Spells to Break or Cut Soul Ties to Ex-Lover, Difficult Family Member, or Ex-Friends

jump · Unread post by **jump** » Fri Nov 06, 2015 10:10 am

Thank you soooo much Ms. Athena what a relief, 12 years of pain. I will place an order to LM as soon as I have all the list I need to order. This is the reason I am asking all the questions from different forum accordingly based on the subject so I could place my order hoping by tomorrow.

Thanks again. Have a wonderful day!

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Fri Nov 06, 2015 8:24 pm

Hello, jump,

And we really do appreciate your thoughtfulness about where to post.

Thank you for caring!

Lovingprincess · Unread post by **Lovingprincess** » Thu Nov 26, 2015 11:42 am

I really want my boyfriends sister to move out of the house she is very nasty and a trouble maker. She's always screaming at her mom and aunt and she doesn't like any guest coming over except maybe her friend also SHES always trying to turn my boyfriend against me (her brother ). I need her to move out very quickly within two weeks . Please give me a helpful spell to get her out of the house thanks

mummaduck · Unread post by **mummaduck** » Sat Feb 13, 2016 3:13 pm

Hi everyone , I hope I am posting this in the right area.

My mother has always been very emotionally abusive and controlling. She will not let me live my own life even now that I have lived out of home for over 7 years and have 3 children. 8 years ago she tried to take me to mediation and court because my ex and I told her we needed a little space after our daughter was born by c section and we had also moved house. I gave in and allowed her to see my daughter at our house once a fortnight because I was scared. Over time we became closer but still she was emotionally abusive towards me and threatened me with court if she did not get her way with me regarding my children.
About 8 months ago (I'm seeing a theme with the number 8 as I type now) we had a disagreement because my fiance and I had planned to go away and organise our wedding and she was to babysit our youngest child but changed her mind 2 days beforehand. Again she through court at me , threatening me with things like "money talks" and "remember last time you tried this". It broke my heart that my own mother could say such hateful things to me and I am still not over it although I am now seeing a psychologist which is helping with all the years of trauma and abuse.

Right now I have told her she can meet me and my kids at a park once a week for no longer than an hour. Only because I am terrified of a judge telling me they have to go be with their grandmother without me for x amount of hours a month. My kids are only aged 7 , 5 and 14 months.

A few months ago I did the freeze spell and it did seem to work for a couple of months - until I got the mediation letter in the mail. Is it that I needed to do more to keep her away ? I would really love for her to be completley out of our lives so that I can be a great mum without the stress of her and the manipulation.
So what should I do ? I have read through a few threads already regarding ancestors and also the mirror box but I don't know what is suitable.

Unread post by **Miss Athena** » Sun Feb 14, 2016 8:30 pm

Hi mummaduck,

Welcome to the forum. When you get a chance, and assuming you wish to do so, please introduce yourself in the Introductions thread.

I am so sorry that you are going through such difficulties with your mother. I don't know the laws where you live or the circumstances surrounding your mother's threats, but I don't know if any court recognizes "grandparent's rights" to access to their grandchildren. Unless you have been brought up on charges of being an unfit parent, your mother may be throwing out hollow threats to you. However, I am neither an attorney nor an expert on such matters. I'm just offering that as an opinion.

As for work you could be doing, you should consider Hot Foot products to get her to stay away from your family. The spell kit is advised because it contains everything you need, plus full instructions, so you won't have to guess at anything.

http://www.luckymojo.com/spell-hot-foot.html

I am also merging your post into the appropriate thread on getting rid of unwanted people. Please read through the thread and you may get other ideas on how to approach this situation.

I wish you the best of luck!

mummaduck · Unread post by **mummaduck** » Tue Feb 16, 2016 4:41 pm

Thank you so much Miss Athena. Unfortuntley in Australia there are no actual grandparent rights but a judge will give visitation to grandparents - which is my worst nightmare.
I actually do have some hot foot powder already I am just unsure how I can use it without seeing her or having to go to her house. She lives on a main road so the chances of being seen if I were to be sneaky are high lol.
I have done another freeze spell but with lemon this time , I have no idea if its working yet but I hope so.
I am so overwhelmed right now , my sons are seeing her with my partner present this afternoon. My daughter is flat out refusing to go unless I go with her which I can not do without putting my health at risk.
Thank you again Athena xox

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Wed Feb 17, 2016 9:45 pm

Hello, mummaduck ,

I am so sorry to read what you are going through. You poor thing.

Here's Miss cat's page on many ways to use powders: http://www.luckymojo.com/powders.html

And here is her page on how to lay tricks: http://www.luckymojo.com/layingtricks.html

We have to have patience with spells. I know it is easier said than done but, we will just have to wait on that freezer spell. Just don't get discouraged and throw it away. Leave it in your freezer and forget about it.

I did one on a very influential man and forgot that I had the spell in the back of the freezer. A year later, it was all over the news that he was arrested and put in prison for embezzlement of close to a million dollars. But, it took time and it also took me to stop fretting over the spell.

Wishing you the very best

Take care

mummaduck · Unread post by **mummaduck** » Sun Feb 21, 2016 4:13 pm

Thank you Miss Aida

Yayah · Unread post by **Yayah** » Mon Mar 07, 2016 8:47 am

Hello, I need a little bit of help. I am confident in my relationship, however there is a factor I want to get rid of.

My boyfriend and I have an age difference, 53 and 24....he has raised another woman's kids...his "daughter," is 21 and he's always comparing me and her together in all aspects of our lives and I understand someone's "kid" will always take priority BUT there is no blood involved.
bottom line, he also raised a "son" but the boy is always with his biological father and quite frankly within the years we've been together the boy has never made an attempt to connect with my boyfriend, the man who "raised him." because he prefers to be with the biological dad; the biological man is also trying to build a relationship with his own daughter, so my boyfriend is pretty much in the way of that developing.

I am going to have a family with this man, I want to separate the two of them for good and make her completely separate herself from him in a non-harmful way. He's raised them for 6 years and was in and out their life (bcs of a breakup between their mom and him) so his position is mainly (mom's ex boyfriend)

Therefore I don't feel like I'm doing any negativity, I just want to move someone on with their life and separate them from the life I'm trying to build with my partner so he can raise his own biological kids and stop comparing me to another woman that has no factor in my life. I am not bitter, I am just making things easier for the family I will have with him, with no outside influences affecting it.

I do not have her name but I can work on getting a picture of them together.

I like working with the moon and using herbs.
I'm open to other ideas.

Unread post by **natstein** » Mon Mar 07, 2016 5:03 pm

Hello Yayah,

I have merged your post into a thread that has ideas for getting family or friends to move out or go away. Read through here and see if there are some ideas to help you get started. Also this sounds like a bit of a complex situation so having a professional work for you or at least read for you so you can know how best to proceed. (www.readersandrootworkers.com).

Peace~

Nathen

Yayah · Unread post by **Yayah** » Thu Mar 24, 2016 1:22 am

Nathen, can you please delete my posting you merged here? Thank you.

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Fri Mar 25, 2016 8:42 pm

Hello, Yayah ,

I am sorry but once a post is answered, we don't delete it.

So, whatever part is bothering you about the post, send me a PM and maybe I can edit it.

Take care

everlastinglove · Unread post by **everlastinglove** » Mon Apr 25, 2016 7:38 pm

my mother is a super religious muslim.

when i was 13 she kicked me out of the house for not wearing a hijab. (im muslim). i was homeless for 2 days.

i didnt want to starve to death so i finally came home and she let me stay as long as i put on the hijab.. i wore it to school and relentlessly got bullied. i was called a terrorist and mean girls would bully me and call me 9/11 and i would come home and cry. i told my mother about it and she didnt believe me. i finally took it off secretly in the bathroom at school before school would start. she noticed something different about me.. i would always straighten my hair even though i put a scarf on it.. i used to never do that. so she followed me into the bathrooms before school started. and embarrassed me in front of the girls..
i came home that night and she said if i took it off one more time she would shave my head in my sleep.. she kept on asking me if im embarrassed of her wearing a hijab..

she wont even be seen in public with me if im wearing shorts or a mini skirt or tank top.. if she does she'll give me death glares a call me a slut under her breath.. is there a spell i can do to get her to stop wearing the hijab..

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Mon Apr 25, 2016 7:57 pm

Hello, everlastinglove,

I am so sorry that people are making fun of you. That is just terrible. You may want to speak to the principle and discuss this with them. Because, the school is legally responsible to protect your religious rights. And, to protect you from harassment.

I feel it is not ethical for us to get involved in religious or cultural matters such as this one. I don't know anything about its representation and won't speak to anything that is unfamiliar to me.

So, I advise you to look at the thread that I moved your post to and see if there's anything that appeals to you.

But, I cannot answer anymore questions in regards to this matter.

I am sorry.

Take care

Metalina · Unread post by **Metalina** » Tue Jun 14, 2016 11:54 am

I have a sister-in-law who has a bit of a jealousy problem and is difficult to get along with. I used to live in the same city as her, but my husband and I moved far away and bought a house. She keeps saying she intends to visit us here, but I'd really rather she didn't. I don't like the idea of having her in my home. I respect that she is my husband's sister, but she is really mean and she hates me. My husband isn't close with her, but she is family and he doesn't understand the head games she plays. We still see her when we go back for visits, and that has been fine. She is usually on her best behavior when I only have to be around her for a short period of time.

Her birthday is coming up and I was thinking of dressing her birthday card with some LM powders to keep her away. I have Devil's Shoe String powder, Bend Over. Do you think that is sufficient? Should I pair it with another type of spell? I have a wide variety of herbs including controlling herbs, rue, barberry, red brick dust, and fiery wall of protection oil. I have some of her handwriting and signature. But most of my LM supplies are for positive purposes.

Unread post by **ProphetAvery** » Tue Jun 14, 2016 1:08 pm

Seems like you're on a good path so far. I would do a mixture of banishing/compelling/fiery wall work.

This way she will know to keep far away BUT if its necessary for her to be around she'll only come if her energy is right.

Metalina · Unread post by **Metalina** » Tue Jun 14, 2016 7:21 pm

Thank you

Hawthorne · Unread post by **Hawthorne** » Mon Jul 11, 2016 2:25 pm

My ex best friend of 35 years aided greatly in hurting my life. She has always had to be queen bee. She needs people to like and need her. We were in a situation where people liked and respected me and really didn't care to much for her. She began to talk about these people non stop. Drama 24/7. I asked her to stop so many times. I had to literally run out of the building to get away from her drama that she was trying to cause with some business clients. She desperately wanted me to engage in the drama with her. I told her over and over again that I could not participate. Our children did a sport together and my child was extremely good while hers I hate to say was not very good. She was jealous of that as well. Pretty much everything I did she had a problem with. So since I would not participate she set out to destroy my reputation. Telling everybody what kind of person I was through half-truths lies and misinformation. Even though I did not react or say anything to defend myself like I was asked I lost everything. I lost my relationship, I lost all of my friends And My child lost all of his friends and the sport he was so good at. I want justice. I want people to know the true her. That she is faking phone he. I want her away from the sports venue because it is justified. Why should I lose everything and my son was everything when we did nothing to deserve this. Should I do a banishing? Should I cross her? Should I hotfoot her?

I do have screen shots of text messages from her showing how badly she spoke of these people and me defending them and asking her to stop the nonsense.

I am really sick and tired of people meddling in my life and playing games as if my happiness is irrelevant.

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Mon Jul 11, 2016 4:50 pm

Hello, Hawthorne,

Yes, I know what you are talking about. Jealousy and envy are so very hard to deal with.

You might want to consider reversing spells http://www.luckymojo.com/reversing.html

Then, put people that she has turned against you in a honey jar with you.

You may also want to perform a freezer spell on her as well as a mirror box spell on her.

I hope this helps.

I just HATE people like this.

Wishing you the very best

Hawthorne · Unread post by **Hawthorne** » Mon Jul 11, 2016 5:46 pm

Thank you. I can't believe she could throw 35 years away for strangers and popularity. We've known each other since we were 5 years old. I'll place my order tomorrow.

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Mon Jul 11, 2016 6:18 pm

Hello, Hawthorne ,

My feeling is that, one day, she will regret it.

Nevertheless, she deserves whatever you throw at her.

This Psalm ALWAYS reminds me of people like her. It's amazing that people like her existed even thousands of years ago:

www.readersandrootworkers.org/wiki/Psalms_37

Take care

Hawthorne · Unread post by **Hawthorne** » Mon Jul 11, 2016 8:10 pm

It really is. I just can not forgive this one. Maybe one day I can forgive, but I can never have her in my life again. It just makes me sad. Thank you for your help and the prayer suggestion. I've been using psalms a lot these days.

Sophie valerie · Unread post by **Sophie valerie** » Tue Aug 02, 2016 2:19 am

hi, i love my mum very much but she is trouble , every time she come and visit me , she fight with my husband and kids and make my life hell ! How can i make sure she won't visit us any more , I don't want to cut her out of my life or anything happen to her ,I will visit her and make sure she is fine but i prefer if she doesn't come to my house, she use to stay six months and make every one miserable, she lives in north Africa and me in the UK.

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Tue Aug 02, 2016 7:34 pm

Hello, Sophie valerie ,

Welcome to the forum!

We realize that you are new here. And we ask that you do not start new topics.

In the future, just find the appropriate thread and just interface with: "post reply"

I have merged your post to the correct thread. Please read the 3 pages here. After reading, if you have any questions, please don't hesitate to ask.

I hope that these issues with your Mother get resolved.

Take care

neonwaosy · Unread post by **neonwaosy** » Sun Oct 23, 2016 6:22 am

Hello everyone,
Please I am needing help, my mother in law is visiting soon from a different country, I have not seen her in about 3 to 4 years now. I don't want her visiting me and unfortunately can not really tell her not to visit. How can I stop her from visiting or keep her away from me. She may be here in a week. What can I do. Every advise and suggestion is appreciated.
Thank you.

Unread post by **Sister Jean** » Sun Oct 23, 2016 6:53 pm

Hello neonwaosy,

Miss Athena posted a reply to someone with a similar situation in a post above yours, so I thought I'd share it here:

"You could certainly put her into a freezer spell to stop her from planning any future visits. You could also work a skull candle using Compelling products and drill the idea into her head that she doesn't want to visit you, etc."

http://www.luckymojo.com/oil-compelling.html
http://www.luckymojo.com/products-candle-skull.html
skull-candle-questions-and-answers-t15161.html

You may also though just need to be forthright with her and tell her straight up you don't want her to visit. OR, help her find a hotel

random user · Unread post by **random user** » Sat Oct 29, 2016 5:03 am

Hi. I was not sure where to place this topic and I didn't find anything similar so please redirect me if it already exists.

I need a solution for overly possesive parent(s).
As more as I am growing up (I am at legal age right now btw), my mother is more and more possessive of me and has less trust in me for no reason.
She is afraid to be alone, she hates her own company and needs noise and something happening all the time. She is also very materialistic and money oriented and very difficultly admits that she has made mistakes.
The point is: She is working behind my back and sabotaging my education and social life outof fear of losing me and her staying alone. In my face she is all sweet and nice, would afford and give me nearly anything I need, but behind my back she is doing just opposite.She has her own plan on how my life will go and it is a little to say that she is doing everything in her power, and more, to make it happen.
She also managed to brake a bond between me and my father just because of her "mean" nature. She tends to be overly controling.

I need a suggestion, meditation, spell, whatever... to stop that possessiveness in her that she has towards me.
Also to be more open to love again, as she tends to be really bitchy to men in her life, just using them for money and giving nothing in return. Ofc such relationships can't stand long which resulted in her not wanting to get into any kind of relationship ever again for the rest of her life which just means that her main focus is me - which is not good.
She is not interested in any hobbies or activities aside of me. She says nothing interests her.
It goes so far that she can't be separated from me even when just a room wall is separating us. When I am out she tends to dig into my personal stuff as she thinks that I am hiding who-knows-what from her and those are all in her head, results of her obessiveness.

Help?

P.S. Don't suggest "talk to her openly" as I did, but she just doens't listen and jumps to comclusion that I do not care for her and that I do not "pity her"... Just, how sick one has to be if they want someone to PITY them?

Unread post by **Sister Jean** » Sat Oct 29, 2016 4:17 pm

Hello random user,

Here is the thread that's relevant to your situation; I moved your post here so you could see posts from other people in the same situation.

The behavior you're describing is totally unhealthy and emotionally abusive. To actively sabotage your child's education and social life is just cruel, and I'm so sorry this is happening to you.

You mentioned you're of legal age, so my first suggestion would be to move out into your own place. Perhaps if the two of you had some distance, you could work toward having a healthier relationship. If you can't do that yet, here are some ideas:

1. Work a honey jar for you and your mom, to sweeten her toward you and your goals.

http://www.luckymojo.com/honeyjar.html

2. Do an Influence skull candle to influence your mom's thoughts toward trusting you and not being so obsessive and controlling:

http://www.luckymojo.com/influence.html

I'd dress the skull candle with Influence oil and as well as Tranquility oil, so soothe all the obsessive thoughts in her head:

http://www.luckymojo.com/products-tranquility.html

3. Miss Michaele had a great suggestion for someone in an above post, and I think you could use it to help bring some friends and maybe a solid boyfriend into your mom's life:

"And if they really have no one else to rely on, some work with Balm of Gilead buds, cloves and Attraction products should bring new friends and helpers into their lives."

http://www.luckymojo.com/attraction.html

4. Lastly, do some money work for yourself so you can save up some money and move out:

http://www.luckymojo.com/moneydrawing.html

Good luck to you and take care!

random user · Unread post by **random user** » Sun Oct 30, 2016 12:36 am

This is really helpful. Thank you.

MoonyMoon · Unread post by **MoonyMoon** » Tue Nov 01, 2016 8:40 am

Hi there. I need some help with a fast spell to sweeten my mother. I barely go out with my friends - seriously, I can't even remember what was the last time - and the next weekend will be an event with my school friends, because we are near graduation and want to spend some time togheter. The problem is she doesn't want to let me. I know how stupid this sounds, but I swear she is ALWAYS like this, and I don't usually care because I prefer to stay at home. But this time is different! It would be very important to me. I'll probably work with a honey jar to try to fix it a little, but for now I need something fast with this especial purpose.
I was thinking about some honey and a petition paper for this especial ocasion. Then I put it in a dish, put the honey on top of it and light a candle in the same plate, already dressed with some oil.
What do you think about it? any better ideias?

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Tue Nov 01, 2016 6:24 pm

Hello, MoonyMoon,

That sounds good!

Sugar will work faster than honey. Try to sweeten her to your friends

Take care

Mother_Goddesss · Unread post by **Mother_Goddesss** » Tue Nov 29, 2016 6:40 am

I have done some successful work on my ex before to get him to leave me alone but still have caring feelings towards me. Now, he is affecting the children, particularly my daughter.

He is what I call a false "[name of religion*]". He attend religious services for the socialization and to be seen there, but that is not who he is. He is an adulterer, gaslighting narcissist, self righteous, and a liar. He is all about appearances. He very often puts my daughter down by "joking" about her veganism and sexual orientation. He talks very openly against the LGBT community in front of her to his friends. He complains about how he never spends time with the children, but when he does he has his girlfriend over spending time (loudly) in the bedroom.

I wish I didn't have to legally send the kids to visitation, but unfortunately by law I do. My kids despise having to visit him and I feel hopeless. Being a narcissist I realize he will be very hard to get him to change because, well, he's perfect. It is the other people around him that need all the help.

I think the best course of action would be to do more work on our home and US to keep him from affecting us. Can somebody point me in the right direction please?

{* Because all religions have both tolerant and intolerant members, we do not mention any religion negatively here. The name of the ex's religion was deleted. Thanks for understanding. -- cat]

Mother_Goddesss · Unread post by **Mother_Goddesss** » Wed Nov 30, 2016 4:56 am

Thanks, and sorry about that Cat. I meant no disrepect to any religion, only to him. Thanks for moving this to the appropriate area also. I'm still feeling my way around.

I did come up with an idea though that I think my daughter and I are going to work on and that is getting pull out candles, decorating, and charging them to gift to him in order for her to have them available at his house, maybe peaceful home candles might be good for this so the kids feel comfortable while they are there for the weekend. He thinks magick is silly, but believes in crystals and oils, so he'll think nothing of just lighting a pretty candle with some oils.

Unread post by **Sister Jean** » Wed Nov 30, 2016 8:06 pm

Hello Mother_Goddesss,

Wow, this guy sounds like a piece of work. But I have a couple ideas.

If you ever go the route of going to court over this situation, to obtain full custody or at least get his visitation rights taken away, you can use Court Case products to tip the scales in your favor: http://www.luckymojo.com/courtcase.html

You could also try hot footing him out of yours and your children's lives: http://www.luckymojo.com/hotfoot.html

One more idea would be to use Separation products, which are a generally gentle way to separate someone from you and yours:

http://www.luckymojo.com/separation.html
separation-oil-questions-and-answers-t23446.html

Good luck to you.

Mother_Goddesss · Unread post by **Mother_Goddesss** » Thu Dec 01, 2016 7:51 am

Unfortunately he has the least visitation the courts will allow without taking away his rights entirely. We try to just get though these 4 days a month and live our own lives, but his remarks don't just leave without their damage, no matter how much we try. I'm an adult and have been able to break free after a couple years of working on myself, but I don't expect that from my children. In the past I've tried all positive spells which have worked to a degree, but you can't change a narcissist who only thinks the world needs to change for him.

I am going to look into the separation since it seems the most gentle. In 20 years I've learned the easier we make life on him the easier it is on us. If I knew he would go away and stay away forever I honestly wouldn't care what happened to him, but I know that any negative effect will affect the kids. If he left and went away thinking it was his idea.......... It would not hurt us in the least. Maybe a new job out of state or something similar would work.

Unread post by **Sister Jean** » Thu Dec 01, 2016 7:50 pm

Hello Mother_Goddesss,

I understand. Are your kids seeing any sort of counsellor? I worry especially about your LGBT daughter—harsh words, especially from a parent, can cut deep. Perhaps therapy could help.

After reading your previous post, I can also see how Separation work could be a good move for you, since it's nonconfrontational and drama-free. You could also back up that work by doing a skull candle on him, influencing his thoughts so he thinks the separation is his idea.

Use a white skull candle and dress it with Influence oil:

http://www.luckymojo.com/products-candle-skull.html
http://www.luckymojo.com/oil-influence.html

You can read more about working skull candles here:

skull-candle-questions-and-answers-t15161.html

You could also do a beef tongue spell on him or hire a rootworker to do it for you, to shut up his mouth and stop his evil words:

http://www.luckymojo.com/courtcase.html (scroll down to beef tongue)

http://www.readersandrootworkers.org

Good luck to you and take care.

Mother_Goddesss · Unread post by **Mother_Goddesss** » Sun Dec 04, 2016 9:19 am

Thank you Sister Jean. Yes, they have all talked to therapist and she is comfortable with her sexuality and has support from everybody but him. She's much happier, being proud of who she is rather than trying to date guys and feeling bad about herself, wondering what is wrong with her as she had for years as an early teen. It doesn't make his constant remarks any easier though. As much as she tries, she does hear the words. Coming from anybody else she wouldn't care at all, but this is her father who is supposed to adore her and help cushion the blows that she may get from society. Instead he is the ONLY one throwing the blows.

My only hesitation on doing the separation spell, which I would do without hesitation otherwise, is that I willingly gave him custody of one of our rescue dogs. Other than being separated from her I would say good riddance to him for good. I'll have to really consider this before doing any work as far as separation goes.

I am planning on doing a skull candle on him though for sure and I am going to have her help and do most of the work with this herself.

I do like the beef tongue spell and I think this would be exactly what we need to do immediately before we consider any kind of separation work. If we did the separation work I would probably be looking at a court matter in order to regain custody of our dog first, which I know I would win, but it is a matter of the inconvenience and would definitely anger him more.

Unread post by **Sister Jean** » Mon Dec 05, 2016 11:41 am

Hello Mother_Goddesss,

It sounds like you have a good idea of your family's needs and have a good plan. If you have any other questions, just let us know. Good luck!

redheart · Unread post by **redheart** » Wed Apr 19, 2017 2:23 pm

My uncle and his daughter has live with us for 5 years. In Jan 2016 he got a job as a super and they had move out. Because he did not want to do the job. He lost the job that came with the apt. He ask if they could stay for awhile and they would go into the shelter. They went into the shelter for 2 weeks. And now He has left the shelter and left his daughter with us. I have no space in my apt for his stuff or hers. I can not afford to take care of his child. He makes money. But refuse to get a apt and pay rent or be responsible for his child. He feels since he's not staying here. That he should be able to leave me responsible for his child. I have spoken to him numerous times. I have pray on it. I can no longer deal with this. What can I do for him to take his child and take all there stuff out of my apt and not return with some excuse.

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Wed Apr 19, 2017 9:14 pm

Hello, redheart ,

That is so terrible. I am so sorry

It looks like you'll have to call child protective services. Explain the whole situation to them. Otherwise, you could get into legal and financial responsibilities that you did not deserve. And, you can be held accountable. legally, if anything happens to the child.

Please take action to protect yourself

Take care

redheart · Unread post by **redheart** » Fri Apr 21, 2017 9:08 am

Child services was involved in Nov 2015. Because they were called because it was said he put his hands on her. They were still active after he lost the job. The case worker felt it would be better if they stayed living with me then go into the shelter. The lady never listen to anything that I have spoken to her about. I believe the case has then been close. But it seems as if they don't care. When they first came to my house over my uncle and daughters situation. They was going put a case on me because she was staying in my apt. It has been nothing but drama with this child here. My aunt was willing to take her in. But he refuse to let her. But think it's ok that she stays here

He likes to use a guilt trip on my mother which makes her say ok when he ask for a few days. But that just turns into months. That has turn into years. He yells at my mother and makes it seem as she owes him something. His daughter use guilt on her also. Whenever they come back. My child always ends up getting hurt or something goes wrong in my apt. It's as if they come with this bad luck or something on them. That makes everything goes wrong. And my mother never wants to see things for what they are

I know you can't do anything on children. But there must be something I can do to make him want to be responsible of his child. And make him want to get a apt for them both. And to make him stop making my mother feel as if she owes him something. We've raised his daughter for a 11yrs with no help from him. We have enough to handle with my mother becoming more ill. And me being responsible for everything in the household

redheart · Unread post by **redheart** » Fri Apr 21, 2017 9:12 am

He likes to use a guilt trip on my mother which makes her say ok when he ask for a few days. But that just turns into months. That has turn into years. He yells at my mother and makes it seem as she owes him something. His daughter use guilt on her also. Whenever they come back. My child always ends up getting hurt or something goes wrong in my apt. It's as if they come with this bad luck or something on them. That makes everything goes wrong. And my mother never wants to see things for what they are

redheart · Unread post by **redheart** » Fri Apr 21, 2017 9:16 am

I know you can't do anything on children. But there must be something I can do to make him want to be responsible of his child. And make him want to get a apt for them both. And to make him stop making my mother feel as if she owes him something. We've raised his daughter for a 11yrs with no help from him. We have enough to handle with my mother becoming more ill. And me being responsible for everything in the household

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Fri Apr 21, 2017 8:06 pm

Hello, redheart,

Then, you ought to work magic on your Mother to make her see the light. She's the one holding the cards here.

Whomever owns that house can do something about this

try influence on your Mother along with clarity and wisdom so that she can see what she is allowing to happen to everybody

As far as the Father, you world have to go with Domination products to have him to your bidding

www.luckymojo.com/influence.html

www.luckymojo.com/domination.html

Also, whoever owns the house needs to contact an attorney....

Wishing you the best

take care

sun1229 · Unread post by **sun1229** » Tue Apr 25, 2017 6:03 pm

Hi,

My husband's cousin came ( without our knowledge) and stayed at our house for a little over 2 months and she didn't have any money, she slept on my couch, laid on my furniture majority of the day and she did nothing to help out. All she did was smoked weed all day and night, ate our food throughout the day and night, and took over my TV. She had her clothes all in my living room, she never helped cook or clean. She's pure lazy and a user.

When I told my husband how I felt he said you have a mouth and this is your house and he wouldn't say anything to her.

His family believes in helping family no matter what but she completely used us, took over our home, and made me feel unhappy and uncomfortable in my own home.

Now she said she wants to come back in June. I don't want to say anything cause I have to go to family functions and I don't want to be uncomfortable when I have to be around them but I don't want her here!

I need something to keep her away but without us falling out and without my husband's family being mad at neither of us. I want to know what I can do just as long as no bickering and drama will be going on with the family.

Somebody please help. I need something fast, before June so she will not pop up at my door.

Unread post by **Sister Jean** » Wed Apr 26, 2017 8:59 am

Hello sun1229,

What your husband said was correct. You absolutely have a voice, which you should use to say, "Hell no, girl, you are not staying here." If you are worried about what your family will think, you can pull all y'all into a sweetening jar now, so they can be good and sweetened up to you before this issue arises, but other than that, you might just have to deal with some petty judgment for a while. But that stuff just happens in families, and then people move on. It's your house, and you deserve to control who stays there.

http://www.luckymojo.com/honeyjar.html

Consider using these products to build up some courage about the situation:

http://www.luckymojo.com/crucibleofcourage.html

Back up a firmly worded "NO" to this girl with Banishing products to keep her away:

http://www.luckymojo.com/oil-banishing.html

Good luck.

dahliavon · Unread post by **dahliavon** » Fri May 19, 2017 1:12 pm

Hi so quick backstory me and my ex broke up and I took it kinda badly but it wasn't his fault I suffer from mental illness. Well we never stopped talking or loving each other recently we went public and my parents don't approve theyll let me see him and spend time with him but I can't stay the night with him which is stupid considering I lived with him for a year. I was wondering if there's anything I can do to change my parents mind. Keep in mind I just graduated college I do live with them but I don't qualify for an apt due to them ruining my credit. I have been putting bend over and st Martha oil over the house and in the soap I just don't know what else I can do please help me

Unread post by **natstein** » Fri May 19, 2017 7:28 pm

Hello dahliavon,

You might try working with the Influence line of products (http://www.luckymojo.com/influence.html) in particular I think a honey jar kit would work well for this!

Peace~

Nathen

Unread post by **MissMichaele** » Fri May 19, 2017 8:48 pm

dahliavon, it looks like they've also mistreated you by ruining your credit, so domination work might be justified. For the moment, I wouldn't go much farther than Professor Porterfield's Calming Your Enemy Shoe Spell, which I posted here shortly after the Professor taught it to us in 2014.

grneyedbrujita · Unread post by **grneyedbrujita** » Sat Jul 08, 2017 5:30 am

Hello. I'm new here and I love all the suggestions so far. But I was wondering if I could get some assistance/opinions.

We have a tenant in our house (effeciency) and I want him out. He almost caught my house on fire and is still smoking in my house which he was advised not to do. We have given him an eviction notice and has til the 17th to find a new place but I just feel this guy is gonna give us trouble and his family members arent really stepping up to the plate, like they said they would.

My question is what can I use to get him to stop smoking/drinking while he's still here and also get him to leave?

Thanks

Unread post by **Sister Jean** » Sun Jul 09, 2017 12:00 pm

Hello grneyedbrujita,

You can Hot Foot this person to get him to leave the premises:

http://www.luckymojo.com/hotfoot.html
hot-foot-powder-questions-and-answers-t5399.html

I'd recommend using Domination or Essence of Bend-over products to help with the smoking:

http://www.luckymojo.com/domination.html
http://www.luckymojo.com/essenceofbendover.html

Good luck to you.

stillsosola · Unread post by **stillsosola** » Wed Jul 19, 2017 7:35 pm

Hi I have a friend at work whose very co dependent and he's getting too close. For comfort I'd like to hotdoot him far away back to PR where he and his wife are from hes wrecking my life and my friends life it's not enough to end the friendship for our mental peace we need him gone! I was thinking of giving a hot footed present or how would it work? We only see him at work so I'd have to lay the trick at work
Any suggestions or ideas?

Unread post by **Sister Jean** » Fri Jul 21, 2017 9:02 am

Hello stillsosola,

An office setting is a great opportunity to give out tricked food under the premise of just being friendly and generous. There are a couple Hot Foot-type recipes in Hoodoo Food!, available here:

http://www.luckymojo.com/hoodoofood.html

You could also do a Hot Foot ritual at home using the Hot Foot spell kit, or simply do some sneaky tricks like dabbing his doorknob with a tiny bit of Hot Foot oil:

http://www.luckymojo.com/hotfoot.html

Good luck to you.

stillsosola · Unread post by **stillsosola** » Sun Jul 23, 2017 10:29 am

I want to send him off gently with love he's mentally unstable I don't know if hotfooting is appropriate I want him to be ok to get mental help but to leave quickly without retaliating against the job or any of us

Unread post by **Sister Jean** » Sun Jul 23, 2017 12:13 pm

Hello stillsosola,

In that case, using Banishing oil instead. It's gentler than Hot Foot but still gets the job done:

http://www.luckymojo.com/oil-banishing.html

Take care.

stillsosola · Unread post by **stillsosola** » Mon Jul 24, 2017 7:24 pm

Thank you I'm also burning a virign of Guadalupe candle for healing for him, and I'm using a San Ramon candle with chia seeds to keep him from gossiping or retaliating I was thinking to add Saint Expedite I've worked with him before but I don't want to ask him for a vanishing favor

CandidlyJazz · Unread post by **CandidlyJazz** » Wed Aug 02, 2017 9:54 pm

Hello All,

I have an uncle that will not leave my house! My uncle has literally never had a home of his own. He has moved to every house I have ever lived in growing up because my mother has a soft spot for him and has always allowed him to stay with us because "he is her only brother". Now I am a 26 year old woman with my own home and guess who has come to mooch....My uncle. I am very much against this because he does not work, he does not contribute to the household in any way. My uncle refuses to pay bills and refuses to clean up after himself.
On top of everything else, he has a terrible attitude and is just plain mean and rude. My family is against putting him out for various reasons however, I cannot continue to suffer. He just gives my house a general bad vibe. It has been 7 months I have prayed and I have put him out with no results. I do not want to "Hot Foot" him because I've read up about those products and I truly do not wish him harm. I just want my uncle gone and I need suggestions on how to get him to exit peacefully.

Unread post by **Miss Athena** » Thu Aug 03, 2017 11:31 am

Hi CandidlyJazz,

I am sorry to hear about this! There's nothing worse than having a home that feels less like a haven than it should.

Hot Foot does not physically harm the target, it coerces them to move them away from you.

If you want to use something less aggressive that will still help to remove him, I suggest Banishing. Put some of the powder in the insides of his shoes when he's not around to get him in contact with it when he wears them. If you do his laundry, dissolve some of the bath crystals in the final rinse. You could add a drop or two in his shampoo bottle. You have lots of possibilities here.
http://www.luckymojo.com/banishing.html

Read through the pages in this thread for some other ideas too. If you still have questions, feel free to ask them here.

Good luck, I hope you are rid of this freeloader soon!

CandidlyJazz · Unread post by **CandidlyJazz** » Thu Aug 03, 2017 4:30 pm

Thanks so much for your reply! I will definitely order and try the banishing powder. He leaves plenty of shoes around my living room that I will have access to.

stillsosola · Unread post by **stillsosola** » Sat Aug 05, 2017 12:07 pm

Person I'm trying to hotfoot is getting hostile, I'm currently hotfooting and stop gossiping an acquaintance and he's turned hostile I put the powder in front of his locker at work so it should work and around his car but still no luck should I get the oil and put it in a spray bottle with water and spray his locker and cubicle? And I'm currently burning. Guadlupe candle to make him go in peace but it's resisting?