How to Use Honey, Sugar, and Sweet Jars Questions and Answers

Dichterin · Unread post by **Dichterin** » Wed Feb 22, 2012 8:56 pm

I have a couple of quick questions.

(1) Is Psalm 23 recommended for reconciliation with a friend? Or is there a better alternative?

(3) How do I prepare a sugar jar? Do I simply use cane sugar in lieu of honey and proceed? Or do I need to do something to the mixture, e.g. vanilla? I found links that recommended the first and second method. If this has been answered in the thread, I apologize. I've read all of it but can't recall this particular question being addressed. As I shared, I am vegan and don't consume honey.

Unread post by **aura** » Thu Feb 23, 2012 4:17 am

Hi Dichterin,

For reconciliation with a friend, psalms 28 and 111 used together (particulary 28) can be effective.

For the honey jar, if you're vegan, liquid alternatives to honey include molasses, maple or birch syrup (expensive on those last two though), agave nectar and corn syrup. The main thing is that it's a liquid and natural sweetener. If you do want to go with the sugar jar, either just the sugar + your petition/personal concerns is fine; it's also OK to add herbs (preferably edible) that are aligned with the aim of your work. For reconciliation with a friend you could use balm of gilead buds, borage and cloves for example.

Blessings and best of luck.

Dichterin · Unread post by **Dichterin** » Thu Feb 23, 2012 4:38 am

aura wrote:Hi Dichterin,

For reconciliation with a friend, psalms 28 and 111 used together (particulary 28) can be effective.

For the honey jar, if you're vegan, liquid alternatives to honey include molasses, maple or birch syrup (expensive on those last two though), agave nectar and corn syrup. The main thing is that it's a liquid and natural sweetener. If you do want to go with the sugar jar, either just the sugar + your petition/personal concerns is fine; it's also OK to add herbs (preferably edible) that are aligned with the aim of your work. For reconciliation with a friend you could use balm of gilead buds, borage and cloves for example.

Blessings and best of luck.

Thanks for the reply and advice. The rootworker I consulted suggested sugar, and that's why I mentioned it. I want to follow that advice and figured I would ask general questions here rather than bother him with a ton of questions.

cassie22 · Unread post by **cassie22** » Mon Feb 27, 2012 3:52 pm

I have read through the honey jar/sugar jar postings. But I was very curious regarding the sugar box. I couldn't find any information on how I would use a sugar box and feed my ex for reconciliation. Anyone know?

salinton · Unread post by **salinton** » Mon Feb 27, 2012 9:15 pm

Can someone please give me a specific instructions to make the honey jar.

I have read several and are kinda confusing. I am wanting to have contact with an old friend of mine again

thank you

Dichterin · Unread post by **Dichterin** » Tue Feb 28, 2012 5:59 am

salinton wrote:Can someone please give me a specific instructions to make the honey jar.

I have read several and are kinda confusing. I am wanting to have contact with an old friend of mine again

thank you

Caveat: I'm not an expert, but I understand the concept and process. The following link at Lucky Mojo is very thorough: http://www.luckymojo.com/honeyjar.html My admittedly novice advice is to read it carefully and see if you still have questions. Good luck!

allheart777 · Unread post by **allheart777** » Tue Feb 28, 2012 1:28 pm

I'm planning to make a honey jar for love work. I read somewhere than sugar water works faster than honey because honey is a much thicker material. Is there any truth to this???

Unread post by **Devi Spring** » Tue Feb 28, 2012 1:32 pm

Sugar water will ferment and expand and end up blowing up your bottle - so, no, sugar water doesn't work faster.

I've said that using sugar and making a shaking jar can be used when a situation can stand a bit of agitation, whereas honey and other natural liquid sweeteners (cane syrup, molasses, maple syrup, etc) have a very soothing effect on things. But neither is "better" or "stronger", just one might be more appropriate for a situation than others.

ladydawn · Unread post by **ladydawn** » Wed Feb 29, 2012 6:56 am

What do you think about burning a series of van van candles to clear away blockages? I don't want it to remove the good work that I've done, just move past resistance or other blocks. Would that be appropriate for this?

Dichterin · Unread post by **Dichterin** » Wed Feb 29, 2012 7:10 am

I made my sugar jar and carefully consecrated and dedicated everything. Then I forgot to taste the sugar before I sealed the jar. Any advice? Should I leave it as is, open it up and taste it, or make a new jar? I feel confident in my work, but this detail makes me uneasy.

Unread post by **ConjureMan** » Wed Feb 29, 2012 5:57 pm

Van Van will not remove any of your good works. You can use Van Van to clear out messes.

oneNonly · Unread post by **oneNonly** » Sat Mar 03, 2012 1:57 am

So I have been going on a honey jar on my ex, and been getting contact n phone calls
Lunch once, movies once, he expressed he is still in love with me but isn't talking about
Getting back together or committing I know he loves me but I also feel like I need something
To clear his mind of any doubts and have him fully commit to me? What else can I do along
The honey jar? I burn candles atleast once a week due to privacy but what would help him
Clear any confusion or doubt. Please advice thank u guys!

markx · Unread post by **markx** » Sat Mar 03, 2012 8:47 am

I have a couple of questions.

1. Can I use come to me, love me powered and reconcile powder is the same honey jar, for a dual purpose?

2. Do I mix the powders into the honey, or do I use them in with the folded petition?

3. Same with herbs do I mix them into the honey or add them to the folded petition?

nebraska · Unread post by **nebraska** » Sun Mar 04, 2012 6:42 am

Hi. How long would you give the honey jar to work? Three months? As I know, the person who does it should initiate contact first. After how much time does it seem reasonable to do that? I would be grateful for some comments.

Unread post by **Joseph Magnuson** » Sun Mar 04, 2012 12:22 pm

markx: Well, we all have our own different, personal way of doing honey jars. The way I do it:

1. If those conditions were all for the same individual than, yes, I would say that a Come To Me/Love Me/Reconcile honey jar is appropriate.

2. I personally do not mix the powders directly into the honey. If you do, just make sure that you have already tasted the bit of honey first! Sachet powder in honey will gunk up and with jars that I fill up myself with honey after loading in the roots, herbs and petition, I need to taste a bit of the honey before capping it!

3. I have done both. For small honey jars, or with really loose herbs, I have folded them into the petition. For larger honey jars I have done, or for larger roots and herbs, I will put them in the jar outside of the petition. My usual rule is; if it can fit in the petition and be folded, it goes in the petition.

Unread post by **ConjureMan** » Sun Mar 04, 2012 8:31 pm

notsoperfect7, if your honey jar is working in that he's sweet to you, communicating, and saying he loves you but isn't getting back together then adding a bit of attraction to that work. I would use a moving lodestone to draw him back into the relationship.

best,
ConjureMan Ali

indiana_born · Unread post by **indiana_born** » Mon Mar 05, 2012 8:21 am

Hi everyone, I was looking for some insight on something strange that happened yesterday. I lit my prosperity candle on top of my prosperity honey jar and meditated on what prosperity meant to me and was focusing on bringing those positive things into my life. The candle burned down but then something weird happened. I was meditating with my eyes closed. I heard sizzling and popping noises, and opened my eyes, the candle was burning crazy strong and the flame was very high. I continued to let it burn and eventually it looked like a ball of flame at the top of the jar where I had attached the candle. Then the ball of flame falls onto the candle holder and I see the top of the bottle is gone. It literally burned the top of the bottle off, all that was left where the flame fell was ash and candle wax. I've burned many candles on that bottle, I've never seen anything like that. Was wondering if anyone could tell me more about this strange occurrence. Here is a link to a picture of the bottle after the candle burned out. Thank you.

http://imgur.com/Wea1J

Unread post by **Joseph Magnuson** » Mon Mar 05, 2012 10:02 am

What was the top of your honey bottle jar made out of?

indiana_born · Unread post by **indiana_born** » Mon Mar 05, 2012 10:07 am

It was just the metal screw on lid for the top of the bottle. Just an average lid, nothing out of the ordinary.

Unread post by **Joseph Magnuson** » Mon Mar 05, 2012 10:15 am

indiana_born wrote:It was just the metal screw on lid for the top of the bottle. Just an average lid, nothing out of the ordinary.

I have never heard of metal being completely evaporated/melted by flame...unless the metal was tin-foil, or the flame was from a blow torch or kiln! I can't understand what happened. Have you thought about contacting someone about a quick 10 minute/$10 reading/divination on the cause?

8letters · Unread post by **8letters** » Tue Mar 06, 2012 3:26 pm

hi, i am new to this forum & well..forums period. i have a quick question about making a honey jar. in doing one for a lover, for the personal concern, if you have nothing else could you use a picture? would i just fold the picture up and place it inside the petition paper? thanks so much in advance for any help

almondworld · Unread post by **almondworld** » Wed Mar 07, 2012 6:20 am

Hi, I wonder boss fix or steady work honey jar, which one is more suitable for getting a job, I have boss fix powder,steady work oil on my hand, how can I combine with one of these honey jar?

Shall I use one honey jar for one job? Or is it OK to use one honey jar for multiple job applications?

If I can take some photos for the companies or offices when I go to interviews, how can I use them to enhance or empower my spell?

Thanks in advance.

diplomat · Unread post by **diplomat** » Thu Mar 08, 2012 8:35 am

Ok guys i did everthing correct with my first honey jar but on the parchment paper i wrote with a red-ink pen an then i also added a photo of the person i am trying to sweeten to the paper but i anointed the photo with love oil an when i folded the paper it looks like everything on the parchment paper that i wrote got smugged so i still went ahead an put the paper into the honey but will that affect my work or should i try another honey jar i only started today !

Unread post by **aura** » Fri Mar 09, 2012 10:43 am

hi diplomat,
if it were me, I'd redo the paper until it were perfect before putting it in the honey jar. next time try using a sharpie permanent marker (extra fine) or a red coloured pencil - neither of these will smudge when you anoint them.

hi 8letters,
if you have nothing else, use the photo by all means. You can also add more personal concerns to the jar as you keep working it, once you get them.

hi almondworld,
the steady work honey jar would be best for getting a job. When you get the one from LM, it will come with instructions for use.

diplomat · Unread post by **diplomat** » Fri Mar 09, 2012 11:22 am

Hi thanks for the reply i think i might just continue with this jar an see what happens , i already have the persons photo in it , i think i might star another jar along with this one on monday , what do u all think ?

Unread post by **Joseph Magnuson** » Sat Mar 10, 2012 5:14 pm

Diplomat: What would the second honey jar be for? I would not do two separate jars for the same exact purpose. No need. If you really feel like the first was done incorrectly, so much so that you would start another one on top of the first one, then I say you should undo the first jar and make one you feel comfortable with.

almondworld · Unread post by **almondworld** » Sun Mar 11, 2012 8:20 am

aura wrote:hi diplomat,
if it were me, I'd redo the paper until it were perfect before putting it in the honey jar. next time try using a sharpie permanent marker (extra fine) or a red coloured pencil - neither of these will smudge when you anoint them.

hi 8letters,
if you have nothing else, use the photo by all means. You can also add more personal concerns to the jar as you keep working it, once you get them.

hi almondworld,
the steady work honey jar would be best for getting a job. When you get the one from LM, it will come with instructions for use.

Thank you, aura, MUA.

Unread post by **sassymslady** » Sun Mar 11, 2012 8:47 am

Hello All:
I just have a question in regard to the colors of candles one can use on a honey jar. Can and/or should you use a black candle to banish negative feelings or negative issues you may be having with the subject of the jar? And I'm talking if the jar is originally made for positive work and or love. In example, I've only been using white, pink and red on the jar. And should you do this kind of work on a love drawing type of jar? Or should you do a totally separate jar for banishing type of work during the waning moon phase? I searched the topic everywhere and cannot find it. Thanks for your input.

Sassy.

Unread post by **Devi Spring** » Sun Mar 11, 2012 10:21 am

I would make a separate work for the banishing, since a honey jar is a drawing/sweetening work and banishing is, obviously, banishing work.

oneNonly · Unread post by **oneNonly** » Sun Mar 11, 2012 6:53 pm

@cm

Thank u so much for ur reply, I am sorry I am late in responding
Just my life is getting completely screwed, came to know he is still
Talking and hanging out with the ex gf that I have been working a
Vinegar jar on... I am so confused why this is happening I pray to my
Honey jar and light candles on it. And my vinegar jar I shake it up
Evryday. I guess I have to do the lodestone to draw him back into a
Relationship. Any suggestions how to make the other girl move
Away from him?

Unread post by **sassymslady** » Sun Mar 11, 2012 6:59 pm

Devi Spring wrote:I would make a separate work for the banishing, since a honey jar is a drawing/sweetening work and banishing is, obviously, banishing work.

Ok, Thanks Devi

I really appreciate your input and guidance.

Sassy

almondworld · Unread post by **almondworld** » Wed Mar 14, 2012 8:41 pm

Shall I use one honey jar for one job? Or is it OK to use one honey jar for multiple job applications?

For example, keep adding new interviwers' name paper into the same honey jar?

Unread post by **starsinthesky7** » Wed Mar 14, 2012 10:32 pm

You can do that, but you could make a general petition such as "bring me a new job" add your personal concerns, and other ingredients then close the jar. Then under the honey jar you can add each job application you feel out so you dont have to keep opening the jar.

almondworld · Unread post by **almondworld** » Thu Mar 15, 2012 2:37 am

starsinthesky7 wrote:You can do that, but you could make a general petition such as "bring me a new job" add your personal concerns, and other ingredients then close the jar. Then under the honey jar you can add each job application you feel out so you dont have to keep opening the jar.

If I want to sweet every interviewer or hire manager, what could I do? Please give me some suggestions. Thanks in advance.

Unread post by **starsinthesky7** » Thu Mar 15, 2012 2:49 am

Then put that on your petition. "Please attract a new job to me, make every interviewer and hiring manager sweet and attracted to me."

roguedeer · Unread post by **roguedeer** » Thu Mar 15, 2012 8:02 pm

I have been keeping a honey jar for many months and have burned tons of candles on it - three a week. It is a baby food jar topped with a small, gold star-shaped candle holder - the kind LM sells. There are almost no wax drippings, but the part of the candle holder that the candle sits in has gotten full of accumulated wax and powder, etc. A candle will no longer sit in it. Should I break the candle holder off and add a new one? Or should I just melt the candles into the holder and keep building up the wax?

Unread post by **starsinthesky7** » Fri Mar 16, 2012 2:14 am

You could do both. You could also cleanse off the candle holder if possible, and dispose of any wax. I would probably melt the candle into the holder and see if the next few burns will burn off that excess wax. If not, just clean the holder dispose of any wax, or get a new one.

Momo · Unread post by **Momo** » Fri Mar 16, 2012 9:32 am

So I did a honey jar for me, to sweeten my life, and silly me, used a honey jar with a plastic lid. As you might guess, the candle burned a hole right throgh the lid, and so now it's just ready for me to dispose of it and start anew!

The only thing is I"m not sure if I should just use one of the standard methods of disposal...i.e. river works well were I am, burying not so easy to accomplish. Lots and lots of rivers here.

Would that do it, just bless it to disperse and start all over again with a honey jar with a metal lid?

Unread post by **catherineyronwode** » Fri Mar 16, 2012 9:34 am

Momo

Yes. River disposal is indicated. Start anew.

Momo · Unread post by **Momo** » Fri Mar 16, 2012 9:51 am

Thank you, Cat, I do soooo appreciate your response!

almondworld · Unread post by **almondworld** » Fri Mar 16, 2012 4:21 pm

starsinthesky7 wrote:Then put that on your petition. "Please attract a new job to me, make every interviewer and hiring manager sweet and attracted to me."

Thank you Star, you're really good at writing petition.

Unread post by **aura** » Sat Mar 17, 2012 3:35 am

roguedeer wrote:I have been keeping a honey jar for many months and have burned tons of candles on it - three a week. It is a baby food jar topped with a small, gold star-shaped candle holder - the kind LM sells. There are almost no wax drippings, but the part of the candle holder that the candle sits in has gotten full of accumulated wax and powder, etc. A candle will no longer sit in it. Should I break the candle holder off and add a new one? Or should I just melt the candles into the holder and keep building up the wax?

I would just melt the candles into the holder and keep building up the wax. If it were becoming a potential danger / fire hazard to continue doing this, then I'd shave off the excess wax and dispose of it in my front or back yard, probably in the garden.

Other workers with more experience may be able to provide other ideas and alternatives to you.

Blessings.

oneNonly · Unread post by **oneNonly** » Sun Mar 18, 2012 7:33 pm

Hi ok
question I have been working on a honey jar for over a month now, and I was wondering
Now that I have sexual fluid from my target can I open the lid and include it In the jar and continue to
Burn a candle on it and prayerin my desire? Or should I do a new one?

Unread post by **starsinthesky7** » Sun Mar 18, 2012 7:40 pm

This is a matter of preference. Some like to start completely over, and some would just open up the jar and put it right in. So do what you feel is right. But if you feel strongly attached to this jar and it has been working for you then open the jar and put it in. If you want to make a new and improved jar, then that is fine too.

oneNonly · Unread post by **oneNonly** » Sun Mar 18, 2012 7:53 pm

Thank You Starsinthesky7!

I will just think about it alittle more and then decide by tom what to do since its monday and i need to burn a candle on the jar anyway.

Sashee78 · Unread post by **Sashee78** » Mon Mar 19, 2012 12:20 am

Hi can someone please answer my question
Is it okay to open up a honey jar after you've started it to add some herbs? Ive only burned two candles so far so it's fairly new.

Also is it okay to burn the candles on other days? besides Monday, Wednesday and Friday.
Can I burn one candle everyday? And maybe 2-3 times a day?

Unread post by **starsinthesky7** » Mon Mar 19, 2012 1:41 am

2 to 3 times a day is a bit excessive. I mean you can burn a 100 candles a day, and its probably not going to change the effectiveness if you just burned one. Its about focusing your intent not about the amount of candles you burn. To me, that is just a waste of products. But if you want to do it, then you can.

Yes you can burn on other days other than Mon, Wed, and Fri. People pick those days because they coincide with love work.

And yes you can open the jar.

Sashee78 · Unread post by **Sashee78** » Mon Mar 19, 2012 7:45 am

Thank you for the info. I had just read somewhere that you should burn 2-3 candles.

Unread post by **Joseph Magnuson** » Mon Mar 19, 2012 1:13 pm

Sashee78: I burn 3 candles a week, Mon-Wed-Fri on my honey jars and they are working great. Sometimes I will add another on for Sunday if I get the feeling I should. Lately there has been a lot of the "more is more powerful" type of thing. starsinthesky7 gave you great and very sound advice regarding this! Good luck!

Sashee78 · Unread post by **Sashee78** » Tue Mar 20, 2012 1:30 pm

Joseph Magnuson wrote:Sashee78: I burn 3 candles a week, Mon-Wed-Fri on my honey jars and they are working great. Sometimes I will add another on for Sunday if I get the feeling I should. Lately there has been a lot of the "more is more powerful" type of thing. starsinthesky7 gave you great and very sound advice regarding this! Good luck!

Thanks for all the great advice.

rootworknewbie06 · Unread post by **rootworknewbie06** » Tue Mar 20, 2012 7:15 pm

Greetings everyone,

As my name suggests, I am a newbie to the world of rootwork and conjure. I have a question as it relates to the honey jar. I have a target that I would like to start a honey jar on and I creatively collected some of her hair for use as a personal concern by "helping her" with my trusty lint roller to remove the "lint" from her sweater

However, I was only able to pick up a couple of short hairs. Will this be enough to place into my honey jar or will I need to collect more of a sample to have the best impact?

Sashee78 · Unread post by **Sashee78** » Tue Mar 20, 2012 9:31 pm

I'd like to know if I can add reconciliation powder inside my honey jar besides my herbs and oils
I recently ordered my LM supplies haven't received them yet can't wait. Bit would love to have all info before so I know what to do.

Unread post by **starsinthesky7** » Tue Mar 20, 2012 10:41 pm

Yes you can. And you can put it on the candle that you burn on top.

Sashee78 · Unread post by **Sashee78** » Tue Mar 20, 2012 11:06 pm

Thanks for the info. Is there any other candles I can use in combination with my honey jar? like to fortify oh I also ordere my reconciliation candle from LM would that be enough?

Unread post by **starsinthesky7** » Tue Mar 20, 2012 11:17 pm

That's great!. It doesnt mattter on the length of the hair as long as you got the hair. Good luck!

Unread post by **starsinthesky7** » Wed Mar 21, 2012 12:43 am

I dont know your circumstances, but if this to reconcile with a lover then you may want to burn return to me candles or get some return to me oil and put it on the candles you burn for your honey jar.

www.luckymojo.com/products-return-to-me.html

rootworknewbie06 · Unread post by **rootworknewbie06** » Wed Mar 21, 2012 7:06 pm

Thanks for the insight, star!!!

nana664 · Unread post by **nana664** » Thu Mar 22, 2012 12:05 pm

I want to keep a jar or two in my desk at work. Haven't yet made up my mind on a shake jar or a honey jar. I have an obnoxious coworker who needs to go, and I want to sweeten my boss. So I need to think about which is more important to me. Anyway, I'm great at discreetly taking pictures with my phone so I have plenty.

Does the photo need to be a certain size, or can I make it super tiny so that if my jar is found, no one will know what I'm up to? Thank you.

Unread post by **starsinthesky7** » Thu Mar 22, 2012 7:56 pm

I think the size of the photo is a matter of preference. The size doesnt really matter as long as its a photo.

In terms of the a jar for the boss or co worker, I would do both. I would work the boss work one on a certain day or days, and the co worker one on certain days. Make sure you cleanse your space in between workings. All you need to do is get a small spray jar of ammonia, florida water, or chinese wash, and just act like your wiping down your desk. Do this so that one working doesnt influence the other.

izabella · Unread post by **izabella** » Fri Mar 23, 2012 10:01 am

I welcome::)
In such a way that my current situation looks we met after five months we forgave ourselves everything we talked... we are supposed then again to meet therefore I would like to ask honey whether in such a situation I can do the jar ravine... adding to it; root Elizabeth, anise, buds of roses, oranges, the catmint, the violet and buds gilead, magnolias the caraway, the tongue of the deer, the root ginger and seeds of the coriander, Damian's herb.... moreover I could add the liquorice root still to controlling and root calamus and bergamots.... my question refers mainly of whether doing the jar won't turn his emotions away that instead of me to love he will walk away.. whether the jar will sweeten firebrands our emotion and I know around it is from his side but he a bit is afraid..... is adding herbs of controlling a good idea?? is it needed?? very much I am requesting information in this matter.... I am greeting Izabella