Spells to Break or Cut Soul Ties to Ex-Lover, Difficult Family Member, or Ex-Friends

AprilStar · Unread post by **AprilStar** » Wed May 23, 2012 8:11 pm

Does anyone know the best way to get a family member out of your life? Is a cut and clear spell to drastic, especially if you still want some reationship with them? I dont want to hurt her, just want her to stop jinxing my life and break our co-dependency...

Unread post by **Miss Tammie Lee** » Wed May 23, 2012 9:19 pm

No to Cut and Clear.Have a reading with a Member of AIRR:
readersandrootworkers.org.
Or Please sign up for this week's radio Show:
radio-show-pre-call-id-may-27th,-2012-t19693.html
http://www.blogtalkradio.com/luckymojoh ... -in-format

I am having a small bit of a computer challenge today after a 12 hour day. The links that I normally post are not coming through. Just in case, Google AIRR, and the Lucky Mojo Hoodoo Rootwork Hour, May 27, 2012.

Thank you, Good night and Be Blessed!

Unread post by **Doctor Hob** » Wed May 23, 2012 10:35 pm

The forum sign up for this week's (27 May 2012) radio show:

radio-show-pre-call-id-may-27th,-2012-t19693.html

The Association of Independent Readers and Rootworkers:

http://readersandrootworkers.org

And one of my own; the Crystal Silence League. You can post a free prayer request, and others can pray for your situation:

http://crystalsilenceleague.org/public/prayer_type.php

AprilStar · Unread post by **AprilStar** » Thu May 24, 2012 12:06 am

Great! Thank you reading all of that...all for a simple answer

I am in the process of contacting a root worker and I appreciate the links, May 27th. I'll be ready!

jeter · Unread post by **jeter** » Wed May 30, 2012 7:24 pm

How to get rid of my cousin evil deeds. I think she is a very jealous person and is doing something to make people in my family go crazy. First it was my mother then, my older male cousin, my sister, her niece and now me. I can tell all of is is attractive and have it easy. I know she is jealous of me. I hear the voices but I know its a mind trick or her working with the paranormal. I have her picture she I freeze her

Unread post by **starsinthesky7** » Thu May 31, 2012 12:25 am

1. I would get a reading first to see what your cousin is doing.

2. I would get some uncrossing and fiery wall of protection for you and anyone else.

www.luckymojo.com/uncrossing.html
www.luckymojo.com/fierywall.html

3. Then you can do the freezer spell, and/or you can do a mirror box. Create a doll for her and bind the arms and legs. Then put it in the mirror box

www.luckymojo.com/uncrossing.html

Unread post by **aura** » Thu May 31, 2012 5:02 am

Hi jeter,

In your other forum thread: understanding-the-spirit-world-t19811.html , you also talk about ''the voices''. Miss Cat gave you some excellent advice about getting a medical evaluation and it would be apt to follow that preferably prior to or at least in tandem with any magickal work to at least make sure there is not a physical explanation for the what is occurring.

Best of luck to you and your family.

Sands · Unread post by **Sands** » Wed Jun 13, 2012 11:38 am

Next month I will be going abroad to the area where a close relative lives. I was originally going to stay in this person's apartment but he made an unsolicited comment to me over the Christmas holidays that I find unacceptable on many levels. The other close relatives all humor and cover for this person in part because this person has a serious heart condition. I believe that this person uses the heart condition to get away with things. He knows that he can say and do almost anything and everyone will back off and pretend that he didn't really do anything because they don't want to upset him and have something happen. I decided to simply distance myself from this very unkind, very ungrateful and very immature person and I have not spoken with him since December. He knows that he is not my favorite person these days. I know that he is the type of person who will try to talk to me because he gets uncomfortable when people beat him at his own game and ignore him entirely. I don't want any hostility between us but I do wish to be left alone for the three week period that I will be in his area.Although I will not be staying at his apartment any more, I do know that we will definitely cross paths due to non-preventable circumstances. I would like to know a gentle, but very effective spell or means of "work" which will get him to take my cue and basically leave me alone for the three-week period that I will be there. This person is extremely stubborn so I need something that works well. Any recommendations? Please be detailed. Thanks.

Unread post by **MissMichaele** » Wed Jun 13, 2012 3:12 pm

Work with Separation and Stop Gossip. Put the oils on your shoes - on the outside -- and track it everywhere you are likely to meet him.

If you'll be at a meal with other relatives, offer to make a salad with oil-and-vinegar dressing -- but be sure to use Four Thieves Vinegar! There are other edible protection recipes in the Hoodoo Foods booklet series.

If you change your mind and decide you do want the family to be horrified by his behavior and fuss and fight with him, try a simple moving candle spell -- one candle for your family and another for him; dress theirs with King Solomon Wisdom and his with Hot Foot or Run Devil Run.

Stop Gossip spells and supplies
http://www.luckymojo.com/stopgossip.html
Separation Products
http://www.luckymojo.com/products-separation.html
Cooking with Magical Herbs, Hoodoo Foods! Cookbook
cooking-with-magial-herbs,-hoodoo-foods ... t4443.html
Hot Foot spells and supplies
http://www.luckymojo.com/hotfoot.html
Run Devil Run Spiritual Supplies
http://www.luckymojo.com/products-run-devil-run.html

Hope this helps,

Miss Michaele

Sands · Unread post by **Sands** » Wed Jun 13, 2012 3:25 pm

Thank you very much Miss Michaele. I appreciate your advice.

Sashee78 · Unread post by **Sashee78** » Fri Jul 06, 2012 7:21 pm

Hi everyone
I need help getting rid of a relative who is causing problems for my family in my home. I wish I could ask this person to leave but not that easy. Anyways I've been putting hotfoot powder around the house but today I was able to get a hair strand please tell me why is the best way I can make use of this to get this person out?

Unread post by **JayDee** » Fri Jul 06, 2012 7:33 pm

Id becareful putting that stuff anywhere! id place it directly in their shoes while praying over them then turn them towards the door. Id also wait and get their footprint in some dirt, collect it, mix it with the powder then starting on the curb by your home drop a pinch at every crossroad leading out of town.. his hair id either mix with it and stop it in a bottle and throw it in a flowing river or mail it to another country ..hope that helps.

Sashee78 · Unread post by **Sashee78** » Fri Jul 06, 2012 10:46 pm

I don't place it all over house just were the person sits all the time on walk way to bedroom.
Thank you for the suggestions on mailing it out of town. Should I add a petition paper?

Unread post by **Lord SP** » Sat Jul 07, 2012 8:56 am

Add the petition paper then burn it add it to the Hot Foot Mix and then sprinkle it in his shoes while saying your prayer a variation for you hope that helps.....

Sashee78 · Unread post by **Sashee78** » Sat Jul 07, 2012 10:45 am

Thank you but unfortunately can't get a hold of shoes the person always wearing sandals. Plus the bedroom is always locked unable to get a hold of other shoes.

Unread post by **Lord SP** » Sat Jul 07, 2012 11:22 am

That's no problem you can always lay the trick in front of the door where they'll walk or and even sneakier trick is to dress the doors or whatever their going to touch with hot foot oil. Hope this helps

Carolina Dove · Unread post by **Carolina Dove** » Sat Aug 04, 2012 3:55 am

Hello all, I need advice. I am not as helpless as I feel, and it's time to get to work. I just don't know where to start. Here's the "short story"

My estranged father bullied my uncle to the point of this taking his own life. He beat him, he verbally assaulted him, because of delusional reasons. (Money that didn't even exist) Being next of kin, my father and his uncle got the privilege to make arrangements, even though I offered. They didn't even have a service, just cremated him and went on about their business.

Now its likely probate will award the house, with every childhood photo and memory in it, to my father. He does not deserve a home he killed for, and my grandmother was adamant he didn't have it in her will. (She is still alive, but has Alzheimers and is in a long term care facility)

I want retribution for my uncle, justice for the sins done against him. I want my father and the other "family"and to suffer just as he suffered, I want the house to sit there empty, or be awarded to me, as I'm the only one left who will treasure the contents. It isn't a fancy house, not a lot of land, and certainly nothing of monetary worth inside, but there are memories, and they are memories the swine know nothing of.

I have photos of the individuals, full names, and access to their yards.
I do not have personal concerns, or access to their personal concerns.
I do not know specifics of the hearing, such as a probate judge name.

My attorney is looking into the possibility of me pressing charges on behalf of the deceased, but I need to do something in the meantime.

Thank you in advance, this is a very difficult time for me. It's been a week today, and I have yet to do any sort of healing work for myself. I think I should be carrying the burden of this guilt for my inaction, and rage against those ultimately responsible, as penance for doing something before it was too late. I would have had I known.

Unread post by **Mary Bee** » Mon Aug 06, 2012 3:59 am

Hi there,
I'm so sorry this happened to you. Here is what I would recommend:
1. Do you have access to your uncles' grave? If so, go there and buy a small amount of his grave dirt. Take it home and put it in a nice container or bowl. Set out a cleaR glass of water and light a white candle for him and say prayers for him: if you have other deceased family members put out their pictures too. Ask everyone to bring justice against the people who hut your uncle. Keep talking to them at least once a week.

2. If you have access to the house that you want (the one that's in probate) get some railroad spikes,4 of them. Go to each corner of the property and drive a railroad spike into the ground, commanding that the house is for you alone and asking for justice. If you can, pour a bit of your urine on top of the spike after you nail it in, that mrks it for you.

3. Get a Court Case honey jar and start working it for all those involved in deciding the case. If you dont havejudge names just write " the judge who decides my uncles case"

4. Get some Reversing or Crossing sachet powder,mix it with local dirt and sprinkle it at the evil relatives homes, prayingthat all the evil they've done is reversed back to them and messes up their lives. Make sure you cleanse yourself afterwards with a bath of Hyssop tea and reciting the 51st psalm.

Good luck and keep us posted,
Mary Bee

Carolina Dove · Unread post by **Carolina Dove** » Mon Aug 06, 2012 12:40 pm

Thank you so very much, I can't tell you how grateful I am.
There is no grave, unfortunately they made the decision to bury his ashes with my grandmother when she passes. I have spoken with him frequently through this past week though, and I also wrote a letter to him that I taped to a white vigil light and lit on the doorstep of the house.
I also found out that there's only one probate judge for the area, and will be doing a honey jar per your recommendation.
I've never done crossing work before, but if any situation ever warranted it, it's this one. That said, would it be recommended to bathe before I came home, or at least came back into my house? The last thing I want is to bring icky things home to my little ones.

Unread post by **Mary Bee** » Sun Aug 12, 2012 5:33 pm

I would bathe after you came in the home. After you bathe, you can wash down the house with a bit of your used bathwater in a bucket of scrub water, to remove any lingering nasty stuff.

Good luck,
Mary Bee

Carolina Dove · Unread post by **Carolina Dove** » Wed Aug 22, 2012 6:07 am

Anyone following, here's an update on the aforementioned situation.

Bully (my estranged father) has durable power of attorney now, which had been my uncle's. Access to my grandmother's finances, property, and supervision of her medical care (which I am actually overseeing). Having it revoked would cost more money than I care to think about, and is totally out of the question.

Uncle seems to no longer be present since I started overseeing my grandmother's care. No dimes, no physical events, no other phenomena that was regularly
occurring. His alter has been set up with his first bible, a photo, a bowl of water scented with kananga, a lily from the memorial I had for him, and a vigil light.

I've pulled the records for the deed to the property, and with my uncle deceased, the ownership reverts back to my grandmother until her death. Since she is in a home, I feel it's very likely it now has a lien on it, therefore it will be unavailable to my father as he can't pay that off. This is a good thing, in my opinion.

I've also received...divine inspiration, if you will, to write and publish the whole story. So far it's been enormously therapeutic. I haven't done any crossing work aside from a vinegar jar, though I do plan to. I felt it better to do so with a clear mind leading the way rather than following a heart full of vengeance.

Thank you again Mary Bee for your advice. I read the forum often, and have for some time, this is really the first I've ever needed to post directly. It was more help than you realize knowing someone I've never even met cared enough to help.

KittyLove · Unread post by **KittyLove** » Tue Sep 04, 2012 3:30 am

I need my inlaws to move out of their home of 40 years. They are not exactly attached to the house, their son, who is my on and off lover is. It has come to my attention that since becoming involved with him over the last 6 years, their house has been draining my fortune (which isn't much) and causing on-going conflict with my lover, with whom I have a child. I believe this house possesses baleful influence. I believe this as I have listened to the stories and activities of my lover that have taken place over the years and they align with what is considered by a dictionary to be baleful. The environment, plants do not grow well there, they have a cat that has been an indoor cat all it's life but looks like it has been in many fights and lives in the wild when it doesn't. The cat itself is not friendly. The father of the house, has a funny looking lower left leg. Bright red with many blood vessels and it looks bruised and has looked like this for as long as I have known him. The mother is often sick. My lover's left foot peels and has strange bumps in the centre, it has been like this for the entire time I've known him. Now my left leg has veins raising in it. I am confident that this has to do with their house.

I have found that when my lover aligns with this house, he becomes excessively greedy and difficult. We reconciled back in February after a split of 8 months last year. I believe this was only possible with the help of St. Expedite, I called him to bring this man to me so I could see if this situation could be sorted out. Directly following major renovations were made to the inlaws house which I believe allowed me the opportunity to realign my lover's energy with me. I had been "collecting" his energy which was him beginning to leave things at my house when he returned every other week from a week of work in the west. I did a lot of healing working on him, had him in baths and was shifting his mind until I blew up my honey jar (I am still working one, yes it's working) or his mother re-arranged the renovated room. Recently, I had some issues with my mortgage and opened a dialogue with him to help me, but he would not help me until I called on St. Expedite. He would still say things like he would help to provide a roof over my 17 year old daughter and youngest son's head but not mine. He's just sometimes nasty. He will be kind to everyone but me, I know what you are all thinking...

I have posted in the the reconciliation forum for working on him. But I have determined that it's going to be a waste of time as long as his family possesses their house and once it passes to the next generation, my son will be afflicted the same way his father has been his whole life.

I have told them all point blank that I can't go to their house, I believe it's bad luck and that I don't want my son their either. Of course I am looked at as crazy, but you would think after all the years of headaches between their house and mine they would start to believe me.

I have read with miss cat, conjure man and Miss Michaele on matters relating to whether or not I should bother with my lover. I got a no way, and two maybes with some spell work to do for issues involving our relationship directly and i have been doing the work. I have not read with a professional about this house yet. But I have divined myself lately with a pendulum and a few card readings about the house. The advice is that it is maligned.

How do I get them out? I have made prayer requests at CSL. I had a hot foot burned at the Missionary Independent Spiritual Church in February before we reconciled and the candle report suggested that I burn a road opener. Which I did and the father was asking the son if he would buy the house. Something he has only ever asked but once in the past. I am considering having three hot foots with road openers set and a walk over to the place to throw some powder in the yard. I know it seems aggressive and cold, but I am just looking out for mine and my son's best interests. I feel that I would be doing these folks a favour as the place is making them all sick and they just don't know it.

Sands · Unread post by **Sands** » Tue Sep 04, 2012 10:14 am

Seven and a half years ago I ended a close friendship which had turned toxic on many levels for me, not for the friend.

Over the years I have dreamt of her off and on and I have been told by people who know her and also by readers, that she has not accepted the end of the friendship. A few days ago, she and her husband (whom I don't know personally) came to me in a dream and when I woke up, I knew that she was still obsessing over the friendship.

I want this woman to move on completely with her life, and in so doing, stop trying to find out what's going on in my life and most importantly, stop coming to me on a spiritual level. I would therefore like to know what products I can use, and in what types of spells, to get accomplish this.

Right now I am burning a Cut and Clear candle at home and it seems to be burning well for now.

I should add that this is a woman who is well versed in Afro-Cuban magic and has not hesitated to use it against me very effectively, so she likely has "protection" or "guards" of some kind.

Edwardyule · Unread post by **Edwardyule** » Tue Sep 04, 2012 2:22 pm

I think your on the right track with the Cut and Clear candle.

If you dont see movement after the candle is finished, i would suggest doing the full deal with the black walnut spell and full cut and clear spell

http://www.luckymojo.com/cutandclear.html

I would back this up with some fiery wall of protection work

http://www.luckymojo.com/fierywall.html

And because this woman is versed in Santeria, if she continues to work against you, a mirror box might be suggested

http://www.luckymojo.com/reversing.html

And as always, I suggest a reading from a reputable rootworker. They will be able to give you a much clearer idea of the situation and more detailed rootwork

http://www.readersandrootworkers.org/

Unread post by **MissMichaele** » Tue Sep 04, 2012 11:48 pm

Unless the inlaws themselves are nasty people who are trying to break up your relationship with their son, I wouldn't hotfoot them; I'd do some lodestone work to attract them irresistibly to a better house. Put some King Solomon Wisdom in it so they can see how sick and unhappy their house is making them (for all anyone knows, there could be asbestos, carcinogens, pollutants or allergens -- in addition to whatever vibes are bringing nastiness and bad luck.

Hope this helps,

Miss Michaele

Unread post by **MissMichaele** » Wed Sep 05, 2012 9:13 am

One thing you can do is build a "bad luck decoy" doll baby on your self to take any hits for you. Keep it near you, but not on your person, and feed it regularly -- some folks recommend once a year; possibly no more than every few months.

Good luck and good magic,

Miss Michaele

KittyLove · Unread post by **KittyLove** » Tue Sep 18, 2012 3:03 pm

Omigosh! MissMichaele thank you very much! I like this idea a lot! I will look into loadstones on the forum.

Honestly, I can't say that I have feelings for them. Typically I love older folks and they love me- they come to me like magnets sometimes. But not these two. We've been through quite enough challenges together where we come together and fall apart. A relationship with the inlaws means so much to my beau. I really wish I felt differently about them, somehow they just don't endear me. Maybe once they move, I'll change my mind.

KittyLove · Unread post by **KittyLove** » Wed Sep 19, 2012 8:18 am

I have looked at the info on the forum about loadstones. Is it possible for someone to give a process in which to get started on working with them? The majority of the posts in the loadstone forum seemed to be focused on love and money.

I went by the inlaw's place today and they are re-paving their driveway or having cobblestones set in it.

I have a matched pair of large green stones still in the package and a couple of small ones that are black that I got from a local shop. The girl at the shop matched them for me. I have the book Magical uses for Magnets that I ordered from LM and I have been reading miss cat's page on loadstones. I will need to order the King Solomon's Wisdom. I do have whiskey, florida water and hoyt's cologne for cleaning and baptizing. I do have magnetic sand that has been sitting on my altar waiting to go to work. Just not sure how I might speak to them to give them their purpose. I know I need a plate and they are to be kept out of sight while I work with them. When this work is complete, I intend to bury them. I am happy to bury them in their front yard if that's necessary.

What might I say in the petition? Since it's a petition for someone else. Should I get a picture of another home to direct the loadstone? Are there other materials that I will need? How long should I work this?

Until I get the King Solomon's Wisdom oil could I use another oil? I have LM fast luck and LM influence oil. I also have LM Master powder. Will any of that do or should I just wait till I receive the new oil?

Thank you in advance for your help, I very much appreciate it!

Sands · Unread post by **Sands** » Thu Sep 20, 2012 10:01 am

I have some relatives that I'd be quite happy to never see again. My energy does not resonate well with them at all, and they won't take the hint. More and more they are turning up wherever we go to socialize, etc. This summer, they learned of our plans ( which we had made more than a year prior) to visit a foreign country and as soon as they learned of that, they decided to invite themselves and stay where some of us were staying. Even though they were told that there was no space for them and that they needed to find their own space, they pushed right in and stayed there. This weekend, we went on an annual trip that we've been going on for at least ten years and there they were again!
I don't know what the clinginess is about but I'm tired of them popping up every time I let my hair down. I don't even really speak to these people, but that doesn't stop them. It may make them more determined, I think. Whatever their issues are, the fact is that I need to know what products to use and how to use them, without harming anyone, so that they will go away and stay away-preferably for life. I'd appreciate any help that I can get. Thanks in advance.

P.S. In case anyone is wondering, they aren't exactly the nicest of people. They aren't the worst, but they aren't too "sweet" either.

Unread post by **jwmcclin** » Sat Sep 22, 2012 12:45 pm

You can use either separation products or hot foot them, I have linked both spells below.

Separation Spiritual Spell (http://www.luckymojo.com/separation.html)
Hot Foot Spiritual Spell (http://www.luckymojo.com/spell-hot-foot.html)

vlo61385 · Unread post by **vlo61385** » Mon Sep 24, 2012 7:31 pm

my girlfriends parents are moving out of country but my girlfriend and I want them out now. in hoodoo herb and root magic book I seen on page 86 to drive people out of their home. I was wondering if this is a good way since my girlfriend lives with them and wants to move with me. Also dauber dirt I could not find but I found a dauber nest is that okay.

Unread post by **Joseph Magnuson** » Wed Sep 26, 2012 9:51 am

I would suggest a Hot Footing Spell Kit, rather than that particular trick on page 86 of Miss cat's Hoodoo Herb and Root Magic book.

Hot Foot Product Line: http://www.luckymojo.com/products-hot-foot.html

vlo61385 · Unread post by **vlo61385** » Wed Sep 26, 2012 11:46 am

Thank you Joseph but one question this won't keep them out of our lives right? I want them to at least come visit us still not get them out of our lives.

Unread post by **jwmcclin** » Wed Sep 26, 2012 6:40 pm

I really do not think you want people around you who have been hot footed its powerful stuff. You may want something else...

plex wendy · Unread post by **plex wendy** » Thu Sep 27, 2012 5:32 am

I want to use Cut and Clear to cut emotional ties I have with my mum and brothers because they hurt my feelings a lot, but I don't want to cut them completely out of my life!
I just want to stop thinking of them all the time and be able to live my life without them controlling it! Would Cut and Clear help?

Psychic Mimi · Unread post by **Psychic Mimi** » Thu Sep 27, 2012 5:39 am

No, do not use cut and clear if you are not seeking to break all ties with these relatives. Peaceful home and blessing products are more suited to what you are describing.

Unread post by **Mama Micki** » Thu Sep 27, 2012 7:08 am

Cut and Clear breaks emotional ties. You can still have contact with the person if necessary. For example, if a woman wanted to remove the hurt feelings caused by her ex, but still needed to maintain contact with him because of the children, Cut and Clear would work.

In your case, I would recommend a 13-herb bath to cleanse yourself from all negativity from both inside and outside yourself first, then some Stop Gossip to shut them up. If you can have less contact with them, that would help.

You may also consider Power oil to increase your personal power and self-esteem:

power-oil-questions-and-answers-t12777.html

Psychic Mimi · Unread post by **Psychic Mimi** » Thu Sep 27, 2012 1:30 pm

As many times as I have gone through the catalog, I didn't notice the Power oil. Now I must go get some to try out on my own asap!

Mama Micki, I have a question for my own learning purposes. When I first read the original post, I was working under the impression the poster was young and possibly still living with these relatives. Would cut and clear still be okay under those conditions? I've always thought of it as so harsh and final.

Unread post by **Turnsteel** » Thu Sep 27, 2012 1:46 pm

vlo61385

If you want to keep seeing them I would suggest something like Banishing products rather than Hot-Foot. Hot-Foot is after all, a curse, a pretty mean one too.

Unread post by **Mama Micki** » Thu Sep 27, 2012 2:02 pm

Mimi, you are probably thinking of the black walnut bath, which gets someone out of your life permanently. Cut and Clear just cuts emotional ties. I don't recommend it for desiree; she probably is young and sensitive, and unless her relatives are abusive, she shouldn't cut even emotional ties. She needs to toughen up and not let her mom and brothers get to her.

Fixerkitty · Unread post by **Fixerkitty** » Thu Sep 27, 2012 6:44 pm

I wonder if Separation products may fit your needs better. They make people go away, but slowly and often with no hard feelings. The tone of your post seems to suggest that's what you're looking for here.

Burning bridges, like with Hot Foot, is not necessarily a bad thing. BUT--Why curse them when they might be useful sometime in the future? Call me cynical, and I am, but you don't know if and when you're going to want or need these people around. Best to not curse them to wander.

plex wendy · Unread post by **plex wendy** » Mon Oct 01, 2012 12:15 am

thank you for your answers,
mama micki I wanted as well to apologise for my spelling, but English is not my first language...
Thank you for you help...

Unread post by **Mama Micki** » Mon Oct 01, 2012 12:21 am

No apology necessary. People on the Lucky Mojo Forum come from all backgrounds. We moderators edit posts to make them easier to read; your post might help someone with the same problem.

emdeluxe · Unread post by **emdeluxe** » Sat Oct 06, 2012 6:43 am

Happy Saturday eveyone! Can anyone suggest some work to make someone not want to live with you? My husband's daughter is likely going to ask to move in along with her son. My husband is cool with the idea; I am not. However, saying no would cause a lot of bad feelings throughout the entire family. Ideally I'd love to seem them live close by where we can spend a lot of time with them-I just don't want them living in our house. Any help is appreciated. Thanks!

Unread post by **Mama Micki** » Sat Oct 06, 2012 7:43 am

Do some money and job work for the daughter so she can afford to get her own place. Money Drawing, Money Stay with Me, Wealthy Way, and Steady Work, possibly Crown of Success.

KittyLove · Unread post by **KittyLove** » Sun Oct 07, 2012 12:58 pm

Hi

I have a friend who I have been giving shelter to for the last 8 weeks. I had previously directed her to move in with a neighbour who had been look for extra income in April of 2011. She was formerly my boss to live with her and keep her company. Help two people out at once- so I thought. The neighbour sold her house this past August and moved away. I allowed her to stay with me under the premise that she would not be staying longer than a month. She is working, but is a spend thrift and likes her drink. I have spoke to her trying to encourage her to work harder in finding a new place to live. I have imposed that she must leave my house at a certain time of the morning and not return until the children return from school because she is hindering my prayer time that I need to focus, gain clarity and protect my home and family. I am also trying to work a honey jar for my personal relationship with my estranged partner. I feel her presence here is hindering my spiritual work, whether it be a spell or just prayers not to mention my attitude.Still she lingers. The concept of clean behooves this woman.

Do you have any suggestions? Even my former neighbour had trouble getting her to go. I do not wish to hurt her. I do care about this woman, her heart is in the right place but not her head! She really needs to go.

Any suggestions are welcomed and your help is much appreciated.

Unread post by **jwmcclin** » Sun Oct 07, 2012 6:47 pm

Get some ideas from this post (want-my-sister-and-her-fiance-to-move-o ... 16667.html) Since you do not want to cause harm...consider the Banishing conjure.

KittyLove · Unread post by **KittyLove** » Mon Oct 08, 2012 5:50 am

Thank you very much, jwmcclin. Your reply is very much appreciated.

A few questions.

1. Do I need to take a cleansing bath after I deploy this any of this?

2. Thinking of washing the concrete floor in the basement where she stays, can I push the wash down the drain? or does it need to go out the door?

3. Isn't banishing like a curse? We would have potential to be working together again in the future, when she is doing better. Which is why I wouldn't want to harm her.

Thank you.

Unread post by **Mama Micki** » Mon Oct 08, 2012 6:27 am

You could work with Power, Commanding, Do As I Say, and/or Compelling products to get her to listen to you and do as you ask. If necessary, use Essence of Bendover.

KittyLove · Unread post by **KittyLove** » Mon Oct 08, 2012 7:17 am

Thank you Mama Micki! I have just ordered bath crystals for Essence of Bend over, Compelling and Commanding. I want to wash her floor and spike her products. I live in a two story house with hardwood. Do you recommend washing the main areas that she walks on? Or just the area she sleeps in? I've been keeping a bowl of water with Florida water in it under her bed and opening her window to push her negativity out, occasionally I cense the space when she leaves.

Most grateful for your help!

Unread post by **Mama Micki** » Mon Oct 08, 2012 10:06 am

You can use the products anywhere she steps or touches. Wash the floor, her bedding, the walls, and anything else she might have contact with.

Unread post by **Oshundina5** » Sat Oct 13, 2012 6:41 am

I was with my ex for 16 yrs. We have 3 kids together. And we have been separated for 6 years - thank God! My ex has a gf and I am single. My parents and my brother are always in his business like they met his new gf and try to incorporate him in the holidays that are soon approaching. I try to be civil. I cried to my parents last year and explained it makes me very uncomfortable the connection they have with him they don't have with me. My ex has done a lot of things to me. They don't even know the half of it. For example I have a finger permanently deformed because of his abuse. We were together for 16 yrs; I was faithful and I found out when I gave birth to my last child that he impregnated a former coworker and takes no responsibility for it. My parents' attitude is forgive and move on because they have known him for so long. I just want my ex and my family to distant themselves from each other. It puts a strain on my relationship with my family. I want his new girlfriend to distant herself from my family and my kids. I have honey jar for peaceful family. What else can I do? I am super stressed over this as holidays are approaching.

Unread post by **Mama Micki** » Sat Oct 13, 2012 6:44 am

Do Separation work to get your ex and your parents to go their separate ways. Breakup is too harsh. You might also try King Solomon Wisdom and Clarity for your parents to see the truth of the situation.

Unread post by **Oshundina5** » Sat Oct 13, 2012 10:18 pm

Thanks Mama Micki,
Should I request a candle at the LM altar? Or do you recommend something else?

Unread post by **Mama Micki** » Sun Oct 14, 2012 10:58 am

You can order candles to burn at the Missionary Independent Spiritual Church (MISC) if you are unable to burn candles at home. You can sprinkle Separation powder where your parents and ex will step.

Unread post by **Oshundina5** » Sun Oct 14, 2012 12:36 pm

When I sprinkle separation powder should i recite anything. I would have to put it in front of there door of home.Is that ok?

Unread post by **MissMichaele** » Mon Oct 15, 2012 9:14 am

Just speak from your heart and state your desire, making sure to "quote in" (include the name) of your ex.

Hope this helps,

Miss Michaele

Unread post by **Oshundina5** » Mon Oct 15, 2012 10:26 am

Thank you {{{HUGS}}}

AnthonyMansker · Unread post by **AnthonyMansker** » Tue Nov 13, 2012 5:55 pm

The current situation:

My younger brother is 30 yrs old and a former drug addict. He has a girlfriend and two children, My nephew is 5 years old and autistic, my niece is 9 months old, and his girlfriend just turned 21. They are now all living with my parents in their small home. The reason behind them moving in with my parents is because my parents live in a school district which allows my autistic nephew to attend school at one of the top 5 schools in the nation for autism early intervention.

Here is the issue: My mother's health has recently been called into question. Last month she narrowly averted a heart attack and was sent into emergency triple bypass surgery. My mother, although a 40 year smoker, had never been sick a day in her life. The timing is FAR too poignant to be ignored. I immediately flew home from New York City to Los Angeles for the surgery at which time got a full glimpse into the insanity of my parents small home, supporting four adults and two children.

It is a stressful and chaotic environment to say the least. My brother, a stubborn and intense leo, has always been self absorbed and unaware of the effect he has on the world around him, unable to clean up after himself, and has mooched off my parents for years. His girlfriend has her first baby in high school, and is immature and confused as to who she is.
It is also worth mentioning that it was my mother's idea to have them move in. She can be quite controlling, especially since my nephew was diagnosed with autism, she took front seat in seeing that he was appropriately cared for. But at what cost?? I suppose that if my brother and his girlfriend were more respectful of my parents house and did not behave like such spoiled brats while they are being almost completely supported by my parents, I would feel differently.

I am a bit stuck on how to proceed in helping this situation move forward. I have been considering starting with Crucible of Courage work for my mom to increase her ability to stand up for herself and her home and space. I have also thought about hot footing my brother and his family out of that house, however I have my nephew to think about in this as well. Maybe a honey jar or peaceful home work to sweeten up the atmosphere in that home. I have also thought about petitioning St. Jude. Most importantly, I want the best possible outcome for my brother and his family, and for my mother and father and their home and health.

Any thoughts or suggestions would be fantastic, as I am hesitant to proceed without a clear plan of action. Thanks so much in advance. MANY BLESSINGS!

Unread post by **Mama Micki** » Wed Nov 14, 2012 8:49 am

Does your brother have a job, and if so, could they get a place in the same school district? Lighting Peaceful Home and Money House Blessing candles would be helpful.

If your brother is just hanging around the house leaving a mess, he needs to shape up and starting acting like a man, not a little boy. You can use a skull or male figural candle dressed with Compelling oil, telling him to "Get A Job and Grow up!" When he actually makes an effort, help him with Steady Work.

The girlfriend needs to look into job training and education, although she could wait until the baby is a little older to actually start.