should do.

Me and my older brother live with our mother, he's 32 years old, won't pay rent or help on any bills, thinks buying dinner will make up for not paying anything when our mother sits here depressed and cries about not having any help, he's been here for 5 years since we moved here, he just got a job after being laid off for I can't remember how many years, he's had it a few months. he's been fired for stealing from 3 or 4 of his jobs that I know of.

He's threatened to kill me numerous times and I can tell he hates my guts, but I hate him more than he will ever live to know. I love animals, and he just tried to kill a innocent kitten that stays with us tonight because he thought she peed in his cats bed and he had a fit, he went to his cats food bowl and I guess grabbed her by the tail and she was yelling and scratched him and ran and he grabbed his knife that looked like the knife in that crocodile dundee movie and I tried to stop him and he started calling me trash and I was taking up for myself and he was calling me a b**** threatening to beat my a** and I called the police and he said "b**** if you call the police I'll kill your a**.

I've been abused by him since I was 12 years old and I'm 24 now, I want that piece of trash to pay for everything he's ever done and said to me and anything else I love and care about, he's told me that if he ever goes to jail because of me our mother will bond him out and he'll come after me and kill me, I'm sorry for some of the things that are said in here but I want everyone to see how evil he really is, he has a deep hatred for women that's going to get him killed eventually or in jail.

I know for a fact he has unpaid fines that's over 5 years old and he probably has a warrant out for his arrest by now, I may be wrong on that though, and his drivers license is suspended and it just expired on his birthday, our mothers car he drives to work has a brake light out on it that she can't afford to get fixed because she thinks its an electrical problem that's wrong with it.

And how in heck he hasn't got pulled over yet on his way home at night I don't know. If anyone has any kind of advice on what type of spell I can do on him I would greatly appreciate it, I have never cast a spell in my life though and don't know what I'm doing but I'm willing to try to stop this psycho before I end up dead. I've been threatened and physically and emotionally abused by this SOB long enough.

One last thing, he thinks all women are whores and trash that's only good for sexual pleasure.

Unread post by **Miss Tammie Lee** » Sat Feb 11, 2012 3:38 pm

This a is nightmare. You need a few things and so does your Mom.
1. Find a way to get law enforcement involved (without the car so they do not impound the car--fees) and they can recommend community outreach counceling centers.
2. Have a reading with a Member of AIRR, ask for Prayers in the Chrystal Silence League, sign up for this weeks Radio Show, The AIRR Pro Bono Fund.
http://readersandrootworkers.org
http://www.crystalsilenceleague.org
radio-show-pre-call-id-february-12th,-2012-t18015.html
http://readersandrootworkers.org/index. ... _Bono_Fund
You can cut copy and paste what you posted here if you sign up for the Show.
http://www.luckymojo.com/archangelmichael.html

Take care.

simplydevine · Unread post by **simplydevine** » Thu Mar 29, 2012 12:29 pm

Hi there,

Okay, I know that I shouldn't care.... but at this time, right now I do.

My soon to be ex, is bad mouthing me. He is blaming me for EVERYTHING annnnnd he is lying, telling people that I had PPD (postpartum depression) after both of our kids. Which is a LIE. And a horrible one at that. He doesn't even know the name, he just calls it 'a depression'. Ugh!!! He's also telling people that I'm in the middle of a 'episode'. I want his lies EXPOSED.

How can I compel him to stop lying on me and to tell the truth of why we are no longer together, of his transgressions, and to admit that I put him out and not the other way around????

Signed,

Pissed off woman (sorry, I couldn't resist the signature. For some reason, I was suddenly reminded of those Dear Abby articles that used to be published in the newspaper when I was a kid. LOL

)

Unread post by **starsinthesky7** » Thu Mar 29, 2012 1:44 pm

You can use stop gossip products

www.luckymojo.com/stopgossip.html

simplydevine · Unread post by **simplydevine** » Thu Mar 29, 2012 3:29 pm

Thanks so much for that suggestion. Unfortunately I am currently unemployed and now a single mother of two. Although I have a list of items that I need to restock on with LM, as well as a list of new items that I want to try out, buying anything at this time is not an option for me.

I have a ton of LM items but the majority are for love work, success, house blessing, money drawing, etc. The only thing, that I think that I could possibly use in this situation is LM Essence of bend over???

Sigh... Any other suggestions?

Unread post by **MissMichaele** » Thu Mar 29, 2012 3:55 pm

Essence of Bend Over isn't a bad idea. And you can put him in a mirror box so that all his meanness bounces right back at him.

Hope this helps,

Miss Michaele

simplydevine · Unread post by **simplydevine** » Thu Mar 29, 2012 6:24 pm

Miss Michaele the mirror box sounds like a good idea! I'll have to research it as I'm not familiar with it.

How do you suggest that I use the essence of bend over oil? On a candle? Telling him to stop telling lies about me and to tell the truth?

I do have a LM doll baby of him that I'm thinking would go into the mirror box...

Unread post by **jwmcclin** » Thu Mar 29, 2012 8:01 pm

I like the Stop Gossip Mirror Box recommendation. Also, post a prayer request at the Crystal Silence League (http://crystalsilenceleague.org/prayerrequests.html). The League sends thoughts and prayers and will assist you and rejoice with you as your desires are fulfilled.

Unread post by **Mama Micki** » Sun Apr 08, 2012 10:20 am

Start with an Uncrossing Kit to rid yourself of any negativity that is being directed at you, and possibly a Fiery Wall of Protection kit also.

I also recommend a reading to see what the best course of action would be. It can be tricky when your enemies are blood relatives, especially parents.

Unread post by **catherineyronwode** » Sun Apr 08, 2012 12:47 pm

I would start with a reading and an Uncrossing spell, exactly as Mama Micki says.

SPL-KIT-UNCR
Uncrossing Spell Kit
$40.5

Then if it is indicated in the reading, i would do a Fiery Wall of Protection spell.

SPL-KIT-FIER
Fiery Wall of Protection Spell Kit
$26.8

If the attacks come back at you after that and the situation still does not settle, a full-scale mirror box spell would be the next step.

Unread post by **starsinthesky7** » Sun Apr 08, 2012 8:21 pm

I would create a confusion jar. You can include poppy seeds, black mustard seeds, red pepper. I would create two dolls for them, and blind fold them, and bind them by the arms and legs. Put the two dolls into a large jar along with the other ingredients previously listed.

Shake the jar to work the jar and ask that they become confused and blind when thinking of you. Once you are done with the jar, then throw it far into a river.

Unread post by **Dr Johannes** » Mon Apr 09, 2012 5:49 am

The bonds to parents are tricky if you still have a regular connection to them. Protection spells usually have little effect in the long run. Stop Gossip is better and so is the spanking form of domination work in which you use a doll or similar and hit them along with commands whenever they have sent thoughts of that nature your way. Make sure your bedroom is regularily cleansed so that they can not reach you through the dreams.

SHAKUR1971 · Unread post by **SHAKUR1971** » Wed Apr 25, 2012 2:43 am

Hello,

I would like to know how does the "SHUT UP" products work exactly? Will the person stop talking bad about you or will the person not talk to you at all? I would like to know because I have a few people that I would like to make them stop talking bad about me. I don't want them to stop talking to me. I just want them to stop talking bad about me because I do and have been doing everything for them and their children and it's still not enough. I have a huge heart and I help anybody that I can help and I let people use me, and I know that they use me, but I don't say anything because I feel that it's my job since they are my close family members. I will be glad when I move, so if they talk about me then, it will not bother me because I will be in another state. I cry and pray all of the time about them always talking bad about me because I do too much for them and the children. I mean, I have my sister kids all of the time when I am not working. I get them ready for school, I pick them up from school, cook and clean for them, and it's still not enough for my sister. I give my sister half on all of the bills and she still talks bad about me. I know that I shouldn't worry about what people say about me, but I do because the people are my sister and my mother whom I am around everyday. I don't see my mom everyday because I live with one of my sister and her kids, but I do see my mom about every other day. Any suggestions will be greatly appreciated.

P.S.
I can't burn any candles at my sister home because she don't believe in this.

Thanks!

Unread post by **starsinthesky7** » Wed Apr 25, 2012 2:47 am

Get some tea lights and dress the candle with stop gossip. Stop gossip does exactly what it says STOPS GOSSIP. Its not STOP TALKING TO ME oil. So you are fine.

And I understand where you are coming from. If burning candles are still not an option then you can get some stop gossip powder and sprinkle it around the house. As you do it, say " may (sister's name) and whomever else not talk bad about me"

In addition you may want to get some peaceful home products as well.

www.luckymojo.com/peacefulhome.html

www.luckymojo.com/stopgossip.html

rheacybele · Unread post by **rheacybele** » Fri Apr 27, 2012 11:49 pm

As much as I do love my folks I cannot help but feel that they do not know what's best for me. All parents have dreams and wishes for their children but most parents also know when to let their offsprings go lead their own lives and live their own dreams. My parents do not. I know in my heart and gut and has been confirmed in numerous readings that where I am right now, in the country I'm at is not where I should be. I was offered a great job ( of my dreams) and now found love in Australia and my heart has yearned to be there for a very long time and I am always pulled to go there by my heart and gut. My parents are unwilling to listen to my pleas to let me see what dreams and life I can build there for awhile because I am their investment for THEIR future. I run errands for them and get things done for them. I understand that they need me to look into them because they are getting on with age but I feel not at the expense of my hopes or finding love and being happy. I have tried talking to them and making them understand that it is for the best and I will not be abandoning them and will surely come back to look after them or find a balance so that we are both happy - but they fall on deaf years and they will have nothing of it and resort to emotional blackmail. I'm at my wits end and I really don't know what to do anymore and now seek help here. I need them to understand where I'm coming from and be open to the idea and allow me to leave them, for my own good, for awhile to be in Australia and pursue love and career. Would a honey jar work in this instance? Sweeten their thoughts to let me go? Or is Influence a better fit?

Thank you.

Unread post by **Mary Bee** » Sat Apr 28, 2012 3:27 am

Are you living with your folks, and do you depend on them for financial support? If so, I'd do some Money Drawing work to draw your own income to you so that you can have the money to leave.

Influence is a good choice; get some of the Influence oil and dress the insides of your parents' shoes, praying that they will be influenced in a positive way to let you go where you want to go.

Good luck,
Mary Bee

Unread post by **Papa Newt** » Sat Apr 28, 2012 5:40 am

Road Opening would be another suggestion to add to the other wonderful suggestions MaryBee has given. Best of luck!

Unread post by **MissMichaele** » Sat Apr 28, 2012 9:57 am

And you're a grown woman, yes? So do some Crucible of Courage work on yourself, too.

And if they really have no one else to rely on, some work with Balm of Gilead buds, cloves and Attraction products should bring new friends and helpers into their lives.

Having said all that, a honey jar to sweeten them to your goals makes good sense. You might also pair that with a skull candle dressed with Influence oil. And I think you and your parents could also use a good dose of Crown of Success.

Crucible of Courage spells and supplies
www.luckymojo.com/crucibleofcourage.html
Balm of Gilead Buds
http://www.herb-magic.com/balm-of-gilead.html
Cloves
http://www.herb-magic.com/cloves-whole.html
Attraction Spells and Supplies
http://www.luckymojo.com/attraction.html
Influence Spells and Supplies
http://www.luckymojo.com/influence.html
Crown of Success spells and supplies
http://www.luckymojo.com/crownofsuccess.html

Good luck and good magic,

Miss Michaele

heartexalted · Unread post by **heartexalted** » Sat Apr 28, 2012 12:27 pm

First, I like Miss Michaele's suggestion of using Crucible of Courage, and I wanted to suggest the possibility of taking that a step further with some Queen Elizabeth work in order to further strengthen your personal power. I know there is a John the Conqueror spell kit, so perhaps you might consider buying those same items, only using Queen Elizabeth products, in their place. Do a spell over several days and then follow it up by carrying a QE root (or mojo bag containing it) and regularly using the oil. This could help you come further into your own.

Also, because the whole issue of controlling parents is particularly resonant with me...if I were personally in your situation, I'd be inclined to go with an approach a bit firmer:
-Packets with their names, photos, and other personal concerns along with a petition such as "No more emotional blackmail" or "Stop your controlling ways." Dissolve lots of alum (or alum and sugar) in water, and dip the packets into the water and let them dry -- repeatedly, until the packets are hard and encrusted. Maybe then make a mixture of water, sugar, and blessing herbs, place the packets in there, and freeze it all.
-A Cast Off Evil spell to stop the controlling behavior. (So far as I can tell, Cast Off Evil is not a malicious or harmful spell.) This, of course, could be combined with some sweetening work (like others have already mentioned) in order to sweeten them to the idea of a life where they respect your independent adult self.

Good luck!

rheacybele · Unread post by **rheacybele** » Sat Apr 28, 2012 6:14 pm

Thank you everyone for your wonderful responses. I do not rely on my parents for mone. I hold my own. My folks do have people to look into them and help them. My dad comes from a huge family and has many nephews and nieces. It's just their stubborness to have me around, sans a life of my own and not wanting to rely on others and not wanting to spend money on hired help. I think I'll with start with the Influence Spell Kit, and The Cast of Evil spell kit and possibly the Road Opener. I'll see to the others as it progresses. Thank you heartexalted for your suggestions. Just a quick question with regards to the spell you suggested 1. when you say 'alum' can I replace it with salt? Or where can i purchase alum? 2. What are blessing herbs? Can I purchase from LM? 3. Can I make the mixture of water, sugar and blessing herbs in a freezer bag and put the packet/sachet into the freezer bag? How long do I freeze it for? Indefintely or until I see results? My mum would get suspicious of this bag being in the freezer.

Thank you for your kind input.

Blessed Be.

Unread post by **Doctor Hob** » Sat Apr 28, 2012 6:51 pm

Alum:

http://herb-magic.com/alum-chunk.html

heartexalted · Unread post by **heartexalted** » Sun Apr 29, 2012 12:50 am

rheacybele wrote:Thank you heartexalted for your suggestions. Just a quick question with regards to the spell you suggested 1. when you say 'alum' can I replace it with salt? Or where can i purchase alum? 2. What are blessing herbs? Can I purchase from LM? 3. Can I make the mixture of water, sugar and blessing herbs in a freezer bag and put the packet/sachet into the freezer bag? How long do I freeze it for? Indefintely or until I see results? My mum would get suspicious of this bag being in the freezer.

1. Alum, as a canning supply, should be easily available at any grocery store. Also, you can purchase it from LM, who sells it in both powder and chunk form. I cannot imagine replacing alum with salt. The idea behind alum is that it's so sour, if you put some on your tongue, your mouth will be instantly drawn shut. It's also used for stopping bleeding, I think. Magically, the idea is that it will draw shut and stop the undesired behavior.
2. Miss Cat gives a recipe for Blessing Oil that uses frankincense, benzoin, and roses. As such, if you could crush some of the frankincense and benzoin resins into a powder and mix those with the sugar and rose petals, you'd probably have a decent blessing/sweetening mixture. (Then, when you place this mixture into the bag or jar and place the packets within, you can add just enough water to get the sugar/blessing mixture wet, and then freeze it that way.) The resins and petals are available from LM.
3. Yes, a freezer bag should work just fine. You freeze it for how long you need to; my own strategy would probably be to freeze it, start the Cast Off Evil spell shortly thereafter, and then leave it in there for a while longer so that they can get used to behaving better. Maybe six months, starting from when you freeze the bag and begin the Cast Off Evil spell. As for your mother seeing it, I'd either make it small and find a way to conceal it or find a friend willing to let you use their freezer.

The overarching idea here is that you want them to cease and "cast off" their controlling behaviors and overwhelming attachment...but you want to do it in a sweet and compassionate way (hence the sugar and blessing herbs). It's "tough love" -- but love nonetheless.

rheacybele · Unread post by **rheacybele** » Mon Apr 30, 2012 12:52 am

Thank so much for the feedback. Will look into purchasing the products. Have a great week!

Unread post by **dorothybaez** » Mon Apr 30, 2012 10:42 am

Since you are going through a divorce, and he is making accusations about your fitness as a parent (claims about you having PPD), I would also go with some Law Keep Away work.

celine_celeste · Unread post by **celine_celeste** » Mon May 14, 2012 4:40 pm

I have meddling family members that are planning to move to the area close to where I live and I would like to keep them away, far away! The talking and having an adult conversation has not helped, they don't get it. They feel that they are helping yet all they do is cause my siblings and I to go against one another, they hurt us more than help us. How can I keep them away from moving into this area? Also, one of the family members would like to stay with me and that may cause strife with me and my significant other, how can I can I keep this person away too?
I know it may come off as selfish but lately it has become a harsh eat or be eaten type of environment with this family and I just want to have peace and be left alone. How can I do this?

sjason · Unread post by **sjason** » Mon May 14, 2012 5:21 pm

You could have lucky mojo make u a doll baby of the person/people and throw it in a river that leaves the state to carry them away from you/your area.

Unread post by **Miss Tammie Lee** » Mon May 14, 2012 5:57 pm

Peace Water:
http://www.luckymojo.com/peacewater.html

Work this!!!

Unread post by **jwmcclin** » Mon May 14, 2012 7:23 pm

There are all types of conjure to keep people away I am posting previous discussions

Busy Body Neighbors < busy-body-neighbors-t16290.html >
Black Mustard Seeds < http://herb-magic.com/mustard-seed-black.html >
Here is a discussion about crossroad work < http://www.luckymojo.com/layingtricks.html >

Unread post by **starsinthesky7** » Mon May 14, 2012 8:23 pm

I would do a freezer spell to freezer them away from staying with you.

www.luckymojo.com/freezer.html

You can also sprinkle some banishing powder along with barberry and calamus to keep them away from your house. You can sprinkle this around your home.

www.luckymojo.com/products-banishing.html
http://www.herb-magic.com/calamus-root-chips.html
http://www.herb-magic.com/barberry.html

AprilStar · Unread post by **AprilStar** » Wed May 23, 2012 6:29 pm

For most of my life I have had a rocky relationship with my mother.
To give some back ground to her story, she was born into a failing relationship between her parents. The story I heard from my grandmother (a young indian girl at the time), is that when she was pregnant, another woman (black woman) was very jealous of her beauty and lavish lifestyle. This other woman had a son with my grandfather(a mulato), she tried to hurt my grandmother several times with spells and hexes. For weeks she was sick in bed until a neighbour who came to care for her found a bundle wrapped in brown paper under her bed, when she swept it out of the house with a straw broom into a fire, the mysterious illness stopped. So growing up she had a rough life until she met my father. They have us three girls but never married, yet they are still together dispite all the fighting etc.

Now to the point of this posting, there are several things amiss in all aspects of my life. I recently met someone who I believe is my soulmate. I keep my love life very private, since every relationship ends sourly when I introduce my mother to the guy I am dating. He seemed to drift from me when my mother got wind that I was seeing someone and when I found out I was pregnant he flipped! I had a terrible pregnancy and we fought for most of it. My mother seemed even more pissed off than he was, like I had messed up some brilliant plan for her.

Present day. my relationship with my lover is in a dark dark place. We have been through so many ups and downs, and I have been working on my own to win him back or bring peace and love between us at the very least. All the reading I have been doing on spells and rookwork and conjure has openned my eyes wider than ever. I am not new to this world however, my mother has taken me to various " psychic/ rootworker" persons in the past. One who practiced Santeria, told me to move as far as I can from my mother... lol...if only I knew. I never repeated that but she stopped going to him and swore him off for other reasons. The one she goes to now, never seems to answer or return my calls until she calls him herself. He did a honey jar for me a year ago and I feel like it worked for a while. Two months ago I found out that my ex had been with another woman the entire 4 years we were together, the rootworker/reader told me in one reading that my child's father was not holding back from me because of another woman...yeah right! Now I look back at the last 2/3 years and I am convinced that all the struggle I was going through came from her trying to control me. I moved in with her and paid "her bills" and I was depressed all the time even on anti anxiety/depressants and I felt powerless to stand up to her or for myself. This was a huge roadblock for me and my ex, our problems started to involve what "my mother said" or how "my mother feels". Imagine not being able to take the next step with a woman who has your child because she is under her mother's thumb. I moved to a new place and she moved in with me, a temporary situation now seems permanent!

She made a comment to me that was strange, she said when she had problems with controling my father with other women, a woman wrote his name on a paper and told her to wear it in her shoe. She noticed that it made my father weaker and more vulnerable in dangerous situations outside of other women and she stopped. She keeps saying ever do work on family, never on blood family.That made me think of all the depression I have gone through, feeling oppressed by her and the simple things she says. Even my therapist doesnt understand why I let it bother me so. Is she trying to stop me from seeing the truth or freeing myself?

Now, all the uncrossing work I have done by myself has brought back my stronger self. Roads are openning up for me to be less dependent on her with child care for instance and I want to put my life and my family with my ex back together. I dont want to hurt my mother, I want to reverse the work she has done but not to hurt her and I wonder if a CUT AND CLEAR is too severe in this case, how else can I get her to MOVE OUT ALREADY, and STOP INTERFERRING in my life. She blocks everything I try to do, she breaks everything around me, everything she gets involved with goes bad for me. When all else fails, she pretends to be so sick and helpless so if I am harsh with her, that makes me a wicked ungratefull daughter. Also, I want to protect myself from any futher tricks she may have this worker lay for me.

Please help.