Spells to Separate From Abusive, Violent, or Spell-Casting Lover or Spouse

Unread post by **catherineyronwode** » Mon Mar 28, 2011 8:18 am

Look for an AIRR reader --

1) who has had enough life experience to have either gone through a divorce or to have served clients through their divorces, and/or
2) who emphasizes court case and justice spells, and/or
3) who lives in the same nation and/or state as you and may thus be more familiar with the types of legal cases that arise through working with clients who are dealing with laws similar to those with which you are dealing.

iconcurr · Unread post by **iconcurr** » Tue Mar 29, 2011 2:29 pm

Thanks Cat.. I actually choose you. Daggg. I didn't know it would take two weeks though. I really feel like I need to do something right NOW... Two seems like an eternity.

iconcurr · Unread post by **iconcurr** » Tue Apr 19, 2011 3:11 pm

Okay. Had my reading with Cat. Do you know that after the reading she called me and accused me of slashing her tires and then her new girlfriend called me screaming and cursing. OMG. I can't. So we move pass that. On Monday I get home from work and somebody damaged my car. It looks like they took a screwdriver along the passenger side about three feet long. GRHHHHHH.

I called and screaming and cursed and you know what that got me, a flipping temporary order of protection served by NY's finest. Now I can go nowhere near my own house or my niece. I am soo through. All I wanted was peace. I want to move on and get what's due to me. NOW! I need justice. I have a court date that I have to go to. The lawyer I selected is fierce but charges $400 an hour so I am in search of another.

I have the honey jar going. I have been petitioning St. MArtha and now St. Michael. I did a cut and clear and I am burning the incense regularly. Any other suggestions would be very helpful. Thanks.

Verdine · Unread post by **Verdine** » Fri Jun 03, 2011 11:27 am

I've been stuck in a bad relationship for a while. I finally got him to go away to another state to stay with family for a while, but now he's talking about coming back and I want to make sure he stays THERE. Or at least doesn't come back HERE. I don't wish him any harm, I just don't want him to return. How can I best proceed?

Unread post by **Devi Spring** » Fri Jun 03, 2011 11:58 am

Sounds like you need to look at Separation products with maybe some Banishing thrown in since he's already away. Separation is a break-up product, but intended to cause a peaceful parting without a lot of drama. Banishing gets rid of someone, but does so in a way that's not meant to cross them up or cause undue negativity to come to them, like Hot Foot could. Since you're just looking to break things off and keep him away, those products would serve you well.

You can certainly put him into a freezer spell with those condition products in order to freeze him out of life, and freeze him in place - so he can't come back.

Verdine · Unread post by **Verdine** » Fri Jun 03, 2011 12:29 pm

Devi, thank you so much! In looking at information on Separation products I see something I'd like to try involving broomstraws at the crossroads, but how would you suggest I use the Banishing products?

TrueFriend · Unread post by **TrueFriend** » Mon Jun 27, 2011 5:02 pm

Hello everyone,
I have a good friend who i have known for almost 13 years. A little over 7 years ago I introduced her to a man I knew through my work and they started dating. They now have a child together and He has been abusive, drug addicted, mean, insulting, and controlling for a long time. A few months ago I helped her with a great deal of money and energy to help her get away from him. She moved out while he was at work.

She started dating a new guy a couple of weeks ago who is not violent and her children love this man very much, today her old man showed up at the house and demanded that this man take his things and leave. He used every thing he could to manipulate her and push every little button he could to get her to do what he wanted as if she was his puppet.

I truly believe that she will never be rid of him unless i intervene. She has done the legal thing and had him arrested but by the time it gets to court he has her lying for him in court and to the lawyers by threatening her. I also believe it is because she does have true love feelings for this man but she is being destroyed, her two teen daughters are terrified of him, and the baby who is not quite two years old is called names by his own father, not funny childish names but profane cuss words. (asshole, pussy, motherfucker, ect.) I feel that it is my responsibility to intervene and make him go away in some manner because I am the one who brought him into her life and because that is the only way these children will ever feel safe.

Now my question: What would be the best way to go about this? I understand that there is no such thing as a "best" spell or working, what I mean what would be the most efficient and fast acting spell for right now and then I can do other workings later to strengthen and prolong it, I am willing to work on this for the rest of my life if I have to. I saw here at the lucky mojo company that there is a candle that is black with the two figures facing away from each other. I am planning on buying that candle, but what herbs and other things should I do?

I had the idea of doing a break up spell then doing a spell on my friend to give her the strength to resist his manipulation. I also think a spell on the man himself will do well like a get away or move away spell. This may be especially effective since he does have family in Texas that he has mentioned moving away to already. I have practiced spells in the past but I am more from a folklore background that is similar to Wicca but not exactly.

I am not concerned with the morals or ethics of this working because I have already made up my mind that by doing nothing I am doing something very immoral.

Any help or suggestions would be nice and welcome. Please.

Unread post by **Mama Micki** » Tue Jun 28, 2011 7:21 am

Hotfoot him out of there and do a Fiery Wall of Protection for your friend. Ask Archangel Michael to protect her and her children.

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TrueFriend · Unread post by **TrueFriend** » Tue Jun 28, 2011 11:09 pm

Ty mama micki. I have learned that she did not want to take him back but he told her that if she did not he was going to take the baby and move to texas and she would never see the baby again. she is actually going to help me do a protection on her and her home. She wants to be involved. I think it will help because she just wants to be rid of him and have some peace now.

Madame Jupitero · Unread post by **Madame Jupitero** » Fri Jul 08, 2011 11:15 pm

This is old news, but I find that even years later I feel the residue of this relationship and the destructive energies of the man I left.

Years ago, I was in a deeply abusive relationship, which I managed, with plenty of pain mind you, to leave behind. I truly believe that if I had stayed I would not be alive now, and I know it was the right choice, the right thing to do. Leaving, though, required me to pack my car with what I could carry, leave behind what I could not, cut myself off from people who did not wish me well and who would have betrayed my whereabouts to the man who abused me, and... well, floor it.

Years later, my life is better, rebuilt, and I am in a stronger place. And yet I still feel, even now, that this person's ill wishes and cruelty are tripping me up, preventing me from really becoming the person I am truly meant to be. He really did do a lot to hurt my spirit. I am so tired of feeling scared all of the time. This isn't an isolated problem-- I was also abused as a child, and I am sure that this abuse was part of the reason why I ended up in yet another abusive relationship. Well, the people who hurt me a child are mostly dead now, and I have managed to talk to my mother about the "Good God, did you really not know what was happening?" question, and there has been some healing there. I guess mainly I just want to feel FREE of the past, and strong again. I want to be the person I would have been if none of this had ever happened.

I think I need some sort of spiritual cleansing, some kind of protection magic. Something for THROWING OFF THE YOKE OF ABUSE. And especially something that will protect me from any bad vibe this man sent in my direction.

Any thoughts? I am very new to this forum, and I hope I have made this request appropriately. I listen to the podcast all the time and just love the work you are doing here! I hope that as I learn more maybe someday I can take the hoodoo course and have something I can offer to others.

With Love,

Suzanne

Unread post by **jwmcclin** » Sat Jul 09, 2011 5:42 am

Cut & Clear (http://www.luckymojo.com/cutandclear.html) is designed to separate people from difficult relationships or bad habits by breaking ties to the past. You can follow it with a Healing (http://www.luckymojo.com/products-healing.html) bath or vigil candle, or anoint yourself with the oil. Finally, consider the Van Van spell (http://www.luckymojo.com/vanvan.html), it is to clear away evil, provide magical protection, open the road to new prospects, change bad luck to good.

Unread post by **CopperFox** » Sat Jul 09, 2011 8:05 am

Dear Suzanne,

God bless you for all you've been through. I am a survivor of child and spousal abuse and I want to tell you that I am proud of your strength and your commitment to moving on. Dear heart, you can't go back to the person you "could've been" -- what has happened to you shapes who you are. It is wholly up to you whether this is for better or worse.

You speak of a history of abuse and therefore you must be extra vigilant that you do not allow yourself to end up in abusive relationship ever again. Don't do that to yourself. Don't allow it to happen to the children in your life, if you happen to be a mother now or in the future. You have this power now and it is up to you to use it.

The suggestions you received from jwmcclin are excellent ones indeed. I also encourage you to reach out to spiritually minded people and ask that they pray and perhaps set small lights on your behalf. The Crystal Silence League is just one such organization devoted to sending positive and healing prayers.

I am also a strong advocate of cleansing baths as a rite of healing. Here is a traditional bath that was prescribed to me: dissolve one square blueing in 2oz. of Florida water, combine with one gallon natural water or herb tea such as brewed from the 13 Herb bath. Add a handful of salt (your preferred mix or a crystal salts mixture such as LM's Blessing) while praying the 23rd Psalm. Take this bath 3 mornings in a row while the moon is dark. Carry a basin of your used water out to an old tree and ask it to take your pain and fear from you and to lend you the strength you need. You may want to do this monthly until you begin to feel yourself moving clear of the past hurts which are haunting you.

Remember: You are you because of the life you have lived. No regrets about it. Let go of the pain but keep what you have learned from that pain so that you may never find yourself in such a place again.

God bless you & keep you.

Madame Jupitero · Unread post by **Madame Jupitero** » Sat Jul 09, 2011 6:07 pm

Copperfox and jwmcclin, thank you both so much for your kind words and help. Copperfox, you are of course right; what happened has happened, and if I can rise above it and fin strength in the midst of all of this, that's a good thing. I am dettermined to not let this happen to me again.

I don't have children of my own, but I have two young nephews and two stepdaughters (now adult). I am immensely proud of my stepkids-- they are strong and wonderful and have turned out beautifully. My brother and are of like mind when it comes to my nephews (his sons); he has gone to a lot of trouble to put his foot down and protect them from those members of the family who were the problem, and he is a great father. Our mother to her credit tried to do the same for us when we were children, but didn't sufficiently understand that children need a coherent narrative and that pretending that something didn't happen doesn't work out well in the end. I think I suffered a lot from her need to act like everything was normal. So yes, I see your point.

Crystal Silence League: I have joined, and sent away for my booklet. I have crystal, a pale pink quartz the size of a small apple. I also have a citrine. I haven't used either yet though.

I have one last question: Back when i was with my first husband (the abusive one) I was a poet, in an MFA program. My need to get away from him though pretty much sabotaged my graduate studies. Something had to give, and being safe came first. What else was there to do?

One thing I would really love to do is get back to my writing, get my voice back, get back in touch with that great spirit within, that vein of gold and truth.... AND WRITE AGAIN. That relationship did so much to silence me, and I let it happen (my ex is a prominent writer, so at the time staying with my art was difficult-- he really did knock it right out of me. Also I had to leave behind literary friends who were primarily his friends).

I would like to find some way, anyway, to finish my graduate studies, even if it serves no practical purpose ( I care less about publishing than I do about the actual writing, though I am proud to say that I have been invited to take part in a reading at the end of this month-- yay).

Does anyone know of a good SING HEAVENLY MUSE/BELT IT OUT MY GOLDEN ANGEL spell? Something to inspire a writer and break through creative blocks?

Many thanks again!!

CatLadyV · Unread post by **CatLadyV** » Sun Jul 24, 2011 7:51 pm

Hi,

thank you all for reading my post.

This is a situation which has become more abusive in the last 6 months. My husband had a brain injury which I feel has made it very difficult for him to make resonable descions. I have cared for him, and hleped him keep his job over the last 2 years. My stepson, who was not living with us, returned from school to live with us, after not living with us for aover 2 years.

My stepson has actively worked a wedge with his father and I. I previoulsy enjoyed a good relationship with thsi boy whose birthday on February 6 will have reach the age of 20.

He has assualted me twice in the last 6 months and most recently, when he assulated me, my husband blamed me.
My husband began calling me "the Enemy" a few weeks previous to the escalated actions of my stepson.

We also had an insurance claim settle for a nice chunk, just 2 days also before my stepson assaulted me.

He continues to threaten me, and I am somewhat fearful.

I left the house and and took all that was dear to me, namely my animals and went into hiding. I have a court date in a few weeks, as I have filed for a separation. It seems I do not even know my husband anymore. I truly think he has entered into some type of dementia, as this same stepson, only a couple of years ago threatened to sue and inprison him as well.

I have documentation that i alone worked very hard on teh insurance case and that it delayed teh finish of my schooling as well as impacted my business greatly. My husband controlled all of the money, and that was fine till my stepson managed to get control of his father.

I have little and will need spousal support at least for a while. They are living in the house with all the money and trying to stop me from getting my share of the insurance claim.

If this is confusing, please ask me to clarify? I am sorry, I know it is coomplex.

To recap:
1. I have been assualted and threatened by my stepson who also endangered my animals
2. My husband has a brain injury/ I have no current income and need spousal support and my share of insurance claim
3. The stepson wants the insurance claim and to have wild parties at house

Thank you
Cat ladyV

Unread post by **Mama Micki** » Sun Jul 24, 2011 7:59 pm

File assault charges against your stepson and hire an attorney to get your share of the marital assets. Work with Court Case products or a spell kit. Petition Archangel Michael for protection and pray Psalms 91 and 23.

Unread post by **jwmcclin** » Sun Jul 24, 2011 9:13 pm

Court Case Spells and Spiritual Supplies (http://www.luckymojo.com/courtcase.html)
Petitioning Archangel Michael (http://www.luckymojo.com/archangelmichael.html)

Unread post by **Mama Micki** » Mon Jul 25, 2011 11:16 am

You could also work with Money Drawing, Wealthy Way or Prosperity products for money from other sources, such as a job or business.

Unread post by **ConjureMan** » Mon Jul 25, 2011 5:23 pm

Great advice all. I can only add that Pay Me products are also great to get them to pay up the support you want.

CatLadyV · Unread post by **CatLadyV** » Tue Jul 26, 2011 7:14 am

Thank you Mama Micki and ConjureMan Ali,

I know that you know the best ways to accomplish my goals and get my life back. I have an interview tomorrow. For now though, I am unable to buy any more supplies. I have some candles and Special oil number 20, reversal oil, dragonsblood oil, domination oil, uncrossing oil and also commanding oil.

I have a lot of wild herbs around me, such as Rosemary, Yarrow, mint, sage and I am also near the ocean and can gather there. I have a lemon tree too and geraniums and bay leaves, lots of great plants as it is coastal and things grow very easily.

Is there anything i can do with what I have?

Thank you so much for you kind advice,
CatLadyV

Unread post by **aura** » Tue Jul 26, 2011 9:05 am

Hi CatLadyV,

until you can get your hand on the supplies suggested by Mama Micki and ConjureMan Ali, candles + special oil #20 are a good way to multi-purpose improving your own conditions (special-oil-no-20-questions-and-answers-t6672.html). The following thread also has some really good ideas for money drawing/keeping on a tight budget: easy-low-cost-money-spells-t989.html

if you have any personal concerns from your husband and/or his son, these can be used to make any work with what you do have stronger. (a mirror-box for your step-son comes to mind...)

however, as so wisely mentioned above:

Mama Micki wrote:File assault charges against your stepson and hire an attorney to get your share of the marital assets. Work with Court Case products or a spell kit. Petition Archangel Michael for protection and pray Psalms 91 and 23.

Blessings and best of luck through this time of trial.

Unread post by **catherineyronwode** » Tue Aug 09, 2011 9:10 pm

Good to see you moving on to other wuestionsw -- you will find a section of the board devoted to spell work around issues like personal power, career, and so so forth. We're always glad to recommend spiritual supplies for your use.

Unread post by **aura** » Wed Aug 10, 2011 10:56 am

As others have said: congratulations on the leaps and strides that you have made in your life. For the writer's block, you can consult the following threads which provide different methods of addressing the condition:

which-candles-to-use-for-writerʹs-block-t10902.html
need-help-with-a-spell-to-remove-writin ... t3099.html
suggest-a-mojo-to-finish-a-book-t323.html

Blessings.

CatLadyV · Unread post by **CatLadyV** » Fri Sep 02, 2011 10:21 am

Hi Everyone,

I have posted before regarding my recent separation from my husband, which was caused by / planned by my 20 year old stepson who came home to get control of his father during the summer. My husband has a brain injury which could heal almost completely if he would take take care of himself.

Just a year ago, my husband distrusted his son wholeheartedly and with good reason as this young man tried to put my husband in prison, for actions this same stepson committed
himself. How this young man wormed his way back into my husband's confidence I will never understand.However, he now supports his son even more.

My husband it seems is enraged because I was not willing to put up with the abuse from his son and took action to protect my self and my animals. What was a separation (legal) started by me, has escalated to him filing for a divorce.

My husband does have a brain illness, however, I feel that he is still ultimately responsible for his choice to lie to the court (we were in court last week) to lie to himself and to lie FOR his 20 year old son. They are both lying now to cover for each other.

I am deeply hurt and angry and at a financial disadvantage as we ran our marriage in the old fashioned way as we are older. This means that we had one account for the household and he basically controlled all the money. (He still has most of the money as he and his attorney have caused many delays to prevent him from giving me my share.)

We have a settlement conference on the 14TH of September and then a trial on October 4TH.

So, I am busy trying to access and collect documentation to support my issues. I see according to the astrology it might be better to settle in October, but would like some input on this.

In the mean time, my husband and his son are saying that i assaulted my stepson, when in fact the reverse is true. I refrained and walked away after being assaulted by the stepson on two separate occasions.

I don't know what to do about their lies and defamation of character. My Stepson, I believe, got into his father's Facebook account and left some very damming messages on my wall. As I am an artist and have received many commissions from Facebook this hurts my business. Of course I forwarded these incidents to my attorney.

I am rambling, because I am overwhelmed and there are so many other things going on, not even sure if I have posted this on the right thread. I will also post on the divorce thread.

Truly, after caring for my husband during his illness and taking charge of a nasty insurance claim, I am being put aside when the money has come in, and I believe that part of this reason is because my stepson lost his scholarship and my husband wants him in college at all costs, even at losing me. I have dreams where I see tears in my husbands eyes at his choice and feel his guilt, however, I also see that he is steadfast in his decision to support his errant son.

Basically, I need my share of the money and to be protected from the lies and threats and to also be able to keep all of my animals safe.

I also have to go up with in the next 20 days and retrieve what i can of my personal belongings. I have really no place to put my things because he still has most of the money. I feel nervous about going back as they are so angry that I had the nerve to stand up to them and file charges against my stepson.

Thank you

CatLadyV

beebee22 · Unread post by **beebee22** » Mon Sep 05, 2011 12:11 pm

I was sorry to read this, I do hope things go better for you as it sounds like a crazy time at the moment.

It sounds based on your situation there are many things you need to do to protect yourself but upon reading, it makes me feel that this separation is something that you both don't want.

Have you thought about a honey jar and adding in your stepson and husband or is divorce something that you want?

chelly88 · Unread post by **chelly88** » Sun Sep 18, 2011 2:59 pm

Does anyone know of a worker that I can hire to banish my abusive husband from my home and life for good? He refuses to leave my home after I filed for divorce. Please help if you can..it's getting worse.

Unread post by **Devi Spring** » Sun Sep 18, 2011 3:01 pm

You can find a list of skilled and ethical workers at the Association of Independant Readers and Rootworkers:
http://www.readersandrootworkers.org

In the meantime, pray to St. Michael for protection for yourself. You can ask him to protect you and to remove your husband safely.

If you're able to, get a Fiery Wall of Protection spell kit which will help put up strong protections, and help to rid yourself of the enemy.

Mysticserver · Unread post by **Mysticserver** » Sun Sep 18, 2011 3:39 pm

While you are waiting for the spell kit to arrive and work get an order of protection. If you are lucky the judge will grant a stay away order to give you time and space to do what you need to do.

LA Rue · Unread post by **LA Rue** » Sat Sep 24, 2011 8:54 pm

Hello all,
I am in need of advice on the order of spells.
To make a long story short, I have been married for eighteen years. Seventeen of those years have been filled with betrayal, lies, and physical and emotional abuse. I had not, until recently, spoken to anyone about it.

I had a reading performed about three months ago and I was asked what I wanted to do. This was a reasonable question, however, I was stumped. Nobody had ever asked me what I wanted before. I have felt so insignificant for so long that I didn't even understand the question. Since then, I have done a lot of soul-searching...
My next thoughts fell upon justification. Are my thoughts/future actions justified? I know that God doesn't want me to live this way. And, I know all of the horrible things that I have gone through. I say this because I was beginning to feel that maybe I was losing my mind and this was all a mistake…or that I was being too sensitive, as I was often told by my husband’s family. Not so. I have endured so many senseless and undeserving acts of disrespect. I began writing them down one evening and "the flood gates opened." I could not believe how I have endured, or even survived, spiritually and mentally.

My young son is changing. He is learning behaviors and mannerisms that are just not appropriate and my husband will not listen to my pleas on my son's behalf. My son, this tiny little boy, has given me, allowed me, to have the strength that I need. Now, I have the strength, the belief, and the vindication to do what I should have done long ago.

I have decided what to do. My earnest request for advice has to do with the order of performing my work. I plan to perform a Fiery Wall of Protection Spell for me and my son, Hot Foot, Reversal, and Cleansing. Is there anything else that anyone can suggest?

I greatly appreciate your time and any help anyone can provide.
LA Rue

Unread post by **jwmcclin** » Sat Sep 24, 2011 9:22 pm

Good order, but reconsider the hot footing because your son is his son right? That being the case you may want to work some conjure for your husband to be more attractive as a father for his son. But its your call.

LA Rue · Unread post by **LA Rue** » Sat Sep 24, 2011 10:13 pm

Hello jwmcclin,
Thank you for responding. I have thought about the Hot Foot spell for a while now. And, yes my son is his son also. I find myself at a loss but I keep going back to one thought: Will Hot Footing my husband now save us from more hurt in the future? When my son mimics his father's tone, attitude, and behavior it breaks my heart. And, how do I say, "Don't do that," or "Don't say that," when he hears it from his dad.

Please bear with me as I think this through...I have lived with this man for eighteen years. His words have cut through me and changed me. No amount of conjure will help this man become less selfish, less moody, less hurtful, less negative, etc. He has only cared about one thing...himself. He laughs at me when I read my Bible, gets demeaning, violent and extremely forceful if I mention visiting my mother, and clearly disregards anything that I ask of him. O.K., so maybe all wives go through this? I don't know. All I know is that when he "cuts us" down with his words, I am left to pick up the pieces. I am tired of cleaning up after his messes. I have a son to raise.

After all this, my question is: Will Hot Foot remove him from our lives so that he may find peace elsewhere and let us live out our lives in peace as well? I know that Hot Foot is harsh but my son and I have been through so much already...

Please help with your thoughts...
LA Rue

Unread post by **jwmcclin** » Sat Sep 24, 2011 10:46 pm

You may need an experienced worker for your situation, first, you are emotionally involved, second, there is a child involved. I am not saying this to change your mind, just for your to clearly see what the outcome might be either way you go. On a personal note, I would use Separation Spiritual Supplies, not Hot Foot because it has a very intense, vengeful, crossing, cursing edge. Start with some healing for yourself and your son and definitely incorporate protection, both are needed. You mentioned that you had a reading three months ago, and at that time you were not clear on what you wanted to do.
Healing Spiritual Spells (http://www.luckymojo.com/products-healing.html) to get some relief from sorrow and to mend
emotional and physical problems.
Separation Spiritual Supplies (http://www.luckymojo.com/separation.html) has a healing and calming effect and is intended to drive someone away. Read the site for further recommendations.
Fiery Wall of Protection Spells and Spiritual Supplies (http://www.luckymojo.com/fierywall.html)
AIRR (http://www.readersandrootworkers.org)

LA Rue · Unread post by **LA Rue** » Sun Sep 25, 2011 4:09 am

Hello jwmcclin,
Thank you.
I greatly appreciate your time and knowledge. I will definitely look into the products that you have recommended.
Healing and protection does sound like good advice along with everything that you recommended.

You are correct. I am emotionally involved and this makes things a little more intense. I've been having, "I've had it!" feelings for a while now and I need to think things through for the sake of my son. The more soul-searching I have done after my reading the more upset I got at myself for not doing something sooner. Then, regret and a sense of "the stupids" sets in. I don't want these feelings to fester. I love my son dearly and I want him to be O.K.

Thank you again.
LA Rue

Believe129 · Unread post by **Believe129** » Sun Sep 25, 2011 7:50 am

LaRue,
Better late than never!
I wish you the best in whatever you decide to do. Be strong. No one deserves to be treated the way your husband treats you.
6 years ago I walked away from a bad marriage. Best thing I could have ever done. Now I have a husband that loves me and respects me.
If you are ready to move on, I would suggest Cut and Clear kit, walnut bath and protection kit for you and your little guy.
While you decide, I would also suggest having LM set Clarity lights for you.
BEST of luck to you!
Believe129

LA Rue · Unread post by **LA Rue** » Sun Sep 25, 2011 11:24 am

Thank you for the support and advice Believe129.
I'm still a little numb from realizing what I've let happen to me. And, every day is a struggle for me. My reader suggested, among other things, that I work and save for now and I've taken that bit of advice to heart as well.

Lesson learned and I still have a full life to live. I sure do want to make things better for me and my son. And, someday, hopefully, I'll be passing on positive advice to someone else.

Thank you, again. I greatly appreciate it.
LA Rue

autumnalflower · Unread post by **autumnalflower** » Sun Sep 25, 2011 11:27 am

I have also left my sons dad about 10 years ago and found a wonderful man. I'm fairly new to all this, but I thought maybe some sort of healing/tranquility products would be good? Maybe someone else can put input on those two, maybe using the powders to dust your pillows and sheets or self after a bath/shower after you have done the other things suggested.

LA Rue · Unread post by **LA Rue** » Sun Sep 25, 2011 11:38 am

Yes, autumnalflower...thank you.
I am so relieved to hear from strong people who have decided to change their lives for the better.
My son and I will definitely be in need of healing so I am looking into these products. Also, tranquility and protection are in order...you are right. I truly appreciate your insight.

Thank you.
LA Rue

autumnalflower · Unread post by **autumnalflower** » Sun Sep 25, 2011 1:10 pm

Your welcome, strength be with you and believe me when I say that things will get better, my heart goes out to you. I just remember thinking after reading some of the posts and trying to become more and more familiar with lmcc products that I wish I had some tranquility/healing products back then!

LA Rue · Unread post by **LA Rue** » Sun Sep 25, 2011 3:05 pm

Thank you from both myself and my son!

Blueberry · Unread post by **Blueberry** » Fri Sep 30, 2011 12:18 pm

I have a unstable environment with a man who is a time bomb.
I want to leave him but I can't, as he knows where I live and where my family lives.
I cant get away from him and feel powerless.
He used to be violent, but I was able to deal with that by getting some people involved to deal with him.
He's verbally abusive.

Unread post by **Miss Tammie Lee** » Fri Sep 30, 2011 9:43 pm

Blueberry --

Lucky Mojo Cut and Clear:
http://www.luckymojo.com/cutandclear.html

AIRR:
http://readersandrootworkers.org

Take care

Caliban · Unread post by **Caliban** » Fri Sep 30, 2011 11:23 pm

Blueberry,

Free will is something we all have, always, and spell work can't take it away. You are acting in self-defense, so really whatever works should be considered fair game. "Cut & Clear" is a good formula for this kind of thing.

If you are afraid for family members, do protection work for them. Lucky Mojo has a full range of "Fiery Wall of Protection" supplies. If you can find a way to go to where your family members live and clean house without their being suspicious, you can use floor wash to protect the home. Sachet powder can be laid around the property.

If the man himself is intent on you still, don't be afraid to use enemy tricks like "Hot-Foot", "Confusion" or "Crossing" to make trouble he'll have to pay attention to you instead. He sounds like he is capable of making trouble for himself. Work like this isn't violating free will, it is more like a judo move where you let an opponent's momentum in a certain direction overcome him for you.

Take care of yourself, and good luck!

Blueberry · Unread post by **Blueberry** » Sat Oct 01, 2011 5:17 am

Id like to use something like I dominate my man
I just want to have a stronger aura
the more stronger and assertive I am then theres nothing to take advantage of
my aura will radiate (don't you mess with me )
I dont want to be standoffish.

Unread post by **Mama Micki** » Sat Oct 01, 2011 11:24 am

Blueberry ,

Get out now. Go to a friend's or relative's place, or a women's shelter. Get a restraining order preventing him from coming near you or your family. If he does have him arrested. He's eventually get the idea after a few nights in jail. Pray Psalm 91 and ask Archangel Michael to protect you. Get a Fiery Wall of Protection spell kit from Lucky Mojo, which includes everything you need.

Hoodoo does not include the ideas of "karma" or "three-fold return". The only criteria is if a work is justified in the eyes of God.

I hate a man's covering himself with violence Malachi 2:16

Blueberry · Unread post by **Blueberry** » Sat Oct 01, 2011 2:41 pm

I'm at my wit's end. I just cry all the time
he tries to fight the feeling of peace and comes back even more aggressive
It sounds harsh but I want him not to exist

Unread post by **MissMichaele** » Sun Oct 02, 2011 12:11 am

Blueberry,

You are living with a man who has no interest in begin good to you, no matter what magical work you do. He's not interested in being your true and equal lover, only in being your master and jailer. You deserve better. I don't think any of us could improve on Mama Micki's advice. Get a rootworker to do a Fiery Wall of Protection Spell on you AND your family, and perhaps some kind of justice or punishment work on him.

And then LEAVE. Get a restraining order. Find a women's shelter and AT LEAST ask them where you can find legal help.

AIRR Category: Crossing, Jinxing, Hot Footing, Revenge, and Break Ups (and the workers who do it)
http://www.readersandrootworkers.org/wi ... _Break_Ups

Hope this helps,

Miss Michaele

Unread post by **catherineyronwode** » Sun Oct 02, 2011 12:18 am

I have retitled this thread because the original title:
What kind of work should be used in a situation like this?
violates our forum rules. All threads must be titled to accurately reflect the topic; "please help" is not good enough.

I have moved this thread from
How To Use Lucky Mojo Spiritual Supplies in Hoodoo, Rootwork, and Conjure ‹
Herb, Mineral, and Animal Curios in Hoodoo and Rootwork
to
Ask Us for Conjure Help with Ending Relationships and Moving On
which seems to be what the topic of the question actually is.

The Moderation Faerie

Blueberry · Unread post by **Blueberry** » Tue Oct 04, 2011 9:19 am

Thank you Catherine that is a better title I'm no good at titles I seem to get them wrong but this one sounds much more informative. And to the point.

Thank you Mama Micki, Miss Tammie Lee, MissMichaele, Caliban that is good advice.

Blueberry · Unread post by **Blueberry** » Tue Oct 04, 2011 8:22 pm

Actually how does cut and clear work can the person resist the effects of this? How will the person break away will they view you in a different light and then back off or will something happen to make them back off?

Unread post by **catherineyronwode** » Tue Oct 04, 2011 8:39 pm

Blueberry,

Cut and Clear is for YOU. It breaks the residual love you have for your abuser and allows you to finally seek real and true love and companionship. Whether or not he tries to resist -- YOU will have changed and will then begin to make good decisions about your safety and happiness.

You came here with these words:

I have a unstable enviroment with a man who is a time bomb.
I want to leave him but I can't as he knows where I live and where my family lives.
I cant get away from him and feel powerless.
He used to be violent, but I was able to deal with that by getting some people involved to deal with him
He's verbally abusive
I'm at my wit's end. I just cry all the time
he tries to fight the feeling of peace and comes back even more aggressive
It sounds harsh but I want him not to exist

We took you at face value, but then you flipped from that to this:

Id like to use something like I dominate my man
I just want to have a stronger aura
the more stronger and assertive I am then theres nothing to take advantage of
my aura will radiate (don't you mess with me )
I dont want to be standoffish.

I will not give you advice on trying to dominate him after what you wrote in your first post.

I believe, as others have stated, that you should seek competent social services help, legal help, and support services where you live.

Good luck, and God bless.

Unread post by **Joseph Magnuson** » Thu Oct 06, 2011 8:30 am

Blueberry ==

My mother gave her boyfriend many chances. He still continued to beat all of us, my mother and her (at that time) two children. The police couldn't help for more than a night. She had to take us and finally RUN off in a small rental van in the middle of the night. We stayed in a woman's shelter and then stayed with family when we could finally get there. I thank her everyday for doing this and keeping me, and herself, alive. She had stayed in the relationship and had given this man chances for 4 horrible years that we will/can never forget.

Get help and get out.

Unread post by **Mama Micki** » Thu Oct 06, 2011 8:32 am

Thank you, Joseph, for sharing your story. No one should live with abuse. I'm glad your mother had the courage to do what she did.

Blueberry, if you family thinks you should "submit" to a man you aren't even married to ( I assume, since you do not refer to him as your husband), you need to start rethinking your relationship with them too. If he is abusive verbally or physically, you need to cut all ties with him, including phone, email, mail, and personal contact.

Do a Black Walnut bath to get him out of your life forever.

Unread post by **Joseph Magnuson** » Thu Oct 06, 2011 8:39 am

Thank you Mama Micki...I am glad as well.

Unread post by **MissMichaele** » Thu Oct 06, 2011 11:08 am

Blueberry, I'm sure we're all breathing a sigh of relief now that you are rethinking your situation. You've gotten good advice. Do strong protective work, too, AND mix King Solomon Wisdom or Clarity into everything to keep your mind clear.

Use these products every day on your hair, too.

King Solomon Wisdom spells and supplies http://www.luckymojo.com/kingsolomonwisdom.html
Clarity spells and supplies
www.luckymojo.com/clarity.html

Hope this helps,

Miss Michaele

autumnalflower · Unread post by **autumnalflower** » Thu Oct 06, 2011 11:56 am

Tranquility and healing products will work to help to calm you and heal your emotions.

Unread post by **corazon** » Thu Oct 06, 2011 1:35 pm

blueberry, work the cut and clear spell exactly how it says to do it in the spell kit

http://www.luckymojo.com/cutandclear.html

All the instructions are on that page and you can get the spell kit from Lucky Mojo with EVERYTHING you need. I would also suggest some conjure for yourself to give yourself strength and clarity. Work with clarity, power, and sun products to regain some personal strength and confidence. Use the baths, powders and oils on yourself. Anoint candles with the oils and pray for your strength and self confidence to return.

Good Luck.

Blueberry · Unread post by **Blueberry** » Fri Oct 07, 2011 1:25 am

Thank you for sharing your story Joseph Magnuson it was touching and inspiring.

Thanking everyone for the inputs and suggestions this advice is good.

Unread post by **Joseph Magnuson** » Fri Oct 07, 2011 6:38 am

You're very welcome Blueberry. Please keep us updated and make us proud by getting the help you richly deserve and need!

starskylady · Unread post by **starskylady** » Fri Oct 07, 2011 7:31 pm

Blueberry --

Pack and pray. I have been in this situation and you need to get some protection products and you also need to leave and go to a womans shelter and get as far away as you can and get someone to do some work to make this man leave you alone forever. You deserve much better!

Blueberry · Unread post by **Blueberry** » Wed Oct 12, 2011 5:54 am

No offence to anyone I mean no disrespec.

I feel Ive said too much and feel silly.

thanks for advice and information, really appreciated.

i am leaving this forum.

Unread post by **catherineyronwode** » Thu Oct 13, 2011 2:31 pm

Folks, Blueberry has been banned for repeatedly blanking her posts in this and other threads. She tried to wipe out all records of what she was telling us about her violent, abusive partner -- and she seemed to be in danger.

All i know of her is that, based on her IP address and email, she lives in the UK.

I have removed most of her blanked posts from this thread, but i was able to reconstruct some of what she posted, based on quotes i had made from her texts, and i reinserted those texts into some of her blanked-out posts.

It is very frustrating to all of us that we spent so much volunteer time trying to reach out to and help this very confused woman who is dealing with a violent man in a dangerous situation -- and then she eliminated all of her texts.

This is an experience that many in the social services can relate to, of course -- first there is the cry for help from the victim of spousal abuse, and help is offered, but instead of following a program that leads to safety and personal growth, the victim feels embarrassment, guilt, fear of retaliation, or a simple belief that the batterer will "get better" -- and then the person you are trying to help just "disappears" back into the tragic situation and you are left holding the bag, wondering if they are safe.

Good luck, "blueberry." I am very sorry we could not help you.

If you want to come back with a new user name, you may do so.