Spells for Relationship Interfered With by Family, Friends, Rivals, or Enemies

littlewing · Unread post by **littlewing** » Thu Dec 25, 2014 10:32 am

I'm interested in a man who has been divorced for two years. They have five children together. She is extremely bitter and punishing and I suspect she has most of the symptoms of Borderline Personality Disorder (she refuses to get help). She would not abide a new woman in his life and especially not around his children.

Is there anything I can do to help her move on so she doesn't interfere with his love life? Even if I'm not the right person for him, this would be in her best interest and his. I care about him as a friend and potential romantic partner so I want her to stop punishing him and blocking him from happiness.

He's a Marine and currently stationed in South Carolina. She's in San Diego with the kids where he will move in a year when he retires and have them half time. I live in Oakland, so I realize the whole situation is really complicated, but again, I'm just trying to make life better for him now and especially when he is dealing with her more directly after he moves back to California.

I initially thought a freezer spell or a commanding doll baby like ConjureMan Ali suggested in a post. However, I want it to simultaneously block her interference and reduce her bitterness/help her to move on and find love for herself.

Unread post by **JayDee** » Thu Dec 25, 2014 6:13 pm

littlewing ,

she may not be as bitter if she moved on and met a new person. Try cleansing her ( using a doll or candle) then do a moving candle spell moving her away from the marine and to a new figure candles dressed or named new lover.

littlewing · Unread post by **littlewing** » Thu Dec 25, 2014 10:38 pm

I like the moving candle spell idea. Thanks.

queenofheart · Unread post by **queenofheart** » Tue Jan 20, 2015 11:03 am

I first want to start off by saying i love you guys!!!! Using the products i was able to stop my divorce and now we are working on it it's been 7 months perfect. I do need some help though. It's like Im a secret to his family, a friend very close to the family told me that they dont know that im living with him, well they know but they are going on with his lies. I want him to be open with them about us. I miss the way i use to talk to them and do for them. Thats one thing now the second thing is i want him to be affectionate to me i believe i need to still work with reconciliation and some healing products.

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Tue Jan 20, 2015 9:44 pm

Hello, queenofheart,

First, I agree that you need to work more reconciliation and healing products.

Then, I highly suggest that you perform a skull candle spell with Crucible of Courage oil on this. Convince the candle that he needs to have the courage to tell them that he's with you again.

www.luckymojo.com/crucibleofcourage.html

I hope this helps

Wishing you the best

queenofheart · Unread post by **queenofheart** » Wed Jan 21, 2015 10:49 am

Thank you Miss Aida for your reply. Does the church burn skull candles. Im not sure what just happened though because he came to me saying he doesnt love me anymore. Not sure where it came from he recently bought a new car for me not a simple car but a 25,000 car with payments Im now confused and think someone is working on him. He told me that he's not sure if hes making the right decision by telling me that. A friend of his told me that his family didnt know we were living together and that they thought we were divorced but saw a picture of us now all of a sudden since that day everything has gone down hill. This is like the last 3 days. The only thing i did today was i fed him my urine because its not that time of the month for me. He did eat it but i wasnt sure as to how much urine to put in as he ate i was thinking of my intentions and meditating hard. I think it worked because before he left he told me to give him a hug and he held me tight. Im going to do a honey jar right now but i only have honey and his picture. What else can i do? I have access to everything of his.

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Wed Jan 21, 2015 9:46 pm

Hello, queenofheart ,

I am a little confused: Can't you do spells at home?

MISC doesn't burn skull candles.

and you might want to try Love me products: www.luckymojo.com/loveme.html

You might also want to consider a reading to see what exactly is going on in his mind. He seems to be scattered in is thoughts.

http://readersandrootworkers.org
OR
www.hoodoopsychics.com

Take care

queenofheart · Unread post by **queenofheart** » Thu Jan 22, 2015 7:48 am

Yes I can do spells at home but I can't burn candles. We live together i can have the box mailed to my neighbors home but anything as far as having a skull candle burning I cant do that. Ive been studying this forum day and night. He has told me it's his family because everytime we use to argue he would run and tell them everything about our relationship to them so they just assumed we were over and im this crazy girl. So they have this picture painted of me as Im a bad girl. I do agree the love me products are what I need. I had a reading a while ago not by one listed and they did tell me we were going to be ok. Him and I went to church and a prophet was there and he also told us the forces of darkness are around our marriage. I want to order my supplies on friday and have them shipped to my neighbors home I just cant do the candles. The time I have is 5 hours alone to myself every day. I do have a friend that has a shop that use to burn for me maybe ill have him set one for me he also gets his supplies from LM. I was reading somethings about the radio show, is it really hard to get a reading that way? Thanks

queenofheart · Unread post by **queenofheart** » Thu Jan 22, 2015 9:01 am

Miss Aida I sent you an email on your outlook. I was trying to schedule the 30 min reading with you but it didn't show you available, Was wondering if you could do the reading for me today? Thanks in advanced and I also wanted to know if you could do the work?

sg_77 · Unread post by **sg_77** » Mon Mar 02, 2015 2:21 am

Hello,

My husband constantly calls me names such as being aggressive and other nasty things. All this has been instigated and fed by my mother in law. I have done so much for him its really heartbreaking to see him like this. I dont know if there is any way to protect my marriage. Ps help.

Thanks
SG

Unread post by **MissMichaele** » Mon Mar 02, 2015 8:37 pm

sg_77, I have moved your post to the subforum, " Ask Us for Conjure Help with Love, Romance, Marriage, Reconciliation." I'm sure you will find many good ideas here.

Best of luck,

Miss Michaele

SassyQ · Unread post by **SassyQ** » Fri Mar 13, 2015 4:52 pm

Hello. I really need help REALLY!!!!

My boyfriend and I have a secret relationship-we are not free to be open, because he and my longtime friend once had a sexually intimate relationship. While she was having that sexual intimate relationship with him, she was also in a relationship with her youngest daughter's father.

I still help her from time to time, but he and I are in love. We have been dating almost 2 years.

I'm tired of hiding and I want her to know but I need for her to understand that I never desired to hurt her.

Would you suggest a cut and clear spell for her so that she will accept and understand our relationship and not get angry?

and what other spells would you suguest?

PLEASE HELP ME!!!!!

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Sat Mar 14, 2015 9:07 pm

Hello, SassyQ,

Please look at the posts on this thread for ideas.

And especially this page: http://www.luckymojo.com/spells/purple/ ... pells.html

I hope this helps

Take care

SassyQ · Unread post by **SassyQ** » Mon Mar 16, 2015 6:32 pm

I'm not understanding. Me and her are still friends I just want her to be forgiving and accept our relationship...

Unread post by **Ms Melanie** » Tue Mar 17, 2015 6:39 am

Hi SassyQ,

If you want her to forgive you then I would do a healing bath with the petition paper saying to heal all past hurts.

www.luckymojo.com/healing.html

Hope this helps!

2sweetgirls · Unread post by **2sweetgirls** » Fri Apr 03, 2015 11:02 am

Hello,

I need a bit of help. I currently purchased a 9" red/black reversing candle for my husband and I. We moved in with my mother in law about 3 months ago and things between my husband and I are a bit weird now. When we are in her home we both feel as if something is there pulling us away from one other. When we are outside of the home we are great with each other. The things we notice being affected are our communication, and how we interact with each other in general. No arguments but there is a noticeable amount of tension between us and we can't figure out why. In the past my mother in law has caused issues with us and while we are moving past all that my husband and I both feel like something/someone is trying to pull us away from each other. With all that said I have a question about my candle.

It has a 3 inch flame. Steady, no movement, no noise. The wax has started to melt and in all honesty it looks like a huge butterfly. I have the candle on a plate. The wax on the plate looks like butterfly wings. On the candle where the flame is There are two "hooks" about an inch high that looks like the antennas of the butterfly.

Butterfly in the wax is good huh? I think it does.

Last night I was laying down and smelled a very familiar smell. Put my nose in my pillow and it smelled of herbs. I told my husband and he smelled his pillow and he said his smelled like it had just been washed. I don't know if this has anything to do with the candle or maybe my mother in law doing something behind our backs.

Any insight or other works I should be doing is greatly appreciated.

A

Unread post by **MissMichaele** » Sat Apr 04, 2015 10:12 am

2sweetgirls, a reading would reveal whether your mother-in-law is fixing you behind your back. I'm glad your husband is on board with you.

Burn Van Van incense in your room, and then either Protection or Fiery Wall of Protection.
Add a little Chinese Wash to the fabric softener and offer to take over doing the laundry (to totally eliminate the possibility that mother-in-law might think the fabric softener now "smells funny" and replaces it).
If your husband is into this kind of work, ask him if he'd like a Love Me Triple Strength Mojo Hand. Get one for yourself, too.
Add Stop Gossip bath crystals to mother-in-law's cleaning, grooming and laundry supplies.

You can find everything here: www.luckymojo.com/lucky-mojo-inventory.html

Good luck,

Miss Michaele

TheMagus · Unread post by **TheMagus** » Tue Dec 29, 2015 5:01 pm

Hi and season greetings to everyone on lucky mojo, ive been aware of this place for a long time and finally deiced to join you guys

Anyways there has been a pest in my life for a longtime (my mother) and she has been always causing issues with my lovers and female friends.. i can't have any woman in my life once i do a little bit later things go awry.

Ive been going to a reading local to me (london) England and my she said my moms been doing alot of black magic mainly interference or to cause arguments and the said woman leaves or a they get sick or a ex lover pop's up and they get confused.

i do candles and i and quite perceptive and i feel it coming but i can never to seem to counter it on my own.

As for the woman i want back is someone i was building a solid connection with and over the summer we had a difference off interests on Facebook and she just cut me off, No email or phone can't reach her.

went back to my reader and she said that my mother done something to break us up, for you tarot readers all i remember is the interference card (the Crowley deck)

so how can one sort this out? ive done prayers and decrees and just asking of there anything else that can be done?

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Wed Dec 30, 2015 1:23 pm

Hello, TheMagus,

Welcome to the forum!

If you get a chance (and wish to do so), please introduce yourself on the introduction thread.

Yes, here are many protection spells that Miss cat wrote: www.luckymojo.com/protectionspells.html

But, also, please consider a reading from an AIRR member just to make sure that this is the real problem (a "second opinion", if you will..): http://readersandrootworkers.org

Cleanse yourself with the 13 day bath: www.herb-magic.com/13herb-bath-13.html

Then, start spells to bring this woman back: www.luckymojo.com/lovespells.html

Wishing you the very best

Take care

TheMagus · Unread post by **TheMagus** » Wed Dec 30, 2015 2:48 pm

Miss Aida, Thank you for your response i do feel to get a second opinion (I have noticed you do readings yourself) do you do it Via skype?

What love spells do you suggest ive never dealt with this kind off magic before?

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Fri Jan 01, 2016 5:36 pm

Hello, TheMagus ,

I don't conduct personal business on the forum. Nor do I recommend any one AIRR member

I find that this practice is unfair to all the other AIRR members.

Therefore, you can choose who you want by going to the AIRR webpage that I gave you. Then, contact whomever you wish via their e-mail address.

happy New Year!

Shellybb1980 · Unread post by **Shellybb1980** » Sun Jan 03, 2016 6:41 am

Hello there I have a problem, my husband is having an affair, initially it started as a fling and the person cast a love spell on him, while initially I did not believe in these things I had 3 readings which all said the same and she did a confusion and separation for us as well, how do I get my husband back? In space of 3 weeks he made a total 360degree turn around, we don't sleep together anymore, we live in the same house but don't talk to each other, the situation is driving me insane to a point where I wish to die as the hurtful things he has done and are telling me he has never done before for over the 10 years we are married. When he confess about the affair he promise to break it off as he realize he was hurting me, a conscious effort was made to fix our marriage but within a month after things went haywire again then he would come back to me and say he's confuse and he believe the lies this girl is telling him, I could not understand a man married for over 10 years made a sudden turn around. Please help me to fix this.

Unread post by **natstein** » Sun Jan 03, 2016 2:06 pm

Hello Shellybb1980,

I am sorry you are experiencing this situation. I really recommend you look over this forum to see what others have done to overcome someone messing around in their marriage.

I would also recommend you do some cleaning work on you and your husband. Do this on your husband secretly if you have to. Check out uncrossing products at this link (http://www.luckymojo.com/uncrossing.html). You could use the bath crystals to wash his laundry or even make a small doll with some if his old cloths and other personal concerns and wash it.

After you have done that start working with either reconciliation products (http://www.luckymojo.com/reconciliation.html) if you have been fighting or Return To Me products (http://www.luckymojo.com/returntome.html) if you have not been fighting. You can also combine these to products if you want.

I would also recoment using things like Marriage products (http://www.luckymojo.com/marriage.html) and Peacefull Home (http://www.luckymojo.com/peacefulhome.html) such as taking the powders and sprinkling them around the house.

This type of thing is always good to have some back up with since you have a person actively working against you so I would also recommend hiring a professional to help. We always recommend the folks at AIRR (www.readersandrootworkers.com) as we know them to be reputable.

Peace~

Nathen

Shellybb1980 · Unread post by **Shellybb1980** » Mon Jan 04, 2016 9:31 pm

Thanks, what about if I light the red male figure candle on his photo And anoint it with oils, can that help? Also how long does it take to see results?

Unread post by **Miss Athena** » Tue Jan 05, 2016 12:48 pm

Hi Shelby1980,

That could help.

It isn't possible to say how long spells take to manifest. Here's a page that Miss Cat wrote in response to similar questions about how magic works. It's worth reading.

http://www.luckymojo.com/real/

Good luck.

Lordofthewiggle · Unread post by **Lordofthewiggle** » Sat Nov 26, 2016 9:18 am

Hello! I have a major issue I was hoping I could receive some sort of guidance on. So I've been dating this man for about a year now, and an airr reader mentioned he was sent to me specially by a deceased friend and that we are pretty much meant to be.

It's been a roller coaster ride but overall he's an amazing man who is brilliant in so many ways, etc. He's also an alcoholic however who has relapsed throughout our relationship on occasion. He realizes the issue is much more serious than he imagined and he's receiving the proper care. He's working hard to kept himself on the right path and to keep his job going great. If all goes well, we plan to move in together in a few months.

My parents however (who for now I live with because I can't afford rent on my own yet, starting a new job Dec 1 thought which will fix that issue) hate him. Both my parents are extremely judgemental and hard headed and don't listen to reason if it goes outside their limited minds. My dad is much worse than my mom in his judgmentalness however.

Last week in a moment of panic and stupidity I confided in my mom about his bad recent relapse. We used to be close and she used to not tell my dad things but for some reason she mentioned this to my dad who hated my boyfriend from the start because he's not a snooty upperclass conservative (neither are we but with my dad, appearances are everything). Both my parents, mainly my dad, absolutely dislike him. My mom can come around in time after this recent news but my dad holds grudges forever. He will even bring up things he *thinks* I did wrong 10+ years ago to make his point. He's making things miserable for me. My parents have always been pretty controlling in my life and I've always obeyed to an extent but this man is worth fighting for in my eyes. My dad is extremely against us moving in together and is against the relationship to the point of being severely disrespectful. My boyfriends grandmother died on Thanksgiving and my dad, upon hearing the news last night, was pretty fake "sorry to hear". My boyfriend doesn't want to come over now and I can't blame him.

Anyway, I was thinking that a honey jar would be perfect to sweeten both my parents to my boyfriend, who has never once been abusive or really hurt me. I understand their concerns and they have the right to be concerned but this disrespect is absolutely unacceptable. I stuck up for my boyfriend and my father got nasty with me about it, telling me I'm an idiot for this and "those people don't change". My dad himself has had issues with drinking in the past, so it's even more ridiculous.

Anyway, how should I go about this honey jar? I'm getting ready to place a big order to lucky mojo and want to be sure to order the right products. I want them to at least be respectful and not rude to him or the relationship. It's getting to the point where it's causing major anxiety for me being here. My therapist agrees I need out of this house.

Guess I should do a money spell in addition.

Thank you to all who can provide me some guidance. I can get everyone's pictures, hair, etc. My boyfriend is completely on board with my root working so that's not an issue and is happy to provide whatever he can.

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Sat Nov 26, 2016 8:29 pm

Hello, Lordofthewiggle

All the instructions are here:

http://www.luckymojo.com/honey-jar-spel ... -home.html

I pray that al works out well for you

Take care

Nony65 · Unread post by **Nony65** » Wed May 10, 2017 10:07 am

Hi everyone,

I'm feeling really depressed as I write this; a couple of months ago, it was hard to believe I was so happy. My boyfriend proposed to me and I was off to start a new life where he lived 600 miles from my home. A week or so later, his parents took us out for a meal to celebrate our engagement. I sensed there was an atmosphere at the meal; his Mum seemed tetchy and his Dad got so drunk he was loud and embarrassing. I posted a lovely picture I took of my fiancés parents from that night and posted it on social media, his Dad then drunkenly broadcasted that my fiancés Mum and him had split up, I had to take the picture down etc.

Ok.. so a few weeks later, when my fiancés parents split was confirmed (she moved out and went to live at her sisters, his Dad continued drinking), my fiancé turned around and said he was vegan. Now, I know that may not sound like a huge deal, but his grandmother thinks my fiancé has turned vegan as a result of his parents splitting to "deal" with it. My fiancé was a huge meat eater prior to this and his new lifestyle change is ruining our once good relationship.

Not only have we had the problems with his parents to contend with (his Dad has always had a drinking problem though), two of my fiancés so called friends (twin sisters) are both strict vegans and many of my fiancés close friends have said to me they think hes been influenced by them. And they are both interfering in our relationship, and worse, wedding plans!! One of the girls even started tagging us in "vegan wedding planning" 'nonsense on Facebook and saying we should have that. She has also brainwashed him into thinking that anyone who isn't vegan is evil and selfish.

My fiancé is getting worse and struggling to accept who I am. When I've tried to explain that I fully support and except him, but why can't I not have dairy or something when I go out.. and he's literally a clone of what these girls say, telling me that I'm selfish to consume animals or animal products, and he's not making me feel guilty "it's your conscience". This is exactly what these two stupid girls come out with.

We can't enjoy anything at all now, ever since his parents split he's changed and become influenced by these two extremist girls. Last month, I planned my suicide and was on the way to end my life when a friend had to talk me out of my plans for 5 hours and convince me life was worth living. I have sought medical help and been signed off my work (also which has been damaging my mental health), plus my rootworker has sent St Dymphna to come to my need again which she has done.

PLEASE help me!!! I don't know what spells I can do! I want to get these girls out of our lives once and for all and to never meddle in our relationship ever again.. so I was thinking of good old Hot Foot to do the trick? Am I correct? What about to try and influence him back to a normal diet and stop following extremist (the type of vegans he follows want to seriously belittle and hurt any people who don't follow their way), and more importantly, a spell to make him accept me for who I am?

Thank you

Unread post by **Sister Jean** » Wed May 10, 2017 11:35 am

Hello Nony65,

Wow, I'm so sorry! This sounds utterly frustrating.

I think you're spot on with the Hot Foot spell on these girls:

http://www.luckymojo.com/spell-hot-foot.html

You could also work a vinegar jar on these girls and your fiance, to "sour" their friendship and turn them against each other:

http://www.luckymojo.com/bottlespells.h ... oo-vinegar

Also work a skull candle spell on your fiance by dressing a white skull candle with Influence oil and telling it (like you would tell him) as it burns that this isn't something he cares about when it comes to you and to leave you to your own devices without harassment:

http://www.luckymojo.com/products-candle-skull.html
skull-candle-questions-and-answers-t15161.html
http://www.luckymojo.com/oil-influence.html

You could work a honey jar for you and your fiance to draw the two of you closer together, but if after all this he still doesn't accept you for who you are and your choices, he may not be the best person for you to be with, I'm sorry.

http://www.luckymojo.com/honeyjar.html

Good luck to you.

KellyR · Unread post by **KellyR** » Sat Aug 05, 2017 12:19 pm

Sorry if this is a question already on here. I have a question regarding road opener. I am wondering if anyone has any input as to how to remove an obstacle with negative influences and/or a third party from a relationship. I have done a road opener followed up by a love spell for the third party to find another love interest. If it helps the third party is a Taurus and very clingy/needy. Any input would be greatly appreciated. Thank you.

Unread post by **Miss Athena** » Sat Aug 05, 2017 2:05 pm

Hi KellyR,

I realize you are new to the forum but please do not start new topics like this. We already have a thread on dealing with relationship interference from other people. I have moved your post to that thread.

Please read through the posts and if you still have questions, you can ask us in this thread.

I hope this helps. Good luck.

dollbabyapprentice · Unread post by **dollbabyapprentice** » Fri May 11, 2018 7:30 pm

Hello,

I’m considering doing reconciliation work with an ex boyfriend but his family is playing a very big factor in him not wanting to get back with me because he mainly cares a lot about what they think and getting there approval matters to him so as long as they don’t want him with me we can’t have a future. So basically, the reason they don’t want him with me is because they know that I do magick. A few years ago when we broke up, I was extremely young and stupid and thought it would be a smart idea to scare him by leaving a doll next to his car. Long story short, his family wasn’t meant to be home but they were and they found the doll and made a big scene out of it. What’s even worse is that his Aunty swears she saw me drive away (she did but there was no proof that it was me) and even though he has forgiven me and assumed it was all just a big prank. They haven’t. I have spoken to psychics and they always say even if I reconcile with him, I will always hit a brick wall when it comes to his family. Is there any work I can do on them while I do my reconciliation work on him?

Unread post by **Sister Jean** » Sun May 13, 2018 9:00 am

Hello dollbabyapprentice,

A good first step would be to do a honey jar:

http://www.luckymojo.com/honeyjar.html

A good second step would perhaps be some clear communication with the family about what happened. Just a thought.

Take care.

Cardboard · Unread post by **Cardboard** » Sat May 26, 2018 9:06 am

Hello,

I recently had a reading done with a bibliomancer after a split with my boyfriend. We had had a disagreement and as is usual when he gets too upset he takes a little time to think, rationalise and cool down. One day of cooling down eventually became three weeks of no communication and when he did finally speak to me, after those three weeks, it was to tell me he has a girlfriend, one of his exes.

It's been about six months since and he's recently made attempts to come back into my life, which is partially why I had a recent reading.

According to the reading, he's still with the girl, but his heart is not for her. He's with her as the results of a spell done by the girl's family which is how we'd come to be separated in the first place. The reading confirmed that we are compatible, but the spellwork done prevents him from being with me in the physical.

It was also confirmed that this girl is not only with him, but also has other partners and he might be able to break the effects of the spell, but it's uncertain.

Is there anything I can do to help break that spell?

Also, I apologise if I posted this on the wrong forum as most cases I've read seem to apply to the lover's family or friend being responsible for the split.

Thank you,
Irisi.

Unread post by **Sister Jean** » Sun May 27, 2018 9:46 am

Hello Cardboard,

I think you posted in exactly the right place, nice job!

I also think that you took a great first step with getting a reading. The next step would be to do some Uncrossing work on this guy, to help undo whatever work the family has done on him. You can find ideas here:

http://www.luckymojo.com/uncrossing.html

Take care.

Cardboard · Unread post by **Cardboard** » Mon May 28, 2018 3:35 pm

Thank you, Sister Jean!

Cardboard · Unread post by **Cardboard** » Fri Dec 28, 2018 6:52 pm

Hello,

I am twenty three years old. Things were going great in my relationship for a while, but after one night of going out with my boyfriend, with permission from my mother who I live with, she got into a rage because she called me and I didn't answer my phone at the time.

When I called her back, she hung up on me after essentially cussing me out and by the time I got home, she had changed the padlock and proceeded to holler at me that I was a whore with no self respect.

I was, afterwards let back into my home the very night. However, after my boyfriend found out about what happened, it put a lot of strain on our relationship, communication slowed, there has been a lot of fighting and misunderstandings and he has begun to distance himself.

When I did a reading, I was told that my mother for reasons of envy for my happiness and a desire for me to focus my attentions on her, provide for her and support her lifestyle would have done things to throw my relationship into confusion. I couldn't believe it so I had a reading done by another person and was told the same thing.

I have already started to burn an uncrossing candle for my relationship praying psalm 35 over it as I was advised by the root worker.

Is there anything else I can do to help with the situation?

Thank you

Unread post by **Miss Athena** » Fri Dec 28, 2018 7:47 pm

Hi IrisMunroe,

Gosh, what a horrible thing! I'm so sorry this happened to you.

You're on the right track with your Uncrossing candle. Consider also using the bath salts for an Uncrossing bath to scrub yourself spiritually clean. You can read more about it here:
http://www.luckymojo.com/uncrossing.html

Then put up protection for yourself, to prevent any further nastiness from your mother from sticking to you.
http://www.luckymojo.com/protectionspells.html
http://www.luckymojo.com/protection.html

Since you live with her, you may want to work with Peaceful Home products, to keep the energy there calm and benevolent.
http://www.luckymojo.com/peacefulhome.html

Finally, you should put her into a honey jar to sweeten her to you and help her become more loving and supportive, if that is in her character.
general-honey-sugar-sweet-jar-questions ... t5536.html

I hope this helps. I wish you the best of luck, and please keep us posted.

Cardboard · Unread post by **Cardboard** » Sat Dec 29, 2018 5:11 am

Thank you, Miss Athena!

Should I also do a love drawing and maybe john the conqueror to help heal my relationship?

Unread post by **Miss Athena** » Sat Dec 29, 2018 8:19 am

Hi IrisMunroe,

You could work with Reconciliation products to repair your relationship with your boyfriend. Add some Balm of Gilead, as this helps to smooth over hurt feelings from arguments.
http://www.luckymojo.com/reconciliation.html
http://www.herbmagic.com/balm-of-gilead.html

I hope this helps. Good luck.

curiouslyhere · Unread post by **curiouslyhere** » Sat Dec 29, 2018 4:16 pm

I am not yet sure if I am looking for reconciliation and am considering getting a reading to look into it. But...in the case that I do, in reading on this forum, I have come up with an idea for a spell and am wondering if it makes sense for hoodoo. I was thinking of doing a moving candle spell with a pink figural candle for myself and for my ex in which I would dress the candles with Adam and Eve oil and reconciliation oil and recite "For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and they will become one flesh." Genesis 2:24 (NIV). I was thinking of using a third, dressed figural candle (not sure what color) to represent my ex's mother, and have the candle for my ex start turned toward his mother, then turn away from her, and then toward me. I saw several posts about the Adam and Eve and moving candle spells. I am not sure if adding a 3rd candle to represent my ex's mother would be effective.

Unread post by **Miss Athena** » Sat Dec 29, 2018 4:28 pm

Hi curiouslyhere,

You have a lot of different spell ideas going in different threads for the same situation. I would keep your work focused on the skull candles recommended by Miss cat and the other advice we've given you on sweetening him to you:
1. Black & white skulls to get him to see her faults and manipulations
2. Clarity & Courage work to get him to set healthier boundaries for himself
3. Honey jar to sweeten his relationship with you

You could certainly do a moving candle spell if the other spells don't give you the results you seek. However, it sounds to me that you don't want him to lose his relationship with his mother altogether and this type of spell is designed to move people away from others towards oneself. Consider your goals before choosing this approach.

Please don't post across multiple threads with questions about your same situation, as you may end up with conflicting advice depending on who is answering you in each thread and how much information they have about your situation as a whole.

I hope this helps. Good luck.

curiouslyhere · Unread post by **curiouslyhere** » Sat Dec 29, 2018 5:12 pm

Thank you, Miss Athena. I apologize if my separate posts were confusing. My original post was separated into different subjects, so I thought that I was doing the right thing by trying to figure out where they should go separately.

What color candle(s) would you suggest for the clarity and courage work?

While it is true I don't want him to completely break his relationship with his mother, I do want to move him away from her, meaning not sever their relationship, but put some distance (physically and emotionally) between him and his mother, and more towards myself, as I see a more natural relationship being between a man and his mother. Would this still work, if I chose to do this spell after completing the others?

Thank you!

Unread post by **Miss Athena** » Sat Dec 29, 2018 6:02 pm

Hi curiouslyhere,

Thanks, I was more concerned that you might end up getting confused if you got separate answers in each thread and I wouldn't want to see that happen.

For clarity, use white candles. For courage, you could do either white or purple to draw power from above.

If you do the moving candle spell, move his mother to a candle representing his sisters, so she can lean more on them than on her son. Petition that she simply move her needs and expectations away from him, so she's not so dependent on him but maintains a relationship with him. You know what you want to see happen there, so petition accordingly.

Good luck.

curiouslyhere · Unread post by **curiouslyhere** » Sat Dec 29, 2018 6:08 pm

thank you thank you! I'll update as I see things happening.

curiouslyhere · Unread post by **curiouslyhere** » Thu Jan 03, 2019 11:26 am

Hello again Miss Athena,

I hope I don't end up posting the wrong info here. as we have discussed, I first had combined all my posts, but because they covered different topics they were separated, but they are all related and so it may be difficult for me to keep the topics appropriately placed.

I have an update, which I posted in the honey jar spell topic. The situation has changed, and so I am looking for information on the best way to use the products now.

In short, my ex, who I was not looking for reconciliation with, because I didn't want to force something that would be a continual problem, came to me, told me he was in love with me and wanted to marry me. big surprise. but, he agreed to couples therapy and I am willing to try to move forward.

He agreed his mother could not live with us. but, his mother is currently living with him, and I need hep figuring out how to influence the situation. Similar to before, his mother has daughters to live with, whom she has lived with before. but, she prefers to live with me ex because he is the only boy and she gets to act like thevwoman of the house, where everywhere else she lives there and is treated wonderfully, but does not run the house. So, while my ex has already agreed it will not work for her to live with us, I can see he is feeling guilty. He is talking about buying a condo for her. #1. she is too old to be living on her own. healthy enough now, but 75 and starting to have some issues. #2. He cannot really afford to do this. if he did, he would not be able to equally financially contribute to our marriage. His mother never planned on living in a condo on her own. I know he just feels guilty.

So I need to know what might be best. you already mentioned the moving candle spell to influence his sisters to take more charge. anything in addition I could do to get him to see buying a condo fit her us not best for her or us?

I hope I do not come across cruel. I tried with his mother, and I bought a house with a bedroom suite so she could live wth us. but she was manipulative and sneaky, and acted like "first wife" wth my ex. trying to run the house with him despite me trying my best with her. I even gave up a took in the house so she could set up a seeing room. not okay.

Unread post by **Miss Athena** » Thu Jan 03, 2019 5:45 pm

Hi curiouslyhere,

I responded to your happy news in the other thread. Please don't cross-post. I do realize you are adding information here, but one thread would be enough for asking questions. The mods here do regularly comb through the forum for new posts to answer.

You can adapt your petition in the spell advice I gave you to reflect these new circumstances. For instance, your work to bring him Clarity can now include having him see the idea of buying his mother a condo as a foolish enterprise. The work is still the right thing for you, just adapt your petitions and you should be fine.

I hope this helps. Good luck.

curiouslyhere · Unread post by **curiouslyhere** » Thu Jan 03, 2019 8:38 pm

Miss Athena,

Thank you for your well wishes and advice. Since my original, single post was separated put into individual posts, I struggle to know where best to post now. If you could tell me where you think it would be best to post on all the issues related to this circumstance (my relationship with my ex), I would be happy to oblige. I know the moderators are busy and the last thing I want to do is cause confusion or the need for extra time.

Unread post by **Miss Athena** » Thu Jan 03, 2019 8:59 pm

Not to worry, curiouslyhere, and thank you for asking for clarity. It shows you have good intentions on the forum, and we really appreciate that.

This is a good thread for you to ask questions about working to deal with interference from relatives such as his mother. If you work the moving candle spell I suggested, you could ask related questions in that thread. Questions about working to improve his clarity to make better decisions can go into whatever thread is most appropriate (e.g., if you're working with skull candles for that goal, that would be the thread to use). Questions about sweetening your relationship with him by working a honey jar would be appropriate in the thread on honey jars.

We just ask that you not combine all of those questions into a single post, as they then throw that thread off topic as only part of your questions would apply.

I hope this makes sense.

Thanks and congratulations again on your happy news!

Fotunata · Unread post by **Fotunata** » Fri Jan 04, 2019 11:03 am

Greetings!

Quick question: Can you do honey jar spell on someone that after doing freezer spell?

Unread post by **JayDee** » Fri Jan 04, 2019 2:23 pm

Fotunata ,

Are you asking if you can do a freezer spell and a honey jar on the same person at the same time? No that is conflicting you are freezing them out but sweetening to you.

Are you asking if you can do a sweet jar after you did a freezer spell BUT removed the from the freezer and now want to sweeten them? Yes you can.

curiouslyhere · Unread post by **curiouslyhere** » Sat Jan 05, 2019 8:58 am

Thank you for the clarification, Miss Athena. As I prepare to do the works suggested, I have a question about how to write longer petitions. I have so far only done the type where you write the other person's name, turn 90 degrees to the right, cross with your own name, and write the petition in a connected circle around the names. When my petition is longer, more detailed, or contains more than one specific thing (for example the clarity and courage work that will include him realizing buying the condo is not a good idea), how would I wrote it?

Much thanks

Unread post by **JayDee** » Sat Jan 05, 2019 11:18 am

curiouslyhere ,

I would work on the petition paper and cut out unnecessary words to make it concise to the work. Name papers or petition papers are not always needed in the physical format, we are always praying the petition to God/ ancestors to assist us in the work. If it seems too much for one working, maybe break it into two jobs, one for the courage work the other to discourage the condo.

You can read more on petition papers on the forum:topic21039.html
Here is a book by Miss Cat on the subject: http://www.luckymojo.com/paperinmyshoe.html

Fotunata · Unread post by **Fotunata** » Tue Jan 08, 2019 5:15 pm

Jaydee,

Thanks for the reply.

Unread post by **catherineyronwode** » Tue Jan 08, 2019 9:08 pm

Fotunata,

As a rootworker of many years experience, i personally find it troubling that you would ask, "Can you do honey jar spell on someone that after doing freezer spell?"

JayDee answered you with good advice, and he is correct but i am going to dig deeper and ask why on earth you would even want to do that.

What is your goal?

Why would you want to freeze someone, to stop them in their tracks, to make them cold as ice and cast away from human warmth -- and then try to sweeten them up to be nice to you almost immediately thereafter? You were not being nice when you put them in the freezer -- why should they be nice to you and believe your honeyed approaches now?

There are two common spells that use both a freezer spell and a sugar or honey spell -- but in nether of them is the SAME PERSON both frozen and sweetened.

In a typical court case spell, the lying tongues and chattering bad report of wicked witnesses ,and malign police, and the district attorney are all frozen, while one's own lawyer, and the helpful witnesses, and the judge, and the jury are sweetened.

In a typical love triangle case, the intrusive rival is frozen out and the confused lover is sweetened so that arguments and troubles will become a thing of the past.

Unless there was a mistake made and radical change of heart occurred, during which the freezer work was repented of and discarded, i cannot understand the concept of freezing and then sweetening the same person in short succession -- and i cannot see any reason why one would do both jobs at the same time on the same person

Sorry for my bluntness, but this one threw me for a loop.

Fox · Unread post by **Fox** » Wed Nov 04, 2020 5:23 pm

Hi there,
My issue is twofold - my partner has toxic friendships holding him back and they constantly meddle in our relationship, telling him to break it off (we’ve fought about this a few times.) I would like for him to 1) break off his toxic friendships 2) find better friends 3) introduce me to them and allow me to have a closer relationship with his friends and family (the most important, he is reluctant to let me get to know them well) I have thought of putting the toxic parties in a lemon freezer spell. Any other help or suggestions for candle spells is appreciated.

Unread post by **Miss Athena** » Thu Nov 05, 2020 8:17 pm

Hello Fox,

You can certainly put unwanted people into a lemon freezer spell as you suggested. You can also follow the advice in this thread on how to help keep your relationship free of outside interference.

For help in breaking toxic friendships, please read through the posts in the following topic on hot footing unwanted people:
hot-foot-to-drive-away-rivals-enemies-b ... -t678.html

I hope this helps. Good luck.

daily · Unread post by **daily** » Wed Jul 27, 2022 11:36 am

1) MY ABUSIVE EX AND THE MAN I MET
I met a man two years ago, while I was recovering from a severely abusive relationship. I did a lot of work, while I was with my ex, for a better relationship, for love healing and at a certain point that work switched to "meeting someone better than I could imagine". Then I met this man. And he is, yes, better than I could imagine.

2) MY ABUSE RECOVERY CAUSED THE MAN I MET TO BREAK OFF WITH ME
He's sweet and sensitive and has been terribly traumatized by my abuse recovery process. He tries to help me then gets scared when I'm still bad, and he runs away.

3) HE BACKED AWAY BUT WE STILL WORK TOGETHER
Right now he's decided not to engage with me about the idea of having a relationship at all, but we work together and I can still see him look for me and see how he glows whenever he feels like I love him.

4) THE FLIRTY WOMAN AT OUR WORKPLACE WHO IS ADDICTED TO POWER AND DOES DARK MAGIC
There's also a woman who works with us who used to flirt with this man before I arrived. She has her own partner, who also works with us. I know she wouldn't leave her partner for this man, but I think she got addicted to the feeling of power she got from "playing" with him. There are a few women at our work who are like that. Him having his own life, his own relationship and partner, are a threat to that power. I think this woman in particular is also just extremely competitive and insecure and hates that I've won the heart of the man who nobody could get close to, and that I shine in other areas at work. I also have reason to believe that this woman is a [member of a religion I dislike], and might engage in some very dark magic.

5) THE FLIRTY WOMAN SOMEHOW CAUSED ME TO FREAK OUT AND RUN AWAY FROM HIM
The long story short is that this woman left town just before this man and I had the sweetest, most committed period of our relationship. She came back and I freaked out telling him that I didn't trust her and I was so upset by how he brushed me off that I ran away.

6) FOR A YEAR OUR RELATIONSHIP HAS BEEN FADING AND DEGRADING
Since then it's felt like our relationship is gasping and fading, and it's been almost a year since then. We'll have moments of closeness but it's always cut short by some strange, improbable chain of events, or it takes a long time to get close and then it's gone as soon as it comes, to where I feel defeated in trying to work for it. Our relationship has gone through phases of growth, but has mostly degraded, slowly, into a sort of bland inaccessibility. It just seems like I can't touch that love and sweetness we had before.

7) I DID LOVE WORK BUT MY SUCCESS SCARED ME DUE TO MY PAST ABUSE
Now I also did magic to "inoculate" this relationship against everything that would destroy it. When this man told me he loved me and wanted to be with me I got so scared, because I knew I was fresh out of a bad abusive relationship and there were a million billion ways I'd mess things up with him and I really wanted this to last.

8) MY RECOVERY FROM ABUSE IS FINE, BUT I AM HEARTBROEKN OVER OUR BREAKUP
Right now it feels like my recovery process is going well, other things in my life are working out, but I'm still heartbroken over him and I'm scared he'll never come back.

9) I DON'T WANT TO USE MAGIC IF IT WILL NOT FIX THE PROBLEM
I saw something on one of these forums that was talking about how some people just have relationships that take a lot of magic to maintain and I think that's exactly what I don't want. I'm terribly tempted to do really strong magic but I want to make sure I'm not just rushing myself into something that's basically broken.

9) PLEASE RECOMMEND ROOTWORK
So right now I'm in this terrible place where I don't know if I should do
A) protection work,
B) sweet work,
C) uncrossing work,
D) if I'm fighting the devil,
E) if I'm just being "anesthetized" into complacency while this woman's magic separates me and my partner,
F) or if I need to be patient while he and I both heal.
Any advice on workings I could do that will help this process go right?

Unread post by **catherineyronwode** » Thu Jul 28, 2022 9:13 am

daily,

Your situation is very complex, so i have taken the liberty of breaking it down into numbered paragraphs. I will reply to each by number.

1) 1) MY ABUSIVE EX AND THE MAN I MET
It is good that you met another man, as a rebound from the abusive relationship, but rebound romances have a low chance of success, due to the fact that there are still issues from the abuse to work out. This is a matter for therapy, not magic.

2) MY ABUSE RECOVERY CAUSED THE MAN I MET TO BREAK OFF WITH ME
So now the man you met is also an ex. This is a matter for therapy, not magic.

3) HE BACKED AWAY BUT WE STILL WORK TOGETHER
It is difficult to work on a job where you see an ex daily. This is a matter for therapy, not magic.

4) THE FLIRTY WOMAN AT OUR WORKPLACE WHO IS ADDICTED TO POWER AND DOES DARK MAGIC
In my experience, if this woman is as you describe her -- a married woman "addicted" to her power over men -- she sounds like a narcissist. We do not permit negative characterizations of any religion on this forum, and in my experience, to state that there is a link between a religion and "very dark magic" is simply a slur on the religion. If she does dark or evil magic, she can do so while being an adherent of any religion, trust me.

5) THE FLIRTY WOMAN SOMEHOW CAUSED ME TO FREAK OUT AND RUN AWAY FROM HIM
You seem to be blaming the flirty woman's magic for interfering in your relationship with the man you met, as well asd for instigating your own freak-out and running away from him. It's possible -- such magic spells do exist -- but by your own account, you were still on the rebound from a past abusive relationship, so i see no clear evidence that she used magic to cause your freak out and break with your ex. Did you find powders at your work station, did she feed you suspicious baked goods, has anyone ever said that she burns candles, did she ever mention magical spells? I suggest that you get a psychic reading on the question of whether she used magic on you personally or to maliciously interfere with your ex's love life.

6) FOR A YEAR OUR RELATIONSHIP HAS BEEN FADING AND DEGRADING
Since you say that you freaked out and ran away, it is going to be difficult for your ex to trust you with a second chance. I suggest that you get a psychic reading on the question of whether the bond can ever be repaired.

7) I DID LOVE WORK BUT MY SUCCESS SCARED ME DUE TO MY PAST ABUSE
Well, you took your shot at magic and it worked, and then you freaked out and ran. If magic scares you. Don't do it. IAt number (2) above you state that do to the trauma of your past abuse, undermining your own successes is a general issue with you, in other facets of life, not just spell-casting. This is a matter for therapy as well as magic.

8) MY RECOVERY FROM ABUSE IS FINE, BUT I AM HEARTBROKEN OVER OUR BREAKUP
This is a matter for therapy, not magic. If you learn from what you did to undercut your own success, you can do better in the future.

9) I DON'T WANT TO USE MAGIC IF IT WILL NOT FIX THE PROBLEM
I suggest that you get a psychic reading on the question of whether the bond with your ex can ever be repaired, with or without magical spells

9) PLEASE RECOMMEND ROOTWORK
A) protection work:
Get a psychic reading to see if you need it.
B) sweet work:
This is always good, for friendship as well as love.
C) uncrossing work:
Get a psychic reading to see if you need it.
D) if I'm fighting the devil,
Get a psychic reading to see if the Devil is involved.
E) if I'm just being "anesthetized" into complacency while this woman's magic separates me and my partner:
He is not your "partner." He is your "ex."
F) or if I need to be patient while he and I both heal:
Your healing from abuse is ongoing, but you have not shown me that your ex needs healing. From what i read, he and you got close, you freaked out due to past abuse, you performed a magic spell, your success overwhelmed you, then you ran away, possibly at the magical instigation of the flirty woman, and now you want him back. His healing -- and if he is ready to try a second go-round with you -- would be something to see a psychic reader about, to determine if the bond can ever be repaired, with or without magical spells.

I advise that you see a therapist for treatment of the past abuse (if you are not already doing so) and consult a psychic reader to see if the flirty woman is the threat you think she is, and whether there is any chance of reconciliation with your ex, with or without magic. If a psychic reading determines that the flirty woman cursed you, only then would an uncrossing spell and protection spell be indicated. In the meantime, i suggest that a Clarity bath would be good for you, after which you may put together a sweet jar, to enhance your friendship and possibly rekindle love with your ex.

Good luck.

If you want to hire a reader or a rootworker, start with these two sites and look them over:

The Association of Independent Readers and Rootworkers (AIRR)
http://readersandrootworkers.org/wiki/A ... ootworkers

Hoodoo Psychics at 1-888-4-HOODOO (HP)
http://hoodoopsychics.com

Marie55 · Unread post by **Marie55** » Fri Aug 05, 2022 10:06 pm

Quick

First, I have searched this forum a ton of times for answers on a different situation. But this time I have decided to reguster

I really want a live person to answer me specifically.

Quick back ground, I was dating this guy for about 2 years and some change. We recently broke up. Now within the last year I was pregnant 3 times. This last time I decided to keep it. Well he wasn’t in agreement and we started to bicker. Which I also found out he was speaking to his ex fiancé again. Upon finding this out I went to his moms house and slightly acted aggressive out of emotions of course and now the entire family doesn’t like me. (At first it was just the sister, which was close friends with until I started dating her brother) we went back and forth for a bit and finally he claims he doesn’t see us flourishing due to what transpired between us and his family not liking. Which he claims he still loves me, questionable.

Now normally I would be sad and just say fuck it. But for some reason I feel compelled to do some workings on him and his family. I would like for us to get back together but I want the family to not have an influence. Is that even possible and how can I obtain this. Right now I have intranquil going on him being that he doesn’t want to speak to me. But I feel I need to be doing more in regards to his fam… and the ex fiancé. I did a break up on them. Even tho I feel they aren’t “together” they may be in cohoots

Thanks for anyone who repsonds