Spells for Ex-Lover Ex-Spouse to Return Reconcile Reunite

Unread post by **jwmcclin** » Fri Sep 02, 2011 9:57 pm

When he visits again be sure to get some personal concerns, hair, nails, etc etc... Also, work with Follow Me Boy products to keep him coming to you. mommystwin27's recommendation is good for quick results but I am getting a feeling that you want him to continue coming not just this quick turn around for the weekend.

KBW2011 · Unread post by **KBW2011** » Mon Sep 05, 2011 9:00 am

I need some advice on how to win an ex back. I'll try to make this as brief as possible.

He and I had dated several years earlier for a brief time. It ended very badly due to some bad decisions on his part, and the rather psychotic actions of another. It was very tramatic for me and left me with huge trust issues.

Fast forward several years later, we resume contact and it is intense! We are head over heels for eachother. He confesses he's in love with me, that Im the "Total Package", and that I engage him emotionally, physically, intellectually, and spiritually.

But I still have trust issues, and the more deeply I fall in love with him, the more I create small "spats", until it escalates into a huge blowup, and I do the one thing I promised I wouldn't do...I throw the past up in his face. That was it for him. It was over. I try several times to make amends, and he was receptive at first, but then turned cold.

I find out he's dating someone. I still try to get him to sit down and discuss things with me (we have YET to do this) and at first he's open to this, and then backs out at the last minute. I think during that time from when I last talk to him until then, that they had had sex, because at this point he was resolute on pursuing something with her, even though he admitted to STILL having feelings for me. He said he felt we had too many constraints...distance, work schedules, visitation schedules, etc. I was hurt beyond belief.

I KNOW he still loves me, but he is VERY stubborn, has a lot of pride, and it's hard for him to ever admit he's wrong or to apologize for anything. So at this point we are not even speaking, and it's been a little over 3 months with the breakup, and 1 month of complete no contact.Also, he lives 4 1/2 hours away, the rival lives within 10-20 mins of him.

I have no DNA of him to use in spells although I do have a few items he gave me. Any advice will be helpful.

In the meantime I'm in the middle of doing a candle spell....his and my candle are burning extremely fast.. 3/4 burned up in 3 days and it's a 7 day vigil candle, no black smoke, and the flames are strong and dance a lot. I used the items he gave me and placed on the alter, along with a petion for what I wanted, and our names on the candle. The rivals candle is burning much slower, only halfway at this point, a lower flame with little movement, and no smoke. Each day I move her candle further away from his, and move his closer to mine, while reciting what I want and desire, and for him to contact me.

Any advice will be appreciated, and does anyone know how the candles are burning means? Thanks so much!!!

Unread post by **ConjureMan** » Mon Sep 05, 2011 2:39 pm

Well more than anything you need to resume communcation again. Frankly everyone is stubborn, so that's not the issue. The issue is that you did something you promised you wouldn't and you caused him pain. Of course this was after years ago he caused you pain. The cycle that is evident is that you and him hurt one another then never allow a chance to heal. You accepted him back without full healing and now are trying the same with him.

What is needed here is serious healing. Take a bath in Violet leaves as you pray that your heart is mended. Forgive him for all he has done to you and then start a reconciliation honey jar. Write a tricked letter in which you apologize to him and ask that you two meet so you can clear the air. Send the letter and then see if he's amendable to sit down and talk with you. When you meet him take a Reconciliation bath, lay out powders, and see if you can rekindle things in a loving manner willing to let go of the past.

You'll also need to address your rival.

Good luck.

KBW2011 · Unread post by **KBW2011** » Mon Sep 05, 2011 3:18 pm

I tried to meet him before the no contact started...he would seem open at first, then when it came time to set a date he'd find an excuse...very passive agressive.

When I asked if he wanted me to back off he said that was probably best, that he wanted to give him and the rival a chance....all while he still has feelings for me. So I did...well as far as he knows;-)

I started a honey jar, and definitely will start a reconciliation jar.

I really wanted him to contact me first, though....not so much out of pride, but that I wanted it to be him and the spells... not me pushing for something to happen. I believe that's why his candle is burning so quickly, is that it's working on the feelings and emotions that are already there.

If I knew he had no love for me whatsoever, I'd be done, and not even being doing this. I don't believe in making someone try to love you that doesnt, but I know that he still loves me....he's just hurt, bitter, and unforgiving. That's why he didn't want to see me I'm sure.

Do you recommend anything for the rival? I've been doing a candle spell... I don't want to harm her, I just want her to go away.

I petition over the candles that all obstacles be removed from our path of reconciliation...her, distance, anger, resentments, and unforgiveness.

He does have a birthday coming up soon...I may do a trick birthday card.

Which is better for me to use, Return to Me or Reconciliation ?

1) We didn't end on the best of terms, so some healing work needs to be done. his man was head over heels in love with me and I ruined it. I know he still loves me, but he is very unforgiving, stubborn, and holds onto grudges. I need something STRONG to break past his resistance. Which is better for my situation... Return to Me products or Reconciliation products? Or something else?

2) Any suggestions for removing the rival, as well? I don't want to harm her, just out of the way.

Thanks so much!!

Unread post by **ConjureMan** » Mon Sep 05, 2011 5:09 pm

As a person who has worked hundreds of reconciliation cases I can tell you that magic can create opportunities and help work miracles, but in the end you have to also make an effort on your own part for magic will only take you so far. Your situation requires serious forgiveness. Be the bigger person and take the first step with the methods I've outlined which will not only create an opportunity, but also use the tricked letter to work on him magically and therefore increase your chances of actually having him meet you. Waiting around to for him to contact you only assuages your pride. Reconciliation requires communication; without it your chances are slim.

If he doesn't meet you after the work you do, then you have your answer and you should move on.

For your rival consider break up work or a freezer jar .

Unread post by **catherineyronwode** » Mon Sep 05, 2011 5:09 pm

1) Return to Me is used alone when the break-up was not caused by your having "ruined" it.

In your case, You need Reconciliation PLUS Return to me, and to use the Reconciliation first, to heal the hurts, or you will never get him close enough to use the Return To Me.

2) There is a whole section of this forum that deals with Break-sups, and you can read lots more there. In brief, however, use Separation products, or, if the relationship is very tight, use Break-Up products.

But be aware that by causing her to lose the man she loves, unless you do a love-drawing spell on her behalf and find her another man, you ARE harming her. Don't kid yourself.

Unread post by **jwmcclin** » Mon Sep 05, 2011 5:22 pm

cat you are brilliant...that's is indeed something to keep in mind. By the way KBW2011, I merged both of your posts because they are discussing the same issue.

Jinglepop · Unread post by **Jinglepop** » Tue Sep 06, 2011 2:54 am

You are in a mess!

1) Do reconciliation spell.
(Along with this some healing so that him and you can recover from the agony of breaking up)

2) Peaceful home spell

3) (Not good, because it's harmful magic) Break-up spell can be used between him and his mother. I've used it before to ruin a pair of best friends who were screwing me up. If you do this, you MUST do a purification spell thing with hyssop to cleanse yourself of doing something wicked.

4) Stop letting him have sex with you, have some self-respect. Only do that with him unless you are doing so to get personal concerns (semen, hair etc) to be able to use in your reconciliation spell or honey jar spell.

5) Please chill. Can't do these things proper if you ain't in the right frame of mind.

Been a few months since you posted. How is the spell coming along?

Jinglepop · Unread post by **Jinglepop** » Tue Sep 06, 2011 3:12 am

By all means, go for the honey jar. Read the article online. (Must have personal concerns.) Maybe even go for the reconciliation painted bottle they sell on here. Use Follow Me Boy, Love Me etc for the candles. Red, Pink and white for healing if need be.

Go for St. Martha. She don't fool around.

Do some tarot reading to give insight into the situation.

Jinglepop · Unread post by **Jinglepop** » Tue Sep 06, 2011 4:30 am

zlove. Although this whole thing is nearly a year old. *shows you a thumbsup and shakes head in admiration* Holysh*t girl, you got stuff, I approve!

How did the thing go, are you happily married with this man?

artsie · Unread post by **artsie** » Tue Sep 06, 2011 5:41 am

Thank you JW & Mommystwin27 for your replies. I wasn't able to get him to visit me this weekend but I will definitely keep your suggestions in mind for the future

Jinglepop · Unread post by **Jinglepop** » Tue Sep 06, 2011 9:51 am

Dear Fellow Rootworkers and Hoodoo people,

I'll make this as short and sweet as possible here. I'm new at healing and cleansing spells but I want to try my hand at it and help some people. I do readings before I do a spell.

Here are my questions:

1) What are the best spells or combination of spells to use for people who were traumatised from a break-up/divorce BUT want to heal up so that they can be unafraid and reconcile again

2) How should the emotional and mental state of the rootworker/spellcaster be? We all know calm and focused is best, not like if you want to do malicious work in which you should be angry and malicious. Should I be in a loving mood, compassionate mood what?

Unread post by **Dr Johannes** » Tue Sep 06, 2011 9:56 am

1. Consider a few Majoram and/or Hyssop baths and then proceed to Reconciliation Products.

2. For this kind of work? Just be calm, determined and focused.

Unread post by **MissMichaele** » Tue Sep 06, 2011 10:14 am

Do I understand that you have broken up and want to reconcile with the same man? That's one of the more difficult kinds of love magic.

Cut and Clear is for getting over somebody, so that you can get on with your life and go on to fresh fields and pastures new.

If you're still intent on reconciling post-breakup, I would recommend blessing and healing baths, with some King Solomon Wisdom and some hyssop in the mix, and then reconciliation work -- which will require determination, courage and time -- and possibly professional help.

Hope this helps,

Miss Michaele

Unread post by **catherineyronwode** » Tue Sep 06, 2011 10:26 am

This is unclear, but what you seem to be saying is that this couple broke up, divorced, and now what to reconcile and get back together again, but are fearful of problems cropping up again ... so...

1) A Crucible of Courage bath if they are afraid and a Reconciliation spell (there are many types) if they sincerely want to reconcile. Finish with a love-renewing pair of mojo bags. See this HITAP "Love Spells" hub page for links to specific spells:

http://luckymojo.com/lovespells.html

2) Sorry, but this little "we" does not "know calm and focused is best" for reconciliation. This little "we" thinks that everything depends on the needs of the client.

"Loving and compassionate" is too generic for me to recommend for assisting people to undertake a reconciliation after a divorce. Sometimes "righteously upright and yet forgiving" is what is called for. Sometimes "sincerely contrite" is the nature of the work.

You are the proxy for the client and you must be supportive of the client's situation. You will fail the case if you try inserting your own preferred state of mind into the situation, but more cogently, if you cannot get behind the client's state of mind and / or the client cannot evince a state of mind which you deem advantageous to the goal that the client has requested, then you should not take on the job.

Hope that helps!

Unread post by **ConjureMan** » Tue Sep 06, 2011 4:18 pm

Well it is a bit unclear what you are looking for. However here is a link to a conjure aimed at mending hearts: healing-a-broken-heart-t11549.html

Jinglepop · Unread post by **Jinglepop** » Tue Sep 06, 2011 9:54 pm

What has happened, is that they are hurting from heartbreak, there was a misunderstanding, but they found out about the misunderstanding a few months later, after they thought they were done. They want to reconcile, but when they see each other they are uneasy and unnerved. They acted out of passion and anger, two kids and they just moved out of their homes, each of them taking a kid. So a family was separated here. BUT, they made an effort to ask me. The both of them. The situation is they still love each other and want to reconcile, but are still very hurt and actually feel uneasy around each other in-person. In the nights they still dream of each other. They're just thankful they haven't filed for divorce yet, they want to be back together.

I've done honey jars, hotfoot work, jinxing (I always do a reading and check with the gods to see if its justified) but this is my first ever reconciliation work. I'm gonna do my best, I'm pretty confident.

From my reading I know that they are VERY sensitive and emotional people, and they hurt each other bad. Got the three of swords, the tower and ten of swords. What I need to do, is heal the hurt first, then do the reconciliation spell.

Is there a time frame I should follow, like 3 weeks after the healing spells, I do the reconciliation spells?

(Thanks for advising me friends.)

Jinglepop · Unread post by **Jinglepop** » Wed Sep 07, 2011 5:25 am

More about me, is that I am a magical worker, known locally here as a "bomo" or an "Ah Chan" or humorously, a "witchdoctor." Been learning for almost a decade, and started practicing South-East Asian/local magic from my elders for a few years now. Had an affinity for the occult since I was a child. Singapore has so many races, that predictably our magic is a fusion of European (used to be a British colony), Chinese, Malay and Indian. With Thai and indonesian influences. (Not just in spiritual beliefs has our races mixed, but in food, costume etc.)

I've been learning Hoodoo and *just* starting to practice it. I have to start somewhere, and I am glad I found Lucky Mojo, and you fellows to advise me.

Although I mix magic as in culinary practices like fusion food of East Meets west (it may be different but it gets the job done of helping people), I do have deep respect for those who do pure traditional stuff. I come to you with respect and sincerity in my heart not intending to force my beliefs/practices over you. With magic, it is universal whatever the culture, people or country. It is wonderful.

For this particular case to show you that I do have respect for tradition, (and personal experience) I'm going to help this couple with 100% pure hoodoo. This will be nice.

So! You have any more advice for me on what hoodoo spells to go for? Also, what Lucky Mojo products should I go for?

Unread post by **BLindstrom** » Wed Sep 07, 2011 11:54 am

You have any more advice for me on what hoodoo spells to go for? Also, what Lucky Mojo products should I go for?

Hello jinglepop
Here are some suggestions:
In this delicate matter it is obvious that this couple need time to heal.Both themselves seperatly, and their relationship. I would suggest Healing products http://www.luckymojo.com/products-healing.html
and honeyjar in combination with a moving candlespell using Reconcilliation products http://www.luckymojo.com/products-reconciliation.html and Rose of Crucifixion Oil
But before doing this work, I think they both need cleansing.
I think hyssop baths would be a good choice.

Good Luck!
Miss Benedikte

Jinglepop · Unread post by **Jinglepop** » Wed Sep 07, 2011 2:53 pm

Thanks to Dr Johannes, Miss Micheale, Catherine Yronwode, Conjureman Ali and Miss Benedikte for the advice!

(Apologies to the moderators for posting this at the wrong spot, because they looked like they needed more healing than reconciliation work!)

All right, I will first do blessing and healing with hyssop, (put in some crucible of courage), honey jar and moving candlespell. White crucifix candle, appropriate oils...

I tried searching the site and forums, there's so much stuff about moving candle spells (many variations), so I'll go by what I basically understand and by logic the method to use for this job is:

• At start of spell pink/red dressed figural candles representing couple, one man one woman are at opposite sides of altar.
• As spell progresses, the candles are moved closer together.
• At end of spell the candles are touching and should be allowed to burn out.

Does the above look correct?

Unread post by **Dr Johannes** » Wed Sep 07, 2011 3:09 pm

Jinglepop wrote:...I've been learning Hoodoo and *just* starting to practice it. I have to start somewhere, and I am glad I found Lucky Mojo, and you fellows to advise me...I do have deep respect for those who do pure traditional stuff. I come to you with respect and sincerity in my heart not intending to force my beliefs/practices over you...For this particular case to show you that I do have respect for tradition, (and personal experience) I'm going to help this couple with 100% pure hoodoo.

Nice to hear of your background, jinglepop and yes, the magic is wonderful. However this forum is about the practices of the Afroamerican cultural tradition. As you will learn, Hoodoo and Conjure as well as any cultural tradition is much more than the traditional methods and spells it contains. To learn it properly you need to dive into the culture and stay there for years until it is a part of you. Then perhaps you can reach at least 90% "pure hoodoo". The ONLY place to start for a man with your high ambitions is here: http://www.luckymojo.com/mojocourse.html.

So! You have any more advice for me on what hoodoo spells to go for? Also, what Lucky Mojo products should I go for?

Try "Money drawing" to get the funds for the HRcourse and "Crown of Success" to complete it and graduate. Those who think this forum is informative in regards to the tradition have not seen the HRcourse archives. Now, THAT is a treasure chamber.

nicoleap · Unread post by **nicoleap** » Thu Sep 08, 2011 3:01 pm

Hello everyone. I hope this isn't a silly question but I was wondering if healing/self empowerment or a possible cut and clear would negate or detract from reconcillation work?

I had a relationship w/my boss that ended two months ago. Reason being is because he is afraid of marriage and commitments. He said I am the best thing to ever happen to me and his feelings were strong, but the fear is stronger.

I was told to do the IS and I did. I also have a honey jar. This was all done the last week of July/first week of Aug. Although my IS didn't burn cleanly, I did get great signs and about 3 weeks later I noticed at work how tired he looks. Bags under his eyes, he's very visibly lost weight, hasn't gone out partying, mutual friends say he's depressed, etc. I have had readings, 2 readers, each one picked up without me telling them anything that he was anxious/nervous/depressed over me and is thinking of me all the time, burying himself in other activities to occupy his time. Both readers say he's coming back, he misses me, etc.

That's all fine and dandy. But at the end of the day my heart still hurts. I want to feel good, with or without him. So I thought some healing or maybe even a cut amd clear might sweep out my sadness. But on the other hand I know that sadness/love/longing etc come from the same place within me and fuel my work. I don't want to undermine anything I've done, or dull/nullify my feelings toward him. I just want to feel better.

I did set a cut off date of 12/15/11. So if I at least haven't heard from him by then I can start the new year over for myself. Am I not giving this enough time? Will working on fixing myself undermine what I have already done or should i wait to work on myself until after my cut off date? I just don't want to cut off my nose to spite my face....

Anu insight is appreciated. Thanks!

mommystwin27 · Unread post by **mommystwin27** » Thu Sep 08, 2011 5:39 pm

Why would you wait to do work to better yourself? If anything, that may help give you insight on what you need to do in the long run. Adding clarity and tranquility to your self-improvement work may help greatly. As far as working the Intranquil Spirit, I am not trying to second guess the advisement you have received to date, but IS is the last thing anyone should run to in my opinion. It is a spirit from hell. Why would you want to sweeten him to you and then have hell's spirit for a lack of better words mess him up at the same time? If anything maybe work on getting him to come to you and stay with you FIRST, exhaust the options of Follow Me Boy or something like that before taking harsher measures.

If you feel he has done you wrong, I do understand that, but, IS should not summoned lightly. To get what you want it is best to try and take the emotion out of it for the time being.

Again this is just my opinion.....

Unread post by **jwmcclin** » Thu Sep 08, 2011 5:54 pm

....and that's good advice mommystwin27. You definitely need some protection work considering the type of work you are doing. Also, I will list the links to clarity (http://www.luckymojo.com/oil-clarity.html) and tranquility (http://www.luckymojo.com/products-tranquility.html) in addition to my recommendations.

Personally, I like the three spiritual herb baths that Lucky Mojo sells for personal cleansing, drawing and empowerment.
Start with 13 Herb Spiritual Bath (http://herb-magic.com/13herb-bath-13.html) to remove any negative energies, you may want to complete the full 13 days. Followed by the 9 Herb Spiritual Bath (http://www.herb-magic.com/9herb-bath-9.html) to open the way to Wisdom, Strength, and Personal Mastery which is what you need as you are working on yourself. Sealing it with 7 Herb Spiritual Bath (http://www.herb-magic.com/7herb-bath-7.html) to draw Love, Wealth and Mastery in terms of Career also. I mentioned the protection yes, yes, yes, consider Lucky Mojo's Fiery Wall of Protection (http://www.luckymojo.com/fierywall.html)

Also read the list of Protective Spells found here http://www.luckymojo.com/protectionspells.html

KBW2011 · Unread post by **KBW2011** » Fri Sep 09, 2011 4:27 am

Thank you Miss Cat! You are so right! I never thought of it like that, so I've started petitioning her a new love. I really appreciate your insight:-) I have another question, which may sound kinda dumb, but I totally new to this so please bare with me. I've started a honey jar for reconciliation....once started can you add things to it later? Or do you have to start all over? Say you wanted to add a specific herb or oil, can it be opened and added to or do you have to start the whole thing over? Thanks so much for everything!

Jinglepop · Unread post by **Jinglepop** » Sat Sep 10, 2011 11:21 am

Thanks Dr Johannes!

I'll think seriously about joining the year-long course. Hopefully it will not need me to fly halfway around the world to where this is all at for certain lessons. It would mean literally studying abroad for me. Studying abroad for magic... whoever thought that! (I saw for certain lessons are hands-on) For now I will read up on what I can and order Lucky Mojo things, and practice here in sunny Singapore.

*rubs hands together*

Unread post by **Dr Johannes** » Sat Sep 10, 2011 4:02 pm

Just be careful when tossing out that bath water at the crossroads. I hear you get some substantial fines if they catch you doing it.

Jinglepop · Unread post by **Jinglepop** » Sat Sep 10, 2011 8:36 pm

Dr Johannes that is true. Singapore is known as the "Fine City." Government is very strict likes to keep things "clean and green" here. The fine can be as high as $500 Singapore dollars... that's like $400 US. Though if what you are doing is for religious work, the police will leave you alone.

For example during the "Hungry Ghost Festival" or "Seventh Month" (by lunar/Chinese calendar) the streets, are filled with red candles, joss stick incense to guide the dead to walk through, while people burn offerings for their dead loved ones, lay food on the streets (We believe the gates of hell open for a month at that time).

Tomorrow the Mid-Autumn festival starts, lanterns, mooncakes, candles everywhere and sparklers on the streets. Lucky Mojo supplies will be coming in soon... I'll be working for these people during the festival. (Mayhap the lights of the lanterns will provide a more romantic atmosphere for healing work and reconciliation work.)

I doubt anyone will notice the local magical worker/Ah Chan pouring away hyssop water at a crossroads. Besides, there are urban myths about how much bad luck it is to disturb an Ah Chan while he/she does ritual things outdoors.

(It is entirely false of course. We wouldn't curse people for nothing!)

I'll be fine Doc! Thanks anyway for the heads-up.

DangerouslyInLove · Unread post by **DangerouslyInLove** » Sun Sep 11, 2011 1:19 pm

I need help. Me and my boyfriend have been together for almost 3 years but recently we broke up.

I have tried several routes in getting over him but nothing is working, because I still want to be with him.

We are still having sex and we are still telling each other that we love each other. I guess what I need to know is this: I want him back. I don't want him to be obsessed, I just want for us to be in a relationship again, but this time I want the lust for other women out of his heart.

How can I do this?

I know that he loves me and I know that he cares about me. I just need to break down the emotional walls that he puts up.

In my possession I have Love Me oil, Come to Me oil, and I also have a red lovers candle. I have a voodoo doll that has his hair in it. I also do not have a lot of money but I am hoping you can help me with what I have

But any help is appreciated...

Olivialeigh · Unread post by **Olivialeigh** » Sun Sep 11, 2011 6:58 pm

Just an update- I had LMCC set lights for a reconciliation and healing and clarity (for my ex), and had an AIRR Rootworker set reconciliation lights in tandem. We indeed have reconciled and our relationship seems stronger than ever. All of the sudden my ex is obsessed with me, more in love with me than hes ever been. Is this typical of reconiliation work? I only had lights set, but the change in him is dramatic. Hes more open and loving and affectionate (I always have good results with LMCC and the AIRR rootwokers!

my question is if this is typical? I know everyone reacts differently and every situation is different. But I like the change and think maybe a honey jar would be appropriate long-term to continue these results?

ohwhygeorgia · Unread post by **ohwhygeorgia** » Sun Sep 11, 2011 7:24 pm

Hello Everyone,

Ok so roughly a year and a half ago I split with my boyfriend of three years. Our relationship had been on the outs for some time, and I dealt with a rather messy break up. I moved out, started up some road opening work, and cut and clear work as recommended by a root worker. We cut ties, and i steadily became whole again. I cleaned my act up, got out of a several month long bout of depression and got my life back.

Now before this Ass****, I was dating another young man for about two years, who truly was my first love. We were both young, and needless to say ended things, and really never spoke again. Around this time last year I found myself having dreams about him, waking up smelling his cologne, and noticed he was consistently on my mind. I did some research, asked around and was encouraged to get a reading before starting any work on reuniting with him. (Little back story: We broke up almost 5 years ago, stopped talking. He got a new girlfriend, got married and that was all I knew. We have a few similar friends, word travels fast.)

So I got my reading, spent an hour really listening to what was going on with him, and why I was having theses constant thoughts about him. The worker laid it out like this:

All in all he misses me. She told me that in life I am allowed so many "true loves", that the pain and emptiness I am searching to fill is because I lost him. She was reluctant to tell me he was "the one", and said I already knew. She told me that he had been in a relationship, and married in fact however she was now out of the picture, and they were separated by HER choice. He has basically been demolished by this girl. However he longs to reconnect with me, and has for some time now. She gave me a list of work to preform to get back in contact with him. I ended up doing a fantastic honey jar spell, as well as some other reconciliation work. She told me he did have some reservations surrounding the break up, and wasn't too sure if those things would happen again between us. But she said the work I had started before talking to her was working well, and she was seeing great progress. We left it at that.

I started my work. I gave myself a time limit, like she said. I allowed myself 3 months. Within 4 weeks we were talking... calling, texting and had set a date to meet up. We spoke over the span of almost a month before meeting. He had confessed over the phone how much he had missed me, how although he had moved on to marriage, I was always his true love. I felt as if this was exactly what I had asked for, everything was perfect.

We met up. We had dinner, spent the day together. I realized how all my work had paid off. However, things were different. He didn't have the same sparkle. I could tell this girl has truly devastated him. He was changed. Eventually our day ended. He dropped me off, and we didn't talk much after that. I would text or call and he wouldn't respond efficiently. I stopped responding to him and vice versa... I never really asked or encouraged him we would do it again some time. I really truly believe it was not the right time in both of our lives.

I got really hard on myself. I blamed it on all sorts of reasons. I truly believed that he wanted nothing to do with me because I was no longer attractive to him and had gained 30 lbs. since we broke up. I gave up on love. I gave up on my work. I went back to my crappy relationship with my recent ex boyfriend. The relationship continued to get worse... and ended with abuse. Thankfully I got out, and we are now separated for good.

I can't help but keep going back to him ( the first boyfriend, the one I met up with ). It's not even a "im alone and desperate" type of thing. I don't need to be in a relationship, in fact I don't even want one unless it's him. It's that I know, with or without confirmation that we are meant to be together. I just keep going back to, it wasn't the right time. Him and his wife had just split LITRALLY with in a month of us hanging out. I had just ended a three year relationship. We were both burned...

I already know I need another divination session... no need to scold me. I've gotten my groove back. My alter is now set up and steadily becoming more and more complete. Now that I am more experienced with this type of work, as well as different herbs and roots, I would like some recommendations from some of the senior members from the forum as to start my work back up on him. Like I said, we don't talk. However I know how to get ahold of him via facebook... I just feel like I need to get some work under my belt before communication begins. I really wouldn't even know what to say.

We haven't spoken, literally in almost a year. I know he's single, but who know's who hes talking to, or involved with. I have considered the honey jar once again, as it worked so well last time. However.. I have no personal concerns. I have dressed a love candle, as well as some road opener candles. Can anyone else give me some insight to get this ball rolling? Thanks in advance

Ohwhygeorgia

Unread post by **jwmcclin** » Sun Sep 11, 2011 8:44 pm

You should get a reading since you are unclear in terms of what to do. Unless you know what to do and your heart and head are at odds, again, get a reading and ask the questions you are asking here and follow thorough...

http://www.readersandrootworkers.org

Unread post by **Turnsteel** » Mon Sep 12, 2011 12:32 am

A honey jar would be a very good idea Olivialeigh. As to if this is typical? You answered that yourself...

Olivialeigh wrote: I know everyone reacts differently and every situation is different.

Unread post by **Turnsteel** » Mon Sep 12, 2011 12:45 am

I suggest a good Cut and Clear and moving on to draw new, non-broken love. You haven't spoken to him in over a year, that makes what is already one of the hardest forms of work to do, reconciliation, even harder. Unless you have some good solid personal concerns of his, I wouldn't waste my time.

Now I am fairly sure you are not going to actually listen to me, so I'll give you some reconciliation advice. First figure out a time limit and actually stick with it this time. You said you were going to work on him for three months, got one lackluster date,gave up, and now your back at it. So please, please, for your own sake, stick with it if you insist on doing this, and have a Cut and Clear kit on hand.

I would start a honey jar on him with some Balm of Gilead buds, Rose petals, Cardamon, that sort of thing. Make a packet out of a photo of the two of you together and happy and in side of it place both your names and a pinch of herbs and two Balm of Gilead buds. write your petition on it as well. I would work this jar every day for a few weeks before sending him a dressed letter written in your own hand. After you dress it but before sending it put it under a plate with your honey jar on top and burn a candle and pray over it.

Good luck, I really feel for you, and I know what its like to want, but I really truly believe that doing a Cut and Clear now will save you a lot of time and heart ache.

Unread post by **aura** » Mon Sep 12, 2011 2:19 am

Hi DangerouslyInLove,

for your relationship, jwmcclin gave you the best advice: reading

To help the income however, there are a number of easy and not very pricy possiblilities to help. Read through the following thread for ideas:

easy-low-cost-money-spells-t989.html

You may also want to consider growing thyme and basil in your kitchen on an on-going basis and making those plants central to an altar-space devoted to money drawing as this will give plenty a permanent space in the hearth of the home. Fridge-tops are great, wide window-sills work well too.

A money-drawing oil lamp (ALT-LIT-OILG - 7$) is also a nice permanent / on-going way to work.

Blessings and best of luck.

YouTube · Unread post by **Miss Bri** » Mon Sep 12, 2011 3:23 am

As others have said, the best thing for you is to get a reading. I know that you don't want him obsessed with you but it does sound to me like you want to tie him to you and for that I am a big fan of Lucky Mojo's nation sack:
http://www.luckymojo.com/nationsack.html

Your situation is one that I term "ambiguous." You are seeing each other in a romantic manner, sleeping with one another and talking to each other as if you are a couple -- and yet you are not.

I have been there and have counseled many clients through this type of a situation. What I can tell you upfront is that until you get rid of the ambiguity and get clear on whether you are together or not together (and then follow through with the appropriate behavior either way) the situation will continue to be very difficult to move magically. Good luck!

Blessings,
Bri

DangerouslyInLove · Unread post by **DangerouslyInLove** » Mon Sep 12, 2011 3:40 am

@jwmcclin and aura: Thank you so much! Very helpful information that I plan on using.

@Miss Bri. it has already been established that we are no longer a couple but it's like we are **** buddies. He has these emotional walls up and every time it seems like we are okay he decides he doesn't want to be with me. It's like we take 1 step forward and two steps back.

But you're right about the ambiguity part. In order to get rid of it, should I just stop sleeping with him?

ohwhygeorgia · Unread post by **ohwhygeorgia** » Mon Sep 12, 2011 9:25 am

Turnsteel,

I appreciat your response. I truly do understand where you're comming from with the cut and clear reccomendation. To some degree I even agree. But nothing seems to change my feelings, regardless of where I am and who I'm with.

We have some kind of connection regardless
of the time spend apart. I managed to atleast get ahold of him after several years apart the first time. It is possible... But like you said may end up in heart break.

Someone reccomended the intranquil spirit?...
I feel as if although that may be effective, the poor guy has already been through enough.
If he comes back wanting me, it needs to be with love. Not desperation.

I will take your advice into consideration. I just wish there was something more coercive... :/

I think last time I was a little too sweet. And I know he is easy to lay the work on.

Thanks

Olivialeigh · Unread post by **Olivialeigh** » Mon Sep 12, 2011 11:15 am

Good point Turnsteel,

Ill start my honeyjar this weekend!

Thanks

Chardonnay · Unread post by **Chardonnay** » Tue Sep 13, 2011 9:00 am

Hi

I am very new to this forum, only discovered it this morning. I am looking for help on a reconciliation. I have had several readings done, some contradicting others so super confused

I broke up with an ex about two months ago, he had been texting several girls (and possibly other stuff) We are not from the same country but for the past year or so I have been going back and forth to see him every three months, every thing was fine till Dec 10 when I read his texts and then we had been on a rocky boat ... I still went to stay with him for a month this April and he was back to normal but after that he said he was seeing someone else and that he didn't want to hurt me anymore and lately that's all he seems to be doing.

I looked up on the internet and lost a lot of money to scammers etc. I am currently getting some reiki healing work done but I would like to do some on my own as I feel I can put in personal energy and emotions into it. I haven't seen any results but I would like to start off with a 'contact me' spell. Last time we spoke he said he'l change his number if I kept bugging him so I don't want to be the one to initiate contact.

I don't know what is a good starting point. I do not have any hair or nail clippings from him for a honey jar, I do have pictures which I can print out, date of birth, name and may be a handwritten note somewhere too. I was also thinking about the writing his name in a circle and pushing a pin thru it, but don't know what version to follow

I've resorted Santeria, IFA, Lucumi help in the past two months to no joy, so if there is anything more powerful out there to resolve my situation, I'd be grateful to get any input. Most of the readings show marriage, in fact only one of them (by Orisha Ashe, if anyone is familiar) showed that it was only a game to him.

If I haven't bored everyone reading this to tears, any help at all would be grateful

Chardonnay · Unread post by **Chardonnay** » Tue Sep 13, 2011 1:58 pm

MAN!!! reading this alone felt like a soap opera to me ... Must be worse than an emotional rollercoaster for you... wishing you all the best and praying for the best. Feel bad for the lil one, can't imagine a mother who would do that to the kids

Unread post by **hoodooTom** » Wed Sep 14, 2011 2:16 am

Yes Chardonnay, Nobody I know can understand how a mother can walk out twice and still say right to your face, "I didn't do anything wrong!" I have friends that are single mom's and they just can't believe what she has done! Now she is starting up with all sorts of legal stuff just to waste my money. First she took all the money for our house out of the savings account before she left and then filed contempt charges against me because I said for saftey reasons I did't want her to see my son before we went to court, then after spending all that money on court, she dropped the complaint as soon as we walked in the courthouse because I find out now she is afraid that I'm going to make her take a psych exam. But the judge did decide to give her overnight visits at her sisters house which she never had before which scares the hell out me.!

Chardonnay · Unread post by **Chardonnay** » Wed Sep 14, 2011 6:44 am

I just wish and hope all the best for you... just keep your boy safe and do what it takes, she clearly doesn't care much and you are all the boy has got so most important should be you around him... Once he grows up he'll see thru the shades of grey I guess. I come from a super messed up family and pretty much went thru that as a kid with two younger siblings but once you get into your teens you see thru the lunacy. Just be there for you kid, that's all I can say so he can make it into his teens without being severely emotionally scarred. That's just my two cents

Hope things get better for you.

Chardonnay · Unread post by **Chardonnay** » Wed Sep 14, 2011 9:21 am

This is probably a repeated topic and I apologize if this question has already been asked. I want to do a honey jar for an ex to return or atleast get in contact and take it further from there. I have a time frame of 14 days and I would like to acknowledge the entity Pomba Gira in the work specifically. This is a mix and match kind of spell and I'm trying to do as much as I can with as little as possible as I am super tight on money. Anyways here goes:

Ingredients I'm thinking if using:
Rose oil to dress the candle
4'' red candle, one for each day
Honey jar
Cinnamon
Cocoa Powder
Sugar/Honey
I have no personal items so I'll just have to do with names and a petition
I have a Pomba Gira incantation which I intend to say every time I work the jar

Right so I want to write a petition and our names crossing eachothers on a paper and put it in a honey jar with honey and cinnamon, I feel this might add a little more kick, I may also add some rose oil to the honey.

Also, I am hoping to make my own rose oil from fresh roses from my garden, crushed with very pure olive oil and leaving it to stand for 24 hours. I will then put in more new petals every 24 hours, till the oil feels strong enough.

I will then dress the candles in honey, cocoa powder and rose oil. Reason I will add cocoa powder is because Pomba Gira is specifically fond of cocoa powder. I would have added tobacco to the list too but I am guessing it will burn strong and I don't want the family to know, again - Pomba Gira is specifically fond of tobacco. She is also fond of alcohol and adding that to the honey jar may heat up things too between the intended target BUT I'm from a muslim family and alcohol doesn't seem to make it past the main door LOL

I intend to work the jar with this candle and hope for the best.

I do have some questions, it was the a full moon the night before last so is it a good time or not ?

And please please feel free to comment and criticize. I am an amateur this is my first time ever doing such a thing on my own, I am petrified concerning possession etc so if I'm doing anything wrong let me know.

Reason I'm so obsessed with Pomba Gira is because I had a weird experience about two months ago which I only realized till yesterday...

I had a Santeria priest do some Pomba Gira work for me and he sacrificed a rooster for the entity, all the work done was received as he confirmed using coconut shell divination. That night I did a candle ritual with an incantation and the candle popped and went out, it sizzled for a while and this is in a room with windows shut etc. I read that is a sign of presence of a spirit, later that night I had a dream about a very beautiful woman who in my head was Pomba Gira. So I'm thinking maybe it was a connection and perhaps some manifestation can happen...

Anyways, looking forward to some contributions!

Unread post by **Dr Johannes** » Wed Sep 14, 2011 1:10 pm

Did you stop working on her after she came back?
Sometimes things held by magic breaks if not having gained enough power of its own. Sometimes someone else is doing things to that same person.

ladydawn · Unread post by **ladydawn** » Wed Sep 14, 2011 6:35 pm

I'm sort of confused which one of these i should use in my situation.

I started seeing this guy for a short period and things were good, but then things just kind of fizzled out.

to rekindle his interest should i be using reconciliation products, return to me products, or love me products?

Unread post by **starsinthesky7** » Wed Sep 14, 2011 7:05 pm

Well, Hoodoo and Santeria are two different things. Yes you can incorporate things if you have someone that knows what they are doing on your side.

Now...umm...December? Since you and him ave not talked? That's entirely too long. I am not sure who your readers are, but it sounds like they either want your money and given you false hope, or the correct questions are not being answered. You need to ask a) can he come back to you, and B) what spells need to be done to get him to come back to you.

www.readersandrootworkers.com

Pompa Gira...is off subject, and is not rootwork oriented so do not expect to get too much criticism or comment about that as it has nothing to do with lucky mojo products.

Unread post by **starsinthesky7** » Wed Sep 14, 2011 10:10 pm

I would use return to me and love drawing products such as come to me, love me, and attraction.

Now on the other hand, if you and the guy had a falling out, and you want to bring some healing to the relationship, then yes...you could definitely use reconciliation products.

But if he just drifted away I would go for return to me and come to me.

But before you start attempting, I would go for a reading, and see if this can even be brought back together or if you should just move on. Also, if it can be brought back together, then what steps do you need to do.

AIRR
http://www.readersandrootworkers.com

Unread post by **catherineyronwode** » Wed Sep 14, 2011 10:11 pm

You say he drifted away without a fight -- so use Return To Me.

But, as has been said, get a reading before spending time or money on products.

Chardonnay · Unread post by **Chardonnay** » Thu Sep 15, 2011 12:33 am

We haven't talked since July... December is when things started to go downhill.

I have a babalawo, the one who initially did the work for me... he has helped me out spiritually and been there for moral support too. I copy pasted this in an email to him and he thinks it should work but I should wait for the new moon ideally and start work then. Also he'll do a divination for me sometime next week so hopefully will give me a clearer picture on my situation. He did one for me in July and love and marriage both were seen but negative influences from friends were holding it back... I also got tarots done etc etc.

Anyways, I think I'm going to wait for the new moon now. In the meantime if I can get some more feedback I'll be golden

Thank you for your contribution!

Jinglepop · Unread post by **Jinglepop** » Thu Sep 15, 2011 7:25 am

Dear Fellow Hoodoo workers,

Update time. Here in point-form for your convenience... I was so drawn to the fixed painted bottle spells I got them along with the annointing oils.

The Jobs:

• First healing jobs for each. Hyssop bath and white candles. And a L.M. painted and fixed blessing bottle spell. Dropped in personal concerns of them tied together with petition paper. Burnt the white 4-inch candle in mouth of bottle rubbed with Healing oil. Prayed over with Psalm 51.

• Next I did the L.M. reconciliation painted and fixed bottle spell for them. Dropped in personal concerns with petition paper. Reconciliation oil anointed on the pink 4-inch candle. Burnt and prayed over for healing and love to return. Also used balm of gilead oil and lavendar oil, and dressed candle with marjoram herb. (Not random aroma therapy oils but of the magical type)

I read the Hoodoo in theory, and understand bottle spells can be on-going. These two bottles are on my altar as it is the same case. Have sprinkled lavendar and marjoram about on altar as offerings other than anointed candles burnt in bottle mouths.

Results so far:

I have the 3 days for signs, 3 weeks for movement and 3 months for final results on my mind as reference.

By the next day I started getting signs.
A. One of the two tell me they got on the same train going somewhere by pure chance.
B. Lucky Mojo reconciliation bottle spell, although done for my clients was so powerful that it affected me, I met my old high school teacher by pure chance in public, and got contacted by old house keeper whom I have not heard of from for years. Also got contacted via SMS an old relative of whom is not at all close to me. All in the space of one day.

Movement:
Although it has only been a five days, there seems to be movement. The two are talking now on the 'phone, and communicating their hurts and resentments and what they hate. (Of which they rarely do) Might be deer's tongue and balm of gilead working. For this case it looks in order to heal they need to go through communicating these unpleasant and hurtful things. No pain no gain I suppose?

Praise to Lucky Mojo for their quality of products.

This is my first reconciliation work and I wholly agree, it is very hard. I can sense it will be slow and steady work. I will be candid and say I need your support here on this forum! So far does it look like I did everything correct?

Also I have a question, when burning candles with petition papers beneath them, the man's candle always burns slightly faster with a larger bouncing flame. I know it means he is most affected by the work, but oddly, he is also the most resistant. He tells me his emotions have changed (classic symptoms of people grieving from a break-up) and he is afraid, and although he knows it is more sensible to reconcile, his emotions do not want to. His heart does not want to reconcile, but his head tells him to. He has developed a phobia in fact of reconciling with his wife due to the pain of the break-up.

Reconciliation work is difficult I gather because the couple are usually still grieving and unstable and the spells have to be tailored accordingly.

I need advice.

mommystwin27 · Unread post by **mommystwin27** » Thu Sep 15, 2011 7:27 pm

I would get a reading from AIRR for a rootwork consultation, that way you can integrate your other things and still get a second view on everything. You won't regret it. I have some ideas on how to contact your beau but I have a feeling a reading from AIRR would serve you best for now. You just have alot going on, and the distance does not help the situation. This is what I feel, I don't want you wasting more money and time on this.

Ahyoka · Unread post by **Ahyoka** » Sat Sep 17, 2011 3:41 pm

Hello, I'm new here and new at this.

I'm looking at a way of getting the man I love very much, back with me.
We were goi g to get married as soon as he got a divorce.

He was separated from his wife and living in a diferent country from hers for 4 years .
He went to his country to get divorced, but 3 weeks later, he changed his mind, his still wife would not agree to it. She wants to keep up appearances and he has turned out to be really weak, sucumbing to her moral blackmail.
Will a Hoodoo spell get him to do what he wanted to? Will it get him away from her and back to me? I would never be a married man's lover. I want us to get married as we had planned.
Has anyone done a return lover spell successfully? Can it really work? Can someone help me?

Thanks for reading.

Maria95 · Unread post by **Maria95** » Sun Sep 18, 2011 4:55 am

Hello,

I have a big problem and this is something that has been for the past 8 years... when I met and fell inlove with my ex-fiance, things were great, except for his family. They did not ike me, I do not know if it was because I am not Jamaican, a bit older than him, or that I am too strong of a woman, and I was more established than he was. Regardless, we felt love conquered all, but there were times when he would tell me "it's over" out of the blue or "I cannot see you anymore" ot of nowhere. I never got a readng before in my life, but a friend advised me to do so. *I never told him I went to have readngs and work done until recently, last week.

I was told by various readers over the years that his family did not want us together, and was willing to do anything to keep us apart. So much happened over the years,. I have had aout five miscarriages(early miscarriages) and he has done the pregnancy test himself, and I showed him I was pregnant, then I would lose them. Once I went to a priest to try to save the pregnancy but it did not work. As for him, to get to me, or prevent us from having sex/conceiving, or whatever their resaon was, they put something on him that made him bleed from his penis whenever we had sex. This happened for the first time in March 2008, then we broke up in November 2008, and he was fixed with a girl, got married a few months later, and we started seeing each other again in June 2009, and it happened again in July 2009 when we had sex. He went to all types of doctors and no one could help him. It went away, but when we stopped seeing each other. So basically, we have been seeing each other throughout his marriage (which he told me he married her for papers and never dated her, does not and did not love her, and they only talk now about the child and paying a bill)

Now I have been told that the girl is doing things to keep him there and with the combination of the stuff his famiy did and her, hid head is really messed up and it will be hard to get him out. I had a very candid conversation with him last week, and told him what I experienced and he told me things he experienced too. He said he was willing to get a reading done. A week went by, and I asked him why he won't give me a child. he said money. I said to him money was not an issue when we were planning to get married (we got a marriage license and everything and were to be married in April 2007-his family did something to stop the wedding) I told him if he loves me, etc then why is he there and if he knows what was done, or is starting to believe it then why can't he fight harder and try to change things. He said he has to take care of his son. But said he is miserable. It is like he is confused and does not come up with real reasons to be there. I do not know what to do and now he tells me the spell was never on him (when last week he told me yes, he was hexed and I am right) and that I need to stop getting readings done and stop burning candles etc because I am going to make it worse for myself.

Yesterdya he was telling me he missed me, we spent intimate time together a few days ago, and I really thought he saw the truth. Now I am sad, and frustrated because I really do not know what to do anymore. I have had a reading recently and was told things wil work out and he will see the truth and find out, and he will leave, but now i do not know. I have literally tried everything. I even went to another country to do spiritual work for protection, etc. What can I do? Does anyone have any advice? He is now making it like I am the problem and I caused all of this somehow, when last week when we spoke, he was saying he did not think I waslying but it was a lot to digest. And I told him about the woman he married for a greencard too. He has said I hate his family years ago and he could not marry me because of that and also that I had so many miscarriages and he wanted children. His son is going to be 3 in January. So when he married her, he said his family said he has to do the right thing, move in and all of that and she got pregnant quickly. This girl was a member of his church, and I think the family chose her because once when we were "broken up" he had a fling with her. So the girl know about me and everything. I was told by a reader that she will not let him go because she knows he will be with me.

I have done reversal work, cleanings, etc.

Thanks...

Unread post by **jwmcclin** » Mon Sep 19, 2011 8:56 pm

Lucky Mojo has several spells to fit your purpose Ahyoka. For example, Reconcilation Spirtual Spell(http://www.luckymojo.com/reconciliation.html) is designed to forgive and forget past problems that caused lovers to split (for whatever reason), also, many practitioners add Return to Me (http://www.luckymojo.com/products-return-to-me.html) to give it a little kick (for lack of a better word). Now its another situation to get "him away from her'' ...your words. Situations that involve other people sometimes need to be read on to see what is going on that you may not be aware of... Contact an AIRR reader (http://www.readersandrootworkers.org) ...that's the Association of Independent Readers and Rootworkers. The reader will give you advice on which spell to use for your situation as well. This way you will know exactly how to tackle the situation for the results you desire. Good Luck!

Chardonnay · Unread post by **Chardonnay** » Tue Sep 20, 2011 4:26 am

Hi
Thank you for the posts. Yes, I'm looking to get a reading. Any ideas who would be the best amongst them? I'm sure all of them are very good at what they do, just so confused as to which one to pick.

superando_destino · Unread post by **superando_destino** » Tue Sep 20, 2011 7:21 pm

I apologize if this question has already been asked. I've been looking through posts and didn't see anything that specifically relates to my question.

My ex-girlfriend and I broke up in April (lesbian relationship). At the time, she wanted nothing to do with me and stated that she never wanted to see or speak to me again. In May, I had MISC light a couple of candles on their altar for me. One of them was a road opener so that we could come back into communication. I started to see signs right away - e.g. I crossed paths with her when driving one day and it was the first time I had even seen her car since the break up. Within a couple of weeks of receiving the candle report, I received word that she had been transferred. She is a general manager at a fast food restaurant where I also used to work and had been assigned to a store about 45 miles away for almost a year. The general manager at the store where we met (about 0.5 miles from my house) quit and she was transferred there to take over the store. I crossed paths with her one time inside the restaurant in July, but we didn't really talk. I had forgot all about the candles and was just going on with my life when, in August, she started to be on my mind a lot and I started seeing her car everywhere. We talked for the first time two weeks ago. I text her about a shirt of hers I had, sort of to feel out the situation and she asked me to come by the restaurant. We talked for about 10 minutes. Since then she answers my texts about 90% of the time and we talk for a couple minutes when I stop by for breakfast on my way to work. She is the sort of person that she is not the type to initiate contact, so I am not under the impression that any spell will suddenly change her personality in that aspect.

The problem is: there is this sort of awkwardness between us. I feel she is still standoffish towards me though her body language always conveys more of what she is feeling than I think even she realizes. I know that her distance is due to the events that led up to our breakup and I can understand that. I know that I took her for granted and hurt her. But the thing is: life has given me the opportunity to see the error of my ways and I am not the same person I was 5-6 months ago. I have been through a lot and am told by others that I have matured and changed quite a bit. I just don't know how to make her see that. I know telling her I've changed won't make a difference because anyone can say something but they are just words if not backed up with actions.

I'm sorry this is really long. Basically, I am wondering if there is some candle work I can have done for me that can help us get past this so that she can forgive me and we can develop a friendship again. My primary goal is for us to be friends. I am really wanting to have candle lit by MISC. I started a honey jar but I want to have it backed up since I am new to this.

I know a reading is recommended. However, I did have an acquaintance here locally do one a few weeks ago and all she told me was that my efforts would be successful with patience. So I kinda wanted to see what everyone would recommend.

sweetangel · Unread post by **sweetangel** » Tue Sep 20, 2011 11:11 pm

I am married and have one kid. its been 3 years now that i have been in a relationship with a man who is also married. our love life was just superb.

In june last year i saw him travelling with a girl and since then we have been quarelling. i love him very much and i am very possesive about him. He told me that girl is just his childhood friend and nothing else. but i quarrel with him all the time and its been nine months that he has not come to meet me.

We both work in the same town but different offices. each time we spoke on the phone we just quarrel. i am very sad and miserable. sometimes he told me that he loves me very much and he misses me and sometimes he tells me that he loves his wife and want to be sincere to her.

i really love him and i want him back. i will not be able to live without him. is there something i can do to make him come back to me? we cannot meet in public because we are both married and we always meet in secret but its been nine months we are talking on the phone.

PLEASE HELP ME. I WANT HIM BACK. I don't know where he lives but i know his office .

Thanks

Unread post by **aura** » Wed Sep 21, 2011 3:11 am

Hi cjb47807,

Since you have strong signs indicating reconciliation may be possible, you may want to work a reconciliation spell kit (http://www.luckymojo.com/spell-reconciliation.html) and have that work backed up by MISC by having them set Reconciliation and/or Return to Me lights.

If your honey jar doesn't already have balm of gilead buds in there: add them PRONTO (http://www.herb-magic.com/balm-of-gilead.html).

Blessings and best of luck to you both.

mommystwin27 · Unread post by **mommystwin27** » Wed Sep 21, 2011 6:30 pm

Go through their profiles on the website http://www.readersandrootworkers.org/wi ... ootworkers and review the ones who specialize in love work. Go with your gut is the best thing to do in choosing a reader. At least that is what I do, and it hasn't failed me.