Mojo1 Intro and help with Love
Posted: Sat Dec 08, 2018 3:57 am
Good morning,
Its been nearly 2 yrs since my other (male) has changed overnight mentally. There's a story behind it all but it resulted in
1. My job performance being negatively criticized and harshly disciplined and destroyed after i spent 5yrs working hard and being admired encouraged and recognized for my perfomance till i was bullied out of my job while i was pregnant. I couldn't take the company to court as my other is in the line of fire.
2. Everyone who helped, supported or looked out for me either forgot me or didnt care about anything with me overnight.
3. Lies lot of lies from honest people in my life.
4. The lost of my other person who DRASTICALLY changed overnight arguing, disagreeing, fighting, when we finally told the company we worked that I was pregnant, a few weeks later from being excited for our 1st baby he changed overnight AGAIN. The night before was I love you babe/baby and the next day was I want to break up. He would be physical with me but then tell me we are nothing, no frends, no relationship. THIS MAN TOLD ME SCREW OTHER PEOPLE WHEN I WAS PREGNANT! HE DID ME THE ABSOLUTE WORST!! He attacked me on everythong after that didnt care at all told me the worst did me the worst missed our child birth left us stranded all sorts AND EVEN WORST THINGS!!!
After spending so much cash trying to figure wth was happening and why noone else could see all the manipulation and unexplained....i was advised to light a reversible candle and a protector candle. By then i left my job and had my child, my other came, saw our child, became caring for our child, and made very little reconnection with me. He had no care, no feelings, no nothing for our history, our love, our friendship or relationship.
Around my birthday this year he spent time with me, played with our child often prior. He kept returning making mends after the candle was lit.
Then day after my birthday he changed again, harsh negative actions words against our child and me. That he dont want nothing with me and our child even put us out his vehicle and raised his hand at me while holding our child on the side of the busy road.
He stayed away and fought me not caring for our child at all. He stayed away for months, when he grumbles his way just to drop stuff my child would cry just by his presence till recently when i lit another reversible candle. Since i lit it, he's been back communicating and with his child and our child stopped crying with his presence. Still no affection no care no love no nothing for me at all, though im grateful he visits his child and they play at least.
We have so many obstacles otherwise, jealous flames we both worked with now im force to accept that he works with them and i left.
He has a toxic wife that he didnt care about at allllll even way before me now she's on a pedestal praised and recognised by him. He fears to do anything for us with us, he has us caged in our home restricting me. Its just lies and lies and manipulations and he just dont see it all.
He stopped talking to his own family, his mother who he told me numerously wrote letters accusing the wife of witchcraft, yet he is still there losing everyone thats for him.
I love him. I know he's influenced that none of the things i endured is truly him, i know him, we have been through so much before i even got with him to know how much we mean to each other. I have it all in writing, all the romantic gestures he did. The excitement when he heard our child heartbeat. THE MAN DOING ME ALL THE WORST IS NOT HIM, HE CHANGED DRASTICALLY WITH NO LOGIC NO REASON. Worst im convinced since he returned when i lit the reversing candle, twice!
But he seems lost for anything between us, empty so empty. Doing every bidding for a woman he blatantly proved meant nothing to him to both of our faces. She hates me i know that much.
I HAVE NO DOUBT A BREAKUP SPELL of every means was used on us because she opportunity as we all worked together, access to our personal belonging, she had every access to ruin my work life my being and my happiness my relationship. I'VE ALSO BEEN TOLD SHE TRIED TO HARM MY CHILD BY 2 PERSONS!!!
I did wrong because he's married but i have reasons to believe he got blessed with us for he have noone in a toxic situation, he himself still says HE IS NOT HAPPY.
I want my love back, i want whats meant for us. He needs to leave that toxic marriage.
WHY IS HE THERE????? WHAT CAN I DO???
Its been nearly 2 yrs since my other (male) has changed overnight mentally. There's a story behind it all but it resulted in
1. My job performance being negatively criticized and harshly disciplined and destroyed after i spent 5yrs working hard and being admired encouraged and recognized for my perfomance till i was bullied out of my job while i was pregnant. I couldn't take the company to court as my other is in the line of fire.
2. Everyone who helped, supported or looked out for me either forgot me or didnt care about anything with me overnight.
3. Lies lot of lies from honest people in my life.
4. The lost of my other person who DRASTICALLY changed overnight arguing, disagreeing, fighting, when we finally told the company we worked that I was pregnant, a few weeks later from being excited for our 1st baby he changed overnight AGAIN. The night before was I love you babe/baby and the next day was I want to break up. He would be physical with me but then tell me we are nothing, no frends, no relationship. THIS MAN TOLD ME SCREW OTHER PEOPLE WHEN I WAS PREGNANT! HE DID ME THE ABSOLUTE WORST!! He attacked me on everythong after that didnt care at all told me the worst did me the worst missed our child birth left us stranded all sorts AND EVEN WORST THINGS!!!
After spending so much cash trying to figure wth was happening and why noone else could see all the manipulation and unexplained....i was advised to light a reversible candle and a protector candle. By then i left my job and had my child, my other came, saw our child, became caring for our child, and made very little reconnection with me. He had no care, no feelings, no nothing for our history, our love, our friendship or relationship.
Around my birthday this year he spent time with me, played with our child often prior. He kept returning making mends after the candle was lit.
Then day after my birthday he changed again, harsh negative actions words against our child and me. That he dont want nothing with me and our child even put us out his vehicle and raised his hand at me while holding our child on the side of the busy road.
He stayed away and fought me not caring for our child at all. He stayed away for months, when he grumbles his way just to drop stuff my child would cry just by his presence till recently when i lit another reversible candle. Since i lit it, he's been back communicating and with his child and our child stopped crying with his presence. Still no affection no care no love no nothing for me at all, though im grateful he visits his child and they play at least.
We have so many obstacles otherwise, jealous flames we both worked with now im force to accept that he works with them and i left.
He has a toxic wife that he didnt care about at allllll even way before me now she's on a pedestal praised and recognised by him. He fears to do anything for us with us, he has us caged in our home restricting me. Its just lies and lies and manipulations and he just dont see it all.
He stopped talking to his own family, his mother who he told me numerously wrote letters accusing the wife of witchcraft, yet he is still there losing everyone thats for him.
I love him. I know he's influenced that none of the things i endured is truly him, i know him, we have been through so much before i even got with him to know how much we mean to each other. I have it all in writing, all the romantic gestures he did. The excitement when he heard our child heartbeat. THE MAN DOING ME ALL THE WORST IS NOT HIM, HE CHANGED DRASTICALLY WITH NO LOGIC NO REASON. Worst im convinced since he returned when i lit the reversing candle, twice!
But he seems lost for anything between us, empty so empty. Doing every bidding for a woman he blatantly proved meant nothing to him to both of our faces. She hates me i know that much.
I HAVE NO DOUBT A BREAKUP SPELL of every means was used on us because she opportunity as we all worked together, access to our personal belonging, she had every access to ruin my work life my being and my happiness my relationship. I'VE ALSO BEEN TOLD SHE TRIED TO HARM MY CHILD BY 2 PERSONS!!!
I did wrong because he's married but i have reasons to believe he got blessed with us for he have noone in a toxic situation, he himself still says HE IS NOT HAPPY.
I want my love back, i want whats meant for us. He needs to leave that toxic marriage.
WHY IS HE THERE????? WHAT CAN I DO???