Spells for Clarity Insight Focus Understanding Calm Bad Temper Reduce Anger End Grudges

thelightfantastic · Unread post by **thelightfantastic** » Tue Sep 21, 2010 8:59 am

Unless you delve into the psychology behind why this guy likes to flirt and approach it that way, I doubt any spell you can do will change much for long. There might not even be a deep reason why he likes attention - some people just do. Like Devi said, if it's part of the person's personality and basic nature, there's no real to change that.

If his addiction to attention is actually causing problems in his life, your best bet is to probably just come out and ask him why he feels the need to act the way he does. He might not admit anything to you, but the question might get him to look at his own actions more closely.

Unread post by **Turnsteel** » Sun Dec 26, 2010 1:31 am

Hello

no-mans-land wrote: I thought having cut and clear candle services would probably be my best bet,

Having a candle lit for you can definitely help, but the nature of such work being what it is, I would suggest you work a Cut and Clear rite yourself and let the church back up your work with a candle. LuckyMojo sells a Cut and Clear spellkit for just such occasions.

no-mans-land wrote:I am also walking away with virtually nothing to show for twenty years, (the last ten of which he has put me through more hell than I can recount) and I want at least to feel that there will be some karmic payback, because thus far---he has been laughing it up and getting off scot-free. What should I do? I want him to feel the pain that I have felt and be met with nothing but heartache and hardship. Can I cross or break them up and still do a cut and clear for myself to stop caring or feeling anything for him? Or are those two things at odds with each other?

Personally, they seem at odds to me, a Cut and Clear is a magically way to help you move on to something better, rather then lingering on it cursing them. That said, I'm all for having your cake and eating it too

I would do this...

First a spell to let him feel the pain you have felt.

You will need:

One Black Skull Candle http://www.luckymojo.com/mojocatcandles.html
One Bottle of Crossing Oil or Devils Oil http://www.luckymojo.com/mojocatoils.html#hoodoo
One new packet of pins
One black altar cloth or large bandanna.
One Packet of Hyssop herb. http://www.herb-magic.com/hyssop.html

Take the skull candle and carve his name onto it, load it with something personal of his, a hair from his head would work very well. Set that on an over turned saucer or small plate with a petition paper under it. Next begins to rub the oil into the skull while praying that he feel the pain and sorrow you have been made to feel. Light the candle. Open up the packet of pins and take one out, heat it in the candles flame and stab it into the skull as you say something like "John Brown in the name of God feel the stab of pain you make me feel" heat up another "John Brown as you make me weep so shall you weep" and stab the candle in the eye. Keep going until you feel that you are done, or you run out of pins,lol. Let the candle burn out. Wrap the candle,the paper and the plate it was on up in that black cloth,tie the corners together and take it to a crossroads. Smash it in the middle of the crossroads, turn around and don't look back.

After that go and take the Hyssop Bath and proceed to a Cut and Clear.

Hope that helps

Unread post by **starsinthesky7** » Sun Dec 26, 2010 10:29 am

I have a feeling the cut and clear is not going to help you very much at this point, and you are working against it. So do not be surprised if you have to do that step again.

ANd rather than someone else doing it. I would do the clear and cut on my own since that spell work tends to work better when following the spells on this page

http://www.luckymojo.com/cutandclear.html

In addition, I would hit this man DEEP in this pockets so when you divorce him you are NOT leaving with nothing. Get him where it hurts, and that is his WALLET. I understand you are hurting, but why not have a little bit of money to ease your wounds.

You can break them up, and get a breakup spell kit for that.

http://www.luckymojo.com/breakup.html

But personally, I would look into getting a reading, and a spell work consultation so that you know the best way to approach this, and do not purely act of emotions at this point. A rootworker would be able to tell you the best ways to go about getting your revenge.

http://www.readersandrootworkers.org

no-mans-land · Unread post by **no-mans-land** » Sun Dec 26, 2010 12:34 pm

Thanks for the suggestions. Unfortunately, 'hitting him in the wallet' is not really going to be much of an option. Without giving away too many details, he lives in a state which will only grant alimony if the party asking (me) is unable to work due to disability or somesuch. I am working full time; no dice there. My lawyer basically told me I could waste a lot of time and money I don't have trying to get blood from this stone. He's self employed and can easily make it look on paper as though he makes nothing--while he lives in a house that costs $1500/month rent, drives the new van and I live with my parents and have to borrow one of their vehicles to go back and forth to work with.

God, this is making me sound pathetic! I chose badly and then felt I had no other options than to keep holding on until there were literally no choices left except: a) suicide or b) leaving him and trying to start over.

What type of rootworker would you suggest, and again, working with some budgetary constraints here, so I have to watch where the money goes. Thanks for your help!

Unread post by **jwmcclin** » Sun Dec 26, 2010 1:46 pm

You can look through the link (http://www.readersandrootworkers.org) starsnthesky7 posted and select a reader/rootworker that specializes in what your specific needs are as you listed above.

Unread post by **JayDee** » Sun Dec 26, 2010 4:23 pm

why dont you do a vinegar jar on him to spoil his life, even hurt his business.

cut and clear, which is a God sent gift in getting over a relationship ( used a few times

), and then follow with an attraction spell to bring a new person into your life.

sometimes things get bad before they improve often in relationships ending the one getting hurt seems to lost it all and the other is high on the hog, trust me iv seen this countless times give it time God has a way of correcting the worngs and evening the score, few months or years you will look back and relish in how happy you are without him and how miserable he is without u. Take care

Unread post by **starsinthesky7** » Mon Dec 27, 2010 12:28 am

Since you are working on a budget...then I would simply get a lucky mojo crossing spellkit. HIT him with all your anger! And let them suffer together. I would not break them up at this point. Like I said...hit him hard and make him suffer. Then move on. They will not last anyways because if he is a cheater...then he will most likely cheat on her too.

So get a crossing spell kit
http://www.luckymojo.com/crossing.html

You are not going to use all of the powders and oils, which is great so for money sake you can always get small black offeratory candles and back up the work with that with those oils.

Then move on with the Cut and clear that I mentioned above.

citizenrule · Unread post by **citizenrule** » Fri Feb 18, 2011 11:21 pm

Hi guys,I m carrying a Fiery Wall of Protection mojo hand and horseshoe with me. since last 1 week I'm getting angry for even a small matter and started quarelling. any way to change this temper? any spell?

Unread post by **starsinthesky7** » Fri Feb 18, 2011 11:45 pm

I would consider getting some tranquility products. I think it would be helpful if you took a bath in tranquility bath crystals.

http://www.luckymojo.com/products-tranquility.html

In addition, you may want to cleanse your home with chinese wash,and then follow up with peace water.

www.luckymojo.com/chinesewash.html
www.luckymojo.com/peacewater.html

citizenrule · Unread post by **citizenrule** » Sat Feb 19, 2011 7:05 pm

Thanks for the reply

Unread post by **MissMichaele** » Sun Feb 20, 2011 10:22 am

starsinthesky7 wrote:I would consider getting some tranquility products. ... In addition, you may want to cleanse your home with chinese wash,and then follow up with peace water.

Great ideas -- but way down underneath it all, you may have good reasons to be angry. Add some Clarity and King Solomon Wisdom to this work.

Hope this helps,

Miss Michaele

Unread post by **ConjureMan** » Sun Feb 20, 2011 11:42 pm

Clarity and wisdom is great for understanding the root of your temper issues. The combination of products that Starsinthesky and MissMichaele have suggested would be wonderful for your situation.

In addition condsider Master products. With MissMichael's suggestions you can find out what is going on, with Starskinthesky you can bring yourself some serentiy, and with Master products you'll have the internal control necessary to reign in your temper and the mastery to channel it in a more constructive manner.

http://www.luckymojo.com/master.html

citizenrule · Unread post by **citizenrule** » Mon Feb 21, 2011 7:37 pm

Tanks alot for yr reples

blackdiamond · Unread post by **blackdiamond** » Tue Jul 12, 2011 10:41 am

Hi Everyone,

My situation is, I need to learn how to protect myself. And I stay confuse a lots. I know something is wrong. It's like I cannot do anything about it. It is so frustrating.

Advice is welcome

Unread post by **Devi Spring** » Tue Jul 12, 2011 10:51 am

Hello Black Diamond-

It sounds as though you first need to start with some cleansing work. Learning to do cleansing work will go a long way in keeping you clear and giving you a measure of protection. There are MANY different ways to get spiritually clean - baths, fumigation with herbs and incense, sprays, candles, egg cleansings, house cleansings, etc.

However, you could definitely start with the Uncrossing spell kit. While you may not have been crossed up by an enemy, that kit will get you and your home really clean and clear and give you a good place to start from. Burning some Clarity candles for yourself during the Uncrossing will also help clear your mind of the confusion that you've been feeling. I would then follow that up those two works with the Van Van spell kit, as this will help turn your luck around and open you to new opportunity and good fortune.

As with cleansings, there are MANY ways to protect yourself, and they vary drastically depending on what exactly you want protection from. In general though, use some Protection or Fiery Wall of Protection oil on all your windows and doors in a 5-spot pattern after cleansing your home with the Chinese Wash that is part of both the Uncrossing and Van Van kits - this will help seal your home and those who dwell within from any negativity. If you would like to carry some protection on you, you could get the Fiery Wall of Protection mojo and wear that on your person. If you are comfortable petitioning saints, you could petition St. Michael to protect you using his prayer. You can keep a lock of your hair between two dressed holy cards of St Michael that face outwards, and burn candles that you've dressed with Protection or Fiery Wall of Protection on top when you want an extra boost, &/or get a blessed St.Michael medal and wear it. There are many things you can do.

If you feel that you would like to continue to help your mind stay clear, continue to burn Clarity candles and perhaps incorporate bathing in the Clarity bath crystals.

Since you are in a state of confusion currently and since you haven't provided any background details on what you may need protection from, I would recommend that you start with a reading and rootwork consultation with a professional so that they can perform divinations to see exactly what cleansing and protection would be most effective for you in your case. You can find a list of skilled rootworkers who can perform such a service for you at http://www.readersandrootworkers.org

Unread post by **aura** » Tue Jul 12, 2011 2:05 pm

Alongside Devi's excellent advice on the magickal level; I don't know if you've consulted a health professional: but it may also be worth verifying that your symptoms (confusion, feeling like something is wrong) are not physical or psychological in nature.

I don't mean to imply anything, you may well have already had a check-up, nor is there necessarily any medical cause - but since you don't provide much detail in your post - the mundane is also worthy of analysis while applying the metaphysical pointers provided.

For a reading, consulting the AIRR site is a great place to start: http://www.readersandrootworkers.org/in ... ootworkers

Unread post by **jwmcclin** » Tue Jul 12, 2011 4:10 pm

Read about the Uncrossing Spellkit here (http://www.luckymojo.com/uncrossing.html)

Unread post by **Devi Spring** » Tue Jul 12, 2011 4:36 pm

Very good point about the medical check-up Aura! It's easy to get conjure tunnel-vision when here on the forum.

Unread post by **aura** » Wed Jul 13, 2011 3:03 am

What's funny is that in giving the advice I was inspired from that which I've seen you so often suggest to others when referring to work with St-Dymphna!

blackdiamond · Unread post by **blackdiamond** » Wed Jul 13, 2011 7:59 am

Thanks everyone for your advice. I will do the spiritual cleaning and bath. Also, I will have a medical check-up. Thanks a Million! It's so good to know that there is stilling people who cares and willing to help others.

SweetLady · Unread post by **SweetLady** » Tue Nov 15, 2011 12:43 pm

Hello All:
My Soulmate has anger issues. Any small thing gets him so mad! He is not violent, but he gets Incredibly stubborn when he is angry. I have tried reconciliation work (like 5 times!) in the past 3 months with out much luck

I am not sure what to do. He is mad over some unpleasant/shocking news I had to give him. His reaction is to not speak to me, call me, etc. I love him and want to be with him. But this man has extroadinary willpower...if he decides something...good luck on getting him to change his mind! I am at a loss. I've done ump-teen different spells, trying to work it from several different angles inculding the reconciliation spells, chuparosa spell, dressed letters, call me/contact me spell, a love mojo. I have done readings and they are quite positive. They always say that the energy is just about to break through...but it doesn't. He hasn't written to me or called me all year. (it's a long distance thing). I think he tried to call like a week or two ago, but the message he left was all messed up. I tried calling the number on my caller-ID back and it wouldn't go through. Instead it just gives a wierd alarm-like tone. It's not a dial-tone, not a ring-tone, not a fax-tone...sounds like sirens, almost. wierd...Anyhow, I sense that he is angry and can't get over it. He's dug his heels in and is deciding not to budge. This is one stubborn man! you have no idea! lol. Anyhow, I need to get him to move! and to get over his anger. What kinds of spells are there to get some one who is an angry, stubborn person to just chillax! and call/write? He's done anger management, but he still can't handle. He's just an angry person! and STUBBORN! Help me!

MMLT · Unread post by **MMLT** » Thu Nov 17, 2011 3:58 pm

I am new to the forum and hoodoo, so I don't have much to offer in that direction. In my experience, it is hard to change the other person in the relationship. I would ask what you could do for yourself to alter the relationship by changing on your side and waiting for him to notice the change and begin to come around.

Unread post by **jwmcclin** » Thu Nov 17, 2011 4:39 pm

I think a year is a long time to not hear from a person, especially a love interest. I recommend a reading from an AIRR reader to determine next steps. Normally with such a long period of time between conversations and contact a Cut & Clear is recommended...but you can surely request a short reading to see where his head is and to collaborate on the type of spell work needed to get the results you seek.

Mezan · Unread post by **Mezan** » Wed Jan 25, 2012 6:27 pm

I am very impatient and impulsive.
I have an amazing boyfriend who is nothing but wonderful to me, but when he doesn't call when he says he will, is late, or ends up not being able to hang out because of work, I get upset about it. I realize many women do, but I think I let it affect me too much. Then the impulsive side kicks in. I start to cry and consider leaving him, which I know I don't want but when I'm frustrated and angry, I think of all these stupid things.

My impatience also affects my relationships with others (though to a lesser extent). I expect everyone to be on time, since I'm a punctual gal, and get very annoyed when they aren't. I also get irritated when people don't do what they say. I just generally become upset when things don't go my way.

I know I need to realize that things sometimes come up, which is what happens with my man (for example he takes and that I just need to relax and be patient, but I can't seem to do it. I guess it's because I only say I will do something if I'm absolutely sure I can do it, because I don't want to mislead or inconvenience people. I also always have to be doing something and get anxious when I'm idle. I basically don't know how to relax.

What products can I use to help make this diminish? I want to keep my relationship strong and be with my boyfriend for good, and I don't want to annoy my friends and family. Most importantly, though, I don't want to keep emotionally bothering and hurting myself.

Unread post by **Mary Bee** » Thu Jan 26, 2012 6:50 am

First off, see a doctor to check if you have anxiety and depression, which can contribute to your feelings and actions. Those two conditions can be treated with medication and therapy.

In the mean time you can work with Clarity, Tranquility and King Solomon Wisdom products; use the oils to anoint your head and pray for peace in your thinking, and bathe in the bath crystals to promote peace and wisdom in your life.

Good luck,
Mary Bee

Unread post by **aura** » Fri Jan 27, 2012 4:34 am

After having looked into the physical as Mary Bee suggests (that's priority numero uno

):

Consider working with the products Mary Bee suggested (Clarity, Tranquility and King Solomon Wisdom products) during the waxing moon to increase your patience and sense of calm and then switching to 13-herb bath and Cast Off Evil during the waning moon as you petition your impatience to be removed from you.

You may also want to add a square of crushed up Reckitt's Crown Blue to any of the Tranquility or Clarity Products: http://www.herb-magic.com/reckitts-squares.html

Also work with forgiveness for yourself of your more difficult traits (Miss Cat has recommended hyssop baths for this on the radio show) because if you can't fundamentally forgive your own trespasses, it won't be any easier to forgive others'.

Blessings and best of luck.

shelbeen · Unread post by **shelbeen** » Sat Jan 28, 2012 7:04 pm

Hello everyone

I have been fighting with EVERYONE in my life lately! Is it possible to make a honey jar to sweeten my life so to speak? I've had a reading down already and the person didn't seeing any magic at work so I guess I'm just having a bit of bad luck with people.

Unread post by **Mary Bee** » Sat Jan 28, 2012 7:06 pm

You can absolutely make a honey jar on yourself! Put some Balm of Gilead buds, Rosemary, Basil in there, along with your picture and a personal concern of yours (hair, nail clippings, etc). Burn blue candles on top of the jar dressed with Tranquility oil.

Good luck,
Mary Bee

heartexalted · Unread post by **heartexalted** » Wed Jun 27, 2012 7:43 pm

Any ideas for spellwork to enable oneself to forgive those who have harmed you or done you wrong? (At first, to rid myself of the desire to burn Crossing or Damnation candles on those people, but later to reach the point where I could even feel genuine compassion for them.)

One work I did recently was to do three days of cleansing baths (lemongrass, lemon, rosemary, senna, hyssop, nettles, eucalyptus, epsom salt, castor oil) while burning black candles dressed with castor oil and epsom salt - on top of a bit of rue, a bit of my hair, and a petition with the words "all barriers to forgiveness are broken". I wiped myself down with the black candles before lighting them bathing.

Anything else I could do to continue the work? Either to further get rid of the things that prevent me from forgiving or to bring in more compassionate and loving feelings for them? I was thinking some combination of Blessing and Road Opener work - or maybe some work with Jesus, since he is famous for his admonishments to forgive others.

Also, I am wondering if some kind of Reversing work is in order, as well. Maybe I need to see their harms against me returned to them before I can truly forgive? thanks!

Unread post by **JayDee** » Wed Jun 27, 2012 8:13 pm

You may want a reading to see where to start. As for cleansing you should clean your home as well as you. you can use the cut and clear which would cut them out of your life and get you over it. you can use reconcilation to get over past hurts and forgive.

moneytakea · Unread post by **moneytakea** » Sat Sep 01, 2012 2:05 pm

Road opener is definitely a great idea to start, Get a reading to be sure though. You can also bathe with an Egg in hand, rubbing it around your body in all nooks and crannies asking that the spirits rid you of any negativity and things stopping you from moving on and forgiving. Ask that the egg absorb all the negativity and take it from you. After that take the Egg to a crossroads that you know you will not EVER cross again. Before tossing it and breaking it declare that with you breaking the egg, you break all negative influences and energies in your life. Then Smash the egg on the ground and immediately walk away without looking back. Combine this with a couple of other cleansing rituals and you should be good to go !

Good luck in your quest and I hope that you find a healthy resolution.

Unread post by **Mama Micki** » Sat Sep 01, 2012 4:02 pm

Cast Off Evil would be a good choice, as well as your idea of working with Jesus. Lucky Mojo has both Sacred Heart and Jesus the King products. You can say the Lord's Prayer as part of your work. White candles would better to use than black since you are interested in healing and forgiveness, not crossing or cursing.

Unread post by **wraithklewn** » Sun Sep 16, 2012 2:22 am

So i intend to perform a job on one of my friends. it is going to be a clarity,crucible of courage and king solomon wisdom combo. I was wondering what herbs can i use to help them with gaining clarity to see how an evil person another really is along with courage and wisdom to rid herself from this guy?

Unread post by **aura** » Sun Sep 16, 2012 4:32 am

Hi wraithklewn,

Since from what you're posting below, I assume that your friend is a woman, fennel is a great choice to bolster her courage and protect her. Added to yarrow and sage, it's an herbal infusion of courage and wisdom. A blend you may want to make that can be consumed as a tea and used as a spiritual bath would be the following (it won't taste half-bad either!):

2 parts fennel (http://www.herb-magic.com/fennel-seed.html)
2 parts mint (http://www.herb-magic.com/mint.html)
1 part yarrow (http://www.herb-magic.com/yarrow-flower.html)
3 slices of solomon seal root (http://www.herb-magic.com/solomons-seal-root.html)
1/16 part sage (http://www.herb-magic.com/sage.html)

Decoct the solomon seal root for 21 minutes in a quart of water. Turn the heat off, add the rest of the herbs and infuse another 13 minutes. Strain and add to bath water and save one cup to drink while soaking in the bath.

Unread post by **Joseph Magnuson** » Sun Sep 16, 2012 4:46 pm

I love the use of Yarrow and Sage in the above, Aura. Very nice. I have to agree with Solomon Seal Root as well. This is one case where the SSR will come in very handy, especially when mixed with the other herbs.

Unread post by **wraithklewn** » Mon Sep 17, 2012 12:21 am

Thank you Aura.. this is perfect. I agree with you Joseph and my luck i have everything i need for it. yay!

Unread post by **Joseph Magnuson** » Mon Sep 17, 2012 4:21 pm

That is good to hear! Keep us posted on the situation and your results.

Magister9 · Unread post by **Magister9** » Fri Sep 21, 2012 8:39 am

Hi to all,

I have a problem and I don't know what I could do about it....

All the time that I make a spell for change in better my life and doesn't matter which spels is (van van mojo bag or honey jar,...) the angry comes to me and make me angry with situation and people without a good reason, like if I have a big angry wall in front off my face.

A months ago I did an uncrossing ritual with mojo bag too, the situation is better but I steel have the angry wall inside my...

what I want to say that everything that I would like to start to do, the anger stops me quickly, because I feel impotent for change my life by myself and the angry growth inside me...

I know is somthing unconscious but in my astral body is present that angry energy block, what could I do with hoodoo for remouve bad energy??

Thank you to all,

Bye Alessandro25

Unread post by **Mama Micki** » Fri Sep 21, 2012 10:21 am

A 13-herb bath to cleanse you, then Cast Off Evil. I suggest getting the Cast Off Evil spell kit.

Magister9 · Unread post by **Magister9** » Sun Sep 23, 2012 12:14 am

Thank you mama, I will try it

catness · Unread post by **catness** » Mon Sep 24, 2012 1:11 am

will someone please explain all this to me.. all this is new to me.. last year my fiencee left me for my best freind.. we were together for 11 years.. i have prayed he would come back to me.. and he is still with her.. i feel so much hate and anger towards them both.. i either want him to come back to me and our children and forget her..(but i think i have given up on that one after tonight i toled him it hurt me when he brought her around and he told me he dont give a damn about my feeling he was going to live his life) so i think i have to give up.. but i am full of anger and hate and bitterness it is affe4cting my life... how do i get rid of it.. how do i get over him.. how do i move on.. someone explain this stuff to me.. the bath.. the eggs.. i am on a very limited income i lost my job.. so i need soemthing i can do in my budget.

heartexalted · Unread post by **heartexalted** » Mon Sep 24, 2012 9:46 am

Check out this post by DrJohannes: here. Personally, I have found the egg thing to be really helpful. I like to do it on my head, per his suggestion, as well as over my heart (starting at the center and going counter-clockwise outward).

After doing this, you might want to put on some Blessing Oil on your head and heart while praying something like Psalm 23 and/or Romans 15:13 (changing "you" to "I" and "me", of course). If you're gonna take something off, then put something back on, in its place.

It's really amazing how well it works. I've been in situations where the feelings are pretty intense, I use the egg, and for the next several days, the feelings are gone. Granted...they may start to arise again, but as they say...Lather, rinse, repeat...until you're done.

Unread post by **MissMichaele** » Mon Sep 24, 2012 10:04 am

Cast Off Evil is a great idea, but use King Solomon wisdom, too. It'll help you see HOW the spirit is affecting "the flesh" -- your real-world brain and heart -- to trigger this anger.

Good luck and good magic,

Miss Michaele

josie02 · Unread post by **josie02** » Mon Oct 01, 2012 5:39 pm

is there a spell that i can get rid of my husbands anger? past few months he has been angry at the world everything makes him mad. i want to release his anger? is there also a way to get rid of the negative energy in the home?

Unread post by **Doctor Hob** » Mon Oct 01, 2012 9:30 pm

Is there a recognizable cause to his anger issues? If it came on suddenly and without explanation, you might get a reading on the issue. You can check the Association of Independent Readers and Rootworkers website for a list of reliable readers: http://readersandrootworkers.org .

You can do a routine, spiritual house cleansing with Chinese Wash (http://www.luckymojo.com/chinesewash.html), and then follow up with Peaceful Home products ( http://www.luckymojo.com/peacefulhome.html) to help keep the tone down.

I'd be sure of the cause of your husband's troubles before doing any work directly on him.

Unread post by **catherineyronwode** » Mon Oct 01, 2012 10:39 pm

I agree with Doctor Hob -- start with a spiritual house cleaning, then proceed to calming work.

He mentioned Peaceful Home, and i will add that i always like Peace Water used as a room spray as well.

Plus, if your husband is unclear in mind, try Clarity an d tranquility oils in the cleaning products.

However, to get back to where Mr. Hob started, you will need to understand what set him on this cycle of anger in the first place or else you are mostly flying blind.

Is his health going wrong somehow?
Has he been cursed?
Is there someone outside the marriage throwing for you two to break up?
Is he doing something he ought not to be doing and feeling guilty and defensive?
Are there problems at his workplace?
Are there family members ill whom you never liked but he misses them?

Those are the kinds of questions i would be asking if my husband went bad on me in a short period of time.

Get a reading on those things, and at the same time, start from a pro-active stance -- with spiritual house cleansing to clean off the negative energy in the home and with Peaceful Home and Peace Water to soothe him, and some upbeat work -- Blessing,Tranquility, Clarity, Healing and any kind of sugar jar or honey jar work you know -- to gentle him out until you can uncover the real issue and deal with it.

josie02 · Unread post by **josie02** » Tue Oct 02, 2012 5:03 am

how does a honey jar for anger? how do you make it?

Unread post by **Mama Micki** » Tue Oct 02, 2012 6:33 am

Lucky Mojo has a Peaceful Home honey jar. Start with that.

be_777 · Unread post by **be_777** » Tue Oct 09, 2012 3:30 pm

There is an individual I know who has a very foul mouth and I want her to stop talking this way. Is there a spell that will get her to stop talking in such a rude and offensive manner?

Unread post by **MissMichaele** » Tue Oct 09, 2012 5:40 pm

Is this a family member? You can spike her grooming products with Cast Off Evil and Stop Gossip.

If she's a workmate, you can track the oils into her workplace on your shoes; eventually, she'll cross your path and step in or over it. (Or if you see her elsewhere -- church, PTA, a relative's house -- track the oils there.)

You can also mix the powders with a little local dirt and sprinkle them where she'll walk.

And you can back up your work with a Cast Off Evil candle on your own or someone else's altar.

Stop Gossip spells and supplies
http://www.luckymojo.com/stopgossip.html
Cast Off Evil spells and supplies
http://www.luckymojo.com/castoffevil.html
Altar Candle Services:
How the Missionary Independent Spiritual Church Can Set Lights for Your Spiritual Aid http://missionaryindependent.org/candle-services.html
The Association of Independent Readers and Rootworkers
http://www.readersandrootworkers.org

Good luck and good magic,

Miss Michaele

curious chic · Unread post by **curious chic** » Sat Oct 20, 2012 3:57 pm

I have noticed that right before my cycle I get into the dumbest arguments with people! I noticed this pattern after two big blow ups, one was with my niece and the other was with my sister. What can I use to aid me in my irritation during my period?

Unread post by **Mama Micki** » Sat Oct 20, 2012 4:18 pm

Take a bath in Tranquility Bath Crystals and eat some dark chocolate.

Unread post by **jwmcclin** » Mon Oct 22, 2012 4:16 pm

You might want to get a medical check up too about this situation. Although I have learned of women taking salt baths, blessing baths,and cleansing baths during this time before and after.

Unread post by **catherineyronwode** » Mon Nov 12, 2012 8:31 pm

If a honey jar is too complex for you, try using Peace Water and praying.

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butterfly2 · Unread post by **butterfly2** » Sat Jan 19, 2013 1:42 am

ohhhhh. ok thanks so much.

butterfly

Zoe · Unread post by **Zoe** » Sat Mar 30, 2013 6:28 pm

Hello,

I have a friend, a man, who is suffering over a recent break-up. He is also generally depressed, bitter, and unhappy with his life. I am going to order a run of candles to be burned on his behalf, but I am uncertain which type to use. I am leaning toward "Blessings." Does anyone have suggestions? He needs healing I suppose but his pain is emotional.

Thank you,
Zoe

Unread post by **jwmcclin** » Sat Mar 30, 2013 7:19 pm

For broken hearts, Cut and Clear is recommended. Please read about it here http://www.luckymojo.com/cutandclear.html. I would sneak some of the bath crystals into his bathing products while praying that his heart ache is healed.

Zoe · Unread post by **Zoe** » Sun Mar 31, 2013 10:21 am

He lives in another state, so the bath crystals aren't an option. I will go with candle runs on your altar. Regarding Cut and Clear: I don't think he is heartbroken/hung up on his ex, rather, he is bitter that yet another relationship did not work out and he is "forever alone." He is bitter about how his life in general has turned out and blames himself, etc. Is Cut and Clear appropropriate for this situation?

Unread post by **QueenofWands** » Tue Jul 23, 2013 7:11 am

Hello,

I was wondering what would be the best route for calming the father of my children's angry mood swings? We all live together (our 4 children, him, his father, and I). Although we are no longer romantically involved, we still live together for now, due to financial burdens and wanting to try to keep our family together for the sake of the children. Now, he was a pro boxer in his earlier years. I feel as though the damage he sustained to his head, has caused frontal lobe impairment. He also had some addiction issues some years ago (which I was able to cast away). However, he will NOT go to a doctor (has never been to one in the 15 yrs we have lived together)....He can be sweet one minute and then just snap at me or the children the next minute. The children and I are pretty much used to his behavior by now, but lately, it has just gotten out of hand. I've cleansed the entire home with Chinese Wash, laid peace water through the home, and burned both dragon's blood resin and peaceful home incense. I will be getting a peaceful home honey jar kit and adding all of us to it. I was also thinking of working some influence products on him; specifically, using a white skull candle and some pine needles (clear mental negativity), balm of gilead buds (to invoke peace and healing), and licorice root (so I can have the upper-hand). At this point, I need him to be helpful, cooperative, and loving toward his children.

Unread post by **Power** » Tue Jul 23, 2013 8:46 am

Hello,

You can try a honey jar on him, to sweeten him to you and your children.
http://www.luckymojo.com/honeyjar.html

Also, you can try working some with Tranquility products as well.
http://www.luckymojo.com/tranquility.html

Good Luck