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green_ma · Unread post by **green_ma** » Sat May 03, 2014 5:00 am

Thank you so much for your advice! I wish I had time to order those and get them in time before the concert, but I haven't even received the stuff I ordered almost 3 weeks ago yet. I'll have to figure out something I can do with things I have on hand, or find a place that can get me something more quickly. I hope to at least get my candles soon so I can use the blue ones and make something up to go with that. I'm running out of time!

Miss Aida wrote:Hello, green_ma ,
That poor girl!!
She sounds like a WONDERFUL child!!!!
Well, first of all, I used to tell people who are going on stage to picture everybody in their underpants. In about 60% of the people who took my advice, it worked!
Crucible of Courage is a wonderful product for her situation http://www.luckymojo.com/crucibleofcourage.html
Mixed with some Tranquility http://www.luckymojo.com/tranquility.html
I will merge these posts into the courage subforum for you to get more ideas.
Wishing her the very very best!

Unread post by **aura** » Sat May 03, 2014 6:14 am

Hi green_ma, if you need some ''instant-affect'', consider having MISC set the candles of the product lines suggested on their altar with an appropriate petition. They'll set the light working usually a day or two after the order is placed.

green_ma · Unread post by **green_ma** » Sat May 03, 2014 4:39 pm

Thank you, aura. I'll check into that. Need to figure out what/who that is, so I'll search the forums.

aura wrote:Hi green_ma, if you need some ''instant-affect'', consider having MISC set the candles of the product lines suggested on their altar with an appropriate petition. They'll set the light working usually a day or two after the order is placed.

Unread post by **aura** » Mon May 05, 2014 4:01 am

Sorry I wasn't clear green_ma, MISC is the Missionary Independent Spiritual Church. You can have them set lights on their altar for you by ordering them through Lucky Mojo here: http://www.luckymojo.com/mojocatcandleservices.html

All the instructions are at the top of the page and the available vigil list is right below!

green_ma · Unread post by **green_ma** » Mon May 05, 2014 5:33 pm

Thank you!! I just sent ordered it and sent a photo, and I can't wait to hear something! Thank you so much for suggesting this.

vmadone · Unread post by **vmadone** » Sat May 31, 2014 8:28 am

Oh my gosh! I want to know how to be likeable wherever you go. I'm kinda envy to see some of my friends are getting good attentions somehow. (I hope I am normal to feel in that way).

Unread post by **MissMichaele** » Sat May 31, 2014 5:07 pm

vmadone,

A few years ago, jwmcclin recommended using an Attraction Spell Kit, and making sure to include a written petition for "true and loyal friendships."

attraction-spell-kit-questions-and-answ ... tml#p89753

Good luck,

Miss Michaele

MarkiMark1776 · Unread post by **MarkiMark1776** » Sat May 31, 2014 7:37 pm

Hi Everyone,

I need a spell, mojo bag, etc. to increase self-love and self-confidence. I have absolutely no confidence and a real lack of assertiveness. This is because of the way I look physically, which I cannot fix right now because I don't have the money to do that yet. Be that as it may, I still need assistance in increasing my confidence from the inside out. A root worker suggested that I use a Queen Elizabeth mojo bag, but I don't know how to correctly create one. What are some other tried and true spells that work for greatly increasing one's self esteem?

Unread post by **JayDee** » Sat May 31, 2014 7:50 pm

You can put yourself in a honey jar and burn a candle on it daily with an affirmation to love yourself as you are. This can be done for any part of yourself where you feel you fall short, including looks, patience, anger management, or giving in to bad habits.

I would look at crucible of courage as a product to help in that area. Some people are a certain way by nature so a reading from an AIRR reader would indicate if this is a nature thing or a conditional thing based on how you feel about yourself.

Confidence is loving yourself and accepting the traits and abilities God gave you, honing in on the good and working it. I know people who would not be model attractive who own it not because of their physical looks but their personality, ability to make connections and relate to others.

You ccan buy a lucky mojo honey jar and a mtching mojo, or purchase them from an AIRR worker, Lucky Mojo mojos come with directions easy to follow and everything needed for the work.

vmadone · Unread post by **vmadone** » Sun Jun 01, 2014 5:34 am

MissMichaele wrote:vmadone,

A few years ago, jwmcclin recommended using an Attraction Spell Kit, and making sure to include a written petition for "true and loyal friendships."

attraction-spell-kit-questions-and-answ ... tml#p89753

Good luck,

Miss Michaele

Thanks MissMichaele. Is it applicable for everyone whom you meet for the first time? There is one friend of mine, who is getting attention in wherever she goes. And m like how she gather attention like that.

Unread post by **aura** » Mon Jun 02, 2014 4:43 am

Hi MarkiMark1776,

You'll find some great suggestions on working to increase your self confidence in this thread I've merged your post into. You could also consider having Lucky Mojo make you a Jack Ball: http://www.luckymojo.com/mojocatmojo.html#jack - they're wonderful for personal empowerment.

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Mon Jun 02, 2014 9:03 pm

Hello, vmadone,
It works for me and for hundreds of others I've heard abut on the forum
Take care

MarkiMark1776 · Unread post by **MarkiMark1776** » Tue Jun 03, 2014 7:20 pm

Hi j82 and aura,

Thanks for your suggestions. I'm interested in ordering the Jack Ball. Just to make sure, I would send some of my hair and my name written on a piece of paper to Lucky Mojo's address, order the Jack Ball, and wait for the whole thing to arrive at my address?

vmadone · Unread post by **vmadone** » Tue Jun 03, 2014 10:46 pm

Miss Aida wrote:Hello, vmadone,
It works for me and for hundreds of others I've heard abut on the forum
Take care

Hello Miss Aida

Alright I will try this out. Gonna wait for a month to arrive at my place.

Unread post by **Dr Johannes** » Thu Jun 05, 2014 12:46 pm

MarkiMark1776 wrote:Hi Everyone,

I need a spell, mojo bag, etc. to increase self-love and self-confidence. I have absolutely no confidence and a real lack of assertiveness. This is because of the way I look physically, which I cannot fix right now because I don't have the money to do that yet. Be that as it may, I still need assistance in increasing my confidence from the inside out. A root worker suggested that I use a Queen Elizabeth mojo bag, but I don't know how to correctly create one. What are some other tried and true spells that work for greatly increasing one's self esteem?

Since low selfesteem and lack of self confidence mostly causes problems in social relations one way to turn the situation around is to use all those things that gives social boosts. Like Deers Tounge Leaves for eloquent speech, Nutmeg to make people more inclined to listen, Cinnamon to make them warm up to you, Crown of Success for public appearences, John The Conqueror to conquer the situation and so on. Besides this regular cleanses regarding Evil Eye (and Evil tounge for those in traditions where this is included) and Jinxkilling since is highly recommended since people with low self esteeem are in fact often jinxing themselves and may or may not have plenty of people in their lives having done so.
There are other spells aiming more directly to raise self esteem and increase self love, but they should be cast by professionals and not something one tries at home as an emergency medicine. Best of luck to you.

Unread post by **aura** » Thu Jun 05, 2014 2:09 pm

Hi MarkiMark1776,

I suggest you call the shop and confirm with them the specifics for ordering a jack-ball. You can also check if they might not be able to incorporate an herb or two from Dr. Johannes.

MarkiMark1776 · Unread post by **MarkiMark1776** » Fri Jun 06, 2014 10:33 am

Thanks Dr. Johannes and aura for your advice! I will call the shop regarding the Jack Ball. I'll research Jinx removing products as well.

jessica251356 · Unread post by **jessica251356** » Mon Jun 16, 2014 10:22 pm

hello everybody how to loss weight fast which is the good way to loss weight fast?

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Tue Jun 17, 2014 9:23 pm

Hello, jessica251356,
PLEASE read the 2 pages on this subforum for answers
Thank you

TheBestest · Unread post by **TheBestest** » Sun Jun 22, 2014 12:45 pm

Hello everyone. Today I sat back and almost caught myself about to cry because I realized I have lost so many ppl I loved due to bs (Friends and even family), and have always been labled the bad guy. If I didnt know any better I'd swear that all this was due to a curse or something my father (everyone hates him too including myself), now or in a past life. I don't want to be like my Dad. I seriously think he is gonna end up old and alone. I want to be liked and/or loved by everyone and gain positive popularity. I grew up in a very abusive household and was called all types of names by my Grandmother and Aunt such as tramp, bitch, hoe. I just wish this pain in me would stop and I could feel loved and not continue to lose ppl. Can anyone help. P.S. I am in couseling but my current counselor seems to think everything I say is hilarious. Smh

Unread post by **aura** » Sun Jun 22, 2014 2:19 pm

Hi TheBestest,

You've got a lot there to deal with. The symptom is problems in the social sphere, but unless the cause is dealt with, the work will act like a Band-Aid for a gaping wound. The past family hurt and its ongoing effect on your self-perception are critical to address, and I'm glad you're in counseling. If your current counselor is unsatisfactory, try and get a new one. Also consider a support group for survivors of abusive situations as you'll find people to bond with who understand where you're coming from: they've had such experiences themselves. You might also want to work with a rootwork professional over a semi-long-term period to help encourage and nurture the process forward.

With regards to working for popularity, in addition to the extensive conjure suggestions in this thread, keep in mind that:
1) Not everyone can, will nor should love you. There's too much variety in this world for that. Besides, you don't love everyone, why should someone else be any different?
2) You're best off finding a small amount of reliable and trustworthy friends. While most people have many acquaintances, they have very few real friends. Those are the ones you want to attract (attraction spell kit is great for that BTW).
3) The more you love yourself, the less you care what others think. That's also usually when popularity becomes easy and takes very little work. It's annoying, but you'll find that the changes happen best from the inside out than from the outside in.

But most, I want to stress that you're on the path to a better sense of self and that no matter how many times you fall off - get back on it. It's the most rewarding journey that you'll make.

Unread post by **jwmcclin** » Sun Jun 22, 2014 3:58 pm

Great words aura! Self-love and value is more important than anything.

moonmaiden · Unread post by **moonmaiden** » Sun Jul 20, 2014 9:52 pm

Hello!

I am wondering what kind of spell I can do for my husband to give him courage in our relationship. We love eachother a lot, but we recently broke up and are getting back together. He has expressed his fear of doing so for many reasons - which most I can work on without any help - BUT there is one where I need to do some magick. He is scared of telling his parents/family, they are extremely critical and though they are not close he is still afraid.

I want him to be completely sure about things and want to tell them about our relationship. We also had a child and got married and they do not know about that. That is why he is so worried, he fears their judgement even though I make him so happy. What can i do?

Thanks in advance

TheBestest · Unread post by **TheBestest** » Mon Jul 21, 2014 1:52 pm

Hello guys I was curious if there were any type of work I could do to make my breasts and buttocks grow? So far the only idea I have is using a female red candle. Any suggestions??

Unread post by **AlyssaH** » Mon Jul 21, 2014 3:16 pm

Well, you could do a money spell to get the funds for plastic surgery. Otherwise I would be careful because the only other surefire way I know is to gain weight & the spirits could even send you a pregnancy in answer to your petition.

TheBestest · Unread post by **TheBestest** » Mon Jul 21, 2014 4:10 pm

AlyssaH,

Well the plastic surgery I could do without but now a baby... a baby I wouldn't mind

. My only child is 15 so I want another kid anyway

. I have tried supplements in the past and they wprked but not long.

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Mon Jul 21, 2014 10:40 pm

Hello, moonmaiden ,
I am merging your post to the appropriate subforum.
Please read the posts to give you some ideas.
Take care

Unread post by **catherineyronwode** » Tue Jul 22, 2014 9:04 pm

TheBestest,

Like AlyssaH, i too feel that a spell for money drawing to get plastic surgery from a reputable doctor is the way to go. Then use some glamour and love spell work to cast an aura of charm and charisma over the enhanced areas.

elsie · Unread post by **elsie** » Wed Jul 23, 2014 10:04 pm

I was vegetarian for 18 years and recently began eating meat again. I think it is important to listen to one's body. I lost about 15 lbs after I reintroduced a different (animal) protein into my diet. I still have about 15-20 lbs to get rid of to be where I would feel more confident. I just did the egg spell (thank you Miss Catherine!), but will also purchase the weight loss mojo and do what ConjureMan Ali and Miss Bri suggested. Best of luck to all of you! Remember that beauty comes from within, (but I completely understand about societal notions of physical beauty and how that can affect our own perceptions, which is why I would like to get rid of a few lbs.)
Love!

TheBestest · Unread post by **TheBestest** » Fri Jul 25, 2014 4:24 am

Here is an idea I had. What if I used a Female red candle and on the breast area I used Fenugreek and something else that promotes breast growth and on the buttocks maybe roots and herbs, and just pray over it for those areas to grow? Of course I'd scratch my name on it first along with on the breast area I'd scratch something like "Grow Larger" or "Grow to 38 DD" and in the butt I scratch "Grow larger. rounder, higher and fuller"? Too much??

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Fri Jul 25, 2014 9:39 pm

Hello, TheBestest,

I love it when others get creative, but growth of this type is often connected to overall weight gain, so be careful.

skyme715 · Unread post by **skyme715** » Wed Jul 30, 2014 9:10 am

Hi,

I am wondering what one can use as to keep conversation going?
It seems like I am quickly running out of things to say to new people. I read a lot (I'm not shallow) but I can't remember all the things. I remember an interesting fact but how, when, why escapes me. And you can't only talk about interesting facts anyway.

I am considering a spell to become a center of attention by using Look Me Over and Attraction oils. Possibly Crown of Success. But what do I do next once I am the center?

(Deer tongue comes to mind, but I'm not familiar with how to use it and it doesn't seem to be as practical as wearing oils).

Any advise would be helpful!

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Wed Jul 30, 2014 4:44 pm

Hello, skyme715,
Your spell ideas are great!
Now, I am moving you to the appropriate subforum so that you can take a look at all the posts and get some wonderful spell ideas for your query
Take care

skyme715 · Unread post by **skyme715** » Thu Jul 31, 2014 1:40 pm

Thanks again, Miss Aida! It is an awesome thread that somehow I must have overlooked!

tanchan · Unread post by **tanchan** » Sat Aug 09, 2014 11:51 pm

is there a spell to make you have clear skin free of acne? please share. Thanks a lot.

Unread post by **catherineyronwode** » Mon Aug 11, 2014 3:56 pm

tanchan,

Unfortunately, acne is a medical condition and, as such, we do not prescribe for medical conditions. I would see a doctor but erform spell work to have your doctors be the most helpful and accurate they can be in making a diagnosis and prescribing treatment. A general prayer for healing of the skin would also be indicated.

Good luck.

Unread post by **JayDee** » Mon Aug 11, 2014 9:07 pm

healing oil on a candle or using it on a women figure candle can help. Cat is right it is a medical condition and yes prayer and work can help but you also need to work in the mundane world meaning do something about iy. If you can go to a deromtologist to lean about your skin that would be best , but you really need to understand the problem, like my neices is allergic to everything and breaks out, I however have really oily skin which was the problem so figuring it out is important. You can always pray for a doctor to do an accurate diagnosis this is not uncommon. I wish you the best I know how much acne sucks, and how bad you want it gone!

kandyspop · Unread post by **kandyspop** » Tue Oct 28, 2014 7:16 am

I'm really shy is there anything i can purchase here i have a job interview next week and i get really nervous during job interviews and sometimes i can't even speak properly i want to feel confident and get this job because I've been wanting it since for ever but my shyness is holding me back.

Unread post by **Ms Melanie** » Tue Oct 28, 2014 7:30 am

Hi Kandyspop,

I am shy as well and Crucible of Courage products has been a great product for me. I suggest to have the Missionary Independent Spiritual Church set a Crucible of Courage Vigil and a Crown of Success Vigil as well.

www.luckymojo.com/crucibleofcourage.html

http://www.missionaryindependent.org/ca ... html#vigil

Good Luck with your job interview!

kandyspop · Unread post by **kandyspop** » Tue Oct 28, 2014 8:47 am

Thank you very much!

Unread post by **aura** » Wed Oct 29, 2014 4:19 am

In addition to Ms Melanie's excellent advice kandyspop, you could make yourself a hand with a John the conqueror root, some deer's tongue and some Sampson Snake Root. Add a petition for helping be more eloquent and less shy that has your hair folded into it and then feed it with whisky or a combo of Crucible of Courage and John the Conqueror oils. You can palm the hand or touch it when you find yourself having trouble.

VintageVixen · Unread post by **VintageVixen** » Sun Nov 02, 2014 7:28 pm

Hi LM Family,

I was looking for recommendations for conjure work or spells to promote health, weight loss, and general beauty? I already have a novena going for St. Jude to improve my health, am planning on purchasing a MISC candle for healing (to restore my health) to be placed and prayed on the MISC altar, but looking for some extra "oomph".

Thank you!

Unread post by **aura** » Mon Nov 03, 2014 4:54 am

Hi VintageVixen,

Egg cleansings and the Blessing Weight Loss mojo have worked well for many on the Forum when it comes to weight loss. Used in conjunction with dietary changes and regular exercise, they give a wonderful boost.

For general health and vitality, Nature and John the Conqueror are great product lines to look into. They're also good for the stamina and personal strength to follow through on any lifestyle modifications you choose to undertake.

Blessings and Success!

Shantilly · Unread post by **Shantilly** » Tue Nov 04, 2014 2:14 am

I am curious, I know you can use eggs in weight loss.
Do you think it's possible to transfer the weight to another person by doing the following?

Take the egg and write the name of the person you wish to transfer the weight to on it. Attach a personal concern using wax. And then roll the egg over the body visualising the weight moving from you to them. Either bury the trick in their garden or an area they frequent, or at crossroads (near them if possible).

Does this sound like it may work?

I have used a poppet before and it worked very well but I was just wondering whether this may work as well.

Unread post by **Ms Melanie** » Tue Nov 04, 2014 6:20 am

Hi Shantilly,

That sounds like a wonderful idea. You can also find more ideas about weight loss in the following link by Miss Cat: www.luckymojo.com/spells/white/healthspells.html

Good Luck!!

VintageVixen · Unread post by **VintageVixen** » Wed Nov 05, 2014 3:35 pm

Thank you Aura. I did an egg cleansing last night, but i always feel like I didn't "do it right". I cleansed an egg, dragged downward over my body from head to toe, and visualized it sucking away my fat and disease. Then I cracked it open and put it down the toiled, along with sea salt and flushed the toilet. I also have an egg in water under my bed to keep for 9 days. Not sure if it did anything lol. Does this sound about right?

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Wed Nov 05, 2014 10:45 pm

Hello, VintageVixen,

Why don't you try the spell on this page? You might get better results: www.luckymojo.com/spells/white/healthspells.html

Wishing you great success with this.

Unread post by **aura** » Fri Nov 07, 2014 4:32 am

Hi VintageVixen,

in addition to Miss Aida's advice, consider a crossroads disposal for an egg cleansing to take off weight rather than the toilet disposal: it's usually works better. Ditto for the egg under your bed.

Blessings.

conjure_woman_ · Unread post by **conjure_woman_** » Fri Nov 07, 2014 1:32 pm

Hi everyone, I'm hosting a party soon and want to ensure that lots of people attend and that it is basically full to the brim with partygoers

I've never done work of this kind before (regarding an event, etc) so I'm not sure how to approach this? I have a few jumbo purple candles from LM, aswell as some Crown of Success oil and Road Opener oil that I could also use.
I was thinking of writing a petition specifying what I want to achieve and then dressing the candle with my LM oils.

I'm not certain if that is the best way to approach this though, so would love some advice/help on this please, thank you

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Sat Nov 08, 2014 10:16 pm

Hello, conjure_woman_ ,

I am definitely thinking Crown of Success along with Victory on your candle while the party is going.

Victory www.luckymojo.com/victory.html

But I would start an attraction spell before hand to attract people:

And attraction: www.luckymojo.com/attraction.html

I am also going to merge your post over to Popularity and Friendship. There's some good ideas there too.

Are we invited also??

Hope it's a HUGE success.

Take care

somitsa · Unread post by **somitsa** » Mon Nov 10, 2014 8:39 pm

theusurper wrote:Someone know about a spell for when you are losing your hair? I need one.

I know people look at your very funny when you bald and its obvious person feel very bad. But the baldness or hair loss is common issue now days. The busy life style and poor diet which leads to hair loss. Hair Restoration works only if any thing to restore. But there many advanced techniques and treatments are available for hair restoration. Hair transplant is very famous trend to restore hair in which Fue Hair transplant is advanced technique for hair restoration surgery. In surgrey some live roots of your hair place the bald part of the scalp and after than hair starts to grows naturally after some time.

lisadelanna · Unread post by **lisadelanna** » Sat Jan 10, 2015 8:05 am

Hi,
Excuse my english in advance, I'm french.
My daughter, 8 years old, has difficulties in school (not socially, but to learn and do the work she's supposed to be doing), she's quite slow, but without "real" problem diagnostized. And she lacks of self confidence.
What could I buy in your shop? A spell? A mojo bag? High John the Conqueror? Croawn of success? Something else?

Thanks

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Sun Jan 11, 2015 10:19 pm

Hello, lisadelanna ,

I am moving your post to the appropriate subforum for many ideas and answers to your question.

So, please read the posts as there are plenty.

Wishing your daughter the very best

lisadelanna · Unread post by **lisadelanna** » Mon Jan 12, 2015 3:04 am

Hi Miss Aida,

Thanks for your answer.
My daughter's problem isn't only a lack of self-esteem and confidence. There is also a problem in school. She has bad results, is quite "slow", seems to have difficulties to understand abstract concepts (like maths, time, space...); Homeworks are endless everyday, so, in addition to the rest, she's tired. (and of course, because she's tired, the learning is more difficult)

What could I do to fix self-confidence problem AND learning problem?
And she's a little girl, so, I don't think it would be a good idea that she holds a mojo bag with her at school.
Any ideas?

Thanks a lot

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Mon Jan 12, 2015 8:37 pm

Hello, lisadelanna,

I am sorry that I didn't read your question thoroughly. Please accept my apologies.

This spell kit would be perfect for you to perform on her for her learning problems.

www.luckymojo.com/spell-king-solomon-wisdom.html

As far as self-confidence, I love the Crucible of courage: www.luckymojo.com/crucibleofcourage.html

As far as a mojo hand, there would be no problem pinning one to the inside of her underwear (just a thought).

Please keep us posted and wishing you both the best

lisadelanna · Unread post by **lisadelanna** » Tue Jan 13, 2015 12:51 pm

Hello Miss Aida,

No problem! Thanks for your kind answers!

- About self confidence, how should I use Crucible of courage for my daughter? anointing a candle?
- And about the mojo hand, which one should I order in Lucky Mojo?

Thanks a lot for your help,

Unread post by **JayDee** » Tue Jan 13, 2015 6:35 pm

lisadelanna ,

depending the state you are in or country, you can request she get tested. The school has to comply with it, if a child does not meet the IEP standard like a specific learning or disability, they can also fall under a thing called a 504 plan which allows accommodations to help the student and they are legally binding for the school district. Just because a kid at 8 yrs old shows a struggle does not mean she will later on, many develop later on and "catch up" to their peers. Using king solomon and clarity while you seek this advice would be beneficial to help her and get it properly diagnosed. Even burning candles on the teachers, or using a honey jar to sweeten them to her to give more help and guidance. I would not put a mojo on her but make one for her and keep it on a photo of her and dressed regularly. I would also look into a neckalance or a charm that she can wear, like a skeleton key to unlock the knowledge and dressed appropriately.

Unread post by **MissMichaele** » Wed Jan 14, 2015 11:59 am

lisadelanna, j82’s advice refers to US laws and provisions, but the same principle is true in France. In addition to Miss Aida’s advice, I’d like to recommend work with Compelling products on teachers, administrators, and government officials.

You could also do my “Fall in Love with Learning” spell, to make school pleasanter for your daughter.

spell-casting-to-help-a-child-to-succee ... b2#p120491

Good luck,

Miss Michaele

lisadelanna · Unread post by **lisadelanna** » Thu Jan 15, 2015 1:26 pm

Thanks a lot to all of you, it d' very nice from you. I will follow your advices!

Unread post by **MissMichaele** » Thu Jan 15, 2015 2:35 pm

This is ancient -- from 2009 (first page of this thread)! But it's too good an idea not to bring back out into the light of day.

nagasiva wrote:you can also use a dollbaby (DOL-FLA-REOP) with your picture on it, your hair on the head, some of your blood on the chest, and with clothes made from some of your old unwashed clothes that you liked and sacrificed for the purpose. work with the doll every day and tell the doll how much you love the doll (having baptised it with your name).

...]

some people begin with a god or saint who will love them and appeal to them as an exemplar for this type of action and result. Jesus is a very good choice here, since Jesus is well-known for forgiveness and charity.

[...]

be imaginative. focus on your well-being and on your support and composure. as catherine suggests, add bolstering power and confidence components to your work.

My own mind turns to Psalm 23:5 for self-esteem work: "Thou preparest a table before me in the presence of mine enemies."

Now, as little girls, didn't we all have doll tea parties? Get a little table and tea set for your doll baby, and set the table with real foods that you like. Yes, and sweeten the tea from that honey jar! Have some uplifting conversation, read some improving literature (aloud, so Little You can hear), play some nice music. And thus prove to yourself that the Feast is for YOU and that there is always a place for YOU at the Welcome Table.

Good luck,

Miss Michaele