MISC Love Romance Marriage Reconciliation Candle Services

SweetAlien · Unread post by **SweetAlien** » Mon Mar 16, 2015 2:09 am

I tried a prayer which worked INCREDIBLY GREAT to get my boyfriend contacting me at a time when he became distant. It's a prayer to Archangel Anael, angel of Venus helping in all matters of love and relationships:
(Use this invocation to ask the archangel of Venus, Anael, to bless and bring harmony to a romantic relationship. Light a candle at Anael's hour (between 9 and 10am) and burn some rose incense. Scatter a few pink rose petals on your altar.)
"Archangel Anael, angel of the mystic planet Venus, as I light this candle, my consciousness opens to receive your divine influence and the blessing of your wisdom and loveliness. I envision you descending to meet me as I rise in thought and in spirit to reach your exalted realms. I am aware of the exquisite roselight within which you enclose me as in an aura. It is as if we come together to meet in a temple of the rose.

I ask that you hear my prayer and that I may receive the benison of your assistance. Please clear the way so that the love between [your lover's name] and myself might blossom and flourish. Please help us to draw light from our hearts so that it may be perfectly expressed in body, mind, soul and spirit.

Archangel Anael, you have the romantic affairs of humankind under your divine rulership, I watch this candle flame burn and behold the strength and the power of the bond of love to overcome all resentment and disharmony. I ask that you cleanse our vision of all illusion so that we may see the truth and the beauty in one another and transcend all earthly barriers and limitations.

If this petition is for all good in its conception, may it succeed. I see the archangel Anael pouring out blessings upon us as if from a horn of plenty; and these blessings merge into one brilliant shaft of light, which penetrates the heart of our love so that it may be healed and be whole. Thank you!"

The effect was extremely fast and he came to me less than half an hour after. Thank you Anael! I'm sure he can help you too, worth trying.
I prayed Gabriel Archangel too, as he is the Messenger and rules communication and has the power to banish bad luck in love.

Unread post by **AlyssaH** » Tue Mar 17, 2015 11:25 am

I had MISC do a Look Me Over vigil last month.....jeez louis! The effects are STILL going strong. To preface I seem to do extremely well with glamour workings, but of course there's always a caveat. I have terrible luck in love, lol. Anyway, I've been attracting handsome, single men with good jobs as per the petition, but they're just way too pushy for my liking, ugh. & they're all younger than me, in the 29 to 30 range. Which I get it, I need to be more specific & I do look young for my age (34 & people always guess me to be in my early 20s). To summarize; the Look Me Over candle service has been extremely effective & long lasting for me, but I wasn't specific enough in my petition. If you're as picky as I am, do yourself a favor & hit the Clarity line before you make up your petition.

Mnb0687 · Unread post by **Mnb0687** » Thu Mar 19, 2015 2:31 pm

I got a love me vigil candle lit by the church on 3/10/15 and today I received my candle report. It "burned clear with no herbs or glitter, and no soot or smoke in the glass," but then, "at the end, it formed a ring of left over unburned wax at the bottom of the glass," which indiactes that there are still problems stemming from past issues.

What candle should I burn next? A blockbuster then another love me candle or should I burn a blockbuster then stay with me?

I just want us to be a couple and in a committed long lasting relationship. I want him to ask me to be his girlfriend. Any suggestions and advice are greatly appreciated.

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Thu Mar 19, 2015 8:31 pm

Hello, Mnb0687,

I would do a blockbuster (GREAT idea!) and then another love me.

Let's see what the second "love Me" shows..

Wishing you the very best with this

Take care

Mnb0687 · Unread post by **Mnb0687** » Thu Mar 19, 2015 8:53 pm

Since I'll be burning a blockbuster candle, should my petition state " remove all obstacles whether they be physical or mental that stand between _____ and I becoming a couple and having a loving committed relationship"?

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Thu Mar 19, 2015 8:57 pm

Hello, Mnb0687 ,

Remove all physical and psychological obstacles that prevent _____ and ________from becoming a couple and having a loving committed relationship"

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Wishing you the very best

take care

Mnb0687 · Unread post by **Mnb0687** » Fri Mar 20, 2015 1:44 pm

If you want your partner or the guy you're dating to spend and have more time for you, what candle(s) should you have lit on your behalf?

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Sat Mar 21, 2015 7:37 pm

Hello, Mnb0687 ,

Stay with me and Follow Me Boy

I hope this helps.

Wishing you success with your spells!

lionsrule · Unread post by **lionsrule** » Sun Mar 22, 2015 7:35 am

I'm thinking a blockbuster may remove a person getting in the way of a successful relationship?

I really like the formula, it seems to be "no nonsense" and explosive enough to remove a third party?

Might using blockbuster be an even more effective way than doing technically negative work like "crossing" or "break up" (especially when the third party's details are unknown)?

Mnb0687 · Unread post by **Mnb0687** » Sun Mar 22, 2015 10:27 am

What's a good petition to use for candles such as these? Can the same one be used for both vigil candles? I recently had a love me candle lit on my behalf and it burned steadily but left a slight ring of unburned wax indicating unresolved problems from the past that need to be worked on. I ordered a blockbuster vigil candle and think this will help. Once this is done, I'll burn another love me candle using the same petition and see what it says. So far, my work is good and paths are open

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Mon Mar 23, 2015 8:21 pm

Hello, lionsrule ,

Blockbuster removes the obstacles.

So, if this person is an obstacle, they may be removed also. Just depends on what Spirit thinks the obstacles are.

As far as effectiveness comparison, that all depends on who is doing the spell, how the spell is performed, and other criteria. So, I can't give you a commitment regarding what is more effective. However, If this were me, I'd be doing both just to enhance, increase me chances and fortify the effectiveness

Wishing you the very best with your spell work

Take care

miss_adri89 · Unread post by **miss_adri89** » Thu Mar 26, 2015 10:51 pm

I recently started a honey jar for my target, so far the candle wax have been showing hearts.
I bought a Misc reconciliation candle for my target back in Jan and I got a good report. I was interested in buying another candle but not sure what to get, reconciliation or come to me?
I haven't heard from my target, I know he has another woman in his life but my reading said it's not serious and he's coming back to me, so there's no point on doing work for the other girl.

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Sat Mar 28, 2015 8:43 pm

Hello, miss_adri89,

Then I would do the: Return to me.

This is all good news. So happy for you!

take care

Mnb0687 · Unread post by **Mnb0687** » Thu Apr 02, 2015 2:03 pm

So I got a blockbuster vigil candle burned on the 20th of March and got my candle report back today. It states that burn was clear, and that my roads are now open.

Do you think I need to follow up with another blockbuster candle just to be on the safe side or should I just proceed with burning another love me candle using my original petition then a stay with me and follow me boy candle, so my guy has more time for me & to spend with me. Any help is appreciated!

Unread post by **JayDee** » Thu Apr 02, 2015 4:55 pm

Mnb0687,

You can always burn a Love Me candle just to be sure or keep the energy working. But after a block buster I would definitely burn other candles to add what you want to him now. So you opened the path now lead him to you like come to me, follow me boy, kiss me now, fire of love (real love has passion as well).

Love Me is an occult formula designed to draw a person of the opposite sex closer and cause him or her to openly declare feelings of love; it is said to draw passionate love from a specific party and is rarely, if ever, used for casual hook-ups.

CAN-MIS-LOVE
Love Me Candle
Set on the MISC Altar, with an Emailed Candle Report
1 candle: $25.00
3 candle run: $69.00
7 candle run: $147.00
13 candle run: $234.00

You can write your petition and select your run length
by clicking on the yellow Add To Cart button right here in the Forum.

For more information, see:
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jibrille_z · Unread post by **jibrille_z** » Thu Apr 09, 2015 12:08 am

Hi I'd like advice on what candles to use for my situation. I"m planning on getting the MISC to light them for me. I've been in a long distance relationship with a man for a few years. Recently he's been hanging around a woman I can't stand. He says they're just friends. Last month I confronted him about what was really going on with her and he got really angry and hurt I would ask such a thing. Since then we still message each other but it feels very cold. In the time since the fight I believe that woman sunk her claws into him because he was feeling vulnerable and he's starting to stray. I love this man and want him back but I also want that woman gone! I want a run of candles but should I ask for BreakUp/Separation to get rid of her, then Reconciliation and Come to Me for me and him? In what order should I have them lit? All together? Also I want to include photos but should I send them in separate emails so the Church doesn't mix my photo up with that woman's?

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Thu Apr 09, 2015 9:24 pm

Hello, jibrille_z,

I would do a run like this:

Break up, Return to me, break up, return to me, break up, return to me.

Just My suggestion.
I don't like doing just the break up because then they may go to someone else. So, if you have the return to me following the break up, he knows who to go to!

Just my thoughts

take care

Mnb0687 · Unread post by **Mnb0687** » Tue Apr 14, 2015 7:40 am

What's a good vigil candle to burn for open and honest communication between you and someone you're dating? So far all the candles I've had burned have been a success but we still aren't "official" yet nor has that become a topic of conversation as of late. Any help would be appreciated!

Unread post by **JayDee** » Tue Apr 14, 2015 5:13 pm

Mnb0687,

you need a love me candle, a follow me boy, clarity is good, adam and eve candle, all are good options. Feel free for a reading to calrify things.

Mnb0687 · Unread post by **Mnb0687** » Mon Apr 20, 2015 3:08 pm

I got my candle report back today from another love me vigil candle I had lit on my behalf. It's states that the candle burned clearly and cleanly, but there was "also a dead insect in the bottom of the glass and this points to a potential for outside interference."

How should I proceed next? Any suggestions & advice are appreciated.

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Mon Apr 20, 2015 11:05 pm

Hello, Mnb0687,

A dead insect in the glass generally is a sign of interference by a third party or spirit. Get a blockbuster and then have it followed by another Love me

Good luck

Mnb0687 · Unread post by **Mnb0687** » Tue Apr 21, 2015 8:23 am

Should I use the same petitions that I used for the previous candles I've already had burned on my behalf?

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Wed Apr 22, 2015 7:26 pm

Hello, Mnb0687,

Not for the Blockbuster.

It will instead say something like: Remove all obstacles that are keeping ___ away from ___

I hope this helps.

take care

ventris · Unread post by **ventris** » Thu Apr 30, 2015 7:39 pm

Hi,

My friend broke up with her boyfriend because he cheated. Now his other girlfriend is pregnant so he was forced to get married. But he still contacting my friend frequently giving her hope that he will leave his wife once the baby is born, so now she was still thinking of him and could not let go. The purpose now is to help my friend let go of him and at the same time returning the guy back to his marriage. Would appreciate some input on which vigil candle would serve these purposes. Thanks.

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Thu Apr 30, 2015 10:23 pm

Hello, ventris ,

This is not a simple task.

Giving her some clarity would help.

I would perform a clarity spell on her to see what e really is: www.luckymojo.com/clarity.html

Then, I would follow that up with an influence skull candle spell on her: www.luckymojo.com/influence.html

By the way, a cut and clear spell by proxy (if you are considering it) is a little tough to do so that is why I am not suggesting it).

A moving candle spell for them to break up and for him to return to his wife can be found on the page I am about to give you. There is a picture on the middle right hand side:
www.luckymojo.com/breakup.html

I hope this helps

Good luck

ventris · Unread post by **ventris** » Thu Apr 30, 2015 10:56 pm

Thanks for the prompt reply. But the problem it's not convenient to do candle spell at our home. So if I would try to try on the vigil glass candles, can you recommend some that's suitable for this issue.

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Fri May 01, 2015 9:10 pm

Hello, ventris,

Yes I can!

here you go:

www.missionaryindependent.org/candle-services.html

Take care!

ventris · Unread post by **ventris** » Fri May 01, 2015 9:15 pm

Hi Miss Aida,

Would appreciate if you can help to suggest a few candles and can help in this complex situation. Thanks

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Fri May 01, 2015 10:17 pm

Hello, ventris ,

Break up for your friend

Then...

Clarity For your friend

Then....

Cut and Clear for your friend

Then...

Influence for him to go to his wife

I hope this helps.

You're a good friend to her

ventris · Unread post by **ventris** » Fri May 01, 2015 11:36 pm

Thanks Miss Aida. I will definitely ask my friend to try.

RebeccaMoses · Unread post by **RebeccaMoses** » Sat May 02, 2015 9:41 pm

I was recently in a relationship with a longtime friend of mine...lasted like 2-3 weeks. He was uncomfortable with the fact that I had to speak with my ex(my son's father) so he says. I don't know if he didn't like that I have a child or that I speak to my son's father(only on matters with our son). I want him back and I want him to be understanding and loyal to me. I wanted to know which candles to order for MISC to put on their altar.

P.S I'm new to LM

RebeccaMoses · Unread post by **RebeccaMoses** » Sun May 03, 2015 4:33 am

Hi I was recently seeing a longtime friend of mine for about 2-3 weeks he broke it off because he said he was uncomfortable with my situation(I have a child and I'm co-parenting with his father) well he claims that was the problem im not sure how true that was but I want to get him back and I want him to be understanding and faithful(I noticed he has a lot of females friends) what candles should be lit for this?

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Mon May 04, 2015 12:00 am

Hello, RebeccaMoses ,

I am so sorry.

Definitely: Return to me.

You may want to consider a run of those candles and not just having one lit.

I pray that he returns to you

Take care

Hellothere95 · Unread post by **Hellothere95** » Tue May 05, 2015 1:19 pm

Ok so I have an urgent situation. My boyfriend let me know today that he wants to talk about some things later this week and that he is working through some "personal decisions" I am very afraid he is going to want to break up. I had a reading done earlier this week that actually said things would be staying the same (before getting his text message).
What should I do?
I've ordered earlier a come to me, follow me boy, Adam and Eve and love me to be set on the altar.

Is it beneficial to order a reconciliation or return to me now? Should I wait? What can I do to be proactive?

Unread post by **natstein** » Tue May 05, 2015 3:31 pm

Hello Hellothere95,

The candles you have going right now sound like good ones to me. If you wanted to be proactive in this discussion I would suggest getting some powders and/or oils. Follow Me Boy would be good. So would Love Me or things like that. Have them on your person when you go to meet with him. If he is coming to your home sprinkle the powders where he will walk in them when he come to your door. As I heard on the Radio Show recently sprinkle them all the way into your bed! Hope this is helpful!

www.luckymojo.com/products-follow-me-boy.html
www.luckymojo.com/products-love-me.html

Peace~

Nathen

Tqc916 · Unread post by **Tqc916** » Tue May 05, 2015 7:05 pm

Hello I am new to this forum. I currently have a follow me boy candle burning at MISC. my target did contact me thru Facebook after a couple months of no talking. Said he still loved me and that he missed me. So I would say I'm seeing movement. Yay! So my question is what other candles could I use to follow up the work. I want us to be in a relationship. and for him to forbid all females but me....

Thank you

RebeccaMoses · Unread post by **RebeccaMoses** » Wed May 06, 2015 6:15 am

Hey, about doin the return to me. I did say that my son's father and I only communicate concerning our son at least we try to but there is no telling about it that we still love each other. We had a conversation last night and from what I gathered he's basically saying he doesn't want to be with me but he wants me to be around as in he wants me to love him even if he moves on with another woman. I know if I move on with another man he will be pissed because he is selfish, now my question is if I let MISC burn the "return to me" candle with petition on my behalf for the return of my past lover(the man I was with after my son's father) would it be blocked because of my son's father selfish ways. Also when my friend and I tried for a relationship I felt as though he was holding back on me or scared to show any feelings or almost as though he was hurting from something in his past. So should do a block buster candle along with the return to me candle?

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Wed May 06, 2015 9:20 pm

Hello, Tqc916 ,

CONGRATS!!

I would start with a Come to Me followed by a love me followed by a stay with me.

Just my opinion.

Wishing you the very best and so happy for you!

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Wed May 06, 2015 9:24 pm

Hello, RebeccaMoses,

It's so difficult to predict what would happen without a reading.

But my thought is this: There's no harm in trying.

And you may want to follow hat with either compelling candle (to compel him to think your way while he actually thinks everything is his idea)

I would definitely have the blockbuster lit first. That's a GREAT idea.

Wishing you the very best

Tqc916 · Unread post by **Tqc916** » Tue May 12, 2015 1:37 pm

Thank you Miss Aida for the recommendation. I placed an order of come to me, love me and bewitching. I think once I have him...lol. I'll do the stay with me. But so far progress had been pretty good.

sparker · Unread post by **sparker** » Wed Jun 17, 2015 10:54 am

I ordered a Return to Me candle yesterday to be lit at MISC. I have a feeling this situation might take a couple extra candles, if you know what I mean.

I am concerned I didn't word the petition quite right and it might impede things. I know I chose the right candle for the situation (I was torn between a few, but that one felt "right") and would just like a little help on how to word future petitions relating to this situation.

I will try to make a long story short - I have dated this guy 3 different times in the last year or so. Every time it ends due to his schedule and/or my impatience. He travels a lot for extended periods of time, and at the beginning of this year started a new job and was pretty much working 12 hours a day, six days a week - there was really no time to nurture our relationship and he was very stressed out both because of work and knowing it was an unbalanced relationship because it revolved around his impossible schedule. For what it's worth, I tried to go with the flow and was willing to wait it out, but he tends to withdraw when he feels like he is letting someone down. We didn't officially pull the plug, but it just died out, unfortunately. We haven't spoken since early March. The last message I got from him, he said how much he missed me and he had never wanted things to go the way they did and end. I was extremely emotional in my last message back to him (and also on morphine due to an ulcer which caused me to lose my filter -haha) and I think I said too much (I dropped the L word). I also asked him not to respond to my message because if he didn't love me back I would be devastated, and if he did, I'd be even more devastated that we both felt the same yet couldn't make it work. He was either too freaked out to reply (though he had dropped the L word himself before), or just went along with my wishes and said nothing else.

To top it all off, he is a really slow mover, which made things that much harder when I only could see him once a week (or less) because of his schedule. I am terrified to reach out to him because I worry he's either spooked by my declaration of love (I worry that may have made him feel even worse about things not working out, knowing I felt so strongly) or has moved on. I hope neither is the case, but I don't know, and fear of rejection just won't let me make a move. I feel paralyzed.

In the past when we've been apart and I missed him, I'd have an attraction candle burned and he'd eventually turn back up and want to give it another go. That was all well and good, but I wish to get him back (and I don't want to have to make that move, I want him to WANT to come back and I just want this candle to nudge him) and also keep him. How do I petition this correctly (200 characters just doesn't feel like enough once I put in our names and birthdates and all that pertinent information)? How long do I keep at it? I'd love to be patient and wait it out, but I couldn't stand the days continuing to pass. I don't like to interfere with the natural course of things too much, but I also don't mind a candle if it speeds things along or offers a bit of persuasion. Compounding the issue is that I see his name (which is not a very common one) almost daily and hear/see things that make me think of him also on a daily basis (this was not always the case, I actually did well putting this behind me for a while... these issues are fairly recent and also very frequent). I feel like the universe is trying to give me a heads up on something in regards to him, I'm just not sure what. In any case, I try not to ever go to the grocery store looking like crap in case all these signs mean I am going to run into him soon (we live in the same general area).

Edrin · Unread post by **Edrin** » Sun Jul 26, 2015 7:15 pm

While waiting for Ms. Aida to do a reading for me, I am intending to set a series of lights in MISC.

First of the list is a series of reconciliation candles - to draw her back to me. Is it a good idea to add on a candle of intranquility to "highlight" the effect of not being with me and no longer enjoying the care I used to shower on her?

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Mon Jul 27, 2015 8:36 pm

Hello, sparker,

I would do a run of the return to me candles. Definitely. Petition? " _____ (<--his name) Return to _____ (<---your name)

For the attraction, well, you don't say return to me on the petition. It's an attraction candle and not a return to me.

So, for the attraction, do a run of those and your petition would be _____ (<---his name) will constantly think about wanting and needing _______ (<---your name) and nothing else.

Now, MISC will tell you if you need to light more candles and they also make recommendations.

Wishing you the VERY best

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Mon Jul 27, 2015 8:37 pm

Hello, Edrin ,

I don't recommend the Intranquil Spirit for this work right now. A run of reconciliation or return to me is a good starting point. Then, see what the reports show and recommend.

Wishing you the best

sparker · Unread post by **sparker** » Fri Jul 31, 2015 7:54 am

Thanks, Miss Aida! Sometimes simple and straight to the point is best, huh? I was clearly overthinking it!

I caved a few days ago and texted him that I missed him. He said he misses me too, and has been trying to keep his distance "out of respect", whatever that means.

Right now I am working on a petition for a Road-Opener candle, and once I see how that goes, I will go back to the Return to Me. The last report (on Return to Me) said it burned well and showed there was a little bit of stuff in the way that I needed to work on from my end. Trying to do that first. I know he's out of town for a while, probably until Mid-September... I don't plan on reaching out again until his birthday (September), so I feel like I have a good bit of time to work on myself and such until then. Sure do miss him, though.

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Fri Jul 31, 2015 8:42 pm

Hello, sparker ,

Good job and great strategy!

I hope the very best for you

sparker · Unread post by **sparker** » Wed Aug 12, 2015 7:37 am

Oh my. Looking forward to candle report from the road-opener, as the target of my affection texted me last night out of the blue that he wished he were snuggled up next to me. He has not reached out to me since March. MARCH.

I think that road-opener is WORKING, next I go back to working the "return to me" angle. I think some obstacles are being removed as I type this...

Unread post by **Miss Athena** » Wed Aug 12, 2015 9:28 pm

Hi sparker,

That is FANTASTIC news!! Congratulations!!

Yes, the Road Opener products are wonderful. Keep us posted and best of luck to you!

belladanta · Unread post by **belladanta** » Wed Aug 12, 2015 11:54 pm

Hello I am new to this forum. My boyfriend cheated on me and than broke up a little bit later. Anyway we already in contact again and doing a lots of relationship things and sex but we are not together. Furthermore he has two other women, one of them is the one he betrayed me with. I want to change that. I already had three return to me candles burned. This week I ordered a love me candle, a break up candle (for him and woman 1) and a blockbuster candle.
I have a feeling this situation might take a couple extra candles. I would like some suggestions, please.

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Fri Aug 14, 2015 8:19 pm

Hello, belladanta ,

I am so sorry that this happened.

My suggestion to you is to have a run of break up candles along with a run of return to me candles. Then, follow that up with Follow Me Boy.

Also, keep his semen when you have sex. You can do good magic with that!!

I wish you the very best with your spells.

Take care

belladanta · Unread post by **belladanta** » Sat Aug 15, 2015 12:35 am

thank you for your suggestion, Miss Aida. Should I order the candles right away or wait for my candle reports to see how many I should order?

I already have some of his semen stored and three weeks ago I used an opportunity to feed him some of my menstrual blood in a tomatosauce.

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Sat Aug 15, 2015 9:11 pm

Hello, belladanta ,

Good job!!

Take care

Isd · Unread post by **Isd** » Thu Aug 20, 2015 4:19 am

I wish to order for a I dominate my man candle at Misc but there is no such.
I called and i was suggested for a Domination candle. However, is not especially for love relation.
Any suggestions?

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Thu Aug 20, 2015 7:47 pm

Hello, Isd ,

They can alter it. Just out it in your request that it gets "tweeked". They will do that for you.

Take care

sparker · Unread post by **sparker** » Mon Sep 14, 2015 1:58 pm

Oh gosh. So I've had a setback.

My person... well, it was looking good. Really looking good. He kept randomly texting how much he missed me and one woke me up out of a dead sleep at 2:30 am. So I called him and he begged me - BEGGED me - to see him again and hear him out because he wanted another chance. He has a job change coming up that translates into "normal schedule/normal life" for him (unfortunately it also means he will be living 2-3 hours away for 2 months). I agreed to meet him and talk about it and I don't really know what happened (and Venus was in retrograde, I really should have known better) but something was off and I made a snippy comment and then everything sort of went sideways. And things were ok for a few days and then he sort of stopped communicating. I reached out and asked if there was a reason we were no longer speaking and he said he was sorry and he was still in it if I was and he was just feeling kind of weird about how that night went (so was I). So I gave him a little space and he dropped back off the face of the earth. I do not have it in me to reach out via phone but this still feels so far from over and I just am lost.

So any advice on what run of candles to burn, lay it on me. They work! He always come back, I just can't make him stay (and it's not all him, I've broken it off before myself). It is torture.

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Tue Sep 15, 2015 6:39 am

Hello, sparker ,

That's got to be so frustrating. I am so sorry.

Have you had a run of: Stay With Me candles lit?

That would be my preference for your next step.

Wishing you the very best

take care

sparker · Unread post by **sparker** » Tue Sep 15, 2015 9:43 am

Miss Aida, you are just so sweet.

Since he is not in my life at all at the moment, I don't know if Stay With Me would work? My gut feeling is I might need another road opener or something to remove whatever these obstacles that are preventing this from ever progressing. It's like we get to a certain point, every time, and we hit a wall and I don't know what it is (I think he has some emotional stuff relating to a past relationship that he does not acknowledge and I don't know that he ever will. He is a very positive person and just keeps all negative feelings at bay. I don't know how he does it, but he has perfected it).

So I was wondering if I should do a road opener, a return to me and then I don't know what I should do after that one. Stay With Me seems a bit presumptuous if we're not back together when the Return To Me finishes burning?

Thanks so much for putting up with me through this. I am also wrestling with the idea that maybe we are not supposed to be together, and if that is the case, then I want to be able to actually let go and find that person who can love me the way I need to be loved. In short, I want him to come to come back ONLY IF he's supposed to be in my life. I don't want to change the course of whatever my destiny is supposed to be, but I do want to prod it along a little bit. I know I am not ready for a cut and clear with this (though maybe I should be?), I feel deep down that I have to leave this door open.

Thoughts? Is road opener a good start? What would be the best third candle?

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Wed Sep 16, 2015 11:06 pm

Hello, sparker,

I am sorry, I misunderstood.

I would do a blockbuster.

Then a run of Return to me

Then, when he returns, then the Stay with me

Wishing you the very best

sparker · Unread post by **sparker** » Thu Sep 17, 2015 9:16 am

Thank you, Miss Aida... he texted out of the blue last night... after dropping off the face of the earth. Apologies, excuses... I am just so tired of it. I don't even have the energy to reply, I've got no fight left in me.

Gonna just get those candles burning and let the chips fall where they may. Thank you again.

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Fri Sep 18, 2015 8:30 pm

Hello, sparker,

Wishing you the best with this situation

Take care