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Horrormoviefan74 · Unread post by **Horrormoviefan74** » Tue Jul 06, 2010 8:54 pm

Stars,

Thank you for your response. My two best friends are not a couple. Again, the one that has absolutely no romantic feelings for the other has a girlfriend and detests the fact that the other friend is in love with her; because other friend has exhibited jealousy, manipulation, and unfortunately has been the cause of some of her past relationships. I do NOT want to end the friendship. I just want the other friend to find and be open to love of someone else. These two friends bicker and argue because the one that is inlove with the other becomes upset and hurt which she doesnt hide very well. I want us to continue being the best of friends, but absolutely no romantic feelings.

I don't think either WANTS to be in love with the other. No I do not have permission from either, but my intentions come from a good place.

For example has anyone ever been in a circle of friends, everyone is mutually good friends. Some how there is a romantic bond that comes up and everyone else is not quite comfortable because of the risk of losing one of those persons should the relationship not work.

I have gone through that before and lost a good friend, because instead of her being a friend she became my friends annoying girlfriend, who didnt want us to hang out as much, and we just couldnt enjoy time spent together, and there were biases.

Just providing a bit of feedback..

Thanks..
Love, respect, and blessings to all.

Miss_Liz · Unread post by **Miss_Liz** » Tue Jul 06, 2010 11:16 pm

Try Separation products
http://www.luckymojo.com/separation.html

Also check this thread, it has suggestions for a similar situation.
cut-and-clear-on-another%CA%B9s-behalf- ... tml#p41401

Unread post by **ConjureMan** » Wed Jul 07, 2010 12:23 am

You may consider working a conjure aimed at getting someone to come into the life of the person who you aim to remove romantic feelings from. This can be a love conjure on their behalf, or a moving candle spell aimed at getting her to move away from your friend and closer to an unknown mate.

Calliope · Unread post by **Calliope** » Mon Jul 12, 2010 7:56 pm

Hey everyone,

I am new to the board, but I have been lurking for awhile. So, first, I think I should say hi.

And onto a short summary of what is going on: My 17-year-old sister's ex boyfriend is still in the picture. She went out with him for about a year and a half, until he started scaring her and she finally broke it off with him about a month ago. Like the old cliche goes, she was the good girl who thought she could fix the bad boy. Needless to say, she was wrong. He started emotionally abusing her, getting in her face and screaming at her, punching lockers, throwing her up against my car (MY car--grrr), and more. He's just a bad guy. Well, lo and behold, the guy is texting her non-stop, telling her that he's going to try and stop lying, that he misses her, how much he loves her and wouldn't hurt her, all that good stuff.

Normally, I wouldn't step in. It's her life, she can do with it as she pleases. But I am her sister. I know without a doubt that this guy will seriously hurt her if they get back together--it's only a matter of time.

I was looking at the Hot Foot spell kit--I need something that will just make him go. Would that be a good spell to do, or should I try something else? (Basically, the more potency, the better.)

Thank you for you help and putting up with a newbie's questions!

Unread post by **starsinthesky7** » Mon Jul 12, 2010 8:15 pm

I would make a freezer jar because it will freezer him out of her life. I would state that you would like to freeze him, and all communication with your sister. You can do the hot foot spell if you want to.

ShadowyEmbrace · Unread post by **ShadowyEmbrace** » Mon Jul 12, 2010 8:37 pm

And on a none magical note if this kid is in highschool and starts coming around the house or something you might want to call his parents or the authorites to give him a good scare.

Unread post by **starsinthesky7** » Tue Jul 13, 2010 1:37 am

Random thought, you could help find the ex another partner on top of what has already be mentioned.

LilCassandra · Unread post by **LilCassandra** » Tue Jul 13, 2010 4:17 am

I'd be worried about finding the ex another partner since, if this is a pattern, he'll probably abuse her, as well.

Freezer jar is perfect for this, though.

Calliope · Unread post by **Calliope** » Tue Jul 13, 2010 9:01 am

Thank you for the tips, everyone! I think I will try the freezer jar and I'll let you know how it goes.

ShadowyEmbrace, I've already made up my mind that if I find him near the house, the police will be getting a call. And once school starts, if he starts coming near her there, I'm going to be talking to a couple of her teachers (they don't like him either--one of them even pummeled him specifically at a dodgeball tournament because of what he was doing to my sister). One more piece of paper on that kid and he's gone. As for talking to his parents...his mother doesn't care about him, it would have to be the dad and we don't have his number (and asking my sister for it is not an option, as she is part of the problem because she is still talking to him).

And while I would love to pawn him off on someone else, I can't, in good conscience. No other teenage girl deserves to be treated the way that he treats girls. I just want him to quit talking to my sister. Out of sight, out of mind, I'm hoping.

Thank you again for all of your help!

Unread post by **Miss Tammie Lee** » Tue Jul 13, 2010 9:52 am

I used a freezer spell for banishment-- for a person who was nasty at my office (gone now

) and I did one on behalf of someone else (worked). Both situations very similar in nature. The person I was doing the work on behalf of is a family member. In both cases I used LM Hot Foot-- I dresssed their business cards which they had touched with the LM Hot Foot Oil,-- all across their names and on each corner, red pepper flakes, black pepper, salt, vinegar. I put all this mess each separate into two different water bottles letting some of the water out because the water expands. When I was finished "stuffing the small water bottles, I shoke them like crazy and put them into the back of my freezer. I focused and said, "there will be no further warnings, go away and stay away FOREVER"! In other words, there are more harsh spells and because these two people were so dreadful, hateful and had brought so much misery to me and those in my office and my family member whom I love so much-- I felt and do feel justified in the Hot Foot Spell but warned THIS IS IT!
Try to get a personal concern of his-- a must have. Make certain you are specific in your statements.
Be Blessed.
---Triplethreat

Unread post by **ConjureMan** » Tue Jul 13, 2010 10:35 am

If this guy's got violent tendencies then I'd suggest protective work as well as work aimed at restraining him or sending him away.

I think a conjure that would help you accomplish both would be the FWP conjure. You can purchase this in spellkit form. For the guardian candles name teachers and police officers and ancestors. If this boy should dare cross the line he'll get burned then removed right out of your sisters life. It's a powerful protection spell.

You may also consider getting her a protective talisman to keep on her.

Unread post by **Miss Tammie Lee** » Tue Jul 13, 2010 11:36 am

ConjureMan, like a few others in the forum, is very wise.
I had a whole other paragraph I deleted; however, I should have added because it dealt with protection. When I did my freezer spell and my banishing spell-- I had LM Fiery Wall of Protection-- dressed candles, and St Michael. In the Banishing Spell (out of Cat's online book with Psalm 94) I also used a Sacred Heart of Jesus Candle, and again Saint Michael LMFiery Wall oil separate candles dressed with the LM FWP oil--. Protect and cleanse!
Be Blessed.
---Triplethreat

Calliope · Unread post by **Calliope** » Tue Jul 13, 2010 3:06 pm

Thank you, Triplethreat and ConjureMan.

I just looked at the Fiery Wall of Protection spell kit and I'm thinking that between the freezer spell and the kit, they might do the trick. (The bugger is extremely stubborn...and stupid.)

She keeps saying that he would never do anything to hurt her, however, my family and I believe different, so something that would protect her is a very good idea.

Thank you!

Unread post by **starsinthesky7** » Tue Jul 13, 2010 3:13 pm

I would recommend doing some clarity and wisdom work for your sister so that she can see the situation clearly,and make the right decisions regarding this guy. Sometimes when people are abused whether it be physically, mentally, or emotionally, they get caught up in a cycle, and go back to the person. So I would do that kind of work to help get her out of it.

Calliope · Unread post by **Calliope** » Fri Jul 23, 2010 8:45 pm

Thank you to everyone for your help. I am going to be doing a freezer spell on him and just got some calamus, poppy seeds, and licorice to throw in there, but...how much of each do I put in? The entire packet? Half?

Sorry for the newb questions, but I've looked all over the forum and can't find quantities. LOL

Unread post by **ConjureMan** » Fri Jul 23, 2010 9:22 pm

Just a pinch of herbs goes a long way.

Calliope · Unread post by **Calliope** » Tue Sep 14, 2010 3:54 pm

ConjureMan wrote:Just a pinch of herbs goes a long way.

Thank you, ConjureMan. That's good to know (I was starting to think this was going to be a pretty expensive freezer spell).

Unread post by **Joseph Magnuson** » Sun Sep 19, 2010 5:08 pm

Maljen wrote:I second everything Devi said, but will add this on the mundane side...are you prepared to move to a different area? I mean REALLY different? If he gets or tries to, staying in the area may not be a safe idea for any of you. I know someone who got out of that kind of life, but he literally went into the military to get away from those people. He says it was the only way he could get away from them. He's an amazing person now, counsels kids here in the same situations, etc. etc. Heck, he's even lent me his ear and shoulder with my situation with my husband, but I know ti wasn't easy for him to turn himself around. Just make certain he and you both are prepared to make some potentially drastic changes to your lives. And good luck to you both!

Great, great, great post!

-Joseph

willowroot · Unread post by **willowroot** » Mon Sep 20, 2010 1:19 pm

I did a search but no situation quite fit mine. I want my boyfriend's roommate (who doesn't pay rent, comes in at all hours, is generally a nuisance) to move out. I don't live with my boyfriend, but I spend alot of time there and he's always in the way. If my boyfriend wants to stay friends with him, that's fine by me -- I just don't want them living as roommates. Doing so, he's creating drama in my relationship with my boyfriend where there was none at all before and I'm not happy that he's mooching off my boyfriend either. My boyfriend complains about him too, but is too nice to kick him out and feels sorry for his (self-perpetuated) bad situation, and I have no authority to do so directly.

Unread post by **Tabbylove17** » Mon Sep 20, 2010 1:24 pm

I would voice my opinion to my boyfriend first and then see what he says, but my friend had a similar situation and she did a hot foot jar and it worked pretty well for her. It took time though, but the guy ended up moving out.

Good Luck!

willowroot · Unread post by **willowroot** » Mon Sep 20, 2010 1:32 pm

Hot foot jar? Hmm. Well, I have access to all his personal belongings, including shoes. He doesn't lock his bedroom door. In fact, he never closes the damn thing unfortunately.

He's not going to make him move out, the best I will get is that on the days when I come over he'll have his friend stay somewhere else for the night. My boyfriend is a little too optimistic and doesn't think that's going to cause problems. But it's going to end in an argument with his friend, followed probably by another one with me. He thinks he can keep the peace between me and his friend and he can't. That's the bottom line. The only way this is going to work for all of us, is if this guy is not living there anymore. They can stay buddies, and I'll be a happy girlfriend again when I don't have to deal with a strange guy interfering in my relationship, making me uncomfortable and irritated.

Unread post by **starsinthesky7** » Mon Sep 20, 2010 9:34 pm

Hmm perhaps you can get away with doing some bend over work before you do the hot foot jar since you still want them to be friends after. I would do that and get him to move out, and open up the way with a road opener and an attraction spell to open up opportunities for him to move out. I think it would be best for you to get a reading first, and see what is the best way.

In the mean time you need to do some stop gossip work, and doing some protection work for you AND your boyfriend. I mean getting him to move out might not be enough to stop him from creating the drama in your relationship.

Unread post by **jwmcclin** » Mon Sep 20, 2010 10:03 pm

I agree with starsnthesky7, this person can still create problems even if he is not living with your boyfriend, stop the gossip first. Good Luck in your work.

willowroot · Unread post by **willowroot** » Tue Sep 21, 2010 9:38 am

It's not any gossip creating problems, its him being there. His existence, basically. He doesn't know how to give us space and likes to jump in our conversations and basically act like its some group date when it's not and it creates drama because I get mad everytime it happens. We're trying to watch a movie on the couch and he comes out of his room, flops down next to us and says "What are we watching?" Then I have to have yet another irritated discussion with my boyfriend before bed and that just really kills the mood. When he's not there, it's all peachy.

Unread post by **starsinthesky7** » Tue Sep 21, 2010 9:41 am

Well, sorry to break it to you, but you are going to have to deal with his friends or anyone like that probably for as long as you are in this relationship. And with your boyfriend being a nice guy...this is probably going to always happen. In any case, I would recommend that you get a reading to see if this is the best solution for you.

greeneyes17 · Unread post by **greeneyes17** » Tue Nov 09, 2010 5:18 pm

I'm not sure if I'm in the right area, but I have a situation that I'm not sure what to do with. Any help would be appreciated!!

Here's the story:

I was talking to this guy and everything was going great! He then told his best friend (who's a girl, but much older than him) that he met someone and he really likes me.

After he told her he got kind of weird. He would say things to me like he really liked me and he invited me to thanksgiving with his family, I met his parents and sister..and then all of a sudden he would say things like, I don't think this is going to work...we don't have chemistry, and blah blah.

So I told him, lets go get a reading done. He went one day and saw this lady that was really good, and I went the next day. The lady described me to him saying this is the woman you're going to marry. There was also a lot of other things she had said to him about his job and stuff, but she also told him that he needed to watch out for his best friend. That she's willing to stable him in the back just to keep him close. she also said she could be doing work on him.

When I went to go see the lady, she described him to me and said he was the man i was going to marry...but she also told me to be careful when it comes to his best friend.

I asked him if his best friend does work on people, and he said that she knows people who do work. My gut feeling is that she's doing work on him to keep him to herself, and to keep him around, which may actually be harming him. Every time he leaves her house, he gets bad stomach pain.

So my question is, how can I get her out of his life for good, and how can I protect him from the work that she's doing on him?

Thanks in advance!

Unread post by **JayDee** » Tue Nov 09, 2010 7:21 pm

fiery wall or protection , pray to st. michael, and i really feel the need to use stop gossip in this situation cuz we dont know what she saying but stopping her bs can help. a honey jar to make her like you.. btw both of u should be protected and cleanse the house for both of you to get it off LM has great products read through the page to decide. can also get an airr reading on the matter with work as well. also i feel the need to suggest that maybe she wants your man and perhaps doing work to help her meet a man to leave yours alone like a moving candle. hope the best and sorry about the drama..good luck!!!

Unread post by **ConjureMan** » Tue Nov 09, 2010 7:51 pm

Get yourself a reading. Check us out at www.readersandrootworkers.org

Find out if work is really being done and from there what you can do to counter it and eliminate this person's influence.

In the meanwhile keep your persons cleansed and protected.

Maya28 · Unread post by **Maya28** » Tue Feb 01, 2011 5:23 am

Hi everyone,

First before I go into my question, I will say that I had a reading a few weeks ago with Miss Bri, so the situation that I am going to speak on, I have pretty much a clear understanding of what's going on in it between me and the other person involved.

My situation is a "love" situation with someone who I've konwn for many years, but as of the past few months have taken things to a different level, so to speak, and while having my reading with Miss Bri she told me specific work that I needed to begin doing to bring this person closer to me based on the specifics that I gave her surrounding the situation (i.e. honey jar, road opening, healing).

Although this person and I have made it clear to each other how we both feel towards one another, and although we do share a special type of connection and closeness, the issuse on his end of our situation is that although he has been divorced for quite a few years from his ex-wife, he still has a lot of feelings for her, as well as she still has a lot of feelings for him.

I believe that a big reason on both of their parts is because they share a child together, but also because they just have an overall love for one another, because of their past, and me being me that is something that I can truly understand and respect.

My question is this though, because I know (because he has told me) that honestly if he didn't still feel that she had a "special place" in his heart, he would be able to move on and have a relationship (with me), so what would be the best way to go about removing his feelings for her, and her feelings for him, BUT at the same time keeping them as JUST friends and nothing more...ever...?

Thank you to any and all for your feedback, it will be greatly appreciated

Unread post by **Miss Ida Lundin** » Tue Feb 01, 2011 8:02 am

Hello Maya

The work that miss Bri has recommended to you seems to address this already. She wants you to work the honey jar to sweeten you two together and work road opener and healing for him to get a clear beginning and heal the past. That's my understanding, so I might be wrong here, you didn't specify. Anyway, I don't think you need to put more work in there. I would just start with the prescribed work and see how that goes.

jamesparker · Unread post by **jamesparker** » Mon Feb 07, 2011 9:10 pm

I am agree with you and I think you are saying right, and romance is part of relationship.

VLo986 · Unread post by **VLo986** » Sun Feb 13, 2011 8:41 pm

Hello Everyone!

This is my first post

I'm hoping I can get some help with my current situation...
I'm looking to seperate one of my guy's friends from him. This person has been a bad influence on my guy. He encourages him to drink... A LOT, and the most recent thing is that he's convinced my guy to not see me anymore. My guy and I didn't form an actual relationship, but it was going in the right direction until his friend told him that "he's moving too fast, and that the single life is the best."

I was thinking of doing a vinegar jar to cause the 2 to fight, but I think I would rather just have his friend leave for good... He happens to be one of my close friend's boyfriend (well exboyfriend) and is also making her suffer more than she should...

I've read that putting his name and photo in a jar filled with 4 Thieves Vinegar and throw it in a river that it would send this person out of my life. I would like to try this but just wanted to see if there are any other suggestions I could try. I am a begginner, so all the help I can get is greatly appreciated

Thanks!

Unread post by **catherineyronwode** » Sun Feb 13, 2011 10:53 pm

Yes, that spell is good, if you do actual work to separate them in the jar -- that is, to keep their names from touching, to add herbs that are hot and anger-producing. Hvae you read this page i wrote on bottle spelles?

http://luckymojo.com/bottlespelsl.html

You can also use a lemon...

But there is more to this situation than you are picking up on. The drinking is a real problem, and you should do some blessing and healing work on the man you like, because otherwise he will not be a suitable partner.

VLo986 · Unread post by **VLo986** » Sun Feb 13, 2011 11:22 pm

Thanks Cat! Yes, I was actually reading into the bottle spells on the site and have some good ingrediants to add: cayanne pepper, poppy seeds, sulfur, and rusty nails...
I have the jar and 4 thieves vinegar, the photo of my guy and a seperate photo of his friend. Do I put their names on the back of the photos and put them both in a single jar or do I only put his friends photo and name in the jar since I want him to go away for the good of several people?
As for the drinking, me and my guy have talked about this. He knows my feelings and that I really worry when he drinks. In the last few months he's gotten a lot better. We've been closer then ever and he hasn't been drinking in excess... So now that his friend convinced him that he's moving too fast with me, I'm worried he's going to cause my guy to get into trouble and start drinking again... I really love my guy and want to help him and protect him if possible.
I think the vinegar bottle spell is the best way to go, but need a lil guidance so I do it right

Thanks!

moonmaiden · Unread post by **moonmaiden** » Fri Mar 18, 2011 8:26 pm

OK so to start, i truly love a man. We talk often, but just as friends, he lives very far from me and at one point he confessed having feelings for me. I really want to be with this man. To be all he thinks about and make him love me. So much he's willing to do anything to be with me.

Now, we have a mutual friend who happens to be HIS best friend, and a good friend of mine. This man is the one who introduced us, and at one point he liked me and when he confessed to me, i told him i was interested in his friend....He was pretty upset, but took it pretty well.

This guy's personality is a different one, he's a jerk by nature and usually all in good fun. But i had a bit of a reputation of dating a lot of people, and he informed this guy i'm interested in. AND I'm not sure what else he told him, but now this guy hardly talks to me, and never flirts or anything, he's so cold.

I've been to two readers, both told me about the same thing, but one had advice in which i am following at the moment.

She suggested i do a vinegar jar to separate these two as friends, and i had every intention of doing it but now i am wondering if there is another way?

They are best friends, and the one who introduced us is my friend as well, so i feel a bit bad doing a vinegar jar....But i also feel like i have NO CHANCE with this guy i am interested in if the mutual friend is around...I do want to be with this man more than anything but if i can do something different, i'd prefer it!!

Now about this man, hes the one for me, he just cant seem to see it anymore.....I ordered the love me spell kit from LM, so i plan on doing that on him.

But is there other things i should be doing?

The rootworker offered her services to help with the spells, but i truly feel that with all my emotions for him, my spells and work would be super effective.

I do have a t-shirt to send him in the mail, i was thinking of including a letter as well as a poster. Is there anything i should do to those? I have nothing that belong to him though, although i may be able to get a letter if i need to. And i have his photo, full name, D.O.B, and address.

I realize this is TWO issues, so if you can address either, AWESOME!!! And thanks in advance!!!

moonmaiden · Unread post by **moonmaiden** » Tue Mar 22, 2011 1:38 am

I am still looking for any advice please.

Unread post by **starsinthesky7** » Tue Mar 22, 2011 3:08 pm

I think you need to get a reading to see if it is even feasible for you to get this man right now. If there is possibility of you and him being together, then you need to see what the obstacles are.

I think that it would be smarter to do a sweet jar to make the friend speak fondly of you rather than separate the two and that might create unnecessary drama.

In your reading you need to get another one, and see if this relationship is something worth pursuing, AND what rootwork specifically needs to be done to get this person to come towards you along with the obstacles.

Unread post by **JayDee** » Tue Mar 22, 2011 5:29 pm

you can look into stop gossip work as well to stop the friend if what he is saying is slander and not tru about you. Of course a honey jar fits to make the friend like you and also one to sweeten the new man to you. as they say you get more bees with honey then you do vinagar

moonmaiden · Unread post by **moonmaiden** » Wed Apr 06, 2011 11:59 pm

thank you all for the help!!

cindy9 · Unread post by **cindy9** » Thu Apr 07, 2011 4:12 pm

Hi..

My husband has this friend who lives out of country and recently i realized she had started sending him nude pics of her , while I know that my husband is not mr innocent either i just want them to break up thier friendship before anything else happens ...pls advice

Thanks
Cindy

YouTube · Unread post by **Miss Bri** » Thu Apr 07, 2011 7:48 pm

Hi Cindy,
Do a break up spell on them:
http://www.luckymojo.com/breakup.html
Blessings,
Bri

Unread post by **ConjureMan** » Thu Apr 07, 2011 9:45 pm

Do they ever visit each other? Nude pictures are usually indications of more serious entanglements or a developing inappropriate relationship. I'd go with what Miss Bri said and break them up.

Break Up spell kit may be of great help. Since she is in another country. Write a letter, dust it with Break Up powder and send it to her.

Unread post by **Dr Johannes** » Fri Apr 08, 2011 12:56 am

If she is sending the pictures through e-mail, then make sure you dust the computor keyboard whith Break Up powder. Use a very small amount or it will be to visible. You can also consider the less aggressive Separation Spell Kit first, so you do not risk your marriage to be temporarily infested with the anger that can be a result of a Break Up product.
A reading might tell you which one to start with.

//Dr. Johannes.

cindy9 · Unread post by **cindy9** » Fri Apr 08, 2011 7:41 am

thank you all so much for your advice ...no he has never visited her ....im so new to this ...so im kind of scared what if i mess our relationship in the process ....is there anything a bit less complicated....i have heard of the vinger bottle spell what is that? does that apply to my situation...and since i live with him its kind of difficult to do much.......or what abt a BREAK UP CANDLE: GLASS ENCASED VIGIL LIGHT or the ALTAR CANDLE SERVICES... do one for maybe break up and one for follow me boy or any other love related or fidality related I think somthing that will drive the passion between us so he will get his mind of her and anyone else using alter candle service or vigil light candle ....hope im being clear
thanks
cindy

kmew1315 · Unread post by **kmew1315** » Fri Apr 08, 2011 11:07 am

Johannes wrote:If she is sending the pictures through e-mail, then make sure you dust the computor keyboard whith Break Up powder. Use a very small amount or it will be to visible. You can also consider the less aggressive Separation Spell Kit first, so you do not risk your marriage to be temporarily infested with the anger that can be a result of a Break Up product.
A reading might tell you which one to start with.

//Dr. Johannes.

If he also emails her through that same computer would it affect their relationship at all also?

Unread post by **Dr Johannes** » Fri Apr 08, 2011 12:24 pm

No Kevin, not if it is layed down strictly for the husband and the stripping lady. The prayer and intent defines the direction of a spell.

//Dr. Johannes.

Unread post by **starsinthesky7** » Fri Apr 08, 2011 3:55 pm

I agree with j82. Here is the link for stop gossip work. www.luckymojo.com/stopgossip.html

www.luckymojo.com/products-stop-gossip.html

theredc6 · Unread post by **theredc6** » Sat Apr 09, 2011 12:54 pm

cindy9 wrote:thank you all so much for your advice ...no he has never visited her ....im so new to this ...so im kind of scared what if i mess our relationship in the process ....is there anything a bit less complicated....i have heard of the vinger bottle spell what is that? does that apply to my situation...and since i live with him its kind of difficult to do much.......or what abt a BREAK UP CANDLE: GLASS ENCASED VIGIL LIGHT or the ALTAR CANDLE SERVICES... do one for maybe break up and one for follow me boy or any other love related or fidality related I think somthing that will drive the passion between us so he will get his mind of her and anyone else using alter candle service or vigil light candle ....hope im being clear
thanks
cindy

Hi Cindy,

You won't mess up your relationship with him in the process of doing breakup work for his "friend" (Since he is YOUR husband). I agree with Johannes, use breakup powder on whatever he uses to communicate with her (print out one of the pictures she sent him, burn it and mix the ashes with some of the breakup power before you dust his keyboard). And a vinegar jar will definitely help use the picture she sent him

Vinegar Jar discussions can be found here:
vinegar-jar-questions-and-answers-t5581.html

Use Fire of Love products to spice things up with you and your husband. Buy the bath salts and bathe in them as well as the oil to anoint his personal effects and yours. You can also use it in a sweet jar.

Here's a link on a Sweet Jar discussion:
honey-sugar-sweet-jar-questions-and-answers-t5536.html

And definitely having lights set for you will help. Again, I suggest the Fire of Love altar candle to have him lust after you.

Good Luck

cindy9 · Unread post by **cindy9** » Sun Apr 10, 2011 1:04 pm

So when I dust his keyboard with her burned pic ashes and the breakup powder should i say or recite anything ? I could not afford to get the whole break up kit so i did get the powder some black candles can i do anything else with these ? and i did get the fire of love oil and the Chuparrosa (Hummingbird) Oil...so i guess that would work well with the honey jar and to put some on me and him ....now when i put some on car door do i have to again recite anything ?

cindy9 · Unread post by **cindy9** » Sun Apr 10, 2011 1:35 pm

also do i need to do a Hyssop bath after the break up ritual .... im confused because i dont think its a sin to save my marrige ...and he is MY huaband .... just confused
cindy

nena1974 · Unread post by **nena1974** » Mon Apr 11, 2011 7:18 am

I went through something similar a few months ago. I will share my post with you and hope it helps a little.
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snake · Unread post by **snake** » Mon Apr 11, 2011 6:02 pm

If he's online encountering other women you might want to consider doing something like peaceful home, stay with me or something else to get his mind back on you. Can't let his thoughts stray again in the future!

theredc6 · Unread post by **theredc6** » Mon Apr 11, 2011 6:48 pm

cindy9 wrote:So when I dust his keyboard with her burned pic ashes and the breakup powder should i say or recite anything ? I could not afford to get the whole break up kit so i did get the powder some black candles can i do anything else with these ? and i did get the fire of love oil and the Chuparrosa (Hummingbird) Oil...so i guess that would work well with the honey jar and to put some on me and him ....now when i put some on car door do i have to again recite anything ?

Pray sincerely that he will break off contact with the woman while you dust the keys. Do you know her name? Do you have any more oils on hand? If not, carve her name backwards onto the black candle and fill her name (in the candle) with a mixture of red pepper, black pepper and graveyard dirt (pay for the graveyard dirt properly: http://www.luckymojo.com/graveyarddirt.html) and burn the candle on top of one of her pictures (take the proper fire safety precautions). Pray that she stays away from your husband and never contact him again.

When you put the Fire of Love oil on the car door (or anywhere he may touch), pray for him to lust after you and love you passionately.

Good luck!

cindy9 · Unread post by **cindy9** » Tue Apr 12, 2011 12:33 pm

Hi..

My husband has this friend who lives out of country and recently i realized she had started sending him nude pics of her , while I know that my husband is not mr innocent either i just want them to break up thier friendship before anything else happens ...pls advice

Thanks
Cindy

Update ...

He found out I know about him and the pics and alll... and he said since i dont trust him and i feel the need to "check on him" he wants a divorce ....he took all his stuff and moved to the other room we have and said he is going to file for divorce in the coming 2 months as soon as our rental lease ends.... what do i do now ? i havnt even done anything yet cause im still waiting on my order to be shipped ....I really love him and really dont want to loose him ...... Pls advice ....im gonna do a honey jar...is anything else i can do that would help ?

Unread post by **starsinthesky7** » Tue Apr 12, 2011 1:03 pm

Get as many of his personal concerns as possible.

A honey jar is a good start, and it should be geared towards reconciliation and stay with me products.

In this case though, i think you can do some damage control by hiring a rootworker to do somethings for you while you wait for your order. I would do this especially if you do not have the correct products to work with at this time.

There is obviously something else deeper going on here. I mean I get being upset about you not trusting him BUT this is probably an ongoing issue in your relationship, and/or he is probably doing something and knows he has been caught. He was probably planning on leaving you, but this reason just gave him an easy out.

So I would get a reading, and see what you need to do from here, and perhaps allow the rootworker pick up the case. Ask your rootworker what work you can do along side them considering you are getting an order in. I just think that at this point you dont want to waste anymore time or money before it gets any worse.

www.readersandrootworkers.com

Unread post by **ConjureMan** » Tue Apr 12, 2011 1:52 pm

Like I said in my first post, and as starskinthesky just said, there are obviously bigger issues here than meets the eye. If he's willing to file divorce that quickly it is obvious that something is going on. He may not have visited this girl, but the relationship has far deeper implications than you realize, or your husband is covering his guilt by going on the offensive.

Unread post by **Dr Johannes** » Tue Apr 12, 2011 2:20 pm

Honey Jars are great, but since they tend to work slow and your situation seems in need of a quick start you might consider doing a floor wash, using Chinese Wash or alike to remove the tension in the house. Doing a cleansing on him (sneaky) using eggs under his bed or alike might remove his offensive energy as well and make it easier to work Reconciliation, Stay With me, Stay At Home and similar work that should follow. A fast freezer spell between him and her might also be in order and swiftly done before you proceed to the other things.

//Dr. Johannes

cindy9 · Unread post by **cindy9** » Wed Apr 13, 2011 7:53 am

situation seems in need of a quick start you might consider doing a floor wash, using Chinese Wash or alike to remove the tension in the house. Doing a cleansing on him (sneaky) using eggs under his bed or alike might remove his offensive energy as well and make it easier to work Reconciliation

How do I do a floor wash i mean we have carpets in the house and what would i use ...also he moved into theother room in the house so he is still at home i can do the eggs under his bed thing...can you pls explain to me how its done ? ....or anything else i can do to get a quick start

Cindy

nena1974 · Unread post by **nena1974** » Wed Apr 13, 2011 11:42 am

spray the chinese wash on the parts of the house that have carpet. I suggest getting a reader to light the candles for you so you're not waiting on your shipment to get started. I think hes covering up his guilt. get some chuparrosa, reconsiliation, stay with me, also pray to saint martha. but mostly, get a reading

cindy9 · Unread post by **cindy9** » Wed Apr 13, 2011 12:30 pm

nena1974 wrote:spray the chinese wash on the parts of the house that have carpet. I suggest getting a reader to light the candles for you so you're not waiting on your shipment to get started. I think hes covering up his guilt. get some chuparrosa, reconsiliation, stay with me, also pray to saint martha. but mostly, get a reading

I did get a reading yest and was told that he is innocent in the sence that he has has not cheated or doent want to he just likes the attention from the women and the reason he wants a divorce is that he feels like i invaded his privacy and that he really doent want a divorce but he wants to "punish me for invading his privacy"

so she said there is a chance to save my marrige ....