Spells to Separate From Abusive, Violent, or Spell-Casting Lover or Spouse

mairz · Unread post by **mairz** » Mon Apr 20, 2009 12:08 pm

I've been helping a friend cope with some issues. Work was done to help with personal power and the ability to attract the things that are good for her. As a result, changes are taking place in her life that are uncomfortable for her. She's getting the idea that the work has backfired. I've thought about using st. barbara or lady of grace as novenas to ease her anxiety along with clarity oil. The idea being to introduce a brief daily ritual of positive affirmation and practice would be reassuring. I need some input please. Thanks

YouTube · Unread post by **Miss Bri** » Mon Apr 20, 2009 2:47 pm

Hi Mairz,

First of all, make sure that she understands what she has asked for and what she should be expecting--if she was not expecting to be put in a situation where she is not comfortable than she may well be surprised that certain things are coming up, help her put it into context.

I also use King Solomon Wisdom oil:
http://www.luckymojo.com/oil-king-solomon-wisdom.html
and perhaps Blessing oil:
http://www.luckymojo.com/products-blessing.html

And I would incorporate Sage and Solomon Seal root into work that you are doing for her as both of them are wisdom and clarity-bringers.

good luck,
Bri

Unread post by **catherineyronwode** » Mon Apr 20, 2009 3:06 pm

Mairz, since i do not know you, and you are not presented here as course graduate ("Certified Practitioner"), i feel that i am only taking your word for it that the work you are undertaking for your friend-client is succeeding -- but, honestly, i am not a believer in the idea that helping someone find happiness and pleasure should ever make them uncomfortable.

I have no idea what you are helping your friend with, but i am going to give you an example that comes up often in conversations: A woman has an abusive husband, but once she is helped to separate from him, she becomes sexually lonely and sad, and also feels helpless to find a new, better lover, and so blames the rootworker for "making her lonely." A practitioner used to working with clients (and any student of my course, who will have read an entire lesson on these sorts of problem clients) will know that this is a specific kind of love client and how to handle her.

Another example, and more difficult to deal with, is the client who wants to lose weight and expects this to be accomplished solely through magical means, with no attention to changing her diet or undertaking a regimine of exercise. The root doctor may do a food-revulsion spell, which will cause the friend-client to feel "starved" or "not happy." She may then blame the root doctor for making her suffer -- but, then, most trained root doctors would not take on such a case without a lot of pre-planning for the medical aspects of the case to be handled by a medical professional.

So, ultimately, i can't tell what's up with the case you describe, or why your friend-client is feeling "backfired" upon -- but i suggest that you think through the situation yourself as deeply as you are able, and consider if there are mental, medical, or social aspects to the case that need to be addressed in addition to the spell-craft you are peforming.

mairz · Unread post by **mairz** » Mon Apr 20, 2009 3:35 pm

Thanks so much. My friend has been standing up for herself and has been severing relationships with people who have been taking advantage of her. One of these was a controlling boyfriend. She's now in a position where she is making choices that suit her needs and she's feeling some anxiety and a little self doubt. She's learning to trust herself. This is what I meant about discomfort. We performed candle rituals for conquering fear, to retain health and to hold happiness.

Thanks again.

Unread post by **Literarylioness** » Tue Apr 21, 2009 11:38 am

mairz wrote:I've been helping a friend cope with some issues. Work was done to help with personal power and the ability to attract the things that are good for her. As a result, changes are taking place in her life that are uncomfortable for her. She's getting the idea that the work has backfired. I've thought about using st. barbara or lady of grace as novenas to ease her anxiety along with clarity oil. The idea being to introduce a brief daily ritual of positive affirmation and practice would be reassuring. I need some input please. Thanks

I actually see this quite a bit, especially with women who only want bad boy men. It takes a bit of work for them to let go of this bad guys and wanting these bad guys.

I would burn some white candles for her dressed with healing oil, althea, blessed thistle, and yarrow. St. Dympna helps with mental anxiety and distress.

Mary

RosaMona · Unread post by **RosaMona** » Sun May 31, 2009 6:11 am

Hello everyone,
I'm an extremely nervous newbie who has a few questions.
My husband is very abusive and has anger management problems, is there any spell to work on him so that he can be controlled?
I wanted to do a Nation Sack, but being based in the UK, we unfortunately don't have dime coins, nevertheless any from my year of birth, is there any substitute I can use instead?
If I decide to have him leave me, is there any method I can conjure to make him just leave peacefully and never bother me and my loved ones?

I appreciate all your helps,

Rosa

Unread post by **Turnsteel** » Sun May 31, 2009 12:24 pm

Well, I would say get out of their, get a restraining order and a good lawyer and divorce him. Magic is great but in my experience will not change an abusive man into a good one. Look into Fiery Wall to protect yourself and Court Case for when you go to court.

Unread post by **starsinthesky7** » Sun May 31, 2009 5:36 pm

Do a clear cut is all I have to say. Also, I woudl consider some Hotfoot work. But you need to get a restraining order like Hail said above.

Unread post by **Literarylioness** » Sun May 31, 2009 6:16 pm

RosaMona wrote:Hello everyone,
I'm an extremely nervous newbie who has a few questions.
My husband is very abusive and has anger management problems, is there any spell to work on him so that he can be controlled?
I wanted to do a Nation Sack, but being based in the UK, we unfortunately don't have dime coins, nevertheless any from my year of birth, is there any substitute I can use instead?
If I decide to have him leave me, is there any method I can conjure to make him just leave peacefully and never bother me and my loved ones?

I appreciate all your helps,

Rosa

Hot foot him out of the house, Cast Off Evil, Fiery wall of Protection, and when you feel better, some healing work.

As Hail mentioned, please get the legal and professional help you need as well.

Mary

Unread post by **Chagrinedgirl** » Sun May 31, 2009 9:25 pm

It's been pointed out that hoodoo can't change a person's basic nature, and for whatever reason abusers seem to be 'bent' deep down inside, however they got there. I seriously doubt you can make any changes there, especially since abusers tend to be the controllers, and seriously resistant to any kind of authority or being told what to do. You deserve to have a peaceful, happy home, and don't let him try to convince you of anything else!

RosaMona · Unread post by **RosaMona** » Thu Jun 04, 2009 11:23 am

Thank you everyone for your suggestions. I've been thinking of hotfooting him, but I'm wondering; we are currently living in a property that is under his name, he has done alot of maintenance in the house and feel a strong connection to our home, we also have a child together and he's very possessive of our child, if I decide to hotfoot him, might it not backfire or simply not work because of his strong connection? And what is the threefold law if any for hot footing?
Thanks once again for your help,

Rosa

fausto · Unread post by **fausto** » Thu Jun 04, 2009 1:50 pm

RosaMona wrote:Thank you everyone for your suggestions. I've been thinking of hotfooting him, but I'm wondering; we are currently living in a property that is under his name, he has done alot of maintenance in the house and feel a strong connection to our home, we also have a child together and he's very possessive of our child, if I decide to hotfoot him, might it not backfire or simply not work because of his strong connection? And what is the threefold law if any for hot footing?
Thanks once again for your help,

Rosa

The threefold law doesent apply to hoodoo, thats a wiccan/pagan thing. If you are really justified in your actions, and it sounds like you are, there should be no karmic blowback. Once again, do not rely on magic alone. If you can provide evidence of physical abuse, that can go a long way in helping your cause from a legal standpoint. Get a restraining order, back it up with a hotfoot spell.

RosaMona · Unread post by **RosaMona** » Fri Jun 05, 2009 6:47 am

Thank you fausto for your reply, it is very relieving to know that there is no threefold law or karma coming back to one.
Now I just want to know, if I hot foot him out of our home now and decide to move, will he still stay away? By this question I mean, does the hotfooting only work on the person staying away from the property or does it work on the person to stay away from whomever hotfooted them? Because we have a child together, who he loves ALOT, is there a way that in the event that he get hotfooted, somehow returns when the effect of the spell/powder weakens? I'm asking these questions because I know that a restraining order wont keep him away, and even if he doesn't want me, he will try to get our child. Maybe I need to perform many spells to keep him away, but which ones?

Rosa

RosaMona · Unread post by **RosaMona** » Sat Jun 06, 2009 3:41 am

Somebody help? I really need to get this man out of my life for good!

cancankant · Unread post by **cancankant** » Sat Jun 06, 2009 6:12 am

Has this person always been abusive or was there some change? If so, when did it occur? You may not be able to get this man out of your life for good. Go through all your legal matters. Use Court Case stuff for that -- I have done those spells and they do work. The Fiery Wall of Protection for yourself is a good suggestion as well.

It doesn't sound like you particularly want "bad things to happen to him". You just don't want the abuse and are tired of being with him as a couple. I hope that he does not abuse your child. I'm not sure what the laws are in the UK, but here in the US, most parents are going to get some visitation or custody rights, so that means you'll have some contact with him. You might want to do a honey jar spell AFTER you're divorced, but put the focus on amicable interactions between you & him. After all, despite what he's done, he is the father of your child and you admit he loves the child. I assume your child loves him, too.

When you've gone through all your legal action, you'll probably be due monetary support for the child, so then you'll need some money drawing supplies to make sure that goes smoothly as well (especially if his payments lag or his commitment to child or spousal support is low).

Most of all, if your husband goes through a "honeymoon phase" either before, during or after you've divorced him, if you want to break it off with him, don't take him back. Most abuse situations go through several breakups of the couple and can escalate in violence and abuse each time.

Angie

Unread post by **Chagrinedgirl** » Sat Jun 06, 2009 10:22 am

If you're comfortable working with the Saints, you may want to petition St Rita of Cascia. She is the patron against abusive relationships, and a Saint of the impossible.

mahoganysoul · Unread post by **mahoganysoul** » Mon Aug 03, 2009 9:04 pm

I feel like someone has control over me. What ever they ask, I can't bring myself to say NO. I am not sure what is going on... I just know something is not right! I like him as a friend but nothing more than that.

Should I use Cut & Clear or is there something else better to use?

Unread post by **catherineyronwode** » Mon Aug 03, 2009 9:06 pm

If you feel like someone has you tied and bound, you can indeed use the Black Walnut bath, followed by Cut and Clear, to wash away and then slice through what is holding you to this person. After that, do a cleansing and protection spell on yourself to keep it from coming back.

Good luck,

zSar777 · Unread post by **zSar777** » Fri Nov 27, 2009 7:41 am

Hi, I have this difficult situation which is really burning me out. Please try to understand me and I am having a serious emotional problem and i wanted to put it at rest. Being a guy with this kind of sitaution is very unsual (i think) and most of the time I just cried without knowing how to resolvbe it...

A little background...

I am have married for 17 years and I am not really happy with it. I admit that there are good times thats why we lasted this long but it consumed my life to the edge. My wife is a very controlling and demanding person. She is way too selfish and very jealous person. She never wanted me to have fun with my hobbies or go out with my buddies which she knows them well. Its always has to be her way and not mine. What she wants, she should get.. that kind of spoiled attitude. I let it happened which is my fault also. She would be very mean if I dont do it her way. There are times she snaps and will not communicate and I have to beg for her and will be happy if she is totally content.

I finally had enough and gave up with all the crap that she has been treating me. Up to the point I met another woman which I am ready to move on. I left and asked for divorce. My wife came begging, crying, threatening of suicide... all sorts of mind games.... will not stop until I got back to her. She promised to change and she admits that she went to root doctors to bring me back. Its been 4 months now and she starts to get back to her own self again which demands every free minute I have.

My problem is this... I really wanted to leave my wife coz I can't stand her ways for me. But there are times that made me very sick of thinking of leaving her. It was not like this before when I had left her. I only had this funny feelings after she went to root doctors which she cast on me.

I wanted to move on with my soulmate which I am hurting her feelings too because I seem can not find the courage to leave my wife. Everything is a mess and everyday I feel sick with my mind for this roller coaster mind game and contants emotional issues.

What spells can you recommend for me to do for myself?

Thanks for listening to my issues.

Unread post by **JayDee** » Fri Nov 27, 2009 8:35 am

hm well, first id get a reading from a worker LM has a site dedicated to professional workers. Read through the profiles and select one that speaks to you. The reader, for starters, can tell what is on you, and how to remove it, the worker also can suggest work you can use to get away from the wife and with the new women. Being yourwife threatend in some serious manners, maybe having a tranqulity spell put on her also. To get over her you can use the black walnut bath to get over a lover, or the cut and clear products to cut it all out so you can start new with this women. http://www.readersandrootworkers.org

Unread post by **ConjureMan** » Fri Nov 27, 2009 11:53 am

You definately want to get a reading done. This will help determine whether you really have roots put on you or its a psychosomatic thing. After that you can work with the rootworker to resolve your issues. You want to work with jinx removal work and cleansing and protecting work. Finally a Cut and Clear should help break the last emotional bonds. But get a reading before anything else.

zSar777 · Unread post by **zSar777** » Fri Nov 27, 2009 12:12 pm

Ok, thank you so much for the advise.. I will get a reading first as recommended.

zSar777 · Unread post by **zSar777** » Tue Dec 15, 2009 7:39 am

Okay.. I wanted to thank "Karma Zain" (http://www.karmazain.com) that helped me with the card reading. Yes, indeed there's some blockage that were cast on me. And suprising as it can be... Karma feels that it might has something to do with my wife... Yesterday, I asked my wife if she did any rootwork or curse on me... she said "YES".. only she did coz of her rage of anger... no wonder I am emotionally so depressed, weak, lost my job and full of bad luck just went on my way. My wife said sorry and she is taking it back... how?? I already had suffered so much...!

Unread post by **Devi Spring** » Tue Dec 15, 2009 8:48 am

You should find out from Karma what steps you should take. Cleansings are definitely in order, though. Probably some of the 13-Herb bath for 3-13 days is a good place to start. Also cleansing your entire house top to bottom with Chinese Wash. Your wife should undo her work as well, that will help ease everything. You could look into the Uncrossing Kit, and just get some additional 13-Herb Bath when you order so you can bathe over several days.

But you may want to see what Karma feels is the best move. I know she currently has quite the wait for consultations and readings, however. (I just had one through her myself - and she is absolutely lovely and a fantastic resource.) But the consultation line is shorter than the full reading line - so perhaps since she's already read you, you can get the consultation advice fairly expediently.

zSar777 · Unread post by **zSar777** » Tue Dec 15, 2009 12:25 pm

Thanks Juju... yes, Karma had suggested cleansing procedures. She also mentioned the 13-Herb bath... good thing that I have those in hand. I ordered it awhile ago and finally found use for it.

Any other suggestion for cleansing method I greatly will appreciate it.

Unread post by **Devi Spring** » Tue Dec 15, 2009 12:26 pm

Just stick with what Karma laid out for you. Do exactly as she told you - no more, no less - at least for now. See how things resolve after following her advice.

Unread post by **Literarylioness** » Tue Dec 15, 2009 8:40 pm

zSar777 wrote:Hi, I have this difficult situation which is really burning me out. Please try to understand me and I am having a serious emotional problem and i wanted to put it at rest. Being a guy with this kind of sitaution is very unsual (i think) and most of the time I just cried without knowing how to resolvbe it...

A little background...

I am have married for 17 years and I am not really happy with it. I admit that there are good times thats why we lasted this long but it consumed my life to the edge. My wife is a very controlling and demanding person. She is way too selfish and very jealous person. She never wanted me to have fun with my hobbies or go out with my buddies which she knows them well. Its always has to be her way and not mine. What she wants, she should get.. that kind of spoiled attitude. I let it happened which is my fault also. She would be very mean if I dont do it her way. There are times she snaps and will not communicate and I have to beg for her and will be happy if she is totally content.

I finally had enough and gave up with all the crap that she has been treating me. Up to the point I met another woman which I am ready to move on. I left and asked for divorce. My wife came begging, crying, threatening of suicide... all sorts of mind games.... will not stop until I got back to her. She promised to change and she admids thar she went to root doctors to bring me back. Its been 4 months now and she starts to get back to her own self again which demands every free minute I have.

My problem is this... I really wanted to leave my wife coz I can't stand her ways for me. But there are times that made me very sick of thinking of leaving her. It was not like this before when I had left her. I only had this funny feelings after she went to root doctors which she cast on me.

I wanted to move on with my soulmate which I am hurting her feelings too because I seem can not find the courage to leave my wife. Everything is a mess and everyday I feel sick with my mind for this roller coaster mind game and contants emotional issues.

What spells can you recommend for me to do for myself?

Thanks for listening to my issues.

Wow, your nature's been tied! Well, you might have to go to a professional, because when a man's nature has been tied, it is tough for a newbie to untie it. You got to bring in the big guns.

First, DO NOT eat anything your wife cooks or makes for you. She is probably feeding you her menstrual blood and stop having sex with her. Keep getting a headache.

Second, you should take the uncrossing spell kit. Found here: http://www.luckymojo.com/mojocatspells.html

I would follow that up with a Fear Not To Walk Over Evil Spell kit. See above link.

You can also work with St. Michael to give you strength and protection.

Good luck!

Mary

zSar777 · Unread post by **zSar777** » Wed Dec 16, 2009 2:25 pm

Hi Mary, thanks for the suggestion...

After you mentioned that mentrual blood, sometime ago when she was talking to her sister I had heard something that they are doing that for her sister's husband, saying about feeding them to control the male.

Something struck me... I remembered when I left her and came back... although we didn't get to really talk to each other for about a week (silent treatment) but she continues to prepare meals for me. Then I thought after I left her and told her that I am leaving her for good. She continues to serve me food while her face shows deep anger. So all this has to do what you have said. I never realized this until you now. hmmm...

stelselv · Unread post by **stelselv** » Wed Dec 16, 2009 4:47 pm

first of all, even in your darkest moment, have the will power to be healed, cleansed, purified, whatever it is, remind yourself that you will fight it... be determined to get help, you have come to the right forum...

no wonder I am emotionally so depressed, weak, lost my job and full of bad luck just went on my way.

Oh my God, you have been jinxed by your wife... You better get help immediately or it will drive you to the edge.. You will go crazy...

I wanted to move on with my soulmate which I am hurting her feelings too because I seem can not find the courage to leave my wife.

toss the rootwork that your wife did aside........and think......................
You have to decide what is going to make you happy for the rest of your life... your wife or your soulmate... many men have died a depressing deaths living with a demonic wives... the choice is yours..
the problem is not your wife, it is YOU.. what were you doing with a woman like that for 17 years????
It is about time you left her for good and moved on with your soulmate...

NO1.
for the time being do a lemon vinegar jar for your wife...(many threads on that)
to-cause-discord,-fights,-enmity--t3787.html#p19895
spell-to-be-left-alone--t3862.html#p19824
want-to-derail-my-sister%CA%B9s-ex-husb ... tml#p18327
shutting-a-enemies-mouth-t3453.html#p17710

I made a vinegar jar for my enemies and they have left me alone... I was in a worst position than you, i am recovering gradually now... since i joined the forum...

no2 do 13 herbal bath, for uncrossing,,,,, jinx breaking and lifting all your blockages.
no3 order Feiry wall Protection spell kit,,,, to protect yourself and your soulmate from the ''demons''.
no4 do reversal spell ( all info available on the LM website)... send back their gifts.
no5 Read psalm 7 (unhexing), 37, 91, 121(protection)..

you have to soul search, be determined, have the will power, fight it will all your strength and victory will be yours. start avoiding your wife, practice saying NO to her....

all the best in getting your freedom...

zSar777 · Unread post by **zSar777** » Thu Dec 17, 2009 5:05 am

stelselv,
wow.. those are really the great info. you strike me to think why am I taking these... you are right..
I will go for your suggested spells... thanks so much!!

I also remembered like she would say constantly like almost everyday.. "dont leave me", "love me.. love me", "be with me", then cry and be sad.. she gave me something like a charm and asked me to wear it and it was given to us by her sister who went for the rootwork.

That is so unsual change of her attitude because she was so demanding and nasty as much as I can remembered for many years in the past or I should say to the day I tried leaving her.

Unread post by **CopperFox** » Thu Dec 17, 2009 5:57 am

zSar777 --

Do you have the charm given to you by your wife? And if so, can you describe it to us, so that we may possibly be able to identify it for you and give advice on how to counter its effects on you? Also, if you have the opportunity to snoop through her belongings -- be on the lookout for a cord or string with knots tied in it -- especially it the cord seems a little stiff. If you locate said item, that may well be a spell referred to here as tying a man's nature. Essentiallly, she would wet a string with your semen and then knot it ritually to bind you to her. Once you have that in your possession, its power over you should be negated. You could also burn it to release the spell.

The suggestions you've been given here are excellent and give you many options to help yourself overcome this situation. I wish you well and please let us know how it goes with you and if we may be of further assistance.

Take care,
Michelle

zSar777 · Unread post by **zSar777** » Thu Dec 17, 2009 8:07 am

Hi Michelle, thanks..

The item is round made of coconut casing (brown), size about 2 inches in diameter. it is sealed and according her or her sister it contains prayers inside. Its sealed. She has one exactly the same. Since I am out of work (maybe it has do with her stupid curse on me), I can try to look for the said tied cord or string.

One of the curse she placed on me that she said that I should loose my job and to get my life messed up for leaving her. Thats the punishment to me but she said she is taking it back so hope I get well.. thats it without doing anything.

Unread post by **CopperFox** » Thu Dec 17, 2009 8:23 am

I'm sorry to say I don't know what the coconut charm may or may not be. Hopefully someone else here may have a better idea about what it is. Given your experiences, I would not be surprised if the charm were not as innocent as well-intentioned prayers. If you have an idea what sort of magickal practicioner she and the sister have been working with that may clue someone else here into what the charm could possibly be.

I know you are out of work and maybe short of funds, but if you can manage, you may want to look into purchasing some supplies aimed at uncrossing. Even something as simple as bathing in salt water (Epsom salts are cheap!) and reciting protective Psalms may give you a little relief.

Did you ever get to follow up with Karma to find what was recommended? Is she aware of this coconut charm? If not, you may want to let her know about it; it could be important.

Michelle

kmew1315 · Unread post by **kmew1315** » Thu Dec 17, 2009 8:48 am

If it supposedly contains prayers inside, can you open it up and read them?

stelselv · Unread post by **stelselv** » Thu Dec 17, 2009 9:45 am

stelselv,
wow.. those are really the great info. you strike me to think why am I taking these... you are right..
I will go for your suggested spells... thanks so much!!

dear zSar777, you are most welcome, I am happy i could help you at least a tinny winny bit. There are so many men and women out there living with demonic spouses and are stuck.... you are lucky, you wriggled your way out....

I don't know what your charm means but find a way to dispose it properly first, so that it does not affect you anymore ... ask in the forum on another thread maybe..

From now onwards stop talking or getting reminded of what your wife did, get her out of your mind, she is the PAST. Concentrate on yourself, you should only be thinking of finding a solution to your problems, cleansing and protection... and living happily ever after...

You have come to the right place... all the best....

Unread post by **ConjureMan** » Thu Dec 17, 2009 12:51 pm

I haven't seen a charm made of a coconut, but there is a similar charm I know and have prescribed that binds two people together with a walnut. There is also the coconut break up spell, but this is all hypothetical.

Since you already had a reading with Karma, stick to her plan of action. Try not to deviate too much from it, because usually people do more harm then good when they run off doing other conjure besides the ones prescribed by their worker. Trust that she is a professional and will know what amount of power to bring to bear to the situation. After doing what she recommended, do a follow up reading to see how things are going and make sure to mention things like the charm around your neck to get her input.

zSar777 · Unread post by **zSar777** » Thu Dec 17, 2009 2:06 pm

Thanks everyone for your help and responses. Karma is out and wont be available until January 2010. For the meantime she suggested me to work on something. I forgot to mention to her about the coconut shell charm. I wil take a picture of it and post here for you folks to see. It was made by some rootworker in Manila, Philippines.

Unread post by **Devi Spring** » Thu Dec 17, 2009 3:06 pm

Check under the mattress on your wife's side, or in her bra-drawer for that string. If it exists, hopefully she hid it in one of the more common places for that kind of thing. The other place that might be good to luck is where ever she keeps her feminine products. Those are places men aren't likely to go by accident! LOL

josdos · Unread post by **josdos** » Mon Dec 21, 2009 7:09 am

so, heres my question...this poor guy seems miserable, all because his wife tied him to her. i have done the same to my man, but i dont want him to "wish" he could leave me. i want him to want to be there. i only did it so that he would stay faithful since we had one incident that just about tore our family apart. anything i can do to assure that he is happy with me, not just forced?

Natty · Unread post by **Natty** » Tue Dec 22, 2009 3:32 am

A reverse question, I hope I won't get anybody upset by asking this. May I know how to tied up a man's nature like mentioned in this topic?

zSar777 · Unread post by **zSar777** » Tue Dec 22, 2009 4:59 am

I think what Juju said and some of the folks here... to tie a man's nature is to do the knot spells and/or something about menstrual blood for spells. Well, if you love the man and wanted to tie him down, just make sure you love him and dont put misery to him and treat him like a slave. Sooner or later the man will break down.. if this happens... either he will go insane or retaliate... I am miserable..

GoddessMojo · Unread post by **GoddessMojo** » Tue Dec 22, 2009 5:33 am

I think everyone is neglecting the fact that if she has tied him, the tied string is very likely in her mojo or nation bag. It sounds as if she knows enough not to tie him and leave the tie hanging around on it's own somewhere, she likely has her mojo with her. I would. Just my two cents.

The brand new sing-song talk she is giving you now is probably indicative of the work she is doing in some way. Perhaps a skull candle, or a doll baby, which one would talk to in such a way. These are thoughts she wants firmly in your head. It is not just magical but a common form of thought and behavior modification. Pay attention to when she says those things- are you having sex? Doing something to please her? Expressing disinterest? This will give you clues as to when to be sure you are well centered and shielded, and also what situations to avoid as you extract yourself.

Also, I'd suggest Crucible of Courage, Master Key, and Essence of Bend over or other dominating products to strengthen your own courage and will (after a very good cleansing and protection), and to give you more power when dealing with her. Not only should you be working against her work, or looking for it; but you should be protecting and strengthening yourself and using products that will give you dominance in the situation. Good luck.

GoddessMojo · Unread post by **GoddessMojo** » Tue Dec 22, 2009 5:38 am

And Natty, you will find info on both a Nation Sack and tying a man's nature here:
http://www.luckymojo.com/femaledomination.html

Natty · Unread post by **Natty** » Tue Dec 22, 2009 6:40 am

Thank you for the information zSar777 and GoddessMojo!!

May I know whether I can tie his nature if we already broke up? I really want some strong power just like ZSar777's wife did to him. I am sorry to say that zSar777 and I don't have the meaning to hurt you. I just want to learn the method. I love my ex and I won't treat him like a slave I just want to have him back and tie him with me. Is Nation Sack a good choose to me?

zSar777 · Unread post by **zSar777** » Tue Dec 22, 2009 7:55 am

Natty, maybe you want to speak to my wife and if you found the secret and you promise to let me know... so I can destroy the damn thing..

oh well, I just to wait until Karma comes back on January...

Natty · Unread post by **Natty** » Tue Dec 22, 2009 8:17 am

Haha~~ zSar777, you know what, this is the same thing I thought about when I first read your post. If I have the chance, I will definitely speak to your wife, but as your relationship is been so bad now it too cruel for me to ask you help me contact your wife. But if one day you find out what your wife had done on you, Please Please, I beg you please let me know~~!! Thanks!!

hoodoohottie · Unread post by **hoodoohottie** » Fri Nov 26, 2010 12:56 am

Hi I was wondering what I could do to get my sister to leave her boyfriend/ex boyfriend alone. He has been trying to hit on me behind her back for the last several months and has even tried to force himself on me once. I have told her this and she gets pissed off at him and yells and breaks up with him but she is weak and always gives in to him taking him back. Now they are broken up as of today but I know it will only be a matter of time before she takes him back and i'm sick of her being stupid over him! There relationship is also verbally and physically abusive and she spends most of her money on him and her kids go without things because of it. what can I do to make her leave him the hell alone for good? I want her to completely cut him out of her life. I want her to be the one to end things.

Unread post by **jwmcclin** » Fri Nov 26, 2010 5:01 am

Sounds like she needs to do a cut and clear spell. Cut and Clear is a very personal conjure and is done by the individual the question is if your sister will do it for herself. Since you mention she eventually goes back to her ex- and that it is a volatile relationship, she may feel a bond of some sort to him. I like it because it has a healing element as well.

Cut and Clear Spell (http://www.luckymojo.com/cutandclear.html)

Another option is to work a purple candle dressed with Clarity, Crucible of courage and King Solomon Wisdom for your sister to give her clarity , courage and wisdom to see that the relationship is not good for her.

Clarity (http://www.luckymojo.com/oil-clarity.html)
Crucible of Courage (http://www.luckymojo.com/products-cruci ... urage.html)
King Solomon Wisdom (http://www.luckymojo.com/kingsolomonwisdom.html)

cool_lady · Unread post by **cool_lady** » Thu Dec 23, 2010 2:43 pm

Hi everybody, at the beginning excuse me please for my poor language
This is my first post here as I’m reading this wonderful forum almost every day, the huge support and responds for all is what pushing me to write today.
We are living in a male society, which mean the men have the rights whatever they are doing, either the right or wrong thing!!!
I’m married to a man without a job, he is doing some free work from time to time but we cannot depend on this to live, I’m working in a job that need presentable person a kind of public and relationship, the problem here is the jealousy of my husband not because I’m working and he’s not but because my job need me all the time day and night, it’s become big issue for him and he is fighting every day with me he’s calling me all the time and if I didn’t answer that’s mean I’m in a hell once I get home!
His jealousy is sickness, to degree that he starting to punch me, i have rejected many business trips because he is not allowing me to go although he knows that we depend on my salary, and if I open this subject to him I will get a slap on my face, this trips is very important because they are the basic of my promotion, he keep threating me by going to my work and make troubles for me and that’s mean I will lose everything, I’m so tired of all of that and living in nightmare, I don’t feel safe at all.
Dear all please help me in my case, I want him to not feel jealous at all, and letting me do whatever I want whenever I want without discussing and fighting I want him to be like a chair at home as he’s already doing NOTHING, maybe it will come in your mind that I should ask for a divorce, this is the disaster if I do so as in this situation I’ll get attacked from all the society, as I mentioned before a MALE SOCIETY.
I’m writing this with tears please help me

Unread post by **Mama Micki** » Thu Dec 23, 2010 2:56 pm

What male society? Stop worrying about what others think and start taking care of yourself. Get away from him before it's too late. Petition Archangel Michael to protect you and read Psalm 91. Contact the legal authorities where you live and tell them your husband is hitting you. Get a restraining order. Can you move in with a friend or relatives?

I'd suggest St. Michael and Fiery Wall of Protection products.

Unread post by **starsinthesky7** » Thu Dec 23, 2010 3:08 pm

I think you need some clarity and king solomon wisdom products to help you think clearly and help you make a conscious decision about a man that is physically abusing you.

Since you do not feel safe...you should be working with some protection products such as fiery wall of protection, and if you work with Saints then I would work with Archangel Michael.

I would definitely get a reading to see what you should do about this situation. Personally, I would not advise someone staying in an abusive relationship, but I would get a reading to really help you to decide what you should do.

http://www.readersandrootworkers.com
http://www.luckymojo.com/fierywall.html
http://www.luckymojo.com/archangelmichael.html
http://www.luckymojo.com/kingsolomonwisdom.html

As for the male society remarks, I am not sure where you are from because perhaps your country does not hold women to an equal esteem as men, and perhaps getting a divorce is not welcomed. But I urge you to make a decision that is best for yourself. It maybe a difficult decision, but your safety, and well-being is more important than what others think of you.

Unread post by **Miss Tammie Lee** » Thu Dec 23, 2010 3:09 pm

Hot foot his behind right out of your life! Put some hot foot powder in his shoes and he'll skidaddle on out! Also don't hesitate for a minute to call the police on him and PRESS CHARGES AND FOLLOW THROUGH and get a restraining order. Continue to be brave. Keep going. You can do this. Thank God you are not in denial!
I also recommend crucible of courage and Crown of Success.
http://www.luckymojo.com/hotfoot.html
HOT FOOT
http://www.luckymojo.com/crucibleofcourage.html
Crucible of Courage
http://www.luckymojo.com/crownofsuccess.html
Crown of Success.
Cleanse the home when he is gone. With everything from bundled white sage to Chinese Wash.
Protect yourself with Fiery Wall of Protection:
http://www.luckymojo.com/fierywall.html
I would work with Saint Michael The Arch Angel immediately. http://www.luckymojo.com/archangelmichael.html
Again call the police if you even think he is going to strike you again-- DO NOT HESITATE.
Take Care and God Be With You.

Unread post by **jwmcclin** » Thu Dec 23, 2010 5:51 pm

I too support your going to the authorities, petitioning Saint Michael and employing Fiery Wall of Protection spellwork, cool_lady! Good Luck on your path.

Unread post by **Azumi_chan** » Fri Dec 24, 2010 8:17 am

I am curious as to where you live? Sticking around is asking for trouble. I know it's hard to even think about leaving him (it's alot different for the women in these cases to see from the outside in) But you must be strong!! Keep us posted and do try some of the suggestions given to you on this forum.

Unread post by **ConjureMan** » Fri Dec 24, 2010 11:11 pm

I don't think its a matter of caring what other people think, but rather this poster may be posting from a society where women are marginalized and not afforded the same rights of men.

Despite that I agree that its time to stand up for yourself. Listen, there is no excuse for any type of abuse. It doesn't matter where you live. I know that the thought of him leaving sometimes may be frightening, but that is the most dangerous part of the abuse. Making you feel like you have no where to go or you have no options. I tell you now that you do have options. Shake free the shakles of fear and stand up.

Start with a simple prayer. Lift your heart in prayer to St. Michael and ask that as he bound the devil up that he bind up your abuser that he cannot lift his hand against you; ask that as he brought the devil under his heel that he bring your abuser under his heel where his pinned by a righteous sword unable to strike against you, and ask that as he expelled the devil out of paradise that he expel your abuser right out of your life that you are able to regain the freedom that the Lord Himself ordained for you.

Start with a simple prayer. Look for organizations that help abused women in situations like your own. Supply-wise look at St. Michael's product line and Fiery Wall of Protection.

Good luck. I shall be setting a light for you.

Unread post by **starsinthesky7** » Fri Dec 24, 2010 11:14 pm

Definitely some great advice by Conjureman Ali. St. Michael is a great protector to call upon!

iconcurr · Unread post by **iconcurr** » Fri Mar 25, 2011 2:48 pm

Hi,

I am totally new here. I was with someone for 10+ years who was verbally abusive. I got the courage to leave our home that we purchased together about 1 yr ago. Although, I still had hope that she would change. I have realized that I have no self-esteem because I wouldn't want to be abused. Right now she has changed the locks on my house and treating me like I have no rights and the house belongs to her and dating a mutual friend that is married. I am sooo hurt and confused.

I don't know if I should be trying to just let go or fighting for my house or fighting to get her back. I do know that I want to be civil and get what I deserve, which would be half of the equity in the home. I also want to move forward and regain my self confidence. I know I deserve better and I am a loving and caring person.

Please Help. I currently have two white candles lit with peace, courage and strength oils and I try to meditate everyday. But I can't get over the disrespect and hurt.

Unread post by **starsinthesky7** » Fri Mar 25, 2011 4:04 pm

You are right you definitely deserve BETTER.

I think you know what is right for you, but sometimes our emotions get in the way. However, this woman is emotionally abusive to you, and going back will only set you back.

I think you are going in the right direction by lighting the candles with peace, courage and strength. I think you should have a candle lit for you regarding some healing work AND you need to get some cut and clear going so that you can move on from this.

http://www.luckymojo.com/cutandclear.html

We cannot give legal advice here but I do think you are entitled to something regarding the home. You may want to get a legal consultation regarding your chances of doing so.

Lastly, you need to get a reading along with a consultation of work you can do to get what you deserve with the home,and to move on.

http://www.readersandrootworkers.com

iconcurr · Unread post by **iconcurr** » Sat Mar 26, 2011 3:46 am

Ohhh Starrrs,

Thanks. I know. My emotions are totally overwhelming me. I have talked to a lawyer though and I have the deed with me. I'm just afraid since I am not physically in the house she might try something underhanded.

Anyway, I have scoured the readers, to no avail. I don't know who to choose. Does anyone have any recommendations? I am on my way to buying some cut and clear because my emotions keep telling me to harm her. I am struggling very hard.

Unread post by **starsinthesky7** » Mon Mar 28, 2011 8:14 am

Eh...dont harm her until you fight to get what you need. THEN you can do some reversing work to reverse anything harmful or hurtful she has done to you. But do the cut and clear so that you can get yourself together to fight for the house that is yours.

You can do quite a bit of work so that she will lose and you can perserve over her to get what you want.

I personally do some essence of bend over so that you can hold her down and rule over her to get what you want. SO when you DO go to the lawyer or take her to court you will win.

But again I would get a reading done so they can help you to see what exactly what you can do give your situation.

As to what readers well you can read the testimonial section as we all have our readers with bond well with...some more than others.

So I would encourage you to read the testimonial page, and look for the AIRR workers people have found helpful. They extend beyond the first page so make sure you look beyond that, but generally they can be found within the first three pages. I would go with getting a 10 minute reading if one catches your eye and then go from there so you can get a bit of a feel for them.

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