Love Spell with Alcoholic Addict Angry Argumentative or Abusive Person

Unread post by **Mary Bee** » Wed Jan 23, 2013 5:30 am

If your ex is coming by your house and being aggressive, you need to get a restraining order on him so he can't bother you anymore. I know you don't have much love for the police right now, but you have to get their help first.

Settle your ticket either by paying it or going to court, then work on peace with your neighbors; clean your home from front to back with Chinese Wash and scrub the front steps with Fiery Wall of Protection crystals so no one can come near your home without your permission. Do some Money Drawing work to draw money to you so you can live. Look for social services and food pantries in your area so you can get emergency help.

You have power. You have options. Please claim your power and take action.

Peace,
Mary Bee

Unread post by **MissMichaele** » Wed Jan 23, 2013 11:31 pm

I can't improve on Mary Bee's advice except to recommend liberal use of King Solomon Wisdom and Cast Off Evil products.

Even though your neighbors brought the police down on you, they may have taken you out of harm's way. For them, I'd recommend nothing stronger than a tea of Bay Leaves (to keep them out of your business) mixed with Peace Water. Sprinkle it where they'll have to step in it.

Good luck and good magic,

Miss Michaele

blue · Unread post by **blue** » Sun Mar 10, 2013 4:01 pm

Is there a spell I can use to get my boyfriend to contribute financially to "our" situation?

Here's the background...I fell IN LOVE with this man's personality about 4 years ago. Decided last year to start a "come to me" honey jar..and it worked! This man is almost perfect. He's really one of the most amazing people I have ever met....HOWEVER...his financial situation sucks! He works in the music industry and he gets paid in lump sums pretty sporadically. I've already done a money honey jar for him, which seems to be working...it was only maybe a month or two ago that I did it. But I am curious if there are any spells I can do to get him to willingly contribute to "our" situation.

I have 3 children that love and adore him, and the feelings are mutual. We do not live together, but he's here maybe 2 weeks out the month..sometimes 3. And we are actively talking about marriage and buying a house together. But my money is more consistent than his, and it seems as though I am always the one doing the spending...PLEASE help me. I love this man, my kids do too, but if he can't contribute financially I may have to cut and clear him and be single.

Unread post by **aura** » Mon Mar 11, 2013 7:43 am

Hi blue,

in the page on honey jars in HITAP, there's a spell on getting child support from a child's daddy here: http://www.luckymojo.com/honeyjar.html#childsupport. Although this is not quite your situation, a jar worked for your situation could be quite similar.

In the product department, seriously consider working with Pay Me and Cleo May which are targeted toward getting money.

No doubt other more experienced workers will also have some excellent advice for you.

Blessings and success in your work.

Unread post by **jwmcclin** » Tue Mar 12, 2013 9:09 pm

aura posted exactly what I would recommend. Both of the items are tried and true. I have used them on several occasions for getting more funds....willingly!!!!

Conjureangel · Unread post by **Conjureangel** » Sun Mar 17, 2013 9:33 am

I am in a friends with benefits situation where my friend admits thst he holds back to avoid closeness, yesterday he told me that he was badly hurt by his first girlfriend, she broke up with him and he never heard from her again. I feel that this has damaged him and although he does not want to be with her he never got closure so now he has convinced himself that he is happy to be committment free until he us ready to get married. How can I help him to heal but only in order for him to be in s relationship with me? We willbe spending a weekend together in a few weeks so I will be able to lay tricks, any advice is welcome.

tboy1977 · Unread post by **tboy1977** » Sun Mar 31, 2013 12:00 am

I thought I was the only one with my unique problem, but I see now......I wish I would have read this thread; Ms. Cat spoke to me here. 500k men that a compatible. Get to it!

jojo3456 · Unread post by **jojo3456** » Sat Aug 17, 2013 9:12 pm

Greetings. I'm new to this forum and i'm seeking assistance with an issue that has arisen in my marriage.My spouse of 13 years became unemployed a year ago (from a job he held for 28 yrs) and has not worked since nor has he looked for work.

He seems content to take me to work and then stay online everyday while i work. Other than that hes an awesome spouse and i love him dearly.

I've tried being patient & supportive of depression because of it but enough is enough. i need to get his tush working quickly as i dont make enough and we are sinking.

I'm not sure the best way to accomplish my goal. Since he doesnt seem inclined to put forth effort on his own behalf, i thought about a skull candle and road opener but i dont know colors or proper oils for this situation.

Any suggestions would be appreciated.

Thank you for your time

jojo3456

Unread post by **jwmcclin** » Sat Aug 17, 2013 9:13 pm

Lucky Mojo has a lot of 'special' work to get your spouse to work. Here is a list of job getting spells that you are personalize for your needs (http://www.luckymojo.com/spells/green/j ... pells.html)

Unread post by **Mary Bee** » Sun Aug 18, 2013 5:09 am

Get a Steady Work Spell kit and use it; if he won't take a spiritual bath, use the bath crystals to spike his laundry; sprinkle the bath crystals in the rinse cycle. Also, use some oil or powders to lightly dust the insides of his shoes so he'll be drawn to a new job.

Please also make sure he sees a doctor; it's common for people to get depressed after losing a long-held job and he could be suffering from depression and too low-energy and unmotivated to get a job.

Good luck!

Unread post by **BrotherChristopher** » Sun Aug 18, 2013 6:20 pm

Depending upon where you live, there might be free or low cost resources for mental health and counseling. If he is dealing with depression from having lost his long term employment, he might need the assistance to change his thinking around, which will help change his behavior.

While he is getting help, a white skull candle with clarity oil can help him clear his mind, and see his situation clearly and might help break the depression.

Steady Work and Crown of Success to help him get the job and keep it.

You might also want to focus on your personal financial support and looking as to how you might increase that. You could also use steady work and crown of success for your self to get a raise and/or a promotion, and money draw with money stay with me that might create alternate streams of income to support you. Nothing major just a side income that could be stimulated and brought around.

skyme715 · Unread post by **skyme715** » Wed Jul 30, 2014 12:21 am

Hi,

My boyfriend admitted he's been smoking weed almost all the time we were together. I knew he had before we got together, but was naive to think he stopped. As usual, in the beginning of our relationship everything was peachy and maybe then he didnt. But the past 1.5 years we were arguing a lot, and like he says now "we lost our relationship long time ago".

I have a candle burned for reconciliation and healing of our relationship with a rootworker from AIRR. I also ordered a Cast Off Evil canlde to be burned for him at MISC to get rid of his desire for pot. My question is what else can I do? Honey jar doesn't seem to be appropriate to this problem. Perhaps, to sweeten his thoughts that pot is disgusting? I am planning to cleanse our house and myself with Chinese wash, but there is a lesser chance I will be able to use it on him.

But I'm thinking of the Healing oil. Would that help if I put the healing oil on his temples with the intent to heal him from the addiction?

P.S. I looked on the forum on a subject. Cast Off Evil products are mentioned but nothing about the power of healing oil for this case.
Thank you.

Unread post by **natstein** » Wed Jul 30, 2014 12:25 pm

Hello Skyme715,

I think that is a good use of Healing oil. A combination of that with Cast of Evil may work well also. Sweetening work will help make him act nicer so you do not fight and argue of that is a problem. If you have not seen it already Cat has a page about Cast Off Evil products that talks about dealing with addictions. She says the spell work is a long term process but she gives you a good method to do the work. http://www.luckymojo.com/castoffevil.html

hope this is helpful,

Nathen

Unread post by **aura** » Thu Jul 31, 2014 4:59 am

Hi Skyme715,

In addition to natstein's advice, I've merged your post into the existing thread on dealing with a lover that has substance abuse issues. You'll find lots of ideas and approaches to consider as well as others' experience dealing with the same problem. Whatever you do, also make sure to take care of yourself - since whether or not he quits the drugs (which are his prior mistress) - you remain and deserve respect, care and stability.

Blessings.

skyme715 · Unread post by **skyme715** » Thu Jul 31, 2014 11:24 am

Thank you natstein, for confirmation about the healing oil. Also I looked again at the spell you mention in more detail this time, and it might be just what i need. Thanks.

Thank you aida, for your kind words and merging. I will definitely look, but the other posts I saw so far during my search on the forum were about meth and heavy stuff like that.

Weed users think since weed is a plant, it is only natural to do so (vs chemical drugs). Plus it's getting legalized everywhere. Maybe it's becoming the new normal? It was already normal once before Nixon (I think) decided to make an enemy out of it (cause he had to have something to fight against). So even though for me it's a no-no, Im becoming on the fence how to react to it. Maybe I should be more easy going and not so uptight about it?

*rhetorical question*

Twindnature · Unread post by **Twindnature** » Thu Sep 18, 2014 4:50 pm

Thank you so much again, Nathen!
I think I've heard of that before.

I just now noticed the title of this area and it has stirred some ideas. Is it at all possible to utilize someone's addiction in a love spell. Say they aren't violent but still, addicted to alcohol and/or other substances. Is there a way to appropriate these desires. cravings, to a person?

I would love it if Miss Cat could please way in on this as well, if she weren't too busy.

I'm always just awed by the things she says and shares. She's become a bit of an inspiration to me, personally. <333

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Fri Sep 19, 2014 8:52 pm

Hello, Twindnature,

Yes, you can do that. I have done this before for a client that wanted her husband back. I put cigarettes and alcohol near her figural candle and then brought his figural candle closer to hers with the moving candle spell

Take care and wishing you success

Twindnature · Unread post by **Twindnature** » Sat Sep 20, 2014 3:46 pm

Thank you so much, Miss Aida!
I'm very grateful for all of the help that you give!
<3

Unread post by **JayDee** » Sat Sep 20, 2014 3:57 pm

Twindnature

remember you are calling on the spirt of the person and using what the spirit loves is an easy way to help you. When crafting a work its always good to know who you are working on, meaning, I would not do domination work on a strong willed person, I would more likely sweeten them.. Also people have things they like using them (like attracts like) helps with the work. Even when working with spirits we often give them things of their liking from the physical world. My Grandma loved sugar and sweetes, my Grandpa loved to smoke a cig, those are things I would give them as a gift for working and helping me.

Blessings!

Mysticmama4 · Unread post by **Mysticmama4** » Thu Nov 06, 2014 9:03 pm

Hello all, I am a Christian woman married to a Muslim man. Our marriage is good except he insists I wear a "hijab" (head/neck covering). He says just as Mary the Blessed Mother wore a shroud, I should at least wear a head covering. I don't mind to wear one while in prayer, but I don't want to wear it all other times.

My mom hates him specifically for this reason and part of the reason I don't wear one is she would never talk with me...Our relationship would be strained and I'm very close with her.

I should be working a honey jar on them to get along, but what can I do to get my husband to change his mind about the hijab? It's a constant issue.

Thanks all for your help.

Blessings

Unread post by **catherineyronwode** » Thu Nov 06, 2014 11:22 pm

Well, Mysticmama4, you just may have asked the wrong person. I fought long and hard for equality -- for my black friends, for my gay friends, for women's rights -- and i would not be inclined to even waste a drop of good honey on a man who insists that he has the right to dictate how you dress.

Your mother and i are on the same page. Ditch him.

A hijab is okay for any woman who wants to wear one, but that guy crossed the line when he tried to force it on you. That's not cool. It's abuse.

Get out before he takes away further liberties you now enjoy. Equality means negotiation, not dictatorial rulership.

Mysticmama4 · Unread post by **Mysticmama4** » Fri Nov 07, 2014 12:53 pm

Hi Catherine, no way did I ask the wrong person...I was hoping to get a reply from you! I love the boards and practitioners on here... you are so wise and I am finally getting tired of doing sweetening work on someone who just may be not worth the effort. So sad I was trying to deny it for a while...tolerating the abuse, I want to be peaceful and free. Looks like I will be ordering some LM products to help boost my confidence to just leave. I appreciate your honest answer-thank you.
Blessings.

Anaisp26 · Unread post by **Anaisp26** » Wed Mar 04, 2015 5:37 pm

Hello everyone, I am new in the forums but I have long known of Lucky Mojo! I am seeing someone and we are mutually really interested in each other, I am trying to give things some time to develop as we go along. But there is just one thing I am not too happy about and that is his occupation. He works as a bartender, I have absolutely no issue with bartenders nor do I think it's wrong. But to be honest, his nightlife style gets in between us. He is young, was in college, strong, very capable of having a more stable employment if he were to DECIDE looking elsewhere.

What can I do to influence him into thinking about leaving the nightlife behind? When it comes to magic I would actually be willing to work and do anything much more stronger, is there anything to close his roads when it comes to his current employment, to push him on to taking into consideration other opportunities?

Unread post by **catherineyronwode** » Wed Mar 04, 2015 7:49 pm

I am merging this into the "get a job" thread because, although he already has a job (good for him) it is not a gob that is copacetic with your values and life=plans.

Anaisp26 · Unread post by **Anaisp26** » Thu Mar 05, 2015 8:18 pm

Thank you Catherine! I really hope someone can help me out.

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Thu Mar 05, 2015 10:15 pm

Hello, Anaisp26,

Please read the posts here and then afterwards, if you have any questions, please don't hesitate to ask

Take care and good luck

Anaisp26 · Unread post by **Anaisp26** » Thu Mar 05, 2015 11:15 pm

Hello Miss Aida! Thank you for your reply. I have read the posts on here and I do have some questions. I think that what Conjure Ali mentioned might be what I need, a skull candle and influence work. But it's the first time I face myself with this particular desire about having someone quit a job or get fired from a job. I don't know exactly how to go about it.

Please let me know any suggestions, I would like to order from Lucky Mojo any products for this particular goal.

I really wish I could just close his roads in regards to his current employment preferences so that he can't work in anything that has to do with nightclubs.

Unread post by **Ms Melanie** » Sat Mar 07, 2015 5:32 am

Hi Anaisp26,

You stated you wanted to influence him to be more motivated to find a better line of work, So Influence him.
I have posted a link that will get you started: www.luckymojo.com/influence.html

Good Luck!

Unread post by **catherineyronwode** » Sat Mar 07, 2015 9:00 pm

Anaisp26 --

There are two lines of sell work here -- one to close his roads to nightclub work, the other to open his roads to better employment.

You will need to do BOTH. Either one withut the other will prove ineffective.

caligirl00 · Unread post by **caligirl00** » Sun May 22, 2016 12:33 am

Hello there, I have a boyfriend who has a big family that likes to drink and be stupid all the time. Every time he gets an invite he doesn't take me with him because he knows how much it bothers me that he has no limit to his alcohol. I've tried asking him to stop going out with them so much because sometimes he doesn't even come home. They drink and drive and think it's perfectly fine to do.

Is there anything I can do to make him stop going out and drinking so much?

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Sun May 22, 2016 10:05 pm

Hello, caligirl00,

I would perform 2 spell kits:

Cast off Evil for his drinking http://www.luckymojo.com/spell-cast-off-evil.html

Stay With me: http://www.luckymojo.com/spell-stay-with-me.html

And work with some stay at home products: http://www.luckymojo.com/staywithme.html

I hope this helps

Wishing you the best

caligirl00 · Unread post by **caligirl00** » Sun May 29, 2016 3:11 pm

Hi Miss Aida,

Thank you so much for replying back. I will definitely look into these and hope that they work. I really hope I get a good outcome because I can not stand him going out with his family and drinking all the time. This last time he went out I found some condemns in his pants and according to him he has no idea where they came from. I don't want to be the bad person and separate him and his family but it's his cousins who cause this by inviting him out all the time.

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Mon May 30, 2016 7:33 pm

Hello, caligirl00 ,

So strange that you say this.

yesterday, 2 different male friends of mine stated that if they ever got caught cheating, they would deny everything.

It was interesting because one person (who doesn't know the other) said this to me yesterday morning. One said it to me last night.

Now, I'm reading this....

Just food for thought.

Please take care of yourself

lavender888 · Unread post by **lavender888** » Fri Jun 24, 2016 8:30 am

I've tried a little spellwork. Last week my boyfriend left me after almost a year, coming clean with a weekend drug addiction, and saying he didn't want me part of it, and all.

I don't know if it's a sign, but yesterday he finally read my message, tho he was adamant about he has to leave me, and he still loves me. That it was the hardest thing for him to ever do.
So I'm not sure if
that's movement, or really what kind of spell I need.

The amount of heartbreak on my part is unbearable.

Advice on what I should do?

Unread post by **Sister Jean** » Fri Jun 24, 2016 9:15 am

Hello lavender888,

I merged your topic with this thread, I think if you scroll up through it you'll see people who are dealing with similar problems.

I'm so sorry this has happened to you and that you're hurting. In the past, I've been exactly where you are, and I understand the special kind of hurt that comes with being dumped by someone who's addicted to drugs. It can feel like a twofold betrayal.

And what I learned is there was only so much I could do to help him. As much as I wanted to make him into a drug-free person, in the end, the choice to get clean was his and his alone. He had to find that motivation in himself, and in the meantime, there was no way he could be a good partner to me, because he was "cheating" on me with drugs. His addiction was something he had to get medical help for, and nobody was going to help him but him. Just food for thought.

That being said, if you want to pray for him and help him cast off this addiction, I'd recommend working a Cast Off Evil spell kit on his behalf:

http://www.luckymojo.com/spell-cast-off-evil.html

You can also submit a prayer at the Crystal Silence League website for free: http://crystalsilenceleague.org/prayerrequests.html

I'd also recommend getting a reading from a reader at AIRR, so you can get an idea if the two of you will be able to get back together:

http://www.readersandrootworkers.org

In the meantime, get a solid support system together for yourself, and use King Solomon's Wisdom, Clarity and Healing products to heal from these hurts and help you see the situation clearly and wisely.

http://www.luckymojo.com/kingsolomonwisdom.html

http://www.luckymojo.com/clarity.html

http://www.luckymojo.com/healing.html

Good luck to you, and take care of yourself.

mizznana002 · Unread post by **mizznana002** » Thu Dec 22, 2016 8:31 pm

hey everyone,

Had a quick question and posted here because i wasn't sure what topic fit this question. Whats are the effects of smoking weed when it comes to hoodoo/magic/spirituality? does it spiritually get u out of balance? does it help u connect 2 ur spirit guides and or magic more? does it make u more vulnerable 2 psychic/spiritual/magical attack? is it a no no or a yes yes wen it comes to magic? i've heard different things from different workers and spiritualist and honestly it has me confused because I'm getting completely different answers every time. i figured i'ld ask on the forum because of my experiences and the trust i have in advice i've gotten in the forum and the root worker i usually seek counsel from(found her on airr)

THANX

Unread post by **Miss Aida** » Thu Dec 22, 2016 9:51 pm

Hello, mizznana002,

That can't be answered on the forum for legal reasons.

Sorry

Rose_joy · Unread post by **Rose_joy** » Thu Sep 20, 2018 11:23 pm

I have a situation where my lover started getting angry and angry.

And today we have law enforcement involved and in court. We have both reported to cops but no charges are filed.

I want all the negativity to go away and misunderstanding to clear. I want to have him back, as I know we are great together when we are both aligned and on same page.

It's been 1 month since we were physical....

Can this be saved after so much negativity being generated?

I need strong spell to remove negativity, reunite, commitment, and being nice.

Unread post by **heidiroseholton** » Fri Sep 21, 2018 6:40 am

Hi Rose_joy,

I'm so sorry you are going through this. I've been in a similar situation and it can be very scary and stressful to watch someone you care about start acting out. Anger is a powerful emotion. It might be a good idea for you both to seek counseling with a therapist who specializes in anger management. Your partner could have some underlying issues or even a chemical imbalance that he needs to address before you can move forward with your relationship.

For root work, I would suggest doing a thorough cleansing on yourself and your home to get all that negativity cleared out. Then, I would start burning peaceful home incense on a regular basis and begin working a honey jar on your partner. That should get the ball rolling on sweetening up the relationship and your home environment. After this, you can reassess the situation and decide what to do next.

Best of luck to you both!

Rose_joy · Unread post by **Rose_joy** » Mon Sep 24, 2018 12:08 am

Hi Heidiroseholton,

Thank you so much.

Unfortunately, I have no control over if he will see a therapist or look into his anger management.

We don’t live together and just got out of divorces from ex partners just 1 year back. When our relationship was discreet all was well, as soon as it came in public eye all started folding.

His ex wife is very religious and I just wonder if she might to caused issues, or he has 3 teenage daughters who may not have like their dad being close to anyone else than their mom. These are just guesses.

It just sad to see things have gone so out of control with his parnoia of getting hurt...when I am not doing anything at all to make him think in such a way. He has a lot of outside influences and I don’t know how to make him see that I am not going to hurt him.

I have started some clensing baths with epson salt+white vinger+van van oil few drops + clarity oil few drops. I will do this bath for 21 days. I also burned some blue sage with dragon blood in the house. My ex husband was still living in the house and has finally moved out, so I wanted to clean the vibration of the home.

I wont be able to see my lover/bf until 5th Nov...I started a sugar jar, and buring candle on it every sunday, Tuesday and friday. All candles have burned clean with little to so resitue at the bottom.

I am keeping my fingers crossed!! I have offered sprite that I will serve to help anyone for love spells for whole year for free, if he returns to me in love, harmony and commitment.

I am also going to make some bath salts for women at YWCA, as a gesture of gratitude to universes. I want to make as mamy people I can feel better, so I get the blessing and lift off the negativity from my life in general.

I also, read tarot cards and a lot of other Divination, never asked anyone to pay. However, I am unable to read them for myself...too many emotions!!

If I can help anyone please let me know.

Blessing and may universe bring you all you desire in hurry!!

Unread post by **heidiroseholton** » Mon Sep 24, 2018 6:37 am

Rose_joy,
It sounds like you are doing all the right things! I’ll be praying for you and your situation and hope you have a positive encounter on Nov 5th!

Wolfoflite · Unread post by **Wolfoflite** » Mon Nov 05, 2018 7:23 pm

Something has been done to my boyfriend.

He keeps arguing with me for no reason. He no longer calls daily. He keeps bringing up old issues and holding onto anger about them. He also says I do not love him.

I have done a peace working for him and the relationship. It worked for a few days, then he went back to arguing.

What can I do?

Unread post by **JayDee** » Tue Nov 06, 2018 12:44 pm

Wolfoflite,

I would look into a honey jar to sweeten him to you, and a spiritual cleansing of you ( bath) and your house ( wash it down with chinese floor wash).

Honey jar: http://www.luckymojo.com/honey-jar-spel ... ve-me.html
Chinese wash: http://www.luckymojo.com/chinese-wash.html
Honey jars on the forum: general-honey-sugar-sweet-jar-questions ... t5536.html

If you think you are crossed you can do an uncrossing spell kit: http://www.luckymojo.com/spell-uncrossing.html

Brea · Unread post by **Brea** » Wed Nov 14, 2018 7:34 am

Hello all, my husband lost his job in January of 2015. He has not worked since. We have applied to literally thousands of jobs on line and had his resume and linked in profile professionally done.

He has gotten a few face to face interviews and several phone interviews. Despite the fact that he could easily do the jobs and is highly qualified they always decide to “ continue their search.” They have never given any reason why he wasn’t selected and his head hunters are baffled. (He had a great white collar professional job for 15 years then was recruited to go with the new co... was with them three years then downsized.)

I fear deep inside he doesn’t want to work and that is sabotaging his opportunities. Feedback is he interviews extremely well, is professional, insightful, well dressed etc.

Not working is not an option! We are currently in foreclosure and need money now!

I want to get help with spell work to find him a great job VERY far away from me. He is a horrible slob and very stressful to live with.

I would love to have one of the many places he has applied call and hire him. Preferably in Florida or South Carolina where he has family.

Any suggestions on how to get a job for someone who doesn’t want to work?

Any ideas are appreciated.

Unread post by **Dr Darensbourg** » Wed Nov 14, 2018 8:16 am

Hey Brea,

If what you say about him not wanting to work is true then chère, you're going to have your work cut out for you. Bible says a man that doesn't work doesn't eat..lets start here:

You say he's very qualified and gets good reviews from the interviews, there's a possibility he's jinxed. My first recommendation would be to get a reading done to see exactly what thebpriblem is. You could try our partners at AIRR or Hoodoo Psychics
www.readersandrootworkers.org
www.hoodoopsychics.com

Readings are essential to properly diagnose the condition or the reason you guys are experiencing this and I would highly recommend it. If for some reason you choose to forefit the reading process then i would begin with spiritual cleansing.

Have him take a spiritual bath with luckymojo uncrossing or jinx killer bath crystals. Seep them into hot water allowing it to cool down to lukewarm temperature. After taking a normal shower or bath, take the seeped tea and perform a pour over bath and bathe the body downward to remove any crossed conditions.

Afterwards, you'll want to do the same thing with luckymojo "look me over" bath crystals only this time you'll want to bathe upward to draw in these influences. Air dry and have him dress in clean clothing.

You will also want to also purchase the oil and sachet powdered forms of Look Me Over, I Can You Can't, and John The Conqueror. He can anoint himself upward with these oils and dust himself with the powedwers or you can sprinkle or blow them on him.

With the powdered form of the product, dust every copy of his resumés before handing them out.

I would also write out a petition detailing consicesly exactly the job (position or type) and burn underneath a Steady Work candle and/or a candle dedicated to St Joseph the Worker dressed with appropriate oils. I personally like burning them both together.

As far as him not wanting to work, you must know the reason why. If it is mild or clinical depression or something to that effect then St Dymphne may be of some aid. If it is out of laziness or something then you may want to set lights on his behalf to help motivate him.

Good luck!

http://www.luckymojo.com/bath-uncrossing.html
http://www.luckymojo.com/lookmeover.html
http://www.luckymojo.com/icanyoucant.html
http://www.luckymojo.com/oil-john-the-conqueror.html
http://www.luckymojo.com/candle-steady-work.html
http://www.luckymojo.com/candle-saint-joseph.html

Brea · Unread post by **Brea** » Thu Nov 15, 2018 9:42 pm

Thank you so much Dr. Keith! I have someone look me over and steady work oils. What do you think of adding a little I Dominate my man? I need him to stop procrastinating. I also need him to start cleaning up after himself . It’s hard to do spiritual work when he has trashed the house. I also have some compelling products. Very eager to get started. Thank you for your suggestions!

Unread post by **Dr Darensbourg** » Fri Nov 16, 2018 2:15 am

Brea,

You are very welcome!

I think that "I dominate my man" is a very good product for this. At a time like this, you probably need control over the household. I also agree that "compelling" oil would be a good option as well. It will work to force him to do what he knows he should be doing in the first place.

Plainjane · Unread post by **Plainjane** » Sun May 10, 2020 6:36 am

I'm looking for a spell that I can do to make my boyfriend do right. He can't hold down a job and he keeps getting into trouble with law enforcement and living an unstable lifestyle. He really loves me but something in him just keeps leading him down the wrong path. He's too trusting in other people and this constantly gets him hurt or he ends up hurting others. He's very talented and I know he could become something great but I fear that if I don't take control and get him on the right track then he will either end up in a situation he can't get out of or something worse.

coastwitch · Unread post by **coastwitch** » Mon May 11, 2020 9:08 pm

Plainjane,

You might think this a bit harsh, but I would get a reading on him and you, to see if the relationship has any future.

Hoodoo can't fix personality flaws like those you describe ... "can't hold down a job ... keeps getting into trouble with law enforcement ... living an unstable lifestyle ... something in him just keeps leading him down the wrong path ... he will either end up in a situation he can't get out of or something worse." This sounds like a serious mental or medical problem that may require therapy. Checking into if he is abusing alcohol or drugs is also a good idea.

A blessing or healing spell would be a start, I guess. Try these pages for spells:

http://luckymojo.com/blessing.html

http://luckymojo.com/healing.html

Plainjane · Unread post by **Plainjane** » Wed May 13, 2020 3:14 pm

Coastwitch,

He has a mental illness. He takes his medication but once he starts a medication not long after he's been on it it stops working. So he checks himself in for mental health treatment and stays until they release him. They either up his dosage or lower it and he goes through the same thing all over again. He just recently talked them into giving him a different medication. He thought it worked great in the hospital but to me it made him off. Like his mind was racing and then he would get overly emotional or start laughing out of no where. Which he's never done with or without medication.

I've grown increasingly concerned because one of his aunts practices WiCCA or something like that. I'm not sure but I feel she or another family member or even possibly himself could've done some kind of spell that was either intentionally or unintentionally backfired on him.

I had a relationship reading done several months ago by two different readers. They both said the same things. That we would remain together and have children. They both picked up on his problems. One of the readers said I would have to help him with his problems but didn't say how to help him.

coastwitch · Unread post by **coastwitch** » Wed May 13, 2020 4:20 pm

Plainjane,

I see. I had felt that, which is why I wrote, "This sounds like a serious mental or medical problem that may require therapy."

For the mental illness, I cannot prescribe. The moderators here will also not prescribe. We are not medical doctors.

However, about Wicca, I do have something to say. It appears that you think that "WiCCA or something like that" was used by his aunt or another family member or that even he himself "could've done some kind of spell that was either intentionally or unintentionally backfired on him."

I am sorry, but this makes no sense to me and I will explain why,

1) Wicca is a religion, not a form of spell-casting. In its creed is the promise to do NO HARM. Wicca believers often state that they follow the "Three-Fold Law" which means that everything you send out comes back to you times three. Therefore cursing would be horrible to a Wiccan, because the curse would not "backfire." it would come back three times as bad. So you can rule out a Wiccan who is a true believing Wiccan from cursing anyone.

2) The idea that he would curse himself is not impossible. After all, people do commit suicide, which is the same thing only on the material plane. If he cursed himself, it would be part of his mental illness. I would stay far, far away from that kind of energy if I were you.

3) The idea that spells backfire is not a law of nature. I have seen it more often in books and TV shows than in real life. It is a lot more rare than most outsiders think.

4) You can't "intentionally backfire" a spell on someone. You can reverse a bad spell back to the sender, who probably deserves it. Also the Universe, Goddess, God, Nature, or Karma (according to what you believe in your religion) may protect the innocent and send curses back if they are not justified. This is what Wiccans are talking about in the Three-Fold Law, and why cursing is not a Wiccan practice.

This is pretty off-topic and I may get dinged for going sideways here, but I had to jump in to defend Wicca from a bad reputation.

I don't think that spells will help your young man until he gets better mental health treatment. However, I did give you links to spells for blessing and healing. You did not say if you had looked them over or found them useful, so I will repeat the links:

http://luckymojo.com/blessing.html

http://luckymojo.com/healing.html

Unread post by **catherineyronwode** » Tue Aug 10, 2021 3:50 pm

Sometimes when working love or friendship spells on an Alcoholic, Addicted, Angry, Argumentative, or Abusive person, it helps to have a magical coach or spiritual guidance counsellor to assist you in setting realistic goals, hear your concerns, and give you spell-casting advice along the way.

If you want to hire a reader or a rootworker to teach you a spell or work as your coach, start with these two sites and look them over:

The Association of Independent Readers and Rootworkers (AIRR)
http://readersandrootworkers.org

Hoodoo Psychics at 1-888-4-HOODOO (HP)
http://hoodoopsychics.com

AIRR and Hoodoo Psychics have their own Facebook pages and you can follow their feed by going to these page and LIKING them.

AIRR Facebook page:
https://www.facebook.com/ReadersandRootworkers

HP Facebook page:
https://www.facebook.com/HoodooPsychics

There are two pages at the AIRR site that are also very helpful if you are looking for a reputable root doctor:

Suggestions For Clients
http://www.readersandrootworkers.org/wi ... or_Clients

Questions to Ask Your Reader, Rootworker, or Conjure Doctor
http://www.readersandrootworkers.org/wi ... ure_Doctor

Also, to avoid scammers, read the HITAP page on

"Readers, Rootworkers, and Black Gypsies"
http://luckymojo.com/blackgypsies.html

and the AIRR page on

"Fake Psychics"
http://www.readersandrootworkers.org/in ... e_Psychics

Good luck!

Sparklegirl · Unread post by **Sparklegirl** » Fri Aug 13, 2021 9:37 am

I looked up this topic to see if I could find help for a friend of mine. She's in love with a guy who is argumentative and angry a lot of the time. I have seen it too. He picks fights with her, even in front of friends. I told her to just break up, but she wants a spell to calm him down. I know about sugar and honey spells from Deacon Millett's book, and I showed her how to use sugar to sweeten him, but she also wants me to help her with sneaky tricks. She is totally new to this and basically I am coaching her. I am not a professional and this is the first time I am trying to help someone else.

I asked the pendulum if it is a curse and it said no. I asked if someone else was on his mind and it said no again. Then I asked if it was money, and it came up yes. When I relayed that to her, she confirmed that the company he works for is laying off people and he is worried he may lose his job.

Long story short, I thought of Peaceful Home Oil, Tranquility Oil, Steady Work Oil, and Money House Blessing Oil as a blend, to add that to bath products or a few drops in the laundry. Or maybe bath crystals for the laundry?

What would be a good prayer? She's a Christian, but doesn't go to church.

Am I on the right track? He's never been like this in the past. They have been together for four years, with no kids. He has never laid hands on her and he is not into drugs.

Thanks for any advice.

Unread post by **JayDee** » Fri Aug 13, 2021 7:52 pm

Sparklegirl,

You are on the right track with your work, your friend can take a spiritual bath, save a cup of the water and add it to the rinse cycle of the bedding to make him more loving, she can dissolve the bath crystals in water, pray Psalm 23 over and the desire for him to be sweet and calm, then add that also to his laundry rinse cycle. I strongly encourage the honey jar as well, a sneaky trick is to use the honey from the jar and use it to cook with, then replace the honey which is used.

If you don't already have it, this book on honey jars should help you.

BOO-GRI-HHSS
Hoodoo Honey and Sugar Spells: by Deacon Millett
$12.00

* The Right Sweetener For Every Purpose
* How to Fix A Sugar Bowl for Love or Influence
* How To Make Your Own Sweet Baths and Sugar Scrubs
* Recipes for Edible Sweet Conjure Cookery
* How to Prepare Honey Jars with Candles and Oils

In this classic book, Deacon Millett of Four Altars Gospel Sanctuary presents full, complete, and authentic instructions on every kind of sugar, honey, apple, onion, molasses, and syrup spell you can imaging. Deacon Millett is a Reconciliation and Love Spell specialist, and the incredible opening section filled with the Deacon's recipes for making your own sugar scrubs, sweet bowl spells, and honey baths! Plus, he has included an extensive "Frequently Asked Questions" section, gleaned from the pages of the Lucky Mojo Forum -- with incredible answers by our intrepid moderators and members of the Association of Independent Readers and Rootworkers.

CONTENTS

Hoodoo, Conjure, Rootwork 5
What Hoodoo Is Not 5
The Right Sweetener For Every Purpose 7
A Spoonful of Sugar 8
Starting Simple 9
Name-Papers and Petition-Papers 10
Fixing A Sugar Bowl 11
Personal Concerns 12
Harry Middleton Hyatt 13
Sweet Baths and Sugar Scrubs 14
Uncrossing Sugar Bath 16
Cleopatra's Beauty Secrets 17
Floor Washes To Attract Business 18
Zora Neale Hurston 19
Keeping The Law At Bay 20
European Grimoires and Asian Influences 21
Catherine Yronwode 22
Herbs and Roots 23
Herbal Mixtures 25
Hoodoo Foods 26
Red Apples and Sweet Onions 30
Container Spells 31
A Candle To Light Your Way 33
The Honey Jar Spell 35
Oils To Use With Sweetening Spells 37
Honey Jars On Your Altar 39
Deployment, Dispersal, and Disposal 41
"You Can Catch More Flies With Honey..." 41
Frequently Asked Questions (and Answers) 42

Read more at http://luckymojo.com/hoodoohoneyandsugarspells.html

JayDee

Sparklegirl · Unread post by **Sparklegirl** » Thu Aug 19, 2021 9:51 am

Thank you, JayDee.

Here's an update. It looks like my divination was right. My friend's argumentative BF got laid off along with several others due to their company being impacted by Covid, and he is now at home all day. He is actually calmer now and they seem to be doing better after I gave her the oil blend, and recommended that she should pray the 23rd Psalm every morning.

Unread post by **Rev Ernest** » Sat Sep 11, 2021 10:29 am

My heart goes out to all of those who choose to stay with an alcoholic, addicted, angry, argumentative, or abusive lover or spouse. I have read many a candle for people in such circumstances, and it is my opinion thatyou should be getting a reading before beginning any work, especially if you will be paying for the setting of vigil lights or for a rootworker's services, Sometimes the reading indicates that leaving the situation will produce more long-term happiness than staying will, even if staying is accompanied by prayers and spell-casting. Each situation is different, so get a reading, make sure you are right, then go ahead.

My prayers go out for all who find themselves in this situation.

God bless you.