Spells to Turn Friend Co-Worker or Boss Toward Dating Loving or Sex

Unread post by **Mama Micki** » Fri Jan 25, 2013 3:54 pm

There is always a possibility of you of him starting a romantic relationship if the time is right. The Love Me spell kit may be what you are looking for.

Unread post by **Mama Micki** » Fri Jan 25, 2013 4:05 pm

It is difficult to change a person's nature. He may not be the type to stick with one woman. I wouldn't consider him a "cheater" unless he made a commitment to a woman. You could try a skull candle or figural candle dressed with Tranquility oil to calm him down.

Unread post by **jwmcclin** » Fri Jan 25, 2013 4:19 pm

Read this discussion (spells-to-turn-co-worker,-acquaintance, ... t9546.html) that offers additional.

prvteye123 · Unread post by **prvteye123** » Fri Jan 25, 2013 4:55 pm

Thank you everyone

he's genuinely an awesome guy but just hasn't been with someone. Knowing his strengths and weaknesses, I have a feeling lucky mojo would be able to help me

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AJxoxo · Unread post by **AJxoxo** » Sun Jan 27, 2013 6:06 pm

Hi!

I believe this is the right area for this, but I am not completely sure. Anyway, I live in a 4bd/4bath apt. and one room is vacant and one roommate might be moving soon.

I was wanting to attract a good roommate ( the one that's leaving is very unpleasant) but, I am also single and looking for love

So, I was wondering if it was possible to combine both?

If my unpleasant roommate decides not to leave I have been considering hot foot, so they'll be those two empty rooms. They would have to find someone to sublease and I would actually have no involvement in the selection, but is there something I could do anyway?

So, I want to not only attract a good roommate (or 2?) but a potential roommate interest as well. I was thinking all I could do is something involving a petition for a lesbian roommate but, I don't really know.

Sorry if that's too confusing!
Thanks!

Unread post by **jwmcclin** » Sun Jan 27, 2013 6:19 pm

Well two previous posts come to mind:

Need a Roommate....
and
Roommates to become lovers...

Remember to search the forums before posting, you may have the answer right in your hand.

AJxoxo · Unread post by **AJxoxo** » Sun Jan 27, 2013 7:50 pm

Thanks!

I've read both of those and I don't believe they apply to my situation because

1. I'm not actually the one choosing the roommate.

2. The person isn't here for me to do a love spell or something on.

I wasn't sure if there was anything I could do if I'm not actually the one choosing the new roommate.

So ideally, something that would bring the right person (single lesbian) into the picture for my current roommate to find and select, would be needed.

cccoralee · Unread post by **cccoralee** » Tue Jan 29, 2013 9:03 am

I've been speaking with this guy since September. We're not in a relationship yet but it's been a few months so we've had "the talk".
Basically he admitted to liking me but he doesn't know where it's going. What can I do to nudge him in the direction of a relationship? I really want him to desire me in all ways, be intensely attracted to me (and only me) and be in a committed relationship with me.
He's currently living a state away temporarily for the next couple of weeks but I don't want to wait until he comes back to start doing some work.
What can I do?

Thanks in advance. You guys are always so helpful!

Apollo Dark · Unread post by **Apollo Dark** » Tue Jan 29, 2013 1:03 pm

Hello cccoralee,

Here are some products from Lucky Mojo for you to consider:

SPL-KIT-FOLL
Follow Me Boy Spell Kit
$42.10

You can order right here in the Forum by clicking on the blue Add To Cart button.

SPL-KIT-COME
Come To Me Spell Kit
$48.40

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Either of these would be good for your desires. Perhaps blending the two product lines together for your spell. There are oils, powders, candles, and more to consider.

Best of Luck to You!

Kemicarm25 · Unread post by **Kemicarm25** » Thu Jan 31, 2013 7:18 am

Hi everyone,

I was just wondering if you knew how to create a situation from scratch? I mean I fancy a total stranger( he already smiled at me months ago ) and I would like to us to bump on each other and from there starting to talk ('though nothing may happen between us) He's a bus driver and ,from time to time, i see him but he look as if he's not interested. I do visualize him quiet often and I send him love. One day, I was waiting at the bus stop opposite his, and he could see me properly:that day, i put some makeup.

Few days later, I saw him from far and he looked polished:new haircut. I felt that there was some changes.

Another thing: I spoke about one of my friend( the last time I saw her was 2 years ago) to another person and the next day I bumped into her at the supermarket. And i have more like this.sometimes i think 'bout something and it happens.Can someone explain?
I do burnt oils (jasmine, hyssop, etc..) and John conquistador and many more.Can you tell me more about visualizing thing to make them happen? Also, I often feel dizzy and have headaches quiet often after it.

thank you in advance for your help!

nana664 · Unread post by **nana664** » Sat Feb 02, 2013 7:32 am

Wow, I haven't been here for a while. So many posts to catch up on. I would use:

Look Me Over - to get him to keep checking you out
Bewitching - There's something about you that holds his interest
Crucible Of Courage - to give you both the courage to start talking

That's how I would start. By the way, that new haircut would have been an awesome opening for you. Many times, I have seen strangers with some cute shoes or a nice hairdo, and have actually said, " your shoes are really cute" or "I love your hair" ,etc. You'd be surprised at the reaction you'll get. People LOVE compliments.

I'm not good with visualization, so I can't help you there.

Apollo Dark · Unread post by **Apollo Dark** » Sat Feb 02, 2013 1:20 pm

nana664 wrote:Wow, I haven't been here for a while. So many posts to catch up on. I would use:

Look Me Over - to get him to keep checking you out
Bewitching - There's something about you that holds his interest
Crucible Of Courage - to give you both the courage to start talking

That's how I would start. By the way, that new haircut would have been an awesome opening for you. Many times, I have seen strangers with some cute shoes or a nice hairdo, and have actually said, " your shoes are really cute" or "I love your hair" ,etc. You'd be surprised at the reaction you'll get. People LOVE compliments.

Excellent product reccomendations!

Buy them right here at the forums!

Also you might consider a Honey Jar Spell.

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OIL-HOO-LOOK
Look Me Over Oil
$7.00

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CAN-GLS-BEWI
Bewitching Glass-Encased Candle, Fixed
$9.00

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OIL-HOO-CRUC
Crucible of Courage Oil
$7.00

You can order right here in the Forum by clicking on the blue Add To Cart button.

For more in-depth answers to your questions, try getting a reading with a Professional Practitioner. They could also help you with Visualization and coach you through your spells!

Best of Luck to You!

prvteye123 · Unread post by **prvteye123** » Sat Feb 02, 2013 3:12 pm

I am not sure where this question belongs as I am not sure what the right way to go about it would be!!
My friend and I had sex but we both weren't enjoying it mostly because we both knew we are just friends and there was no 'passion'. Did that ruin future possibility of us being more than friends?
I am not sure if honey jar would work for this situation as we are still friends, right? Does LM have anything for this kind of situation?
Thank you

Unread post by **MissMichaele** » Mon Feb 04, 2013 4:35 pm

prvteye123 wrote:My friend and I had sex but we both weren't enjoying it mostly because we both knew we are just friends and there was no 'passion'. Did that ruin future possibility of us being more than friends?

Your best bet would be to do a reading on that question -- or have someone do a reading for you.

I am not sure if honey jar would work for this situation as we are still friends, right?

A honey jar could at least help you preserve the friendship, and then could be adjusted or altered to heat up the relationship.

Does LM have anything for this kind of situation?

I'd suggest some work with Healing, Blessing or maybe even Cast Off Evil to undo the effects of the mistake you made. A bath would be a great start. Then you could go on to work with Look Me Over, and later Chuparrosa:

The Association of Independent Readers and Rootworkers
http://www.readersandrootworkers.org
Healing Spiritual Supplies
http://www.luckymojo.com/healing.html
Blessing spells and supplies
http://www.luckymojo.com/blessing.html
Cast Off Evil spells and supplies
http://www.luckymojo.com/castoffevil.html
The Honey Jar Family of Magic Spells
www.luckymojo.com/honeyjar.html
Look Me Over Spells and Supplies
www.luckymojo.com/lookmeover.html
Chuparrosa Spells and Supplies
http://www.luckymojo.com/chuparrosa.html

Good luck and good magic,

Miss Michaele

Kemicarm25 · Unread post by **Kemicarm25** » Tue Feb 05, 2013 3:36 am

Thank you so much for your answers both of you, very helpful indeed.
I'll let you know the outcome whenever something happen.
to Nana664 Nice idea about the compliment.I will definitively keep it in mind. St Antony( I read a prayer about finding someone lost few days ago ) actually helped to see him that day I put on makeup on my face , he was at the opposite bus stop of mine and i pretended he hasn't seen me...maybe he has a wife?
Appolo dark do you ship to uk the products and if yes how long does it take to arrive?

Apollo Dark · Unread post by **Apollo Dark** » Wed Feb 06, 2013 12:47 pm

Kemicarm25 wrote: Appolo dark do you ship to uk the products and if yes how long does it take to arrive?

Lucky Mojo does ship to the UK. Your package should arrive to you in about 3 to 5 weeks, depending on Postal Transit Times.

sailor5 · Unread post by **sailor5** » Wed Feb 06, 2013 10:46 pm

How could a male use bewitching products to get men attracted to my online pictures and profiles?

Kemicarm25 · Unread post by **Kemicarm25** » Thu Feb 07, 2013 4:47 am

Apollo dark: Thanks you for your fast reply!

prvteye123 · Unread post by **prvteye123** » Sat Feb 09, 2013 1:40 pm

Thank you Miss Michaele. Highly appreciate your detailed answer

Apollo Dark · Unread post by **Apollo Dark** » Sat Feb 09, 2013 2:01 pm

sailor5 wrote:How could a male use bewitching products to get men attracted to my online pictures and profiles?

You should try these products for that purpose:

CAN-GLS-FOLB
Follow Me Boy Glass-Encased Candle, Fixed
$9.00

You can order right here in the Forum by clicking on the blue Add To Cart button.

OIL-HOO-LAVE
Lavender Love Drops Oil
$7.00

You can order right here in the Forum by clicking on the blue Add To Cart button.

This combination will be much like a Same-Sex Bewitching.

Best of Luck to You!

Apollo Dark · Unread post by **Apollo Dark** » Sat Feb 09, 2013 2:02 pm

Kemicarm25 wrote:Apollo dark: Thanks you for your fast reply!

Glad to be of Help!

sailor5 · Unread post by **sailor5** » Wed Feb 13, 2013 2:58 pm

Thank you for ur answer but I meant how to attract male clients by looking at my online profiles and pictures for gay male escort?didnt explain myself well lol sorry.

Unread post by **Papa Newt** » Wed Feb 13, 2013 7:33 pm

sailor5- I am sorry but I am giving you a warning because I have seen you ask the same questions on different threads more than once. One example would be the same question you are asking here as you asked in Money Drawing Spells for Sex Workers. This is a large forum and sometimes it can take a little bit of time for a reply. Please refrain from multiple posts of the same question per the Lucky Mojo Forum Rules. Thank you.

Now, that out of the way. You can take a picture that you use on your profile and fix it up. Write your petition on the image and then you can annoint a little Oil, powder with Sachet Powders, or smoke it with Incense of the above mentioned products and products suggested to you on other threads. You could do all three of these methods as you are praying your petition. Then you can burn Candles on top of the image and pray your petitions before you start working.

sailor5 · Unread post by **sailor5** » Sun Feb 17, 2013 12:36 am

Thank you so much for your kind advise. I apologize and am truly sorry was just trying to get some attention towards my question:) but i will try this immidiatly and thanks for your time by the way,have an awesome day!

ShivneelSingh · Unread post by **ShivneelSingh** » Fri Feb 22, 2013 9:37 am

Eric_71,
Any update to your situation?

Conjureangel · Unread post by **Conjureangel** » Sun Mar 17, 2013 5:41 pm

Can you use a string that you have tied a mans nature with in a healing and clarity type of work to ensure that he moves towards you for a relationship and nobody else?

genad · Unread post by **genad** » Tue Mar 19, 2013 1:06 pm

How can I make a guy notice me and i stand out to him on the internet. We are friends on a social media but i want him to notice me and contact me.

AJxoxo · Unread post by **AJxoxo** » Mon Mar 25, 2013 11:37 pm

Hi!
As the title says, I am looking for a way to make a classmate I am interested in, make the first move if possible. I know her full name and birthday and I also have a picture. I have caught her looking at me, and she has caught me looking at her and I feel a strong attraction to her...since the first time I saw her. Right now I have oils, and a lavender love kit. I am wondering what I should use, if anything to make her make the first move, or if I would have to do it myself and then use oil or a spell kit.

Thanks!

emma1985 · Unread post by **emma1985** » Tue Mar 26, 2013 2:55 pm

Hello,
I want to ask about me love, I fell in love with my friend, he is not in love with me, his life is not good, he has many girls who want him And he makes a lot of biases ..
Is there anything that can Make him love me Very strong and give up everything for me?Is there something that works immediately?
Do you do deliveries to Israel.
Please help me.
Very impressed with your site and waiting for your answer.

Unread post by **jwmcclin** » Sat Mar 30, 2013 7:37 pm

This website is full of information emma1985. To get things started, you may want a reading to see if a love spell will push your target into your arms (so to speak). If the readings gives you the green light, ask for recommendations on what to do next.

Here is the link to AIRR (http://readersandrootworkers.org/wiki/C ... nciliation) list of readers/rootworkers who may consider your case. ...as you read, note this "Love drawing and romance spells are the most commonly requested kinds of spell work" ...as stated in the second paragraph.

emma1985 · Unread post by **emma1985** » Sun Mar 31, 2013 1:53 am

I do not know there are so many, and I do not know what suits me. I need the most powerful thing to make him fall in love with me as short time.

Unread post by **aura** » Sun Mar 31, 2013 4:49 am

Hi emma1985,

Hoodoo is real life and real magic - spells aren't ''more powerful'' like in a video game or a fantasy book - there are different ones that are more or less useful based on what personal concerns you have, what kind of contact you have with the target and your own skill level as a worker.

From your questions I'm assuming that you are fairly new to the work and hence jwmcclin's advice to get a reading from one of the talented AIRR workers. All of them are rootworkers and if you clearly ask for it prior to the reading, they'll give you recommendations on exactly what kind of work is suited to your specific situation.

If you have personal contact, feeding this man your menstrual blood is a simple and effective way of working. Couple this with a Come To Me spell kit and you'll be hitting the problem from a number of different angles simultaneously.

To learn about working with menstrual blood there is a lengthy forum thread as well as an informational page made available by Miss Cat here: menstrual-blood-questions-and-answers-t ... ml#p125458 & http://www.luckymojo.com/bodyfluids.html

For the Come To Me Spell Kit, it has the benefit of coming with all the materials you need as well as very detailed instructions for use. You'll even have lots of left-over product to use in future as you need: http://www.luckymojo.com/spell-come-to-me.html

Blessings and success to you in your work.

emma1985 · Unread post by **emma1985** » Sun Mar 31, 2013 10:47 am

Does not appear if you do shipping to Israel, are u shipping to Israel?

Unread post by **jwmcclin** » Sun Mar 31, 2013 3:07 pm

emma1985, call the shop on tomorrow, I and ask if they ship to Israel. Someone from the shop may or may not read this post.

emma1985 · Unread post by **emma1985** » Sun Mar 31, 2013 6:12 pm

I do not have international calls, please tell me if there is shipping to Israel for the product you recommended to me, then I'll buy it now!

Unread post by **jwmcclin** » Sun Mar 31, 2013 7:43 pm

I do not work in the shop, however, after some research, I found this link

http://www.luckymojo.com/mojocatorder.html

If you do not find your answer here, email the shop. The email is included in the link provided.

Unread post by **Papa Newt** » Sun Mar 31, 2013 7:46 pm

emma1985- The next best option for you then would be to email the shop. The email address is order@luckymojo.com. In the mean time, do take a look at the page Rush/Foreign Shipping Costs. I do apologize if this is not exactly the answer you seek. Many of the moderators here are volunteers, and because we do not work for Lucky Mojo there are some questions we are unable to answer. Best of luck.

emma1985 · Unread post by **emma1985** » Thu May 09, 2013 8:16 am

I did the spell Come to me, and I put my urine to him coffee and meat, but we're not a couple. I really want us to be a couple and he fall in love with me Obsession He does bad things now he sleeps with a married woman And she makes him think of her always. Please help me

ShivneelSingh · Unread post by **ShivneelSingh** » Thu May 09, 2013 11:07 am

I think someone asked this same very question a few days ago.

I had a similar situation with a girl I was in love with. Try burning some vigil candles: Follow Me Boy, Love Me, and Stay With Me. Also, perform a Love Me spell and keep the Love Me mojo on you at all times. Start a honey jar. On the honey jar, burn a pink candle on Monday, Blue on Wednesday, and Red on Friday.

Honey jar: Put some dried ginger root in there with rose petals and other love herbs. Use Love Me, Crown of Success, and King Solomon oils, mixed with your sexual fluids on the candles.

Keep burning vigil candles whenever possible.

Also, try getting a reading done by someone from AAIR to see if he's even worth the time, money, and patience.

I wish you the best of luck.

emma1985 · Unread post by **emma1985** » Thu May 09, 2013 12:03 pm

Please send me links to what you noted
How do I order reading
And how I invite all the things you said
Thank you so much

emma1985 · Unread post by **emma1985** » Thu May 09, 2013 12:27 pm

Can you please recommend someone for a good reading

whistler2 · Unread post by **whistler2** » Thu May 09, 2013 12:47 pm

Check out the AIRR website

http://www.readersandrootworkers.org/wi ... ootworkers

I don't mean to be rude, but a lot of the questions you have been asking have been answered numerous times and you can find them by using the search function. Spend a little bit more time reading this forum and you'll get a lot of good ideas and what not to help yourself.

emma1985 · Unread post by **emma1985** » Thu May 09, 2013 2:59 pm

I did the spell Come to me, and I put my urine to him coffee and meat, but we're not a couple.

I really want us to be a couple and he fall in love with me Obsession

He does bad things now he sleeps with a married woman And she makes him think of her always.

Please help me what best to do with the best result and fast for love Obsession.

Unread post by **Mama Micki** » Thu May 09, 2013 3:49 pm

Do not start new threads on the same topic. I put your posts together.

buttercup8072 · Unread post by **buttercup8072** » Fri May 10, 2013 1:06 am

Hi, im basically trying to find some adivice on what healing work i should do on my friend. we have been dating since january while i was pregnant. i had my son last month and we are still dating but i know he is scared of hurting me. i have been working a honey jar which has been working wonderfully. I have fallen for him and we both do not talk to anyone else. its weird we are in a realtionship with out the title. i am getting a reading done on the situation but just want to know how to do a healing spell to heal past wounds courage to ask me out and then a love spell to seal the deal. i really would like to be with him and it be solid. we have been our non committed but comitted realtionship since january. if there are other posts like this please direct me to them as ive tried to search and ive been lurking on the forum for a while.
thanks

Negi Springfield · Unread post by **Negi Springfield** » Tue May 21, 2013 4:07 am

I see many requests for commanding, controlling and dominating love spells. But what of the other end? I found a girl I REALLY want, she just got out of a long relationship and so is not looking what is a good spell to get her?

Something nice, gentle, hypnotic (in the relaxing and seducing not mind controlling way). When I say hypnotic btw I mean I see the girl in my arms with blissful, relaxed, calm expression. Just not sure what other word to use.

Unread post by **Doctor Hob** » Tue May 21, 2013 4:36 am

Where are you starting from? Do the two of you know each other? If there's already a connection, you could certainly build off of a sweet jar. You could still do other work, but this would give you a calm, steady base note.

Unread post by **MissMichaele** » Tue May 21, 2013 11:07 am

Negi Springfield wrote:Something nice, gentle, hypnotic (in the relaxing and seducing not mind controlling way). When I say hypnotic btw I mean I see the girl in my arms with blissful, relaxed, calm expression. Just not sure what other word to use.

Sounds like Influence is the formula you want. Combine it with Attraction and Look Me Over, and something innocent and wholesome and reassuring like Borage or White Mustard Seed.

Then, once you have her attention, go on to the sweeter, more innocent love formulas like Chuparrosa, Love Me, Dixie Love, Fire of Love (hot but wholesome and sweet). Keep using Influence with these formulas if you feel the need.

Influence Spells and Supplies
http://www.luckymojo.com/influence.html
Attraction Spells and Supplies
http://www.luckymojo.com/attraction.html
Look Me Over Spells and Supplies
http://www.luckymojo.com/lookmeover.html
Order Borage Flowers from Lucky Mojo
http://herb-magic.com/borage-flowers.html
Order White Mustard Seeds from Lucky Mojo
http://herb-magic.com/mustard-seed-white.html
Chuparrosa Spells and Supplies
http://www.luckymojo.com/chuparrosa.html
Love Me Spell Kits and Spiritual Supplies
http://www.luckymojo.com/products-love-me.html
Dixe Love Spells and Supplies
http://www.luckymojo.com/dixielove.html
Fire of Love Spells and Supplies
http://www.luckymojo.com/fireoflove.html

Hope this helps,

Miss Michaele

Unread post by **aura** » Tue May 21, 2013 12:30 pm

Hi Negi,

Bewitching is another nice choice to enchant and suggest without taking a baseball bat of coercion to the lady's head.

Negi Springfield · Unread post by **Negi Springfield** » Tue May 21, 2013 4:14 pm

Doctor Hob wrote:Where are you starting from? Do the two of you know each other? If there's already a connection, you could certainly build off of a sweet jar. You could still do other work, but this would give you a calm, steady base note.

We know each other, see each other and spend time with each other often. She lives just four blocks away. Interestingly to get from her house to the street she has to walk through a small alley way, the perfect spot to lay sachet powders and she is getting a car soon so I can put oil on the door handles. She is also already rather affectionate to me so I can get a hair or two easily...

Maybe I can make a doll baby along with the honey jar?

Which jar should I get btw?

Unread post by **Doctor Hob** » Tue May 21, 2013 4:38 pm

Some of her hair would certainly be a plus, for just about any kind of work.

http://www.luckymojo.com/honey-jar-spel ... ve-me.html

Unread post by **MissMichaele** » Tue May 21, 2013 6:32 pm

Negi Springfield wrote:Maybe I can make a doll baby along with the honey jar?

You most certainly can, and you can love it and hug it and squeeze it and call it by her name

Best of luck,

Miss Michaele

Negi Springfield · Unread post by **Negi Springfield** » Sat May 25, 2013 2:17 pm

Nice Looney Toons reference! BTW how would I use the Mustard Seed and Borage in this case? I have HHRM and am also reading the book on this.

Unread post by **MissMichaele** » Sat May 25, 2013 3:53 pm

Negi Springfield wrote:Nice Looney Toons reference!

Why, thank you

BTW how would I use the Mustard Seed and Borage in this case?

In the honey jar and in the doll baby. You can also boil them up and bathe in them, along with the Lucky Mojo formulas I mentioned (which are also available as bath crystals).

Hope this helps,

Miss Michaele

Negi Springfield · Unread post by **Negi Springfield** » Thu Jun 13, 2013 4:18 am

Thank you everyone, to update you all on my progress I am currently working with the MISC candle ministry while I get my cash to a point where I can do the stronger workings. I was going to do a rune of nine love me candles, BUT have felt... I guess the term would be "Moved by spirit?" a sorta gut feeling that I should only do three of the love me candles, then three of something else and three of something else.

Did the last Love Me today I already got the first candle report and it looks good. I am trying to figure out what should be done next. When I close my eyes and relax I see the man from the 'Follow Me Girl' candles but something feels off and I also see road opener which makes more sense as the candle report smoke of resistance but still felt OFF.

greendove · Unread post by **greendove** » Wed Jun 19, 2013 10:04 am

I'm not sure what would be best in this sort of situation or if it is even ethical to tamper with.

I started a new job a couple months ago and met a really great guy. It didn't really hit me that we clicked amazingly until we got together after work one night for a mutual interest in a specific computer game. His girlfriend was out of town and I didn't think much of it at the time because I knew neither of us wanted more than a night of gaming. We talked a lot and had fun and smiled and laughed and it occurred to me that it was the best night I could remember in a very long time and he just fit with me.

He said he hoped next time we got together that he wouldn't end up so tired so early and that's when it hit me that we were both excited to see each other again while we were sitting entirely too close together. I told him I don't think his girlfriend would be ok with that.

I am completely against infidelity in any sense. I can't really ignore that I don't think I've felt something so strong before and i'm sure this situation has happened to others. I know he feels something, making a point to talk to me whenever he's not busy, smiling and looking in my direction. We have so many mutual interests that he and his now girlfriend don't share that he wishes they did. I'm afraid to try anything strong or demanding because I only want him in my life if that's what he would really want too.

This relationship he is in has been 4 years long with a few "breaks" in between and it occurs to me that it wouldn't be something he would be terribly willing to leave even if another amazing option came into view.

All I want is for him to consider it further and be more likely to take a leap of faith in my direction over what he feels would be the safest outcome for him.

I've read through the honey jar section and saw another posting for a picture box on this forum. I am just looking for suggestions.

goddesps · Unread post by **goddesps** » Sat Jul 06, 2013 10:46 am

So... I'm getting ready to make a big move. About 900 miles of a move. I'm moving for a chance to stand on my own two feet for once in my life. I am also moving to my best friends home town. We lived together for a year and have been apart for a year. We were in a relationship of "convenience" for lack of a better term, and when I came home, the relationship ended. We have discussed trying out a real relationship. But he is very hesitant. We speak roughly 16 hours a day. We are extremely close. He even wanted me to move in across the street from him. We've made plans for vacations, our kids (he has 2, I have 1), all kinds of stuff. I am really looking forward to getting to go to school and live above the poverty line by moving to a lower cost of living area. Things look pretty good. As much as I am looking forward to living on my own (with my 13 yo son) I would really like to see if my bff and I are compatible in a "real" relationship. We have talked about it even. That it is something both of us would like. But he is scared. Bad divorce + ugly custody battle + crazy ex-wife + emotionally disturbed daughter = fear, heartache, and commitment issues. In so many ways we are in a relationship already, but I'd like to see if it could actually be one. Would a reconciliation kit & jar be the way to go? We were in a "relationship" so would we be reconciling? I'm a bit lost on what direction to go with this to give us both the courage to take that leap and the confidence to leave our baggage at the door and try this out for real! Thanks in advance for all your wonderful help!!! BB <3

calimania · Unread post by **calimania** » Sat Jul 27, 2013 12:28 pm

I have fallen in love with a married coworker (employee actually). She is relatively happy in her marriage, but they are having problems. Not severe problems that cause her to stop loving him or give up on their marriage, but logistical problems that are causing stress on their relationship. He has decided to take over his families business which is 2 hours from their home so he has relocated, coming home one week day and on weekends. She is holding down the fort with 2 small children and taking care of the home, yard, finances, childcare and everything else. This is causing a great deal of stress on their relationship, but she is a strong woman and will not be defeated or admit to or concede to any type of failure. She has no plans of moving to her husband's location soon, but does see herself moving in three to five years, once he is established.

I could let this play out and see their marriage unfold naturally over this time period, but I fear that they will get used to this remote arrangement and work through the hurdles; therefore, the marriage never collapsing. Like I said, she is a very strong person and even accepts being a martyr. She is not a quitter.

four months ago, while traveling on business she hit on me very strongly, but backed down and did not act. In the following four months she has admitted an attraction towards me and admitted to thinking about me the way I would like her to think about me. We have openly discussed that I have strong feelings for her. She also has feelings for me, but they are not as strong as my feelings for her and they are not strong enough to push her towards acting on them if it means compromising her value system. She is very understanding and this has only caused friction a few times and for very short periods of time.

We work together every day, all day, interacting constantly, and have a great working relationship and personal relationship, but I just can't get it to move to the level that I would like it to be. We have perfect personalities for each other and I know that I could make her happier and provide better for her. We finish each others sentences, we have had countless coincidences of emailing, texting or calling each other at the same time, as if we are somehow psychically connected to each other. I believe her to be my soulmate that met at the wrong time.

I don't want to actually hurt her emotionally or her kids in any way, which a divorce could do, but I do want to be with her and I do think it is not just for selfish reasons. I do think that she would be happy with me. I just want her to fall out of love with him and in love with me so that she can open her eyes that this living situation of hers is not worth hanging onto. I want her to give up on this nonsense and move on with her new life with me, but do it happily and not painfully. So what do I do?

Do I break them up with some kind of divorce spell?

Do I do a spell that increases her feelings towards me and the split of her and her husband just naturally comes as a byproduct?

Do I do both?

Do I do something completely different?

What order do I do them?

Thanks,
Newbie member and foreign to this spell world.

Unread post by **aura** » Sat Jul 27, 2013 3:34 pm

Hi impjnmn,

Keep in mind that marriage is a vow before God. It usually takes a fair bit to break that kind of a bond. You may want to start by getting a reading by a reputable worker prior to beginning any work in order to see what the chances of success are like and if the work is justified. AIRR members are experienced and won't feed you what you want to hear, they'll give you a good honest reading - and they can give you the spell-casting advice quite helpful to your cause. You can look through the different member of AIRR and the services they offer here: http://www.readersandrootworkers.org/wi ... ootworkers.

With regards to spells to do, usually a case like this involves separating the couple and drawing her to you as you'd already surmised.

To cause a couple to split without making things messy or ugly, Separation products are a good choice. You can read more about them here: http://www.luckymojo.com/separation.html

To increase her feelings toward you there are lots of alternatives. As a beginner I'd suggest you use a spell kit since they come with all the supplies you need and have detailed instructions. The Love Me or Come To Me spell kits would be good choices: http://www.luckymojo.com/spell-come-to-me.html & http://www.luckymojo.com/spell-love-me.html

calimania · Unread post by **calimania** » Sat Jul 27, 2013 9:20 pm

Thank you for your response Aura. I believe I will get a reading as soon as I can arrange it. I have reached out to an individual listed on the Readers and Root workers link you provided whom I keep gravitating back towards and am just awaiting a reply.

As for "Come To Me" versus "Love Me", how do they differ and in which circumstances would you use one over the other? We see each other every day, so I don't need her to come to me per se, she is already there; however, she is not there in the capacity that I want her there. Loving me sounds like a great option.

In regards to the separation spells versus the break up spells, I would like it to go smooth for her and just gracefully fall out of love. On the other hand, I want it to happen yesterday, so does one work faster than the other or is timing not a factor in differentiating between separation and break up spells?

I should probably wait and see what the reading says and then just have that person also recommend a strategy, but while I wait, I would still be interested in know the answers to the above questions.

Thanks,
It Will Happen