Spells for Engagement and Marriage Proposal, to Bless and Assist Matrimony, Stay With Me, Stay At Home

Unread post by **natstein** » Fri Dec 18, 2015 4:38 pm

Hello MarrymeD2015,

Your question is kind of big and vague. I would recommend reading over the topic I merged your question into as well as some of the other topics on this part of the forum. It sounds like you have a lot of things going at once right now. If you are new to this kind of work I would recommend scaling back a bit and focusing on one thing. If you are not yet back together I suggest focusing on reconciliation first. If you are then you can work on the stay with me marriage type stuff. I would also recommend you get reading from someone, we always recommend the folks at AIRR (www.readersandrootworkers.org) so you can have a clear picture of what is going on.

Peace~

Nathen

Nydya3 · Unread post by **Nydya3** » Sun Jan 17, 2016 3:27 pm

My boyfriend and I broke up a couple of months ago. We've been together for 4 yrs, living together for 3.

He's looking for his own place and we are no longer sharing a bedroom. I need to get him back before he moves out because I know that once he leaves I won't have a chance.

We have really great sex and that's usually how I weaken him to end our fights & work things out. But he's being really stubborn this time and wont let me nowhere near him. He dont talk to me and IF he has to say anything to me he does it through text and keep it short & to the point.

I really do love this man, this is not a lust thing. I just have some trust issues because of things that happened in the past that I unfortunately cant stop bringing up.

I've put menstrual blood in his food twice during these past 2 months, waiting on the opportunity to do it again but because of his work schedule he doesnt eat at home often so it hasnt been easy. And i've only been able to put it in food he's cooked for himself because he turns down everything I offer him (as if he knows).

I also put strands of my pubic hairs under his mattress & in his pillow case (and did a little think of me chant).

1) Today I wanted to thread my pubic hairs into the seam of his underwear but I'm running into a problem. The hairs are long enough to thread into the needle but come out as soon as it goes through the fabric. My question is CAN I ATTACH THE HAIR TO THE UNDERWEAR WITH A LITTLE DROP OF GLUE? Or will the glue affect the spell?

2) I also put a hair in his hat band but it must have fallen out (I checked and it's not there). What can I do to hold the hairs that are not yet long enough to thread or knot?

3) I also have a little baggy of his hairs I want to work with (every time he takes a shower I pick the hairs from his wash cloth). What can I do with these?

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Sun Jan 17, 2016 6:06 pm

Hello, Nydya3 ,

I wouldn't use glue.

Please take a look at this page for an array of spells that you can perform. www.luckymojo.com/lovespells.html

There may be some spells that appeal to you.

Wishing you the very best

take care

Innocence · Unread post by **Innocence** » Sun Jan 17, 2016 8:38 pm

Nydya3,

Wow, sounds like your ex has lots of resentment towards you if he won't even talk to you. I'd think reconciliation spells should be your priority. My triple strength reconciliation mojo bag worked pretty fast so I would recommend getting that asap. If you can get rid of his anger/resentment and resume normal communication, don't despair even if he moves out, you still have a chance to rope him back with Return to me products. It worked for me (my ex moved back into our room after I did a Return to me candle spell). If he becomes friendly again before he moves, Kiss me now can work wonders in luring him into bed.

Singing silent · Unread post by **Singing silent** » Mon Mar 07, 2016 5:40 am

Hello everyone. Thank you for having me. This is my very first time posting to this thread but I didn't know what else or where else to turn.
My husband of 15 years verbal abusive has become worse. He blames me for everything that goes wrong in our house and marriage and takes no blame for anything. He even blames me for his lack of confidence. He thinks I look at other men and thinks I like the attention of other men when in fact I don't want or think o another. He has been getting this crazy obsessive thoughts in his head and at times I have to sit back and wonder if someone is not working some evil on the both of us. The reason I'm saying is this is because what has been taking place the last 5 weeks is over the top crazy and hurtful. I do not know how to make him know I'm not lying, I don't want anyone else , and I not to blame for everything that happens in our relationship. I truly love him and my family. I just need all this mental abusive to stop. I have tried the freezer spell but that has not worked. I'm ready for a nervous breakdown. We have two children that don't need to hear all of this.... I'm at the bed of my rope....
He tells me he just needs to stop giving a crap about me again and he won't have these thoughts- that's not the answer..... My friends I need help
M.

Unread post by **natstein** » Mon Mar 07, 2016 3:03 pm

Hello Singing silent,

I merged your post into a thread that deals with saving a marriage. There are some ideas in here that will likely help you. I also recommend searching in the threads in this heading (ask-us-for-conjure-help-with-uncrossing ... l-f40.html) as well as the threads in this heading (ask-us-for-conjure-help-with-cleansing- ... s-f37.html). These deal with removing JInxes or curses and with healing/blessing work. If someone is working on your relationship you are going to want to get that off of you. I also recommend posting a prayer at the Crystal Silence League (http://www.crystalsilenceleague.org/).

I hope this is helpful!

Peace~

Nathen

Moonlightdream · Unread post by **Moonlightdream** » Sat Apr 09, 2016 7:56 am

Hi,

Can someone please suggest spells I can do to make my man want to stay at home with me and our child more. These past few weeks, he's been going out with friends more often. Sometimes drinking and sometimes playing video games.

Please help

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Sat Apr 09, 2016 7:01 pm

Hello, Moonlightdream ,

There are 6 pages here on this thread of spell ideas.

Also, check here: www.luckymojo.com/lovespells.html

After reading, if you have further questions, please don't hesitate to ask

Take care

Unread post by **catherineyronwode** » Sun Apr 10, 2016 8:14 am

When i parse out your question, i see two issues here -- Getting your mate to stay at home and be a supportive and loving family and dealing with issues of bad companions and even potential alcohol dependency or addiction. The latter issue can lead to destrction of a marriage, because people who run around while drinking have lowered inhibitions and may get into sexual pickups, random fights, or even dangerous driving issues.

So you will probably want to work two types of spells at once -- Cast Off Evil to get rid of the temptations and bad companions, plus a sweet form of Stay At Home or Stay WIth Me work to stengthen and uplift the time he specnds with the family.

Moonlightdream · Unread post by **Moonlightdream** » Mon Apr 11, 2016 9:48 am

Oh thank you Catherine!
You're absolutely right. That is a great idea, I would've never thought of Cast of evil! Will definitely look into it now. I have a stay with me mojo from the stay with me spell kit. I'll make sure to order stay at home supplies too. But the cast of evil is an excellent idea, I don't want him to hang around bad influences or get into temptations. Thank you Cat!

Moonlightdream · Unread post by **Moonlightdream** » Wed Apr 27, 2016 2:08 am

I feel so sad and broken...
I just found out by accidentally getting my hands on his phone...He's still stays in touch with his ex, even though they haven't met in a year...Reading their conversations, I felt dead inside. I still feel dead inside. I don't even have the strength to cry. Please help me. What should I do? Perhaps I should do a breakup between them? I don't want to harm her even though I really loathe her. What can I do...
I'm still working my honey jar on him, I have a stay with me mojo, love me mojo and I've done a 9 knots successfully recently. It's been great. But finding out that they're still in touch, (in a not so only friendly way), is breaking my heart...We have a 1 year old together. I've been heart broken before...I feel exhausted...To the point where I find life meaningless...Help me please. Thank you...

Unread post by **rev.jordan** » Wed Apr 27, 2016 7:06 am

First, confront him. Second, find a counselor. Third, worry about conjure. If anything, do empowerment work on yourself.

Unread post by **natstein** » Wed Apr 27, 2016 3:58 pm

Hello Moonlightdream,

I merged your question into the thread that deals with Stay With Me type work and reviving a marriage. I also see that you posted here just recently about your man going out drinking a lot and neglecting spending time with you and your child.

It sounds like this case is a bit complicated so my first thought is to,recommend a reading from a trusted and objective reader such as those at AIRR (www.readersandrootworkers.org). This can give you an idea of just how to move forward and what your chances of success would be.

I hear you saying you are exhausted and having trouble finding a the point of all this but I also see that you took the effort to write a post which tells me you are reaching out for hope and looking for assitance which suggests to me you are not quite ready to be done with the relationship.

If your ultimate goal is to keep this man in a monogomous relationship with you then I would continue with the work mentioned by cat and possibly do some Cut and Clear work (http://www.luckymojo.com/cutandclear.html) on a doll baby of your man to remove his emotional attachment to this other person he is ,ease gong on his phone. Again a reading will give some clarity on how to proceed and you can even do some Clarity work on yourself so you can try to have an objective and clear view of the situation. (http://www.luckymojo.com/clarity.html) Just a mount a white candle with Clarity oil and write a little prayer on some paper stating what you need clarity on and put it under the candle. Light and sit quietly while it burns and just see what thoughts float by.

Also if you do confront him and he is willing to a professional councilor as Obskultus suggested would be a good idea. If he is truly willingg to participate this can be a great benefit to your relationship.

This is a tough one and I am sorry you are experiencing this but ultimately I beleive it will turn out well for whether that is together in a loving relationship with only him or apart from each other but with him involved and being supportive of your child.

Peace~

Nathen

Moonlightdream · Unread post by **Moonlightdream** » Wed Apr 27, 2016 10:09 pm

Thank you so much for your words Nat. I still want to fight for this relationship. I've done so much for it to progress and come to this point. It was totally different last year and has changed in better ways. He's much more loving and respectful now. I can't give up now, I have to stay strong for my daughter. I will confront him but gently, but I know he won't admit it. I want to do some form of breakup between them. I only have commanding, controlling and compelling oil, calamus roots atm, it will take too long time to order other products so I wish to do something meanwhile the shipping time. Please advice what I can do, which what kinds of herbs etc? Break up candle? Freezer spell? Vinegar?
Their relationship is forbidden, if I reveal it, it will ruin their lives and a lot of people around them. I'm so heartbroken...I can't breathe...I will do a healing and blessing candle on me too...
Thank you so much...

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Thu Apr 28, 2016 8:34 pm

Hello, Moonlightdream,

All of your ideas are good. You can do one or all of them.

Herbs? Check out this page: http://www.luckymojo.com/hoodooataglance.html

Wishing you the very best

take care

caligirl00 · Unread post by **caligirl00** » Sun Sep 11, 2016 6:12 am

Hello all,

I have been with my bf for 2yrs now and I'm starting to notice he's a bit "unhappy" with himself. He tells me he's not where he thought he would be and has said he's moving out once our home contract is over. There are days where I feel like he wants to continue to stay but there are days/nights where he doesn't come home at all. I have tried talking to him but he's not the best communicator. Is there any type of spell to get him to stay at home with me instead of leaving whenever he wants and returning whenever he pleases. When he's gone I call him over and over and he never answers. Please help! He's very skeptical about candles though he always thinks I'm up to something. (Tried doing an influence candle on him for fertility). I know he wants to stay but it's so hard to have a hard conversation with him.

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Sun Sep 11, 2016 8:18 pm

Hello, caligirl00 ,

You can still lay tricks around the house: www.luckymojo.com/layingtricks.html

You can use Stay at Hoe and Stay with me products

www.luckymojo.com/stayathome.html

www.luckymojo.com/staywithme.html

And, of course, you can have MISC light candles for you.

I hope this helps

Wishing you the very best

SeptembersDream · Unread post by **SeptembersDream** » Tue Sep 20, 2016 9:25 am

First of all, my apologies if I have missed the protocol on how to post in this forum. This is my first day and it all is a little confusing.

I am hoping to get some help with a relationship spell. The problem is, I don't exactly know what spell I should be doing. In summary:

My boyfriend and I have been in a relationship off and on for over a year and a half. We do love each other very much, but we both have trouble with pride, ego, entitlement, etc. He was also moving extremely fast in the beginning of the relationship, which scared me off. He was ready to get married and have a baby like yesterday... I wasn't! Fast forward, we have officially reconciled, we have both decided that we are in this relationship 100% and I know now that this man will absolutely be my future husband (and possibly the father of my child).

Shortly after we got back together he decided that he wanted to go back to law school... and in another state! For the record, I am 37 and he is 38. I'm proud of him for wanting to pursue a dream. I would love for him to have gotten his law degree because that only means a better future for us, but why now??? Now is literally the worst time! He's had over a decade to have made that happen and now that we've finally decided to be together and move forward, he springs this on me!? I thought we were moving towards marriage, having a baby, buying a home and starting our future together. He definitely wants those things as well, but I'm not willing to have a baby unless it's under the right circumstances. I just don't want to be a newly wed, a new 1st time mom and not have the support of my husband. Long distance relationships are already tough but aside from the distance, he will also have to leave his 6-figure paying job, rack up $200K in law school debt and start a whole new entry-level career once he finishes school. This makes me very uncertain about our future and it's not exactly how I envisioned our future together starting out.

He can sometimes be a man of poor judgement, so I don't know whether this law school thing is another one of his random ideas. He has a great career already and makes great money, but I don't think he's 100% happy in his career. I do want him to be happy with his career, but I think going back to law school at 38 and while you're also thinking about starting a family is just horrible timing. This was something he should have pursued BEFORE 38, BEFORE he and I decided to go all in. He hasn't even asked how I feel about it but of course, I would never tell him I'm against it anyway. I love him, but the next 3-4 years of our life are crucial. My baby making years are already down to the wire and again, marriage will need to come before that. Kids have never been on my agenda until I met him. I'm willing to make a sacrifice and try for at least one baby now. At this point, I think he's going to need to make a sacrifice and put this pursuit on ice. I mean, if he can go back to school at 38, he can also go at 42... it's not going anywhere. In the meantime, my eggs ARE!

I am looking for a spell that will basically expel this whole law school idea, at least for awhile. I need him to focus on what he's been fighting to get me to focus on... marriage, family, home! Or at least consider going to a school in the city that we live in. He's about to start studying for the LSAT's (law school admissions test), and secretly I'm hoping he'll fail (awful, I know). If he failed the LSAT, that would force him to forget the whole idea and we could move on. I love him very much, but I didn't sign up for this. I'm not sure I'm willing to give him anymore of my good years or stick it out in a long distance relationship for the next 3 years, while he's off being a kid again in another state. I just want a normal life. I'm finally ready!

I know this is selfish of me, but I can't help the way I feel. I think a family is more important to him anyway, he just thinks I'm okay with the idea and I'm not. Any help???

Unread post by **Sister Jean** » Wed Sep 21, 2016 3:22 pm

Hello SeptembersDream,

This sounds like a stressful time for you, and I'm sorry you're dealing with all this uncertainty. Magically-wise, I'd recommend using Stay At Home products: http://www.luckymojo.com/stayathome.html

On a more mundane note though, if you two haven't talked about this matter thoroughly, with both of you being free to air all your wants, concerns and worries without judgment or interruption, THAT is the first step you need to take. You both have valid desires: He wants to have a career that he is happy in, you want to start a family. If you two are truly in this relationship for the long haul, you will need to meet somewhere in the middle. Communication is the key to make that happen.

Good luck to you, I hope it all works out!

goldentouch97 · Unread post by **goldentouch97** » Thu Jan 12, 2017 5:36 pm

Hello and happy new year to all,i'm an happy married man since last saturday,ceremony and everythings was very nice,all our family and friends from near and far was there but there's something that i scare a little bit : A lots of peoples took pictures of me and my wife with their fone.Sometimes family members are often the worst enemies and yu never know what them can do with our pictures so tell me what i can do for protect our love from some nasty peoples with bad intentions ?

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Thu Jan 12, 2017 9:08 pm

Hello, goldentouch97

Happy new Year to you too!

You are so right about some families. I know from experience with my clients

here is an array of protection spells that Miss Cat wrote:

www.luckymojo.com/protectionspells.html

Wishing oyu the best

Take care

Charger10 · Unread post by **Charger10** » Tue Mar 28, 2017 4:03 pm

I have a son that has been with his girlfriend for 7 years and they have a 2 year old child they been having problems and I want them to stay together I know they love one another. What would you suggest to keep the peace and faithfulness and allow their love to grow for one another thank you

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Wed Mar 29, 2017 8:48 pm

Hello, Charger10,

I am sorry that they are having problems. And you are so wonderful to care so much about them!

First, a honey jar is very appropriate:

www.luckymojo.com/honeyjar.html

Peaceful home products:

www.luckymojo.com/peacefulhome.html

And Stay at home spells:

www.luckymojo.com/stayathome.html

I hope this helps.

Wishing you the very best

Take care

Dani1993 · Unread post by **Dani1993** » Fri May 05, 2017 8:51 pm

Can someone please help I went with a lady she claimed that she can make my relationship stronger with my husband she told me to go home and in a jar but my husbands name with black tape around it and put wanted and freeze it in the freezer so I did I started noticing my husband getting closer with me so I researched and found the freezer spell can some one please tell me how I can get it undone please I would greatly appreciate it

Unread post by **Sister Jean** » Sat May 06, 2017 11:07 am

Hello Dani1993,

Welcome to the Lucky Mojo forum.

I'm sorry to say it, but this lady gave you flat-out bad advice. Freezer spells aren't used to strengthen a love connection, they're used to freeze someone *out of your life.* So you're right to want to undo it. Take the spell out of the freezer and let everything thaw out. Pray over it as it thaws (you don't have to pray the entire time it takes to thaw) that everything in this spell is frozen no more, and your target is released from the spell's effects. Take the remnants to a crossroads.

Then, start fresh with a honey jar, to sweeten your husband toward you and strengthen your relationship:

http://www.luckymojo.com/honeyjar.html

Good luck to you.

EssaelBosch · Unread post by **EssaelBosch** » Sat Jul 15, 2017 5:00 am

I met my current partner six months ago and during that time, though we were very close, it was never an official or exclusive relationship. Last month he met another woman and said we would no longer be able to be involved (understandably, and that was as we had agreed to start with). However, after two dates with this woman, he realised that he didn't want to be with anyone else and told me as much. We talked about it at great length and as a result we are now in a loving, committed, and monogamous relationship. A happy ending, if not with some pain woven in because I did lose him for a while and that hurt a lot.

We are very happy together but I am insecure (and I admit totally irrationally so) and in the back of my mind I am still worried about losing him again. Can anyone recommend a working to protect a relationship from negative influences, both from outside and inside a relationship (my current need for regular reassurance is becoming unhealthy, though he is very understanding about it). Maybe something that also works to strengthen and purify a current relationship? It is against my general principles to work in any way which would influence anyone (or even myself) against their will, so I wouldn't want something that would be to "keep us together", because relationships can naturally fail and you wouldn't want to be unknowingly trapped within a failed/unwanted relationship. I just want to protect what we have and reinforce it. Thoughts?

Unread post by **Sister Jean** » Sat Jul 15, 2017 9:26 am

Hello EssaelBosch,

If you don't want to influence anyone, not even yourself, that's your business, but that tentativeness isn't a part of hoodoo. You could work a honey jar for you and your partner, to keep the two of you sweet toward each other, but you may view that as influencing your will and his. So it's up to you. You can read more about honey jars here:

http://www.luckymojo.com/honeyjar.html

Take care.

EssaelBosch · Unread post by **EssaelBosch** » Sat Jul 15, 2017 9:33 am

Sister Jean - I do understand my hesitation is defeating the object somewhat. It's not a concrete rule, but a guideline I like to stick to at least when it comes to matters of the heart. I have done a Honey Jar working before to ease tensions in a shared house, so have some experience with it. Using one does seem like a solid idea, so thanks!

JAD82017 · Unread post by **JAD82017** » Mon Jul 17, 2017 8:48 am

Hi,

This is my first post here but I've been following/reading everything I can for awhile now. I've bought from lucky mojo twice as well. Anyways, I'm in need of some assistance and was wondering if anyone had some advice? My boyfriend and I were in a relationship for 11mths, everything was great but then life began to get in the way. He was juggling multiple jobs, having issues with living conditions, his car, etc. I'm juggling being a single mom and work. We don't live in the same city which makes it difficult as well :/ We we're doing really great but last week we split up. I'd like to hope we just need a break and to figure life out. We agreed to still stay friends and we do have a gathering/wedding to attend together in a few months so I was wondering if a honey jar would be appropriate? I'd like to reconcile and while I'd love to pick up where we left off I know it's best that we take things slow and figure our obstacles out before jumping two feet in again. I began a honey jar but I didn't pay attention to the moon phase and it was waning when I began it. Should I start another jar? Can I use the items I have in this jar in the new one? A picture of us, his hand writing & a condom we used. Again, I'm not looking to jump back into love, I want to do things right this time and take them slow, work through our life obstacles together. Any help you can give me would be appreciated. I have Come to me oil and Returm to me oil on the way & I have pink and red candles I burn on top of my jar. The candles leave very little wax which I'm hoping is a good sign despite me creating it on the wrong moon phase. Should I just wait until the new moon to begin praying on the jar I already have created or will it get confused? Thanks so much for any help/advise you can offer me!

Unread post by **Sister Jean** » Mon Jul 17, 2017 11:13 am

Hello JAD82017,

Not all spiritual workers do their spells by the moon phases, so I don't think you need to trash this jar just because you started it during the waning moon. Just keep working it. And I like the idea of "keeping the flame alive" in a steady but gentle way while you two take the time you need and get your lives back in order. This sounds like solid work.

Good luck to you.

JAD82017 · Unread post by **JAD82017** » Tue Jul 18, 2017 4:05 am

Hi Sister Jean,

Thank you so much for your reply! I burnt a free standing candle on top again last night (I'm going to do M,W & F) and it was a clean burn, steady flame for the most part but sometimes when I would speak to it, the flame would rise up. Is that normal? Also, we spoke last night. I initiated it because I needed confirmation on whether or not we were still sharing a hotel for the wedding we are going to. His reply was "yes ma'am" and nothing more. I'm slightly disappointed in his reply but I guess it's a good thing since we'll be spending 3 days together. Finally, I had a reading done and the woman that did it said that there was hope & suggested that I write "Return to me" on a pink candle for 7 days. I know you said not all spiritual workers do their working by the moon phases but I was wondering if you think I should do her suggestion according to the moon phase and whether or not that should be on top of my jar or something completely separate? Thank you so much for your time!

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Tue Jul 18, 2017 6:29 pm

Hello, JAD82017,

Yes, flames rising when talking to it does occur frequently.

As far as your second question, this is entirely up to you. We can only guide with suggestions and choices.

What does your heart say? Use your intuition!

Take care!

JAD82017 · Unread post by **JAD82017** » Wed Jul 19, 2017 3:17 am

Thank you!

JAD82017 · Unread post by **JAD82017** » Thu Jul 20, 2017 7:06 am

Good morning,

Sorry to bother again! So, last night I got this overwhelming urge to create another honey jar. I have no idea why and for some reason I felt like I should reuse the items in my original honey jar- combine them if you will. So after about two hours of prep work and the strangest feeling of being led to do this jar, I finally completed it. I wrote our names 7 times each in a tic-tac toe board type fashion. I wrote my desire without lifting my pen in a circle around our names and then I placed two pictures of us together inside that paper, our full names and birthdays on the back of both pictures. I put personal items (a piece of his boxers, two items of his writing-one of them saying I love you- & a used condom) in the center along with rose petals and ginger. Folded it towards me then tied a rubber band around it because it wouldn't stay folded. Placed honey on top of it along with two pink hearts, one with his name and birth, the other with mine, both magnetized. I put a blue candle on top for communication (Wednesday being good for communication workings too) and was planning on doing an orange tonight to open any road blocks. I'm not trying to force him into loving me, I'm just trying to keep the flame we had alive until our lives are settled and less hectic.
Now, like I mentioned before, I had this overwhelming urge to create this new jar. I had asked in a previous post if I should make a second jar due to it being the waning moon when I created my original jar and I was basically told no, moon phases don't always matter so I had decided to just keep the original then last night I felt like I was being pulled to create the second. I did everything I mentioned above, glued a picture of our hands intertwined to the inside of the lid then closed it. I meditated and spoke to it as if I were speaking to him. Then I decided to decorate the jar on a whim. I took silver and gold glass marker and started writing the qualities I want in our relationship (happiness, communication, etc) and put some stickers on it I had found from Valentine's Day. It FELT right last night, all of it. The blue candle burned down and left very little wax I felt like it was successful. However, I woke up this morning and I was emotional. I want to chalk it up to the anniversary of my friends death but I'm not sure, I can't decide if what I did last night was right or not? Also, I can't remember if when I wrote my petition I went through and crossed my T's and dotted my i's... If I didn't would that screw the whole thing up? Can I go back to look or would unfolding it screw it all up? Thanks for reading. Any and all help is appreciated!

Waspqueen28 · Unread post by **Waspqueen28** » Fri Jul 21, 2017 5:03 am

My partner and I of 5 and a half years are getting married in a couple weeks-August 5th 2017. I am thrilled to marry him, he's my best friend. I am feeling a lot of anxiety, though about the wedding day and days leading up. We are hosting all our family and friends on the off grid property we have been caretaking for the past year. It's beautiful out here, but for some it will really be roughing it. We don't have an inside space, just a tent. We live in Western NC which tends to rain like crazy on most summer afternoons. I'm wondering if there is a spell or blessing I can do to encourage good weather.

Furthermore, my family stresses me out a lot. I am wanting to feel at ease, supported and relaxed on our wedding weekend. Around my family I tend to feel dumb, irresponsible, and little. Hoping to show my family the beautiful life I lead and not fall into the guilt ridden role I tend to hold in our family.

And one more thing! (Sorry) I'm supposed to start bleeding on our wedding day. I tend to have VERY painful periods, and crave alone time during them. Any blessing to encourage a pain-free, meaningful, grounded and more extroverted period?

Thanks a million!

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Fri Jul 21, 2017 5:24 pm

Hello, JAD82017

These questions are impossible to answer without a reading

I'm sorry

But I can answer your last question: don't open up the petition paper.

Just try to have some patience and don't second guess yourself

Yu can always add a second petition paper to it

take care

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Fri Jul 21, 2017 5:30 pm

Hello, Waspqueen28 ,

Congratulations!

You could always petition one of the Saints for assistance

www.luckymojo.com/patronsaints.html

Again, congrats!

Waspqueen28 · Unread post by **Waspqueen28** » Sun Jul 23, 2017 4:04 am

Thank you Miss Aida! When one petitions a saint, what do you do? Pray to it? Make an altar? Light candles? Something else?

Unread post by **Sister Jean** » Sun Jul 23, 2017 11:57 am

Hello Waspqueen28,

Praying to a saint and creating a small altar dedicated to them on which you light candles is customary, but the offerings and altars can vary according to whom the altar is for. So, figure out who you're going to work with, and then learn about that particular saint.

Take care.

seekinginsight · Unread post by **seekinginsight** » Wed May 16, 2018 8:12 am

Greetings,
I regret that I had an affair last year. I'm working things out with my spouse. I've cut off all contact w/the other person. I'm giving my all to address this situation: I'm getting weekly therapy. I've built a relationship w/a local Baba; I consulted a local conjurer to do protection work & trust work; my spouse & I have built ancestral altars so ancestors can bless our efforts.I'm doing salt baths & hyssop baths, etc. There's progress. but there's one major issue that worries me:

Independently of each other, w/my therapist & my Baba each clarified that my affair was an outlet from the co-dependency in my marriage. My wife is an amazing go-getter. I realized about 2 years in the marriage that she has a learning disability that hinders her writing. She's so smart that people in her community either didn't notice or said "she's smart so she'll be fine." So she got no specialized help growing up. She's been able to get several degrees w/this disability. But in her current program, it's catching up w/her. Her department is a mess, the profs don't support the students, & the semesters are very short. It got so bad that over the past year & a half I composed her papers for her since her anxiety & disability hinder her writing. This is unsustainable for me, both in principle (I'm a teacher too!) & personally, because it's a serious imbalance.

The problem is that my wife will not acknowledge this work I've done, or admit that this "help" has taken an unhealthy turn. If I bring this up, she says I don't give enough in the relationship anyway & that I really don't want her to finish the program, that I'm jealous of her potential success. The therapist & the Baba each said she's holding on to these accusations to avoid facing herself, dealing w/self-doubt, feeling like she owes me, etc. It's so bad that even my mother-in-law is worried & called my mom about this. That's a big deal because the learning disability's genetic. My father-in-law used to do my mother-in-law's work in her grad school program too. THEY DIVORCED PARTLY OVER THIS IMBALANCE.

What spells can help my wife face herself on this matter? or reveal to her that I want her to succeed, but if I keep doing this for her, it'll work against her in the long-run? What can I do on my own behalf? It's so dispiriting being accused of not caring even when I'm doing the work she won't do for herself. I do NOT want to cheat anymore. I want us to face this, grow & heal together. thanks for any insight!

Unread post by **Sister Jean** » Sat May 19, 2018 10:57 am

Hello seekinginsight,

This sounds like a very complicated situation, and I think a good first step would be to get a reading to find out what would be the best course of action. You can find readers here:

http://hoodoopsychics.com/
http://www.readersandrootworkers.org

Take care.

Unread post by **catherineyronwode** » Sun May 27, 2018 11:10 pm

Hello seekinginsight --

In addition to consulting a reader, preferably an astrologer, to view the long-term prognosis, i would suggest some simple work around these ideas: Clarity, (King Solomon) Wisdom, and (Crucible of) Courage. Simple white candles dressed with these oils -- small candles, even tea lights -- with suitable orayers for the marriage, such as Psalms 45, would help.

Best of luck to you.

mizznana002 · Unread post by **mizznana002** » Fri Jul 06, 2018 2:09 pm

Hey everyone,
I just had a question I'm having a situation where I'm trying to fix my relationship with my significant other but I had a little fling(no sex) with his best friend while we were together and he is now becoming suspicious and having dreams about it. I dont want him to find out from the friend or anyone else and I dont kjow oh if he knows but how can I magically keep this a secret and keep him from finding out?

Unread post by **Miss Nikki** » Sat Jul 07, 2018 8:36 pm

Greetings, mizznana0002.

I recommend stop gossip. Stop gossip does exactly as its named. Here is the link to Lucky Mojo’s stop gossip products:

http://www.luckymojo.com/stopgossip.html

Good luck!

Miss Nikki

seekinginsight · Unread post by **seekinginsight** » Thu Aug 02, 2018 9:09 pm

Thank you, sistajean and catherineyronwoode for your suggestions. I'll share a brief update as it may help others.

I followed your advice & consulted a reader. The baba, therapist & reader each said this a pivotal time where the marriage can be rejuvenated IF my wife chooses to join me in reconciling. The reader, who is skilled in astrology, clarified what's at stake. My wife married me partly to avoid facing certain issues in her life since she thought I could fill in those gaps (including her educational process). She doesn't understand that she's been tasked with disrupting patterns that have troubled her family for generations. She started sub-consciously running from this well before I met her. Her ancestors are looking to bless her (& anyone else in the family) financially, health-wise, etc, for stepping up to do this. As it stands, she still can't see what she'll gain from facing herself and, by extension, her family's long-term struggles. Either she can approach this in an affirmative way or she can run from it only to run smack into it.

My challenge is to accept that I cannot "fix" this; only she can do it. I am supposed to stay consistent in working on myself (keep praying, keep doing my baths, and getting help) & give her the space to "grow" as her ancestors want her to do... or not. It's difficult knowing things could go either way. But I won't be the excuse for her not stepping up. I love her & want to show respect to her ancestors. So i'm doing my best to fellow the guidance I'm receiving from several sources.

Unread post by **Sister Jean** » Sun Aug 05, 2018 9:54 am

Hello seekinginsight,

Thank you for keeping us updated on your situation, and for following the advice of the professionals you have consulted. I hope you back up this knowledge with the spellwork suggestions that Miss Cat gave you.

Take care.

purplekisses · Unread post by **purplekisses** » Fri Oct 05, 2018 8:52 am

Hello everyone,

I have been with my boyfriend for 4 years and we've had ups and downs and sideways, but we love each other and always find a way to resolve our issues. I've posted about him before a loooong time ago during a time he got super angry at me and I freaked out. Since then we've gone to couples counseling which has helped us a lot!!!

I should mention that he is a Scorpio (I'm a Capricorn woman), so his emotions can get on the intense side with anybody. He is definitely not abusive, but what scares me is that he will get fed up and leave me (hello, abandonment issues!). He says he's not going anywhere but I still worry sometimes. We were doing really well lately until last night/this morning. He's an asst coach and was upset I didn't attend a game last night even though I'm attending another one tonight, and have been to several this fall so far. I also didn't think I would make it in time last night after getting off work and would've had traffic. After he ignored some calls and texts from me he called and I apologized for not communicating more about it. Not sure if he's accepted this apology but at least he spoke to me..right?

My question is how do I manage his moodiness whenever it strikes to keep us moving forward? I started a honey jar on him in May and put a couple rose petals in it from a bouquet he got for my granny. I can't remember if I put some of his hair in it, but I have more pieces of his hair that I could add. I usually burn a white candle dressed with Reconciliation oil on top of this jar. I've also dressed a white candle with Clearing & Unblocking oil too. Can I add something else? Any advice would be appreciated.

Unread post by **Edward T** » Fri Oct 05, 2018 9:55 am

Purplekisses
I’m happy for you that things have reconciled with the two of you. Relationships do need maintaining. The honey jar is great. I would add any personal concerns of his into the jar to strengthen it, ( hair) is perfect.
I would also suggest doing more contact work with him, fixing his food,( lunches, dinner, cookies.) this in addition with the honey jar will be great. I would suggest reading this book Hoodoo Food.
http://www.luckymojo.com/hoodoofood.html
Best of luck to you. Edward T

purplekisses · Unread post by **purplekisses** » Wed Oct 10, 2018 5:15 pm

So my bf and I don't live together. (I'm moving into my own place in a month and will be closer to him though.) I've made attempts to cook for him this week, but he's barely speaking to me. He just replies to my good morning texts. I just talked to him for the first time in 6 days and he doesn't sound interested in talking to me. He's good for doing this and I hate it because I get scared he's going to leave (abandonment issues I have). I also don't know what to say or do to fix things either. I've just been giving him space.

I know this Venus retrograde could have something to do with it all and sadly it doesn't end until after his birthday. (Ends Nov 16, his bday is the 15th). Does anyone have any other suggestions? I've had a mojo bag for him for several months and fed it again a couple days ago.

Unread post by **JayDee** » Wed Oct 10, 2018 5:36 pm

purplekisses ,

A honey jar to sweeten him to you, you can feed him the honey too, also feed your period blood when you have the chance, of crouse pray and petition over it. Deers tongue can be used to make someone talk. Love powders used on him as well as oils like come to me, follow me boy, love me, fiery love oil. Catnip is a great item to make him crazy about you. You can make a bath with it and soak then use the water to cook or make a drink for him. A skull candle to influence his thoughts, or figure candles one of you one of his with lodestones to draw him to you with the honey jar are also great ways to draw in.

WorkoutQueen9 · Unread post by **WorkoutQueen9** » Sat Oct 27, 2018 1:33 pm

Hi Everyone,

I’ve been with my boyfriend for a while and I want to get married. When we first started dating he said he was never getting married now he talks about getting married but I can tell he is still afraid of getting hurt. Anytime we get close to it he starts a big fight and then we are back at square one. I want to do a honey jar for marriage. I’m thinking of buying a peaceful home and stay with me honey jar and combining them. The peaceful home one is so he doesn’t start a fight during the processe of moving towards marriage. And the stay with with me is so that he stays with me. I want to add some deer tongue leaves and write my petition as “stay with and marry (my name) “ or “having only happy thoughts about marrying (my name) “ which one would work best? Any other herbs that you guys thing will work?

Unread post by **JayDee** » Sat Oct 27, 2018 2:47 pm

WorkoutQueen9,

You can use both for this specific purpose. A honey jar is best to sweeten him to this working, along with a skull candle to put the idea in his head and get rid of his fears. You can also burn pink candles with blam of gilead buds crushed and mixed with healing powder, put on a light blue or white candle to heal him from past hurts or fears. Petition ideas: By the grace of God may (john Doe) marry me, love me, be faithful, honest, sweet, kind, and honest with me in relationship and marriage now and forever amen.
or- With the grace of God may John doe marry me now, stay with me in a happy peaceful loving marriage amen.

Deers tongue to get a proposal is great, rosemary is good for women to hold peace at home, queen ELizabeth root another great root for women domination in love work and getting what you want.

WorkoutQueen9 · Unread post by **WorkoutQueen9** » Sat Oct 27, 2018 3:40 pm

Thank you JayDee, I can put Elizabeth root in the honey jar?

Unread post by **JayDee** » Sun Oct 28, 2018 7:07 am

WorkoutQueen9 ,

Yes or you can bind the ground up root and use that in the jar. Fold the petition paper up with personal concerns and the herbs. Light candles on it 3X a week MON-WED-FR, Carve the candle with your petition top to bottom. Dress with love oils and you pray your petition, dust it lightly with the same powder of a love oil. you can also lightly sprinkle it with powdered queen elizabeth root and other herbs. This is double dressing a candle. It will likely burn a little faster and messy but it is a great way to work a candle. You can use the honey in cooking when you cook sweet treats for him, and replace the honey you used with new honey. Psalms 23 is used to pray for goof fortune and to draw love.

Grgiegrl · Unread post by **Grgiegrl** » Sun Nov 18, 2018 4:21 pm

Hi. I’m new to this. I am looking for advice to bring my boyfriend closer to me. Have him open up more to me like he has done in the past. I also want to keep him faithful and to keep others hands off of him and vice versa. Any help with spells would be greatly appreciated. Thank you.

Unread post by **Sister Jean** » Mon Nov 19, 2018 10:11 am

Hello Grgiegrl,

Welcome to the Lucky Mojo forum; we're happy to have you here!

To help keep your boyfriend faithful, I'd recommend Lucky Mojo's fantastic Stay With Me products. If you visit the following page, you will find instructions on how to use them:

http://www.luckymojo.com/staywithme.html

To have him open up more to you, and be more communicative overall, check out the spells talked about in this thread:

spells-for-more-communication-between-l ... t4483.html

Good luck!

Grgiegrl · Unread post by **Grgiegrl** » Mon Nov 19, 2018 2:08 pm

Thank you. How long do these spells last? Is there a waiting period for them to begin like 10 days or so and how long do they last? Also, is there a way I can stop him from going on vacation? He is supposed to go away in February. Can I stop him from going?

Unread post by **RevJames** » Mon Nov 19, 2018 3:29 pm

Grgiegrl -

How long will they last, how long till they begin? This can be variable. This link about "HOW LONG SHALL I WAIT FOR REAL MAGICK SPELLS TO WORK?" - http://www.luckymojo.com/spells/real.html#11 Should help explain part of it. When it stops working, you do it again or try something else. Nothing lasts forever.

As for spells to prevent travel, I suggest you check out this forum topic - "Prevent Lover or Spouse from Relocating, Moving, Travelling" - prevent-lover-or-spouse-from-relocating ... 14237.html with over 160 posts on the topic, I'm sure you'll find something there!

Good Luck!

Unread post by **JayDee** » Mon Nov 19, 2018 3:31 pm

Grgiegrl ,

There is no specific time frame of when it will start. How long or fast matters based on your ability, talent, use of authentic items, prayer, Gods will. Gods will above all. There is no specific lasting time either. It is situational, you will notice in Hoodoo we often say , "you need a reading" , why? because a reading will answer those questions for you, along with what work specifically to do for this situation. General tips are good but just like when you go to a doctor you dont want general tips you want a diagnosis and a plan, that is what a reading offers you. In general after the work watch and wait for sign from the work, signs are very individualized so pay attention. Then watch for movement and finally the manifestation of the work. Some cases it is instant, others it takes a few weeks, some a few months. A general idea to guide you is if no change after 3 mo start over or do another job. Here is a link to the other question you are asking, how to stop a trip.

spells-to-prevent-someone-from-moving-t ... 25394.html

Birdie · Unread post by **Birdie** » Mon Dec 31, 2018 10:01 am

I hope that I’m choosing an appropriate thread, my apologies if it belongs somewhere else.

I need some help on deciding what I need to do for my marriage. My husband is an alcoholic and was working out of state (17 hours away) for 6 months. He returned home in October. He and his coworkers all got very drunk at a bar/restaurant and all of them cheated on their wives. It was a fling but still devastating. My husband has been honest with me about everything. He stopped drinking, cold turkey when he came home but has since started drinking again (beer, no liquor). He has started seeing a therapist. He has erectile dysfunction due to alcohol and his antidepressant.

We both want our marriage to work because we truly do love each other and we have a 2 year old son. We have discussed the issues that we have with each other and are working on them together. Obviously, trusting him is a huge issue and I want for him to only work local jobs so that he is home every night.

Last week I ordered the triple strength Nation Sack for fidelity and I also ordered the Raccoon Love Bone for some help with sex. I am planning on getting the Cast Off Evil and Fiery Wall of Protection kits and want to work with St. Dymphna for his drinking problem. I was considering doing a skull candle on his boss to ensure that he only works local jobs. What else should I do? I thought about Peaceful Home products and keeping a honey jar going as well.

Also, what should I do to bring healing? Neither one of us want divorce.

Please help me save my marriage