Spells for Ex-Lover Ex-Spouse to Return Reconcile Reunite

MIRACLESHAPPEN · Unread post by **MIRACLESHAPPEN** » Thu Dec 29, 2011 7:07 pm

Hi All

Love this forum and the priceless info I've learned here and from all of Miss Cat's pages. I've been spending about 3 hours per night reading since September - rarely miss a night! Lots to learn. I'm a little hesitant to discuss my ongoing work for fear it will weaken it - will it?

Generally speaking - it involves reconciliation. Had 2 separate readings with 2 separate AIRR readers - one in October - one in November. Each performed work for me. Both said positive outcome is possible although it will take A LOT of work. My ex and I were together 6+ years, but are apart almost (yikes) 2. Split was my dumb decision. He waited a year and then became involved with someone else. I do NOt want to do nasty break up work on them - but desperately want to be back with him. One reader said that "we should have lived happily ever after" The reasons I ended the relationship seemed valid to me at the time, but when I look at them now - they were so minor in comparison to how good he was to me. I truly thought that he would miss me enough that he would eventually "come around" but he held his ground and now I am on the "outside looking in". Anyway...on to my question

1. We will be meeting in a few weeks - very briefly to exhange some legal documents. His GF is jealous and limits our time together. There is NO CHANCE this meeting will parlay into lunch or anything. I will have all of 5 minutes to 'trick' him and try to get some concerns. We will be meeting in a formal setting i.e. Attorney's Office Lobby. Exact location not yet confirned, Here are my supplies which are all LM supplies. PLEASE GIVE ME IDEAS
OILS: healing oil, reconciliation oil, Do as I Say Oil, I Dominate my Man Oil
Sachet Powders: Return to Me, Reconciliation, Do As I Say
Herbs: Deers Tongue, Love Herb
Bath Crystals: Reconciliation

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YouTube · Unread post by **Miss Bri** » Fri Dec 30, 2011 9:08 pm

I would bathe with the reconciliation bath crystals the day of your meeting.
I would dress the documents very lightly with all three sachet powders-pray for reconciliation and pray that he heeds your command and the desires of your heart
I would carry some deers tongue herb in a red mojo bag in my bra anointed with reconciliation and I dominate my man-healing is good but let's get him back and interested first.
Hope this helps! Of course it goes without saying-speak the workers that read for you and did work for you as well.
Blessings,
Bri

MIRACLESHAPPEN · Unread post by **MIRACLESHAPPEN** » Fri Dec 30, 2011 10:24 pm

Thanks Bri ..

Cheshanna · Unread post by **Cheshanna** » Sat Dec 31, 2011 3:17 am

Hi everyone. I've been trying to reconcile with me ex for a couple of months now. I've been working a love honey jar for about 6 weeks, and it seemed to be having an effect on him as we met and he kissed me etc, then, about 4 weeks ago, I did a really stupid thing and he now says he will be friends and thats as far as it goes. I sent him a text on Christmas Eve and his reply wasn't very nice - he doesn't seem to want anything to do with me now, however, he has done this one before and been OK again after a month or so. I had a reading from a member or AIRR just before I did the stupid thing, and before we'd kissed etc, and she said that he would want me back eventually but that he would be stubborn - which he is, very stubborn. I can't afford another reading at the moment so wondered if someone could help me.

Should I do another honey jar, and if so, what herbs should I put in it - I have most of the love herbs. I have Reconciliation, Love Me, Fast Luck, Lodestone, All Saints and Compelling oils - I have Intranquility too but I guess that won't be any good!. I also have Return to Me, Attraction and Follow Me Boy sachet powders. I have his semen and my vaginal fluid on a piece of cloth and I have his hair.

If I do make another jar would it be a forgiveness or a reconciliation jar? I ordered a Reconciliation honey jar kit from a store in the UK who sells LM stuff in October and am still waiting for it to be delivered!.

Also, would it help if I made a Doll Baby - I have an unwashed pair of his underpants which I could use to make it.

What other spells would be good to try in this situation?

Any help or advice would be very much appreciated.

Anna

Unread post by **starsinthesky7** » Sat Dec 31, 2011 5:53 am

1. Whatever the very stupid thing was...dont do it again. I understand that you may not have recognized it at the time, but sometimes our actions can be self sabotaging.

2. No, I would not start another honey jar, but I would tweak it a bit Just because this happened doesnt mean you need to scrap the old one. Keep working with it by shaking it and calling out his name. Also, continue to light candles on it. This honey jar is obviously still necessary, and it continue to be necessary until he reconciles with you. On the honey jar, you could work with reconciliation, return to me, and even compelling to help him come back and reconcile with you. Put those herbs on the candles. DO NOT let the fact that he said he just wants to be friend stop you. Keep working it....as its going to take sometime to get back where you need to be especially after whatever you did.

3. Work the above honey jar until you get your reconciliation one in the mail.

4. Be patient, and give him time. Do not keep bothering him, and trying to apologize. Give him time to think and trust that your honey jar is working. The more you contact him, the more you are going to make him upset and just be more stubborn.

5. You could do a baby doll.

Other tricks you could try is lighting a candle with reconciliation, compelling, and return to me. I would put his picture upside down on the back of your back board. If you do not have a backboard, then do it on the wall. This will make them restless until they return to you.

A variation is taking their picture, and putting it in water. Light a pink candle next to it with the above ingredients. Ask that they return to you.

Cheshanna · Unread post by **Cheshanna** » Sat Dec 31, 2011 7:40 am

Thank you for your advice starsinthesky7. I certainly won't be that stupid again!. In the jar at the moment are (as far as I can remember) Rose petals, Cloves and Rosemary, I also have: Damiana, Cubeb berries, Balm of Gilead buds, Basil, Dill seed, Lavender, Cinnamon, Ginger, Catnip, Coriander, Calamus root, Liquorice root, Hyssop, Vanilla pod, Red Clover and Mandrake root - would it help to put any of those into the jar?

Also, which of these herbs would be good to put into a Doll Baby? And do I put pictures of both of us, I don't have one of us together but I have seperate one, into it? Could I put pics of me in the head and as the heart?
Lastly, which, if any, would be the best day to make the Doll Baby?

Thanks again

Anna

Unread post by **jwmcclin** » Sat Dec 31, 2011 9:14 am

Balm of Gilead, Basil, Cinnamon or Ginger, Rose petals, Coriander, Cubeb berries and rosemary.

Unread post by **starsinthesky7** » Sat Dec 31, 2011 1:36 pm

You could make the baby doll on any day, but I would go with Monday or Friday.

Yes you can put pictures of you in his head and heart.

Yes you can use separate pictures. You are going to want to face the pictures towards each other as if they were kissing,

For the baby doll, I would go with Rose petals, balm of gilead, lavendar, damiana, rosemary, coriander, and cinnamon.

Cheshanna · Unread post by **Cheshanna** » Sat Dec 31, 2011 5:59 pm

Thanks you for your help. Just one more question - which oils/powders would you put in the doll baby?

Thanks

Anna

Happy New Year.

Unread post by **starsinthesky7** » Sat Dec 31, 2011 6:04 pm

Since its for reconciliation...Reconciliation and return to me.

Littlestar · Unread post by **Littlestar** » Sat Dec 31, 2011 10:41 pm

my bf is very much against magic, even praying to the saints. i dont know what possessed him but not to long ago he found my LM book, tarot cards and some pics i had of his whores and some notes i had as far as what products i wanted to purchase etc. he went nuts. mind you i had those stuff hidden in between our two matressess. he refuses to trust me now, says i follow the devil, very angry about it. how do i fix this? i dont even know where to focus on fixing this. please help

Unread post by **TBanks91** » Sat Dec 31, 2011 11:26 pm

First off Littlestar,

I sincerely apoloqize for anythinq youve been thru and HAPPY NEW YEAR, may you be blessed as well.

Now dealinq with this situation at hand, I'd probably work with a few products: Do a WHITE skull candle, [IF you can qet any concerns of his] and I'd do some CLARITY and Kinq Solomon Wisdom on his behalf, and add in some RECONCILIATION oil too just to qive him some clarity and for you, I would also work a RECONCILIATION AND FORGIVENESS mojo baq. On you just because he and you need to come to an understandinq, and explain what it is that you do.
http://www.luckymojo.com/kingsolomonwisdom.html

I'd also order a RECONCILIATION HJ as well as RETURN TO ME OIL with 2 dozen pink candles oon your behalf to mend endinq the issue at hand.
http://www.luckymojo.com/mojocatspells.html#honeyjar
http://www.luckymojo.com/reconciliation.html

Come up with sayinq "it's your reliqion, or it's a personal hobby for prayinq to qod, and it is not affiliated with devil's work at all because in NO way are you conductinq illness or harm to anyone or anythinq of that nature and etc."

i'm qoinq to be experiencinq the same thinq in my apartment as well because my siqnificant other is movinq in so we may live toqether. Now if you live in a house or a condo or an apt like me, I'd first qet a BIG rubbertub laundry storaqe container, and hide all your powders, oils, crystals, cards etc. And just cover it all up in a baq or double baq it, and put it all in there. Then hide it in your trunk, possibly outside in a shed or storaqe closet, or possibly even in a qaraqe if you own a house and just put your old clothes in there to make it look like its your OLD OLD stuff you've have for years....customize it to make it look like you need it for somethinq. [just a trick]

if you want more insiqht on havinq questions of this particular matter, do your work with a rootworker, or set candles and send photos to the Luckymojo Curio co. of those whores and pay $17 to do work on them. They have practitioners there to set liqhts on your behalf. Pay a rootworker to do work for you too. I'm doinq the same with my rootworker, Especially when conductinq thinqs in private.
http://readersandrootworkers.org/wiki/A ... ootworkers

besides that I wish you and your man all luck and peace in the world for a qood year in '12. Good luck.

-TBanks91

Unread post by **Mama Micki** » Sun Jan 01, 2012 12:52 am

You can also work with Law Keep Away products to keep his prying eyes away from your stuff.

Cheshanna · Unread post by **Cheshanna** » Sun Jan 01, 2012 9:08 am

Thanks starsinthesky7 and jwmcclin.

Sorry, I meant to ask, could you put the Reconciliation oil, and the Return to Me powder into the honey jar - it already has Love Me oil in it.

Is semen just as 'potent' if the man has had a vasectomy?

Thank you - you're such a help, bless you

Anna

Unread post by **MissMichaele** » Sun Jan 01, 2012 9:33 am

Cheshanna wrote:Is semen just as 'potent' if the man has had a vasectomy?
Anna

I should think so; this is reconcilition work, not fertility work. It's the passion and sexual energy and interest you are capturing, not future babies.

Hope this helps,

Miss Michaele

Littlestar · Unread post by **Littlestar** » Sun Jan 01, 2012 11:23 am

History- Bf's son died with me in the house- so lots of anger, resentment etc of bf towards me, not too long ago he found some of my occult products- He's Extremly against all that so he feels he can not trust me, he's more angry now, uneasy around me. What are best approaches to heal the anger, pain, resentment, mistrust?

Mojo bag?
Reconile kit?
Doll Baby?

We live together so I can't do anything such as a skull candle for night work.

julieju · Unread post by **julieju** » Sun Jan 01, 2012 12:11 pm

Hello everyone,
I am happy to announce that my husband now visits the kids, when are on basic talking terms, he eats my food during his visit. My case was such that he saw me as a big enemy, he never accepted even a drink from me. Its being really hard but i am getting there... with three kids and 12 years invested, i thank God for his mercy...

My question now is that, He is selfish to me but i see signs he has softer heart for me as he gave me a x'mas present makeup kit which is call 'love me'... he has not said anything to me, wow he is looking lovely, you know the feeling of seeing him play with our childern and not another man trying to help me. I need him to be generious towards his feeling for me by making the moves himself, any advice on how to use the LM kits such as love me, follow me , fire of love, cleo may and chupparrosa oil....to make him get initimate with me..

can i use it to cook for the family but work on him alone as we all eat from thesame dish. Thanks

Cheshanna · Unread post by **Cheshanna** » Sun Jan 01, 2012 2:40 pm

Thank you everyone.

Can you use cotton wool (Sorry, I don't know what its called in the USA) as stuffing in a doll baby - I thought maybe you could put the oils on it.

Thanks
Anna

Unread post by **starsinthesky7** » Sun Jan 01, 2012 4:03 pm

I would start off with a reading.

This is not an ordinary reconciliation case as his son just died. He is going through the process of grief. I would actually do some healing work on him to heal as much as can be done for his son dying.

Then I would actually do a honey jar for the reonciliation part of it OR you can do the reconciliation spell kit.

And I would add some clarity work in there to help him clearly see that you were not involved in his son dying. I actually think its kind of odd that he is upset at you for that though.

Unread post by **starsinthesky7** » Sun Jan 01, 2012 4:14 pm

I usually stuff the rest of my dolls with cotton that are covered in powders and a few drops of oil.

Unread post by **Mama Micki** » Mon Jan 02, 2012 6:22 am

Littlestar, I merged your topics, because they are about the same situation. Please don't start new threads on the same topic.

Many people fear magic, even those that outwardly espouse the rationalist viewpoint and say that it isn't real. Your boyfriend wants to find answers and your spiritual practice is a convenient target.

Based on what you have said, you should get a reading to see if you should continue this relationship. Your boyfriend is a cheater and wants you to stop your spiritual work; he even objects to working with saints. Cut and Clear may be your best option.

Littlestar · Unread post by **Littlestar** » Mon Jan 02, 2012 8:19 am

ok. i started two topics because theres more than one situation and because its a sensitive situation i want to be careful how i approach things- sorry.
the whole him finding some of my products is a big issue. he's been throwing it into my face everytime we talk. oh well just consult your book of spells i'm sure you have an answer.... oh well your a witch i'm sure you can make it happen... you follow the devil i dont love devil followers.... all sorts of garbage. i have tried to explain hoodoo, and my reasoning to why i have been practicing and he wont believe me or listen to much i have to say.
its so fustrating. on top of everything, this is not something i needed to deal with.

Unread post by **Mama Micki** » Mon Jan 02, 2012 8:28 am

Stop explaining anything to him. He doesn't want to hear it. Follow Jesus' advice and "don't cast your pearls before swine." Take care of yourself and do what you want. Get some type of reading, even if it's a quick $10 yes or no.

Unread post by **Devi Spring** » Mon Jan 02, 2012 8:51 am

I feel that his finding and reacting to your spiritual products is a sign of sorts - a sign of very deep compatibility issues within the relationship. You're likely never going to convince him to be ok with your conjure work, and there's no reason in the world for you to have to forever hide a part of yourself from someone, or be facing constant judgement from someone about an issue such as that. It's not healthy.

I fully agree with Mama Micki - he's cheated and he's against your spiritual work. Those are two HUGE red flags. I would absolutely seek a reading to see if it's worthwhile to pursue the relationship.

Unread post by **TBanks91** » Mon Jan 02, 2012 10:34 pm

...Enouqh has been said...find a rootworker and a reader here to help best suit you.

http://readersandrootworkers.org/wiki/A ... ootworkers

GoodLuck, hope our advice helps.

-TBanks91

Cherry4 · Unread post by **Cherry4** » Mon Jan 02, 2012 11:59 pm

Hello everyone.
It's been a little while since I have been on the forum. I was hoping I could get some help.

Quick update: Bf( at this time ex) has left relationship, moved back in w ex for convenience purposes(dnt ask I'm just as confused bc has absolutly no intentions in keeping a relationship there) he has claimed so and my rootworker has seen this also. However we started clarity work few months back to help bf come bak and begin to work on his personal issues and there was progress a cpl months ago. He wanted to work on things and the entire 9 yards. But into the start over he had a relapse and he's confused and won't work at things he claims to actually want.

My rootworker says these actions are actually breakthroughs in our work of clarity but he needs to act on his feelings. There is still great hope here and we just need to keepworking forward.

Here is where I need some help. My rootworker wants me to keep working w love work, come to me, and return to me workings. I am absolutely great with that but I could use ome suggestions on simple workings I can do. I am currently expecting (w the bf or ex howver u like to see it) and find I sometimes don't have the energy to work a spell to a full effect. Some days I'm full of energy and on more days not so much. I have started my honey jar back up for reconcilliation w return to me oil added, as well as put a pic of him under glass of water under my bed and ask him to return. Please if you have any other suggestions as to wat a cn do as far as love works I'd appreciate it. I just don't want to put a gap in my work. I've surprisingly become more patient with this work and am being as positive as I can. I have greAt hopes and would like to continue my flow. Sorry so long but thank you all foemaking this forum so friendly and helpful.

Unread post by **aura** » Tue Jan 03, 2012 10:54 am

Hi Cherry4,

Cherry4 wrote:My rootworker says these actions are actually breakthroughs in our work of clarity but he needs to act on his feelings. There is still great hope here and we just need to keepworking forward.

Psychology 101: when someone begins to change, there is often a ''change back'' response so, as your rootworker has said - these actions are actually breakthroughs. For a behaviour/habit/action to be changed, it usually takes 2-3 years of effort (not success; effort - falling off the tight-rope and continuallly get back up on it). Combining some Healing and Cast Off Evil can be helpful at this particular point in the clarity work.

To keep the love work going when you yourself are low on energy/focus - consider having MISC set vigil lights for you as an on-going ''love-light'' - http://www.luckymojo.com/mojocatcandleservices.html. Making up a love oil-lamp for your work can also allow you to keep the ''flame lit'' daily without much more effort than the initial fabrication and a short prayer when you light the lamp - http://www.luckymojo.com/mojocattools.html#matches.

Blessings and best of luck.

cassandre561 · Unread post by **cassandre561** » Tue Jan 03, 2012 12:11 pm

please tell me how to use my stay at home oil and purple candles properly to conjure my man to be with me forever im new at this

Unread post by **MissMichaele** » Tue Jan 03, 2012 12:19 pm

So, basically, you want something you can do that doesn't require a lot of physical or mental energy.

Read the Song of Solomon and select some of the verses that fit your situation best. Write or print them out and place the paper as a bookmark in your Bible, at the Song of Solomon. Read those verses every night when you light your honey jar, or when you go to bed.
Make a dollbaby of him -- I know, it's a big project -- but once you've baptized and empowered it, all you need to do is talk to it every day and feed it with an appropriate oil once a week. Keep it in your underwear drawer (because, OMG, he'll be surrounded by clothing that has touched THOSE PARTS! )
Are you putting King Solomon Wisdom products in your love work? I've said it a million times, and I'll probably say it another million times -- it's a great addition to love work.

Hope this helps,

Miss Michaele

Cherry4 · Unread post by **Cherry4** » Tue Jan 03, 2012 10:49 pm

To aura: thank you forthe quick response. The suggestions are great and I will start reading more on the healing and cast of evil to work on that. I really like the oil lamp idea. It seems to be the mist coat effective right now plus I like to keep alot of my work close to me as much ad possible. I feel a bit more in control ( and comfortable

). But I did look at the link you gave me. I didn't find a lamp for love. I found for healing law and money. Could you tell me if I missed it. I'd like to order one if it's there. If not how do I accomplish this? I understand what you are saying on psych 101. Lol. At thus time I have good positive vibes and feelings. I pray everyday that the outcome is good. My faith and ptience is working fairly well with me on this so I'm good to keep on.

To missmichaele: thank you as well for yor suggestions. I have already started the song of Solomon as you suggested. Honestly I had never read it. Bit I did find what I was looking for. My new project is the doll baby. Surprisingly having something to talk at is nice. I have alot to say to him bit can't since he is not here. And as for the king solomon wisdom, if any of it is in the reconcilliation herb pack that comes with the reconcilliation honey jar then yes I have it if not, well then I don't. All I have is what came with the honey jar kit and return to me oil.

Thnk you for the info. It's very helpful. And east enough Ive been able to already start.

Unread post by **aura** » Wed Jan 04, 2012 6:32 am

Hi Cherry4,

Lucky Mojo carries an unfixed Love Light. You can clean it with Florida Water, and then add Lucky Mojo roots and herbs for marriage and love and fill it with red lamp oil - in your case you'd want to get some balm of gilead buds in there for sure since they're excellent in reconciliation work. You may also want to consider deer's tongue so you speak better with each other.

If it can help, these are the herbs I used (although keep in mind that in my case, the lamp is to maintain a healthy and happy marriage rather than to reconcile):

-personal concerns from both of us (semen and menstrual blood if possible)
-spikenard: http://www.herb-magic.com/spikenard.html
-cumin: http://www.herb-magic.com/cumin-seed.html
-borage flowers: http://www.herb-magic.com/borage-flowers.html
-red clover: http://www.herb-magic.com/clover-flower-red.html
-ginger: http://www.herb-magic.com/ginger-root.html
-raspberry leaves: http://www.herb-magic.com/raspberry-leaf.html
-saffron
-dixie john oil: http://www.luckymojo.com/oil-dixie-john.html

Blessings and best of luck.

moviegal2 · Unread post by **moviegal2** » Wed Jan 04, 2012 10:58 am

I need help on what spell or work to do. Me and The guy i was dating broke up 9 months ago. Since then i have not seen him or talked to him over phone. We did some texting around the holidays but nothing saying he wanted to see me or talk with me. I still miss him and love him and Need some guidance on what to do. We should have never broke up because we had a great relationship and he gave me no reason for the break up just saying i would see it would be better for me in the long run. We dated a short time and seemed happy But he said he had no feeling but still could nt let go of me nor me of him. Please help and he is stubborn as all men are. Thanks! I am new to this as well I also have burned a few come to me candles but thats as far as i got.. So i am a beginner and need guidance.

Unread post by **Devi Spring** » Wed Jan 04, 2012 1:22 pm

Nine months is a very long time to go with no contact. The longer that passes from the break-up to when you begin working, the lower the chances of success generally speaking.

You'll want to get a reading to find out if you can actually draw this man back for some Reconciliation work, or if it's just best to Cut and Clear and move on.

http://www.readersandrootworkers.org

Lovely Love · Unread post by **Lovely Love** » Wed Jan 04, 2012 3:22 pm

Hello all. So I am new to the forum and this is my first time posting. And it's gonna be a doozy! (but I have been lurking) Here is my story...

My boyfriend and I recently broke up and I'm devastated. We have been on and off for three years now (I actually met him on Jan. 5th 2009, so it will be exactly three years tomorrow). He has walked away two other times, making this the third. He has a serious anxiety disorder, and that is what always causes him to "check out." However, I do know how much he loves me. We got back together over a year ago (October 2010) and we got over the humps. To the point where in late summer-early fall we started looking for a ring and planning a wedding date (it was supposed to be June 30th, 2012). The ring was actually finished and he sat my father down on October 14th and asked him for permission to marry me. I'm sure you can imagine how happy I was. He then moved into my apartment at the start of November, and things took a turn for the worse. We were arguing more with the stress of the move, and he began to internalize all of his anxiety. Long story short...he checked out again. He literally had a nervous breakdown and was about to move his things out of the apartment while I was at work one day (and interestingly enough my "energy" just made me come home from work that morning due to a "bad feeling" in my stomach and I caught him mid act...crazy). This was on November 21st. We talked it through, but the next three weeks were am emotional roller coaster. He did end up moving out five days later but we stayed together as a couple to work on things. During this time I received a great deal of mixed messages from him. To the point where the night he moved out he told me he was going to call the guy who did the engagement ring and get the ring from him so that he could hold onto it. This made me so happy to hear that he was still thinking about our future. But his confusion, anxiety, and turmoil was so apparent over that entire next week. It got to be too much. On December 3rd he said he couldn't do it anymore. That the anxiety of a relationship was too much for him, and that he needs to heal and work on himself. That he feels broken, and the anxiety he feels every day his killing him. I let 11 days go by and I reached out with a phone call. We spoke and made a plan to meet that weekend for lunch. He called me the day before and cancelled. He said that he literally had a panic attack knowing that he was going to see me the next day. I saw him that night as he told me this and it killed me. He was completely withdrawn...cut off all his emotions. I left there hysterical and in tears. He called me the next morning (December 18th) and left a voice mail apologizing for how he acted the night before, wanted to see if I was ok, and asked for me to call him back. I never did. I was too scared to because I just felt the conversation would just bring me more hurt. We have had no contact since.

I'm sorry that that was a long description, but the story is quite complex, and I thought that the more information you have, the better you can help me. I have been hurting so much these past five weeks. The pain is unbearable. I really hope someone can help me.

Lovely Love · Unread post by **Lovely Love** » Fri Jan 06, 2012 5:10 am

Is anyone there? I'm developing a complex because It's been three days and I got NO replies! LOL. I hope my situation isn't "unhelpable"!

Unread post by **aura** » Fri Jan 06, 2012 5:23 am

Hi Lovely Love,

you should probably begin by getting a reading by a reputable AIRR member to ascertain if the effort required is worth it and/or if there is a hope of long-term reconciliation.

If you want this relationship to continue, then you'll have to call him back. Keep in mind that given his condition, he's not wrong that he needs to heal and take care of himself before he'll be able to truly and successfully love another: that's the problem with mental illness (I speak from personal xp here as a recovered head-case). On the upside, his having realized this means that he's at least on the right track with regards to the road to recovery.

For the moment, suggest a continued friendship so that you'll continue talking and working with each other and at least have a continued bond and open communication. Magickally, consider working on two fronts for this one:
1 - Work with St-Dymphna, Healing and Blessing products for your BF to help and encourage his mental stability and recovery efforts. (If he's not medicated and isn't seeing a therapist - you may want to start by those crucial mundane actions first).
2 - Get a reconciliation honey jar going, http://www.luckymojo.com/mojocatspells.html#honeyjar or work a complete reconciliation spell kit http://www.luckymojo.com/spell-reconciliation.html to bring the two of you back together and help the estrangement which has occurred.

Blessings and best of luck.

Lovely Love · Unread post by **Lovely Love** » Fri Jan 06, 2012 8:27 am

Thanks so much for your reply aura. I definitely am scared to call him back though. I just don't want to experience more hurt. My hope is that he will reach out...that is my desired outcome...and what I hope to bring about with some "work." I absolutely realize that he recognizes that he needs time to heal, and I understand that he does. At first he was open to communicating...having a friendship. But the last time I saw him he said he can't communicate at all right now. That the thought of seeing me that next day for lunch brought on a panic attack for him earlier that day. He said "maybe give it a couple months...at least till I get my stress under control." So that is why I didn't call him back and am scared to reach out. He made it clear that he doesn't want communication. And that killed me. He actually has been in therapy for a long time. And he started medication last spring. Clearly it wasn't doing anything for him (and he wasn't having it monitired properly), so he went back to a new psychiatrist a few weeks ago and his medication got changed. We'll see...

I am in the process of scheduling a reading with someone. Just trying to find the right time that works for both of us. Thanks so much for your help and the suggestions. It really is so appreciated. Blessings to you as well.

Unread post by **aura** » Fri Jan 06, 2012 11:27 am

Well Lovely Love, if you want to work Conjure to get him to contact you, there are many alternatives in that respect. Read through the following thread which should give you lots of ideas: contact-me,-call-me,-reconnect-spell-qu ... t2982.html - there's many pages to go through but they'll be well worth your time.

Alexa · Unread post by **Alexa** » Fri Jan 06, 2012 3:37 pm

Hello,

I am writing in hopes that i can get some help with this emotional mess. I will try to keep it as concise as possible so here it goes. I am married ( separated), have a child and my boyfriend used to live with us for 1.5 years - we were in an open relationship. Towards the end ( middle of last year) he could not take it anymore ( jealousy) and moved back to a different state ( his home state). Since he left we have been on again off again - we love each other tremendously - the only problem seems to be that neither of us feel like we can relocate - no he does not have a brilliant career there - he just has a job that he is starting to dislike. The reasons he does not want to move back to this state are : because of ' bad memories', he hates this place and he loves the state he is in now - i believe the fact that he has his father in that state also contributes.

In his own words he wants me to move over get married and be together for the rest of our lives. As much as i love him i can not do this to my son , especially since i am quite settled here with a house and everything else.

We are fabulous when we are together. He keeps asking me to move over but i can not move and disregard the need for my child to have his father around also.

I am absolutely torn between what i feel is right for my son and my heart is completely broken....

i will be visiting him early next month or in march but really he is not excited about the prospect of long distance relationship. I guess the fact that i will be in his home might help - should there be some work i can do .

My question is - is there any work that i can perform to try to sway him and perhaps get him to move back to this state - or even this coast ?

I hope there is something out there i can do - because i do believe that it would be wrong to just relocate my son just so that i can be happy (and even that is not a given - life offers no guarantees )

Thank you.

Unread post by **Mary Bee** » Fri Jan 06, 2012 6:22 pm

You have a lot of stuff going on; you may need to get a reading from a professional to see if the two of you are going to be able to work this out:

http://www.readersandrootworkers.org

You can always get some Stay With Me products to wear on yourself or dress his belongings when he comes to visit you, praying that he stays with you in a romantic way.

Good luck,
Mary Bee

Alexa · Unread post by **Alexa** » Fri Jan 06, 2012 7:00 pm

Thank you, I greatly appreciate your input.

A.

Lovely Love · Unread post by **Lovely Love** » Sat Jan 07, 2012 5:46 am

Thanks again aura. I am also waiting to have a reading so the root worker can tell me exactly what the best thing is to do. There's so much out there and I'm a bit confused! I know she's very busy though...so I'm waiting patiently to schedule.

cassie22 · Unread post by **cassie22** » Tue Jan 10, 2012 12:40 pm

My ex and I had been trying to reconcile our relationship. Just recently we talked and she is not willing to be in a relationship with me. She loves me deeply and feels like we are best friends, but is not able to get past trust issues and start up a romantic relationship with me again. We have been trying for about 4-5 months now and I have been working candles for our situation. And the readings say we will get together as a couple again. But she is just not ready and I need to have patience. What can I do in the meantime while she finds her way and decides to be in a relationship, to help kindle the desire and passion back into our relationship. I know that we both truly love each other and rely on the other alot, but I feel that we need that desire and passion to help us reach the next level of our relationship. We need the fun and romance to get us back. Any ideas??

PS. When we broke up, there was nothing and not trying. She was adamant about it. So for her to try again was a big step. So I am willing to continue working on us knowing that we are going to be together again.

Unread post by **Mary Bee** » Tue Jan 10, 2012 1:20 pm

For increasing passion and romance, you can use any or all of the following formulas:

Kiss Me Now!
Fire of Love
Dixie Love
Adam and Eve

You can use any of those oils to dress a candle, you can wear them on your person as a fragrance when going to meet your ex, and you can dust items with the sachet powders that she will touch, while praying your petition.

Good luck,
Mary Bee

cassie22 · Unread post by **cassie22** » Tue Jan 10, 2012 4:25 pm

Will adam and eve work in a girl girl relationship? Or would there be another type of oil specific for that?
Thank you for your response. I do have kiss me now. But i thought that was a short term oil. If i mix it with the others will it draw the passion and romance quicker. I know there's a spark there between us and it just needs to be reignited.

Unread post by **Turnsteel** » Tue Jan 10, 2012 4:29 pm

cassie22 wrote:Will adam and eve work in a girl girl relationship? Or would there be another type of oil specific for that?
Thank you for your response. I do have kiss me now. But i thought that was a short term oil. If i mix it with the others will it draw the passion and romance quicker. I know there's a spark there between us and it just needs to be reignited.

Lavender Love Drops is used in homosexual relationships rather than Adam and Eve products.

truebeliever · Unread post by **truebeliever** » Sun Jan 15, 2012 11:40 am

Thanks for all of your help..

MIRACLESHAPPEN · Unread post by **MIRACLESHAPPEN** » Mon Jan 16, 2012 7:35 pm

Hi All

I missed some golden opportunities to lay tricks when I met up with my ex for the last time. Hind sight is 20/20 and I thought I would share what I SHOULD have done in hopes that it will help others. I was FULLY loaded with my LM products - Oils, Powders, Herbs etc. However, since it was a while since we had seen each other I was quite nervous and concentrated on looking my best and trying to figure out how I could PULL some hairs from his head LOL! Our meeting was formal and quick (in an accountant's office). I did manage to dust some papers he would be taking with him ( but handing to his attorney within the hour ). Here are my ideas - and what I SHOULD HAVE DONE.

1. Meeting at 9:00 AM I knew we would not GO for breakfast (his GF forbids any contact between us) BUT that should not have stopped me from BRINGING two cups of coffee - one for him loaded with my MB!!! DUH!! We're congenial -- it was a morning meeting and all the while I'm trying to figure out how to coerce him to asking me to breakfast after the meeting so I could trick him. Totally overlooking the OBVIOUS. ( remember Cat's advise about the visit to the graveyard and the people who are afraid to go at night - GO DURING THE DAY)

2. Oils - greet him with a kiss -- Unless you are mortal enemies - it is customary to greet with a kiss on the cheek - put the LM oil on your lips - like a gloss - and plant a very friendly one right on his cheek!! Dab some on the top of your chap stick (prior to meeting) and just as you are about to leave to go outside re-apply - so it is fresh as you kiss good bye - now you got him TWICE - once coming and once going -- my guy planted one flush on my lips - talk about missing an opportunity!!!!

3. Give him a token gift he will want to look at on a regular basis - and dust... dust... dust... Miss Cat says the object of the dusting and sending the letters is because we want the target to handle the papers over and over again. MY ex would not take out a letter and rea d it more than once BUT -- a book -- on one his passions - like architecture - a small pocket book - nothing fancy - but enough pages that he wouldn't read it in one sitting --that wouuld keep his attention - and he would have to heep touching and turning those dusted pages.

Sorry about the long post - but just hoping that some of these tricks could help someone others in my situation. BTW I never did get the hair

superando_destino · Unread post by **superando_destino** » Mon Jan 16, 2012 9:53 pm

My ex-girlfriend, who I have been working on reconciliation work for a while, is about to lose her only roommate. Which will leave her living alone in a 3 bedroom house. Due to a recent string of bad luck, I have lost my home and have been sleeping on a friend's couch for a couple weeks now. My ex-girlfriend and I have been developing a friendship and have been getting closer. I haven't come to the point where I have been able to tell her I want her back, but I feel like it's just a matter of time. I know she has strong feelings towards me to because, although she hasn't said it, she speaks volumes through her body language. Several others have noticed as well and have commented about it to me.

I feel like my moving in as a friend and roommate would help the process along and would help me get back on my feet faster while taking the burden of paying all the bills off of her shoulders - since her roommate and her had always split the bills 50/50, her expenses are going to double.

My question is what sort of vigil light would be best for this purpose and how would I word the petition? I am unable to do any work myself since I am sleeping on a friend's couch and have no privacy.

Thanks any help would be appreciated.

Hush2 · Unread post by **Hush2** » Tue Jan 17, 2012 6:38 am

Hi,

I've purchased a 6" white candle and a 6" pink candle as well as Reconciliation Oil and Return to Me oil and I was hoping to perform a candle spell to help reunite my ex and I. I was wondering which candle should I dress with Reconciliation and which should I dress with Return to Me. Also I've found a spell that warrants performing but I was wondering if anyone else had any suggestions or spells they would like to refer me to.

Thank You.

Unread post by **jwmcclin** » Tue Jan 17, 2012 8:19 pm

I would dress the pink candle with the reconciliation oil. And for reconciliation work, I would refer you to this website (http://www.luckymojo.com/reconciliation.html) that includes the spellkit and recommended spellwork. Good Luck!

Lovely Love · Unread post by **Lovely Love** » Tue Jan 17, 2012 10:23 pm

Hello all! So I finally was able to have my reading and my root worker was amazing! I was happy to hear that, although I may have to wait a bit before there's contact with my ex (3 months), she feels as though our souls are connected and that we will find our way back to each other again. It was very comforting to hear something so positive. In the meantime...she suggested to use vigil candles to help him heal. Can anyone give me any information on work with vigil candles, and if you've had success? Thanks so much friends!

pma · Unread post by **pma** » Thu Jan 19, 2012 4:49 pm

This was a great thread and I'm glad I stumbled upon it while searching for something else. I thought I'd add a comment to bump it on up the line so someone else might benefit from reading this, as well.

Believe129 · Unread post by **Believe129** » Fri Jan 20, 2012 5:31 pm

Sana Mana wrote: This was a great thread and I'm glad I stumbled upon it while searching for something else. I thought I'd add a comment to bump it on up the line so someone else might benefit from reading this, as well.

Thank you for bringing it up Sana Mana. Great information, like always.

I really like the words you use when working you shared with us Ms. Cat! They say so much and are humble.
I find that sometimes I just cant get "the right" words. (Working on it though!)

Unread post by **catherineyronwode** » Fri Jan 27, 2012 2:13 am

Reconciliation if you quearelled, Return to Me if yiu did not.

Good lcuk!

breakuptomakeup · Unread post by **breakuptomakeup** » Sat Jan 28, 2012 11:33 am

From my past experience there are only 3 things that works!

1. Cut off all communication with your ex.
2. Stay away as far as possible from him!
3. Start hanging out with guys and make sure somehow he notice this, that's the idea.

If you do all these 3, he'll start running back to you like thunder!

drjumba · Unread post by **drjumba** » Sat Jan 28, 2012 1:32 pm

breakuptomakeup wrote:From my past experience there are only 3 things that works!

1. Cut off all communication with your ex.
2. Stay away as far as possible from him!
3. Start hanging out with guys and make sure somehow he notice this, that's the idea.

If you do all these 3, he'll start running back to you like thunder!

I can’t believe this. Are you helping in this regard or you are stirring a wound with a sharp stick. That is only going to worsen the situation.

The power woman is looking for help to get over a situation not to get into deep. Remember in that situation all guys are just going to take advantage of her and in some instance the making up will depend on what broke them up. Because if she ever tries any of those tricks you gave her, she will be giving her boyfriend's heart a other stronger reasons to live her. It’s never a solution by running away from your problems. They will always wait for you in the corner remember.

SimplyBelieve · Unread post by **SimplyBelieve** » Sat Jan 28, 2012 6:10 pm

The situation is, me and her split and sometimes she's affectionate when we hang out and we still do things like hold hands and kiss and sexually interact with each other, but after this happens she will be distant for a week or a few days and not want to kiss me or hug me or do anything, she still lets me touch her and lets ME kiss her but she won't kiss me back.

She told me she loved me under her breathe a few days ago during a talk we had and i told her that i loved her and wanted her back. when i asked what did she say she said nothing ... but a few days later i asked her if she told me she loved me that day under her breathe she said "yes i did say that".

the situation is like well you can have me on monday but don't bother with me on tuesday. she slips and calls me babe every now and then but still talks to her EX-BF a lot now recently .....

I see her everyday for work we carpool and some days are GREAT and others are depressing and i feel I'm pushing her away ... but she's still around and still does things with me ...

I'm not sure what to do or what kind of work because she's so confusing !!!!! please help !

Unread post by **Mary Bee** » Sat Jan 28, 2012 7:16 pm

Since you two already have physical contact, you can get a bit of her hair and work a Reconciliation honey jar on her and you. Add some Fire of Love products to encourage her to be more passionate towards you.

good luck,
Mary Bee

SimplyBelieve · Unread post by **SimplyBelieve** » Sun Jan 29, 2012 10:34 am

i have some of her hair also

! i will be doing this ! thank you mary, it's just so weird how she acts sometimes it really does suck one day she's perfectly fine then the next she's just distant for no reason