Spells for Clarity Insight Focus Understanding Calm Bad Temper Reduce Anger End Grudges

gmjlovesconjure · Unread post by **gmjlovesconjure** » Sat Oct 15, 2016 11:37 pm

Thank you again, Miss Cat and Miss Aida! I melted down some white candles for my doll baby to become the current girlfriend. I added a few torn pieces from a note that she wrote, a few strands of her hair, some Come To Me Oil (it was all I have until I place my LM order for more effective products), and gave her a face with her picture on it! I also found one of her silver hoop earrings one day; so I broke two small pieces, and heated them to melt into her head, while talking to her.

She was completed right before midnight. She looks like a misshapen blob with tin foil stuck to the back of her body, but I believe it will be extremely effective once I add more powders and incenses and continue talking/ pinning her.

I am super excited about the next several weeks. I plan to treat her like a skull candle, influencing her by talking to her, engraving messages on her, and whatever else I can think of.

I appreciate both of your suggestions, Miss Aida and Miss Cat! You are both huge blessings to this community!

MacAdam · Unread post by **MacAdam** » Sun Oct 30, 2016 7:55 pm

Hi!

I'm new here, so pardon me if I don't post this correctly.

My daughter is in denial.

There are bad people in my family with whom my daughter seems attracted to. I've told her why we can't be friendly with them, but she refuses to believe me. Continually says, "But she is nice to me", not realizing that she will end up getting hurt, or worse.

How do I make her accept the truth. She doesn't want to believe the truth, and would rather believe this person's lies. My daughter is 17 and it is easier and less painful to believe the lies than accept the truth. I have shown her the court documents that prove what I am saying and we have attended family therapy. So far, this person has only hurt my daughter's feelings by not following through on promises and betrayal and gossip. but still my daughter persists in believing.

I've tried the mundane recourses, but they have failed. Now I am ready to try spiritual help.

Unread post by **Sister Jean** » Mon Oct 31, 2016 6:36 pm

Hello MacAdam,

I'm sorry you are in this situation; it must be painful to watch your daughter feelings get hurt.

I would suggest doing a skull candle spell for her, to open her eyes and get her to see the true nature of these family members. Use a white skull candle and dress it with Clarity and King Solomon's Wisdom oil, along with some sage. Write a simple petition paper telling your daughter that these people are evil and manipulative, and to open her eyes and see their true ways. Talk to the candle as it burns as if you're talking to your daughter.

skull-candle-questions-and-answers-t15161.html
http://www.luckymojo.com/products-candle-skull.html

http://www.luckymojo.com/clarity.html
http://www.luckymojo.com/kingsolomonwisdom.html
http://herb-magic.com/sage.html

In the meantime, if you want to force some of these people to apologize to your daughter, check out this thread for ideas:

bring-out-truth-confess-admit-error-fee ... t6473.html

Good luck!

triana · Unread post by **triana** » Wed Nov 16, 2016 4:33 pm

Hi,

I didn't know whether I should post this in this topic or the "Bring Out Truth Confess Admit Error Feel Remorse Apologize" topic so my apologies if I'm submitting it to the wrong thread.

My sister is not a nice person. She knows she can be a bitch, but she doesn't know the extent of it and is completely unaware of her narcissism, superficiality and materialism. She is a mean spirited person. Example: she regularly texts me pictures of strangers she sees in public to make fun of what their wearing, their body type, hair, etc. She sends screenshots of Facebook and Instagram friends for the same reason. The things she says about people she know is downright horrible, people would be crushed if they knew. I could give other examples but they're to specific for me to try and disguise on a public forum.

I support her and encourage her but she doesn't do the same for me, she doesn't even listen to me. When we talk on the phone, she talks while I listen. I laugh at her jokes and ask questions about whatever she is talking about but when I talk about my life she tunes me out. When that happens, I apologize for talking about myself and either try to say something funny or find a way to shift the conversation back to her. This past spring I was having some health problems and went thru a lot of testing. She said she'd go with me to one of my tests but she went silent a few days before the scheduled day. I called twice to remind her but she didn't call back until the day of. She called me that afternoon to tell me what a wonderful mental health day she had (she had taken the day off). One of the things she did was going to the spa for a facial. As usual, no mention or questions about me or my tests so I didn't even bother mentioning it. She was busy when I called her about results from another test and said she'd call me back… she called four days later and didn't even mention my health situation. In the three years that I've been going thru testing, hospitalization, surgery, etc, she has not asked me a single question about my health… it's demoralizing.

I don't like to think negatively about people but I can't help it with her. Plus, she terrifies me. My dad died a few years ago and after he passed away I learned that while he loved her as his child, he did not like her at all, which makes me feel less guilty about strongly disliking her because he was one of those people who looked for the good in everyone.

She de-legitimizes other people's experiences if she doesn't personally witness things happen, when she can't personally relate to things, and when she's unaffected by things.

One day I'll be strong enough to walk away from her for good (as I have been advised to do) but I'm not there yet. I've tried to talk to her about our one sided relationship before but it always ends up the same way: she'll offer insincere compassion and apologies and then everything says the same. I'm not looking for kindness from her, I just want her to realize the kind of person she is and feel genuinely bad about it. She's petty, stubborn and can be very dismissive.

My two questions: 1) what is a good spell to bring about clarity & remorse and what is a good petition? 2) should I opt to have MISC light a candle instead, which candle should I use and what is a short petition (I think there is a 200 or 300 character maximum)

I have some 4" candles of assorted colors, King Solomon Wisdom Oil and assorted herbs.

Sorry this is so long.

Thanks for reading.

I'll probably delete this if/after I get a reply because I'm afraid to have this out there.

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Wed Nov 16, 2016 5:54 pm

Hello, triana ,

If you are answered by a moderator and then you delete the post, you will be permanently banned from the forum

Please read the forum rules.

So, either delete it now and ask an AIRR member for advice or else leave the post on the forum

Sorry. But these are the forum rules and we must ALL abide by them (including me)

Take care

triana · Unread post by **triana** » Wed Nov 16, 2016 7:16 pm

I wont delete it, I'm trying to edit out some of the personal parts but there is no visible edit widget right now (the report widget is the only option available), I'll try again later.

triana · Unread post by **triana** » Wed Nov 16, 2016 7:20 pm

Hmm... edit and delete are options in the reply I just ported but still not visible in the original message. Are we unable to edit/delete after someone replies?

triana · Unread post by **triana** » Wed Nov 16, 2016 7:28 pm

I tried to edit my question but there is no edit widget visible on that particular reply. Then I created a new reply to say that I couldn't edit my original post and noticed that the edit and delete widgets appeared the new post but not on the original. Not sure why it wont let me edit but I just tested deleting the new post and it worked so I don't know, all I wanted to do was edit but I'm unable to do anything.

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Wed Nov 16, 2016 8:27 pm

Hello, triana,

I have deleted the post

TheOne · Unread post by **TheOne** » Tue Nov 22, 2016 9:27 am

Apologies for barging in without introductions. I have a question that's been troubling me for more than a year and a half
It is related to transference of: energy, bad luck, karma, curses, and so on, between people.

One and a half year ago, at a time in my life when I was at my highest emotionally and spiritually, i met a man (let's call him Tom).

To get to that point, since I have not had the easiest of lives, i worked really hard on myself, for years. Meeting a partner was indeed one of the missing pieces of the puzzle.

We've had a rocky start but have overcome it, so things should be perfect now.

He proposed 2 times but i gave him the ring back a few days later every time. He is committed and determined, and not "giving up on us".

Most women would feel blessed to have a man like that. Why do i feel like i am fighting dragons all the time?

Let me explain. He is not an achiever and very much a feeling (not analytical) person. But words such as Self awareness and spirituality have not been in his vocabulary. His life is chaotic, filled with breakups, financial woes, fines, and bad luck. He is very positive, sometimes out of touch with reality, and would most likely not perceive those events as negatively as i described them here.

When i met him, fines, problems, financial woes, etc were a thing the past for me. I was on an upward spiral, especially spiritually. I lived from the heart, was enjoying and felt connected with my higher self etc. Then, when i interacted with Tom things would quite literally next day start falling apart (both in my inner and in my outer world). I would take distance a few days - things would get back on track. It became a vicious circle. I feel the difference between highs and lows less when we spend more than a few days together but i do tend to become disconnected from my higher self, uncreative, kind of stupid (as if i can't access collective intelligence anymore), sleepless and eventually unhappy.

I work hard to shield, meditate, clear etc. Nothing seems to help longterm. He has started to participate in some meditative clearings too to help me, but it does not help much.

I love him (feel for him on a physical plane) but am feeling deeply "attacked" and targeted (for the lack of a better word to describe it) at my heart chakra when i am with him, especially during sleep. I awaken in panic sometimes in the middle of the night and feel all the bad energies. This ruins days for me. It takes a lot of clearing to get rid of it. And it is not sustainable.

I need advice, desperately. I have been talking of leaving him for months. But it feels stupid and a waste of 1.5 years of effort to dump a fine relationship over intangible reasons.

I feel i've done all i could. But i don't know it all. Hence my plea to this community for help.

1. What are these energies?

2. Why is all the meditative clearing not doing the job?

3. Am i giving up too soon?

Unread post by **catherineyronwode** » Tue Nov 22, 2016 12:59 pm

DearTheOne,

1. What are these energies?

To begin, you mention "karma." i do not believe that karma can be transmitted from one person to another. Karma is a Hindu concept related to cause and effect and the Hindu belief in reincarnation in a good or bad next life based on whatyou did in past lives and how you behave in this life. In order to discuss karma, you first have to believe in reincarnation, and then you have to believe that there is some sort of cosmic score-keeping going on. But even with both of those beliefs, there is no way that you would gain the advantages of, or suffer the losses of, another person -- for the simple reason that you are not that person. You are uniquely you.

I personally am not a Hindu and i do not believe in reincarnation, so karma is a moot point for me.

Okay, so leaving that behind -- you are also asking if another person's negative energy or the suffering that another person is enduring due to a curse can affect you.

Yes. It can. Being around sick people can be depressing. Being around violent people can make you angry. Being around cursed people can make you feel cursed.

A person can broadcast energy into a room, just by standing a certain way.

2. Why is all the meditative clearing not doing the job?

You would need a reading on that.

3. Am i giving up too soon?

You would need a reading on that.

You may be here at the Lucky Mojo Forum by mistake. This is a customer forum for people who use Lucky Mojo Curio Co. products in the practice of African American and other folk magic traditions. We do have allies and friends who are professional psychic readers, but what you are asking for is a reading, and we do not give readings here.

Good readers can be found here:

http://readersandrootworkers.org

and here:

http://hoodoopsychics.com

TheOne · Unread post by **TheOne** » Wed Nov 23, 2016 2:28 am

Dear catherine,
Thank you so much. The reason I am submitting this question here, on Lucky Mojo is because I have used Lucky Mojo Curio Co. products - ie uncrossing and van van for myself in the past with successful outcomes. I was wondering if an uncrossing spell would help in this situation too? In this case, the effects of transference need to be taken into account - as in who should the spell be performed on? myself (is this a case of me needing to raise my own defenses)? or Tom (is he unconsciously psychically attacking me)? or our relationship as such ? And is uncrossing the right spell to begin with? Maybe instead I should do a spell on strengthening my own protective field (but is that sustainable in the log run given that Tom is frequently around, aka physically and psychically welcomed into my auric range). I was hoping that other members may have had similar experiences and I could learn from their examples. Even though, I do realize that every case is different.
I should not have used Karma perhaps - but as I can't pinpoint the root cause or label the energies accordingly, until i become more educated, all concepts are a possibility at this stage. I can't become more educated on my own, and need help.
Thank you for suggesting the readersandrootworkers.org. I read tarot, iching and Pendulum Divination myself but my access to guidance feels blocked. Is there any particular type of reading that you would recommend for this?

Unread post by **Sister Jean** » Wed Nov 23, 2016 5:19 pm

Hello TheOne,

You really should just get a reading about this, like Miss Cat said. A reading can reorient you in situations where things feel murky and uncertain. And it sounds like doing your own divination would be counterproductive at this point, since you say you're feeling mixed up. So, I'd say to look through the list of readings on the website Cat linked you, and see if there is someone who resonates with you.

Take care.

WindWoman · Unread post by **WindWoman** » Thu Dec 01, 2016 2:42 pm

For repressed anger, is there a specific approach that I should/could take with my magical work?

I feel as though I cannot express my anger (or any emotions for that matter, but anger is the main thing that seems to hurt me). Holding this stuff in has affected me very negatively, and I want to reverse those effects as well as stave off any possible future problems. So I was planning to combine Tranquility, Healing and Clarity products; is there anything else that might be recommended?

Thanks so much!

Unread post by **natstein** » Thu Dec 01, 2016 5:06 pm

Hello vata girl,

First I would recommend working with a trained mental health professional such as a licensed clinical social worker or mental health therapist. Explain to them your concerns and they will give you good coping methods for how to work through these kinds of things.

Then you can back up the work you are doing with the mental health professional with your rootwork. The products you mention are good in terms of helping you to be calm and peaceful. The clarity is nice as it can help give you some insight into your situation. I would also recommend Master products (http://www.luckymojo.com/products-master.html) and pray for mastery over yourself. You could start with just a white candle and the oil, anoint the candle and say your prayer as you watch it burn for a while. USing the powders in your shoes would also be helpful I feel.

Hope this is helpful!

Peace~

Nathen

WindWoman · Unread post by **WindWoman** » Sat Dec 03, 2016 6:38 am

Nathen,

This is very helpful, as I definitely had not thought about Master products for this issue! But it definitely makes sense. Your answer is exactly what I was looking for. I will try this as soon as possible!

Beterhalf38 · Unread post by **Beterhalf38** » Tue Dec 13, 2016 5:53 am

Is it possible can I use a black candle instead of white I know if I order now my order won't be here before Christmas at least I think I have some white sage where do I put the sage on the outside in the head of the skull or just load it in the bottom along with my petition do I need other herbs as well I would still have to wait for the clarity and king solomom oil just let me know thanks

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Tue Dec 13, 2016 8:50 pm

Hello, Beterhalf38 ,

Once again, I don't understand everything you are asking because it is one long sentence.

But, NO, you cannot use black instead of white.

I believe that I had already given you the site to herbs

www.luckymojo.com/hoodooataglace.html

Thanks

Beterhalf38 · Unread post by **Beterhalf38** » Wed Dec 14, 2016 3:11 am

Hey Miss Aida
I do apologize thank you I will order a white skull candle..

Realdaddy56 · Unread post by **Realdaddy56** » Sun Jan 01, 2017 2:15 am

I use the Reconciliation, stay with me and fire of love. My wife is still not moving in with me. Her mom stops her from moving in with me every time she tries. Should I use controlling , do as I say, domination, bend over, follow me girl , I dominate my woman. And what should use on her mom to make we get along with each other.

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Sun Jan 01, 2017 6:30 pm

Hello, Realdaddy56 ,

Your topic: "Wife is too bossy" is actually "Mother in-law".

You may want to start a honey jar on you and your mother-in-law.

And based on the little bit of information given here, we don't know why your wife left you. But, you have said that you are using reconciliation products so I will assume there was a fight.

Stay with me is not the correct product to use as she is not with you right now. My suggestion is to keep working reconciliation and maybe soe influence spells on both her and her mother

www.luckymojo.com/influence.html

Wishing you the best

Happy New Year

Pastalover · Unread post by **Pastalover** » Sun Feb 12, 2017 3:56 pm

Hi Everyone,

I have introduced myself but await moderation.

I hope you can help me. I have a 'partner' and we have a 4-year old. Still live together. We got into major problems. He fell ill, lost his job. I only had a part-time job, major financial problems in no time, lots of arguments etc. He came across as depressed but also a lot of irriation/anger/frustration. I always tried to calm him down but i got fed up. He also did not show support in raising our son, just playing but nothing else. I was emotionally drained and at that point i was working 2 jobs supporting us all, but still money problems and we even lost our home.

I came into contact with an old friend and he was supportive and sweet. We did not see each other really, just online contact. It was not sexual of even physical but it was inappropriate. I would give him pet names etc, it was beyond friendly. But the thing is i am not even physically attracted to this person. It was all about the attention and the times when i did see him i always found him not attractive.

Anyway, my partner found out because i changed and he went thought my phone, so he saw the messages. He went ballistic and he thought that it was physical and accused me of all kids of things, calling me all kinds of names. After many arguments we decided to try again but we are now almost a year and a half further and we had a major argument again today and i found out nothing has changed!

He told me that he hates me, i ruined his life, our family etc. He wants a paternity-test because he thinks i fooled around with all kinds of guys. I started to change my looks, wear make-up etc.

I know i made a mistake but i do not think i deserve this. I have done many things for this man, still today i help him with everything that i can. He told me he will leave in the summer but he wants to spend time with our son.

I do not know if i want to be with him, but i want a normal realtionship with him because we share our son. I want him to understand that even before all this he was stressed out all the time and was not a good partner and later father. I want understanding and respect. He says that i have done everything for him, more than any woman ever did and he basically called me a slut in the same sentence.

I want this to stop. Sure i can throw him out in a heartbeat, because this is my house, but i am thinking of my child. I do not want to so something i regret. Which i have done in a past relationship.

I want everything to cool down for good and mutual respect and understanding. Even if we go our separate ways.

I did a honey jar in the past when we had the major fallout, and it worked pretty fast, even without personal concerns. I did one recently but no change so far.

It seems like he has a major grudge and i want it gone. Thank you.

Pastalover · Unread post by **Pastalover** » Mon Feb 13, 2017 1:08 am

I just want to add that i have been with this man for 11 years and even through the years he has had a temper. I mean he can get upset over small things like not being able to find his keys and i was always there to help him out and calm him down. He doees not understand the toll this has taken on me. He only says that if i was not happy with him i should have just left. Easier said than done when you have a small child and many problems. I know what i did was wrong even though there was nothing physical. I was heavily leaning on someone else emotionally.
Another thing i have to mention is that i am a little sceptical of using personal concerns. I am not convinced that it is ethically right. I have no problem using it in a honey jar on him and our son, but when it comes to the love jar i don't like it because i do not want to force anyone to be with me if he doen not want to be (in his heart) and not because of negative influences from 'outside' the relationship. Candles and pictures are no problem.
I am just so tired of this i have been through a lot and i am just devastated that he feels the ways he feels about me now. I just want us to eleminiate all the resentment and be good parents to our son. I do not want him to fill my son's head with garbage about me or tell his parents or other people bad things about be because it is not fair. He makes all kinds of assumptions about me that he does not even know for sure. I know that he is dissapointed but he is really out to hurt me with his words and just the way he looks at me is terrible, The expression on his face. Sometimes i can not believe how i ended up like this. I have always felt empowered but i have felt scared etc. I have never experienced anything like this in mij life and i am 40 years old. People shouting at me, slamming doors, insulting me and my family. The last few weeks is really felt like kicking him out immediatly, but then i think that this would be a bad way to end things, especially for our child.

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Mon Feb 13, 2017 10:18 pm

Hello, PastaLover,

What is needed right now are 3 types of Spells:

Healing to make him get rid of the grudges and tranquility to calm him down

www.luckymojo.com/healing.html

www.luckymojo.com/tranquility.html

Additionally, Peaceful Home products and spells.

www.luckymojo.com/peacefulhome.html

Then once everything is calmed down, discuss a peaceful separation or whatever you both feel at the time.

Please also read the posts on this thread. They may give you more ideas

Wishing you the best

Take care

Pastalover · Unread post by **Pastalover** » Tue Feb 14, 2017 2:24 am

Thank you so much for your advise, Miss Aida. Yesterday he cooked dinner and started talking to me after we have not spoken for about 3 weeks even though we live in the same house. I guess my prayers and the honeyjar started working. I have prayed to God in my own words, the Lordá prayer and several psalms. I have also made a tiny altar beside my bed with Jezus on teh cross, a statue of the virgin mary, an image of a golden heart and fresh roses. I was suprised by this and it calmed down a little because the day before yestarday when we had the fallout and even yesterday i felt extremely angry. I almost could not contain myself. I am a capricorn and the type of person who thinks before speaking but when i do get angered all hell breaks loose. But after yesterday evening i was able to calm myself down. A couple of days ago I also started a honeyjar for my son and his father with their personal concerns and i prayed over it and called on st. Joseph and burned a candle on top. (I did this the jar @ my mother's house, who is on vacation, because i do not want him to see what i am doing). I do feel a negative energy in my own house. For instance i do not feel this at my mother's house so i will most certainly follow your advise with tje LM products. I have found a place where i can buy these products because i do not live in the U.S.A. Thank you again, for your help. I appreciate it very much.

Wanttobehappy2016 · Unread post by **Wanttobehappy2016** » Wed Apr 26, 2017 6:30 pm

Hi everyone,

Hopefully this is the right thread. I had a romantic partner but it was really new. 1 night actually. We got into an angry argument by text. He lives behind me so I went over to ask a question and I woke him up and he turned into another person. Wow pure anger. He told me to stay away and I kept my cool for a change. I left and haven't heard from him in 2 weeks. I apologized but I felt hurt and used also. I even tried to text today but no response. He's a stubborn pisces and our communication was very off and slow from the beginning. I've been burning reconciliation candles on a sweet jar and healing candles. I took a bath after the fight as well. I have a skull I've been talking to and I'm thinking about cleansing the skull like it's him I'm cleansing? I tried to throw peace water over his fence but it might've not gotten where he steps. He has vicious dogs and nosey neighbors so as easy as it seems since he's so close, it's still hard. I'm trying to stay off the property [because he might ave cameras]but I need to keep it peaceful around here. Is there anything else I can do? Thank you

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Wed Apr 26, 2017 8:57 pm

Hello, Wanttobehappy2016 ,

I am so sorry. How terrible. You must be devastated.

Let me ask you something: could this be a sign from your spirits telling you to stay away because he is abusive?

I have 3 German Shepherd Dogs. They are all formally trained in protection. And they are HUGE dogs.

Yet, they interact with my friends as if they were little puppies. Why? because they have taken on my personality. And my personality is to be very loving unless I am threatened or harmed.

There's a famous saying in the dog world from the man who invented the German Shepherd Dog breed. His name was Captain Max von Stephanitz. He says: "Show me your dog and I'll tell you what manner of man you are"

And I have always found this to be true (my whole life). I can tell what kind of person I am dealing with by watching their dogs.

This man has vicious dogs and was vicious with you. Doesn't sound good. So, PLEASE be careful (don't want you to get hurt)

My spell recommendation would be a white skull candle dressed with Tranquility oil and products and petitions to have him calm down. I would also lay tricks down with tranquility powders and or incense that he will walk over.

http://www.luckymojo.com/tranquility.html

Wishing you the very best and praying for your safety

take care

Wanttobehappy2016 · Unread post by **Wanttobehappy2016** » Mon May 01, 2017 10:10 am

Thank you Miss Aida. I called them vicious because they bark alot and the bark sounds nasty lol. Plus I'm terrified of dogs. So, maybe I need to re word that. I did notice when I threw some bath water over his fence they calmed down and just looked. I did some investigation and seen a police record on him. So, maybe this is my spiritual guide intervening. Maybe I might better let this one go. That could be why he just stays to himself to keep trouble down

I will try to sneak pass his house but he had a stalker in the past I read, so I'm being cautious. I'll try to let the smoke from my tranquility incense go to his yard. Thank you again.

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Mon May 01, 2017 8:14 pm

Hello, Wanttobehappy2016 ,

Just PLEASE be safe

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HoodooLover · Unread post by **HoodooLover** » Mon May 22, 2017 12:05 pm

Hello Folks!

I need a list of recommended products that can help with getting rid of bad tempers and negative thoughts that leads to feelings of anger and frustration. So far I have the Cast Off Evil oil to help break and destroy the negative thoughts and was wondering which other products should I try also.

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Tue May 23, 2017 9:05 pm

Hello, HoodooLover ,

Welcome to the forum!

Have you seen this page?

www.luckymojo.com/hoodooataglance.html

Let us know what you think

Take care

lexibusch · Unread post by **lexibusch** » Wed May 31, 2017 8:41 am

Good afternoon,

This is really amazing. As I am going through all of the rules and the announcements, I noticed the request to use the search bar

I searched a word to find something to help me learn to let go of anger and found something for other things that were weighing heavy on my mind.

I just wanted to thank you all - for these boards. I was abused as a child and have been working through it - finding peace inside of myself, learning to heal myself, has been an interesting journey. This is one of the reasons I joined LM; I wanted to learn to heal.

Thank you so much.
Lexi

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Wed May 31, 2017 8:02 pm

Hello, lexibusch ,

I am so very sorry that this happened to you.

And happy that you're finding peace

wishing you the very best in life

Take care

HoodooLover · Unread post by **HoodooLover** » Tue Jun 27, 2017 1:09 am

Hello LM and All!

Do anyone know any great recommended prayers or psalms to say for calming down grudges and feelings of anger and angry thoughts? I know Psalm 15 is great for peace of mind from what I heard from ConjureMan Ali. But are there any others? By the way I'm using the Cast Off Evil oil to get rid of these bad habits of having these feelings and thoughts in my mind.

Unread post by **Sister Jean** » Tue Jun 27, 2017 11:29 am

Hello HoodooLover,

Tranquility oil would be a great product to use to calm down angry thoughts. Apply a dab of oil to your temples and the crown of your head and take some deep, calming breaths.

http://www.luckymojo.com/oil-tranquility.html

Also, if you scroll up through this thread, you'll lots more helpful ideas!

Take care.

aerias · Unread post by **aerias** » Tue Nov 14, 2017 7:25 pm

Hello, I'm a newbie to LM and had a question I was hoping to get some Conjure insight into. I tried really hard to find the right thread for this, so I really hope I've found it. My rationale was that it has to do with healing and health, so I thought I'd put it here.

I have a lot of relationship baggage (have been cheated on a few times) and trust issues and loss issues. I'm regularly see a psychologist, try to read a lot about these things, and also do my best to apply the principles that may help me move forward (especially in my 8-month relationship which has been negatively affected by my issues).

I want to grow and be better for myself and my partner, but I feel like in addition to my therapy and self-improvement work, I can use a little boost from the magical world. I've worked with a variety of systems for most of my life, but have recently gotten into Conjure as of about a year ago and though I've done a little bit of work in Conjure, I've yet to apply it to my inner life towards self-improvement. So my question is: is any kind of spell that you would recommend for self-improvement and inner/psychological healing that would work in tandem with what I'm already doing?

Thank you, in advance, for your time.

aerias

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Wed Nov 15, 2017 1:48 pm

Hello, aerias ,

Master products will give you self confidence. I highly recommend them

www.luckymojo.com/master.html

If you are a woman, you may want to look at the post above your in which Miss cat discusses her recommendations

healing products are also good

www.luckymojo.com/healing.html

Wishing you the greatest of success with your endeavors

Take care

HoodooLover · Unread post by **HoodooLover** » Sun Dec 31, 2017 4:08 pm

Hello Lucky Mojo and All

My apologies if I'm posting this on the wrong topic board but I do feel like this issue is somewhat of a grudge. I have a friend in my life who happens to be a bigot and I'd like to change his way of thinking and to heal his heart and mind from being that way. I was thinking about ordering some Saint Martin de Porres products for this issue. Are there any other great suggestions or recommendations I can buy for this issue that you guys can recommend?

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Mon Jan 01, 2018 9:03 am

Hello, HoodooLover ,

That is such a shame.

You may want to try Compelling and/or Influence spells.

www.luckymojo.com/compelling.html

www.luckymojo.com/influence.html

This will be a difficult case so, ongoing work will be needed.

St Jude could also help for impossible cases

Wishing you the very best with this spell work

Take care

HoodooLover · Unread post by **HoodooLover** » Tue Jan 02, 2018 9:01 am

Thanks Miss Aida, I will be getting those great products and thank you so much for wishing me good luck on this spell work journey.

Unread post by **Miss Gaye** » Fri Jan 19, 2018 5:37 pm

My elderly mother lives out of state and is experiencing age-related cognitive decline. She's been evaluated by her regular doctors and a specialist and its been determined that it is not Alzheimer's. Since I can't be with her to make sure she is taking her prescribed medications and eating well, I would like to do some root work to support her mental state.
I'm thinking a blend of oils--Blessing, Healing, Clarity and Wisdom of Solomon--on a white skull candle. Is there a better combination for cognitive decline?
For herbs, I'm thinking Angelica, violet leaf (she also has heart disease), but would like other suggestions as well.
I'd especially like to hear if anyone else has done work for this situation.
Thanks in advance for your help.

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Sat Jan 20, 2018 8:05 pm

Hello, Miss Gaye,

I am shocked that there is no diagnosis. It would be prudent to see another physician. It could be anything but it bothers me that there is no diagnosis. That's just plain SLOPPY. She's needs to see someone else. As a Nurse, this greatly upsets me.

Your ideas are EXCELLENT.

I would advise to ask St Dymphna for help also.

Find info on here from these different pages

search.php?keywords=dymphna

Wishing you the very best

take care

Unread post by **Miss Gaye** » Sun Jan 21, 2018 7:52 pm

Thank you, Miss Aida. I don't know if she has a diagnosis or not. But she and my father live in an area that is underserved medically, and of course treatment choices determined by Medicare. I suspect her decline is related to circulation issues. She may have been formally diagnosed, but she wouldn't have understood well enough to explain it to me. She and my father are fiercely independent about their health issues, and have refused to give my sister or I medical power of attorney or even to put us on their HIPAA contact list.
Thanks again for your help!

ingtar · Unread post by **ingtar** » Sun Mar 18, 2018 9:57 am

My friend is trying to make a decision that will impact his entire life and that of many others (he is thinking of having more kids but went through a BAD divorce, has a teenager, still has to deal with his awful ex, is super busy with work, and is single, so no one to actually HAVE the baby). It would be a VERY BAD decision.

From what I've read in this forum, to sway his decision and make him realize how bad it would be, I should use Clarity, Influence, and I also have Controlling, Essence of Bend Over, Compelling oils.

Can I also use Fast Luck? He is refusing to get together with me, so, selfishly, I want him to make this decision and let it go. Anything I'm missing? I don't have King Solomon oil unfortunately.

I have a doll baby that represents him, that I have been using in other ways. Should I make a new one for this situation, or can I continue to use that one?

Unread post by **Sister Jean** » Sun Mar 18, 2018 10:14 am

Hello ingtar,

I would recommend using a skull candle to help him gain clarity on the situation. You can read more about them here:

skull-candle-questions-and-answers-t15161.html

And it seems like the Fast Luck oil isn't needed. The others sound good.

Take care.

Maddyfan2020 · Unread post by **Maddyfan2020** » Wed May 30, 2018 9:26 pm

So I have a question. I’ve been seeing this guy for over a year when we started dating I did find out his last partner had passed due to alcoholism. When it was first brought up I was told it’d been 5 months since the passing so I thought ok he must be through some of the thick of it. I recently came to find it was a month after his ex died he seeked me out cause well while not knowing each other we always ran into each other while I was at work, & there were always lingering looks, & you could feel there was something there.

Recently things finally I think have caught up to him, & last week after a fight all communication has pretty much stopped. He’s completely shut me out he’s feeling complete blame for what happened cause he didn’t stop it sooner, but you can’t really stop anyone from doing what they are gonna do I’m sure his exes intention was not to die. It doesn’t help that his exes mom contacts him all the time, but my question is.. Is there a way for me to try, & give him clarity on the situation. I mean if me, & his relationship is just over I understand I won’t force it I’ve thought about a honey jar, but I feel this situation would need to be handled first before I jump into doing that.. He’s an absolutely amazing man, & he’s pretty much from day one had the life he wanted with me mapped out from where he wants us to live ect. Also is there something I’d be able to do I don’t want to permanently cut her out I mean they were together for 6 years, but he also needs time to heal himself her contacting him every 2 weeks is just reopening the wound. Thank you for your time, & sorry if I totally posted this in the wrong section.

Unread post by **Sister Jean** » Fri Jun 01, 2018 8:40 am

Hello Maddyfan2020,

How sad, I hope he's talking to someone about the emotions he must be feeling. That being said, there are some rootwork options that you could take. First of all, I think a white skull candle dressed with Clarity and Healing oil would be a nice way to help heal and clear his mind:

http://www.luckymojo.com/clarity.html
http://www.luckymojo.com/healing.html

Also check out the spells on this thread:

spells-and-prayers-to-heal-heartache-so ... 3-120.html

Take care.

Maddyfan2020 · Unread post by **Maddyfan2020** » Fri Jun 01, 2018 1:33 pm

Unfortunately he’s a stubborn ox of a man, & thought he could go about this on his own. He can’t hes not managing well at all. Thank you so much I actually just winged it last night, & got those 2 oils along with Sage. I’ll look into your other suggestion now.!

Maddyfan2020 · Unread post by **Maddyfan2020** » Fri Jun 01, 2018 1:38 pm

I also bought Cut and Clear Oil (for use maybe on his exes mother). She’s not helping him with the constant calls, & texts crying. I know she’s sad, but so is he they both need time to heal.

Maddyfan2020 · Unread post by **Maddyfan2020** » Tue Jun 05, 2018 4:16 pm

I decided to use the cut, & clear for him instead of her for emotional stuff he needs help with, & I’m gonna use healing oil also..

SagittariusLover128 · Unread post by **SagittariusLover128** » Fri Jun 08, 2018 11:48 am

I hope I'm posting in the correct thread..

I seen a post a while ago about getting a lover/partner/spouse (whichever the case is) to see and understand that you're the one for them and things of that nature. I was trying to find that post as well as see what type of spell that'll be classified as? I want my boyfriend to understand that I'm only trying to love him and I want the best for him..

I'd also like to know what I can do to clear my own head space!

I have a lot of crazy, unethical, and negative thoughts at times (mostly about things that has happened in the past) but when I have these thoughts they somehow mess with my present attitude and demeanor and sometimes cause petty conflicts between me and my partner. I don't do it on purpose; I sometimes just overthink things and get angry or upset all over again like it JUST happened. What can I do to control that? It's like I unintentionally ruin our good days when I do this and then it makes him not want to be around and then causes me to become a little upset, depressed and other crazy emotions all at once. Any advice would help, thanks!

Unread post by **Sister Jean** » Sun Jun 10, 2018 8:35 am

Hello Maddyfan2020,

I think that sounds like a good plan. Thanks for keeping us updated!

Take care.

Unread post by **Sister Jean** » Sun Jun 10, 2018 8:56 am

Hello inquiringminds128,

If you'd like to search for a specific post, you can search by typing in keywords in the search bar in the upper right corner of your screen (in the green area).

And it sounds like Clarity products would be of aid to you. I'd suggest bathing with the bath crystals as well as anointing your temples with the oil whenever you feeling these strong emotions.

http://www.luckymojo.com/clarity.html

Also, do you have someone you can talk to about this stuff? It sounds like it might be helpful for you.

Take care.

SagittariusLover128 · Unread post by **SagittariusLover128** » Sun Jun 10, 2018 12:43 pm

So would it help if I use the Clarity products on him as well? Or just use them on myself?

Unread post by **Sister Jean** » Tue Jun 12, 2018 9:59 am

Hello inquiringminds128,

You would use them on yourself, since your mind is the one you want to affect.

Take care.

SagittariusLover128 · Unread post by **SagittariusLover128** » Tue Jun 12, 2018 3:31 pm

So even if I want him to see that I care for him and I’m being serious about is still just use them on myself? Would it help if I used them only in his presence?

Unread post by **Sister Jean** » Thu Jun 14, 2018 9:30 am

Hello inquiringminds128,

Yes you can use the products on him too if there are things you want him to see clearly. You can accomplish this by putting a few drops of the oil in his shampoo or body wash. And you don't only have to use the products in his presence, you can use them whenever you feel like you are getting bogged down by negative thoughts. I hope that helps.

Take care.

SagittariusLover128 · Unread post by **SagittariusLover128** » Thu Jun 14, 2018 12:44 pm

Thank you Sister Jean! I don't know where I'd be sometimes without this forum.

kairos417 · Unread post by **kairos417** » Mon Jul 02, 2018 5:06 pm

So, I'm a part of a local community, fairly loosely organized, of... well of kinky people. Involved in consensual bdsm and the like. For those of you that don't know, the community is super focused on consent, so i have decided that my ethics require me to not work coercively in this case.

We recently had a consent violation and sexual assault within our local community. This is of course deeply troubling, but not directly why I'm here.

Our community is loosely organized, but does have some people that are pillars of the community and local leaders, and I've noticed what i can only call an over reaction to the recent events, and a shift in what they're teaching new members of the community. I would like to do some clarity work on the egrigore or group mind of the community, so we all (myself included) can remember to not overreact, and to see what happened. I have a clarity oil recipe that I've used extremely successfully before in the past, and will be coupling it with king Solomon's wisdom oil i think, once i know everything I'll need to order.

My question is this. How do i best go about targeting something like this? I'm less concerned about changing individual minds i think, and more concerned that my community keeps a cool head.