Love Spell with Alcoholic Addict Angry Argumentative or Abusive Person

MsHooDooPrincess · Unread post by **MsHooDooPrincess** » Tue Aug 16, 2011 9:49 am

Thanks you guys, I will follow your advice

MsHooDooPrincess · Unread post by **MsHooDooPrincess** » Tue Aug 16, 2011 9:52 am

I ordered the Adam and Eve candle,The House Blessing Bath Crystals,Chinese Wash,Peace water,and a Blue peace Candle Fixed last night, I will also for the other suggestions from you all.

beautiful · Unread post by **beautiful** » Mon Sep 05, 2011 6:43 am

I have a friend that have allowed her boyfriend to live with her at her parents house together for the last 1o years. She feels like life with him is dull. He abuses her sometimes, yet she loves him and doesn't want to breakup because she cares too much about his feelings.

Another issue she brought up is she's getting to know this other guy online in secret and they have been having a really good connection and plans to get marry early next year. The thing is they have never met. The internet guy is willing to come and visit her to get to know her and he will make the trip later this year.

She wants me to cast a spell to have her current abusive boyfriend who is living with her and her parents to get out of town.

Is there a spell in this case to have her boyfriend go out of town so that the other guy she is trying to get to know can come visit?

Unread post by **Devi Spring** » Mon Sep 05, 2011 7:38 am

beautiful,

This situation is way complicated. There is no easy fix. I mean the easiest thing for this particular circumstance would be for HER to find a reason to leave the house, and to meet the new guy somewhere else.

However, your friend needs to get out of the relationship with the current boyfriend for numerous reasons, not the least of which is that he's abusive. She needs to accomplish that before trying to start up another relationship. Separation and Banishing products can be used to help accomplish that.

And since it sounds like she's dealing many many aspects of battered woman's syndrome, there's going to be a great deal of healing needed and self-esteem bolstering to get her to get out of the current relationship. Healing and Crucible of Courage and Cast OFf Evil products can be used for that.

Not to mention that I'm assuming she's an adult who is still living at her parent's house, showing that she also has issues with independence (mental and perhaps financial as well) that need to be addressed. Prosperity/Money-Drawing and Money Stay With Me products for greater financial freedom, John the Conqueror and Master products for personal stability and mastery.

Without dealing with all these elements, she's just going to jump into another unhealthily entwined relationship. I mean leaving an abusive relationship of 10 years, and moving towards marrying someone that she's never even met yet? That just screams bad news.

I would try to get her to see the bigger picture. Her happiness in the long-term is going to rely on her taking much more control over her life, loving herself more...and that is the work that needs to be done here. Help her find the courage to kick this jerk out of her home and take her life back, and learn who she is as a independent and strong woman.

Get her to take some time with this new relationship and give it a chance to develop and see where it's going. Marriage is no joke. It's not easy - it's extremely hard work (rewarding, but make no mistake about the work involved). And it's not an escape. Her problems will follow her, a marriage will not cure it.

Unread post by **ConjureMan** » Mon Sep 05, 2011 2:33 pm

beautiful,

The most powerful magic I know in this situation is the TRUTH.

If she's still with her abusive boyfriend while she's making marriage plans with another (who she hasn't even seen yet) then she is messing with people's lives.

It doesn't matter how bad the abusive boyfriend is, she shouldn't play him. She needs to tell the current boyfriend that things are not going well and he needs to move on--it is her parents house anyway.

Then she has the freedom to do what she wants. Why make the situation far more complicated than it needs to be.

The fact that she's in this situation indicates to me that the only magical work that she needs is Clarity for herself.

beautiful · Unread post by **beautiful** » Mon Sep 05, 2011 9:16 pm

Yes I agree with both of you. She drives me insane. I told her that I can't help her with this because it's just really selfish.

MsHooDooPrincess · Unread post by **MsHooDooPrincess** » Wed Nov 02, 2011 8:28 am

1. My relationship with my fiance is beautiful one minute and ugly the next minute.

He has an alcohol addiction and acts like a complete jerk to me when he drinks, and mainly other people and evil has been the cause of our relationship to have problems.

Every other week he packs clothes and leave when he drinks...then come back later.

Stress, pain, hurt...Our relationship is suffering.

What products to buy...

2. I want to start back studying for my insurance license and pass the exam,after trying several times and failed.

What products to buy...

3. Do to family drama and relationship problems I have suffered with stress,weight loss from 150 to 135 ,hair shedding,health problems,and unhappy.

What products to buy...

4.Enamies: Theres people like my fiance's ex wife,family,his family,and other people doing things to break me and him up,and has gotten evil work done to me and him. These people are evil, they lie,spread rumors,and do evrything they can to try and bring me down. I need to put a stop to these people and get revenge...

What products to buy for enamies...I was thinking of buying a dozen of 6' black candles,oils such as crossed,destruction,reverse,hot foot...carved their names into the candles the ones I know,and in another candle just carve "my enamies" since I don't know all their names,and dress the candles with these oils,with a letter of what I want under the candle...

Also after doing this type of work ,what do I need to do for myself,dispose the leftovers,and do I need to wear gloves to dress these black candles with these revenge oils?

5. I need some clensing products, to cleanse myself,him,and remove evil

What products to buy...

Unread post by **Dr Johannes** » Wed Nov 02, 2011 9:13 am

MsHooDooPrincess wrote:
1.My relationship with my fiance is beautiful one minute and ugly the next minute, I have threads here on the situation...he has an alcohol addiction and acts like a complete jerk to me when he drinks,and mainly other people and evil has been the cause of our relationship to have problems.Every other week he packs clothes and leave when he drinks...then come back later.Stress,pain,hurt...Our relationship is suffering.

What products to buy...

I would use:
Cast off Evil - to help him throw off that nasty habit of alcoholism.
Chinese Wash & Buffalo Ammonia - to cleanse the place from bad thoughts & emotions after each drunken fight.
Peaceful Home & Peace Water - to strengthen peace & calmness in the home after each drunken fight.
I would also consider binding him using a doll, so that no hurtful words or actions would come out of him when he is drunk.

2.I want to start back studying for my insurance license and pass the exam,after trying several times and failed.

What products to buy...

I would try:
Jinx Killer - failing often leads to self jinxing, so having such removed would be a good start. Baths & self dressing with the Oil.
then follow up with King Solomon Wisdom products & a John The Conqueror Mojo bag - to help study and conquer the test. I may even try some Road Opening products or Van-Van to open up if the heavy block still remained after Jinx Killer.

3. Do to family drama and relationship problems I have suffered with stress,weight loss from 150 to 135 ,hair shedding,health problems,and unhappy.

What products to buy...

That would be a nice old 13 day Herbal bath. Perhaps add some extra Hyssop to it. Then dress with Blessing Products and putting up some nice Protections around myself and the house. Not Fiery Wall of Protection, something less aggressive like the regular Protection products and some added Bay Leafs in each corner of each room in the house.

4.Enamies: Theres people like my fiance's ex wife,family,his family,and other people doing things to break me and him up,and has gotten evil work done to me and him. These people are evil, they lie,spread rumors,and do evrything they can to try and bring me down. I need to put a stop to these people and get revenge...

What products to buy for enamies...I was thinking of buying a dozen of 6' black candles,oils such as crossed,destruction,reverse,hot foot...carved their names into the candles the ones I know,and in another candle just carve "my enamies" since I don't know all their names,and dress the candles with these oils,with a letter of what I want under the candle...
Also after doing this type of work ,what do I need to do for myself,dispose the leftovers,and do I need to wear gloves to dress these black candles with these revenge oils?

This is a question that would require a reading, since it regards your specific enemies and not general ones. Otherwise the answer would be to start with Stop Gossip products and Protection, focus on good things for yourself and forgetting about the rest unless you are interested in a war. Wars take time. They may emotionally rewarding as long as they go on, but once you have won (or lost) there is nothing more to be gained.
Of course you can use a little Confusion Products on them to make them doubt that any of their work will affect you once in a while just to add some positive respect towards you. Harming them will get you negative respect and that is only good when the enemies are not relatives.

5. I need some clensing products, to cleanse myself,him,and remove evil

What products to buy...

See answers under question 1, 2 and 3.

Good Luck!

MsHooDooPrincess · Unread post by **MsHooDooPrincess** » Wed Nov 02, 2011 9:30 am

Thanks so much,everything you have posted is of great help, I wrote down a list of things I need to buy

Unread post by **catherineyronwode** » Wed Nov 02, 2011 9:52 am

Thanks, Dr. Johannes for a great and helpful post!

MsHooDooPrincess · Unread post by **MsHooDooPrincess** » Wed Nov 02, 2011 12:44 pm

Ok base apon everything I need, I wrote a list.....add everything to the shopping cart as to what I need,powders,oils,baths,hhoney jar spell kit,washes,etc I'm looking at a little over 300,but it will be worth it,because It's some things that need to be done,and I have to invest in buying products for all situations.....even if I have to buy some products for some situations at a time. Thanks guys

MsHooDooPrincess · Unread post by **MsHooDooPrincess** » Thu Nov 03, 2011 1:14 pm

My fiance is mean when drunk and sweet when sober. He is verbally abusive when he is drinking.We fought and I want to reconcile. What do you recommend?

Unread post by **TBanks91** » Thu Nov 03, 2011 2:19 pm

MsHooDooPrincess....

Hellooooo??? Where have you been at? Look at this link and read the paqe...http://www.luckymojo.com/castoffevil.html
'Nuff is said.....

Buy the spell kit, chinese wash your house, clear the alcohol cabinet, dust your lover's carseats with the powder, oil some white candles RUBBING DOWNWARD, dust his shoes, the alcohol cabinet and the drivers wheel to rid him of buyinq alcohol, dust his wallet and the money so he'll be uninfluenced to purchase any alcohol, talk to him and qet him into some AA meetinqs where he can analyze his issue....

Probably order a WHITE SKULL CANDLE, and use some CLARITY AND KINGSOLOMON wisdom so he can see clearly how he acts and qain true insiqht on what he is doinq with himself, with you, and other specific situaitons that you both are qoinq thru.
http://www.luckymojo.com/clarity.html
http://www.luckymojo.com/kingsolomonwisdom.html

FIRST AND FOREMOST THOUGH....you should order a RECONCILIATION HoneyJar, and some RETURN TO ME products to employ....buy them and try to qet him to reutrn, if he is refusinq, try and qet some of that INTRANQUILTY qoin thru to him dammit qurl....he needs to see his ways and chanqe for the better....but also YOU are doinq 50% of the work tryinq to make him into a BETTER MAN, he needs to be able to WANT to chanqe as well, buy a purple jumbo candle, put in your personal concerns, order some SAGE, KING SOLOMON SEAL ROOTS, and some DEERSTOUNGUE and add them in the candle and anoint the candle with Crucible of Couraqe and burn it for 9 days....you can also order a 9HERB bath so you can qain some insiqht and clarity of your own added with some wisdom, do the bath before doinq the jumbo crucible of couraqe candle...this will qive you the couraqe to say to him how you feel with communication
Here you qo:

http://www.luckymojo.com/mojocatspells.html#honeyjar
http://www.luckymojo.com/oil-return-to-me.html
http://www.herb-magic.com/sage.html
http://www.herb-magic.com/solomons-seal-root.html
http://www.herb-magic.com/deers-tongue.html

Hopefully This Helpes In Someway

[P.S....don't forqet to purchase a STAY WITH ME kit] to keep him home, and some STAY AT HOME supplies to keep him there too qirl and stop his ass from them 24 hour liquor stops in the morniinq...]!
http://www.luckymojo.com/staywithme.html
http://www.luckymojo.com/oil-stay-at-home.html
-TBanks91

Unread post by **MissMichaele** » Thu Nov 03, 2011 2:24 pm

TBanks91 gave some good magical advice -- although why would you want to reconcile with a mean drunk? I'd work the Cast Off Evil and King Solomon Wisdom first.

And don't forget to work the practical side: get him in a program! Alcoholics Anonymous is the best-known, but there are others.

Finally, get him tending to the underlying spiritual issues. Most people tend to this at church, but some people define spirituality much more broadly.

Lastly -- or maybe this should be first -- be sure that drunkenness isn't just an excuse for him to be mean to you. He may be an abuser first and a drunk second.

Hope this helps,

Miss Michaele

MsHooDooPrincess · Unread post by **MsHooDooPrincess** » Thu Nov 03, 2011 2:35 pm

Thanks sweetie, and I'm trying. The first program he was in he did good for 4 weeks, and relapse.

I will also tell him about the AA program and encourage him to join, thanks sweetie

Unread post by **TBanks91** » Thu Nov 03, 2011 2:41 pm

lol Thanks Miss Michaele, such kind words...., well.....she did say that he's ONLY mean when he drinks, so I think if he is a better person sober, have him STAY Sober with those products....I think people can chanqe their ways if they qet rid of their bad influence, and seek help....find the root to the problem, have him see a Psycholoqist or a Therapist for some quidance too....if he doesnt wanna pay to see a Doc,

....there's always Jesus lmfao....ahaha.

http://www.luckymojo.com/mojocatcandles.html#catholic

If you don't wanna spend money to spiritually contact him, he's free.....lol, just attend Church...

-TBanks91 lol.

[also hoodooprincess, you can remove the luckymojo print off the cast off evil bottle, tell him to wear it as a perfume, do it to some PROTECTION oil too qirl, you'll be qood.

]

MsHooDooPrincess · Unread post by **MsHooDooPrincess** » Thu Nov 03, 2011 3:04 pm

TBanks91 wrote:lol Thanks Miss Michaele, such kind words...., well.....she did say that he's ONLY mean when he drinks, so I think if he is a better person sober, have him STAY Sober with those products.
...
[also hoodooprincess, you can remove the luckymojo print off the cast off evil bottle, tell him to wear it as a perfume, do it to some PROTECTION oil too qirl, you'll be qood. ]

Good ideal, I will try that, thanks sweetie. I need to stay with him for financial reasons.

Unread post by **Miss Tammie Lee** » Thu Nov 03, 2011 6:29 pm

The problem with mean drunks is that-- they often get dangerous.
It's great to try to help people you love, but not with your life.
I really like the combo of Protection and Cast Off Evil.
All of the above shared advice was very good.

Unread post by **TBanks91** » Thu Nov 03, 2011 7:10 pm

HooDooPrincess,

Yea I'm there too, I'm flat broke, but what type of person would I be if I don't take my own advice? lol, now I recommend that you order a MONEY STAY WITH ME kit, or a MONEY STAY WITH ME [TRIPLE] STRENGTH mojo hand for better financial stability, you can employ that with some MONEY DRAWING oil and ATTRACTION oil to draw the money to you and keep it to you literally...

http://www.luckymojo.com/mojo-3x-money- ... th-me.html
http://www.luckymojo.com/moneydrawing.html [i'll qive you a warninq, it has a stronq scent to it, lol but ilove it]
http://www.luckymojo.com/attraction.html

Are you employed? If not....try the STEADY WORK spell kit, to help qet you a qood job, and keep one...you can read it on this thread on how to do tricks with my tips...in order for you to $pend $$$, you have to make $$$ fir$t...lol
http://www.luckymojo.com/spell-steady-work.html
need-a-full-time-job-t16349.html

Now also...I did see what Miss Tammie Lee was sayinq in the post before yours....now you may do these tricks that were qiven above I recommended, but you have to ask yourself...is this worth the $$$, the time, the torture I'm qoinq thru with this man....its mostly a personal issue, we are all human, so you have to think of it in a perspective eye. Can he chanqe? Would he chanqe? WILL he qo to the meetinqs? Will he stop drinkinq? Can he be a better lover, partner, husband and father? If you think you CAN do better and want to qet rid of him and move on to someone who'll follow your wishes and honor your love, then kick him out and let him ruin his own life, incoorporate a CUT N CLEAR spell kit, and conjure a COME TO ME SPELL kit to brinq someone new into your life. Thats a thouqht you know

just look deeper into your situation and decide on whats better FOR YOU and HIM....
http://www.luckymojo.com/spell-cut-and-clear.html
http://www.luckymojo.com/spell-come-to-me.html

Be Careful, and stay blessed ok? Best Wishes,
-TBanks91

Unread post by **Miss Tammie Lee** » Thu Nov 03, 2011 7:11 pm

MsHooDooPrincess,,

I was hoping you would post back. One dollar or nothing at all, one child or no child-- get to a safe place. That is the most important.

Verbal abuse --is abuse-- and quickly turns physical especially when there is an outside factor making the mood swing.

Cut and Clear is what I wanted to say earlier. Please look into the AIRR Pro Bono Fund and the Crystal Silence League. Above all stay safe, and get out of his way before something happens.

http://www.luckymojo.com/cutandclear.html

http://readersandrootworkers.org/index. ... _Bono_Fund
http://missionaryindependent.org/crysta ... eague.html

Take Care.

MsHooDooPrincess · Unread post by **MsHooDooPrincess** » Thu Nov 03, 2011 7:14 pm

Thanks again Tbanks

MsHooDooPrincess · Unread post by **MsHooDooPrincess** » Thu Nov 03, 2011 7:17 pm

Miss Tammie Lee wrote: get to a safe place. That is the most important.
Verbal abuse --is abuse-- and quickly turns physical especially when there is an outside factor making the mood swing.

Cut and Clear is what I wanted to say earlier. Please look into the AIRR Pro Bono Fund and the Crystal Silence League. Above all stay safe, and get out of his way before something happens.

http://www.luckymojo.com/cutandclear.html

http://readersandrootworkers.org/index. ... _Bono_Fund
http://missionaryindependent.org/crysta ... eague.html

Take Care.

Thanks sweetie

Unread post by **TBanks91** » Thu Nov 03, 2011 7:24 pm

lol @ Miss Tammie Lee -- I know riqht? lol. I'm happy we can TaqTeam on this situation lol.

HIGH FIVE! LMAO.

Unread post by **aura** » Fri Nov 04, 2011 11:12 am

Hi MsHooDooPrincess,

while things may work out in the end, if you do work toward reconciliation and with Cast Off Evil rather than go the Cut and Clear route, set a firm time limit on how long you're willing to accept this kind of behaviour from your fiancé. There are many fish in the sea and there's without a doubt one of them out there that is sweet all the time and who could shower it all on you.

Keep in mind that an addict is cheating on you. His mistress is his drug (or bottle!) of choice. He's been in that relationship probably quite a bit longer than he's been with you - and she's a tough broad to face off with.

Make sure you work Clarity and Tranquility for yourself throughout the process and ideally, once finances permit, get a short reading from an AIRR member to see what long term prospects exist for you and this man.

For finances, there's a great forum thread on easy and low cost money spells you should look at (if you haven't already that is): easy-low-cost-money-spells-t989.html

Blessings and best of luck.

autumnalflower · Unread post by **autumnalflower** » Fri Nov 04, 2011 11:26 am

MsHooDooPrincess,,

I suggest that you also look into AlAnon, it's a great support group for family members and friends of alcoholics.

ChokatLily · Unread post by **ChokatLily** » Thu Nov 17, 2011 1:46 am

I don't even really know if my boyfriend is being sincere when he says that he is looking as hard as he can ( and I hope that this is irrelevant to my post in the end ), despite the fact that he has been almost jobless for 3 years, I say 3 years because he has been working for the past few months at a really sketchy sounding job that he is a little evasive about ..I don't have a problem with lazy people who wish to live simple lives, but i do have a problem with people who live off their ailing parents. If he doesn't start developing a healthy respect for earning his own keep, I'm afraid it will turn me off from the relationship. I really just want to avoid a big fight and id like to see if I can give him a powerful nudge, or maybe a flame under his ass?

He offers me a few explanations. he says its really difficult in the city, he has low confidence, and one that he doesnt admit to is his laziness..but I know its a factor.

I tried a banishing laziness and fear vigil at the same time a few months ago, but not get a job candle, and barely anything happened.

Is there any way I could magickally bring about a sort of event in his life that will trigger a sort of epiphany lol..maybe a wisdom candle, or a clarity, and then a get a job poppet, and speak to it while burning tobacco and star anise?

What are some experiences you guys have had similar to my situation?

Unread post by **Miss Tammie Lee** » Thu Nov 17, 2011 10:56 pm

Oh, love star anise. Some of the products you are naming are not ringing a bell. (they are by title but not Lucky Mojo title) The Forum is about the products and services of The Lucky Mojo Curio Company.
It sounds like you have a great background. Now check this out, I'm so excited about this link I could Pop!:
http://www.luckymojo.com/hoodooataglance.html

How about a reading with a Member of AIRR and signing up for this weeks Lucky Mojo Hodoo Rootwork Hour?

Unread post by **jwmcclin** » Fri Nov 18, 2011 6:24 am

The questions you are asking may require a reading to get to the heart of the matter... As Miss Tammie Lee mentioned, sign up for the Lucky Mojo Rootwork Hour (radio-show-pre-call-id-november-20th,-2011-t16536.html) to get a free reading and recommended spellwork.

Unread post by **Mama Micki** » Fri Nov 18, 2011 6:37 am

In the meantime, try Cast Off Evil for any bad habits he may be indulging in, such as watching too much tv or playing video games when he should be looking for a job. Do Steady Work for him also.

You also need to decide whether he is worth your time. An unemployed man financially dependent on his parents is not a good catch. He needs his own job.

Faith14 · Unread post by **Faith14** » Mon Jan 30, 2012 7:27 am

i need clarification please.

my bf has a wall of steel around his heart. he's been thru two bad marriages/divorces, and rough childhood. He refuses to let his guard down.

I 've read where people say cut and clear can be done on behalf of someone and others say the peson themselves need to do a cut and clear spell.

he is not open to this so thats defiently not an option. can someone please clarify- can i do a cut and clear on his behalf?

otherwise because alot of this stems from being hurt, not having a father growing etc how can i break his resistance and see that i wont hurt him? i live with him so i cant do skull candles - night time work. needs to be something i can do at day when he's at work.

i was thinking king solomon and clarity so he can see clearly that i wont hurt him and see me for who i really am? but can i do that without a skull candle?

i also made a poppet out of a plastic doll so i can do baths and not destroy it.

Unread post by **Devi Spring** » Mon Jan 30, 2012 8:17 am

faith14,

No, Cut and Clear is a personal spell that one must decide to work for themselves.

Since his resistance stems from emotional traumas, what he needs is Healing work - through baths and candle working. The King Solomon Wisdom & Clarity would be a nice complement to that. You can have MISC set the lights for you if you cannot do it yourself, then bathe the doll in an appropriate mix of bath salts. Keep it in a box filled with Healing herbs, and Love herbs.

nena1974 · Unread post by **nena1974** » Mon Jan 30, 2012 11:48 am

I havent been on here in a long long time. But years ago my situation was similar to yours. This kind of work takes time, it took me over 2 years of steady work and dedication.

I worked a doll baby, and a skull candle that I burned whenever possible. I also annoit regular decorative candles because I also live with him and dont have the freedom I would like for candle work. I made my doll baby, out of his dirty t shirt, and stuffed it with some of his personal concerns.

Show your doll baby love, talk to him, give him healing baths....slow and steady he will come around.

Faith14 · Unread post by **Faith14** » Wed Feb 29, 2012 4:18 pm

My BF threw out my Hoodoo Herb & Root Magic book that Miss Cat wrote.

Besides Eucalyptus what also herbs work well if working a vigil?

Unread post by **Mama Micki** » Wed Feb 29, 2012 4:22 pm

Faith14,

Maybe you should throw your boyfriend out if he can't keep his hands off your stuff.

I'd suggest getting some Cast Off Evil oil and dressing your candle with it.

Unread post by **Joseph Magnuson** » Wed Feb 29, 2012 4:54 pm

Faith14: I use Eucalyptus and Hyssop.

May I ask why your boyfriend decided to throw out your property?

Unread post by **catherineyronwode** » Wed Feb 29, 2012 8:38 pm

Faith 14,

You will not be happy living with a man who destroys your property. He will only get worse. Leave now.

For what REASON are you "working a vigil"?

(I'm not even sure i know what "working a vigil" means. I know about fixing a vigil light and i know about setting lights. but to me "working" means messing with or manipulating something, like working a jack ball or working with a dollie. Vigil candles are just set there -- which is why setting them is called "setting lights.")

Anyway, if you are fixing a vigil candle for your abusive boyfriend to change his no-good ways, you will want different herbs than if you are fixing it for protection from an abusive boyfriend or safety while you escape from an abusive boyfriend.

HHRM is just $14.95 in paperback. Buy another copy and throw your boyfriend out or leave!

Faith14 · Unread post by **Faith14** » Thu Mar 01, 2012 3:07 am

sorry he had just came home when I was writing the post so I had to make it quick so he wouldnt catch me. Hadn't really reread through my post- sorry.

Reason for the rush and all- He is EXTREMLY against all sorts of magic/ conjure work etc. He wont even allow me to have saints in the house- says the bible says to pray to God only everything else is devil worship.

He found my tarot cards, book, pendulum, some pics of some people I've been working on etc and flipped and tossed everything I had - that he found, I should say. But that's my issue to deal with..now I just don't keep anything in our house, its been located.

I bought LM cast off evil oil awhile back and I wanted to FIX a vigil light to work on casting away some of his bad habits. I need to place another LM order but $$ is tight right now so working on a budget. Which I will be replacing my book as well. Have some herbs on hands so wanted to cross reference since I havent been able to replace the book yet.

Unread post by **Mama Micki** » Thu Mar 01, 2012 10:38 am

Faith14,

My advice to you is to get out. Forget about trying to change him; it is his nature to try to control you.

Do a Cut and Clear and live your life as you see fit, not as he does. You're not married and you didn't mention children. You may be financially dependent on him; work on changing that.

Work with Money Drawing, Wealthy Way, Steady Work, or Prosperity products.

I know you didn't come here to get advice on how to live your life, but we'll do it anyway. We try to deal with the real issues.

Unread post by **catherineyronwode** » Thu Mar 01, 2012 10:50 am

Faith14, i have bundled all your posts about this boyfriend into one thread and given it all one title (you also have another thread going about your ex).

If you keep all of your posts about one topic in one thread, then the moderators can become familiar with your situation and help you much more efficiently.

Unread post by **ConjureMan** » Thu Mar 01, 2012 5:57 pm

Faith 14 --

It doesn't matter if he's against magic/conjure. It is *your* spiritual practice not his. If he is one of those men that needs to dominate and have everything his way get out. It isn't his property to throw out. He can disbelieve and disagree with your practices but he either loves and respects you enough to acknowledge that they are your beliefs or he doesn't.

I am a well-known bibliophile. I have several thousand books--I have a room just devoted to them. In fact when I move the majority of my things is books. My mother once remarked what would happen if I married and my new wife made me chose between her and my books. I said, I'd chose my books.

Unread post by **duchess** » Thu Mar 01, 2012 7:07 pm

Conjureman, I can soooo relate.

Although my collection is nowhere near as impressive as yours and I am a little green with envy right now. The first thing my partner said when I moved in was "how the heck is it possible for someone to have so many books?" He helped me find room for them all though and bought some bookshelves and put them together for me.

Faith, you've gotten some really good heartfelt advice from some really experienced, thoughtful, and caring workers. The man for you will accept you for who you are, conjure and all. It takes a lot less work to find the right man than to keep the wrong one.

Good luck!

salinton · Unread post by **salinton** » Wed Mar 14, 2012 9:15 am

I have a question maybe someone can answer for me.

I had a situation to where i was driving to the city where an old partner lives. I was taking care of personal errands.

Then all of the sudden i felt this feeling in my chest and i sigh. This person came to mind and I just said out loud his name and "I really miss you." I was in shock because I was having such a hectic day and he was the last person I was thinking of.

Is there meaning to this?

lulakalani · Unread post by **lulakalani** » Tue Jun 12, 2012 7:41 pm

I'm seeing him tomorrow evening at an event...the man who broke my heart. We are n speaking terms again, but (for now) we're just friends and it will probably remain that way for a while. Regardless, I want a bit of revenge by making him WANT me bad, and start thinking about me again...wondering if he made a mistake. I'll probably do more reconciliation work in the near future (but with a very limited time-frame...I'm ready to move on if things don't turn around with him soon). What spell can I do tomorrow during the day, to have him drooling over me tomorrow night? Just a little nudge?...I'm not expecting miracles.

carma · Unread post by **carma** » Sun Jul 08, 2012 8:51 am

Hello, to preface everything, I've been with my boyfriend for 2 years and we are very much in love. We never argue, however, I have my one concern: he's not moving towards bettering his life.

I am older than he is, and have graduated college already and have a job, and am working towards my career and independence. He, however, has failed his first year at college due to a bad relationship, and failed 2 of 3 semesters he's undertaken thus far after transferring to a community college. This is unheard of to me, as I've never failed a class and made it a point to get a bachelor's degree in 4 years, and he's working towards an associates and has been in school already for 3 years! It drives me nuts!

We have discussed futures and what career path he wants to take, and he has a good idea of what he wants to do, but he seems to make no effort in working towards it. I've been a little abrasive in letting him know that he needs to start moving, because I'm not going to miss out on opportunities because he's going at his own snail's pace.

I need for him to get his act together. To get motivated, be successful, to do well in school, to put as much effort, excitement, and interest in the career field he wants to be in because as of for these past 2 years, I've been the breadwinner. I need him to know that it takes two, and that he needs to support me as I've been supporting him.

I was considering a honey jar, however, I feel the relationship between us is just fine, I just need to light a fire under his ass! He needs to be studious, ambitious, and financially supportive!

Unread post by **Mama Micki** » Sun Jul 08, 2012 9:57 am

What you want is for him to change his personality and his nature. He is not ambitious and as long as you are supporting him, he has no motivation to change. I suggest you get a reading at www.readersandrootworkers.org , but probably the best thing to do is to cut him loose and find someone who shares your life goals.

carma · Unread post by **carma** » Sun Jul 08, 2012 11:13 am

A reading is definitely in order. He's not so much dependent, but more depressed about his current situation and is becoming a repeating cycle of sorts. Much more mutual discussion is needed between the two of us to sort things out. Thankfully he is open to spellwork, and I will first encourage him to work towards breaking his own bad habits and approach therapy.

Thanks for helping me re-evaluate the situation, Mama micki

Unread post by **Mama Micki** » Sun Jul 08, 2012 11:22 am

If he is depressed, he may need professional help. You can work with Healing products to help him and also John the Conqueror, Master, and Nature to restore his ambition and drive. If he is open to spiritual work, have him carry a John the Conqueror mojo and take a cleansing bath with 13-herb to remove any negativity from both outside and inside.

http://www.luckymojo.com/johntheconqueror.html

Unread post by **MissMichaele** » Sun Jul 08, 2012 12:22 pm

I'd also like to recommend King Solomon Wisdom products -- just mix them into the other work you're doing -- and Power products. Like the Power candle label says: "Strength -- Courage -- Force -- Will." He certainly needs all of those.

King Solomon Wisdom spells and supplies
http://www.luckymojo.com/kingsolomonwisdom.html
Power Spells and Supplies
http://www.luckymojo.com/power.html

Good luck and good magic,

Miss Michaele

Edwardyule · Unread post by **Edwardyule** » Sun Jul 08, 2012 12:59 pm

I agree with above, a reading is in order!

beyond that, perhaps road opener work

http://www.luckymojo.com/roadopener.html

Or perhaps a Mojo hand with some Crown of Successes and Soloman Seal Root

http://www.luckymojo.com/products-solomon-seal.html

Unread post by **jwmcclin** » Sun Jul 08, 2012 1:25 pm

All of these are great recommendations, I favor the reading first...

Unread post by **Devi Spring** » Sat Aug 04, 2012 8:12 am

Do a Peaceful Home honey jar for your relationship - that will help calm things down and make things sweet between the two of you.

Then I would do some Tranqulity + Crucible of Courage work for him - maybe using those on a white skull candle to help him feel calm and strong about starting school again. You could also have the Missionary Independent Spiritual Church Candle Ministry set some lights for him - John the Conqueror and Crown of Success would be nice choices to back up the work that you're doing, and help him along in his studies. You could also order those candles fixed and burn them yourself at home.

YouTube · Unread post by **Miss Bri** » Sun Aug 05, 2012 8:36 am

I love Devi's suggestions and I would add that purchasing a mojo hand for him-something for empowering, wisdom, and success might be excellent. Sometimes when people are really unsure I like them to have something physical on their bodies-as it provides a tangible talisman they can focus on.
Blessings,
Bri

star02 · Unread post by **star02** » Sat Aug 18, 2012 1:47 am

Yesturday i received a pic of a light that was set for me on top of a custom honey jar to draw in my life partner. This person is not an AIRR rootworker but i still need advice on what may have just happened.

Today early in the morning, this guy that i have been friends with benefits on and off for 6 years calls me and he is drunk. He tells me that he cant go home because he doesnt have no keys and he doesnt want to bother his mother because she is not feeling well to get in.

Couple of months ago we got into one of the many arguments that we always have but this time he was verbally abusive like he was couple months after we became friends. This time i was over it and i didnt want to have anything to do with him. So today he called repeatedly and i told him i didnt want to talk to him or have nothing to do with him. So the last time he called i told him that i was turning my ringer off.

So i close my eyes to go to sleep and in walking through my room door he comes. At that point i was scared and i ask him how he got in. He said he came through the front door but then finally confess he came through the window. He told me he wanted me to lay next to him but i didnt want to. i didnt even want him there.

He kept cornering me in the room trying to touch on me and i repeateadly had to hit him. He said that pass months that he missed me and wanted me and that i know i wanted him to. I told him i didnt and he said whyy am i acting like that.

i live with my grandmother, uncle, and sister. My uncle saw him come through the window and decided to tell my grandmother who i will have to face in the morning but i have no idea how i am to explain this to her.

I thought about calling the police but this never happen to me before and he was drunk and i didnt want any drama because that not the person i am, i like peace.

So i just want this to go away but i know i will be yelled at tomorrow and i had nothing to do with it. i just finish writing on forum about my life not going in right direction and this is what happens to me.

So basically my question is do you think this is a sign to the setting of lights that had been set for me yesturday if so is this a good or bad sign. I had MISC set uncrossing and Protection for me and it was said that there were minor delays and distractions but i will eventually overcome them. What else can i have done for me. I am so confused as to what is going on in my life and the reading that i had, none explain that i would go through anything.

Unread post by **aura** » Mon Aug 20, 2012 5:33 am

Hi star02,

Although only your rootworker will be able to interpret the signs related to the honey jar they prepared for you, personally I would say that it's a sign that currently love work is ill-advised as it will not attract the type of partners your are looking for. I would focus on the uncrossing, the protection and the growth work to get your life moving in a forward direction.

Taking spiritual baths such as the 13-herb, Uncrossing and Protection are powerful and simple ways to work for yourself. You could also consider working an Uncrossing spell kit and then following it up with a Van Van spell kit to bring in the good. From a candle perspective, perhaps a round or two of road opener can help blast through any of the obstacles, delays and distractions.

Hopefully your talk with grandma went well, but if needs be, a peaceful home honey jar like the kind LM sells could also be a well-advised work to keep things smooth and easy within your living arrangements.

Blessings and best of luck.

Unread post by **MissMichaele** » Tue Aug 21, 2012 6:16 pm

star02,

I sure hope you are getting a restraining order against this wannabe rapist.

Miss Michaele

star02 · Unread post by **star02** » Tue Aug 21, 2012 9:40 pm

so i had a talk with my grandmother and she took it better than i thought, she actually made a joke about him coming through the window, very long story, but the talk went well. I also talked to him to get his side of the story and he said he didnt know and that he was going through somethings with his mother. So i forgave him and cried as i text back and forth because we had been friends for 6 yrs on and off and now it had came to an end. I guess i was more sad because alot of friends are doing me wrong, the one i trusted. So now i have no friends and feel like i have to start all over. And then hrs after i just finish crying about loosing a friend he had a nerve to say can we have makeup sex. "what a bastard", but he made it that much easier for me to get over it. So now my plan is that i really must work on myself and looking forward to getting MISC to light some road opener for me and uncrossing and protection again whenever i get the money. And i hope this will remove everything from my past and give me a new start in life.

Fixerkitty · Unread post by **Fixerkitty** » Tue Aug 21, 2012 10:45 pm

star02,

If you're looking to leave your past behind and move on to bigger and better things, you might want to add Cut and Clear to everything else. It would help clear the ground for further growth.

I'm totally with Aura here--work on yourself first. Do that and everything else will fall into place.

Good luck!

MsHooDooPrincess · Unread post by **MsHooDooPrincess** » Tue Jan 08, 2013 1:26 am

Could someone delete this topic for me please?

Unread post by **Mama Micki** » Tue Jan 08, 2013 2:41 am

No. You may not delete any entire thread.

starfairy · Unread post by **starfairy** » Tue Jan 22, 2013 4:57 pm

Hi guys, I am having trouble with neighbors that called the police because they overheard an argument with my boyfriend anyways, police got involved and we both got a ticket him for property damage disorderly conduct, and myself for disorderly conduct. I had asked him to leave before it even got to that point so the nosey neighbors walking by my door had the nerve to call the police. These people are always in my business. Long story short the boyfriend I see was not good for me he used me for a place to live didnt contribute to the house, used my money ate all my food now I am broke with no food and court problems..... he still is popping up at my home when i told him it is over he always says no it is not ....I need help guys, any suggestions on what I can do?