Reconciliation Spell Kit Honey Jar Kit and Painted Bottle Spell Questions and Answers

Unread post by **starsinthesky7** » Thu Jun 14, 2012 2:04 pm

Phonehappy,

Compelling is compelling. Controlling, commanding and, essence of bend over are different degrees of coerciveness. Basically getting someone to do what you want them to do.

Road opener is not coercive. Please look at the description of road opening.
www.luckymojo.com/roadopener.html

So again, you are having the reconciliaton honey jar in the middle. Since you are trying to initiate contact with your friend you should have a brown candle dressed with tobacco, and/or tobbacco oil along with deer tongue. Another red candle dressed with return to me candle. and an orange candle to open the way to help remove the obstacles to help the reconciliation process.

pma · Unread post by **pma** » Thu Jun 14, 2012 2:23 pm

starsinthesky7 wrote:So again, you are having the reconciliaton honey jar in the middle. Since you are trying to initiate contact with your friend you should have a brown candle dressed with tobacco, and/or tobbacco oil along with deer tongue. Another red candle dressed with return to me candle. and an orange candle to open the way to help remove the obstacles to help the reconciliation process.

Interesting. I'm not trying to hijack, here, but I'm wondering whether you could substitute a yellow candle dressed with Van Van for the orange candle dressed with Road Opener. Would this yield a similar result? I've got Van Van but haven't got any Road Opener.

Unread post by **starsinthesky7** » Thu Jun 14, 2012 3:26 pm

The 3 candles around the reconciliation jar are not set in stone. You can change them accordingly to you work. You could add a van van candle as it helps change bad luck into good luck and it can allow new opportunities to come in.

pma · Unread post by **pma** » Thu Jun 14, 2012 5:10 pm

Thanks!!

Unread post by **JayDee** » Thu Jun 14, 2012 6:10 pm

Love the suggestions. I have to ask did you do the reconcilation spell kit as designated? we dont really know what happened but reconcilation, healing oil should help get over the hurt, and if you take the step foward. maybe appologise to them for it. regardless of your work time heals all wounds. speed up a jar, burn a candle on it daily, pray over it daily, smack the side of it daily calling on this persons spirit and stating your petition, use candles dressed in oils and rolled in herbs or powders similar to ur cause.

Doraemon · Unread post by **Doraemon** » Sat Jul 21, 2012 1:03 am

Hello,

My bf broke up with me 5-6 weeks ago,

wanna give this spell kits a try. however. we are a gay couple. WERE a couple

But as u can see there. the spell kits comes with a Bride and Groom candle. will this work on a gay couple?

Unread post by **aura** » Sat Jul 21, 2012 11:11 am

Hi Doraemon,

Ask the shop to substitute two groom candles or two bride candles for gay or lesbian reconciliation.

Do call the shop to see if they can give you same-sex matched lodestones for the kit (Miss Cat may even answer that on the forum later). If not, order a set of same-sex small lodestones (specify it in the order box you want M-M).

Blessings.
Male Clothed Figure (Gentleman) Candle, Pink

Use in Magic:
Pink figural candles are used in spells of friendship, romance, and reconciliation. Male clothed figures, called Gentleman or Groom candles, are used in spells for friendship, romance, or reconciliation with a man.

Spell Methods:
Dress and fix figural candles with oils plus optional herbs or dusting sachets, and pray for your desires, add a written petition, photo, or seal; burn in a fire-safe place.

Product Details:
Pink 4 3/4" Figural Candle

CAN-FIG-MCPI
Male Clothed Figure (Gentleman) Candle, Pink
$11.25

You can order right here in the Forum by clicking on the blue Add To Cart button.

For more information, see:
http://www.luckymojo.com/gentlemancandle.html

Doraemon · Unread post by **Doraemon** » Mon Jul 23, 2012 3:47 am

Thank you,

i was also thinking about doing Intranquility Spell on my ex along with Reconciliation Spell. Is it okay to do both spells at the same time?

Unread post by **aura** » Mon Jul 23, 2012 3:40 pm

Hi Doraemon,

although you can work both at the same time, seriously consider getting a reading prior to performing the Intranquil Spirit spell and if you're a beginner, getting some coaching before doing the work: it's some serious havoc set free and there are some substantial consequences to doing that spell. Also please read through the totality of the following thread prior to making your decision:

working-with-the-intranquil-spirit-t5469.html

Blessings and best of luck in your reconcilation efforts.

Doraemon · Unread post by **Doraemon** » Mon Jul 23, 2012 4:26 pm

I did get A FEW readings from AIRR. basically what they told me that this man MIGHT come back to me in the future but they did tell me to let him go.

I understand the consequences. I just want him to FEEL the need to come back to me.

I still love him very much. I understand this wont change his heart/personality.

Unread post by **aura** » Tue Jul 24, 2012 3:42 am

Hi Doraemon,

the Intranquility Spell is a bit like using a bazooka to kill a fly instead of a flyswatter. It will torture him until he comes back and if it does work, once he gets back you're going to have some major cleansing and protection to do on him to get him out of the mess you've made. He will probably not be doing well when he comes back.

Given that all the AIRR readers you've seen have said pretty much the same thing: CUT AND CLEAR. Find yourself one of the genuinely good and respectful men out there who will treat you like the treasure you should be cherished as. Spend your energy moving forward and bettering your love life - you're worth much more than than wasting your time and efforts on someone like your ex (read the post in the IS thread as well).

If you can't get him out of your head, seriously consider doing the black walnut bath spell to let you move on.

The links to cut and clear and the black walnut spell are here:
http://www.luckymojo.com/cutandclear.html
http://www.herb-magic.com/walnut-whole.html

Blessings and wishes for a respectful and genuine love in your life.

Doraemon · Unread post by **Doraemon** » Tue Jul 24, 2012 6:30 am

Thank you.

Do I want him back? NO.

I want revenge. I understand this is more like a curse than a love spell.

I have read the Intranquility thread. ALL 32 pages.

I don't want him back. What I went through the first few weeks after he broke up with me. the way he treated me after we broke up (he tried to kick me out of his apartment when I was crying. He texted one of his booty calls when I was there crying.)

Do I still have feelings for hims? Yes. That's why I don't wanna harm him by casting a spell that might cost his job or make him homeless or get hit by a car or something like that.

I just wanted him to feel the pain I felt. He knew, he saw that and he was there witnessing me in agony and still he tried to kick me out of his apartment. me. who he said once that I was "worth more than life itself."

He called me a "curse" and a "cancer". so let me give me that.

I also ordered a Cut and clear spell kits. Im planning on using this as soon as im done performing the intranquility spell. Is this okay? to perform cut and clear while waiting for intraquility spell to manifest?

Unread post by **aura** » Tue Jul 24, 2012 6:57 am

I'm glad you read the thread Doraemon. If you feel you have to do it, then do, just make sure you protect extensively. Keep in mind that the emotional trauma from the spell can end up costing him his job or making him homeless - once you send that spirit out, you don't control what it does nor how your ex will react to it. Crossing him might actually be nicer. Burn a black penis candle on his personal concerns to cross up his sex life for example. That doesn't affect his job or living situation or car - it just affects his manly organ - that's really fitting for someone who calls his fling thing while you're there with him.

For the Cut and Clear, you can do it after the Intranquility Spell. If you're waiting for the spell to manifest and checking on it's progress, it will be harder for you to Cut and Clear since the point of the C&C is not to be going back for updates from your ex after doing it. After Cutting and Clearing, Healing, Tranquility and Love Drawing work are more in line with bringing your life to a better space and are works which will benefit you most in the long term.

Blessings.

Doraemon · Unread post by **Doraemon** » Tue Jul 24, 2012 7:03 am

Burn a black penis candle? what can of oil should I use with this? Damnation oil?
I only have his photo, nothing personal *hair/sexual fluid*

will this work?

Unread post by **aura** » Tue Jul 24, 2012 8:39 am

Burning black penis candles on his photo is a way of working that many have used with success. If you want, you can do a series or burn one candle over 7 days, separating the 7 days of burning with pins (and sticking pins into a likeness of his manhood will feel quite relieving!).

You can anoint the candle(s) with Damnation oil, or a combo of Crossing and Confusion oils can work quite well.

Doraemon · Unread post by **Doraemon** » Tue Jul 24, 2012 3:23 pm

thanks

nowherelass · Unread post by **nowherelass** » Thu Sep 13, 2012 6:49 pm

If you feel that it would help the quality of the relationship and even the working to go out and "sow your wild seed" while single and working the reconciliation with your ex, would that put the spell back at all? I feel that a little boost of male attention would help me feel better about CHOOSING to get back into the relationship, and I know that I really want my ex back in the long run; can I date around while waiting for reconciliation to work after I've sent the letter?

Josief · Unread post by **Josief** » Mon Sep 24, 2012 2:09 am

I really am still in shock at how well everything has been working for me. I have absolutely no experience in hoodoo or anything even closely related to it and I really just turned to it out of desperation.

My boyfriend and I have been off and on for a year and a half. I broke it off with him in March and we talked occasionally. He started dating other people around May and I was completely fine with it and even encouraged it. Several times he tried telling me to come back and he would stop seeing these girls but I wasn't ready. I tried to "date" other people but it never got past a few conversations and those conversations would just make me miss him and our relationship. By the end of August I was ready to come back and appreciate him and our love, but I had waited, too, long. He was ready to get a little more serious with one of the girls he was dating. We met up and talked and I cried and begged and he cried but told me he couldn't trust me anymore. That he still loved me, but I broke his heart and it would never be the same and that he needed to move on. I was devastated and desperate like I mentioned earlier. I was Facebook stalking like a pro and googling how to get your ex back when I started finding different results for spells.

One day I came across a red apple spell and decided to go for it. That's how I found Lucky Mojo. I needed oils and candles and I really didn't feel comfortable walking into any of the shops here. I found everything I needed here online and within a week I working my first Reconciliation Honey Jar Spell Kit. During the week while I was waiting for my supplies he and I talked and he basically told me to leave him alone and not to contact him for a few months so he could give his new relationship the chance it deserved. I was so crushed.

I started the spell with a heavy heart. It was supposed to take about a week. On the 6th day he called me and wanted to talk. We had several conversations and he seemed very confused and torn suddenly. I decided at this point to order a honey jar. While I was waiting for the jar he made the decision to end his relationship with the other woman. I assume this change of heart was from the red apple spell.

I was very happy but at the same time I noticed a lot of sadness and resentment from him. If I told him I loved him he would tell me that he loved me but it wasn't the same and he didn't know if we could ever get back there. At one point he told me to stop telling him I loved him. Last Wednesday he woke up and decided he needed to get away and went to go visit his family. I was really upset at all the rejection.

We talked on the phone and the conversations weren't going so well. On Friday I received my honey jar. I worked it that night and when it was done around 11 pm I went straight to bed. The next morning I woke up and he had texted me just after midnight asking if I was doing ok and that he was just thinking about me and how we had both put each other through so much. The next two days he just became so much more responsive and attentive. Suddenly he was answering all my calls even if he was in the middle of dinner and he would call me back as soon as he finished instead of ignoring my calls and texting me short replies like "busy" and my favorite "k".

This morning I'm up early because he called me at 2 am to tell me that he couldn't sleep because he missed me so much. He said he decided he would come home first thing tomorrow morning so he could spend some time with me. I have never been happier to be woken up in my life. Then about ten minutes later he called me back and told me that he loved me. I really can't believe my hopeless situation turned around so quickly. I will be burning my honey jar candles every Monday, Wednesday, and Friday until they're gone!

Unread post by **Lord SP** » Mon Sep 24, 2012 9:58 am

That's awesome I love hearing success stories and how they work for people.LM is a special place I've come to adore myself..Be blessed in Magick hun!!!

Unread post by **Joseph Magnuson** » Mon Sep 24, 2012 5:05 pm

Good job! Keep up the good work.

Josief · Unread post by **Josief** » Tue Sep 25, 2012 9:41 am

Thanks everyone!

Softballqueen · Unread post by **Softballqueen** » Wed Oct 03, 2012 7:57 pm

Do you remember which honey jar you ordered? This is new to me. I need help ordering the correct honey jar.

Nh5889 · Unread post by **Nh5889** » Sun Nov 18, 2012 1:03 pm

Softballqueen -

She ordered the Reconciliation Honey Jar Kit.

I have considered ordering the full Reconciliation Spell Kit. This spell is to bring his love back. He loves me but says that we are completely done. I want our love back and be together again, will this take care of that?

I read that with this particular spell kit i have to write a letter and send it. Who do i write the letter to and who do i send it to? If its to my former lover then i wont be able to send it cuz he wont give me his address and would rather me email him.

coastwitch · Unread post by **coastwitch** » Sun Nov 18, 2012 11:13 pm

Nh5889 --

I don't think email ir quite right for the letter that you send with the Reconciliation Spell Kit. You are instructed to dust it with the Reconciliation Sachet Power so that when your ex receives it he will touch the powder. So email is not going to do that.

I suggest that you use the Reconciliation Honey Jar Kit instead and buy an extra dozen candles, and work until the candles are all gone.

Best wishes.

laur67 · Unread post by **laur67** » Sat Nov 24, 2012 4:34 am

This past Friday I began my reconciliation honey jar. I realized after I burned the candle that the paper was ripped and I did not press it down in the honey. Should I start with another honey jar?

DieFaust · Unread post by **DieFaust** » Sat Dec 01, 2012 2:02 am

Lucky Mojo Honey Jars are without a doubt some of the best things i've ever used. They sweeten without coercing which i think makes them so valuable because they allow things to happen almost organically. The few times i've used them have worked wonders for healing broken relationships or starting new ones with healthy attachments (ones that are grown with the relationship, not by force) I highly recommend them to anyone who is looking for strong results with a more subtle approach.

believingforthebest · Unread post by **believingforthebest** » Tue Dec 04, 2012 8:03 am

Hello everyone

I am starting a Reconciliation Honey Jar, for me and the guy I am involved with, we have been off and on for years and we are still sexually involved we are in-love however our ruff past is holding us back from moving forward. He has informed me that he loves me and loves spending time together but he doesn't feel good about being in a relationship with me because of things that have happened in our past.

What I want to know is what other herbs besides the ones that came with the kit can I add to remove bad thoughts about the past/ to make him forget about the bad things that are holding us back from being in a relationship? (Besides a sqare of camphor)

We get alone great but there is some fear about us being together, so what I hope to gain is to put an end to the thoughts/emotions of the negativity of the past and move happily forward with the future with peace, respect and trust

Unread post by **Papa Newt** » Tue Dec 04, 2012 9:08 am

You say you have a kit, are you speaking of the Reconciliation Honey Jar Spell Kit? If so then all the herbs needed to help heal past emotional hurts are already in that mixture. You need to just start working that jar regularly as per the instructions and let it do it's thing. Healing can take a little time so keep at it.

Also, I'm curious as to why you would put Camphor into a Reconciliation honey jar? Camphor is not a good thing to ingest, and since you will be eating a little of the honey then I would really encourage you against doing this.

Aprilward · Unread post by **Aprilward** » Thu Dec 06, 2012 3:26 pm

I had order a reconciliation bottle and it fell out of my pocket. And it broke. When it did that I knew that was a bad sign. My ex boyfriend said that he does not want me any more and to move on with it him. Yes he is seeing a women that they have been seeing each other for about 2 1/2 months now. But yet and ati him and I have sex . The last time was last week. I really want him back but another part of me don't want him. But he heart my heart so bad. When I got my divorce he was the first man I started dating and things went bad cause of trust from me. But know that this other women is in his life and he moved on . I stuck. I want to get him off my mind and from my heart. And the other side of me say give it some more time . I just started to do my spells nov of 20. I don't want to get hurt anymore if he don't want to come back. Please any real talk advice!!!

Unread post by **Mary Bee** » Fri Dec 07, 2012 5:21 am

You can always keep spell bottles on an altar or table where they're less likely to fall on the ground and break.

If he's having sex with you and yet still seeing this other woman, he's playing you big time. You deserve a better man than that. Refuse to have sex with him anymore. Do a Cut and Clear spell and move on from this guy.

Http://www.luckymojo.com/cutandclear.html

Good luck,
Mary Bee

UnderVenus · Unread post by **UnderVenus** » Wed Jan 02, 2013 9:44 pm

Would this kit be right for me? My ex and I broke up almost one year ago. It was a strange break up because it was so unexpected -- our relationship was seemingly perfect. We were good friends before we began dating and he really cared about me. Then one day, he broke up with me out of the blue because "he didn't feel like being a relationship", and I guess he was telling the truth about that because one year later we're both single and haven't dated anyone else since. It was like his feelings completely changed overnight. Ever since the break up, I've been absolutely gutted. I feel like I had the rug pulled out from under me.

Things got messy after we broke up. We went out a few times after that and it seems like every time we did he gradually got colder and colder towards me (e.g. the first time we saw each other after the split, he picked me up in his car for the "date" and he was blaring obnoxious rap music --he does NOT listen to rap-- on the radio and ignoring me. thankfully I was able to get him to completely warm up by the end of the night, and he began acting like his old self though he was still very guarded). We got into an argument (mainly me wanting to know why we broke up, him giving no reasons other than "I don't feel like it", me wanting to know why he has negative feelings towards me when I haven't done anything, him claiming that he doesn't have any negative feelings towards me, me getting even more frustrated followed by him pushing me away even more).

For the past few months, he has cut me off entirely. He blocked me on every social site, he never responds to my texts/calls..etc. If I could just get him to ease up on his stubbornness, remember what we had and how good it was, and give the relationship a second chance, I know that things would work.

Would this spell (or maybe a combination of similar spells?) work for my situation? The only problem I have with this spell is throwing the water over a crossroad at sunrise (conflicts in my schedule and i live in a city) and writing him a letter. He has a big family whom he lives with and I doubt it would be able to get to him directly (someone else would pick it up, open it..etc.). Does anyone have any suggestions as to what I should do or what kits/products I should try? Maybe a honey jar to sweeten his behavior towards me, something that would make him get in contact with me (follow me boy oil?)..etc. I know my situation is complicated but any insight would mean the world.

Unread post by **Mama Micki** » Thu Jan 03, 2013 8:09 am

No, UnderVenus, your situation is not "complicated." He told you a year ago that he didn't want a relationship and apparently doesn't want one now (with you, anyway). Cut and Clear him and move on. Stop wasting time, money, and energy on him and find someone else.

UnderVenus · Unread post by **UnderVenus** » Thu Jan 03, 2013 8:49 am

I'm about to, but before I do, I want to give it one final attempt. What product(s) would be the most likely to help me?

mistie · Unread post by **mistie** » Tue Jan 15, 2013 5:49 am

good morning,

I have a reconcilation honey jar that i have been burning on Monday, Wednesdays, and Fridays with pink candles since the last part of October of 2012, Its for my husband.

we have talked by phone so far and he still has resentments with me however we agreed we still love each other.

I always placed his picture under the bottom of the jar, i did some thing different yesterday, i cut and placed a picture of myself next to his since some of me is in that jar my hair with his the candles have always burned down and only the wicks could be seen yesterday it burned down but you could still see a little of the pink and i burned a white candle this morning i wanted to do this because i got a feeling we both need some peace calm between each other, so question --

can i burn for seven days one pink one white each day?

also it was resistance in the white candle knots which caused it to build up a little and drip down the sides. any suggestions?

thanks

Unread post by **catherineyronwode** » Mon Jan 21, 2013 11:51 am

mistie --

Yes, you can burn white and pink alternating or in series on a Reconciliation Honey Jar kit.

SPL-HON-RECO
Reconciliation and Return Honey Spell
$25.00

You can order right here in the Forum by clicking on the blue Add To Cart button.

Unread post by **Gabriela10** » Fri Jan 25, 2013 7:08 pm

Hi, I just received my second reconciliation honey jar from the Lucky Mojo. but I got the wrong instructions. I believe the herbs are the ones for reconciliation because I remember the first time I order the honey jar. But I receive instructions for a break up.

The first time I got the jar, I follow the instructions but I did not have any of his personal concerns. Now I got the hair, but I am not sure about how to write the name on the paper and I was hoping to follow the instructions. Could you help me with this?

Thanks,

Gabriela

Unread post by **catherineyronwode** » Fri Jan 25, 2013 10:27 pm

Gabriela10 --

It sounds like a page was missing or one of the pages was wrong. There should be TWO 2-sided sheets in your Honey Jar Spell Kit instructions:

1) CONTAINER SPELLS (covers bottle spells, honey jars, apples, boxes, etc.)
2) HONEY JAR SPELLS PART ONE/PART TWO with a sample Reconciliation Spell (can be adapted for any sweet spell)

Bottle Spells also come with TWO sheets of instructions:

1) CONTAINER SPELLS (covers bottle spells, honey jars, apples, boxes, etc.)
2) BOTTLE AND JAR SPELLS, PART ONE/PART TWO with a sample Break-Up Spell (can be adapted for any bottle spell)

So if you got the wrong instruction sheets -- and it sounds like you did -- please call the shop at 707-887-1521 and ask for Lesie, Aidan, or Robin -- and give them your name, invoice number, or some identification of who you are and what you ordered, and ask them to send you the HONEY JAR INSTRUCTIONS from the "Honey Jars Masters" file folder.

Sorry about that -- and i would do it myself, but i don't know who you are by your screen name and anyway, customer service is their job! LOL!

optimistic1 · Unread post by **optimistic1** » Wed Jan 30, 2013 7:43 pm

I carry a reconciliation mojo bag which I got as part of the spell when I did the reconciliation spell kit. it didn't say anything about feeding it? So, do I have to feed it? With what & how often?

Unread post by **catherineyronwode** » Wed Jan 30, 2013 7:48 pm

You can dress or feed your mojo with the oil that came in the spell, or with your favourite perfume.

Novagrey21 · Unread post by **Novagrey21** » Thu Jan 31, 2013 11:24 am

Hi Cat,

You wrote, "When working a Reconciliation honey jar, it is especially appropriate to ask for the help of any ancestors who lived lives filled with love, fidelity, and all the rewards of a happy marriage."

I noticed this quote pertained to a question I had regarding asking ancestors for help with the reconciliation honey jar. My greatgrandparents were happily married for 57 years. The cemetery they are buried at isn't too far from my home and they are buried next to each other. How can I petition their help in reconciling my relationship?

orion · Unread post by **orion** » Fri Feb 01, 2013 9:02 pm

I started the reconciliation spell this morning.

I used a photo of us in a frame as the tray and dressed it as a heart with the powder, packet plate ... etc.
Burned 1/9th of the incense and candle.

The photo in the frame is of us with her on the left and me on the right, so that's what I was following as a template for the lodestones.

Later I realised that the photo of us as well as the lodestones are on opposite sides of the genders of the candle if the candle is facing towards you.
Eg. her lodestone/photo are on the groom's side (left) and my lodestone/photo are on the bride's side (right)

Is this an issue? should I switch the orientation of the lodestones, or turn the candle around? or is it fine the way it is? or should I start from scratch?

Newbie · Unread post by **Newbie** » Wed Feb 06, 2013 6:46 pm

Hi,
What is the difference between
1) Reconciliation honey jar and
2) Reconciliation spell kit.

Also, what is the difference between Reconciliation bottle spell "Bottle Painted, fixed with all contents and candle" and a "Reconciliation spell kit"?
Sounds like the fixed bottle comes with all ingredients needed to do full reconciliation spell as well. So what is the difference between the two?

Somebody kindly reply at your earliest convenience pleaseee.

Also I did not see any Vinegar spell kit or bottle on the site's online store. Is there any fixed vinegar spell kit on here?

Regards.

Unread post by **catherineyronwode** » Wed Feb 06, 2013 7:12 pm

newbie, a spell kit is a way to perform a certain spell in which all the ingredients are supplied. There are MANY spells and hence MANY spell kits. A honey jar spell is a type of spell, but is only used for sweetening. Because it is a fairly standard, simple type of spell, and not too costly, we call it a "mini spell kit." We also sell a Reconciliation Bottle Spell kit.

I suggest tat you read the pages we supply at our site, because they give you the information you will need to make a good choice.

Here is a page about all of our Reconciliation products:
http://luckymojo.com.reconciliation.html

Here is information our honey jar spell kits:
http://luckymojo.com/honeyjar.html

Here is a look at our bottle spells:
http://www.luckymojo.com/bottlespells.html

And here are the products:

Reconciliation Spell Kit

Use in Magic:
Have you and someone had a foolish quarrel? Has an enemy jinxed your romance? Try Reconciliation to forgive and forget past problems, fights, and break-ups; to repair friendships; to restore love affairs; and to renew peace in the family and harmony in the home.

Spell Methods:
Lucky Mojo spell kits are the perfect introduction to folk magic for those who want to follow established methods; you will receive all of the ingredients needed to perform a full job of work, plus complete instructions for use.

Product Details:

SPL-KIT-RECO
Reconciliation Spell Kit
$65.25

You can order right here in the Forum by clicking on the blue Add To Cart button.

For more information, see:
http://www.luckymojo.com/reconciliation.html

SPL-HON-RECO
Reconciliation, Return, Heal Emotional Distance Honey Spell
$25.00

You can order right here in the Forum by clicking on the blue Add To Cart button.

BTS-HOX-RECO
Reconciliation, painted, fixed with contents and candle
$18.00

You can order right here in the Forum by clicking on the blue Add To Cart button.

Now, because we sell more of the Reconciliation spell kits than the Reconciliation honey jars or Reconciliation Bottle Spells, i have placed this in the spell kit thread -- but there is also a thread for the honey jar, too.

Newbie · Unread post by **Newbie** » Thu Feb 07, 2013 8:09 am

Cat,
I read those pages and I still have this question:

what is the difference between Reconciliation bottle spell "Bottle Painted, fixed with all contents and candle" and a "Reconciliation spell kit"?Sounds like the fixed bottle comes with all ingredients needed to do full reconciliation spell as well. So what is the difference between the two?

Does spell kit have anything more than the painted and fixed bottle?
Regards.

Luckbewithme876 · Unread post by **Luckbewithme876** » Mon Feb 11, 2013 11:52 pm

Can the pre-fixed Reconciliation Bottle spell be used to repair a friendship? If not, could I use the empty bottle for this? And what should go in it for Reconciliation?

jessesdad · Unread post by **jessesdad** » Sat Feb 16, 2013 8:11 pm

I recently started a reconciliation bottle spell to go along with a honey jar. I re-opened the bottle to burn another candle and now after reading up in the forum not sure if that was a mistake or not. I read you could open and add more things and also read that the spell is basically dead if bottle is open. Just want to clarify so that if I need to start over I can.

Unread post by **Miss Tammie Lee** » Sat Feb 16, 2013 8:38 pm

I'm going to answer this question with a link:
http://www.luckymojo.com/reconciliation.html

Click on all links.
Don't second guess your work. This is a statement I am writing out of context. Do not for example add "Essence of Bend Over", why-- See the honey jar thread.

Seek help and magical coaching from a Member of AIRR:

http://readersandrootworkers.org

Sign up for this week's Lucky Mojo Hoodoo Rootwork Hour:
radio-show-pre-call-id-february-17th,-2013-t24251.html

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SugarLoveHoney · Unread post by **SugarLoveHoney** » Thu Aug 01, 2013 5:04 pm

I have purchased the reconciliation honey jar from lucky mojo and will be working it to get my ex-boyfriend back. I was wondering if its okay to add come to me oil and healing oil with the reconciliation oil on the pink candles to burn on it? Thank you

Unread post by **catherineyronwode** » Thu Aug 01, 2013 9:32 pm

Novagrey21,

A simple way to petition ancestors is to place a photo of them (together, if possible) in a fame on the altar where you are working your reconciliation spell. Talk to them about what you want -- an end to squabbles, hard talk, and impatience, and an increase of sweetness, kindliness, and mutual affection.

A more complex method would be to take coins and flowers to their grave as offerings and collect some of their dirt, and keep it in a bowl on the altar in front of the photo on your altar Stick a small white candle in the bowl of dirt and light it when you ask them for help.

Good luck.

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SugarLoveHoney,

Yes, that mixture is fine.

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Jules6186 · Unread post by **Jules6186** » Tue Aug 06, 2013 7:53 am

I found this idea on another site and while it appeals to me, one thing bugs me. Basically, it calls for making a honey jar in a hollowed out apple like a jack o lantern.
It says...:
The Ritual

Carve the top of the apple (like a jack-o-lantern) so that you'll be able to remove the top and replace it again.

Write the full name and birth date of the person you desire on the piece of cardboard. Take that, along with their photo (optional, for a stronger spell) and place it in the center of the apple.

Put three spoonfuls of honey and sugar inside the center and put the apple lid back on the apple

If you want your lover to be bound to you, wrap the apple in your underwear (a pair you'll never use again)

Then place the apple in an airtight container (Tupperware is fine) and put in the farthest corner of your closet and don't touch it for an entire week.

As the week starts to pass the apple will get mushy. The mushier the apple gets, the mushier your lover's heart will get and the more their desires for you will show.

After a week has passed, check the apple and if you feel it's not mushy enough let it sit for a day or a few more days, than bury it in the ground.

My concern, the apple will naturally mold, would that have a negative effect on the work? Or am I over thinking? Opinions? Thanks!

Unread post by **aura** » Tue Aug 06, 2013 9:50 am

Hi Jules6186,

Making a honey jar from a hollowed out red onion or red apple is quite traditional in hoodoo although this variation is a bit mixed up from the looks of it (a more experienced worker will no doubt be able to confirm or deny that with more certainty).

Différences insofar as I can see them:
(1) the personal concerns and petition would be made as for any other honey jar.
(2) the wrapping the apple in underwear is trying to combine a honey jar spell with a binding spell - wouldn't quite work it that way. Tying a doll-baby in your underwear when you're not working it - OK. Using it on a honey-jar? Really not sure on that - I certainly wouldn't do it as it makes the whole dang thing pretty unwieldy.
(3) no way on the airtight container. these spells are often done in a coffee tin that candles can be burnt on or in a planting pot, covered with soil and used to plant a house-plant (a fern is great) in. That way as the plant grows, it is fed by the spell beneath.
(4) burial in the ground is a valid form of disposal. the front yard would be traditional as it brings in your desire.

There is also a section on this type of spell in Miss Cat's page on honey jars here: http://www.luckymojo.com/honeyjar.html

lucyjacob · Unread post by **lucyjacob** » Thu Aug 08, 2013 1:11 am

Hey everyone!

I was wondering if anyone could help or give any tips or help to increase the success rate for my honey jar spell to sweeten up my ex to give me another chance, specifically for gay guys in mind. We split up 6 months ago over a very silly argument, and we had been getting on fine until that point.
Recently, my ex and me went to the pub, and he stated he wanted to get back together, but was scared of a repeat of the row after a few drinks. However, he stated he forgot what he said the next day!

This is probably genuine, as he used to forget events all the time when he was drunk when we were dating. I'll leave it up to you to decide whether people say what they really mean when they are drunk!

As that is another debate. My ex is very wary of relationships as his ex before me cheated on him and stole money. So he is hard work.I did consult a psychic (who was about 75% accurate of my past), who said If I just left him alone for 2 months he would come back, but that is hard work too as we live in a small town and have lots of mutual friends.

For the honey jar I used organic honey, I put my petition paper in, with 2 magnets, rose quartz, lavender and roses from the garden, along with some yarrow, catnip and cloves. For effects I used 2 photos, one of us together, and 2 separate pics of us joined with honey to the mouth, and some snips of his shirt and boot soles. The pics were anointed with come to me oil, and the petition was sprinkled with come to me and follow me boy powder from a local witch's shop.

For the candle work, I've been alternating burning a red and pink candle, also anointing with follow me boy and come to me. I have been praying my intent along with psalm 32 ( but this is also debatable, as most religions are vehemently opposed to homosexual relationships, and my ex is aggressively atheist, though I'm open minded to all religions) So far the candles and burning well, they randomly flicker for a few minutes, but then are calm, but don't leave much wax. As well as looking out for any tips ( for example, is it worth petioning a saint or angel to help?) I'll post any results

Unread post by **aura** » Thu Aug 08, 2013 5:07 am

Hi Jamie,

Your honey jar work sounds solid: keep it going. Adding some blue candle burning with Tranquility, Healting and King Solomon Wisdom can give you both a hand to get over past hurt, understand each other better and move forward on a firm foot. You may even want to work a full reconciliation spell kit to get things up to the next level.

With regards to the psychic reading - if you have contact with a target and want reconciliation - leaving them alone is not usually a good plan. Try and maintain communication as you've been doing. Stay and be a supportive friend as you've been doing since this will ultimately build his trust in you.

When it comes to silly arguments, look at what caused the argument, weak points on both sides - and start thinking of an action plan for dealing with similar situations in future. Knowing how you react and being honest about it will allow you to develop the coping methods to deal with those tendencies in future. Crucible of Courage and King Solomon Wisdom Bath crystals combined in equal amounts make great bath-tub soaks you can use the time from to journal about this, think about it, or read books on the subject to help you grow.

Overall you've got some movement happening and you're working in the right direction. Keep it up and keep us updated as things develop.

Blessings and Success.

lucyjacob · Unread post by **lucyjacob** » Thu Aug 08, 2013 6:00 am

Hi Thanks your tips regarding trying the blue candle, it was a good idea, I'll give it a go!

My ex never initiates contact, except via facebook liking photos and statuses, he never texts. If I arrange an outing for just us two, he used to come, but rarely does now. I feel like i'm just being a pest and obsessive...I keep communication open by inviting him to events from our mutual friends. The psychic's opinion was that, as I'm chasing him he doesn't feel the need to make the effort to contact me and he hasn't been given a chance to miss me. So I just decided to stop texting and leave him alone for a bit.

Unread post by **Colette** » Fri Aug 09, 2013 7:56 am

I shared this trick once (when I was using a different account - it got deleted after I didn't post for a long while).

Burn a pink candle dressed with deer's tongue (for communication) on your honey jar. Burn two orange candles dressed with Road opener oil on the sides (for road opening, and drawing attention/speeding things up a little).

Good luck.

lucyjacob · Unread post by **lucyjacob** » Sat Aug 10, 2013 8:50 am

HI Thanks for the tips, I've been doing the jar 3 days and got a couple of signs, a car in front of me registration had hid first name, and a spam email with his surname in the title. Or are they coincedences? Who knows? lol

I guess it'll be for the long haul. The ex is a stubborn mother, he even rebelled and smoked cigarettes against his anti smoking medication when it worked and smoking started to make him feel sick

yemaya omlude · Unread post by **yemaya omlude** » Thu Aug 22, 2013 6:00 am

So ive done my first honey jar to reconcile with a guy im dating. Everything was going great with us until he asked me if i had sex with a man that he knew. I did six years ago twice but that was it. I lied to him, then i came clean about it thinking he would respect that i came clean about it. Its been two weeks now he hasnt responded to calls or texts. I got a reading done, and was told i still have him in my hand. So my honey jar has a piece of his hair with mine intertwined with his. In my jar is the name paper with his full name written three times and mine on top of his name at 90°, and red rose petals. I have been burning pink candles on top. I just recently opened the jar and added cinnamon and clove powder to heat things up. I also have a unlaunder shirt and pair of socks of his. Is it okay that i reopened the jar and added to it? Also what can i do with the sock and shirt to bring him back to me?

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Sat Aug 24, 2013 6:28 pm

Good evening, Yemaya Omlude,
I'm so very sorry that I did not see this post sooner. I can't understand how I had passed it. Please accept my apologies.
First of all, yes, it's OK that you re-opened it and added the herbs. Not to worry.
Hmm, you've got some good articles there: the shirt and socks. Hold onto to the shirt. You can work with the socks to get him to return to you. Just don't use everything at once. You want to keep something in the event that you want to work with it in the future.
In addition to your honey jar, try a return to me spell. There's one listed that requires a sock!!!!
Try spells on this site and keep your honey jar going with the candles (you're doing good work there). www.luckymojo.com/returntome.html
It's so upsetting that you were perfectly honest with him and he got mad. At least you showed your true colors: a person of integrity. I hope he sees this fabulous quality in you.
Please let us know your progress. Wishing you health, wealth, and happiness

lucyjacob · Unread post by **lucyjacob** » Wed Aug 28, 2013 2:41 am

hi, here is an update on the honey jar so far

after 3 weeks, I contacted the ex, and he was up for meeting the very night I texted, and he has indeed been a bit nicer. We have arranged a couple of future meets, however he used the time to encourage me to date new people and mentioning his potential dates. He still seems pretty angry occasionally. He has tried to get me jealous before this then come on to me, he isn't above playing mind games I'm afraid. At the end of the night he seemed quite sad and tied my shoe laces up for me. Also, I managed to use this opportunity of meeting again to get some of his hair to make the spell stronger.

Candles so far, have been burning very strongly and highly, occasionaly leaving large puddles of wax, particularly blue wax, which subsequent candles mop up. Yesterday, 2 flames appeared on a red candle for a few minutes, before merging into one.

Should, I perservere with this jar, given I have the hair? Or just conclude that the jars result has already been achieved. Some reports have stated a honey jar can take up to a year to kick in? usually when the jar has been set aside and forgotten about?

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Wed Aug 28, 2013 8:06 am

Good Afternoon,
Well, the 2 flames merging as one is a pretty good sign. I'd continue with the jar.
And I would add that hair to it. But, that's just what I would do.
As far as your question regarding the year, that all depends on each practitioners' point of view. We all have different thought processes on this.
BUT, again, it looks like the jar is working. He tied your shoes. So, it sounds to me that he is starting to come around.
Remember, the results of magic are not instantaneous with a puff of smoke (like the movies). Many times, the results are slow, subtle, and uniform (to the point that you might question whether or not it is the magic.....but it is).
Sounds like your jar is working.
Just wondering, a blue candle??