Spells for Ex-Lover Ex-Spouse to Return Reconcile Reunite

Unread post by **MissMichaele** » Tue Dec 06, 2011 4:37 pm

Reconciliation, Return to Me, etc., are the formulas that come to mind in situations like this.

But it sounds like there are underlying issues -- and aren't there always? Whether you build a honey jar, light a candle, take a series of baths, or all three, you might want to add King Solomon Wisdom, Clarity, and Deer's Tongue (for baths, make a tea of it and add that to the bath water).

Reconciliation spells and supplies
www.luckymojo.com/reconciliation.html
Return to Me Spiritual Supplieshttp://www.luckymojo.com/products-return-to-me.html
King Solomon Wisdom spells and supplies http://www.luckymojo.com/kingsolomonwisdom.html
Clarity Spiritual Supplies
http://www.luckymojo.com/products-clarity.html
Deer's Tongue: How to Get It and Use It
http://www.herb-magic.com/deers-tongue.html

Hope this helps,

Miss Michele

RebelleFleur · Unread post by **RebelleFleur** » Wed Dec 07, 2011 2:59 pm

Thank you so much Miss Michele, I'm new in this so I don't really know which items should I buy or which ceremonies should I perform. Could you help me?

Thank you

superando_destino · Unread post by **superando_destino** » Wed Dec 07, 2011 7:08 pm

My situation is a little complicated and I'm not exactly sure what to do. My girlfriend broke up on me on Saturday (so approximately 3 days ago). She had been a way for a while helping a sick relative and cheated on me during that time. It was one time because she had too much to drink and whether she was right or wrong in what she did, I forgave her right away. She started pushing me away after that because she feels like she hurt me and doesn't understand how I could not be upset. A little while after this a friend of hers started coming on to her (the friend is going through a divorce and has recently come out that she is gay). My girlfriend broke up with me to be with this woman. I know she still loves me deeply and that she is just scared. She tends to get scared when someone gets to close and ends up pushing them away. I understand completely because I am the same way and can see this is what she is doing.

The thing is we live together and still share the same bed. We sleep in each other's arms every night and it hasn't changed because of the breakup. We even slept in each other's arms the night we broke up. Really all that's changed is she doesn't kiss me goodbye when she goes to work and she doesn't tell me she loves me although she almost slipped and told me the other night when I was sick.

I love her and don't want our relationship to be over. I know we have had some rough times but don't feel like it isn't anything we can't get through.

I have ordered a separation vigil set at MISC for her and the other woman and basically petitioned that the problems that are already existent in their relationship would drive them apart. I listed each one that I know of for emphasize.

I have Follow Me Girl, Bewitching and Kiss Me Now oils. I added them to the mop water and used it to mop the floor in our bedroom. I have her hair (I took it out of her hair brush and have it in a baggie in my car). I also kept back on pair of her dirty underwear when I did the laundry today.

My question is what can I do to bring her back into a relationship with me? I would like to bind her to me but am not sure the things I have will work for that. I would like to do what I can right away as I heard that reconciliation work is easiest when it less time has passed. We are together all the time except when she is at work.

Thanks in advance for your advice.

Unread post by **Devi Spring** » Wed Dec 07, 2011 7:34 pm

Put the other woman into a freezer spell to freeze her out.

And get your hair and her hair into some honey or sugar with love herbs & oils and a petition paper ASAP. Pray over it 3 times a day, and burn candles on top daily. If you have some balm of gilead buds make sure to use them, as that will help with soothing hurt feelings, and reconciliation and such.

Make sure to wear your love oils whenever you're around her so she's in constant contact with them. You may wish to get her used panties, knot them, and bury them in your backyard to help keep her tied to your home while everything is up in the air.

See how those actions shift the situation before moving to more coercive things like binding.

Unread post by **Mama Micki** » Wed Dec 07, 2011 10:34 pm

Work with Reconcilation and Chuparrosa products. You do not state if you are a man or a woman. If you are a man, try Dixie Love. If you are a woman, Lavendar Love.

superando_destino · Unread post by **superando_destino** » Thu Dec 08, 2011 6:58 pm

Thank you for your help and advice. I am trying to be subtle with everything that I do since both my ex-girlfriend and the other woman practice some sort of magical tradition (my ex is wiccan and the other woman practices some sort of native american folk magic/wiccan mix) and I'm afraid if I do anything too drastic I will be caught on to.

I will do the freezer spell tonight after everyone goes to bed ... thinking the petition should be something like: "keep so-so away from my home and my ex-girlfriend". I'm hoping that the freezer spell along with the separation vigil set by MISC will be enough to keep them apart.

Burying the dirty underwear will keep her home so that we have time to work things out? Just wanna make sure I'm understanding everything correctly.

Also, I hadn't considered the honey jar because we really aren't fighting even though there is some tension between us. But I can see how that would be beneficial. I can get Balms of Gilead and start the jar burning candles with the Follow Me Girl. Should I use the Bewitching and Kiss Me Now on the candles as well?

I will look into ordering the reconciliation and lavender love oils when I get a little extra money. I am considering ordering healing oil as well, but wondering does that work for emotional hurts or is it more physical?

Unread post by **Devi Spring** » Thu Dec 08, 2011 6:59 pm

The Healing oil will work for all levels of healing.

hapinys · Unread post by **hapinys** » Thu Dec 08, 2011 10:08 pm

Id try this.

Rachel11 · Unread post by **Rachel11** » Fri Dec 09, 2011 5:29 am

Hi!

I just spoke with my ex after 6 months and still felt a lot of love from the two of us. I wanted to do a reconciliation spell but first I thought I should do a clearing or opening the way... I know he is dating someone but from seeing him this week, I could tell he wasn't happy. I thought with the clearing off obstacles, it would take care of ending that too. Or would I have to do a break up spell? Our break up after 3/4 years was hard on both of us and happened suddenly with both of us just being plain stubborn. He has told me he feels confused and just doesn't know what to think about us but he did get into another relationship. I do want to break this up but I don't think I want a traumatic experience for them.

Now that we have spoken after we cooled off. I'd like for us to try again. I was thinking of getting the Van Van spell kit and the Reconciliation Spell kit along with doing a honey jar. Any suggestions?

R11

cassie22 · Unread post by **cassie22** » Sat Dec 10, 2011 6:22 am

I have been working on getting my ex back since we broke up in February. Since August we have been pretty hot and heavy. Spending lots of time together and being intimate. However, she is not ready to be in an exclusive relationship with me. I have had readings done and the reconciliation will happen, but she is having issues with past hurts from the relationship (reason we broke up) and trusting me to be able to committ again. Also, in the past she was worried about how people saw her in a relationship with another woman. I would like to get a committment from her and be able to take our relationship to the next step, being exclusive and letting our families know we are working on being reconciled. RIght now, everything we do is in secret and no one knows we are seeing each other. It feels like we are together as a couple, but if I talk about it she isn't wanting anything to do with it. She used to say no, it will never happen, but now she says that she's just not ready for that yet. She is confused. I have had candles set for crucible of courage, king wisdom, and also love, stay with me and marriage. Some have burned with slight cloudiness, but some have finally burned clear. I use love me oils and reconciliation oils when she is with me and have had a moving candle done. I just feel like maybe I'm missing something that will help us become a fully committed couple and help her trust and and have courage to be with me again. Any suggestions?

Unread post by **aura** » Sat Dec 10, 2011 3:08 pm

Hi cassie22,

if you don't have a honey jar going for the two of you, get one going! and if you do have one working, make sure there are balm of gilead buds in it to help her in getting over that past hurt from the relationship take 1. adding healing oil to your blend of reconciliation and love me oils when you're together may help on that front as well.

when it comes to the coming out, keep the crucible of courage up. dusting her shoes with the sachet powder would be a good way to get it working on her directly, and it's a nice sneaky trick. likewise, you can add the bath crystals (a little only) to the wash water and then offer to clean her clothes when you do a load - try and make sure you get the socks, bra and underwear. keep in mind that it can be a slow process and it shouldn't be rushed (although you are entitled to set your own personal time limit on how long you're willing to live as a closeted partner. that said; sometimes pushing her out of the closet kicking and screaming is no better). Be supportive and giver her a safe space to talk about how she feels about the lesbian in her, what fears she has about the perceptions of those around her and why she has those fears. Following a couple of such conversations (or before) you may want to add some healing and clarity products to the blend to help giver her a better handle on accepting herself.

Blessings to you both.

Moonchild10 · Unread post by **Moonchild10** » Sat Dec 10, 2011 6:33 pm

I know this is an old post but can anyone tell me how to dispose of the water, if you do. And do you keep changing the water/letter every night? It doesn't sound like clear cut instructions. Thank you!

cassie22 · Unread post by **cassie22** » Sat Dec 10, 2011 8:20 pm

Thanks so much for your advice. I will order some healing and crucilble of courage sachet to dust her shoes and possibly other areas of her house. We do not live together but are at each other's house often that I could have access to lay other tricks. I am trying to have patience and that is of importance that keeps being said to me for the reconciliation to manifest. However, I am trying to find patience for myself since I am not a very patient person, I am learning a trait that I think will help me think better before saying something I shouldn't, where in the past I would just go with it and think about how I could of handled the situation better. I have done king solomon wisdom on myself and I think I should continue to help myself in this situation. I am willing to continue working on the relationship with her and since it is moving in the right direction, I feel it is worth my time to continue. We have 6 years together and it seems a waste to not try and work things out since she is willing to see where we go as well. I did have a honey jar in the past that I was working on, but did not have any herbs to put in it at that time. I was thinking of starting a new one and could add the oils and balm of gilead.

Unread post by **ConjureMan** » Sun Dec 11, 2011 1:10 pm

While this other relationship certainly would be an obstacle to you two getting back together, you'll need to do actual break up work to break them up.

scorpryan · Unread post by **scorpryan** » Sun Dec 11, 2011 7:32 pm

I was wondering about this too. It's necessary to do break up work when pursuing an ex that has began a relationship? I wondered if there were already lingering feelings, if a reconciliation honey jar and/or some type of love conjure wouldn't be enough.

Unread post by **Dr Johannes** » Mon Dec 12, 2011 2:49 am

I would have mixed "Clarity Products" with "Reconciliation" or any sex- or love drawing products and used that on a Red Skull Candle AND a Red Penis Candle in his name. It will show him that the way out of confusion is to go to you. You might consider increasing the confusion between him and the other woman when doing this.

Cheshanna · Unread post by **Cheshanna** » Mon Dec 12, 2011 5:26 am

Hi everyone.

I am trying to reconcile with my ex partner and only have the Attraction and Follow Me Boy powders together with Lodestone, Love Me, Compelling and Fast Luck Oils. Are either of the powders OK to use? I may be seeing him tomorrow (Tuesday) and need help fast.

Thanks

Cheshanna · Unread post by **Cheshanna** » Mon Dec 12, 2011 5:29 am

Hi Everyone. I want my ex partner to want me back with him. I have Compelling, Love Me, Lodestone and Fast Luck oils - which ones are the best to use?

Thanks for any advice - I may be seeing him tomorrow so need help fast.

Thanks

Unread post by **Dr Johannes** » Mon Dec 12, 2011 5:58 am

Of those I would use Fast Luck for self dressing, since you are in short of time and leave a red candle dressed with Love Me while on the date (making sure it is placed somewhere fire proof).

AmaSarah · Unread post by **AmaSarah** » Mon Dec 12, 2011 8:31 am

Hi Cheshanna, a moderator will most likely point out that you shouldn't create multiple threads on the same topic so I'm giving you the heads-up.

which-oils-are-suitable-to-use-for-reco ... 16987.html

You added Follow Me boy to this thread, I believe. I would follow the advice given but also wear the FMB oil along with the Fast Luck while on the date.

good luck!

Unread post by **Devi Spring** » Mon Dec 12, 2011 8:49 am

You may wish to put in an order for some Reconciliation and Return to Me products, so that you'll have them on hand for next time!

Unread post by **Joann Lee** » Mon Dec 12, 2011 10:11 am

I'd go all out with everything but Compelling. Make sure you pray long and hard while applying them. Psalm 140 and 23 might help. I also recommend looking in the Song of Solomon for appropriate verses. Good luck. I can swear by the Reconciliation products for future dates, but you have a good start here.

Unread post by **Mama Micki** » Mon Dec 12, 2011 10:13 am

I merged the two threads together. I recommend reading the entire Song of Solomon (Song of Songs) for love work of any kind.

Cheshanna · Unread post by **Cheshanna** » Mon Dec 12, 2011 3:08 pm

I'm sorry to have posted similar messages but I realized that one was specifically about oils and put that in the relevant forum.

Anna

Cheshanna · Unread post by **Cheshanna** » Tue Dec 13, 2011 7:11 am

Hi Everyone.

I went to see him today, used the oils and powders, read the entire Song of Solomon (both last night and this morning before I went to his house) and psalms 140 and 23 (several times) and prayed. He said that he doesn't want me to see him anymore but that he'll keep on texting me as a friend - he did say that things might be different after he has won custody of his daughter in February. I did a stupid thing a few weeks ago and he's said that it will take time for him to forgive me for it, if he ever does. When we parted he gave me a quick kiss and promised that he'd text. I love him very much and wondered if I should keep on with my honey jar and make a doll baby with a pair of unwashed underpants I have of his. I'm sorry if this is the wrong forum but there seems to be so much in this posting that it would cover several forums.

My rootworker told me a couple of weeks ago that he would keep backing off and coming back so I think I might still stand a chance.

Anna

aniviel · Unread post by **aniviel** » Tue Dec 13, 2011 12:58 pm

Hi guys,

Well, the man I have feelings for has pulled away from me a while back. We haven't really been in touch since. It seems he pulled away cos I hurt him and I've been working on a reconciliation and a love honey jar since. He lives in another country and I'll be there next month and want to meet..
now he gave me his address to send him a letter/a little Christmas present I have for him and I wonder which oils to use to anoint the present and also which ones would be best for upcoming weeks on my honey jars.

I should also mention the guy is stubborn and apparently a little scared of my intentions, as we had something casual before and it's possible he thinks I want more (considering the distance, I'll be fine with just casual).
I have alot of love oils by LM (Attraction, Bewitching, Come to Me, Follow Me Boy, Kiss Me Now, Love Me, Stay With Me) by now lol also King Solomon's Wisdom, Queen Elizabeth, Road Opener, Van Van, Crown of Success, Compelling, Restless, Fast Luck, Reconciliation. I have ordered Crucible of Courage and a few others but haven't recieved them yet and probably won't recieve in time as I have to send the letter by Friday..

What would be best from those suggestions? Also, in the same time I might ask to light a candle at the MISC to mainly try to reopen the lines of communication (as he responded to my address request but other than that we haven't spoken in a month) and hopefully make him want to meet me more/get rid of mentioned obstacles.. which candle should I use? They currently have a Follow Me Boy candle lit for me.

Unread post by **Mama Micki** » Tue Dec 13, 2011 1:24 pm

Anna, February is less than two months away. Do the work and be patient. Keep in contact, but don't bother him. Get involved in some activities you enjoy that you might not be able to do if you were in a relationship; see people, go places. Don't sit at home pining away for him. Get another reading in a few months for an update.

Unread post by **Mary Bee** » Tue Dec 13, 2011 7:42 pm

You could use a combination of Follow Me Boy, Love Me and Kiss Me Now oil to lightly dress the gift. Don't use oils on paper, though, because they'll stain.

You can ask the MISC ladies to light a Love Me candle on this man; ask them to add some Deers Tongue leaves to the candle to encourage him to talk.

Good luck,
Mary Bee

Rachel11 · Unread post by **Rachel11** » Wed Dec 14, 2011 5:50 pm

How would I increase the confusions between us? I did order some spell kits, Crown of Success, Break up and Reconciliation that I plan to do in that order. I also found a little honey jar in my cabinet and made a baby honey jar using his picture, name paper and a red candle I had here in the house and used the oil in the Reconciliation Kit. Now the candle burned and melted all the way down today and I have one other red candle...but this weekend as part of a "Dirty Santa" game where people brought in gifts they didn't want, I became the owner of a set of 12 white Sabbath candles.... just today when I was thinking about the candles, I thought "wait...I could probably use these!?" Am I right? I know pink is ideal, but I do want us to heal from before and was going to dress the candles with reconciliation oil too....

What do you think?

Unread post by **Dr Johannes** » Thu Dec 15, 2011 2:10 am

You should increase the confusion between THEM, not the two of you.

Have a look at this product line - http://www.luckymojo.com/oil-confusion.html.
Yes, you can use the Sabbath candles and work your honey jar a bit more.

lovemaster · Unread post by **lovemaster** » Fri Dec 16, 2011 7:52 am

Dear Mother Mystic can you please help me.I am new at this forum and trying to learn how to get help by other members.I have been in a relatationship for tw years.But now the lady i am in love don,t want me any more.She said i don,t love you any more and i don,t wana be with you any more.This situation is killing me every day and night so badly.I need some help to get her back in my life and start loving me again.Can you please tell me how i can change her mind and heart falling in love with me deeply.

Cheshanna · Unread post by **Cheshanna** » Fri Dec 16, 2011 12:54 pm

Hi. I did a really stupid thing while trying to reconcile with my ex boyfriend and he say's he may not be able to forgive me for it, can someone tell me what herbs I could use, and what colour candle, for forgiveness.
Thanks

Anna

Unread post by **Dr Johannes** » Fri Dec 16, 2011 12:59 pm

Isop would be the primary herb. In combination with Balm of Gilead buds and Majoram it can work wonders. The candle could be yellow, white or blue.

Rachel11 · Unread post by **Rachel11** » Sat Dec 17, 2011 1:38 pm

Dr. Johannes, what would be a simple way for me to cause confusion between them? A skull candle and confusion oil? I have the break up spell kit that I will be doing soon. My honey jar is already working wonderfully already. I almost just want to keep lighting it up everyday because the results seem to get better!

Unread post by **MissMichaele** » Sat Dec 17, 2011 5:55 pm

Dr Johannes wrote:Isop would be the primary herb.

Spelled "Hyssop" in English. I have nothing more to add, Dr. Johannes

Miss Michaele

Cheshanna · Unread post by **Cheshanna** » Sun Dec 18, 2011 12:47 am

Thank you both for your advice - it is very much appreciated. Would it be correct to dress the candle with Reconciliation oil and then roll it in the herbs - powdered of course.

Anna

Unread post by **Dr Johannes** » Sun Dec 18, 2011 9:07 am

Yes, Ches. That would be one way. Or burning them as an incense.

Miss Michaele: Doesn´t everyone know Swedish you mean? ;-D

Cali2002 · Unread post by **Cali2002** » Sun Dec 18, 2011 3:48 pm

^^^^^^ This is wonderful insight! I have just started to work with spells and explore my true spirit religion and what lead me to that was constant failures after doing everything right and the loss of a lover (go figure). BUT, I have always felt that something else was going on and that my Christian upbringing didn't answer any questions for me so I'm happy that problems have lead me to the truth.

Anywho, I'm a new member and have had a few "return love" spells cast and just trying to stay positive. I've found this to be the most challenging thing, but as you said above "but a lover is not going to want someone who is a hot mess" lol and I need to use this time to focus love on myself and I will get a reading.

I read on another site that I should NOT get a reading because spells need time to manifest properly and a reading can throw you off your path if you are told that something will not happen, but the universe is in the process of making a way for you.

Where can I get assistance with getting a reading done?

Blessings,

Cali

Unread post by **aura** » Mon Dec 19, 2011 4:26 pm

Hi Cali,

the readers and rootworkers from AIRR are reliable and trustworthy. You can read through their bios and find one that resonates with you and your needs: http://www.readersandrootworkers.org/in ... ootworkers

Unread post by **catherineyronwode** » Tue Dec 20, 2011 12:04 am

Cali2002, here are a few thoughts:

Always get a reading before you hire a spell-caster. If possible, find a reader you trust and if that reader will not take on the spell-casting job for you for whatever reason (too booked, doesn't do that kind of work,whatever), then ask that reader to recommend a spell-caster that he or she would trust.

Beware online spell-casters who tell you not to get a reading. They are trying to hook you into their little world and keep you paying as long as possible

On the other hand, don't get too many readings or continually jump from reader to reader. You will only confuse yourself.

Read more at the AIRR site on these pages:

* http://readersandrootworkers.org/wiki/S ... or_Clients
Tips For Clients: How to Select, Contact, and Work with a Psychic Reader or Hoodoo Root Doctor

* http://readersandrootworkers.org/wiki/Q ... ure_Doctor
Questions to Ask Your Psychic Reader, Hoodoo Rootworker, or Conjure Doctor

* http://readersandrootworkers.org/wiki/Fake_Psychics
Don't Get Ripped Off by Fake Psychics or Phony Spell Casters

1love · Unread post by **1love** » Thu Dec 22, 2011 12:46 pm

Okay this is 2 parts

I have a honey jar I was working for love before the break up. Wondering if I can change it to a reconcile jar, leave as is, or start new?
I have a shirt with his semen not to mention a nature tie I did the night before the break thats in panties under my mattress. What can I do with those for reconciliation?

We hv not talked since, he just sent 2 texts but I hv not talked to him. The last time he just said he couldn't sleep.

Unread post by **Devi Spring** » Thu Dec 22, 2011 2:00 pm

Make a different jar for your Reconciliation purposes. You can still work the Love jar as well, but the Reconciliation will need very different herbs and a very different intent than simply a love-drawing/deepening jar.

Use a string from the part of the shirt which has his semen on it as a personal concern for the Reconciliation work.

Cheshanna · Unread post by **Cheshanna** » Thu Dec 22, 2011 3:42 pm

Hello Everyone.

What herbs would I need for a reconciliation honey jar?

Thanks

Anna

Happy Holiday and a Happy New Year from the UK

Unread post by **jwmcclin** » Thu Dec 22, 2011 4:25 pm

Balms of Gilead (http://herb-magic.com/balm-of-gilead.html)
Basil (http://herb-magic.com/basil.html)
Cubeb berries (http://herb-magic.com/cubebs.html)
Sumac Berries (http://herb-magic.com/sumac-berries.html)

1love · Unread post by **1love** » Thu Dec 22, 2011 6:29 pm

Devi Spring wrote:Make a different jar for your Reconciliation purposes. You can still work the Love jar as well, but the Reconciliation will need very different herbs and a very different intent than simply a love-drawing/deepening jar.

Use a string from the part of the shirt which has his semen on it as a personal concern for the Reconciliation work.

Thank you Devi Spring. But can you tell me which herbs to use in the reconciliation jar?

Unread post by **Devi Spring** » Fri Dec 23, 2011 9:32 am

Things like basil and especially balm of gilead buds. Lucky Mojo sells the Reconciliation honey jar kit with everything you'd need.

truebeliever · Unread post by **truebeliever** » Fri Dec 23, 2011 4:45 pm

Hello, I am in a situation where I was married and I wanted to reunite with an ex. I wasn't happy with my husband so I divorced him, got back with and ex and found out that he is still sleeping with his ex. He says that he loves me as well, but I am years younger than he, and he felt like I didn't love him so he went where he felt safe..Now he knows how I feel about him and he cried after learning that I love him and want to be with him.. Trying to figure out how I can keep him and the ex apart; I've ordered a divorce candle to break them apart.. I think that she has put a spell on because he keeps taking her back after all she has done to him. I've also ordered a Love Me and an Adam and Eve candle.. I hadn't heard from him in 2 months before this week. I put a Honey Jar under my bed and in 3 days he has called.... I am in need of serious help because he loves me but he says when ever she comes around he's felt led to take her back..

Unread post by **Mama Micki** » Sun Dec 25, 2011 11:56 am

Get a reading to find out what is really going on and what your next action should be. She may doing work on him, or he may just want to keep two women on the string. Nobody wants to hear this, but a lot of guys get a huge ego boost when two (or more) women are competing for them. Most women just blame their rival instead of the man.

Cali2002 · Unread post by **Cali2002** » Sun Dec 25, 2011 7:08 pm

Thank you Aura and Catherine. I will get a reading because I do not want to waste anymore time going about this blind and my case is difficult so I need help.

Blessings,

Cali

1love · Unread post by **1love** » Mon Dec 26, 2011 12:06 am

Great! He keeps texting but has not called. Don't know y. But anyway I'll get the herbs asap. Am I to b praying over the nature tie that I still have? I have one under my mattress

Unread post by **jwmcclin** » Mon Dec 26, 2011 4:55 am

Your target is staying in contact via text...yes still work the nature conjure and follow Devi Springs recommendations.

Here is the link to Lucky Mojo's honey jar http://www.luckymojo.com/mojocatspells.html#honeyjar

Good Luck on your work.

light33 · Unread post by **light33** » Mon Dec 26, 2011 11:25 am

for sure a reading! Mama Micki you are 100%. if that is the case lose the jerk. You deserve someone who loves only you. Good luck

aniviel · Unread post by **aniviel** » Mon Dec 26, 2011 4:28 pm

Thank you very much MaryBee

If I'm correct there's also Deers Tongue in the Love Herbs mix, right? Which I'll be using for the bath + with sugar powder on the paper.

Unread post by **starsinthesky7** » Tue Dec 27, 2011 5:52 am

1. Have you gotten a reading concerning this matter?

I think a reading can address many of your concerns AND see how you should go about opening him up to you,and stop shying away from you.

2. So I think you need to be realistic about how far this relationship can possibly go. Do you or him often meet in the same country. Realistically, its going to be hard to have a relationship beyond something casual as you mentioned and given that he is really stubborn and is pulling away. Perhaps he does not see you like that because he is too far away. You know "out of sight, out of mind."

This is a tough situation and there are just obstacles that are just out of your and maybe his control unless one of you move. The location seems to be the biggest obstacle.

So if you are going to be in his country next month, and want to meet up. I would go with the compelling, and even do some road opening work to open the roads so that you and him can meet. Attraction would be another one I would use.

To me, follow me boy is probably not something that would be applicable here, if he cannot follow you due to being in another country AND if he stubborn or if there is something else that is holding him back from wanting to be with you or even near you. If you are doing reconciliaton work due to a fall out remember it is going to take time especially if it was a big fall out between you and him.

A reading here is a must to see where he is emotionally at, and if he is even wanting to pursue anything with you. If things are going to be too difficult, then it may very well be time to move on.

aniviel · Unread post by **aniviel** » Tue Dec 27, 2011 7:06 am

Thanks stars!
I have to admit I wrote the above post long ago but for some reason it was only published today.
A lot has changed since...
I did get a reading with an AIRR reader, my reconciliation work is already giving results (he replied to a message I sent him after ignoring my last one). I'm working on a honey jar daily and there's never any wax left anymore..
As for meeting next month, he still hasn't gotten back to me about that but I might not be flying at the end as my friend can't come with me so if I'm not going with her and not meeting with him there's no point and I might move it to March.

Either way though I've been working mostly with Follow Me Boy along with the Reconciliation and Attraction work but if you think Compelling is more appropriate perhaps I should exchange to that? I'm always a little unsure with Compelling how my prayer should be and what Compelling oil actually addresses..

Unread post by **starsinthesky7** » Tue Dec 27, 2011 12:46 pm

You are doing reconciliation and attraction work to bring you and him back together in terms of a fight you and him had correct?

To me, the reconciliation and attraction work may not directly address him wanting to see you and meeting with you for the trip.

I would use Follow me boy, attraction, and compelling to draw him to you to want to meet. I would say a prayer simply stating "i compel (target's name) to want to meet with me next month when I am in his country" you can say something to that effect.

But like I said, he may not be inclined to want to meet with you considering you and him have not reconciled.

aniviel · Unread post by **aniviel** » Tue Dec 27, 2011 2:42 pm

stars, thank you. well I have been doing reconciliation work for a while and as I said we did go from no reply at all to an answer

I just want to reach a point where he will want to talk things through at all. I know through my AIRR reader things are getting better so I'm just going to keep my work and hope for the best.
thanks

willy0007 · Unread post by **willy0007** » Tue Dec 27, 2011 6:20 pm

It's been a month since I met a woman on thanksgiving in canada. It was 10/10/2011. We had sex, but afterward, she changed like chameleon, and I want her back.

Can oils like kiss me or come to me and a vagina [vulva] candle work to bring her back and love me?

Thank you for your help.

Unread post by **starsinthesky7** » Tue Dec 27, 2011 7:45 pm

1. Get a reading! www.readersandrootworkers.com

I would make sure that you get a reading to see if it is even possible to bring her back to you AND what action you should take if you can bring her bakc to you.

2. A vagina candle is not going to bring her back to you and definitely not love you. Vagina candles are for passionate/sexual kind of work if they are red candles. Kiss me now is assuming you have some kind of contact with the person to have sexual interaction with them.

Come to me could work to draw this person to you, but I would use return to me products as well.

Again, you need to get a reading to see what kind of action should be taken.

Unread post by **Mama Micki** » Wed Dec 28, 2011 7:20 am

If you are interested in an actual relationship, not just sex, I would suggest using a pink candle, or a pink figural candle, such as a female figure, vulva, or a bride and groom. Dress it with Love Me, Return to Me, and/or Follow Me Girl. You can also pray the Song of Songs (Song of Solomon). Read through the whole book, then choose some appropriate passages to use. Many Bibles indicate which parts are spoken by the man and which are by the woman.