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Unread post by catherineyronwode » Mon Aug 08, 2011 4:59 pm

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Unread post by Learning-Doing » Mon Aug 08, 2011 10:20 pm

is slow and steady a good sign? i've been told before that in this type of work (reconciliation)- Slow and steady is a good sign because anything too quick might burn out just as fast and not take hold.

my bf took a break from "us" after a big disagreement this past May, we began talking nearly three weeks ago . i had a cut and clear done ( to clear out the old stagnant energy in our relationship) reconciliation, adam & eve, and fire of love vigil done through LM , all burned clear and with good signs. i will begin a honey jar once it comes through the mail and when i see him again will begin feeding him my monthly fluids . we went out a week and a half ago, lots of hugs and hand holding , we talk every two or three days on the phone, instead of twice every day , but without the lovey dovey words like before . we're not jumping right back into things , its almost like we're getting to know each other again and taking it slow , not forcing anything . my impatient side wants things to be like they were- "sweet and kissey" but my gut is telling me this is how it should be , Slow and Steady wins the Race so to speak . i guess i'm just double checking with those experienced in Reconciliation work that this sounds about right ?

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Unread post by starsinthesky7 » Tue Aug 09, 2011 12:26 am

I think that in reconciliation work it is important to not rush and jump back into things. I think its important to learn from past issues, and begin to work through them. So in your case, I definitely think you are headed in the right direction .

I would keep working on things like you said with the feeding of your menstrual blood, and burning the honey jar. I think slow and steady movement is great as it helps to build a strong foundation in the relationship.
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Unread post by Learning-Doing » Tue Aug 09, 2011 10:10 am

thank you Stars in the Sky ! i really do feel like i am doing things right this time. being patient, learning from past issues as you mentioned and yes, continuing with steady honey jar work and monthly feedings . once again, thank you for the reply :D

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Unread post by jwmcclin » Tue Aug 09, 2011 3:07 pm

I agree with starsinthesky7... the spellwork works the way it should, either fast or slow and steady, either way, it is your responsibility to keep it going in the direction you want. I see that you have learned from the past which is necessary for a better future with your target. Good Luck!
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Unread post by Learning-Doing » Tue Aug 09, 2011 4:35 pm

thank you jwmcclin. very helpful and encouraging :)

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Unread post by JayDee » Thu Aug 11, 2011 6:05 pm

well for starters I think it would be a good idea to get a reading to see if she has feelings for you or if it will ever move past the friendship, second I think you need to think honestly how will you conduct a long distant relationship over international boundries. I dated a person who lived an hour away from me and I found that taxing over time! also the reader can tell you what oils and candles to burn. but a great start would be to start a honey jar to sweeten her to you.
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Unread post by Miss Ida Lundin » Fri Aug 12, 2011 5:59 am

I agree with j82 that a reading is a very good choice for you.
But off course you can work on someone even if they live in another country. Since you to are in contact you can also send things to her, and visit if you need to get her in contact with fixed items.

The product line most suited for your case is come to me
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There are several other oils you could use offcourse but the come to me line is a good place to start. that will bring you to together from there you can work with the love me line to make her love you and once you to are happy together ten you use stay with me products to ensure she doesn't leave.

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Unread post by jwmcclin » Sun Aug 14, 2011 8:49 am

Welcome to the forum Ciaoo. It seems there are two situations you are discussing. Removing the mess? What exactly is the mess? Is it the distance between you and your fiance? You could start with the Reconciliation Spiritual Products (http://www.luckymojo.com/reconciliation.html) designed to move beyond problems that caused separation of loved ones. This is appropriate if there is not other problems from outsiders.

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Unread post by aura » Sun Aug 14, 2011 10:11 am

Hi Ciaoo,

Since there are a number of issues involved, consider getting some magickal coaching from one of the members of the AIRR (Association of Independent Readers and Rootworkers) in order to clarify the best type of work to be done for you specific situation.

The AIRR can be consulted via the following link:

http://www.readersandrootworkers.org/wi ... ootworkers.

Read through the different bios and see which worker you feel an affinity with and then contact them for a reading and rootwork recommendations. Particularly if you're new to the work, they can also back up your work (do spell-work that supports & helps yours) to give it some extra ''oomph''.

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Unread post by tboy1977 » Sun Aug 14, 2011 11:18 am

OK......I am confused here? Why didn't her hoodoo work? It seems like she had the faith and was doing the work? What happened? And her story? Did she move on or he return? What happened? I felt like I could feel her situation. Was it the lack of professional help?

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Unread post by catherineyronwode » Sun Aug 14, 2011 11:26 am

That's a good question, tboy.

In my opinion, she started the work waaaaay too late.. The first sentence in her first post was "My husband filed for divorce."

That's like a late stage cancer -- sometimes you can turn it around, but very often you cannot. It went too far before she began spiritual treatment on the situation.
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Unread post by starsinthesky7 » Sun Aug 14, 2011 11:27 am

I agree with Aura.

There seems to be a number of issues here, and BEFORE you do any reconciliation work...it would make you much for effective to allow a rootworker to assess your situation through a reading.

THEN you can proceed with reconciliation work. I HIGHLY advise you do this since you are new to Hoodoo.


In the meantime, I think you should do some uncrossing and fiery wall of protection work on yourself until you get the reading.

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Unread post by tboy1977 » Sun Aug 14, 2011 11:31 am

Right right right.......I keep vigil candles on in my cases at the Church and working on my own. I will keep working until I find success.....

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Unread post by starsinthesky7 » Sun Aug 14, 2011 11:53 am

Faith is important, but faith sometimes is not enough.
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Unread post by aura » Mon Aug 15, 2011 3:08 pm

Hi Madam Thabit,

below are a few threads dealing with getting over grief - hopefully some of the products and techniques described can be of use in helping your husband through his time of trial (and both of u in getting back 2gether):

my-grandmother-died-this-morning-t11664.html
childʹs-sudden-death-how-do-i-help-her- ... t7792.html
any-advice-to-get-him-through-his-grief--t6372.html

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Unread post by julieju » Wed Aug 17, 2011 6:34 am

I would like to know what if after burning black candle to reverse a curse, all went well and i threw it in a bin 1 mile aways walked straigth on without looking back, then to a playing ground near the street, after about 45 mins. walked not into the street but like a T junction just walked across, but i could see the bin at a glanc, does that mean any bad thing, do i have to do it all over again or do i need a direction for cleansing.

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Unread post by jwmcclin » Wed Aug 17, 2011 3:26 pm

You may have read this but review for a response to your question julieju, [Laying Down Tricks and Disposing of Ritual Remains] (http://www.luckymojo.com/layingtricks.html)
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Unread post by julieju » Thu Aug 18, 2011 6:06 am

Thanks, i have, but it doesn't talk about the case of what i wrote about. Any advice

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Unread post by DelArca » Thu Aug 18, 2011 6:18 am

It depends on what you think. If you think it ruined your work, then it may as well have. If that happened to me, I don't think it would bother me. After I walked away without looking back, the whole business would be out of my mind.

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Unread post by julieju » Thu Aug 18, 2011 11:19 pm

Thanks...this is encouraging ..i belive i had finshed the work.

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Unread post by mumma » Fri Aug 19, 2011 3:23 am

Let us know how you get on, and if everything sorts out, please.

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Unread post by julieju » Fri Aug 19, 2011 9:47 am

Is the disposing of a vingar jar on a cross road to be done on the targets cross road or any cross road, pls. advice. thanks

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Unread post by JayDee » Fri Aug 19, 2011 9:53 am

any crossroad, depends on the jar and the work, some ppl bury jars like that by the targets home so as they cross over it, they will be inflicted, others bury at a deserted road.
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Unread post by Miss Tammie Lee » Fri Aug 19, 2011 9:57 am

The disposal of a vinegar jar can be disposed of at any cross road.
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Unread post by julieju » Sat Aug 20, 2011 1:41 am

Thanks everyone, i have disposed of it in a crossroad i do not use.

Now is a new day. I did the vingar jar to support uncrossing, which according to my readings are very successful. My main aim is to get my husband back home. I have started candle directions for come back to me, and feeling. I am now considering doing a honey jar for tranquillity, as he is very stubborn and harden hearted with soo much pride, the spell the professional casted on him is basically effective as there has been basic signs. i need him to surrender and accept his faults and go on his knees, because he is the one who committed infedility and betrayed me, but at thesame time i want him to come back home being a loving husband and father for a peaceful home. I have in mind honey and red candels. what other things can i add to draw him home not just to visit the kids but for physically, mentally, emotionally, sexually and spiritual union. Thanks

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Unread post by Olivialeigh » Sun Aug 21, 2011 11:26 am

I recently ordered a reconcilation vigil to be set for my ex boyfriend and I. the breakup is fresh and I was the one who dumped him.
I didnt want to but I felt I had no other choice. I miss him and want us to be together but need him to see the error of his ways. In addition to the reconcilation candle would clarity work help make him realize his mistake and that he made very wrong selfish choices? I hope this is in the right forum. Apologies if this should be in a different one.

I miss him so much and love him dearly and know he loves me. I dont know what to do. Im scheduling a reading as well.

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Unread post by Sweets1984 » Sun Aug 21, 2011 4:26 pm

hey olivia i just private messaged you

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Unread post by jwmcclin » Sun Aug 21, 2011 6:49 pm

Olivialeigh, remember the issues that made you decide to break up are still there unless they were resolved. Clarity is designed to put an end to confusion and unknowing; for insight and true vision; and the reconciliation to get past what broke you up initially. I would had included Return to Me as well...if that is what you want.
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Unread post by LJGDAWNLAND » Mon Aug 22, 2011 7:27 am

I have posted here before to help my fiance who is Long Distance from me. I found out he has been in a relationship with another woman and has been lying to me all along. I had helped him through his arrest and court date and got great results...he was released.

He is in a really bad mental and emotional place right now having been released from prison after 13 years. He told me the long distance relationship was too hard for him and although he wouldn't admit he was with the other woman, I do know it is true.

He wanted some "space" for awhile and then to reconcile with me later and move to my state once his probation can be transferred and we two be married.

I decided to break it off with him. I need help to break up his relationship with her as she is not good for him at all and knew he was in a relationship with me. She also badmouths me on Facebook which is unfounded.

I want him to work through his issues and get himself together so he can get back on the right path with me. We have 4 years together and he's only known this woman for 2 months.

I have tied his nature (this just before I found out about her) and having a honey jar going. What can I do that would be best?

I feel as though we do belong together but that is down the road a bit.

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Unread post by Mama Micki » Mon Aug 22, 2011 7:38 am

Get a reading to see if you have a chance of a relationship with this man. You may have a lot of obstacles, especially since your relationship started while he was incarerated.

Use Stop Gossip to shut up the other woman.
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Unread post by jwmcclin » Mon Aug 22, 2011 8:10 am

Here is the link to the Stop Gossip Supplies (http://www.luckymojo.com/spell-stop-gossip.html)
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Unread post by Olivialeigh » Mon Aug 22, 2011 9:47 am

Hi Jwmcclin,
We've basically resolved our issues. Ive moved past them and so has he. We both still love eachother and miss eachother very much. But I need him to make steps to change his selfish behavior. He is remorseful, but I dont know if he has the willpower and maturity to make the changes Im looking for. While we no longer have resentment towards eachother, we both know that right now we shouldn't be together until he makes a change. Will clarity, king solomon wisdom, cast off evil , and crucible of courage help facilitate that? Because thats what I used for him. I know I cant change his character, but he needs to see how wrong he was and know that

As far as our reconciliation goes, Im trying to work on him and myself and address our own issues before we jump back in. The reconciliation was to move past our hurt and be friendly towards eachother and try to let bygones be bygones. Which seems to be working. We talk regularly, we just are no longer in a relationship. He seems to want to be with me, but I know I cant until he changes.

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Unread post by jwmcclin » Mon Aug 22, 2011 12:20 pm

Its good to hear reconciliation is appropriate, but I think you are wanting him to make the first step? If that's the case, you may or may not get what you want. Previously did he make the first step, or has time apart built up any resentment? Sometimes we have to bite the bullet and make the effort and if its what you want its worth it.

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Unread post by Olivialeigh » Mon Aug 22, 2011 1:59 pm

I reached out to him actually so we could open the lines of communication and we are now talking regularly and are on friendly terms. Its his selfish behavior that needs amending before I agree to get back together with him. I am waiting for my candle reports to come back. Ive used their vigils especially for healing others issues with alot of success in the past. I also have a reading scheduled for Friday so that I can get some more info on whats going on behind the scenes that may be blocking or working in our favor and maybe get some insignt on how to help him adress the underlying problems that are making him act so selfish.

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Unread post by amandarae93 » Tue Aug 23, 2011 1:02 pm

I am a Christian girl but I do believe in, for lack of a better word I guess, the magical things. And I really need help.

First I will give some background. For the last year and 3 months I have been dating this guy. He ended up moving in with me, and proposing. It seems like a fast relationship, but me and him have had feelings for each other for 5 years before we started dating, so plus the year we have been together it has been 6 years. During our relationship, I began to feel unwanted. We were fighting every day and I was becoming discouraged. I did not physically cheat, but I did seek comforting (flirting) words from another guy. I only talked to the other guy for a couple of weeks and things never went any farther than texting. When my boyfriend found out, he was able to forgive me, but not fully forget. That was back in December/January, and since then I have not had any contact with any males, not even simple friends, in hopes to gain his trust.

Recently he broke up with me in a horrible scene. He said that he just cannot trust me anymore, even though I have done nothing wrong since that incident. He said he would give me a chance to prove to him that things will be different but he never gave me a fair chance.

He has begun talking to another girl, I say she is a rebound, and is pulling away from more and more. He has gotten to the point where he will not even talk to me. I have tried convincing him to go through some couples counseling with me, and whenever he starts to think about it, he says that therapy should not happen at our age.

He has said and done a few hurtful things out of anger, but I know that deep in his heart, he still cares about me and wants to be with me. The problem is, he cannot let those happy feelings come to the surface.

Is there anything I can do, or try to do since I have no experience at all, that will make him see that I can be trusted and make his love for me return? And hopefully get rid of that other girl from his life?

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Unread post by Mama Micki » Tue Aug 23, 2011 1:23 pm

He broke up with you because you talked to another man? He sounds controlling and manipulative; I talk to men all day and I'm married. Often, someone is doing the very thing he accuses you of, ie. he was probably at least looking. Get a reading to see if he is worth the time and trouble for reconciliation work.

I would recommend Cut and Clear, then finding a man who doesn't play these games.

BTW, at what age does he think therapy is appropriate?
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Unread post by amandarae93 » Tue Aug 23, 2011 1:32 pm

Me and him had an agreement at the beginning of our relationship that since we are both jealous people, we were not to talk to anyone of the opposite unless it was necessary, like for school or work.

We were both perfectly happy with the agreement, and did not have any problems with it. But I regret having to admit that I did flirt with another guy, and broke our agreement. He did not break up with me because I did it, he broke up with me because he was unable to get over the hurt I caused him.

As I said in my post, I have no experience with this kind of thing, so how would I get a reading done? And what is Cut and Clear?

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Unread post by faitlaforce » Tue Aug 23, 2011 8:24 pm

Thanks all for the great insight.

Cat I got starstruck reading your response! Lol. But again thanks to all for taking the time to reply. I've ordered my kit and few extra things as well, so hopefully it will be in before the new moon.

So excited, I always get positive energy when I come to the forum, especially when I want to give up on the situation. Ie. The devil somehow got into my head and I was having some negative thoughts about him and despairing on the situation as a whole so I decided to just let it go and cancel the order, as I was calling lm, literally as I was going to hit the talk button he called me that instant, just to check up on me and the baby. Coincidence? I don't think so, I also had a dream about him the night before.

1) Cat you mentioned to put the semen in the candle by digging a hole at the bottom and loading it. Well the semen is on some tissue that I've put in a tightly lidded bottle with some water, you know to keep the juices juicy :lol: . So its really liquidy.

2) I also have some magnetic sand, how do you think I could incorporate it into the spell?

3) With the male member candle that I ordered in pink, I read to ummmm put my own juices on it, and also read you could do it in an x rated way. Do you think that's ideal for a honey jar?

4) I also had a black candle that I visualized as their once relationship, marked it the ex and lit it on top of my toilet bowl, the little wax that was left I flushed it down the toilet? Good idea? But to be honest I'm not worried about the ex at all, because its just a gut feeling I'm getting that's telling me she isn't part of the equation, that this man is yours. To be honest I am also getting the gut feeling that if I do this honey jar its going to work toooooo well, he will become borderline obsessive . He gets very angry if I mention the idea of another man in my life, but trys to conceal it and act nonchalant but he wears his emotions quite clearly.

5) Last question I lit a 7 day pink candle that I anointed with john the conqueror and come to me oil. I also drew a star of david in the wax, wrote our names, dug a hole to put the name petition in that was loaded with semen and magnetic sand. I also placed a picture of us underneath the candle. The candle has been burning clean, a little bit of a double flame when it the fire caught the paper in the wax and occasionally it will make popping sounds? Any clue as to what that could mean? Also, as I was typing this he called me.

Anywho I will give you an update as things go on. I pray God continues to bless us all.

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Unread post by catherineyronwode » Tue Aug 23, 2011 8:26 pm

1) That's fine. Wet or dry, no diff.

2) You answered your own question at (5).

3) Sure, no problem with that.

4) Sounds good.

5) See the Forum thread on candle divination and also the HITAP page on candle divination.
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For a reading go to www.readersandrootworkers.org to contact a member of AIRR.

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Unread post by amandarae93 » Wed Aug 24, 2011 11:08 pm

Thank you.

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Unread post by LJGDAWNLAND » Thu Aug 25, 2011 9:37 am

I have decided to leave him after all...so I am going to move on....

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Unread post by chihiro » Thu Aug 25, 2011 9:44 am

Hi, I was hoping someone could help advise me on what products to use to try to re-establish a friendship/love affair.

To cut a long story short, Initially he pursued me, but establishing a relationship was very difficult because of ethical conflicts at work. I pushed him away a little out of fear and confusion and he was told by his boss that he was damaging his reputation by pursuing me. So he ended the relationship.

I would really like to at least reinstate a friendship with this man and preferably a romantic relationship , as he is a wonderful human being, and I fell in love with him.

So I need some magical advice on the best way to encourage him to contact me again, remove the barriers between us,and encourage a friendship and relationship to blossom.

I have the opportunity to send him a thank you card on a work related matter and was considering the letter related love spell published on Cat's website.

But due to the substantial barriers I feel it's going to take a lot more kick to get things moving, his work is everything to him and the idea planted by his boss, that he was damaging his career by being with me is going to be a tough wall to break down.

I was considering a petition to St Martha, would that be appropriate? Or a Honey jar to reignite his feelings for me.

If anyone has any ideas or advice, I would be very grateful.

Thank you

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Unread post by julieju » Thu Aug 25, 2011 10:01 am

help with preparing a honey jar please

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Unread post by Mama Micki » Thu Aug 25, 2011 12:33 pm

Use Cut and Clear to cut your emotional ties to him and find someone new. Good luck to you.
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Unread post by jwmcclin » Fri Aug 26, 2011 8:26 am

You mentioned the thank you card ... incorporate it with this Reconciliation Spell (http://www.luckymojo.com/reconciliation.html)
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Unread post by Learning-Doing » Fri Aug 26, 2011 2:38 pm

So, Im starting the Reconciliation Honey Jar for reconciliation with emotional closeness and feelings of Love . we're talking every few days, things are warming up , but I definitely want the Reconciliation Honey Jar to keep that coming and growing . I have LM reconciliation and love me oils, pink offeratory candles , our hair , our picture, im just stumped as to what to write in my petition paper after i have crossed our names ( mine on top of course) for that reconciliation of emotional closeness and love. any ideas ? please. i know this sounds like a no brainer for most , but i guess when youre in it - things arent always so clear . thank you .

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Unread post by prayer10 » Fri Aug 26, 2011 3:58 pm

From what I've read & been told, short commanding petitions are usually best. Such as "love me", "come to me", "desire me", etc. You want the person to love you, and to come/return to you.

In this scenario, I'd suggest encircling your names using "love me" & "come to me".

Just my 2 cents.

Good luck in your work.

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Unread post by Learning-Doing » Fri Aug 26, 2011 7:34 pm

thank you Prayer10. much appreciated

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Unread post by julieju » Sat Aug 27, 2011 5:28 am

Thanks a million

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Unread post by light33 » Sat Aug 27, 2011 6:56 pm

Hello
as i reas your post, i am glad qu did let him go for now. I am sas for you, amd i hope it works for you. I do not have any answers but you are in a great place to receive advice and help.

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Unread post by Dichterin » Mon Aug 29, 2011 8:39 am

Vibes tell me I connected to a person for a reason, but there's this weird push and pull energy and dynamic. Both of us have trust issues, and I wonder how the heck I can clarify what I need to do in regards to him.

I've meditated, but trusting my judgment is hard since I trusted the wrong person a few months ago. This person hurt both of us, and I worry that whatever bond we could have had was permanently destroyed by that third person's cruelty and duplicity. Recently he disconnected from me and claims he never felt a connection.

Any insight you can give me will be greatly appreciated. I still feel his energy and feel like I was drawn to him for a reason and must repair this connection. Speaking to him wouldn't do any good as he is one of those people who shuts people out. Is there a ritual or spell I can do to soften his heart, help him trust me, or see my perspective?

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Unread post by jwmcclin » Mon Aug 29, 2011 8:42 am

Reconciliation (http://www.luckymojo.com/spell-reconciliation.html) is what you desire Dichterin. It is designed to forgive and forget past problems, fights, and break-ups, to fall in love again.
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Unread post by Dichterin » Mon Aug 29, 2011 9:36 am

This person was a potential friend. Friendship was interrupted by a third party's manipulation. I read the description of your recommendation, but it doesn't exactly fit what I want. Any other suggestions?

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Unread post by aura » Mon Aug 29, 2011 4:29 pm

Hi Dichterin,

try reading through these threads (they're short) to see if anything fits better:

reconciliation-spell-questions-and-answers-t14715.html (has a section on adapting the reconciliation products/spells for working on a friendship)
friendship-t12813.html
reconcile-with-an-old-friend-t15155.html

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Unread post by LJGDAWNLAND » Wed Aug 31, 2011 7:53 am

Update:

his mini-affair ended. The woman hit him 5 times and is already cheating on him. So yesterday he left her and wants to reconcile with me saying he knows I am "good for him" and that he never stopped loving me. I still think I should get a reading. We have been together a long time and I never did the cut and clear.

Not sure if this should be a new post? however...

my gut feeling is

a) we do belong together

but

b) there is still more struggle for him to come

I am looking at it as, I can still be there for him but he needs to do his own healing on some levels. I have been working on his behalf (magical wise) the whole time and I think it is helping things shift and change in a good way. I always pray first before I undertake a working for our highest good.

any thoughts? suggestions?

I think that the other woman will still try to get him back but I know if he did go back it would unravel rather quickly. it is because of the long distance i say this

thanks for listening!

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Unread post by artsie » Fri Sep 02, 2011 8:15 am

Hello everyone,

I was wondering if anyone knows of a fairly simple quick wish spell. I am on talking terms with my ex (we live two hours away). We don't talk a lot.. just a few texts here and there. He had visited me three weeks ago and we had a great time together. I wanted him to visit me this weekend as its a long weekend and he probably has the time to come see me. Also, i have a honey jar going for him.

Does anyone know of a quick wish spell involving a candle, petition paper & personal concern. I have some reconciliation, love me & chupporosa oil with me at the moment. Any input would be greatly appreciated! thanks a lot :)

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Unread post by mommystwin27 » Fri Sep 02, 2011 10:54 am

The only thing I can think of is fast luck http://www.luckymojo.com/fastluck.html

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