Drive Bad Coercive Parasitic Abusive Co-Dependent Person Away from My Lover Spouse Friend Family Member

Nony65 · Unread post by **Nony65** » Thu May 24, 2018 6:44 am

Hi everyone,

I really don't know what to do; basically, my partner is friends with a guy who he's known for years, but this guy, in no uncertain terms, is a nasty person; all of my partners other friends think so. This guy even said, when given a years notice, he would be at one of our friends wedding, then pulled out in the last week because he "had" to work that night (a cash in hand job at a takeaway store which was his choice).

Quite recently, my mental health has taken a very bad knock due to my lovely grandmother passing away. I became very depressed. This guy, who only ever contacted me when he wanted something, messaged me to ask if lots of his friends could come over to mine and my partners place for games night, he never ever held it at his own, always someone else's house. I had to cancel after he pretty much forced the idea on me; and then he put a post on Facebook which I sadly misinterpreted and snapped at him. He knew I was unwell and called me a retard.

I then discovered he had been slagging me off to my partner in messages and mocking me because I had tried to make peace this year with a girl who hadn't been very nice to me and my partner. He said revolting things about me and I'm so annoyed my partner didn't say much. I messaged him straight away and put him straight and called him up on bad mouthing me. Sadly, because I didn't trust this guy, I found more messages recently he sent my partner on Facebook, "how's your mental woman" "she's nuts" "don't invite her round when we have games night, I might punch her in the face lol".

I saw just now this nasty piece of work is still friends with my partner. I want him completely gone from my partners life as he can't be trusted and continuously is horrible and uses people.

In a nutshell, I want him far far away from us, my partner to see sense and drop him as a friend (given he's also said disgusting things about our other friends), and for him once and for all to shut his mouth about me.

So I was thinking Hot Foot to drive this horrible guy away, what things though could I also use to help my partner see him for what he is and to drop him out of our life and something to silence him talking about me? Thank you!

Unread post by **Miss Nikki** » Sat May 26, 2018 9:50 am

Greetings, Nony65.

I hope you are in good spirits. I’m sorry you are going through this situation. I recommend that you get a reading before you take any action. We have a lot of good readers at AIRR - http://www.readersandrootworkers.org/wi ... ychics.com.

Also, use clarity to see the situation with a clear mind. http://www.luckymojo.com/clarity.html.

Here is information about hot foot - http://www.luckymojo.com/hotfoot.html.

In the future, please keep your posts short. Good luck!

Miss Nikki

catcat35 · Unread post by **catcat35** » Tue Jun 26, 2018 8:08 am

So my partner and I get along great.

When he hangs out too with his friend. It rubs off. The attitude, choice of condescending words and so on.

The friend does not like me because I took away his "wing" man. He speaks badly of me to other people, very bad. He encourages my partner to go out with him to get women. He sends him pornographic pictures and videos. He calls my partner names for being loyal to me. He bought girls to my partners house. Doesnt happen anymore but overall the guy does not respect our relationship and makes it difficult for me to trust when my partner when they are together.

My partner is his boss. It is difficult because I never see him anymore -- my partner doesnt put us together knowing how we dislike one another and he is always with the girls that he tried to match with my partner. So I cant get his footsteps, nor belongings.

Also I need my partner to stop discussing our arguments to others. Honey jar was done for my partner but hasnt changed him discussiong our problems to others. So I need help removing the friend from both of our lives and to have my partner keep our lives private. Thank you in advance

Unread post by **Sister Jean** » Thu Jun 28, 2018 8:55 am

Hello catcat35,

Welcome to the Lucky Mojo forum! I'm sorry you've having to deal with this tough situation.

To help your partner cast off the influence of this friend, do some Cast Off Evil candle work for him, but also back it up by sneakily adding drops of the oil to his shampoo or body wash and praying over it. You can find those products here;

http://www.luckymojo.com/castoffevil.html

As for keeping the private life private, you could try doing a skull candle spell on him. Use a white skull candle dressed with Influence oil, and sprinkle Alum powder across the mouth of the skull (the powder will stick to the oil). In a strong voice, tell your partner as represented by the skull that he is to keep his mouth SHUT about any arguments you have and keep your private life private.

http://www.luckymojo.com/products-candle-skull.html
http://www.luckymojo.com/influence.html

Good luck to you!

catcat35 · Unread post by **catcat35** » Thu Jun 28, 2018 12:28 pm

Actually things got really bad. We arent speaking now. We got into an argument and kept getting worse. I broke things off when he said i was no longer a priority. I know he loves me and I do want him back. I have a honey jar for him. come to me oil from LM, hair, rose petals and cinnamon with names. I put pink candles friday, sunday and tuesday dressed with oil. I did it like 3 weeks ago. I need something much more powerful and I no longer have access to his belongings. Since we arent speaking anymore. All of have of him is pictures. All I have is pictures left. What is best to have him stay and stay faithful. His friend is throwing women at him.

Unread post by **catherineyronwode** » Thu Jun 28, 2018 6:11 pm

catcat35 --

I am sorry to hear that the two of you broke up before you were able to do strong work to drive his bad friend away.

In my opinion, you lost, and if your ex said you are "no longer a priority," you should not try to get him back. He is a rude, stupid, and cruel excuse for a lover. Believe him -- you are no longer a priority for him, he said it to your face! -- and move on. He is not the only fish in the sea.

However, spells for getting someone to return -- and discussions about those spells -- are found here:

Spells for Ex-Lover Ex-Spouse to Return Reconcile Reunite
spells-for-ex-lover-ex-spouse-to-return ... -t650.html

Good luck.

Lykopis · Unread post by **Lykopis** » Wed Jul 18, 2018 8:39 am

Hi all!

My little cousin has a situation where a guy she knows needs to GET OUT of her life forever. But he is also threatening to spread bad things about her around the internet and their mutual friends. Can I do a hot foot on him AND a sweetening so he goes away but doesn't spread bad talk about her, or will they counteract each other?

Thanks for any advice!

Unread post by **catherineyronwode** » Wed Jul 18, 2018 9:01 pm

Lykopis --

I would do a Hot Foot plus a Stop Gossip Spell. I would not bother to sweeten him.

Lykopis · Unread post by **Lykopis** » Thu Jul 19, 2018 9:57 am

Thank you miss cat! I like the sound of that much better.

Nony65 · Unread post by **Nony65** » Tue Aug 14, 2018 10:16 am

I would like to Hot Foot my fiances best friend away from him. I'm not trying to sound like I'm justifying my actions, but in a nutshell, she got offended by something I did and turned on me aggressively. I wholeheartedly apologised and offered peace but she childishly ignored me after and acts passively aggressively towards me in our group- ignoring my messages, me, and passively aggressively sends hurtful remarks. She does it with such subtlety though the group don't see it except me.

She will be going to our wedding next year and I seriously don't want her there with this ridiculous negative childishness. I'd like to Hot Foot her away from the group and us. My Rootworker is in agreement and said he'd happily do this for me.

What I want to ask though is (as I've seen lots of posts on here regarding people wanting to Hot Foot one person). Can Hot Foot be used to drive away one person from several people if that makes sense? And although someone else would be performing this work, would it be advised if I cleansed myself on a weekly basis with cleansing baths to rid any negative energy? Thank you!

Unread post by **JayDee** » Tue Aug 14, 2018 4:12 pm

nony65,

Yes a person can be driven from a group in this manner. Similar if a bad family member is in a house. The issue is some may hold on longer then others and the work may take more time. Ask your root worker if you can sprinkle hotfoot powder where she will walk and touch items, if she is in the wedding dress a letter for her with it on it. LM can set break up candles and hotfoot candles which is a great mix, break up can be used for any relationship to end. I would cleanse during this period and wear protection such as fiery wall of protection to keep off any negativity. Also thinking of your situation, I would use stop gossip oil and slippery elm. I work in a situation where it can be catty and gossip , tide at work changes frequently. I put the oil on my bottom of my feet, I make a cross on the heal of my shoe and I put slippery elm in my shoe im wearing that day, a tiny pinch is all you need. It has been amazing where I go untouched and unbothered by the people, it has no negative effect on me.

Stop gossip Product: http://www.luckymojo.com/stopgossip.html

Hotfoot: http://www.luckymojo.com/hotfoot.html

Protection: http://www.luckymojo.com/fierywall.html

Slippery Elm Products: http://www.herbmagic.com/slippery-elm-bark.html

Devil Shoe String for protection: http://www.herbmagic.com/devils-shoe-strings.html

Chia Seed to stop gossip: http://www.herbmagic.com/chia-seed.html

Candle service to back up the work: http://www.missionaryindependent.org/ca ... vices.html

Unread post by **Sister Jean** » Wed Aug 15, 2018 8:05 am

Great suggestions from j82.

Tribaby789 · Unread post by **Tribaby789** » Mon Apr 29, 2019 4:03 pm

Ok I hope I am putting this in the right spot. I am doing freezer spells on a few people and then I wanted to do a separation candle on a few of them. Miss Athena suggested using separation oil but as of now they are separated but have a chance if coming back.

I saw on here someone used cut and clear to separate husband from alcoholic friends and also saw that cut and clear was to break ties.

To clarify

1. A trouble maker on the team is not friends with the girls since the end of the season so I wanted to do cut and clear to keep the ties broken as she is trying to wiggle back into their lives and it usually works for the season.

2. I also wanted to stop a girl from coming back to the team. Doing a freezer spell but wanted to reinforce it with a candle with her, the head coach and assistant coach and cut and clear to "sever the cut ties " she quit because they didn't make me captain but she may come back if they make her captain.

So in these 2 instances which should i use, cut and clear or separation?

Unread post by **JayDee** » Mon Apr 29, 2019 4:56 pm

Tribaby789,

I agree whole heartedly on using separation since the post is "without harm". Cut and clear is normally used on a person to effect them and to change them, like ending a bad relationship, cutting ties. Cast off evil is one i would use to cast off evil influences, if you use cut and clear, I would do it as in cutting them from your daughters life and clearing them away to bring new friends, then follow with an attraction spell to bring in new positive friends.

I would use separation.

Have you considered a moving candle on this girl, maybe moving them from the team to a new activity like a job? use attraction to draw her to that. Many ways to work this, using items to break them apart and another to draw her to something new.

I know your post over the past several months, what a wonderful mom you are for the work and dedication to your daughter!

Tribaby789 · Unread post by **Tribaby789** » Tue Apr 30, 2019 4:06 am

Thank you JayDee for the kind words.

I am running out of time since the coach just called the meeting next Monday the 6th and that is when the girls who are playing need to show up and if he was going to announce if that girl who quit would be captain.

I chose the separation candle as I can do that in one shot.. I know the moving candle is supposed to be done over 7 days and I do not have the privacy for that or the time frame. Is it possible to do the moving candle over 5 days. I may be able to pull that off.

Also how would I do this? Would I need 2 totally different setups or could I just do one for both, say a white candle for each of the 2 head coaches and another for the team then black candles for the 2 girls and just write job or school on a pink candle and move them towards that

BeachbumSteph · Unread post by **BeachbumSteph** » Tue Apr 30, 2019 8:44 am

Desperation candle is a good tool

Unread post by **Miss Athena** » Tue Apr 30, 2019 8:47 am

Hello BeachbumSteph,

I'm not familiar with that candle. Is this something you've purchased from Lucky Mojo? They don't have candles with that name, so I'm wondering if you confused the name with something else. Please let us know so we can make sure that forum members are advised correctly.

Thanks.

Unread post by **JayDee** » Tue Apr 30, 2019 1:14 pm

Tribaby789,

Yes it is ok to cut it to 5 days if the time is not permitting to do it over 7. You can also do the candle in one sitting and move it 7 times as you pray over it and do the work over it. moving candle spell would be to separate them from the coaches and moving away to something else such as a job or boyfriend, dress the back of the candles with separation and the front with attraction. On the coaches you can dress the head of it with clarity for them to see clearly they are not good for the team.

Consider having the church set a candle fro you to end them, a separation on the girls from the team, an I can you cant candle for your daughter A victory candle for your daughter.

Tribaby789 · Unread post by **Tribaby789** » Wed May 01, 2019 2:33 pm

Ok I will do the moving spell on sat good day for separation. I can also do a white candle for my daugther on thurs(good day for leadership) with I can you can't right for?
How do I have the church light candles and just to clarify was it 2 or 3 candles? One for separation of girls from the team and one for victory for my daughter or I can you can't?

Unread post by **JayDee** » Wed May 01, 2019 2:37 pm

Tribaby789 ,

My suggestion is to do a separation on the two girls and the coach. I would do I can you cant on your daughter to win over these girls in the position as captain of the team, holds them down while she moves forward, last candle I would use is either crown of success or victory, though I do love victory for sports or any activity that involves defeating/beating other people out. Use this link to purchase candles at the church and have them set with a petition, they will send a candle report at the end letting you know how the candles burned and its interpretation: http://www.missionaryindependent.org/ca ... html#vigil

Tribaby789 · Unread post by **Tribaby789** » Thu May 02, 2019 8:56 am

Thank you. I just ordered 6 candles lol - 1 for each other girls to separate them from the soccer team, along with St. Expedite to stop coach from giving into one from being captain- since the meeting is on Monday, one for victory and I can you can't for for my daughter and 1 for king Solomon for my daughter while she is taking her SATs this weekend.
My payment went through but the email link didn't work do I found an email on fb. I hope it went through.

BeachbumSteph · Unread post by **BeachbumSteph** » Thu May 02, 2019 10:00 pm

sorry I meant Separation candle not Desperation candle,Type O..

Unread post by **Miss Athena** » Fri May 03, 2019 10:37 am

Thank you BeachbumSteph, appreciate your clarification.

Lyndamarie123 · Unread post by **Lyndamarie123** » Sat Jul 11, 2020 7:35 pm

Hi I am fairly new, and right now there is a man that has come into my mothers life, and he is a liar and is still married to someone else. But my mother is like in this fog and she won’t listen to me nor my brother. She has distanced herself from her family and me and is like in this trance. Please there has to be something I can do to make them grow apart and eventually leave. It’s only been about a month so I hope I can do something now to get him to leave and help my mother to wake up.

RisenRaven · Unread post by **RisenRaven** » Sun Jul 12, 2020 1:26 pm

Hi Lyndamarie123, this thread will have lots of good ideas for you. You should read it and then post if you have any further questions.

Unread post by **Terra Rising** » Tue Jul 14, 2020 9:05 am

Lyndamarie123,

Hello and welcome to the forum! In addition to RisenRaven's excellent advice on reading this thread for spell ideas, I would start off with Clarity products. This will help your mother see who this man really is and allow her to actually hear your concerns. I fear if you go straight into break up work when she still has feelings for him, she may keep going back. You could put a few drops of Clarity oil in her conditioner so it gets on her head. A drop on the bristles of a hair brush works nicely too. Dab some on your hands and touch her hair as you talk to her.

Clarity: https://www.luckymojo.com/clarity.html

Once you have used Clarity products on her for a few days, I would work to end the relationship. Break Up products are designed just for this purpose and you will find free spells on the following page: https://www.luckymojo.com/breakup.html

If they break up and he still keeps coming around, Hot Foot him right out of the picture.

Hot Foot: https://www.luckymojo.com/hotfoot.html

Best of luck!

tnemesis76 · Unread post by **tnemesis76** » Sat Sep 05, 2020 5:01 pm

My ex (we'll call him A ) and I have two grown children together and have been in each others lives for 28 years. He has been in his current relationship for a little over a year officially (he was involved with her for a while before that when we were still together). Although we aren't together anymore, we have gotten to a place where we are close friends and are there for each other when needed.

Over the last year he has tried to break up with his current girlfriend (we'll call her R ) several times and has even attempted to move back to my place where I have given him use of the small camper out in the yard (so that the situation doesn't become even more complicated or the lines of the relationship we now have together become blurred). But each time he packs up his things and moves them here, he ends up going back to her after she begs and manipulates and promises to stop treating him badly.

They are highly toxic together and I know that he wants to be done with her because he tells me so and tells her so. While A isn't entirely innocent (it takes 2 to argue or let an argument escalate to out of control levels) her treatment of him has become increasingly abusive and degrading. She is apparently a sex addict and cheats on him all if the time. It doesn't matter if it is with strangers, her male friends, or his friends. She has cheated on him and then created situations where the 3 of them (her, A, and the guy she just slept with) hang out together, causing A to be humiliated when he discovers the truth.

Recently A found out R had unprotected sex with a mutual friend then had sex with A right afterwards when he got home and their friend left after staying long enough to visit with the both of them. She calls him names and screams racial slurs at him then uses emotional blackmail by playing the victim and getting him to feel sorry for her. She blames her behavior on terrible experiences that she has been through in her life and makes him feel like she will kill herself if he leaves her.

She has an 8 year old son that A has tried to look out for and she has even used her son as a tool to control A and keep him from leaving her. There is so much more but it would take forever to write it all.

Each time he leaves he swears that this time it is for good and that he is never going back but he always does eventually. He doesn't even WANT to be there anymore and he can't even explain how or why he has found himself emotionally handcuffed to this woman. Her behavior is esculating and she is becoming more and more desperate and unbalanced and I am genuinely worried about his emotional well being and starting to be concerned for his physical health as well.

Does anyone know of any sort of spells that might help to banish her from his life for at least long enough to allow him to get back to himself and break the codependance and psychological hold that she seems to have on him? He used to be strong and strong willed and would never allow himself to be disrespected or degraded like this. I barely recognise the person he has become since they got together.

I am not trying to force my will on him or break them up out of spite. I have done my best to stay out of it unless he came to me and asked me specifically for my help or my opinion up until this point because the situation is a awkward and tricky one given our nearly 30 year history and the bond that we share. But today I just had to watch him cave in again and go to talk to her, stating that he will be back in a little while, after sitting up with him most of the night listening to things that have disgusted and angered me and frankly broken my heart because nobody deserves to be treated like that.

He SWEARS that it's really over this time and like every other time before was starting to seem a little bit like his former self and was making plans to get back on his feet and get his life back in order until she figured out an angle that worked and got him to agree to meet with her.

Is there any spell that might help him? I have no plans to do any spellwork on him behind his back and will get his permission before hand. We have already touched on the idea and I told him I would see what I could find.

Unread post by **Miss Athena** » Sun Sep 06, 2020 11:36 am

Hello tnemesis76,

Welcome to the Lucky Mojo forum. I have merged your post to the existing topic of breaking up a toxic relationship. Please do not start your own topic like this, as you will find through a search of the forum that we already have nearly every subject covered.

Also, please do not post in a solid block of text as it makes your contribution to the forum very difficult to read. I went through your post and separated it into paragraphs for greater readability.

Please read through the posts in this thread starting from the first page and you will find spells that can help you and your friend.

Good luck to you both.

Unread post by **ConjureMan** » Mon Sep 07, 2020 7:11 am

tnemesis76, your situation is quite complicated--you are dealing with a case in which normal break up may not be enough. Your ex has likely be drawn into a parasitic bond that needs to be broken.

If he's open to it, start with work on him directly. Get him a Cast off Evil mojo bag that he can keep on his persons, but hidden from her. He needs to strengthen his resolve. I would add some Crucible of Courage oil to dress the bag and his head.

Then you need to work on breaking the bond. This can be tricky, but take a photo of them together and using scissors cut them apart. Place them on an altar space, her on the left and him on the right. In between them place the scissors open and facing her.

Next get a black candle and a white candle. Write her name on the black candle and dress with Separation and Run Devil Run oil. On the white candle write his name with Cast of Evil oil. Set this in candle holders and then on top of their photos. Light and let it burn as you recite Psalm 52 addressing her directly. Also recite Psalm 27 for him.

Before the black candle burns fully down, burn her photo in its flame. Take the ashes and remaining wax from the black candle and dispose in running water. Take his photo, wrap around a John the Conqueror root (a small one) and add to the Cast off Evil mojo bag for him to carry.

Your situation is quite complicated and at some point you might consider a reading or consultation with a professional.

Good luck!

Cast of Evil mojo bag: https://www.luckymojo.com/mojo-1x-cast-off-evil.html
Crucible of Courage oil: https://www.luckymojo.com/oil-crucible-of-courage.html
Separation Oil: https://www.luckymojo.com/oil-separation.html
Run Devil Run: https://www.luckymojo.com/oil-run-devil-run.html
John the Conqueror: http://www.herbmagic.com/john-the-conqueror-pieces.html

AirGoddess · Unread post by **AirGoddess** » Mon Nov 09, 2020 8:09 pm

I am the only child of a 73yr old.man he is very sweet and naive. He got entangled with a woman who is in her 50's . she use drugs and she bullys and mistreat my father. She vandalize his cars, take his money after he pays his bills and put him out of his own house. After she is done entertaining other men and using all his money on drugs. He has to walk no matter the hour to his nephew house not allowing him to take his heart meds. She will allow him to come back to his home. She blocked all his close family members. Call at 2 am to slander him when she drunk embarrasseing to me and his nephew. I have to block my phone number to call him if she don't take his phone.He won't stand up for himself. My aunt's, grandma and mother before they all died said ; they think she has a root on him. I live in another state. My children live in the same town but can't go around because they don't want to get arrested like I did at 18 yrs for kicking her butt because she is disrespectful to everyone he knows. My aunt tried to teach me how to hot foot her but I was not focus and young. She Gone now. I need to get this lady away from my Dad he all I got. What can I do from a distance without backlash?

Christy8730 · Unread post by **Christy8730** » Wed Nov 11, 2020 6:45 pm

hi, I need help, I don't know what to do first, my boyfriend's BFF is causing us A LOT of problems in our relationship and I can't get him to leave him alone so me and him can spend some alone time together, this guy is a PEST, he's influenced my boyfriend somehow to move to another state with him so they could work together and leave me behind, this was a few months ago, they've known each other for years, he just resurfaced in his life again in may, ever since they moved back, they were gone 2 months, he's been coming by where me and my boyfriend live every single day or every other day picking him up, my boyfriend lived with him for a while after they moved back home, and he's tried ever since he moved back in with me to get him to come back, he acts like he's obsessed with him, and it's strange because this "man" is supposed to have an ex wife and 3 small children, my boyfriend moved in with him "again" almost 2 weeks ago after him and my mom got into a bad argument, I don't like his friend and I just want him out of our lives for good, he's hurting our relationship and he doesn't care at all, I've heard about the hot foot spells but I'm worried it may hurt mine and my boyfriends relationship somehow, his friend told my boyfriend I'm not welcome at his house, I'm so upset, I hate him, he acts like he's jealous when anyone else spends any time with him, and me and my boyfriend have a small baby together, there's something wrong with this picture, I'm starting to wonder if he's used a spell on him because he's lonely, I don't know where to start

Unread post by **Terra Rising** » Mon Nov 16, 2020 7:14 am

AirGoddess,

Welcome to the Lucky Mojo forum! I moved your post to this thread. I must ask that you do not create new topics in the forum. Instead, please use the search bar to find the correct thread for your question. If you read a through a thread and still have questions, please feel free to post using the Quick Reply on the bottom.

Please read through this thread to get some ideas. I think you are on the right track with Hot Foot. I also recommend using Fiery Wall of Protection products for your father and your family. Since you are working at a distance, you can anoint a gift to your father with the oil and it will protect him. This could be a necklace, watch or a picture of you and him.

Fiery Wall of Protection: https://www.luckymojo.com/fierywall.html

Hot Foot: https://www.luckymojo.com/hotfoot.html

Good Luck!

Unread post by **Terra Rising** » Mon Nov 16, 2020 8:57 am

Christy8730,

Hello and welcome! I moved your post to this thread on driving someone away from your lover. Welcome to the Lucky Mojo forum! I moved your post to this thread. I must ask that you do not create new topics in the forum. Instead, please use the search bar to find the correct thread for your question. If you read a through a thread and still have questions, please feel free to post using the Quick Reply on the bottom.

Some believe in karma but many workers like myself do not. I look to see if the work is justified and go from there. If it is, then proceed with Hot Footing. You could also use Banishing which I think is a bit lighter handed than Hot Foot. Separation is lighter still. If you do not see results with one product you can move on to the next level if you wish or just end right away with Hot Foot. It's up to you. I will say this work is based on contact magic. Burning a candle on him is great and all that but placing powder in his shoes and car is the way to go for serious results. Get the stuff on him! Throw down salt and pepper on the floor after he leaves and sweep it out the door while yelling and cussing the jerk's name telling him not to return.

It's very important that you leave all mention of your BF out of it. Do not say "my boyfriends friend" in the work. Do not get any of the products on your boyfriend's belongings or he may leave too. Please read through this thread for more ideas on how to work.

Hot Foot - https://www.luckymojo.com/hotfoot.html
Banishing - https://www.luckymojo.com/banishing.html

Good Luck!

Jennjenn · Unread post by **Jennjenn** » Sun Nov 22, 2020 10:37 pm

Hi my current boyfriend broke up with his ex gf/mother of his child over a year ago. How do I get her to move on and leave our relationship alone? She seems to want to meddle and cause problems with our relationship. It is starting problems in our relationship although he says I have nothing to worry about. I like using the candle ministry. Any idea what candle I would use? Thank you. Sorry if this is in the wrong category. I was searching for a bit. Thank you so much.

Unread post by **Terra Rising** » Mon Nov 23, 2020 6:51 am

Jennjenn,

Since they have a child together it would be very difficult to drive away the mother. You don't want to make him choose between his child and you either. You still have options though!

1. Work on making your relationship stronger. Love Me or Fires of Love candles burned at MISC once in a while would be great for strengthening your relationship.

2. Placing her in a freezer spell would help freeze her out of your relationship. You can also use I Can, You Can't on a figural candle dressed for her or sprinkle some sachet powder on her stuff. I do not see a MISC candle for this product.

3. Peaceful Home would be an excellent choice to burn. Having a stable, loving home is what most people want and will come back to. This will work to lessen arguments and keep the home a place he loves. If you are not living together, you can still use it because it will help him realize being with you is like a breath of fresh air. MISC has this candle available.

Best of luck.

Jennjenn · Unread post by **Jennjenn** » Mon Nov 23, 2020 5:48 pm

I would never want to drive her away from her son or put a wedge between parents.i was talking more of her finding someone new to be happy with so that she leaves our relationship alone and stops trying to start drama.

Unread post by **Terra Rising** » Tue Nov 24, 2020 1:04 pm

Jennjenn,

There are plenty of love spells that you can use. You would just work them in her name. It can be as simple as a Come To Me or Attraction candle lit for her at Missionary Independent Church with a petition for her to find a new lover. Please read this thread on attracting new love for more ideas: spells-to-attract-friendship-attract-ne ... -t283.html

Candles Available at MISC: http://www.missionaryindependent.org/ca ... -mojo.html

A moving candle spell would also be appropriate. You can use regular pillar candles or figural to represent her moving way from your BF and toward a new love. You can read more about them here: moving-candle-spells-figural-plain-ques ... t9265.html

Good Luck

OJF1959 · Unread post by **OJF1959** » Thu Mar 25, 2021 4:23 pm

Hello Friends,
I am looking for guidance in doing a strong spell to break up my daughter and her boyfriend that they never see each other again, i appreciate all your advise and guidance...I did try the lemon and nothing happened...thanks OJF

Unread post by **JayDee** » Fri Mar 26, 2021 10:10 am

OJF1959 ,

If you did a Lemon spell and it did not work, you could repeat it once more, then if nothing happens move on that spell will not work for you. Lucky Mojo does have a book on destroying relationships and a section of products great for breaking up.

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BHgirl333 · Unread post by **BHgirl333** » Fri Jul 23, 2021 7:15 pm

I think I made a mistake when I did the lemon spell this time.

When I was writing the name of the person who I wish to stay in a relationship with, I used red pen and when I saw that it didn't have enough ink, I wetted my fingertip with my own saliva and smudged it over his name. The rest I did as I always have done.

1) Here's my question, since I was trying to sour this person's relationship with a potential rival, whose photo was also in the lemon facing away from the other person, do you think since my saliva was over his name, I accidentally may have soured him towards me even though that was definitely not my intention?

2) If that's the case, how do I dispose of his photo and the lemon?

3) I'm not so worried about her photo. Can I burn it or bury it or drop it at crossroads?

4) Also if I were to dismantle this, I used his fingernail clipping, which is precious since I have so few, can I keep it for a remade spell?

Thank you all so much for your advice with this.

Unread post by **JayDee** » Sat Jul 24, 2021 4:46 am

BHgirl333 ,

1. Adding your personal concern to the lemon could cause him to also be sour to you. Often when a mistake is made like this I interpret it as a sign to the work.

2. Take it apart, burn the papers and sprinkle the ashes at a crossroad, discard the lemon.

3. See above.

4. You can use the nail clip still in the new work. I would redo the work just be more careful this time. I set everything up a head of time and do a dry run of the work, you would be surprised how many times I say " oh ya I forgot.." I even use my pen or pencil to make sure it works and have a second on hand.

JayDee

BHgirl333 · Unread post by **BHgirl333** » Sat Jul 24, 2021 2:45 pm

JayDee, thank you for your advice on dismantling and redoing the work. I have a question about dispersing ashes at crossroads. My understanding is one does it when they want to person to go separate ways. How does this affect the photo of my lover? If I burn his photo and then drop it at crossroads, wouldn't it then mean he goes away from me? Or does it mean he and the other woman go their separate ways? Before I do it, I want to make sure I don't make any mistakes this time. Thank you again so much.

Unread post by **JayDee** » Sat Jul 24, 2021 2:51 pm

BHgirl333,

The intention of this spell was to sour two people to break them up, not to bring and keep that person for you, though I am sure other work is being done to do that. I would spread the ashes at a crossroad so that they go opposite ways You can do at two different crossroads his at one, the other person at another, toss your lovers can be tossed at a crossroad in the east to bring him back and the lover to the west to leave.

JayDee

BHgirl333 · Unread post by **BHgirl333** » Sat Jul 24, 2021 6:19 pm

JayDee, I followed your advice and took the lemon apart. The photo papers almost deteriorated. I'm currently drying them so that they can be burned. I couldn't find his fingernail, as hard as I tried. Is there any work I can do to negate the souring effect this caused? I have Road Opener, Banishing,, Controlling, and Blockbuster Oils as well as Love Me, Come To Me, and ReconciliationOils, which I work separately.

I've never dealt with something like this and feel really stupid for making this mistake.

Any advice on how to negate the effect of me putting my saliva in the lemon and also not finding his fingernail?

Thank you so much again for all your advice.

Unread post by **JayDee** » Sun Jul 25, 2021 7:14 am

BHgirl333 ,

Don't be so hard on yourself, we all make mistakes in workings and learn from them. Being you canceled the work I think you should be fine. The intent was to sour them, but you did add yourself which runs the risk of that as well. If you still have the lemon wash it in ammonia that will remove anything and everything. Take a spiritual bath to cleanse yourself and start over. Continue the work you are doing to being the person to you. Best advise is to cleanse and start over, we all make mistakes, you went and fixed it, do not labor over it, do not stress over it, redo the work the proper way.

JayDee

Siber · Unread post by **Siber** » Tue Sep 07, 2021 10:28 am

After searching for options for several weeks now I came across a mention of your site on an Amazon review and am newly registered here as of today. I have spent the entire day reading and searching and have not really found anything that addresses my specific issue, not to mention I’m very very confused. I am completely inexperienced with root work and I am looking for some advice to get started in the right direction. My situation is a long drawn out bunch of drama so I will attempt to only add important details, if any further information is needed please ask.

My husband is involved with another woman whom he was in a past relationship with years before we met. The relationship between them at the time according to his daughter was toxic and she said she is surprised that one didn’t end up killing the other. The situation has been going on for approx. 1.5 years now that I am aware of, but it cycles on and off – it all started as far as I know around May of 2020.

I know who she is as I set up recording devices throughout the house to record anything that was said when I was not at home, she is local to our area. They communicate via text and probably via phone calls. I saw a text from her on his phone wherein she said “I hope you are not staying just because it’s easier or less expensive. I guess when you said you loved me it was a lie.” I assumed at that time it was over because there were no more texts found and shortly after that text I could tell that something had changed, he was less distracted/distant, and he was coming back to me emotionally more and more each day – that started around September 2020.

Things were great between us from September to May of 2021 when he just stopped talking to me and became distant once again. I asked him why and I was told things were not good between us, haven’t been for a long time, and that he couldn’t help the way he felt or didn’t feel (After a great trip to Florida).

I contacted an attorney reference a divorce. He asked me if we could just slow things down because he does love me. He again started coming back to me emotionally, but I didn’t show him as much interest this time around.

We have gone on 2 camping trips since then (his idea) that ended up being great. One of which was this past weekend (Labor Day). He behaved like the man I married all weekend – loving, attentive, interested, touchy, feely etc. It was the first time we have had sex in over a year. He has not been the man I married for many years, so I was over the moon.

Upon returning home I feel like there is again a distraction. Of course, I am assuming it is her once again. I am not sure if communication continues which is my dilemma in not knowing what to do.

What I am looking for is a spell that would dissolve any feelings they have for each other and cut any and all communication between them FOREVER. If they hated each other that would be even better.

I have yet to see an explanation of a spell that would take care of both issues. For example, the way I am understanding it is a breakup spell would not prevent them from being friends. And would it even work if they are not currently communicating? I do not wish any harm on her, do not wish for her to move (hot foot?) as she takes care of her elderly mother here.

This entire situation has affected my health (first time on antidepressants/anxiety meds) and the relationship with my son. My son won’t even speak to me because I refuse to leave. He knows I am not the type of person that would have put up with anything like this in my past. I am confused as to why I am not able to walk away this time except for the fact that I cannot get over my love for my husband. I have been married twice before and this is the first time I have ever felt that I just don’t want to exist without him, so I am seeking outside help. She is my only obstacle as she won’t leave him alone. He tries to walk away and she reaches out and reels him back in.

I would appreciate any recommendations that might help. Thank you!!

Unread post by **JayDee** » Tue Sep 07, 2021 2:42 pm

Siber,

First and foremost I am very sorry to hear about your situation and the hardship you have endured during this period. The Lucky Mojo Forum and Website is filled with thousands, if not more, of great advice, it can be hard at first, it's best probably to focus on one area while you learn.

AIRR Readers and Rootworkers: http://www.readersandrootworkers.org/wi ... ootworkers

You stated that the Breakup would not stop them from being friends, that is not the case, Breakup is used to ruin all relationships via love, friend, coworker, family.

There are many great Lucky Products that can assist you with ridding her, here are a few links with explanations.
Hotfoot to send her away running: https://www.luckymojo.com/hotfoot.html
Breakup to end a relationship: https://www.luckymojo.com/breakup.html
Stay With Me, keeps him with you: https://www.luckymojo.com/staywithme.html
I Dominate My Man to control him and keep him home: https://www.luckymojo.com/femaledomination.html
Cut And Clear, used to get over a person, to help you move on from a person if you decide to let it go: https://www.luckymojo.com/cutandclear.html
Books by Lucky Mojo that teach this work in detail, many to select from: https://www.luckymojo.com/luckymojopublishing.html

Since you are new to Hoodoo and have a complicated situation, I strongly suggest you contact an AIRR worker who can give a detailed reading on the situation, spell advice and even do the work for you.

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Unread post by **Miss Athena** » Tue Sep 07, 2021 2:43 pm

Hello Siber,

I'm so sorry you're going through this mess. You have come to the right place.

Your post was moved to the topic on driving away a bad person who is interfering with your relationship. We ask that you not start new topics like you had. You will find that we have nearly every topic already covered.

The reason you can't find one spell to cover multiple goals is because that's not how spells work. One of the necessary ingredients for spell success is focus, so keep your work single-minded to one goal. You can always layer on other spells for different but compatible goals.

I know that you don't want to physically drive her out of town, but you do want to driver out of your relationship. That is why this would be an appropriate thread for you to read the posts and advice within it.

Please read through the many posts in this topic and you will likely find spell advice that can help you. Since you are new to hoodoo, you could consider contacting a member of AIRR for either magical coaching on how to perform the spell yourself or to have them do the work for you. You can find qualified rootworkers here:
www.readersandrootworkers.org/

At a minimum, put this lady in a freezer spell to halt her momentum in interfering in your relationship. You can read about how to do that here:
https://forum.luckymojo.com/general-fre ... t8676.html

But do read through the posts here and if you then still have questions, feel free to ask us.

I hope this helps and good luck ridding yourself of her interference!

Siber · Unread post by **Siber** » Tue Sep 07, 2021 5:31 pm

JayDee Thank You for your reply and advice.

Miss Athena, my apologies for creating a new topic. Didn’t realize that is what I was doing. Thank You also for your reply and advice. Looks like I have some homework to do

Graveyardhag · Unread post by **Graveyardhag** » Sat Sep 18, 2021 1:45 am

Hello everyone, I am looking for some advice on what else I could do try to remove this person from someones life. She is absolutely awful and needs to go.

I got her gone earlier in the year, but she is back, in and out and I want her gone again.

Previously I did a vinegar jar and a freezer jar, and managed to lay some hot foot on the road in front of her house/ I also used banishing candles, break up powder near his car, and a moving candle spell. She was gone, had a new man etc etc.

But it didn't last and she is now back.

This time I have done: break up Vigil candle, replaced the freezer jar, lemon break up spell (deployed 3 days ago, left rotting for a few weeks) a new vinegar jar (tonight, large amounts of wax left on the lid) a hot foot jar spell into the river (deployed 6 weeks ago), 2 break up candle spells here at home (one currently burning as I type this), plus several candles to find her a new man or return to the one she was with earlier in the year.

I have also worked a blockbuster and a clarity on him regarding this.

She is in and out, still lying, still hurting him, still treating him badly. I was pretty sure she was gone for good, but something happened that had him upset today and she is back there yet again.

I still intend to do: Finish working and deploying the new vinegar jar. another moving candle spell. The work where you make the chilli pepper cigarettes with the photos and burn them to make them fight. I am going to try and lay hot foot in front of her house again - this isn't easy as she is quite often sitting out the front of her house no matter how late I go.

I would prefer to not lay break up stuff near his house and car this time as I am trying to draw him my way (which was working - until today)

So what else can anyone recommend I do to get rid of this woman once and for all?

Unread post by **catherineyronwode** » Fri Sep 24, 2021 5:02 pm

Wow, Graveyardhag --

When you do work, you really go all in!

I notice that you are deliberately avoiding hurting or cursing her, which i fully understand. You just want her GONE.

I can recommend two spells that have worked for me:

Mail an Enemy to Paris
Mail her to Paris (either Paris, France or Paris, Texas). For this you use her photo, name, birthdate, any personal concern you can get. You can also make a flat doll. Dress it with Hot Foot powder or smoke it in Hot Foor Incense, pray for her to go, and mail it to General Delivery in Paris. Do not put uyour return addresss on it. Wear gloves. Do not lick the stamp.

Float an Enemy Doll Downstream in a Bottle
Make a doll of her, stab it through with a needle (or don't, if you are lady-hearted) and place it in a bottle. Punch a small hole in the bottle lid, then fill the bottle with "the usual" and travel across a lake by boat or over a bridge -- and throw the bottle in the middle of the body of water. She will float downstream, taking on water, until she sinks, far from where you set her adrift. See the doll-in-a-bottle on the cover of "Bottle Up and Go!" -- there are several such spells in the book.

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Graveyardhag · Unread post by **Graveyardhag** » Sat Sep 25, 2021 5:18 am

Thank you Miss Cat! I do own the bottle up and go book.

Usually I'll do one or two things, and then wait it out, a bit of patience and it all usually comes good.
But this woman, ugh. Thought I had it sorted but it did not last and no one deserves the kind of behaviour she's pulling. I am not against hurting her, but I don't have too many of the harsher oils, and a bit foot is the harshest I have worked so far. Just never had a need to keep going. I have Banishing, hotfoot, separation, break up, confusion, inflammatory confusion and I think there may be a crossing oil as well somewhere.
But yes mostly I just want her gone.

You usually have to sign a declaration to send letters overseas here so I will have to look into if there's a way to do it from a post box without going in.
Otherwise I'm all for the second way. I believe I'll be making a dolly or two come Tuesday...

Thank you again!

Unread post by **JayDee** » Sat Sep 25, 2021 7:10 am

Graveyardhag,

Another way of doing this is sending the letter to a "dead address" one that no longer exist, or mail it to a fake address so it will always be lost and never be found.

JayDee

Unread post by **Naught1usMax1mus** » Fri Oct 01, 2021 1:41 pm

Okay here's my sitch -- my brother has just ' set the date' with a woman he's been with for some time, whose own family can't stand her

(I found out they put her up for adoption when she was young, she found her birth family and excused herself from coming to MY wedding (my wife hates her) on the pretense of visiting her relatives in TX, who themselves turns out basically invited her to drive herself back to the airport from what I heard).

She is a serious freak and I have very good justified reason to bust it up due to information I have just become privy to. I am reading all of your excellent ideas -- I want to do a triple threat Novena on her and want to tie them physically together.

I have an idea to do it based on the freak info I just learned, but want to know if red or black dressed thread/pearl cotton will do it.

I have other things planned and I definitely will get a reading first. All of your forum posts have been most helpful!

Mary

Unread post by **Naught1usMax1mus** » Fri Oct 01, 2021 2:13 pm

Forgot to add in time "the date" is 12/11 so I gotta hit it hard!

Mary

Unread post by **catherineyronwode** » Fri Oct 01, 2021 2:25 pm

Mary,

I think i am confused because after talking about breaking them apart, you also wrote, "I want to do a triple threat Novena on her and want to tie them physically together."

1) A novena to whom?

2) Why tie them together if desiring to bust them up?

Perhaps you are referencing the thread wrapping and unwrapping spell that Aura Laforest teaches. If so, that's the one where you spiral the thread up one candle across, and down the other, light the two candles, and when the thread burns through at the top (with you helping it if necessary), you unwind the candles, separate them and burn the threads, each in its own candle's flame.

That is a very good spell, but if that is not the one you meant, please clarify.

Unread post by **Naught1usMax1mus** » Sat Oct 02, 2021 2:12 pm

Hi Miss Cat -- yes that did sound confusing.

I was talking about the thread wrapping -- I meant binding the candles against her together, definitely not with my brother. Aura Laforest's method is what I did hear about and I will reach out about that.

I was just wondering if there was any help in binding Break-Up, Hot Foot and Do As I Say candles together physically with red thread.

Thank you, I hope that clarifies what I meant.
Mary

Unread post by **JayDee** » Sat Oct 02, 2021 2:27 pm

Naught1usMax1mus ,

Sounds like you want to tie the three candles together as a way of securing them to the same purpose and position. If symbolically it makes sense to you and seems to work then sure. My only concern is having them so close together is that the glasses will get hot touching one another and could effect the burn of the candle. Ie the inside where the candles are touching will be hotter than the outside and could change the burn. But if you are not concerned with the burn then yes do it.

JayDee

Unread post by **catherineyronwode** » Sat Oct 02, 2021 8:35 pm

Hi, Mary,

JayDee does have a point -- tying three glass candles together tightly with thread dressed with those oils might create an extremely hot burn, hot enough to crack the glass.

Burning candles in a triangle is super-traditional, but on a simple physics level, you do want to give them air.

I recommend making a triangle of salt, then inside that make a triangle of candles, tying each candle, but leaving a length of thread between them. Circle and knot the first candle, leave a length of thread, then the next candle, knotted, then a length of thread, and then the third candle, knotted, and a length of thread and back to the first candle.Sprad them apart by the lengths of thread, inside the triangle of salt.

Good luck.

Unread post by **patricia** » Thu Oct 07, 2021 6:02 pm

Good evening everyone.

Oh boy,

I just found this thread and I am so glad I did. Such good information.

Thank you all