Spells to Break or Cut Soul Ties to Ex-Lover, Difficult Family Member, or Ex-Friends

PlutoGirl · Unread post by **PlutoGirl** » Wed Aug 02, 2023 7:57 am

Hello everyone,

I am seeking advice in regards to my mother's in law behaviour towards my baby daughter.

My MIL is acting really obssesed with my little girl when she's visiting us, grabbing her at every chance, not wanting to let go even when I need to feed her.
She's grabbing a pushchair from me, offering to hold her for me while I am eating my meal, so I can "rest"! Like she's desperate, it drives me mad. I said no several times but she's very persistent and clever in her ways to put me in position I feel uncomfortable saying no. And she was visibly upset when I denied it couple of times, although within reason, the baby was tired and all she wants to do is to hold her all the time, like it's a toy.
Whenever we go to visit them, she just jumps to the stroller right away and starts fussing over the baby without even saying hi to us for like five minutes, just weird!
My husband thinks it's fine, she's just excited as it's a grandchild much anticipated. I get it, my little one is lucky to have grandparents that love her but that kind of smothering is too much for me and makes me feel super uncomfortable.
Thing is, I find it hard to tell things to them because my MIL has cancer and my in laws helped us a lot and still helping financially, so I feel really bad saying no but inside I am screaming.
I can also sense that because MIL is sick with long term cancer and depressed, it might be her unintentional way to charge herself, leeching on energy from a baby. The way she acts is over the top, it bothers me so much. Also, I don't feel the same way about my father or sister in law, its just her, I find it very weird. Otherwise she is very kind, generous person, a bit too sweet in her behaviour for my liking but on the surface can't fault her with anything really and she treats me well, its only in regards to my daughter.

My hubby thinks I'm overreacting, but because it's his mum he can't see or doesn't want to see things for how they are. I understand that it's hard and he feels sorry for her.
Maybe I am overreacting to certain extent but just can't help the way I feel. Please advice and tell what do you think. I need and outside perspective on this, please!
I now dread the next visit and they already coming this weekend

I want to be prepared, I was thinking to do hot foot powder in her shoes when she's here but have now read in the forum that it can be too harsh? And what about a freezer spell, would that be any better in this case? Trouble is, I can't cut ties to get rid of her from my life completely or cause her any harm but I need to do something to protect my sanity and my baby girl from being drained, to stop her acting that way.
Will be looking forward to any suggestions.
Thank you!

Unread post by **JayDee** » Wed Aug 02, 2023 4:29 pm

PlutoGirl,

You have a lot going on in this post. Your MIL wants to see the kid and she is dying of cancer, her overbearing bothers you. You want to freeze her out or Hot Foot her but also keep the financial support you get from her.

I think you should do a commanding work telling her to stop, and influence her behavior that way.

Commanding: https://www.luckymojo.com/commanding.html

JayDee

PlutoGirl · Unread post by **PlutoGirl** » Wed Aug 02, 2023 8:17 pm

JayDee,

It's true and well noted, my situation is quite contradictory. Thank you for your advice, I will need to get the supplies for commanding work and give it go.

Have a good day!

PlutoGirl · Unread post by **PlutoGirl** » Sun Aug 13, 2023 9:26 pm

Hi there,

I have couple more questions in regards to my inquiry above.

During my in-laws last visit I've collected a tissue with which I managed to wipe my MIL 's cup of tea in hopes I would get some saliva on it. Would that be good enough personal item for creating a baby doll? (I can get her pictures as well of course). Is that even advisable considering her illness?

If so, how should I go about influencing her behaviour towards me and my daughter? I.e., so she stops pushing me to give it to her all the time or that my daughter cries whenever she holds her, etc.

I would appreciate your insight,

Thank you.

Unread post by **JayDee** » Mon Aug 14, 2023 8:56 am

PlutoGirl ,

A doll-baby can be made with the personal items you have, the more personal the better the connection. You can start with a Commanding doll-baby if you think she needs that work or something less harsh like influence.

I would start with Influence to tell her what to think and act. You can also write her name on a piece of paper, dress it with Influence oil, when she is over, put the paper in your left shoe, when she is doing something tap your left foot as you tell her what to do (in your head), or go to another room and speak it.

Influence: https://www.luckymojo.com/products-influence.html

JayDee

PlutoGirl · Unread post by **PlutoGirl** » Mon Aug 14, 2023 3:15 pm

JayDee,

Amazing, I happen to have Influence oil, will try out the shoe first and then consider the baby doll.

Thank you once again.

PrayPrepareProsper · Unread post by **PrayPrepareProsper** » Mon Aug 28, 2023 5:11 pm

Question: Is it possible to use a Hot Foot Candle Spell to get a toxic brother to move out. He just moved in, hopefully temporarily. I don't want to hurt him I just want him to get back together with his partner or move out with a friend. Let me know if Hot Foot works quick, etc. I never used it before.

Unread post by **JayDee** » Tue Aug 29, 2023 2:51 pm

PrayPrepareProsper,

I would not use Hot Foot if you do not want to be harsh. A better option may be Separation to send him away, or Banishing to send him away. You can also use a Return to Me to send him to the former lover.

Separation: https://www.luckymojo.com/products-separation.html
Banishing: https://www.luckymojo.com/products-banishing.html

JayDee

PrayPrepareProsper · Unread post by **PrayPrepareProsper** » Tue Aug 29, 2023 6:00 pm

Thank you! I may start with a separation candle immediately. If I have it burnt at the church, should I include photograph(s) of my brother? Also, do you recommend a freezer jar spell on him and if so would a petition like this be appropriate: "I immediately freeze [name] out of my house and away from family"? Finally, how would Hot Foot be harsh, and would Run Devil Run work quicker or is that too harsh as well? I basically want to do candles/work which would cause him to leave here immediately albeit without harm.

Unread post by **JayDee** » Wed Aug 30, 2023 12:15 pm

PrayPrepareProsper,

A photo is a great addition to a spell,I would include it.

I would not mix a freezer and candle spell. Also, freezing is to hold them in place and you want the opposite to send them away.

Hot Foot- "f you cross someone's path on his or her own property, your enemy will be forced into a life of restless wandering, never able to return home." (https://www.luckymojo.com/hotfoot.html). You are saying you want it without harm, Hot Foot sounds like there can be a bit of harm from the quote I just cited from the Lucky Mojo page.

Run Devil Run- will make a person who is the devil go away, or chase the devil away. https://www.luckymojo.com/rundevilrun.html

Banishing ejects people from your community: https://www.luckymojo.com/banishing.html

I would opt for Banishing and when he is gone do a freezer spell to keep him out.

JayDee

PrayPrepareProsper · Unread post by **PrayPrepareProsper** » Sun Sep 03, 2023 9:50 pm

Hey JayDee! Thank you for the tips. I ordered Clear And Cut, Hot Foot, and Banishing candles to be burnt at the church. The timing is perfect given the waning moon. Should I let these work their magic or should I add more ala Cast Off Evil / Separation? Also, are there any jar spells you would recommend I do in conjunction with the candles? I really need him out of here.

Unread post by **deaconmillett** » Mon Sep 04, 2023 11:28 am

Reconciliation work could also be added, PrayPrepareProsper. It sounds like he's only moved home due to love problems!

PrayPrepareProsper · Unread post by **PrayPrepareProsper** » Mon Sep 04, 2023 4:01 pm

Is it a good idea to add Reconciliation during the waning moon or should I wait until new moon / waxing?

PS- Thank you, I agree with you. I don't want to get carried away. Like I said I don't want to hurt the guy, I love him, I just want him out asap and preferably back with the partner who is a good influence on him. This is why I did a peaceful banishing, cut and clear, and hot foot with the sole intention to get him out quickly and ideally back with the partner.

Unread post by **JayDee** » Thu Sep 07, 2023 3:10 pm

PrayPrepareProsper ,

Waxing moon to draw the person to you as the moon grows.

JayDee

PrayPrepareProsper · Unread post by **PrayPrepareProsper** » Sun Oct 01, 2023 7:33 pm

The past month plus has taught me I need to do whatever it takes to get my brother out of here.

Backstory: throughout our youth through twenties he stole lots of money, jewelry, and collectibles from me countless times as did his friends.

When I was 25/26, not living at home, my parents refused to pay his car insurance after he totaled *4 cars* so I did, provided he pay me back. We made an agreement. He never paid me back, lost his license, and the car.

In 2017 he got in a relationship with a guy who he used for almost seven years. He waits until only months after the boyfriend purchased and renovated a house to break up with him over petty reasons (no birthday flowers, etc), moved back here, and in a day he was on all of the hookup apps, expanding his sex twitter account, and created an OnlyFans. Meanwhile he is manipulating my parents by saying he is devastated despite the fact he had been cheating on the boyfriend throughout their relationship.

I am an asthmatic and he refuses to stop spraying certain fragrances/products which trigger my breathing/skin issues.

There is not enough room for him these days: we live in a small 2 BR 1 BA townhouse and he is couchsurfing on an air mattress in the living room. I am almost tempted to leave myself but feel I should not because

1. I contribute $$$ to the bills and

2. I put in money to renovate the upstairs/bedroom last year with the intention of staying here so I can save up for my own home.

I just ordered a couple candles to be burnt at the church.

What can I do to get him out ASAP??? Any tips are appreciated (candles, jars, whatever). Note: I am burning candles at the church because with him here it is hard to do it.

Unread post by **catherineyronwode** » Mon Oct 02, 2023 10:02 am

PrayPrepareProsper --

It is so sad to be locked in by love and family history to a user/loser like your brother. He has been doing this for years, and it certainly sounds intentional, not like a series of misfortunes. The problem for your parents is worse than for you since they have loved and nurtured him all his life and it is very hard to say goodbye to a child, even one who is a liar and a parasite. Likewise, he stole from you and yet you allow him to remain on social terms with you, because of family bonds,

I am going to say one thing that struck me as odd about his story, at least as you related it here. You say he used his lover for financial gain for almost seven years and then, just after the guy bought and renovated a house for the two of them, he left to come couchsurf on an air mattress in your parent's living room. But that makes no sense -- he was sitting pretty, on the way to being fixed for life with that compliant lover, with the ability to cheat on the side, and a cool house. If what you say is true (and i have no reason to doubt you), he is a habitual liar and thief. That means he has lied and will continue to lie to you and the rest of the family. So the story about his leaving his lover might be a lie as well. He might have had a disproportionate mental meltdown over the birthday flowers (possibly exaggerated by substance abuse and/or an unstable cyclic mental disorder) ... or his lover might have found out about his cheating or stealing and kicked him out. I just want to put that idea in your mind. Talking to his lover might provide further insight.

Now on to the magical and spiritual work.

I would work to provide Clarity for your parents and for you, and then hit wim with a triple whammy of get-out candles .

A Clarity candle fixed for them, to see with clear eyes that their son is a liar, thief, and social parasite who is harming them. Clarity also to offer him a small getaway gift, and to tell him he cannot live with the family ever again.Clarity for you as well, to see that he no longer has the right to expect anything from you, as he is a liar, a thief, and a parasite. Clarity for all of you to take the long view of life, to see that family loyalty must work both ways and that loyalty includes financial accountability as well as blood ties.

Then the triple whammy. Read about these here:

Cast Off Evil - https://luckymojo.com/castoffevil.html
Run Devil Run - https://luckymojo.com/rundevilrun.html
Hot Foot - https://luckymojo.com/hotfoot.html

Either work the spells described on those pages (the simplest would be getting him in contact with Hot Foot Powder in his shoes) or ask us to burn the appropriate candles at our church.

Best of luck to you. Stay strong.

PrayPrepareProsper · Unread post by **PrayPrepareProsper** » Mon Oct 02, 2023 11:27 am

Hi Catherine. Thank you for your support and shedding light. When he first moved in 6 weeks ago I ordered a Banishing, Cut & Clear, and Hot Foot to be burned at the church. 2 weeks ago I ordered a Block Buster, Reversing, and Reconciliation (for him and the ex) to be burned at the church. Yesterday I ordered another Hot Foot, an Influence, and Compel-Command-Control to be burnt at the church. Do you think I should add a Cast Off Evil and Run Devil Run so all 5 will burn at the church this week? I want him to move out of here immediately

Also, any jar spells I should do too?

Unread post by **JayDee** » Mon Oct 02, 2023 4:43 pm

PrayPrepareProsper,

You can set any candle that helps him 1. break up with the home, 2. go to his ex. This can be done in a manner where one candle is sending him away, Run Devil Run, Hot Foot, and another candle is drawing him, Return To Me, Come To Me, as you work to send him away and draw him somewhere else.

This can also be done with a vinegar jar and a honey jar at the same time.

Vinegar jar: https://www.luckymojo.com/fourthievesvinegar.html
Jar spells: spell-kits-bottle-spells-vinegar-bottle ... o-f13.html

JayDee

PrayPrepareProsper · Unread post by **PrayPrepareProsper** » Mon Oct 16, 2023 3:14 am

6 weeks ago I ordered Banishing, Cut & Clear, and Hot Foot. 4 weeks ago I ordered Reversing, Block Buster, and Reconciliation (for them). 2 weeks ago I ordered another Hot Foot, Influence, and Command-Compel-Control. Out of curiosity, how long do these spells typically take to work? What is the range?

BalkanDiviner · Unread post by **BalkanDiviner** » Mon Oct 16, 2023 4:38 am

PrayPrepareProsper,

There's no official timeline for the results of a spell. There are manifestations that occur rapidly, others can take even up to a year. Usually divination is a good method of getting an approximate answer in regard to a date based on what you've done.

Miss Cat has talked about this topic in greater detail here:

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Unread post by **catherineyronwode** » Mon Oct 16, 2023 11:06 am

Thanks, Balkan Diviner.

That sure took me down memory lane. I also wrote this web page about outcome times of spells for AIRR (The Association of Independent Readers and Rootworkers):

Outcome Times in Reading and Rootwork
https://readersandrootworkers.org/wiki/ ... d_Rootwork

ChocolatChaud · Unread post by **ChocolatChaud** » Wed Oct 18, 2023 9:30 pm

Hello all @LuckyMojo Forum ,

I am writing because I have a situation with backstabbing parents, my mother's bitter divorce, and backbiting in-laws.

Last year I was diagnosed with end-stage liver disease. I am 1.5 years into recovery since my my diagnosis. A year ago, I was given 4months to live and told to get in hospice. Now, a year later I am vastly improved. I no longer need a transplant. I have reason to suspect that there were other forces at work (a bitter sister in law, a bitter mother going through a divorce, a zealous and angry father, and an apathetic brother.) Any one who I have run to in my family have turned their back on me. I am essentially a black sheep of the family.

Recently, following a domestic dispute the police arrested my mother. After she was released, her brother called the police. no one was arrested.

My mother is the payee of my govt benefits and has threatened to evict me and cut off my benefits. She's just angry and trying to turn the law, my friends, and family against me. I need something to stop or bind or break through, like blockbuster, and also fiery wall of protection, and I would also like to work with Archangel Michael and his goetic avatar (Lucifer).

I am a Gemini.

Any suggestions for a work to banish them and protect and exalt me in my endeavors?

Sincerely,

J. Michael

Unread post by **JayDee** » Fri Oct 20, 2023 2:30 pm

ChocolatChaud,

A traditional working for this type of situation is a Hot Foot to send them away, a lesser hostile but also effective manner is using Banishing products. You can dress figural candles with the oil, and dust it with the sachet powder. If possible dress items the family will touch with oil, or add the powder to items like their shoes or areas they will step in.

I would also work with protection work using the Fiery Wall of Protection Spell kit to protect you.

Banishing: https://www.luckymojo.com/products-banishing.html
Hot Foot: https://www.luckymojo.com/hotfoot.html
Fiery Wall of Protection: https://www.luckymojo.com/fierywall.html

JayDee

PrayPrepareProsper · Unread post by **PrayPrepareProsper** » Tue Jan 09, 2024 9:42 pm

Since my toxic brother moved back in late August I have ordered a plethora of candles to be burnt at the church in order to get him to move out.

The good thing is my parents finally see him for the vile human being he is, although at times they seem to revert to their former mentality. They are disgusted with his OnlyFans, discovering he was sneaking people in here to film videos with, his public sex accounts, how he was frequently cheating on the good boyfriend (who purchased a house for them to live in might I add) during the entire time of their relationship and gloating about it online, how disrespectful he is, and his recent DUI which have them paying for his lawyer despite his complete lack of appreciation.

But, the bad thing is he is STILL here causing problems and making it such a negative vibe.

Now I understand some spells can take upwards of six months to a year to work but is that common?

Also, is there a Catholic Saint who would be helpful to petition at this time to get him out?

Unread post by **JayDee** » Thu Jan 11, 2024 5:48 pm

PrayPrepareProsper,

There is no time limit to magic, some can take longer some takes less. You have a complicated situation, a sibling who lives at home, lies to everyone, is a cheater and an Only Fans and now a DUI. This is complicated. I would expect it to take longer for the work to fully manifest. What you do have is a lot of movement, the family realized, the movement in his career and social behavior. These would encourage me to keep the work going.

JayDee

PrayPrepareProsper · Unread post by **PrayPrepareProsper** » Thu Jan 11, 2024 9:09 pm

Thank you for clarifying JayDee. There is a lot of movement Thank God which is wonderful. Do you recommend I continue the same candles or try something different? Between August to now I've done Banishment, Influence, Hot Foot, and Cast Off Evil. I've done Hot Foot multiple times. Is there a Catholic Saint I should integrate?

Unread post by **JayDee** » Fri Jan 12, 2024 2:43 pm

PrayPrepareProsper,

I would keep the Hot Foot and add Break Up or Separation to end his relationship with the family. You can Pray Psalms 1 to remove the Ungodly.

https://www.readersandrootworkers.org/wiki/Psalms_1

Anights_shadow · Unread post by **Anights_shadow** » Wed Feb 14, 2024 11:42 am

Good afternoon,

I’m trying to find the right kind of spell to get rid of my boyfriend’s 26 yr old adult son from our home and away from us. Ever since he moved in we’ve been having issues amongst each other. The son is adult and holds a job but moved in with us because he did want to pay bills and save money. Completely understandable with the times we’re in but we set an incentive to have a plan for him to figure out what he wants to do as far as a career and what he plans on doing with his money. He has been living with us for almost 6 months and I have yet to see a plan or anything in progress in that direction to moving out.

He does struggle with his mental health and has really bad anxiety and panic attacks but managing it with his medication’s and therapy. He’s comfortable in our home, not paying any bills, being fed, and playing video games when he’s not working and I’m over it. He is stressing his father out which just causing fights between us. I know longer want this chaos in our home. His mother is moving to Arizona soon and he’s still on the fence of whether or not he wants to go with her.

What kind of spell would work best in this situation to push him to move out and to live in Arizona with his mother? I would like for him to be financially independent so that his father would never have to worry about him.

Unread post by **catherineyronwode** » Thu Feb 15, 2024 1:12 pm

Hi, Anights_shadow --

That's a tough one. I don;t usually recommend spells in complex situations like this without doing a reading first, but you clarified the situation a lot when you spoke of his struggles with mental illness.

First, the bad news: it is often difficult (although not impossible) to work spells on the mentally ill. He is not just "lazy" -- he has a thought disorder of some sort. Trying to move his mind into departure or accompanying his mother is like trying to convince mollasses to form a stable shape -- without the medication, he will tend to melt down into chaos.

So, given those conditions, and the understanding that you do not wish to curse him to leave, i think your best idea would be to craft a moving candle spell with four 4" or figural candles -- him and his mother moving away from you and your boyfriend. Keep you and your boyfriend together, and move him and his mother away together. Us tehe state logo of your state upon which to stand your two candles and the state logo of the state of Arizona as the target toward you will move the mom and son's candles during the course of the burn. Dress your two candles with Peaceful Home and House Blessing Oil. Dress their two candles with Safe Travel and Separation oils. As their candles cross the line toward Arizona, place an open pair of scissors behind the, with the blacdes facing their backs, to keep them from returning. Pray from your hert that they will be safe and well and separated from the two of you

I hope this helps -- and good luck to you!

Anights_shadow · Unread post by **Anights_shadow** » Wed Feb 28, 2024 4:54 am

Thank you so much Catherine!

His mother leaves for Arizona soon so hopefully I’m able to do the spell in time so they can both go together.

PrayPrepareProsper · Unread post by **PrayPrepareProsper** » Mon Mar 04, 2024 10:47 pm

@JayDee @CatherineYronwode

As you know, my brother got a DUI in November and my parents have been paying for his lawyer despite discovering him having an OnlyFans and using our house has a cum-and-go for strangers.

Up until now it has been my parents vs my brother when it comes to his illicit ways (OnlyFans, strangers in house filming XXX videos, the DUI, lawyer, etc).

I burned a Hot Foot, Peaceful Home, Separation, and Break Up in January and February. Tonight I came home and a beat up car was in front. I walked to the backyard before going in and saw the back door unlocked. When I got inside I opened the curtains to the living room (my brother put them up after moving here in August). Sure enough he was in bed with a shady looking guy. He caught attitude: "Hello! Can I help you?" while the loser was on his phone.

I told my parents immediately, my father kicked the guy out, and we all had a talk about his activities downstairs. Of course my brother lied to everyone's face, took no responsibility, and made it about me being extra by telling my parents and my parents scaring the guy away. He said it is a good friend yet refused to tell us who it was. My parents pointed out if it is somebody he knows well why would they have to sneak in through the back where there is no camera!?

Tonight my parents decided we need to order cameras for the entire house plus replace the front one because my brother has access to it. Everyone is fed up with him. He keeps fucking up, everyone keeps helping, and he keeps putting us in a vulnerable unsafe position. We do not feel safe in our home because of him. I want him out ASAP and I don't want problems between him and I in the interim.

1. Candle Work: What candles should I do next to have burnt at the church?

2. Bible Magic: Do you recommend I pray Psalms 1 daily?

3.Moving Him to Grandmother's House: Any advice? I suggested my parents have him stay at my grandmothers where she has extra bedrooms including an apartment downstairs in the basement, however my parents do not want her to be exposed to his activities. I just want him AWAY

4. Using Family Gossip to Drive Him Away: My mother values the opinion of our extended family HEAVILY. We have a gay cousin who is a blabber mouth. I know this sounds slightly devious, albeit I do not think so at all given the hell he has put us through; do you think it would be a good idea to expose my brother anonymously to my cousin knowing he will tell the whole fam? I only suggest this thinking maybe it will get my parents to get him to live elsewhere. Idk I am just so drained by him. He has ruined our peace.

Unread post by **catherineyronwode** » Tue Mar 05, 2024 3:31 pm

PrayPrepareProsper --

It seems like your parents and you are fully on the same page. My opinions:

0) I am SO GLAD your parents are going to install more cameras. This situation is shady, sketchy, and dangerous. You brother is disrespecting your family by turning the home into a brothel without consent, but they are taking a stand, which is great.

1) Hot Foot, Peaceful Home, Separation, and Break Up candles got you this far, and now your parents are on board. I would use those same candles again.

2) Yes, Psalms 1 is great for getting ungodly people to leave. Pray it daily.

3) I side with your parents on this one -- do NOT subject your poor grandmother to what could easily become an unsafe, even dangerous environment. That is simply cruel to her. You ought to support, respect, and defend her, not try to use her as a dumpling ground for your troubled brother.

4) I would not use gossip as a weapon -- it is low and distasteful to me. I also don't like the idea of you specifically trying to involve your "gay cousin" in this matter. Just because he is gay -- and you went to the trouble to point that out to us -- does not justify using him as a sneaky conduit of gossip. The problems with your brother's DUI, filming XXX movies in the family home, and inviting unknown and possibly dangerous strangers into the home for sex are bad enough that you and your parents ought to tell other family members -- but do so with clarity, not via gossip.

5) Earlier you asked about a Catholic saint who might help remove him. I'm sorry i forgot to address that question. My sud=ggestions:

° Archangel Michael grants protection andis known for driving out the devil.
° Saint Martha used holy water and the sign of the cross to quell a monster.
° Saint Benedict could cast out demons using the sign of the cross.

Unread post by **Destiny** » Wed May 01, 2024 9:11 am

Hello everyone, Can anyone tell me how to get rid of a clingy, needy person. I want my daughter to get sick & tired of this lady & send her home, she came to visit one weekend ,& never left, she has her own place & has been at my daughters apartment for three months now,

Unread post by **JayDee** » Wed May 01, 2024 12:03 pm

Destiny,

Hot foot is a great product to make a person leave and in a hurry. You can also throw salt into her footstep, or her shadow as she leaves your home, then flip a broom upside down and the person will leave and not return.

Hot Foot: https://www.luckymojo.com/hotfoot.html
Foot-track: https://www.luckymojo.com/foottrack.html
Salt: https://www.luckymojo.com/salt.html

JayDee

Unread post by **Destiny** » Sat May 11, 2024 1:10 pm

Hello,
Thank you, JayDee
I want to do a really strong separation spell with herbs & oils. I’m not trying to get rid of her forever she’s a family member that has her own place & kids but refuses to go home. She can visit but just go home after each visit. I have a lot of lucky mojo oils & herbs already, but What herbs & roots would I use for separation work & what color candles

Unread post by **JayDee** » Sat May 11, 2024 4:38 pm

Destiny,

I would use black candles with Separation oil, then dress it with commanding herbs such as Licorice and Calamus root to make the person do what you say. You can also add Barberry to keep them away to the candles.

JayDee

Unread post by **Destiny** » Tue May 28, 2024 5:42 am

Thank you JayDee,

Being that she is a clingy person & seems to not be bothered with her own children, maybe it would keep her home more if I can reunite her & her daughter by doing some come to me and reconciliation work on her and her daughter. They don’t see eye to eye, because the mother is not good in the department of responsibility she always dumped her children off on any & everyone when they were growing up. So none of her children are really close to her & they have very little respect for her. The sad part is that they don’t hesitate to let her & everyone around know how they feel about her.

I need some ideas for come to me, to mainly bring her daughter back into her life, & the reconciliation to bring them much much closer as a mother & daughter should be. She never ever does anything with her kids even though they are older and young adults now. They never had any type of guidance.

I want to work with her and the daughter first then the others, because the daughter has some connections to the others. I want to strengthen & make them closer than ever whereas nothing or anyone can come in between their relationship.

Unread post by **catherineyronwode** » Tue May 28, 2024 1:09 pm

Hi, Destiny --

You mentioned Cme To Me and Reconciliation, but if you want my advice, i would use Return To Me and Reconciliation, perhaps with Peaceful Home added.

However, at this point we are no longer talking about "Spells to Break Ties to Difficult Family Members or Friends or Cause Them to Move Away" -- and have turned to the other side of the coin:

Spells to Keep the Family Together or Return Family Members
spells-to-keep-the-family-together-or-r ... t5899.html

Spells to Heal Angry Negative Depressed Parents and Elders
spells-to-heal-angry-negative-depressed ... 20038.html

There are plenty of traditional methods in those threads and i would be glad to help you further there.

By the way, it is nice to see you back in the forum -- i've missed you. Turn in your homework and graduate, okay?

Much love,

melaka_01 · Unread post by **melaka_01** » Wed Jul 10, 2024 7:02 am

Hello,

My daughter has an ex “friend” - who she was friends with only briefly- who turned out to be a violent and toxic person. She has cut ties with this person after realizing his nature due to frequent outburst. (Screaming at her etc) She recently had a dream where he brought a gun to their college and she’s terrified to return to school after summer break. In her dream he found her in the library where she was hiding when the school went on lock down for an active shooter situation. This will be her second year returning to this college - and he was only recently accepted and has not gone to this school before. He transferred schools for her. Does anyone have any suggestions to what would be appropriate for this situation? Should he not attend school? Move away? Hot foot? For contex He lives about 30 minutes away on a tiny farm with his parents. He has no money - and no family money - so they won’t be able to support him. He also has issues securing employment and is frequently between jobs. For more context he recently went to another girls apartment throwing his things off a balcony and threatening her. That girl called my daughter yesterday to inform her she is placing a restraining order against him. Any advice would be amazing thank you so much in advance.

PrayPrepareProsper · Unread post by **PrayPrepareProsper** » Sun Sep 15, 2024 10:42 pm

Hi All. It has been just over a year since my toxic brother (history of stealing money from me, borrowing and not paying back, and doing things to trigger my asthma growing up) moved back in with us.

As you know, he was with a partner for 6-7 years who purchased a house for them. My brother cheated on the partner throughout their relationship, even posting videos of it for a year and a half before he left the loyal partner.

Then, after he moved in, he used a sex-related app where he put our safety in jeopardy by inviting strangers over to film from September 2023 - March 2024. We now have cameras throughout the exterior of the home which he does not have access to. His secret is out.

In November 2023 he got a DUI and my parents paid for the lawyer, breathalyzer installation, and required classes. However, he is still here.

In 2023, I had approximately a dozen candles (I forget the exact number) burned at the MISC church in hopes he would relocate. In 2024, thus far I have had 8 candles burned at the church specifically for him to relocate. The candles I had burned at the church (some multiple) over the past year include Hot Foot, Peaceful Home, Separation, Run Devil Run, Cast Off Evil, Command-Compel-Control, Influence, Black for Banishment, Blockbuster, and Reversing.

While I do feel the candles helped him be exposed to the extent that my parents couldn't make the excuses they did in the past, and simultaneously made my parents respect me more, he is still here.

What steps do you recommend I take next? Are there a couple specific candles you recommend I have burnt at the church simultaneously? Please advise

Unread post by **catherineyronwode** » Wed Sep 18, 2024 10:49 am

PrayPrepareProsper --

Have you had a reading on the situation?

I ask because as you describe the evolution of the situation over time, it seems like your efforts to use candle magic to move your brother out of the home are being blocked -- out front and visibly -- by your parents, who are financially, socially, and no doubt spiritually working to keep him safe by keeping him near. In other words, it;s 3 against 1 -- your parents and your brother against you.

If this feels like i am on to something,and you want my advice, i would offer you some work to bring courage to the parents, who are caving in to him in every possible way, to the detriment of their own safety.

I suggest :

Home protection. Protection, House Blessing, Guardian Angel
Your parents to see clearly so they stop paying off his criminal conduct. Clarity
Your parents gaining courage to set firm boundaries and move him out. Crucible of Courage
Your parents fighting on your side, not against you. Power, King Solomon Wisdom

PrayPrepareProsper · Unread post by **PrayPrepareProsper** » Wed Nov 06, 2024 7:59 am

Thank you for this Catherine. You raise a good point. I had a discussion with my parents recently and was told, as much as they do not want him here and dislike having him here, they will not kick him out. I am glad they are also uncomfortable and unhappy having him here. With that said, they still give him far too many passes. Letting him put our safety at risk from Sept 2023 - March 2024 without getting cameras was foolish considering they found out in November, confronted him, and took his word he would stop which he obviously did not. I had words with him this morning because he showers with the door open because "of the steam" and is extremely loud in the bathroom. He was not apologetic and instead made passive aggressive comments to me. I kind of flipped out at him which he had coming. He does not care about us, does not even socialize with us unless to ask me to borrow money here and there or to ask my parents to order food. He is so vile I just wish my parents would force him to move him out. He has made the living room his turf, moved all his shit into the hallway closet and garage, and has no shame how uncomfortable he is making life for us. I ordered a Hot Foot candle a couple weeks ago and just ordered a House Blessing to be burned at the church - all with the intention of him leaving which I pray he does.
Question 1: Is there a powerful Saint I can pray for who can aid getting him to move away from us?
Question 2: Similar to a vinegar jar, is there some type of Hot Foot jar (if there is any) I can do for him (and someone else for that matter I keep running into)? I do not want to do a vinegar jar on my brother, because I do not need his life getting worse and staying here longer. Rather, I want him to move and go away.

Unread post by **JayDee** » Thu Nov 07, 2024 1:16 pm

PrayPrepareProsper,

I am not sure of a Saint to make a person leave. You can ask a Saint like Michael to make him leave if he is evil, and pray Psalms 1 to make him leave over the Hotfoot candle you ordered.

A jar filled with hot sauce would make a good hot jar thrown in running water to send him away.

JayDee

PrayPrepareProsper · Unread post by **PrayPrepareProsper** » Mon Nov 11, 2024 5:38 am

So would you suggest a jar with his name, picture, birthdate, hot foot powder, and hot sauce with a petition such as "as these waters carry [name] away may he relocate immediately" ?

Unread post by **catherineyronwode** » Tue Nov 12, 2024 12:09 am

PrayPrepareProsper --

I am not JayDee, but i think i can answer that for you. Yes, that is a good, traditional spell. Leave enough air in the bottle so it will float downstream.

HolyAri555 · Unread post by **HolyAri555** » Tue Nov 12, 2024 9:04 am

My Mother-In-Law and her boyfriend have been living with my husband, andour two children for close to a year now and it's getting old. Husband and i had to discuss them leaving within 3-6 months. if we had never addressed it, they would just continue being in our home. They acted surprised that we addressed an exit plan for them both.

Honestly i was never comfortable living with my Mother-In-Law's boyfriend. He quit his truck driving job and out of sympathy we allowed him to stay since my Mother-In-Law was already living with us. But the boyfriend of my Mother-In-Law has invalidated boundaries several times and also has monitoring and copycat energy which throws me off. I've had to adjust to living with a man i don't know much about and have him around my children.

We've helped them a lot and tolerated their unorganized plans for long enough. We need to focus on our children and immediate needs. I'm tired of feeling distrustful in a home that should be a sanctuary. I need them to find a better situation to suit them both. They've taken advantage long enough.

I have Hot Foot Oil. I was going to do a candle spell for them both so should I write both of their names on the candle or just do a petition?

Unread post by **JayDee** » Tue Nov 12, 2024 5:15 pm

HolyAri555 ,

You can carve the name on the candle and burn it, then throw the leftover wax in running water to send them away. Take the oil and put a drop in their shoes as you pray to have them leave.

JayDee

PrayPrepareProsper · Unread post by **PrayPrepareProsper** » Sun Dec 01, 2024 10:22 pm

Hi catherineyronwode: Thank you for the confirmation. I do not want to hurt my brother or to see him suffer, I just want him to leave, and so thus I did a hot foot jar with his photograph, name, birthdate, and my intention for him to move out and relocate on it. I used hot foot powder, red pepper flakes, black pepper, do as I say oil, and a little apple cider vinegar. Is this acceptable? I did not want to use four thieves vinegar or even a lot of apple cider vinegar since my intention is for him to be invigorated with the desire to relocate asap as opposed to suffering. Thoughts?

Unread post by **catherineyronwode** » Mon Dec 02, 2024 11:12 am

PrayPrepareProsper --

Sounds good.

For the record, your idea that Four Thieves Vinegar is inherently intended to cause "suffering" is not correct. It can used in spells for suffering, but it also is used in folk magic to protect from disease. HOW it is employed is what determines the outcome.

Therefore i would have had no problem using Four Thieves Vinegar in this spell because it does have Red Pepper in it, same as Hot Foot, and it does have Garlic, which protects from evil.

In this radio show on culinary Magic, you will hear me mention "Four Thieves Vinegar for protection and 'move along now' vibes."

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PrayPrepareProsper · Unread post by **PrayPrepareProsper** » Wed Mar 05, 2025 6:28 pm

My parents do not want my brother living with us but would never kick him out. With that said, is there anything super intense I can do to get him to relocate? I know spells take time. As you know, I have been doing work to get him to move out since September 2023. The good thing is he has been exposed and people are aware of the illicit person he is. Now I just need him to be gone.

Unread post by **catherineyronwode** » Fri Mar 07, 2025 1:06 am

PrayPrepareProsper --

The spells we describe in this YouTube video may be of help to you --

Lucky Mojo Hoodoo Rootwork Hour 7/22/18: Cutting Soul Ties
with co-hosts catherine yronwode and ConjureMan,
special guest Lady Muse, and announcer Papa Newt.
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PrayPrepareProsper · Unread post by **PrayPrepareProsper** » Wed Apr 23, 2025 8:13 am

Catherine, could I do a Saint Joseph candle in an effort to push my toxic brother to move out? Over the past 1.5 years I've done Hot Foot and a variety of others, but never actually petitioned a Saint. I am Catholic and pray to Saints so do you think it is worth it given it is a home/real estate matter too?

Unread post by **catherineyronwode** » Wed Apr 23, 2025 11:31 am

PrayPrepareProsper --

I am not a Catholic, but speak from experience with Catholic clients and friend: Saint Joseph is a patron of families, homes, and jobs, and Our Lady of Loreto is petitioned for moving to a new house. I would combine the two - a candle for each -- Saint Joseph to protect the home and family in the home, and Our Lady of Loreto to help him move away.

Our Lady of Loretto is called upon to aid in moving, and finding a new home. She is also the patron saint of renters. The image associated with her depicts her home being moved from Jerusalem to Loreto, with the assistance of an angelic band. The miraculously translocated house became the foundation of a very large church in Loreto, Italy. Petition Our Lady of Loreto, patron of those involved in aviation, those in search of a new home, builders, and construction workers, for her assistance in these endeavors.

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PrayPrepareProsper · Unread post by **PrayPrepareProsper** » Thu May 01, 2025 2:04 pm

Thank you Catherine.

You previously mentioned I can use four thieves vinegar in a hot foot jar spell to get my brother to relocate without harm. I am sure you are aware of the hell he has put me and my parents through over the past almost 2 years.

The last time I did it I held back on the vinegar. I plan to repeat it and I plan to do a chime candle in front of the jar to charge it.

1. Does candle color matter? For example, can I use purple or white, or must it be black?

2. Also, are photographs necessary for optimal results (my printer is broken)?

3. I was planning on including name, birthday, my petition, and a plethora of ingredients including: four thieves vinegar, herbs, red pepper, black pepper, cayenne, hot foot oil, and reversing oil. Is it bad to include revenge oil or is that going too far?

4. if I get a little hot foot oil on my desk or on my skin, is that a big deal? It's almost inevitable for a drop or two to fall.

Unread post by **JayDee** » Fri May 02, 2025 3:48 pm

PrayPrepareProsper,

1. There are no hard and fast rules, however color magic plays a role in the energy of the work.Can you use another color? Yes, will it have the same effect? That is questionable. White can always be used in place of a color.

Candle Magic: https://www.luckymojo.com/candlemagic.html

2. A photo helps as it focuses the work on the target, and it can also be used as an effigy. Personal concerns also help

Hoodoo Dolls and Effigies: https://www.luckymojo.com/hoodoodollsandeffigies.html
Personal concerns on the forum: personal-concerns-hair-photo-name-cloth ... -1440.html
Personal Concerns on AIRR: https://readersandrootworkers.org/wiki/ ... ical_Links

3. Bad? This is a question reflective of the work and the justification, only you can answer that. Revenge to a curse or vinegar jar is not out of the ordinary.

Revenge: https://www.luckymojo.com/revenge.html

4. If you sill it the custom is to clean it and follow with a spiritual bath like Hyssop and Psalms 51.

Hyssop: https://www.herbmagic.com/hyssop.html
Psalms 51: https://readersandrootworkers.org/wiki/Psalms_51

JayDee