Spells for Engagement and Marriage Proposal, to Bless and Assist Matrimony, Stay With Me, Stay At Home

angel4decale · Unread post by **angel4decale** » Thu Jul 26, 2012 10:55 am

Thanks, this is the way I'll do it...and on the Crystal League page do I post the entire situation or just a breakdown? Either way I'll have all the lights mentioned done on the first, I'll be leaving real soon to go to school for three weeks for my CDL license and I was looking forward to that being time apart, I'm just trying to keep him home now. I saw on the internet to tie draws in a knot and either bury in the backyard or under the bed I put it under my side of the mattress is this a good temporary thing to do? He called from work today telling me he needs me to think about letting him go and finding someone who deserves me I told him I loved him and only him my own husband.

Miss_Liz · Unread post by **Miss_Liz** » Thu Jul 26, 2012 2:36 pm

Something simple like "may my marriage be saved" or the like

angel4decale · Unread post by **angel4decale** » Fri Jul 27, 2012 10:57 am

Mis Liz......I had to report to you since you told me about the prayer site CSL I posted there and things literally turned around over-nite. I don't know how to thank you. If there is anyway you can think of that I may be this type of help to someone else please help me pay-it-forward. Thanks again and do you think I should still have that run of lights done?

Miss_Liz · Unread post by **Miss_Liz** » Fri Jul 27, 2012 3:09 pm

I am sooo happy things are turning around for you! I would still do the candles, just to ensure things continue to improve and maybe help solve the issues that started this thing to begin with. I still recommend to give him some space, it'll make him come to you which will help in the long run because it means he WANTS to. The more he wants to the better it'll get. But, at least now maybe you won't need the tranquility. You could use the money saved there on some Dixie Love or Fire of Love products. A combination of those 2 helped my marriage over a rough spot. You might also want to consider a love uncrossing. You can use the uncrossing products or have the candle lit for you and just have it directed at your marriage, again, helped me out with mine.
The best payment I could receive is knowing that I helped improve someone's life.

Unread post by **jwmcclin** » Fri Jul 27, 2012 7:35 pm

You can definitely pay it forward and pass on your good fortune. But understand what works for you doesnt necessary work for someone else with the same or differing circumstances. Individuals are difference and so are their particular circumstances. In other words what works today may not work tomorrow depending on several and many factors. That's why it is a good idea to keep magical works going for situations that need tending to...

MsHooDooPrincess · Unread post by **MsHooDooPrincess** » Sun Sep 02, 2012 9:56 pm

Grab his worn underwear, tie in knot,anoint them with Stay At Home,Stay With Me oils, bury them in your front yard or in a potted plant in your house.

josie02 · Unread post by **josie02** » Wed Sep 26, 2012 8:54 am

i am new to this and looking for spells to get my husband to fall back in love with me. says he loves but not in love with me. I want our marriage to work

YouTube · Unread post by **Miss Bri** » Fri Sep 28, 2012 7:54 pm

There are many formulas and workings that could assist this situation. Since you have SO many options I would recommend getting a reader and root work advice from one of us at AIRR: http://readersandrootworkers.org/wiki/A ... ootworkers
In the meantime I recommend you check out these pages, all of which have multiple FREE spells that speak to your situation.
Honey jars for love: http://www.luckymojo.com/honeyjar.html
Love Spells of every stripe: http://www.luckymojo.com/lovespells.html
Marriage: http://www.luckymojo.com/marriage.html
Blessings,
Bri

Unread post by **Priestess Divine** » Fri Oct 05, 2012 10:08 am

I have been in a relationship with this man for 2 months, we are both in love and have discussed plans for the future. He is definitely divinely placed in my life. The issue is that he is insecure about our relationship. We are 2 hours apart and trying to move closer soon. I am sure the distance has a lot to do with it but I think if he can't get a handle on his insecurity we will not be together in the future. I know there are some changes in my behavior that I need to make since he is so insecure but geez. Any suggestions on easing his mind and to get rid of his insecurity?

Thanks All!

Unread post by **MissMichaele** » Sat Oct 06, 2012 10:12 am

Two months? My goodness, you move fast!

With so little information to go on, I'd suggest Tranquility and Chuparrosa products. Send him dressed letters, cards and little gifts (his birthday, your six-month-iversary, "it followed me home," you know the usual excuses

).

Tranquility spells and supplies
http://www.luckymojo.com/tranquility.html
Chuparrosa Spells and Supplies
http://www.luckymojo.com/chuparrosa.html

Good luck and good magic,

Miss Michaele

Unread post by **Priestess Divine** » Wed Oct 10, 2012 10:34 am

Miss Michaele thank u.

I will try your suggestions! Yeah 2 months is fast and out of the ordinary for me. A friend of mine told me I would meet a man and we would be married and have children within 2 years. Well it has been 6 months since she told me that. When I saw him I knew it was him that she was talking about. I have strong feelings for him immediately. Can't explain it but...Anyway, I guess more info.

He is a Virgo. He is 33, 6 years younger than me. I have never been with someone who treated me so nicely and is so thoughtful. He lives alone, owns his home, no children, never married, loves him mom a lot. He says he is ready to settle down and definitely wants children. He is very very caring. He is actually a lead counselor for his company at a school. Besides that, situations have occurred like him stalking my facebook. We went to a party and I was talking to the host's boyfriend about the food and he came over in a nice way and gently tugged on my hand plus I could tell he was not liking me over there socializing with even the females for a long time ( i think he felt left alone). He doesn't like it when I go out. He's pretty much a home body when I am not there. He makes smart comments about me talking to other guys, etc. Which of course isn't true.

HE says he has never been in a serious relationship. Lately he is apprehensive, full of doubt and fear. Geez!!

He is a good looking guy and great dresser BUT he could stand to lose some weight. But I love him no less because of it.

He's a great man but I don't know if I can deal with the insecurity and jealousy over time.

Thanks!! Love and light! ~ Best of Life

Unread post by **Mama Micki** » Wed Oct 10, 2012 10:38 am

You can also use Healing products to help him get over any emotional distress that is keeping him from going forward in your relationship.

Unread post by **MissMichaele** » Wed Oct 10, 2012 6:14 pm

Priestess Divine wrote:HE says he has never been in a serious relationship. Lately he is apprehensive, full of doubt and fear. Geez!!

I know!

Well, some say that one reason guys are so shy of committment is that they've never been in a relationship that hasn't broken up -- so when it doesn't happen, they're all "What do I do now?"

So, hmm, yet again I suggest adding King Solomon Wisdom to your love work

King Solomon Wisdom spells and supplies
http://www.luckymojo.com/kingsolomonwisdom.html

Miss Michaele

Unread post by **Miss Tammie Lee** » Wed Oct 10, 2012 6:57 pm

Oh, I like the conjure supplies listed above, but I am wondering if King Solomon Wisdom and Clarity might be best if you worked these products on you.

There is a very big difference in a Gentleman and a protective man vs. a possessive and insecure man. That's what I am hearing from your post. I suggest King Solomon Wisdom, Clarity and a reading with a member of AIRR:

http://www.readersandrootworkers.org
http://www.luckymojo.com/kingsolomonwisdom.html
http://www.luckymojo.com/oil-clarity.html

I am sensing there is something "off on this" and you are nice and in love... and everyone is on their "best behavior" in the beginning. --But I feel a leash and a collar coming on-- a spiked collar.

Have a reading from a Member of AIRR.

Take Care and Be Blessed.

Tammie Lee

Unread post by **Priestess Divine** » Thu Oct 11, 2012 8:26 am

Thank you ALL Mama Micki, Miss Tammie and Miss Michaele!!

You are all fabulous! I will try these products. I am sure using these products will help drastically. I think at this point he is fighting his own "demons" and needs all those things you specified.

Miss Tammie it's good you picked up on him person/spirit. When I met him I immediately picked up the jealousy and controlling aspect of his spirit and wondered recently if it could go to the collar too. He has the warmest most inviting spirit of any man I've dated but I agree he has some skeletons in his closet. I have sensed something too and I know in my spirit what it is. But I still have faith that with a little clarity, King Solomon and the other products you have advised...it will help.

Its not often that I open up myself to be in love but now I think I regret it.

I think I will sign up for the Radio Show Sunday. I have enough turmoil and problems in my life now, I don't need anymore.

Thank you so so much.

Love & Blessings to you ALL!

Unread post by **Miss Tammie Lee** » Thu Oct 11, 2012 9:39 pm

Stay in touch. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. When the time is right, and it may be this week, I have some recommendations for power. In the interim, you find your inner strength-- you already have! Over the weekend I'll put together something nice for you. I put Lucky Mojo recommendations on the main board (here) to help someone who asks a question and for so many that do not ask.

God Bless you and take care,

Miss Tammie Lee

Unread post by **Priestess Divine** » Sat Oct 13, 2012 5:05 pm

Thank you Miss Tammie Lee!

You are always so wonderful! I smile on the inside

.

I guess you can feel my suffering. So much going on in my life right now. I need all the power & strength I can get. I've been trying so hard to make all that is within me and around me better but it feels like an uphill battle.

I will surely stay in touch! Thank you for your help, prayers & more.

Many Blessings to you!

Unread post by **Priestess Divine** » Sun Oct 14, 2012 4:52 pm

So glad I got to be on the show! Completely confirmed what I knew in my spirit, although I didn't know he was that unstable. Now to decide if I want to really put in the work. He is really a great guy to me. Nicer than any guy I have dated before. He is not on drugs and doesn't drink like that (as someone stated in chat). He barely drinks when we are together. I might do the skull candle and see how it is after that. If I don't see some serious improvement I will call it quits. I am also going to talk to him about his "secret". I know what it is...online fun. I can do some work to make him spill the beans. To loosen up his tongue and tell me. Then I'll c what I want to do about that. I know I am getting older, but hell...I certainly am not going to settle. I am a great catch!! Thanks so much Lucky Mojo!

Unread post by **Joseph Magnuson** » Sun Oct 14, 2012 6:47 pm

It was wonderful to hear your call, and to hear you, yourself, on the show today. Good luck with your situation!

Unread post by **Priestess Divine** » Mon Oct 15, 2012 9:57 am

Thank you Joseph!! Many blessings to you!

P_K · Unread post by **P_K** » Tue Dec 04, 2012 8:33 pm

Hello everyone. Firstly, I just want to say how great this forum looks, some very knowledgable people here by the looks of things.

I have practiced a little hoodoo for the past few years, and most of what I've learned has been via the Lucky Mojo site.

Apologies for long post, just want to make the situation clear. I met a man about six weeks ago. We had a few dates, but the problem was that he was quite hot and cold. I had a reading done which said that he will come round and to be patient. Shortly after the reading, the man told me he feels we're incompatible, and was fairly adamant about this (in a nice way). He also said he's up for talking if that's what I want, and that it's not about not liking me. My reader said this tied in with the cards, with the man's personality type (King of Wands).

I want to help things along as I'm having trouble shifting him from my thoughts. I think this is a case of head over heart and not so much about attraction as what he thinks is best. I briefly considered the Intranquil Spirit but of course that is far too extreme for this case and terribly unfair! But, he is a very headstrong person and breaking his resistance is going to be quite tough. He's quite a closed-off character. What I want to do is get him thinking about me so much he can't help but want to see me again. It would need to be quite obsessive for it to override his decision, I feel. There is a reconciliation element here as well I think, in that we had something going, but a line was crossed for him to decide we should stop.

I don't have any samples, and don't know when, or if, we'll see each other again. I don't think chasing him is the right thing to do at the moment; he is not a person who likes pressure. All I have is his full name, date of birth, pictures I can download from the web, and a book he gave me. I do know where he lives, but it's a very secure city apartment building, with no areas to bury anything around it, and no individual postbox.

Suggestions gratefully received. I was thinking begin with skull candles: a black one to banish his negative thoughts about me/us, then a red to influence the positive and passionate. I'm all out of supplies so in the meantime I'm using vanilla scented tealights on a name paper.

Thank you in advance...

Unread post by **catherineyronwode** » Tue Dec 04, 2012 10:04 pm

P_K --

It seems to me that your goals are unrealistic, considering the small degree of connection, the extremely short period of time spent together, and the fact that the man himself decided against deeper intimacy. Trying to work on a person as lightly attached to you as this man, with nothing more than vanilla-scented tealights is, in my opinion, a waste of time.

I am not trying to read for you or for him here -- just saying that this sounds like a pretty slim chance.

"The man told me he feels we're incompatible, and was fairly adamant about this" -- to which i say, "let him go."

"I'm having trouble shifting him from my thoughts" -- to which i say, "Do a Cut and Clear spell." See
http://luckymojo.com/cutandclear.html

Save your love spells for drawing an entirely new man into your life.

P_K · Unread post by **P_K** » Tue Dec 04, 2012 11:35 pm

Thank you for the swift and candid response. Yes, I understand what you're saying. I didn't go into too much detail here though so as not to write a dull essay! He did indeed say we're not compatible, but he also said he's up for talking about it, and I believe him about that as he's not a mincer of words... In fact we were supposed to meet up the day before yesterday, but he's ill, and was very apologetic about it. He did admit previously that he was scared of putting his cards on the table. Basically, there are a few things he's said as well as some of his behaviour that makes me think there's something to work on; I think he's trying to be sensible based on outside factors. Also the reading I had done (by a fairly experienced tarot chap) was positive, just said that it was a matter of patience.

The tealights were just while I consider my purchases and an approach; I know that's not strong work by any means.

Unread post by **Miss Tammie Lee** » Fri Jan 25, 2013 7:40 pm

I think you should call into the Show for an update this week!

Be Blessed!

Miss Tammie Lee

Unread post by **Priestess Divine** » Sat Jan 26, 2013 8:23 pm

I just might do that. Thanks!!

Be Blessed As Well!

Caulbearer · Unread post by **Caulbearer** » Tue Feb 05, 2013 9:39 am

Hello y'all

I've just begun a new relationship with a this guy and I was wondering if there are any rituals that you could recommend us doing together or me alone to strengthen and bless our union.

Any links or comments is appreciated

Many thanks

Unread post by **Mama Micki** » Tue Feb 05, 2013 10:07 am

Love Me, Stay With Me, Chupparosa (Hummingbird), Fire of Love, and Follow Me Boy are some products that come to mind. If you would like to share more details, we could probably give you some more ideas.

dreamofsuccess · Unread post by **dreamofsuccess** » Tue Feb 05, 2013 1:08 pm

Hi,

Currently I have been realising that my mum and dad have been having serious arguments for the past months, this has turned one argument to become nearly physical which was actually really scary. I can see that especially from my dad, he has become increasingly cranky and very hot-headed, snapping at the smallest of things. My mum had also told me that she had heard him speaking on the phone to another woman, which is one thing that I will NOT allow, after 26 years of marriage.
I find this to be extremely strange, when things begin to take a unusual I always know it is the work of the enemy.

What can I do to ignite the flame in my parent's marriage, hotfoot any interfering person and calm down my father from becoming very angry.

Thanks so much

Love from London

Unread post by **aura** » Tue Feb 05, 2013 3:48 pm

Hi Caulbearer,

Honey jars are also a great working for a fledgling relationship since they can be worked throughout the entire relationship. More information about them can be found via the following links: http://www.luckymojo.com/honeyjar.html & honey-sugar-sweet-jar-questions-and-answers-t5536.html

Another idea would be to fix an small oil lamp with a pair of lodestones named for each of you, a slice of ginger, some cherry bark and personal concerns from each of you. Fill it with red lamp oil and keep it lit as much as you can.

Blessings.

Caulbearer · Unread post by **Caulbearer** » Tue Feb 05, 2013 9:05 pm

Thank you both very much : )
I love these and will work them for sure
I'm actually just learing about honey jars so I will start one for us
Mama Micki things are new and wonderful but I will get some details for you so you can give me more tips

Thanks again

Unread post by **Doctor Hob** » Tue Feb 05, 2013 10:14 pm

A pair of matched lodestones, dressed, and stowed under the bed wouldn't be a bad idea, either.

Unread post by **Dr Johannes** » Wed Feb 06, 2013 4:25 am

Start by cleansing and protecting the place you all live in. Washing the floors with Chinese Wash and a dash of Buffalo Ammonia is a good start. Jinx Killing powder hidden in the corners or places like under the bedposts of your parents bed is one way to cleanse things.
Peaceful home might take the edge of the fights and Fire of Love is the one to use to reigite the spark between them.
I would go all in and spread powders under the carpets, a pinch in their food, in the coffepowder, on toothbrushes. I would add a few drops of oil to their shampoos and anoint the underside of the dinner table etc.

Good Luck!

Unread post by **MissMichaele** » Wed Feb 06, 2013 10:58 pm

aura wrote:Another idea would be to fix an small oil lamp with a pair of lodestones named for each of you, a slice of ginger, some cherry bark and personal concerns from each of you. Fill it with red lamp oil and keep it lit as much as you can.

Lamp oil is expensive, and you have to be picky about the brand you buy; some brands stink to high heaven.

So you could also work with an Eastern-Orthodox style vigil light -- not a tall candle in a glass jar, but an open glass vessel (they even make red ones) with a cute little brass wick-holder or a floating wick. Fill it with olive oil and you have a nice prayer lamp.

Drop your paired lodestones and love herbs in there and you have a beautiful conjure light!

On last week's Lucky Mojo Hoodoo Rootwork Hour, Balthazar, Miss Cat and Conjureman Ali began the show with some wonderful ways to make conjure lamps. Check it out:

http://www.blogtalkradio.com/luckymojoh ... -in-format

Miss Michaele

Caulbearer · Unread post by **Caulbearer** » Tue Feb 19, 2013 11:14 pm

great ideas!
i'm going to try all of them
MissMichaele, thank you for the tip. i was really wondering about doing the lamp as well! excellent suggestion and thanks for the link

Thank you all very much : )

Rtyler · Unread post by **Rtyler** » Tue Mar 26, 2013 12:52 pm

My husband and I are just married. He is younger than I and in the music business. He is always around other women that throw themselves at him. How can I secure what I have with him? What is a very strong love spell I can use?

Apollo Dark · Unread post by **Apollo Dark** » Tue Mar 26, 2013 12:55 pm

Rtyler wrote:My husband and I are just married. He is younger than I and in the music business. He is always around other women that throw themselves at him. How can I secure what I have with him? What is a very strong love spell I can use?

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Unread post by **MissMichaele** » Tue Mar 26, 2013 3:08 pm

You can also spike his grooming and laundry supplies with Banishing products. Make sure, when you do so, that you command, "All other women, turn around and walk away," or similar.

While doing your work, you could also pray or read aloud:

Psalms 81: To save people from error and mistakes, for safety from accidents.
http://readersandrootworkers.org/wiki/Psalms_81
Psalms 135: For repentance, spirituality, and rededication of one's life to God.
http://readersandrootworkers.org/wiki/Psalms_135

Or you could write out either of these psalms in water-soluble ink -- marker, fountain pen, dip pen in food coloring -- and wash the prayer off into water in which you have dissolved Banishing bath crystals.

You might want to add Influence products, too.

Banishing Products
http://www.luckymojo.com/products-banishing.html
Influence Spells and Supplies
http://www.luckymojo.com/influence.html

Good luck,

Miss Michaele

Unread post by **Mama Micki** » Tue Mar 26, 2013 5:48 pm

Read through the Song of Songs (Song of Solomon) in the Bible. Select the passages that seem most appropriate to your situation. I recommend this book of the Bible for all love work.

Conjureangel · Unread post by **Conjureangel** » Thu Mar 28, 2013 5:05 pm

Perhaps you could do some clarity work in order for him to rethink his decision and see the more positive aspects of being with you? Maybe influence products can be combined for a bit of umph!

Axle1988 · Unread post by **Axle1988** » Thu Apr 18, 2013 8:37 pm

My husband of four years told me four days ago that he does not love me. But then he said he will give me six months to try and convinc him to stay. I am very worried that he will actually leave me and that we will actually end up in a divorce. I ended up stumbling on some voodoo spells to make him love me. I have yet to even do any type of spell or anything. I did order follow me boy and reconciliation oils in hopes that these will help in some way. I am very new to all this but I have been reading about it. I really need something that will make him stay and love me forever. Can anyone help me?

Unread post by **Mama Micki** » Thu Apr 18, 2013 10:38 pm

First of all, this Forum concerns hoodoo, not Voodoo. Hoodoo is a folk magic tradition that orginated with African-American Christians. Voodoo is a religion mostly practiced by people in Haiti.

Do you know what the issue is? Does he have someone else? Is he unhappy with something at home? Is he unhappy with life in general? Why is it up to you to convince him to stay?

You may need a reading before we can advise you.

Unread post by **Doctor Hob** » Thu Apr 18, 2013 10:56 pm

Axle1988 wrote:But then he said he will give me six months to try and convinc him to stay.

This kind of talk infuriates me...

I respect that you want to preserve your marriage, but I'm going to second what Mama Micki said: get a reading. Find out if this guy is worth keeping around, or if there are better things waiting, down the road.

Axle1988 · Unread post by **Axle1988** » Fri Apr 19, 2013 3:08 am

I am so sorry I did not mean to offend anyone. I think he might just be unhappy with his life in general. I still do believe that he loves me regardless of what he says. I did have a reading and I know that he is worth keeping. So if anyone can please help me it would mean a lot to me. Thank you.

Unread post by **Mama Micki** » Fri Apr 19, 2013 6:47 am

We are not taking offense at anything you have said or done. We are just expressing opinions.

I would suggest working with Reconciliation supplies.

http://www.luckymojo.com/reconciliation.html

Axle1988 · Unread post by **Axle1988** » Fri Apr 19, 2013 7:02 am

Should I also maybe start a honey jar on him? I was going to do that tonight. I have his hair. I was going to burn a white,red, and pink candles. Do you think that this would also help?

Unread post by **Mama Micki** » Fri Apr 19, 2013 2:36 pm

Lucky Mojo has both a Reconcilation and a Stay With Me honey jar.

GirlOnFire · Unread post by **GirlOnFire** » Fri Apr 19, 2013 3:17 pm

So sorry about your situation. Did he tell you why he was leaving? What he expected you to change in these 6 months? You might wanna poke around to make sure he isn't seeing anyone. It often seems that people rarely take the initiative to leave unless they have back up. I'm not trying to plant negative thoughts, but it might help to find out exactly what you are working to achieve.

When he said he was giving you six months to convince you to stay...that just sounds so harsh. Like you should jump through hoops to please him or he is gonna leave. Anyway, like everyone else, I think you should get a Rootworker reading...not just a psychic reading from someone who doesn't work hoodoo. A rootworker can give you clearer guidance as to what exactly you should do, give you an exact plan of attack and find underlying root problems and how they should be dealt with magically. There might be more going on than meets the eye. Just a thought. Good luck.

Unread post by **Doctor Hob** » Fri Apr 19, 2013 10:54 pm

Axle1988 wrote:I am so sorry I did not mean to offend anyone.

Ma'am, you did not offend me, and I'm sorry if I gave you that impression. What vexed me was a man who would treat his wife that way. I'd sooner cut off my arm, than hurt my wife, in that manner.

In addition to the advice already given, I would encourage you to post a free prayer request at the Crystal Silence League.

http://crystalsilenceleague.org

Axle1988 · Unread post by **Axle1988** » Sat Apr 20, 2013 4:08 am

Thank you everyone for all the great advice. I did order reconciliation spell kit. Along with stay with me powder, and follow me boy oil. Now how should I go about using all of this?

Unread post by **aura** » Sat Apr 20, 2013 5:55 am

Hi Axle1988,

the Reconciliation kit will come with all of the instructions for use. When they call for using the Reconciliation Sachet powder in the work, add some of the Stay With Me powder to the mix as well. When they call for use of the oil, blend it with a bit of Follow Me Boy.

You can also use the Stay With Me powder to dress your husbands socks and shoes as well as the bed linen. Likewise, a drop or two of the oil can be deployed into his body wash or shampoo as well as used to burn red, pink and blue candles on his name.

Blessings and success in your work.

Axle1988 · Unread post by **Axle1988** » Sat Apr 20, 2013 4:58 pm

When you say burn candles on his name what does that mean? How long does the kit usually take to work cause I only have 6 months, till the beginning of September. I am not expecting anything quick, I do expect it to take time. I am just terrified that he will leave. Is there certain signs that I should be looking for? Today I work they were playing nothing but love songs and that never happens, just thought it was odd. I read on another forum that you should see signs in three days and a great improvement in three weeks and then the spell should be complete in three months. I just want to get my facts straight. There is so much fake stuff about this on the web, hard to believe some of it. Also I read that using the follow me boy by itself works really good and fast, any truth to that? I just want my best chance to make this work so he stays. Thank you.

Unread post by **Doctor Hob** » Sat Apr 20, 2013 10:04 pm

Take a deep breath, and try to calm down. If you want anything to work, you're going to have to be able to focus on what you're doing.

Burning candles on his name refers to writing his name on petition papers, and then dressing candles, with a certain intent, and burning them on top of that paper. You can read more about how candles are used, here: http://www.luckymojo.com/candlemagic.html

Like aura said, the kit will come with detailed instructions, so don't get yourself into a panic worrying about how to do ot. When it arrives, read through the instructions a few times, and if you have any questions, you can ask us, here.

There's no way to judge how long the work will take. There are simply too many variables, especially in love and reconcilliation cases, to make any kind of assesment. The 3/3/3 thing has been taken, and made into some etched-in-stone rule. It it not. It is a basic guideline, but not an absolute structure.

You do need to decide how long you will do the work. You have six months until he says he's leaving. You need to decide, before you ever start, how long past that six months you'll keep working to bring him back, if he does leave. If it works, and he stays, no problem. If he leaves, have a deadline in place.

Any well-made product, used correctly, can yield results. You are in a good position to sort this out, you just have to do the work, as best you can.

I would recommend a reading, as soon as you can. There may be unseen issues, at play.

Good Luck.

Axle1988 · Unread post by **Axle1988** » Mon Apr 22, 2013 7:25 pm

I will keep you guys updated on the progress once I get my stuff in the mail. I did however today create a picture box(?) Where its all the way filled of pictures of me and I put a picture of him on both sides of the cardbord with red string behind the picture, I also wrote on the back of the picture "john Bradley you will think of ne and disere me until you love me and come back to me." As I was holding the box at the end of my bed I was chanting that saying with my eyes closed and trying to visualize him telling me he loves me and is staying with me. Well while I was doing this I felt the need to ask the gods of love to hear my peters and help me. I started to feel really weak and my hands and fore arms started to tingle, is that normal? I placed the box under our bed towards his side. Is there anything that I can do to help while I wait for my stuff to come in the mail?

Unread post by **jwmcclin** » Tue Apr 23, 2013 6:42 am

Good Luck. I was going to add the prayer to the Crystal Silence League, but I see Doctor Hob posted.

Axle1988 · Unread post by **Axle1988** » Wed Apr 24, 2013 7:23 am

My husband of four years told me a week ago that he no longer loves me and wants to leave. I still think that he does love me. He said that he will give me 6 months to try and work it out and then he would stay. He means everything to me. I ordered the reconcile spell kit, follow me boy oil, and stay with me powder. I was also interested in maybe doing the love me spell kit? But I am unsure if you can do both at once. I new to all of this. I am also going to start a honey jar on Friday. I can not burn candles on it though, he is always home and would know that I am up to something. So unread that if you do the honey jar spell that you can just shake it up once in awhile and pray on it, in stead of burning candles on it. I also have some of his hairs from me giving him a hair cut, would these work instead of a picture? Just trying to do something while I wait for my stuff to come in the mail. Also should I not try and kiss him or anything like that? I went to kiss him this morning and he backed away and said that he didn't want to kiss me. Any advice or answers to these questions would be great. Thank you!

Unread post by **Mama Micki** » Wed Apr 24, 2013 8:36 am

Please do not start new threads on the same topic. I put your posts together.

GirlOnFire · Unread post by **GirlOnFire** » Wed Apr 24, 2013 9:49 am

I'm pretty sure the kit you got requires candle burning. They are small candles that burn out after a few hours. Do you have a basement you could do it in? I have even burned candles on the top part of my closet. (There's plenty of space above mine, so not to burn the ceiling.) I've gotten up in the middle of the night and lit them so nobody would suspect. If you can't light candles you might think about having a rootworker perform the spell for you...I think the majority of the kits require candle burning. For a difficult case like reconciliation, I definitely wouldn't be cutting corners by just shaking a honey jar.

Seriously, I know I (and others) have said this already...but you need to get a rootworker reading, if you haven't already. Many offer just $10 readings. Rootworker can recommend EXACTLY the items you need instead of just trying a bit of everything. It will be cheaper in the long run. Going in all directions in a half-ass way just creates chaotic energy and poor results in my opinion. You need a rootworker's guidance and a steady plan of work.

Axle1988 · Unread post by **Axle1988** » Mon Apr 29, 2013 4:59 pm

I have a big red candle that I started to burn today at around 4:00pm. I annoited it with reconciliation oil and follow me boy oil. I also wrote a petition page where I wrote his name nine times first and the my name over his nine times. Then I made a circle aroubd the names, it said something like "love me, and stay with me for a long loving relationship amen." I also said a prayer when I was lighting the candle. I put some of his hair and some of ny hair in the paper under the candle and folded the paper twice towards me. I also took one of his picture and put it on top of the petition paper. And wrote on his picture " love me (his name)" I wrote it over his face and chest area. I spoke to the candle ad it was burning and just ask that they show me a sign.

Now my flame his been very high and steady the whole tome.

Is this a good sign?

Did I do everything correctly?

iv also been wearing the follow me boy around my husband who wants to leave me and also the reconciliation oil with the follow me boy aroubd him. I also put a drop of each in his shampoo and on his pillow case.

Anything more I can do?

Unread post by **catherineyronwode** » Mon Apr 29, 2013 5:49 pm

It sounds like you are doing everything that can be done. If he is threatenenign to leave, you might also wish to try Stay With Me oil in that mixture on your next candle.Use plenty of good home cooking and sexual allure, too -- remember, it's easier for him to stay than to go if he can get everything he wants at home.

I have merged your thread into the thread on keeping a lover. For more opinions on candle flame divination, see

this forum thread:

Candle Divination: Flame, Wick, Wax, Glass, Remains
candle-divination-flame,-wick,-wax,-gla ... t8537.html

this "Hoodoo in Theory and Practice" web page:

HOW TO READ DIVINATION SIGNS FROM CANDLE-BURNING:
CEROMANCY IN HOODOO CANDLE MAGIC
http://www.luckymojo.com/candlemagicdivination.html

and these four books:

The Art of Hoodoo Candle Magic in Rootwork, Conjure and Spiritual Church Services
by Catherine Yronwode and Mikhail Strabo

The Master Book of Candle Burning
by Henri Gamache

The Magic Candle
by Charmaine Dey

The Guiding Light to Power and Success<
by Mikhail Strabo

good luck!

Axle1988 · Unread post by **Axle1988** » Sat May 04, 2013 5:57 am

I just wanted to post a update now since I have been doing my spell candles and laying down tricks. I first burned a very large red candle on a picture of him and a petition paper. I dressed that candle with follow me boy and reconciliation oils. It has a very high flame half way threw burning the candle, then it has now started to crackle and sizzle a lot. I think this is a sign that the spirits want to help me. I also burned a pink bride and groom candle dressed with love me and reconciliation oils. That candle burned clean but the bride sides still was partly left like the corner halp of it. I think I can also make out a heart kind of shape. I also have seen signs. Like the other day on Facebook there's was a saying about his zodiac sign, it said something tobthe effect of they only show you what emotions they want you to see. I also heard his name on the radio a lot and this one girl was talking about September being her and her husbands anniversary and that so happens to be ours to. I also read his horoscope out of one of my magazines and it was spot on with his work life and said that on the 25th of this month his love life will sizzle lol. I also have been putting stay with me powder on his side of the bed, on the sheets and pilllow case. I also put oils in his shampoo and on his hat that he likes to wear. I am thinking about putting the stay with me powder on his socks and underwear for a little kick. I also have been wearing follow me boy and reconciliation oils on ny neck when I am around him. He has been much sweeter towards me like helping with laundry, he never ust to do I would have to beg him to do that. Also he volunteered last night to go the store and get a few things we needed cause he knew I was tired, so that can sometimes not he common with him. He also has started to sleep in the bed again after him sleeping on the couch for maybe four nights. We are still not back to kissing or touching yet but I am trying to work on this with him and give him all the time he needs to make it work. I also asked him the other day if he thought we could work this out and stay together his answer was "it could". This coming from a man who three weeks ago said there's no possible way he was going to stay. Now what other stuff should I be doing? Sorry for the long post