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bubba · Unread post by **bubba** » Mon Feb 09, 2009 7:30 pm

Hi Friends

I have a question if anyone can answer it. A friend of mine susspects her partner is having an affair with another person. She doesnt kno if this person is male or female but she has seen messages and signs etc to give the game away. The reason she may think it/s a man or woman is because when she met her husband he quite clearly told her he is bisexual. But after they married she thought all that had went away. So he's cheating and she's sure of it, whats making things worse is that her partner's family is also influencing him and dominating him and she also wants them to break away from him, leaving them to get on with their lives.

My question is: If she doesnt kno the names of the person or persons her husband's cheating with how can she undertake a break up or seperation spell?''

And the Second question is: If the Husband's family is also influencing him how can she drive them away from him ..she doesnt kno who in the family is influencing him, But he made clear they dont like her,

So both questions are basicly asking how would someone go about doing a spell without names etc.. would one just write 'family' or 'the whore who's sleeping with my husband' on the candle lol..

ty awaiting your replies... Thanks

bubba · Unread post by **bubba** » Sun Feb 15, 2009 3:33 pm

Hi folks,

i need help with a separation spell. What i want to ask is how to potentially seperate somone from another without doing harm to that person u want to be with u.

Example being if u love somone snd other people are coming between u,,,wotking against u,,how can u seperate him with those persons without hurting or harming him, i just wanna work the spell on those parties who are seperating me and my partner,,

so simply....how do i perfroma clean seperation for my partner against his bad freinds without harm to me or his relation or aura when his with me...i just want the sepearation to be with the people i wish it upon..i dont want the spell or spirits ligering on to us...causing harm

thank u

Unread post by **J Simulcik** » Sun Feb 15, 2009 3:51 pm

I would do cut and clear between the two of you together and the 'others', while simultaneously working relationship-strengtheners for the two of you. That way, it's a pull and a push at the same time.

bubba · Unread post by **bubba** » Sun Feb 15, 2009 5:13 pm

Im sorry to sound ignorant but what is/ a clear cut, and how would i work it... any tips,,on best spells and makeing ir returning his love onto me

Unread post by **LynneTyson** » Sun Feb 15, 2009 7:36 pm

Look for cut and clear info here.
http://www.luckymojo.com/cutandclear.html
LynneTyson

bubba · Unread post by **bubba** » Mon Feb 16, 2009 3:02 am

Hi again;;

i did read the section on Cut and Clear, but how would i use it, for example, for me and my partner against his alcholic group of freinds? he doesnt belive in magic and would not take part

could anyone maybe explain how i would work the spell?

thank u

YouTube · Unread post by **Miss Bri** » Mon Feb 16, 2009 6:25 am

Sophy,

There are several options that you can think about when trying to separate two individuals, an individual from a group of people or two groups from each other. Here are three that I have used:

1.) Cut and Clear Vigil Light--this is really to put the end to relationships and clear the air so that everyone can get on with their life. Get yourself a vigil light, dress it with cut and clear oil and appropriate roots, herbs, and minerals, and get a picture of the people you want to separate--a picture of them together is idea. If you don't have a picture then write both of their names down on a piece of paper, dressed with some cut and clear oil (if you don't have the oil, try lemon juice or olive oil that you have prayed over.) Now take that picture or the name paper and cut the people you want to separate apart, tape them to opposite sides of the candle and burn that puppy.

2.) Moving candle spell--here you can get figural candles representing the people you want to separate and you have the added bonus of being able to draw one of those individuals to a candle representing yourself so that as he separates from the negative influences in his life he comes closer to you. Since this is you and your partner and you want him to get away from his alcoholic friends I would get three figural candles--one representing you, one for your partner, and one representing the group of friends. You could also get some little birthday candles representing all the different bad friends you want to separate your guy from. Inscribe names on the candles, load them with personal concerns, etc. Do the spell over 7 days on a waning moon, moving the candle that represents your guy farther away from his friends and closer to you until your candle and his candle are united and melting together. See the LMC site for proper ways to finish up and dispose of the work.

3.) Hotfoot! This is not a separation spell as much as it is a spell that is meant to drive out unwanted people and influences from your life. Read about it here: http://www.luckymojo.com/hotfoot.html

There are also other options, like a break up bottle that you may want to consider as well.

Good luck to you,
Bri

Unread post by **Turnsteel** » Mon Feb 16, 2009 8:41 am

If your trying to get him a way from bad people then you may want to look into Cast Off Evil. Its used to help break addiction and remove harmful people from someones life. It would work wounderfuly with Hotfoot to drive those people away. Once there gone you might do a Cut and Clear to break any remianing ties to them and let everyone involved move on with there life.

That's my 2 cents, hope it helps.

Unread post by **J Simulcik** » Mon Feb 16, 2009 9:21 am

I agree with all of the above. What I had in mind was something similar to Bri's #2 moving candle spell, although with the revelation that this is a group of alcoholic 'friends', I would definitely second Cast Off Evil. You could dress the candle that represents yourself with Love Me oil as well, to promote the push/pull effect.

bubba · Unread post by **bubba** » Mon Feb 16, 2009 12:54 pm

Hi folks can u confirm this spell coreect befre i work it please..i dont wanna mess up....

ok how i understand it i will work the spell like this...

A i work the spell on begining of waning moon and i will work it or 7 consecutive nights each time not blowing but pinching out the candles...???

B I will use a red candle representing me with my name on it.dressed with love//??? oil.... and a red candle representing my partner with cut and clear oil his name and photo under it.????

C I will use 3 black candles with names on each of them horribke freinds dressed with cut cear oil???

D I will put petition papers under each freinds name stateing what i want like '' //with the power of this candle ;;nike'' the freind'' will be seperated and cut away frm tom''my partner?????

E I will burn the candles all together slowly moveing my partners candle closer to mine so we finally on the 7th day are melting together????

F i will place mine and my partners candle on left side and his freinds on the right ...eventually moveing his candle closer to me...

G I finally do a hysopp bath and dispose of remainig candle and wax,,and items at crossroads,,,or river...or graveyard??? what about our red candles????

much much appreciated thanks ....really xxx

YouTube · Unread post by **Miss Bri** » Mon Feb 16, 2009 1:48 pm

bubba wrote:Hi folks can u confirm this spell coreect befre i work it please..i dont wanna mess up...

ok how i understand it i will work the spell like this...

A i work the spell on begining of waning moon and i will work it or 7 consecutive nights each time not blowing but pinching out the candles...???.

That's what I would do. Timing is more flexible in hoodoo but I would work this kind of a spell during a waning moon, and yes, you want to snuff or pinch out the candles.

bubba wrote:B I will use a red candle representing me with my name on it.dressed with love//??? oil.... and a red candle representing my partner with cut and clear oil his name and photo under it.????.

I would use a red candle for yourself, a white candle for your partner (white for blessing and protection). Putting his photo under the candle is great, if you have hair, nail clippings, other personal concerns of his you can load that into the bottom of the candle. Carve his name on the white candle, your name on the red. If it were me I would dress the red candle representing you with a love-type oil (love me, stay with me, dixie love, etc) and I would dress the FRONT part of his candle with the same oil (or combination of oils). The front of his candle would then be set up so that it is facing the front of your candle. I would dress the BACK part of his candle with Cast off Evil oil, I thought J's idea on that was great, and I would position the candle so that the BACK of his candle is facing the three black candles that represent his buddies. So think of all the candles as being on a line running across your altar. You have the red candle on the far left, the white candle in the middle, and the three black candles on the far right. The red and white candles are arranged so that they face one another and the white candle's back is to the thre black candles. ( I am assuming you are using figural candles here, but if you aren't then just assign a front and back to your normal candles.)

bubba wrote:C I will use 3 black candles with names on each of them horrible freinds dressed with cut and clear oil???

I would dress the 3 black candles in hot foot oil or hot pepper oil. I would also dip the bottoms of all three candles in red hot pepper so that they have been hot-footed and get out of dodge in a hurry. I am suggesting this over Cut and Clear oil because you don't just want to cut their relationship in two, you want to get these people AWAY from your guy.

bubba wrote:D I will put petition papers under each freinds name stateing what i want like '' //with the power of this candle ;;nike'' the freind'' will be seperated and cut away frm tom''my partner?????

You can use petition papers if you want, but since you are doing a moving candle spell I think that between actually physically manipulating the candles and praying hard you will get far.

bubba wrote:E I will burn the candles all together slowly moveing my partners candle closer to mine so we finally on the 7th day are melting together????

Move the white candle towards you and move the three black candles AWAY from the white candle. You are bringing your partner closer to you but for this working that is really secondary, the primary goal is to get him AWAY from the negative friends.

bubba wrote:F i will place mine and my partners candle on left side and his freinds on the right ...eventually moveing his candle closer to me...

See the line description I mentioned earlier, but yeah I think you have the idea.

bubba wrote:G I finally do a hysopp bath and dispose of remainig candle and wax,,and items at crossroads,,,or river...or graveyard??? what about our red candles????

I would bury the red and white candles that have melted and fused together in my backyard or if you don't have a backyard in a potted plant inside your home--that is goodness and you want to keep it close. There are a number of ways to dispose of the black candle mess--crossroads, running water, dispose of it in a manner that will take the friends and their influence AWAY from the two of you.

I'm sure others will chime in with great suggestions as well.

Good luck,
Bri

Unread post by **Turnsteel** » Mon Feb 16, 2009 2:49 pm

For disposal of the black candles after the main spell I would put them into a bag, doesn't have to be anything fancy a brown paper bag will do fine, add more Hot Foot and Cast Off Evil powder. Bring the bag to a river and cast it in over your left shoulder while praying that those people leave you and your partner alone.

bubba · Unread post by **bubba** » Mon Feb 16, 2009 8:27 pm

Thanks sooo much bri...and everyone else..i really feel empowered now to do this spell

xxx

bubba

Unread post by **J Simulcik** » Tue Feb 17, 2009 2:59 am

Bri and HailDiscordia- Beautiful!

bubba- Great! Now use that empowerment and put it into the work. It will be strong.

bubba · Unread post by **bubba** » Tue Feb 17, 2009 1:02 pm

Thank u soo much Bri,,,u always give some real good advice ....

Thanks all xxx

YouTube · Unread post by **Miss Bri** » Tue Feb 17, 2009 8:57 pm

I love the idea of using the brown paper bag, adding more pepper and then casting that into a river. Nice job ya'll!

bubba · Unread post by **bubba** » Wed Feb 18, 2009 12:04 pm

hey bri and hail

u two are great and i have alot of power now...i wanna go ahead and do this spell thanks soo much...love peace ,,,,prosperity to u ....in my prayers

bubba · Unread post by **bubba** » Wed Feb 18, 2009 12:46 pm

i just wanna quickly ask about the two oils ..what will cut and clear do...and what will cast of evil do..are they similar...and with my partners white candle do i dress one side faceing me with love me oil,,,and the other backside with cut clear or cast of evil....will it not affect my candle when they burn togaether that his candle has oil of cut-clear or cast of evil....just lastminute thoughts,,,,

Unread post by **J Simulcik** » Wed Feb 18, 2009 1:02 pm

Cut and clear products are usually aimed toward cutting those last ties some people have to their exes, but also with anything else in the past that is holding one back from moving healthfully forward.

Cast off evil is a formula designed to remove from yourself or another bad habits, addictions, or to separate them from others that are negative influences.

You could indeed dress the 'front' of your partner's white candle with the same oil that you used on your candle; the backside should definitely be dressed with cast off evil. It will not affect your combined candles at the end of the spell because it is on his back, away from (you).

Good luck!

bubba · Unread post by **bubba** » Wed Feb 18, 2009 1:07 pm

love u guys thnkxx

sahjia · Unread post by **sahjia** » Sun Feb 22, 2009 1:12 pm

i like to know if this seperration spell is only for partner keep him away from bad friends or i can use for any family mamber to keep them away from bad friends if how the or different i main son or sister or act thanks

Unread post by **Literarylioness** » Wed Feb 25, 2009 1:11 am

She can still work on the intruder without knowing his or her name by stating "anyone who is coming between me and my husband." Since she is married to him, she has first dibs and can do a lot to get rid of the intruder. She can work a bottle spell of break-up or separation, or she can do a stay with me spell. I would do both and some protection too.

She can't really get rid of her husband's family, but she can get them to like her more. She can burn a candle on a prepared honey jar for herself to get their support. She would put an intention in the honey jar for his family to respect and support her. It is never good to try to separate someone from his or her family of origin like that. It is best to gain their support.

Mary

Unread post by **J Simulcik** » Wed Feb 25, 2009 2:01 am

The spell described here is easily adaptable to any person or situation. The color symbolism, shape, oils used, etc. may change but it would still fall under the category of "moving candle" type spells.

Brujero05 · Unread post by **Brujero05** » Wed Feb 25, 2009 9:55 pm

I think that in this situation one should also take into account the Husband's motives. It would disastrous to send away this other secret lover and then get back to the husband and then find him back to his old tricks. In this case, the wife is just asking for trouble. She should reconsider her love for this man if he is having an affair and doesnt care about the consequences or her.

Unread post by **J Simulcik** » Thu Feb 26, 2009 2:56 am

I disagree that she should reconsider her love for him right away if this is not a chronic problem; everyone makes mistakes. I would suggest she attempt to set him straight and make him see what he has, first.

Angelina2 · Unread post by **Angelina2** » Thu Jun 25, 2009 5:40 am

Hi all,

I was wondering if there is anything I can do that will open up my husbands eyes and keep him away from his so-called friend who cheats and tells him lies. His friend and wife are in the middle of a nasty fight and this guy is no good at all.....I am friends with his wife and he is friends with the husband but my husband is so gullible and believing all the lies his friend is telling him. i wish we were not caught in the middle but recently my husband told me something very disturbing that his friend said regarding getting custody of his 1 year old baby. He is dangerous and i want him away from our lives....my husband said he talked to him telling him he's not thinking rationally and it's wrong but at the same time he will take his side.... the wife needs protection as well and the court orders don't mean anything (she is staying with her family for now)...I will be talking with her later today as I just found this out. There must be some way to get rid of this guy...whatever needs to be done but i do not have any personal concerns. just a name and birthdate, and i feel someone more experienced in this kind of work as well should perform the working on the friend-to get rid of him, but i can work on my husband as far as opening his eyes to the situation--- Thanks for reading my post- Please help-

Unread post by **catherineyronwode** » Sat Jun 27, 2009 5:48 pm

I would try to Hot Foot the man, that is, to send him away. The type of work called Cast Off Evil -- to0 get rid of bad companions -- might also be utilized. See these pages:
http://luckymojo.com/hotfoot.html
http://luckymojo.com/castoffevil.com
If the wife needs protection, you can work that on her behalf with a Fiery Wall of Protection candle for her, and also a Court Case candle.
If you think he is seriously dangerous and you don't mind asking God's help in bringing down divine justice, you could also burn a Damnation candle on the man -- but, please, if you go that route, ask for help in the name of Jesus, to protect the woman and child, and not just because you don't like the man.

Angelina2 · Unread post by **Angelina2** » Sun Jun 28, 2009 5:28 pm

Thanks Catherine!

splitpea · Unread post by **splitpea** » Tue Jun 30, 2009 10:38 am

Bri I realy like number two would mojo do this on a alter for me,because he comes to my house every so often and i don't want him to see this..

YouTube · Unread post by **Miss Bri** » Tue Jun 30, 2009 11:39 am

splitpea wrote:Bri I realy like number two would mojo do this on a alter for me,because he comes to my house every so often and i don't want him to see this..

Missionary Independent Spiritual Church will set vigil lights for you on their altar:
http://www.missionary-independent.org/c ... vices.html

What I was speaking of though in that post you are referring to was a figural candle spell. I do not think that Missionary Independent will do that for you. However, there are a number of workers who may and you can find them here: www.readersandrootworkers.org

good luck,
Bri

lakwanda · Unread post by **lakwanda** » Sun Jan 03, 2010 12:37 am

Hi,

I've been looking around the site and on the forums, but I haven't found an answer to a problem that I'm having. I have been working some reconciliation work on my recent ex and the results seem to be fairly positive. He has reached out to me and also expresses his desire to at least remain friends. I'm planning on continuing to work him until we are able to reconcile.

Unfortunately, one of the main reasons that we broke up in the first place was because of some of his friends. They are a bunch of single guys, who have been making our relationship difficult, ever since we have moved within driving distance to them, by stressing our differences and reinforcing his doubts about our compatibility. Things that are just silly to me, because we have had a positive and lasting relationship for three years, so we must have been compatible enough during that time.

Is there a way to remove their negative influence from him? If it is possible, I don't want to completely end their friendship. I just want my man to not be blinded by their negativity because they don't have a loving girlfriend to come to every night.

Maybe I'm just looking in the wrong places and if so, please direct me to the correct links/posts if this has already been discussed.

Unread post by **starsinthesky7** » Sun Jan 03, 2010 1:24 am

I would cleanse him first of all the negativity, and then do a protection spell to protect him from the negativity that is affecting him from his friends. On the other hand, you stated that they are just stressing your differences and reinforcing his ideas about your compatibility. Not to be mean, but your boyfriend might have already been saying this to them about these differences, and now they are just showing him different examples about what he already brought up. So really your boyfriend's thoughts are what need to be addressed. You may think these things are "silly" however they maybe truly how he feels. I would get a reading to see if this is truly how he feels. For his friends, you could do a stop gossip spell,to stop them from talking badly about your relationship.

Although you may think you have been compatible, which you very may well be, there seems like there are some red flags amiss in this relationship. I would get a readings, and see what issues need to be worked on. A reading is essential because it will help you know what direction you need to go whether it be a love me spell, perhaps some fear about marriage, infidelity, whatever it is...it needs to be addressed. But if its something you are doing...well you need to work on that yourself. I was with someone for 2.5 years...thought everything was roses and butterflies...little did I know it was not. He was telling his friends about all our problems while I thought we were fine and they were the problems. So get a reading...it will definitely bring some more insight to the situation.

Unread post by **ConjureMan** » Sun Jan 03, 2010 1:24 am

There are a few options for this one. First you can work with Cast off Evil products to get your ex to cast off the influence that his friends have over him. This may even lead to him breaking contact with those friends who really have an "evil" influence on him. (Evil in this sense would be affecting his relationship with you). You can use a white skull candle with Cast off Evil products to have your ex cast off the influence.

If there are any particular individuals who are especially troublesome you can work a mirror box that will keep everything they put rebounding on them. This can be done along with Reversal work which will put back everything they've put you through back on them. A double-action red-black and white-red should do the trick.

If you want to get rid of them, or send them far away work a Banishing Conjure or a Hotfoot depending on how severe you want it to be. This can be done in the form of a container spell tossed in a river, mailing a dusted picture/name paper to a dead address (traditionally sent to Paris), or something similar.

To cause the friends to fight, a black skull candle with Inflammatory Confusion and hot and banishing herbs would do the trick. (Red pepper for anger, deers tongue to give voice to it, black pepper to banish their friendship, asafoetida to banish the health of their relationship, poppy seeds for confusion, the like).

Finally, to interfere in the relationship fully, work a vinegar jar to sour the relationship between all of them.

Unread post by **JayDee** » Sun Jan 03, 2010 10:20 am

you can also use the stop gossip products and slippery elm to prevent you from being effected by what they say and shutting their mouths from gossping.

stelselv · Unread post by **stelselv** » Tue Jan 05, 2010 1:18 am

. I just want my man to not be blinded by their negativity because they don't have a loving girlfriend to come to every night.

first of all the above will never happen, the friends are not doing it unconsciously, they know that they are keeping your BF away from you.... they don't respect your relationship.... I have been thro it, had terrible experience, it was my marriage that was ruined...... Save your relationship before it is toooooo late.. find friends who are worthy of you.....

My sister had the same problem for almost 10 years throughout her marriage..... She got the help from a rootworker and cut off friendship with all those guys...... Now she is happier and celebrated her 15th year anniversary 2 weeks ago.... on the other hand, I was stupid, i did not know magic or voodoo then.... my intentions were just like yours, ''didn't want to end their relationship'''.....

click on the thread below....
to-cause-discord,-fights,-enmity--t3787.html#p22296
freeze-it%C7%83-t3103s10.html
there are alot of other threads on freezer and lemon jar spell...

I would do a lemon jar spell..... or freezer spell..... at the same time you should consider tying your bf nature, nation sack, underwear trick.... make him come home to you.... there are stay home with me products from LM...

save your relationship....

ATHAME69 · Unread post by **ATHAME69** » Thu Mar 18, 2010 3:24 pm

my sister is in danger, she got married to a very violent guy, he has been in jail for domestic violence and rape numerous times and now he beats my sister day and night, and to make matters worst my sister does not want to do anything against him.

they have a 15 month old baby girl and i fear for her and my sisters safety, so what can i do to break up this relationship or at least put him in jail?

he has a court date in about a week or so and maybe if the judge sees something wrong, or if he hates him from the start maybe he puts him in jail and leaves my girls alone

if anyone can help me, i will really appreciate it. thank you,

athame

Lucylookingskyward · Unread post by **Lucylookingskyward** » Thu Mar 18, 2010 3:44 pm

Take photos of the bruising with time stamps to show the judge, make sure you have a really good lawyer, as this guy is scum.

Magically: buy a separation kit for your sister to help her walk away, also tranquility and healing as she'll need it. Ask St. Michael for protection for your sister and her child.

Unread post by **J Simulcik** » Thu Mar 18, 2010 4:14 pm

You might also try making a honey jar for the judge so that he/she sees you (and your argument) more favorably.

Unread post by **Devi Spring** » Thu Mar 18, 2010 4:36 pm

I would work a Fiery Wall of Protection kit for the woman and baby as well. It has an element of removing the enemy from their lives. Definitely work Healing for the sister, and maybe some King Solomon Wisdom+Clarity+Crucible of Courage to help her see the situation clearly and make good decisions about it.

A honey jar on the judge is good. Maybe make a vinegar jar with the judge and the abuser in it, so that their relationship is sour.

You may very well wish to consider hiring a rootworker to help you with this workload, and back up any work that you do.

Unread post by **catherineyronwode** » Thu Mar 18, 2010 4:50 pm

Gather evidence. Gather eye-witnesses. Approach the District Attorney who is bringing the case and respectfully offer to submit said evidence and to help him get said witnesses deposed.

Rootwork comes next, and what was suggested was fine.

Unread post by **ConjureMan** » Thu Mar 18, 2010 10:26 pm

Definately want to work the court case angle then moving on to some spell work. As Miss cat and other suggested get yourself evidence and use that to help to get him behind bars.

In order to help the process along approach the grave of an ancestor or family member and tell them of your sister's hurt and the danger that she is in. Ask that they help your sister and purchase some graveyard dirt. If you don't have a family member that has passed that you feel could help look for another person who was a victim of abuse that passed on, or you can work with a deceased police officer.

Add the graveyard dirt into a vinegar jar aimed at souring the judge towards the abuser. Work that thing to ensure that the judge will look unfavorably upon him and also to ensure that he is not lenient.

Dress all the evidence and papers with Court Cast powder to ensure that all things go in yours and your sister's favor. Add the judge into a honey jar with you and your sister that he may come to favor your sister.

Finally if you have access to your sister's home go and see if you can lift the foot-track of her abuser. Mix this dirt with Crossing, Black Arts, and some of the graveyard dirt that you purchased. Then sprinkle the mixture all the way from his house into the nearest jail to land him behind bars. If you can't get his foot-track take his worn shoes and burn the sole into an ash and mix with the powders and dirt.

You also want to work with Healing products to heal your sister of her hurt, Clarity and Wisdom of King Solomon to help her make the right decision and get out of the abuse and actually cooperate in prosecuting him, and also Crucible of Courage to help her have the strength to make the right decision.

Good luck.

P.S. you may also look into hiring the help of a professional. Seek out the members of AIRR.

Unread post by **Dr Johannes** » Fri Mar 19, 2010 1:36 am

I agree with the above posts. But I would divide the foot track dirt/crossing powder, suggested by CM, in two ways;

One leading to the jail.
One leading to the cemetary.
When spirinkling the latter I would bring 21 pennies, two coins, some tobacco, some liquer and a picture of the man. Stop at the cemetary gates. There I would tell the keeper of the cemetary the situation and asked to be lead to a spirit that is willing to help. Then leave tobacco and pennies at the gate and sprinkle to the grave indicated. There I would ask the spirit to help bring the man either to the grave or to the jail. Leave the picture of the man on the grave and place the two coins on his eyes. Thank the spirit by leaving the liquer by the head stone and walk away without looking back.

Also consider doing a distant cleansing on your sister using an egg and some Cut n Clear incense.

Unread post by **ConjureMan** » Fri Mar 19, 2010 10:03 pm

I actually like that addition, Johannes. It not only adds the power of the spirits to the mix, but also sets a path before the abusers: jail, or death.

ATHAME69 · Unread post by **ATHAME69** » Sun Mar 21, 2010 5:19 pm

THANK YOU ALL FOR UR HELP AND UR THOUGHTS!
LOVE,
ATHAME

Nytechylde · Unread post by **Nytechylde** » Wed Jun 09, 2010 1:58 pm

My boyfriend is involved in gang-like activities and says he wants out but that he's in debt and is not that easy. I think he's scared to really try and doesn't want to upset people. He won't really talk about it with me, though not for lack of trying, but I want to help him get out of it. He is a really nice guy and treats me well, but when he gets called on to do stuff that's when he gets really distant and clams up even more or runs away. I'm pretty much the only good thing in his life right now and I refuse to give up on him.
My question is this, is there anything I could do to help him get out of that life smoothly, or at least as smoothly as possible? What would be the best approach?

Unread post by **Devi Spring** » Wed Jun 09, 2010 2:03 pm

I would advise a reading on the situation as these types of scenerios can be quite complex and dangerous for those involved. Browsing though the directory of AIRR workers may help you find someone who seems to fit the bill.

It will probably involve some Separation work, perhaps some freezer jar work, Cast Off Evil and Crucible of Courage type stuff, and LOTS of protection work.

But get a reading to make sure that all avenues are covered that need to be.

Maljen · Unread post by **Maljen** » Wed Jun 09, 2010 2:28 pm

I second everything Devi said, but will add this on the mundane side...are you prepared to move to a different area? I mean REALLY different? If he gets out or tries to, staying in the area may not be a safe idea for any of you. I know someone who got out of that kind of life, but he literally went into the military to get away from those people. He says it was the only way he could get away from them. He's an amazing person now, counsels kids here in the same situations, etc. etc. Heck, he's even lent me his ear and shoulder with my situation with my husband, but I know it wasn't easy for him to turn himself around. Just make certain he and you both are prepared to make some potentially drastic changes to your lives. And good luck to you both!

Nytechylde · Unread post by **Nytechylde** » Wed Jun 09, 2010 6:29 pm

Thank you for your advice. I will definately be takeing your advice to heart and be looking into all options/suggestions.

freya01 · Unread post by **freya01** » Mon Jun 14, 2010 7:50 pm

Hi guys,
My question is not about me but my sister. I suspect that my sister is in a bad relationship. I noticed i see less and less of my sister for months at first i just thought she was just busy but i was wrong she told me some stories that are very alarming to me and my mother this week. First the guys prohibits her to have any contact in person or by phone with friends and family's, He have violent outburst not to the extent of him hitting her but i feel its heading toward that, he also have my sister support him a couple of months ago because he doenst have a permanent job, he insist on having unprotected sex with her in the middle of the night even if she refuse. She believes he want to get her pregnant and she's not happy about this. The wall of his house according to her have lots of holes due to punching and not to mention he hit's he's head on the wall when he's mad. He pretty much controls everything in her life right now. My mom and i got so worried that she said casually joking yesterday that if something happens to her to look into him first.

The weird part for me since i don't know him just met him twice is that he started showing up at my job weeks ago befriending all my co-workers especially the one's that i don't get along with. Which is very creepy. Now everyone thinks that he's absolutely amazing and everyone was avoiding me with dirty looks for no reason. I Didn't suspect anything or figure out what's wrong until my sister and i talked this weekend. This guy is 10 years senior than her that why i think he's manipulating her, she's still young, and new in college. Surprisingly this guy started bad mouthing me weeks ago, so i cant give her advices . All of this things on top of what she said to my mom and others bothered me. Is there anything i could do aside from convincing her to leave him. She wont go because she says that he loves her and he hasn't done anything bad to her yet and im just overreacting. I already speak my mind about this but it doesn't go anywhere. Sorry if Im mumbling or confusing but i cant think straight right now. Do you guys have any idea what i could do to make her leave him and see clearly the danger in front of her. We are very worried. Im new to all this anything will help. Thank you

Unread post by **Mama Micki** » Mon Jun 14, 2010 8:41 pm

He's 10 years older than her (but she's supporting HIM), he doesn't let her talk to her friends and family, he punches holes in the wall, he's showing up at your workplace, and he doesn't even have a steady job? Hotfoot him far, far away NOW.

Unread post by **ConjureMan** » Mon Jun 14, 2010 9:06 pm

Agreed! Clarity work on your sister and Hotfoot the heck out of this man. Send him packing and send him far far away.

If you are new to conjure look into the spellkits that LM provide as they will have everything you need to work conjure from beginning to end and/or get a professional rootworker involved.

While you are doing the hotfoot throw in elements of binding and restriction to keep him from harming your sister.

Good luck!

Unread post by **Joseph Magnuson** » Mon Jun 14, 2010 9:12 pm

freya01 wrote: First the guys prohibits her to have any contact in person or by phone with friends and family's.
He have violent outburst not to the extent of him hitting her but i feel its heading toward that.
He insist on having unprotected sex with her in the middle of the night even if she refuse.
The wall of his house according to her have lots of holes due to punching and not to mention he hit's he's head on the wall when he's mad.
He pretty much controls everything in her life right now.

She wont go because she says that he loves her and he hasn't done anything bad to her yet...

Are you kidding me? Hasn't done anything bad to her yet...there is only one, possibly two, more steps before this turns fatal. Please help her or get her help as soon as possible...

-Joseph

Maljen · Unread post by **Maljen** » Mon Jun 14, 2010 9:18 pm

I agree with RS, he's done plenty bad. He needs to go now. Clarity and Courage for your sister, and Fiery Wall of Protection too once you've got the Hot Foot working on that POS.

Unread post by **Joseph Magnuson** » Mon Jun 14, 2010 9:31 pm

I would also get the number of a nearby woman's shelter. I;m sure it would be 'just in case' but trust me, it can;t hurt....especially if he knows where her family (you, etc) live and/or work. I personally lived through this situation when I was young as it happened to my mother. Seriously, stand by with as much help, magical and otherwise, that you can muster.

Good luck to you both. Thank you taking her seriously and being willing to help.

-Joseph

freya01 · Unread post by **freya01** » Mon Jun 14, 2010 11:23 pm

So sorry but How do i incorporate all this together clarity, hotfoot and courage. I dont know where he live or have access to him but luckily i got a photograph from my sister's page. Please advise me how to do the spell properly. Thank you all very much

Maljen · Unread post by **Maljen** » Tue Jun 15, 2010 3:15 am

You would hotfoot him. And you would use the Clarity, Courage and Protection products for your sister for her to see the guy for what he is, to have the courage to get away from him and for protection against what he might do.

I'll say this though, since this is a very serious situation, not just in my mind but in the minds of some far more experienced practitioners here...get a reading with an AIRR reader

http://readersandrootworkers.org/index. ... ootworkers

And discuss with them the best plan of action to get your sister away from this a***ole before he really, really hurts her. The readers listed there are all graduates of Cat's class and can do work on another person's behalf. If you haven't done any Hoodoo yourself up to this point, this might be something best left to those who know what they are doing.

I'm not saying you aren't or wouldn't be capable of doing things to help your sister, I just know as little as I've done myself recently, if my own sister came to me with a situation like this, I'd call in the 'big guns'.

Unread post by **Devi Spring** » Tue Jun 15, 2010 7:28 am

I would work a Fiery Wall of Protection spell kit for the sister during all this as well. It includes an element of getting rid of the enemy, which would perfectly complement the HotFoot work, while helping to shield her.

But, because of the danger level here, I also recommend at least getting a reading with a professional rootworker, if not having them do the heavy lifting portions of this.

freya01 · Unread post by **freya01** » Tue Jun 15, 2010 1:52 pm

Thank you all ill try to schedule a reading this week.

Horrormoviefan74 · Unread post by **Horrormoviefan74** » Tue Jul 06, 2010 7:51 pm

Hi all!

I have searched the posts for something similiar to this particular situation and haven't found anything.

I have two best friends. Both female,(lesbian), one of which is in love with the other and is at her beck and call. They have been together sexually on and off for many years now. The one that is in love with the other will postpone her appointments, chauffer her around, just really go out of her way for her. The other has a new love in her life and has never ever had romantic feelings for the other friend. What I would like to do is some sort of spell that will seperate the one from the other romantically, but keep the friendship intact. I want this friend to be open to a love that will love her the way she deserves, and will be happy. Right now she is not willing to move forward in hopes that our mutual friend will some day "wake up" and see her in a romantic light.

Any suggestions??

Unread post by **starsinthesky7** » Tue Jul 06, 2010 8:02 pm

Umm...do you have their permission to do this? I would not go around just breaking them up because you want to. Its not what YOU want it should be what they want.

If you want to help with the waking up, then do some wisdom, and clarity work. Allow them to make the decision on their own.