Re: Spells For True Love, True Commitment, Moving In, Engagement

Ca_gurl84 · Unread post by **Ca_gurl84** » Sat Jun 23, 2018 11:20 am

I want to go ahead and order products. What I should I get

Ca_gurl84 · Unread post by **Ca_gurl84** » Sun Jun 24, 2018 4:09 pm

im thinking of buy the stay with me kit. if i do that, do i need to buy the love me oil, follow me boy oil to add to it also?

Unread post by **amysx13** » Mon Jun 25, 2018 1:41 pm

Ca_gurl84,
If he has ended your relationship then you might want to consider Reconciliation or Return To Me products. I use Stay With Me oils on my guy but we’re currently together and living together, I don’t know if that’s the correct product choice for you if you no longer have a relationship with him. Hopefully an expert will answer you soon!
On a side note, when my guy was having a hard time making the full commitment of living together I had an excellent reading with some great advice, including a spell that I’m convinced did the trick. Every Friday, I took a white votive candle and Marriage oil, and I carved our initials inside a little heart on the actual candle itself, as well as the metal that the votive sits in. I then coated both the candle and the metal with the oil and sprinkled Deer’s Tongue (to get to the root of his fears) on top of the candle before burning it. I prayed my intention of him moving in and making a full commitment to me (I used the Marriage oil to represent commitment and not actual marriage because I don’t want that just yet, my reader said it could be used that way). I did the spell weekly until he finally gave notice on his other residence, it took about 6 weeks total. The spell can be found in the book Women’s Work; I really believe that it was the final push my work needed! I also have a honey jar, a doll baby, a nation sack, regular menstrual blood, and various other ongoing workings but this spell worked wonders! I highly recommend it for a man who is afraid of full commitment.
Best of luck in whatever you choose to try!

-Amy

fatima987 · Unread post by **fatima987** » Mon Jun 25, 2018 3:34 pm

Hello all, a little more than a week ago I did a penis candle with have sex with me as a desire and now he’s actually planning on seeing me which took him two years to come to this point. Either way, I want this man to marry me as well and be committed to me. Through sex, I’m going to try to obtain his semen etc, what kind
Of work will be appropriate for him to be loyal and committed to me? He has two females around him that he hadn’t really gave commitment to as of yet and is not really that attracted to. I just don’t want any of them to take him away from me lol
Any help would be really appreaciated. Thanks in advance!!

Unread post by **Sister Jean** » Mon Jun 25, 2018 3:38 pm

Hello fatima987,

If you can get access to his semen, you could always get a nation sack and use the semen to "personalize" it. You can buy them here:

http://www.luckymojo.com/nationsack.html

Please also scroll up and read through the other many posts in this thread as I'm sure you'll find them helpful!

Good luck to you.

fatima987 · Unread post by **fatima987** » Mon Jun 25, 2018 4:36 pm

Hi Sister Jean, I have never tried nation sack or even heard of but I’ll look into that. Also, this man will be leaving and we’ll be in a long distance after his departure as he comes for work to my area. Should tying his nature to me appropriate? Additionally, I have been trying to book a reading with you!

QetI · Unread post by **QetI** » Wed Jun 27, 2018 3:25 pm

Hi Sister Jean

I did some divination and looked into the symbolism of moths and as it seems they represent passion, destruction and a need to change course I took it to mean that we are drawn to each other like moths to flames, but if we don't change our course i.e the way we treat and deal with each other then this passion will lead to destruction and especially of my dreams (represented by the house catching fire). So I have made a conscious decision to change the way I react and deal with him and it has been really positive so far, spending lots of time together and him wanting to see me a lot and being very coupley.

Also, as you may know I have been burning skull candles on him for a while now, well last week out of the blue he went and got a large tattoo on his chest of... a skull. If that isn't a sign I don't know what is!

Unread post by **Sister Jean** » Thu Jun 28, 2018 9:45 am

Hello QetI,

That's great that you did some research into the meaning of this symbol that it has affected your work for the better! And that's crazy about his tattoo!

Becks085 · Unread post by **Becks085** » Sat Jul 07, 2018 4:44 pm

Hi just seeking advice or confirmation on if I’m going in the right direction.

I’m involved with a man everything started off really well and I’m assuming when he felt as though I was getting comfortable or maybe things were moving too fast that’s when he made the decision to tell me that he really doesn’t want anything to serious because of work and the stress he’s under he doesn’t think he could have that sort of time and energy for a relationship.

All that being said he still told me he’s not leaving me he just wants me to know it’s nothing serious.

Of course I took this as though he’s pretty much telling me I’m a fling and not even worth it. I tried not to think about it to much I didn’t want paranoia to get the best of me. My gut feeling told me it was something other than work that has him feelings this way. But me not thinking true anything I went ahead and lit a Stay At Home candle. It burnt poorly and i came to the conclusion that I picked the wrong candle and I asked for way too many things. So I re-evaluated the situation.

I lit a St. Martha candle for him to spend more time with me and not be running around or flirting with other people (I initially thought he has options and that’s why he told me nothing serious). The candle burnt very well bright and clear.

I also burnt a Command-Compel-Control candle along with this so he would change his mind and decide to have a committed relationship with me. It burnt extremely fast (we know what this means) so I sat back I thought maybe there is something more to this because when we are together I could tell he truly likes me and it’s genuine but there is something holding him back.

I woke up the next morning almost guided(I prayed on it) that this has something to do with his past.

I burned a Cut and Clear for him to get over hurt from past relationships which resulted in trust issues and insecurities and -- boom! -- within that same week he came to see me and he started telling me the reason why he didn't want a relationship and it’s because he’s scared. Scared of falling for someone and having to go through hurt all over again also saying that these days you can’t tell if someone is genuine or not. I said to myself I knew it. I was extremely happy he opened up to me about it.

My question is should I leave my work as is, seeing that I did a St. Martha, Command-Compel-Control, and Cut and Clear. I really want us to be together in a serious committed relationship but i don’t know what should be my next move.

Unread post by **Rev Ernest** » Sat Jul 07, 2018 5:24 pm

Becks085 --

Since those candles succeeded, I would now recommend some positive and uplifting candles, such as Chuparrosa, Love Me, and Marriage.

Also consider going some contact magic with oils, or a mojo with personal concerns, not just lighting candles.

Good luck.

zara88 · Unread post by **zara88** » Sun Jul 08, 2018 4:55 am

Hi all from the UK, this is my first time posting on this forum

Im looking for some advice on my situation -

Ive been romantically involved with my guy since november 2017. Apart from a period of relative silence from about January to March this year, we've keep in touch on occasion and we tend to see eachother once, maybe twice a month. When we're together everything is wonderful, very intimate and affectionate with one another and he shows a genuine interest in me that is beyond just sex. in my mind i have no doubts that he has romantic feelings towards me. However - when we arent together its slightly frustrating as he is quite sporadic with his communication (in terms of messaging me etc) and he sometimes leaves my messages read without responding, and added ontop of that we seem to be going at a similar steady pace romantically with no clear progression as of yet (which is why i am here on this forum).

Ive had a reading done here in the UK where im from, and he was definitely meant to enter my life romantically and he is interested. however my reader mentioned he's not seeking to commit to someone at the minute which may be due to him finishing a previous relationship not long ago and his work, she said there is potential for him to do so! she warned that he may be 'in touch' with some other girls, and ive completed a moving candle spell to drive any love rivals away.

Would anyone be able to advise me on which spell kit would be better for me to order to allow him to want to commit to me and become my boyfriend? I dont think hes a commitment phobe in the slightest as hes had relationships before, i think its just a case of timing for him, and i want him to somehow overcome that.

I am already working a honey jar spell which i feel is going well, as its made him more responsive to my messages since i started working on it, and im seeing him a few times a month. I had a slight panic because i opened my honey jar to add his semen and thought it might disrupt it, but i read on another forum that its perfectly okay to open the jar. I alternate red candles and pink candles dressed with adam and eve oil (purchased from a reputable store in the uk) and an oil to open up communication in hopes that it will make him more forthcoming with his messaging and calling.

Sorry for rambling a little bit, and apologies if ive posted this in the wrong forum!! I would really appreciate anyones help on the matter as its really difficult to find a uk based forum as comprehensive as this.

Unread post by **Sister Jean** » Sun Jul 08, 2018 8:53 am

Hello zara88,

Welcome to the Lucky Mojo forum, we're glad to have you here!

If you're looking for a spell kit, I think Lucky Mojo's Love Me spell kit will help bring about that commitment and closeness that you're looking for. You can find it here:

http://www.luckymojo.com/spell-love-me.html

And if you're interested, we have a whole thread dedicated to getting people to be more communicative, and you might find it helpful. You can find that thread and ask questions about the topic here:

spells-for-more-communication-between-l ... t4483.html

Good luck to you!

zara88 · Unread post by **zara88** » Mon Jul 09, 2018 6:13 am

Thank you so much for your advice Sister Jean

much appreciated! Im keeping my fingers crossed!

Treaks1908 · Unread post by **Treaks1908** » Sat Aug 04, 2018 7:41 am

Hello

I have a guy I’ve been involved with sexually for 4 years. I want a commitment and I want to be the only woman who he desires, I want him to be obsessed with me and be the only woman he can think of and want to be with. I love him and I want him all to myself.

I used patchouli oil to dress a red candle, I used a tooth pick to inscribe his name on it, I sat a picture of him near the candle. I wrote his name on paper and mine on top of his and burned it. I read the Saint Martha tobacco prayer (although I had no tobacco). I let the candle burn out completely. I buried the left over wax and ashes at my front door.

What can I do to make this work?

Is there someone who can help me?

Thank you Saint Martha for listening to prayers, please find it in your heart to help me.

Unread post by **Sister Jean** » Sun Aug 05, 2018 10:15 am

Hello Treaks1908,

Welcome to the Lucky Mojo forum! We're happy to have you here.

I'd begin by scrolling up and reading through the other posts in this thread. You will find LOTS of spellwork ideas there!

Also, the Love Me spell kit by Lucky Mojo is great for getting someone to step up and commit and share their feelings of love. You can find it here:

http://www.luckymojo.com/spell-love-me.html

Good luck to you!

GoldenRule · Unread post by **GoldenRule** » Mon Sep 10, 2018 6:50 pm

This is about keeping a lover/spouse at home—
I Found a mud-dauber nest in an abandoned mailbox (I’m a rural mail carrier who often finds strange things in abandoned boxes)
I have taken the mud nest to use in some Stay With Me work.. as some of you may know -definitely miss cat- there are spider exoskeletons left behind by the mud-dauber Mothers for nourishment for their babies, the larvae (paralyzed live spiders at one point)—
Anyway- would you recommend I use the spider 🕷 exoskeletons for a Goofer Dust ingredient, or leave them in the dirt to use for Stay With Me work?
Diana P

Unread post by **Sister Jean** » Wed Sep 12, 2018 10:07 am

Hello GoldenRule,

I think you could do both. You could leave the nests intact and just grind them, exoskeletons and all, into a Stay at Home powder, or pick out the spiders for more nefarious purposes.

Take care.

Dreamgrl19 · Unread post by **Dreamgrl19** » Wed Sep 19, 2018 12:19 pm

Hi everyone! I really need some help.

Ive been practicing with candle spells for the last year or so and have had amazing results but im not sure what to do for the following scenerio.

Me and a past lover have been in contact again. Ive had multiple readings saying it would happen and now a year later, we finally are.

He cares about me but his trust and fear of hurting me make him take the 1 steps forward 2 steps back approach and he feels distancing himself is the way to keep us safe. Last night he finally couldnt take it and we met up. We talked about things and he reiterated hes afraid to hurt me and is thinking of taking a job upstate. By the end of the night he had forgotten all about that haha and we spent the night and the better part of today together and im going to see him again tonight.

I love him. We have know each other for 10 years and I cant imagine being with anyone else. I want to get through to him. maybe put something near him to help him think of me constantly.

1. maybe something i can put in his car?

2. should i do a skull candle?

3. I did wear my follow me boy oil last night and he couldnt keep his hands off me. Should i rub it in places I know he touches?

Please help

Unread post by **Sister Jean** » Thu Sep 20, 2018 9:34 am

Hello Dreamgrl19,

Welcome to the Lucky Mojo forum! We're happy to have you here.

I think you have some great ideas as far as putting something in his car, doing a skull candle and wearing Follow Me Boy oil. I would recommend doing all three! Dress his car door handle lightly with Love Me oil, mix some Love Me sachet powder with some dirt (to dull the color) and sprinkle a little bit of the powder/dirt mixture on the floor of his car so he will step in it. Dress a red skull candle with Influence and Love Me oil and as it burns, speak to the candle as if it is him and tell him that he wants to commit to you and love you. Wear Follow Me Boy whenever you are together!

http://www.luckymojo.com/loveme.html
http://www.luckymojo.com/products-candle-skull.html
http://www.luckymojo.com/influence.html

Good luck!

WhiteWitch81 · Unread post by **WhiteWitch81** » Thu Sep 27, 2018 9:32 am

I recently had a "love me" candle burned for me, and another target. They told me the reason he doesn't want to be in a relationship is because "something, or someone is bugging/distracting him from doing so. I was amazed at how accurate is was, my love interest told me that his financial and living arrangements were making it difficult to committing to a relationship. But I didn't believe him at the time. I have trust issues as a result of being lied to/cheated on in the past. They suggested a cut and clear to remove old energies. I'm thinking of trying that or a "I can, you can't vigil candle in case the problem is another woman. What do you guys think? Does this seem like a good idea?

Unread post by **Edward T** » Thu Sep 27, 2018 11:00 am

Hello, WhiteWitch81.
In order for a person to move forward you have to let go of the past. I do agree you have to remove the old energies. I would suggest a cut and clear spell.
http://www.luckymojo.com/cutandclear.html
Good luck. Thomas K

WhiteWitch81 · Unread post by **WhiteWitch81** » Fri Sep 28, 2018 3:11 pm

I thought she was talking about him being still attached to a crush or ex girlfriend. But being that you can only work a Cut And Clear on yourself, she was talking about me. I do still care about my ex, but at the same time. I'm trying to move on. So Cut And Clear might be a good idea.

Unread post by **Edward T** » Sun Sep 30, 2018 11:14 am

WhiteWitch81
Yes. This would be for you.
Have a great day. Edward T

newwitch2018 · Unread post by **newwitch2018** » Sun Nov 04, 2018 3:39 pm

I’ve been seeing this guy for awhile now. He says he loves me but can’t help being with other women also. So I’m trying to get him to fully commit to me and only me. Last month and as well as this month I’ve feed him my mensus. I plan on tying his nature to me sometime this week and I want to do a blue penis candle. I already have a doll for him also. Any suggestions to get him committed and faithful to me besides tying his nature? I’m constantly at his house (every other weekend I’m there alone), is there anything I can do to trick his things to being faithful to me? Once in a while I’ll do his laundry too.

Unread post by **JayDee** » Sun Nov 04, 2018 6:08 pm

newwitch2018 ,

You can take spiritual baths such as I dominate my man and follow me boy, then use a cup of the water in the rinse cycle of his laundry so its in his clothing, can do it to his bedding as well. Save some of that same water to make him food and feed him it. Have a honey jar for him and use the honey to bake for him , replace the honey used with new honey and light a candle on it 3x a week Mon-Wed-Fri. Dress his items with oils, powders.. you have many many options. While working this work, I would also hot foot and freeze out competition and other people.

newwitch2018 · Unread post by **newwitch2018** » Sun Nov 04, 2018 9:27 pm

Thank you for the suggestions JayDee. I will definitely be trying all that.
I previously hot footed and froze out one of my rivals when we had briefly broken up a couple of months ago. I also did a cigarette spell that conjureman suggested on a different thread, which worked so so well. This time I’m going to have to generalize the freezer spell and hot footing.
Thanks again for your suggestions. I will place an order as soon as I get paid.

LaJaguarina · Unread post by **LaJaguarina** » Mon Dec 31, 2018 3:32 pm

I’m seeking help because I’m unsure of what I should exactly do.

I’ve been in a non-committed relationship with a man back and forth. We saw each other last week and agreed to work on being in a committed relationship together. I think he got scared, again, because he isn’t communicating with me. I haven’t heard from him in days.

1) What can I do to intensify his feelings for me and to contact me?

2) Is there anything I can do to stop making him be so flighty?

I want him to actually commit to me.

Unread post by **Miss Athena** » Mon Dec 31, 2018 3:51 pm

Hi LaJaguarina,

You are in the right thread for your question. We encourage folks to read through the posts in the thread before asking questions, as chances are your question has already been answered. There is a lot of information and advice in this thread that can certainly help you, so please take a moment and read through the posts here.

If you still have questions afterward, ask us here and we will do our best to help you.

Good luck.

LaJaguarina · Unread post by **LaJaguarina** » Mon Dec 31, 2018 4:17 pm

Thank you. I guess I still do have questions!

I forgot to mention that I did a honey jar for the long term a month or two ago. And it seemed to have worked a little bit. I know they’re slow working so I was hoping to do something with faster results.

I also did two red candle (regular ones not skull ones) spells with his name carved into it. I didn’t annoint the candle with oils.. just honey.

I wasn’t sure which oil would be the most beneficial for my situation. I was thinking of using follow me boy. I would like someone else’s input before I did anything else.

I don’t have any of his belongings.. so I’m not sure if using his name and birthdate is enough?

Unread post by **Miss Athena** » Mon Dec 31, 2018 4:39 pm

Hi LaJaguarina.

Follow Me Boy would be fine for your situation, but I would add Love Me, as this can help strengthen your relationship into a more committed one.
http://www.luckymojo.com/loveme.html

His name and birthdate are better than nothing, but do try to get some of his personal concerns like hair. Since you are in a relationship with him, this should not be too difficult.

Carve the candle with his name and birth date in a spiral from the base to the wick, and carve your petition likewise. Dress the candle with your oil, and you may wish to stud it with cubeb berries, to help intensify his feelings. You can crush a little Deer's Tongue and roll your candle in it, as this improves communication (if using a skull candle, stuff this in the mouth). Go lightly on the herbs though, otherwise you risk a fire hazard as your candle burns.
http://www.herbmagic.com/deers-tongue.html
http://www.herbmagic.com/cubebs.html

I hope this helps. Good luck.

Unread post by **catherineyronwode** » Mon Dec 31, 2018 6:27 pm

Hello, LaJaguarina,

Miss Athena gave you great advice, and i would just like to add a comment.

You wrote above, about honey jars, "I know they’re slow working..." This is actually not true about honey jars and thinking it is true simply cripples your work.

I have regularly gotten phone calls within 24 hours of lighting a candle on a honey jar; i have gotten sex within 24 hours of lighting a candle on a honey jar.

People all over the internet are spreading this self-defeating meme that they "know that honey jars are slow." And they always use the word "know."

They "know" it -- but how?

Not by talking to me, that's for sure.

I am here to tell you that honey jars CAN be slow if the difficulty is of long duration -- but that would be true of ANY spell. The trouble is, some people use honey jars TOO LATE, after years of struggle, and then they blame the honey jar for being "slow" to produce sweetness. That's just wrong and i will happily testify that sugar jars and honey jars can and do produce sweetness overnight if the situation is fresh, if your heart is strong, and if God favours your cause.

Good luck in all your work and be of good faith and hope.

blackwidow81 · Unread post by **blackwidow81** » Mon Feb 25, 2019 1:46 pm

Hi,

I want some suggestions on how to get my stubborn boyfriend to committ. He loves me, wants to be with me but isnt ready to commit. Starting out in our relationship, he was full throttle and ready....sounded like he was but now I think HE thought i wasnt ready to committ, he fell wayyy back. He is extremely stubborn. Ive had countless readings from psychics and they all tell me to give him time, and be patient, which for the most part I am but 1 gave me a prediction that it wont be till the end of the year!!!!! Im not trying to wait that long.

So any kinds of suggestions will be great. Im considering doing some headwork/skull work but I want to break him 1st so I can work him better. Herbs, oils, powders, and ANY kinds of spell work suggestions will be greatly appreciated.

Thank in advance

Unread post by **Miss Athena** » Mon Feb 25, 2019 5:07 pm

Hi blackwidow81,

Welcome to the Lucky Mojo forum! We're happy to have you here.

I moved your post to the correct thread on spells for commitment. I realize you are new but please familiarize yourself with the forum layout and guidelines, as we don't allow posts to be just randomly placed on the forum.

As for your situation, you are now in the right thread which is full of spell advice and ideas to help you. If you still have questions after reading, feel free to ask them here.

Good luck.

snouvavou · Unread post by **snouvavou** » Sun Mar 17, 2019 9:42 am

Greetings and Happy SaintPatrick's Day!
After a few years (and a marriage honey jar,crystal silence league petition and a marriage spell with bride & groom candles or two) my live in boyfriend has proposed to me.We are happy overall and are making plans for the wedding on the new moon in Libra this fall.
However, he seems weird and anxious now.He has become more controlling and less loving.It's not exactly cold feet,but I want to do a little something to ensure that the gentle warmth of feeling that has kept us together remains and grows.We have both been married and divorced previously so I do understand some of his anxiety to a degree. I am petitioning St Nicholas(the patron Saint of brides) to bless my engagement,wedding and marriage. But I was wondering what else you all might recommend. An Adam and Eve spell maybe? Your input is always appreciated!

Unread post by **Miss Athena** » Sun Mar 17, 2019 11:48 am

Hello snouvavou,

Congratulations on your engagement! Your spellwork has paid off and I'm so happy to hear you got the results you wanted.

It's not uncommon for people to start getting a little anxious once a relationship becomes "official." Since you worked a honey jar with success, continue that work to keep things sweet and loving between you.

I would work with a combination of Peaceful Home, Dixie Love and Stay With Me. You can blend the oils and either wear them, put them in a diffuser, dress a candle, or put a few drops into massage oil and give him a nice massage. You can dissolve a few of the bath crystals into the final laundry rinse, especially when washing his underwear and socks. You have endless possibilities.
http://www.luckymojo.com/peacefulhome.html
http://www.luckymojo.com/dixielove.html
http://www.luckymojo.com/staywithme.html

Also, read through the posts in this thread on advice to bless a relationship for the long term:
spells-to-bless-strengthen-assist-love- ... 24202.html

Adam and Eve products are formulated more for finding an ideal mate, so I would go with the products I've mentioned here instead.

This should help you keep your relationship grounded, committed and loving. I hope this helps and I wish you both a lifetime of happiness together. Good luck!

UniMilan · Unread post by **UniMilan** » Fri Mar 29, 2019 8:34 pm

Hey Guys I did a headwork Ritual with a skull candle on Wednesday night. I loaded the candle. My flame started off very high. But this morning I woke up to my fire alarm going off. I literally had to put the candle out. It burned the whole skull and it wasn’t a lot of wax left over. What does that mean?

Unread post by **Miss Athena** » Fri Mar 29, 2019 10:56 pm

Hello UniMilan,

Welcome to the Lucky Mojo forum! We are glad to have you here.

We do not perform specific candle interpretations on the forum but in general, a fast burn can indicate quick but not long-lasting results. Please consult the following page for more information about candle magic divination:
http://www.luckymojo.com/candlemagicdivination.html

Also, please be very careful about leaving lit candles unattended like that. You were very fortunate that your smoke detector woke you up. If you need to leave candles burning, put them in a pan filled with sand and place them in your bathtub. However, it is best to be present when you have a lit flame in your home.

I hope this helps. Good luck.

24Kpink · Unread post by **24Kpink** » Sun Mar 31, 2019 2:49 pm

Hi,
2 weeks ago, I got a reading from an AIRR root worker about my relationship with a man who is afraid our LDR relationship. As it gets deeper, he pulls away more. The worker said that he would definitely respond to root with in this area. I hired her to light a candle (Follow Me Boy candle w/ Crucible of Courage work) and have been following her root work advice (adding Crucible of Courage, King Solomon Wisdom, Psychic Intuition and Blockbuster to all my own love work - as well as other girls I could do).

Things went well the first week, I saw signs of movement before she were even able to put all of the agreed to work in place! Then came this past week. He became even more scared of our relationship and now tells me we need a "break." He doesn't want to let me go at all, he still cares very deeply, but doesn't want us to be romantic anymore. Just friends. We are still talking every day. I can tell he still cares, but he has said he can't "engage 100%" because he is afraid we will only get closer and maybe even fall in love. He can't handle that.

It's only been 2 weeks. Should I wait longer for the work to, well, WORK? Or should I contact her again for another reading to see what's going wrong?? I can be patient if that is what's called for here, but don't want a situation to get too far gone if so etching needs fixing.

Your advise is grately appreciated!

Blessing to all,
Nic

Unread post by **Miss Athena** » Sun Mar 31, 2019 4:04 pm

Hello 24Kpink,

Give your work more time. Two weeks is rarely sufficient to see results, so let your work take hold.

It is sometimes seen that a target can pull back when feeling the effects of a spell. There's no way for we to determine if this is indeed happening with your man, but it does sometimes happen.

Do let the work do its job but if you feel troubled by his behavior, contact your rootworker for advice. We don't want to suggest anything that may undermine their work, so that would be my best advice to you.

I hope this helps. Good luck.

24Kpink · Unread post by **24Kpink** » Sun Mar 31, 2019 9:40 pm

Thank you! I will be patient, then. I just didn't want to overlook something important and find out from my root worker later that I should have done something about it sooner.

Thanks again

iamtheowl · Unread post by **iamtheowl** » Tue Apr 16, 2019 1:39 am

Hi all. I'm hoping someone can point me in the right direction. Sorry for the lengthy post.

Initially I was doing work to get an ex first to communicate with me (when we first broke up he refused to have anything to do with me), then to love me, and finally to return to me. Well with trial, error, numerous prayers to the universe and a lot of tears I achieved this. Sort of. Mostly with herbs, a cast iron will and a bucketload of pure intent actually because I didn't have LM oils at first and didn't completely trust other oils to want to use them on candles and for serious stuff.

So I say "sort of" because although we see each other several times a week, he stays over, we do a lot of talking, he says he's in love with me, and wants a committed relationship with me, he still refuses to move back in with me. He says the thought of that sort of emotional intensity caused by living with me fills him with dread and he can't see why we can't be in a relationship but just not live together. Not what I wanted to hear. This is the end result I'd completely neglected. I've read so much stuff on this forum over the last 2 and a half months about getting an ex to return that I know zilch about getting someone to move back in.

My other issue is that now he's with me a lot of the time, I can't do any spells that take 7 days. This is a massive blow to me because I'd planned to burn my skull candle dressed with LM oils - this is the candle loaded with herbs that I've spent the last 6 weeks or more talking to. Instead it's had 2 nights burn and that's it. Wasted. I also can't do a moving candle and lodestone spell for the same reason. I still burn candles on my honey jar which were previously undressed but which I can now dress with LM oils so that's a big "yay!" but anything more involved I can't do.

So does anyone have any ideas for spells I can do in secret? He would not be impressed if he knew I was doing spell work on him. And can anyone suggest which oils are most appropriate to get someone to move back in? I have a pair of lodestones and thought to make a mojo bag with them but I'm honestly clueless as to what herbs and oils to use for this purpose. I'm reading a lot of info in this thread and on other parts of the site but I'm all over the place with it and can't settle on anything. I'm still going to continue using the love oils on my candles and person but I need additional work to achieve the rest of my goal. And I need to purchase different oils and herbs now.

I should add that unlike many, the issue with my guy isn't that he's stubborn. It's that he's changeable. It's actually not that difficult for him to change his mind which is both a blessing and a curse. For instance, last week he was talking about marriage. This week he's saying he won't live with me. We're also trying to do lots of (non magical) practical things to aid this relationship.

Unread post by **Miss Athena** » Tue Apr 16, 2019 11:35 am

Hi iamtheowl,

For secrecy, you could dissolve a mix of Love Me and Stay With Me bath crystals in the final rinse of his laundry, especially his underwear. Get that energy on him.
http://www.luckymojo.com/bath-love-me.html
http://www.luckymojo.com/bath-stay-with-me.html

You could also hire a professional rootworker to do the work for you. Find qualified and ethical folks here:
www.readersandrootworkers.org/

There are also 27 pages full of posts in this thread on this very same topic. Please read through the ideas and advice here, as there is sure to be something that sparks your interest and can help you.

Good luck.

Xewn · Unread post by **Xewn** » Sun May 05, 2019 8:37 pm

I'm looking for a spell to help lead to a proposal of marriage. (Starting with deeper commitment in the relationship is good too, like moving in together or more verbal profession of commitment, but marriage is ultimately where I'd like to go.) My boyfriend and I broke up in December, but we've been back together for a couple months now and things have been really good, better than before. We were friends the whole time we were broken up. (I used a honey jar in the reconciliation and it worked great.) We were together nearly 6 years before that. But because he broke up with me I 'm still carrying some insecurities. Other changes in our lives also mean this would be a better time to think about marriage (within the next year or so.) I'm just not sure what products of spells to focus on. Do I need a new honey jar? Moving candle spell? Vigil lights? Thanks!

Unread post by **JayDee** » Mon May 06, 2019 12:04 pm

Xewn ,

Here is the link to Lucky Mojos marriage line of products and the vigil candle as well: http://www.luckymojo.com/marriage.html

It also gives spell suggestions on how to use the items. The oil can be placed on a couple candle and burned with the petition to get married. You can wear the oil when you touch him, dust items he will wear with the sachet powder etc. You certainly can do a honey jar with the petition to get married. Add deers tongue herb which is known to help get a marriage proposal. Do you own Miss Cats Hoodoo Herb and Root Magic book? It has many spells relating to getting a proposal.

Xewn · Unread post by **Xewn** » Mon May 06, 2019 4:32 pm

Thanks!, JayDee I was a little confused based on some of the previous forum posts whether to get products from the Marriage line, Adam & Eve, or Chuparossa. I don't have the book, so that might be a good addition when I place my order.

Unread post by **JayDee** » Mon May 06, 2019 5:50 pm

Xewn,

Each item you mentioned is good for the love and relationship you want. Each has a slightly different purpose. Marriage is used to get a proposal and to bless a marriage or a wedding. You can of course blend them together and use them on candles, on items he will touch, and your body, even in bath, this is a traditional practice to make a condition that fits your needs. Order the bath crystals, mix them together, take a bath, then save a cup and add it to the rinse cycle to his laundry and your bedding.

Xewn · Unread post by **Xewn** » Mon May 06, 2019 8:29 pm

Thanks again, JayDee! I appreciate the advice.

LyndleyNevermore · Unread post by **LyndleyNevermore** » Sun May 26, 2019 2:36 am

Hello,

I would really appreciate help from those who can advise me.
I have been seeing a man for 8 months and during this time he has blown hot and cold so frequently, it had led me to extreme depression.
We lived together for a short time but he said it was too soon and asked me to move out.
He then changed his mind and said he wants me to move back in, in a few months, but this never manifests.
He goes from verging on saying he loves me, talking about our future etc, to saying he is thinking of breaking up. He has broken up with me and come back a few months later full of affection for me.
Now we are in dangerous waters again.
He never wants to see me on the weekends, and the stretch between seeing each other is now once every 4 weeks or so, despite living within 15 mins walking distance. Yet he says he still wants me , doesn't want to split etc.
He is in constant contact with a female friend he compares me to, and an ex who lives abroad (a amongst other women).

Despite the above, I want this man, and when he's in a loving mode, he's perfect.

How can I :
A: get rid of the other women for good? (All of them, but especially the two I mentioned).
B: make him fully and solidly commit to me and only me, and solidly our relationship?

I have used magic to start and heal this relationship, but now would like some help on how to make it as all solidify.

What should I do ?

Thanks in advance,
LN

Unread post by **Miss Athena** » Sun May 26, 2019 9:09 am

Hello LyndleyNevermore,

Welcome to the Lucky Mojo forum! We're glad you have found us.

You're in the right thread for spell advice on your query. Have you read through the many pages here? You will likely find ideas to help you, so please read from the first page onward.

You can put your love rivals in a freezer spell to halt any momentum they may make in interfering with your relationship. You can find that thread here:
general-freezer-spell-questions-and-answers-t8676.html

There's an old saying that you should never make someone a priority when they only make you an option. I'm sorry to say that this man sounds like he may be playing you. You're kept at a distance, and he comes to you only on his terms. That doesn't sound equitable at all.

You may want to get a reading on this to find out what's happening with him and what your chances are of bringing him closer to you in commitment. You can find qualified readers here, and they can give you spell advice or perform rootwork for you, too:
www.readersandrootworkers.org/

I hope this helps. Good luck.

LyndleyNevermore · Unread post by **LyndleyNevermore** » Sun May 26, 2019 10:41 am

Hi Miss Athena,
Thanks for your answer. Yes indeed he may be playing me. I am trying to do something to turn this around.
Would the freezer spell work if I want them gone for good, or would hot- footing be more permanent.
I've been reading through the spells here but not sure the appropriate one for commitment. I have previously slipped my menstrual blood into his food and hence he can never fully walk away. I am thinking of doing a honey jar but I need something more powerful. Maybe tie his nature? Any suggestions are welcome.

Unread post by **Miss Athena** » Sun May 26, 2019 10:51 am

Hello LyndleyNevermore,

There are no guarantees of permanence in any spellwork. You have to have faith in your outcome. Freezer spells and Hot Foot work differently but towards the same goal of ridding someone from a situation. Go with a freezer spell if you want to freeze them out of your life. Go with Hot Foot if you want them to leave town.

If you want to add something to supplement your honey jar to increase his commitment, consider a doll baby. You can read about them here:
doll-babies-for-love-and-healing-t29089 ... oll%20baby

I hope this helps. Good luck.

NaidaBelle · Unread post by **NaidaBelle** » Sun May 26, 2019 12:16 pm

Hello, everyone! I’m a long time reader but new poster, so I’ll try to be as concise as I can.

I’ve been “seeing” this guy for four months. Our first few days together, he seemed very passionately drawn to me. Since then, he’s been rather hot and cold. We typically see each other once a week and have sex 1-2 times a month. He has been honest with me about not wanting a commitment right now for several reasons and I respect that. I want a relationship with him but am in no rush to make things official; just to know that my emotions are reciprocated and to increase the amount of physical affection (like kissing, hugging, cuddling, etc) in addition to the great sex we already have.

I’ve done a Vedic compatibility reading which stated he already feels positively about me and that we would have a strong, healthy relationship if we can get one off the ground. However, according to the reading, I have to let him make gestures towards progress in order for him to feel safe and happy moving forward. Apparently, the ideal timing to see progress between us will be July and, if it gets backed up or delayed then, November would be the second chance.

Since I want to sweeten him to being romantic with me rather than dominate him (quite the opposite, he has a rather dominant personality and I want to inspire him to take the lead between us,) I plan to do a honey jar with LM’s love herb mix and the Love Me and Come to Me oils/sachets. My questions are:

- Should I work the jar for a committed relationship, since that’s the end goal, or should I focus more on my current desire only for romance/affection and work something different for commitment later?

- Would it be better to use his personal concerns only, or concerns from both of us (tied hairs or mingled fluids from sex?)

- What curios would be recommended in either case? I already intend to use crystals like rose quartz, moonstone, and maybe emerald.

- Can I mix the powder sachets into body/dusting powder and use the oils as a base for perfume, so that I can wear them whenever I see him?

- Is the LM Love Me spell bottle large enough to burn a figural candle on, or only the recommended 4” ones? I’ve been looking everywhere for a jar/bottle that feels “right” and I think it looks perfect!

Unread post by **Miss Athena** » Sun May 26, 2019 6:58 pm

Hello NaidaBelle,

Welcome to the Lucky Mojo forum! We are glad to see you here.

I'll answer your questions in the order in which they were asked:

Work your jar for more romance from him, since that's the first step toward your goal. You can work on his commitment after he's more securely with you. It's too premature for a commitment spell just yet.

Use both of your concerns in the jar, since you're working it for your relationship.

Use whatever crystals you feel are appropriate, however you are mixing traditions here. Keep your jar simple and in line with hoodoo tradition.

Yes, you can mix the sachet powder into your dusting powder and use the oils as your perfume. This is done all the time, and is a very traditional way to work.

The spell bottles can support a 4" chime candle. Anything with a larger base than that will likely be too big.

I hope this helps. Good luck.

CuriousChris · Unread post by **CuriousChris** » Mon May 27, 2019 7:52 am

Which candle do I buy to have him thinking about wanting children?

Unread post by **JayDee** » Mon May 27, 2019 2:39 pm

CuriousChris,

I would use influence to influence his thoughts to think about a family and a child, use a specific petition that states exactly what you want: a kid.

Influence line by lucky mojo: http://www.luckymojo.com/influence.html

NaidaBelle · Unread post by **NaidaBelle** » Tue May 28, 2019 12:05 am

Thank you very much for your response, Miss Athena!

After thinking on it more and reading your reply, I agree that aiming for commitment now would definitely be premature. It’s my understanding that, as long as the base of the work remains the same, addendums to the work can be made later — ie, with Love Me being the base of this jar/bottle, I can change the focus of the jar/bottle over time from “come to me” to “stay with me,” “marry me,” etc. Am I correct in this assumption?

In regards to the crystals, I had thought they would be in line with hoodoo’s use of mineral curios despite not being traditionally used. If that’s not the case, I’ll meditate on it before beginning to decide just how right or important it feels to include them. What other, more traditional, curios would you recommend?

Is there anything I should not mix the oils with? I have been experimenting recently with perfume making and had toyed with the idea of adding pheromones once I found a scent blend that I enjoyed. Is it safe/okay to mix the oils with alcohol to make a spray perfume so that I can use it in this way? If I don’t find them strongly scented enough, may I mix them with additional love attracting essential oils?

Also, I forgot to ask in my original post about timing to begin this. I have seen conflicting information, with some people saying waxing moon while others say waning. Wouldn’t waxing be the more appropriate time, since I am trying to grow a relationship between us? If waning would be better, would you explain why?

Thank you again for your help and your patience with my questions. While I do have some experience, this is my first time making a jar, doing anything for love, or anything meant to be long term.

Unread post by **Miss Athena** » Thu May 30, 2019 5:14 pm

Hello NaidaBelle,

You can evolve your purpose of a honey jar as you advance into a relationship with your target. You can always open the jar and add more ingredients or personal concerns as your needs change.

You can read the thread on honey jars for information on other ingredients you could add:
general-honey-sugar-sweet-jar-questions ... t5536.html

You could add the condition oils to your perfume or lotion (just a few drops), or even shampoo bottle. It's done all the time. You do not need to add any other love drawing oils to them, as Lucky Mojo oils are formulated according to tradition and are therefore quite effective in their own right. Their scent is not an indication of their effectiveness.

If you wish to work by moon cycles, then following the waxing moon to draw things or people to you.

I hope this helps. Good luck.

prickly-pear · Unread post by **prickly-pear** » Tue Jun 25, 2019 10:35 am

Hi forum! It’s been a bit so I hope I’m posting in the right spot. So over the last year I’ve been working a honey jar and mojo bag on my ex for us to be together. I’ve been successful to a degree. I’ve succeeded in keeping him still having feelings for me, just two nights ago he was telling me how I mean everything to him, that he thinks about me all the time, and how he still misses me. He physically wouldn’t let me leave his home, begging me to just stay with him. I haven’t, however, been successful in actually getting him back fully. He thinks it’s a bad idea. So now I come to you, forum members, for help. I need something with a little more power behind it I think. Something with a real influence to it to just make him not be able to handle or resist the emotions he still has for me. Additionally I don’t have any more personal affects, I didn’t think to save any the last time, (I may be able to get a little something off a pair of my underwear, but I can’t be sure it’s mine or his or both, likely a little of both). Any suggestions for work I can do to like override this idea that he has that getting back together is a bad idea and have him fully come back and commit?
Thanks!

Unread post by **JayDee** » Tue Jun 25, 2019 11:28 am

prickly-pear ,

You stated you wont stay with him, which likely would incline sex amongst you both, that is how you get the personal concern. Use some of the honey you have in your jar and cook him some cookies to sweeten him to you in love. When doing work we need to work with the energy and not against it, if he is begging to stay, then stay and show him its a good idea. It may not result in the reunion that day but it is more likely to help in the long run. Powder items in his house with sachet powders, oils on thing he will touch. Use stay with me, return to me, love me oils. A skull candle to put the thought in his head is ls also a good idea.

Unread post by **Miss Athena** » Tue Jun 25, 2019 1:57 pm

Hello prickly-pear,

I have moved your post to the correct thread on getting someone to commit to a relationship. This is a better location as your query is directly related to this topic.

Increasing his feelings is not your goal, but getting him to overcome his commitment issues is. Read through the posts in this thread for advice and ideas on how to help him cross this hurdle. If you still have questions after reading, feel free to ask us here.

I hope this helps. Good luck.