I'm back to report on my honey jar. This has worked surprisingly fast and has sweetened my husband.
He has been a little more affectionate and when he looks at me, I see love in his eyes again. To be honest, i have not spent much time praying over the jar. I hold the jar and intuitively shake it 3 or 4 times while i think about him. Sometimes i say "open your heart and be close to me"' , then i light the candle and walk away. The first week i burned the candle for about 5 days leading up to the full moon.
Once the full moon came and passed, he became mor affectionate. It took about that long to see movement.
Also to note, because I was raised Catholic I am familiar with saints and began 3 novenas. One to Mary, one to Saint Jude, and one to St. Therese' the Little Flower. Therese' is my patron.
Things were very tense in the house and throughout the week of burning my candle and praying novenas. I felt very anxious and worried. I have abandonment issues and this situation was bringing back heavy and painful things for me.
You know what else helped was, not pressuring him to talk when he got quiet or distant.
We still have much to work on and I am going to continue the honey jar for now, mon, wed, and fri to see how this goes.
I do wonder if one can just shake the jar and meditate with it rather than lighting a candle?
When I am able, I want to learn so much more.
Thanks and gratitude
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