Spells for Ex-Lover Ex-Spouse to Return Reconcile Reunite

Unread post by **jwmcclin** » Tue Sep 21, 2010 1:11 pm

I agree with Devi, get a reading first...

Unread post by **starsinthesky7** » Tue Sep 21, 2010 1:21 pm

A reading is definitely advisable. I would find out why he does not want to continue this with you anymore, and if your situation can progress into an actual relationship. It seems you want something more serious and he does not so you need to understand why he does not want anything more serious as well.

www.readersandrootworkers.org is a great place to start.

Cookie · Unread post by **Cookie** » Thu Sep 23, 2010 1:53 am

So as you could probably tell from my posts, I've been working to reconcile with an ex-lover/ sweeten him up to the idea of a relationship. And so far, I thought things were going swimmingly. It would be an understatement to say I was wrong. I was completely blindsided.

So, I won't rehash my story, but here's the spells I used.

I petitioned Saint Martha with the command that he "Return to me & Commit". He returned, and committed, not to a relationship, but was only intimate with me. Saint Martha does not disappoint, but I suppose I will have to be more specific in the future.

I began a honey jar with some "personal concerns" of his, and lit red candles dressed with Follow Me Boy oil on them.

I wore Follow Me Boy oil for our reunion and it worked AMAZINGLY. All attention on me, cute pet names, great hook-up, etc. And two weeks later he was calling, begging to drive to my part of town (about 20-40 minutes away) to see me. Going great, right?

Then last weekend (four weeks after our reunion) he calls me saying we can't keep doing what we're doing, because he's "emotionally attached" to someone else. Someone who he has known for two weeks. Wait, wait, wait, wait WHAT?? For the record, we've known each other/ been intimate for over a year. Something is just not adding up. And, I say this in a completely unbiased way, this girl is a rather immature freshman who reminds me very much of a girlfriend of mine whom he dislikes quite a bit, to say the least. So I have to question why such qualities are so attractive to him now.

So anyway, I have to see him tomorrow, as it's our mutual friend's birthday. I have begun another candle to Saint Martha (with more specific instructions). But I don't know what else to do, or where to begin. I didn't see this coming at all. And I don't know if it's my own intuition or I am simply in denial, but some things just still don't add up.

Any thoughts on the matter would be greatly appreciated.

Thankyou.

Unread post by **starsinthesky7** » Thu Sep 23, 2010 2:05 am

I dont see how the spells set you back. It isn't any of the spells fault that set you back all your spell work was quite successfull actually. So what is the issue? well I would say that you did not work on the underlining issue of the this "relationship" He returned to you and he committed to you in a sexual way. To me, you overlooked one huge issue....the lack of love in your relationship AND whatever broke you and him apart in the first place which seems to be fidelity issues. You did not work on these issues.

Following you around, giving you attention, and all the sex in the world is not going to get a man to commit. If you wanted commitment then you should have done some stay with me products, and follow that up with some binding work. Follow me boy is not a fidelity spell necessarily, and I think you got too wrapped up in this kind of work. So again, all your spell work manifested successfully, but you overlooked the commitment to you and you only aspect. Not to mention he could have had interest in another person this entire time...it was just overlooked perhaps to the lack of getting a reading at the beginning of the work.

In any case, you need to get a reading, and a consultation on what you should do to get more insight into this issue and how you can solve it. You need to get a reading before proceeding to anything else.

Cookie · Unread post by **Cookie** » Thu Sep 23, 2010 2:44 am

Thank you for responding.

Oh and sorry, I should clarify. I have no problem with the spells I used, they manifested quite well and quite quickly. I was trying to get us back to where we were (we weren't speaking for three months) and then work on the fidelity, as you mentioned. It's this whole "I'm emotionally attached to someone else" deal that has set me back. I had feared he knew her previously as well, but she's a friend of his new roommate (which is randomly selected by Student Housing) whom he met just this month.

Though, I hadn't thought to use Stay with Me products since we weren't "together" together, but in hindsight, that probably would have been a better route to go. And you are correct, I should get a reading as I am still so very confused. I'm looking at profiles of AIRR readers as we speak.

Thankyou again for responding so quickly.

Dev

Unread post by **starsinthesky7** » Thu Sep 23, 2010 2:55 am

Well, you did not do anything really to get you and him back to where you needed to be. Follow me boy does not put you back in a loving relationship per se. Its more about making the person follow you around, which some people have reported obsession, and/or infatuation...but it is not going to put the love or repair a relationship.

In any case, I would see if this relationship is even worth repairing. If not it is time to move on and find someone worthy of you time.

fiestyram · Unread post by **fiestyram** » Thu Sep 23, 2010 7:08 am

Might I suggest a freezer spell for the other woman in his life. I would do one for her specifically, and another for other "random" or general romantic interests of his prior to doing any Stay with Me work, etc.

beautiful · Unread post by **beautiful** » Thu Sep 23, 2010 11:13 am

fiestyram wrote:Might I suggest a freezer spell for the other woman in his life. I would do one for her specifically, and another for other "random" or general romantic interests of his prior to doing any Stay with Me work, etc.

Is the freezer spell effective to freeze a person to help them move on from an ex who had already moved on? How long do I need to freeze them for? Because it can't stay in the freezer forever.

fiestyram · Unread post by **fiestyram** » Thu Sep 23, 2010 12:51 pm

Here is the link for the freezer spell thread on this forum.

freezer-spells-questions-and-answers-t8676.html

Blueskee · Unread post by **Blueskee** » Sat Sep 25, 2010 1:21 pm

I have someone who is mad with me, and is refusing emails, etc... and wanna know is there anything that can be done?

doughnut_hand · Unread post by **doughnut_hand** » Sat Sep 25, 2010 1:50 pm

maybe look at the reconciliation products ? or try a honey jar?

how is this person related to you?

doughnut_hand · Unread post by **doughnut_hand** » Sat Sep 25, 2010 2:42 pm

whats the difference between these two products? which case would call for what?

Willowspell · Unread post by **Willowspell** » Sat Sep 25, 2010 3:45 pm

I am a LM customer and while waiting for my shipment to arrive so that I can start my spells physically. Today my heart is torn. I was wondering if anyone here is willing or able to give their opinion or advice on what I should do with this overwhelming urge to call my estranged husband and tell him that I love him, I want to tell him that I miss him and that I want for him to come home. Though I doubt that my saying any of this would make any drastic difference to the situation. I am worried it may even make things more difficult. I don't know what to do. I have always been able to follow my intuition and end up where I needed and wanted to be, but this circumstance with him is so deep.

Should I call him and tell him how I feel? taking into consideration that he will either flat out deny my claims or just ignore my phone call. I have told him in the recent past. He just doesn't respond. I guess the real question here is should I follow my head? or my heart? My head says, "don't bother it wont help anything" My heart says " I need to tell him, I need to know that he understands or has at least heard that my love and commitment to him is still so very real, that he is the only person I want to spend my life with." sorry, I'm getting a bit emotional.. This all means so much to me...

I could really use some positive energy sent my way to help my heart stop pounding and my thoughts slow up.

Arrgg...

If asking for this type of advice or opinions on here isn't alright, I am deeply sorry. I just don't know where else to turn.

Unread post by **jwmcclin** » Sat Sep 25, 2010 3:50 pm

Willowspell, have you had a reading on this situation? This will tell you where his head is and what you can do to reconcile and if it is possible. You might also try some LM's healing products to manage this situation. Have you started a honey jar to sweeten him to you? Good Luck!

doughnut_hand · Unread post by **doughnut_hand** » Sat Sep 25, 2010 4:01 pm

i sympathise with how you feel. dont do anything rash.
think it out. calm down.

If you have pleaded with him before in a similar way, you can sort of judge how he will respond. Do you honestly think its worth it to try the same thing, its likely he wont respond again like the last time, and will only make him more distant from you. I know how desperate you feel .

Try simply lighting a candle and praying or asking for some healing for yourself.

Maybe you might want to try a reading? the reading will help put things into perspective for you .
Remember when you do start your spells dont sabotage yourself by physically doing things that will distance him from you .
Think carefully if what you do will produce and opposite reaction from what you want .

i hope this helps, if anything have a good cry and watch a movie . keep your mind off things.
Hugs and blessings

Willowspell · Unread post by **Willowspell** » Sat Sep 25, 2010 4:15 pm

I am simply waiting to get the supplies I need to begin my spell work. I ordered everything today. I am hoping for a speedy arrival. But I do understand why there would be a delay considering the amount of time and effort the employee's at LM put into making their products as top notch as possible.

I was told that he does still love me, and is still wanting to be here with us, but has gotten himself in so deep with addictions, destructive individuals, and probably even screwing around with his ex behind my back, that he feels there is too much wrong with him to be able to come home.

Basically he feels overwhelmed with regret and does not think he is even capable to repair the breech. he is in a fog so to speak. And is trying to fool himself into believing that he doesn't want us to be together. that way he can push away the overwhelming mistakes and not have to take responsibly for his actions. Considering he has this internal struggle going on with "should I run away?" or "repair the relationship?" while I want to tell him, I don't know if I should at the moment.

I am patient and loving person wife and mother. To me a couple months of separation is nothing in the long run of a lifetime commitment. I have been, can and will wait for him. I will also try to help speed the process with spell work.

No I have not started a honey jar yet. I probably will put one together tonight so that I don't feel stagnant.

thank you for the suggestion

doughnut_hand · Unread post by **doughnut_hand** » Sat Sep 25, 2010 4:24 pm

yes do the honey jar tonight

Willowspell · Unread post by **Willowspell** » Sat Sep 25, 2010 4:27 pm

Thank you Doughnut_hand for you kind words and advice.

I have had a reading done with promising results.

I also have spent days making sure that I have a good game plan down for the spells I intend to work on. I am still getting advice with some of the specifics to make sure that I am extremely focused and prepared for my goals.

I will light a candle and meditate a bit. I do feel helpless from time to time throughout this. It is a constant struggle to keep my thoughts positive. a good cry will most likely be on the agenda for tonight once the little ones are in bed. I have to stay strong for them.

I wouldn't say that I was begging or pleading with him in the past to return. Just letting him know how I feel. No groveling.. I don't do that. lol. I just feel like I should remind him that I am still here for us.

Thank you so much for your kindness and giving, I can sense the positive energy that is being sent my way already.

Unread post by **ConjureMan** » Sat Sep 25, 2010 9:35 pm

Reconciliation products can definately cool things off and help someone forgive. These products are aimed specifically at healing the rifts that occur in a relationship. A sweet jar with some pink candles dressed with Reconciliation oil would do the trick.

Unread post by **ConjureMan** » Sat Sep 25, 2010 9:36 pm

Reconciliation is used to heal relationships if there has been a falling out, or a fight. It's aimed at specifically healing the rifts that result from such falling out while rebuilding the relationship.

Return to Me is aimed at gaining a person who's walked away, gone away, or is has been distant to return back into your life.

Willowspell · Unread post by **Willowspell** » Sat Sep 25, 2010 9:40 pm

Update, I'm feeling much more at peace for the moment. Thank you to those who sent positive energy out for me. Please know it did make a differance.

I started my "honey jar", but due to my surprising lack of honey ( I ALWAYS have honey! lol), I used Dark Karo syrup instead. I was actually able to find one of my husbands hairs. This was difficult considering that he has been gone for two months. I found it in the hat he used to wear all of the time. I am surprised that he left it behind to be honest. Apparently it was meant to be. lol

Even though the advised spell posted on LM site didn't say to do this, not only did I anoint the candle but the inside of the jar lid as well. I used a small amount of "love oil", "come to me oil" and "peaceful home oil". My hands just did it. so perhaps it will help things along. I try not to stray away from my gut instincts when it comes to spell work.

So again thank you for the advice positive energy and motivation to put together my "honey jar" spell.

Unread post by **catherineyronwode** » Sat Sep 25, 2010 10:34 pm

willowspell, i am glad you are feeling grounded and have undertaken the honey spell. It is a stong first step, and a necessary step.

Something else in your first post jumped out at me as i re-read this thread tonight. You said, that he "has gotten himself in so deep with addictions."

That's a real red flag to me. You don't say what kind of addictions have swamped him -- physical addictions like alcohol or drugs, or social addictions like video games or internet intimacy -- but this, i think, needs to be addressed in addition to your sweetening him back.

Is he willing to join a program or in some other way to enter a state of recovery from addictions?

I am concerned for you, because unless the addictions are being treated, your love spell on him will always take second place to the substance or activity to which he is addicted.

Consider making a Cast Off Evil spell for him, separate from, but in addition to, the honey jar.

Read more here:

http://luckymojo.com/castoffevil.html

Good luck.

Willowspell · Unread post by **Willowspell** » Sat Sep 25, 2010 11:23 pm

You are absolutely right in your concern towards his addiction issues (which are in fact alcohol and drugs) and how that may adversely effect the love spell. I have been attempting to get support from other friends and family to advise him to go back to NA and AA meetings, at the moment he simply wont listen to me.I don't think he understands right now that he is using these drugs to cope and run away from actually dealing with our issues. Which of course were all mainly caused by his choice of unhealthy friends and recreation that adversely effected our entire family. We have two kids.He is still trying to balance being a free spirit ( he is an Aquarius ) and the dependable husband and father. He has put himself into a very confusing position.

I ordered your cast off evil spell along with reconciliation spell kit.When I receive my order would you suggest that I use the cast off Evil kit first?

The honey jar spell began to work literally a couple of hours after I lit the candle LOL. And here I was under the impression that this spell generally took a bit longer, I guess his spirit just needed a little push to get started huh?

He called and came over for the first time in the last couple of months just to spend time with me tonight. Nothing serious was pushed or discussed but it was nice having him home, if even just for a little while.We laughed and talked as if it was just any other night. It was a bit awkward when he went to leave. We are so used to hugs and kisses and I love yous in parting you see, he isn't ready for that again just yet. I will keep up with the honey jar sure sure.. lol

I really want for him to get healthy and us be able to be happy and In love as we have been for so many years. I know we will be ok. I just don't know exactly when

There are so many people that push for their ex or loved one to return that really should just focus on healing and strength to move forward alone. When I got my reading I was prepared to hear the worst which was that I should do just that move on. And hoped for the best, which is that there is a light at the end of this very long and dark tunnel for my husband and I. for our family to be one again. I am glad to know that my efforts and intuition have not lead me astray. That I am not just desperately and hopelessly clinging on to something that should be over. This is a long and difficult path, but our relationship is worth it.

Unread post by **catherineyronwode** » Sat Sep 25, 2010 11:40 pm

Ah, you are good! How nice that the honey jar kicked in so quickly -- a GREAT sign!

Also, here i am recommending Cast Off Evil and you already had ordered it! LOL.

You can do the Cast Off Evil at or around the same time as the Reconciliation is you work them at different altars(east-facing for reconciliation, West-facing for Cast Off Evil), different times of day (morning for Reconciliation -- "As the Sun rises being my love to me in perfect heath and earnestly seeking reconciliation..." and evening for Cast Off Evil -- "As the Sun sinks and sets, may his addiction to alcohol and drugs sink down and diminish..."), and different starting days of the week (see http://luckymojo.com/planetary.html for a guide to linking your work to the days of the week).

Good luck.

Willowspell · Unread post by **Willowspell** » Sun Sep 26, 2010 1:11 pm

That is fantastic! and makes perfect sense. Thank you so much for your guidance.
I'll have my second altar all set up and plans for days and times written down before I even receive my supplies LOL. Great minds think alike. I do not want to leave any loose ends in repairing this breech. It means too much to all of us to leave anything unattended.

The speed with the honey jar spell is a very good sign. For anyone reading this one of my earlier posts i wrote down which Lucky Mojo oils I used to anoint the candle. if your curious. Thus far I am having amazing results. but of course results vary. My advice, follow your heart. do what feels right to do in your spell work and life and you can not go wrong.

As a honey jar update. He had been here for a few hours last night then had to leave to go to work.
( he is a shellfish harvester so his schedule depends on the tides and in the fall and winter the low tide is at night.) I went to bed not long after I made my late night post here. Woke up around 3 am and guess who is sleeping on the couch?

I watched him sleep for a couple min, drank some tea, tended my candles then went back to bed. This morning was so comforting. Still no actual intimate contact between the two of us ( hugs, kisses, i love you ect) But we went about our morning with the boys, laughed and read a book together. He even asked if he could leave some food he had bought earlier in the fridge.. lol. It may not be much but it is more then we have had in two months. I have every intention of appreciating and recognizing even the little things. He intends on coming back tonight to join us for dinner. I am looking forward to brighter days for all of us. and this is an amazing step in the right direction.

And I have LM to thank for it

Thank you from the bottom of my heart!. I will keep every one updated on our progress.I will more then likely continue to ask questions as well. Knowledge IS power! Never stop asking questions and you will continue to learn.

Tammyw · Unread post by **Tammyw** » Mon Sep 27, 2010 5:48 pm

So my divorce that I don't want will be final this Friday. I went home this past friday to possibly work on our marriage/ lay tricks. I go to his friends house to talk to him cause I knew that's where he would be and he refused to come talk to me he said he would call me later instead he shows up with a police escort to get some things. I'm finding out he hasn't paid mortgage in 4 months he hasn't paid car insurance but he won't communicate with me. I have been working honey jars had lights set at misc had a root worker set lights. I've done about all I can do. I love him still after all he's done to me. He actually served me the divorce papers when he took me to my first drs appointment after emergency surgery on my leg. I had to take a taxi to the emergency room when I fractured my leg because he didn't believe I was really hurt. Even after all this I still love my husband. Will intranquil spirit help or is it too late?

Unread post by **starsinthesky7** » Mon Sep 27, 2010 6:01 pm

Personally, I think you need to move on. This man does not want to be with you, and this is evident by his past and current actions. The marriage work probably is not going to work right away, and by you going to his friend's house because that is where you figured he would be...was unnecessary. I think talking to him and trying to seek him out and is obviously pissing him off more. By you constantly trying to get contact, when he doesnt want to is making it worse.

So what should you do? I would get a reading through the rootworker you had lights set by or someone else to see if this situation can be helped. If not...its time to move on. This man is not good for you...and left you in the emergency room AND served you with divorce papers. I am sorry to sound harsh but really its time to move on from someone that cannot be changed. He does not love you, and that is evident by his actions.

I understand it is hard, but you will be far better off with out him. Its going to be hard, but trust me you will be far off. I hope you heed the advice of your rootworker.

ANd no the intranquil spirit is not going to help this man...in this case it will make him worse as it is only going to torture and make this man more vile than he already is.

Time to move on..

www.luckymojo.com/cutandclear.html

tboy1977 · Unread post by **tboy1977** » Mon Sep 27, 2010 6:04 pm

are you sure you are not better served casting a spell on yourself to get over the guy? I mean, no disrespect, but from this angle he sounds like a worthless louse. I understand being in love and I want my ex back but damn. Are you serious? Most women wouldn't sell him their urine

Unread post by **starsinthesky7** » Mon Sep 27, 2010 6:09 pm

i agree with tboy1977. I think that some clarity and wisdom work needs to be done as well to help YOU make a better decision and give you clarity.

route95 · Unread post by **route95** » Mon Sep 27, 2010 6:11 pm

Stars gives good advice. You obviously deserve better. You've put a lot of work into it and you should spend your energies on helping yourself. Good luck with everything.

thelightfantastic · Unread post by **thelightfantastic** » Mon Sep 27, 2010 6:17 pm

Agree with stars fully. Working with the intraquil spirit now is probably only going to make a bad situation worse. If he doesn't want to talk to you now and you ask a spirit to force him to talk to you, I doubt you're going to hear the words that you're looking to hear. I think for your own sanity and well being, a cut and clear and some healing work are definitely in order.

However if you really want to pursue this, I think you're going to have to enlist the help of a professional rootworker. You need to see if this situation is even viable at this point and if so, you need to impose a time limit on the work that you do or have done. Good luck.

Tammyw · Unread post by **Tammyw** » Mon Sep 27, 2010 6:25 pm

You all are right one person can only do so much. I keep making excuses for him my worker did say there was some female influence around she said it could be his mother or sister. His sister did call and curse me out when he first filed saying I was draging his name through the mud and taking everything from him. My worker told me to work a freezer spell on them right away. He is not acting like himself. This is not him being irresponsible not paying bills and ignoring me. Something else is going on. My rootworker did say he will return but I value myself and for me when it's gone it's gone I just wish I could tell my heart to not love him anymore. I just keep thinking how I am 32 years old with no children because of my husband and now I have to try and start over after I just found out he's ruined my credit because he choose not to pay for a place he's been staying that we own together.

Unread post by **starsinthesky7** » Mon Sep 27, 2010 6:34 pm

Consider yourself lucky. Just because you are 32 years old, but luckily you have no children which would make things much harder. Things are not over for you, and you will be much much better off for you.

As for the credit stuff, take his butt to court. Get all your ducks in a row such as the paper work and whatever else. I disagree with your worker...to keep working on this situation regardless if he is going to come back or not. This is your husband. There are too many actions for this not to be him...it just so happens he could not put the act on any longer.

You can do this, and I encourage you to do some power work for you to help give you strength.

thelightfantastic · Unread post by **thelightfantastic** » Mon Sep 27, 2010 7:02 pm

If your ex is in fact being influenced by his mommy and his sister, better you find out how easily swayed he is now that you're rid of him than if you had his child AND had to deal with cowardly ways. Bottom line: if the guy had a spine and truly loved you, he wouldn't let anyone pressure him into being the complete ass he's being towards you. As for your credit, in this day and age bad credit isn't the death knell it once was. As stars said, you can take your ex to court or you can simply file for bankruptcy. I've done the latter because of a somewhat similar situation and guess what, I'm still alive and doing just fine.

32 is not too old to start over. In fact, I believe one is never too old to start over. If you keep thinking negatively, you're going to be finished before you even start. Life might not be turning out like you expected it to but that doesn't mean it's over or all the things you wanted won't pan out. You may just be going a different route. I think moving on from this guy is the best thing you can do. It's not going to be easy and you're not going to be over him straight away, but you'll better off in the long run.

I would recommend doing some cleansing work to get all the negativity from the situation off you and start on some healing work. Start doing things to better yourself and start looking forward.

tag227 · Unread post by **tag227** » Mon Sep 27, 2010 7:03 pm

Tammy,

I agree with Stars here. I am sorry for your loss, but a man like that is not worth it. Take it from someone who has done A LOT of work to get a man back. It's not worth it. You can get him back, but it'll only be worse the second time around. To be honest, love can not be forced.

If I were you, I would get your finances in order and fix up that credit. You're only 32. There's plenty of time to have kids and a family with a GOOD man, and thank the Lord, you did not have this idiot's kids.

My prayers are with you Tammy

Unread post by **corazon** » Mon Sep 27, 2010 10:04 pm

Lots of really great advice here.

I'm in agreement with everyone else. Its not too late for you to heal, move on, and meet someone better suited for you.

Good luck and many blessings to you Tammy.

ck333 · Unread post by **ck333** » Wed Sep 29, 2010 12:57 pm

Hello everyone, I am new here and trying to work some spells on my own, I wanted to know if anyone knows which reconciliation spell Cat is talking about on this page http://www.luckymojo.com/reconciliation ... ranquility at the very end of it when she says that the spell would always bring her lover back to her to start over even though he didn't have anything to give anymore, and I know she recommends no to do it if the person is probably empty, but I need to try it, so anyone please?
Thanks in advance

sneakyjeff80 · Unread post by **sneakyjeff80** » Wed Sep 29, 2010 1:14 pm

me and my ex broke up over a yr but been roommates i sleep down stairs she sleep up stiars now she want me out i bury her dirty underwear she just worn in a knot in the back yard will it work to want me to stay and want me back and want me only and is there any othe burial trick i can do with her undewear or anything she wears or owns to make her want me back i got less than 30days to try to make her want me like if i take her undewear tie it in a knot and put it under her bed will she want me up there please any 1 can u tell me what works

Unread post by **Devi Spring** » Wed Sep 29, 2010 1:32 pm

You should start with a reading on this situation. You can find a list of good readers at http://www.readersandrootworkers.org.

The burying the underwear in the yard trick works to keep them close to home. If she owns that place (or is the one on the lease), then that trick is not really appropriate as she will be staying there no matter what!

You're better off making a dolly from the underwear, or using the underwear as a personal concern in some other tricks. A reading with a rootworker will help you determine which methods will be best in your case.

sneakyjeff80 · Unread post by **sneakyjeff80** » Wed Sep 29, 2010 3:13 pm

how do i use her undewear in another trick without making a doll i cant sew lol

Unread post by **Devi Spring** » Wed Sep 29, 2010 3:16 pm

Scroll down to "Doll, Poppet" on this page: http://www.luckymojo.com/lucky-mojo-inventory.html

If you don't know how to fix a dolly, then you can send the concerns to LM to have them fix it for you, or you may be able to hire one of the AIRR workers to do that work for you. You can also search the forum as this topic has come up many times before.

swtdrmz1 · Unread post by **swtdrmz1** » Wed Sep 29, 2010 3:23 pm

hello to all -

i just need a little help in where to begin. i def know i need to get a reading ... but in the mean time..he is my situation.

i am trying to get my ex bf back into my life...i tried communicating with him directly but he seemed to not want to talk..when he did he said it was hard talking to me...i felt that he was seeing other people etc..then just found out he is dating someone..not being mean...but since its early in the game i would like to distinguish that and put what i want into motion.

if anyone has suggestions it would be wonderful..

i have heard of the vinegar jar spell..not sure what to do with that...

and the reconciliation spell...i would like to put as much as i can to work this i know it will take time...

thank you all for reading and trying help.

jet

sneakyjeff80 · Unread post by **sneakyjeff80** » Wed Sep 29, 2010 3:29 pm

i have her use underwear i stay with her but we broke up i like to know how i can use her underwear to make her want me and want me to stay can i tye it in a not and bury it in the back yard or is there something else i can do please let me know if there something simple i can do to make her want me to stay and her to luv me is there anything i can do with her underwear to make want to only have sex with me

Unread post by **corazon** » Wed Sep 29, 2010 3:35 pm

Did you not JUST post this same question?
Please don't double post, keep all your questions on the same issue in the same thread. It makes it messy and hard for people to read the forums and makes extra work for the moderators.

Have you read the FREE online book about Hoodoo practices provided by miss cat?
http://www.luckymojo.com/hoodoo.html

Please read that and also use the search on the forum to find the answers you are looking for.

Unread post by **corazon** » Wed Sep 29, 2010 3:37 pm

try a honey jar spell to sweeten him, and also there is a great reconciliation spell kit from Lucky Mojo that you can do. Also use any of LM's love products to bathe with and oils to annoint yourself with.

Good luck!

sneakyjeff80 · Unread post by **sneakyjeff80** » Wed Sep 29, 2010 4:00 pm

i tried reading the sites cant figure out where to look where it will tell me what to do so can any one please just tell me what to do with her undwear i can get blood to from her just please tell me

Unread post by **Turnsteel** » Wed Sep 29, 2010 4:38 pm

sneakyjeff80 wrote:i tried reading the sites cant figure out where to look where it will tell me what to do so can any one please just tell me what to do with her undwear i can get blood to from her just please tell me

Re-read Devi's post, its rather clear, click on the link, then scroll down the page untill you find the section labeled "Doll". The dolls do not at this time have there own page, so you'll have to actually look for them.

I also suggest you do a search of the forum as this has come up many,many times in the past.

In the upper right corner of every page there is a search box, type in you're phrase and start looking.
Good Luck

sneakyjeff80 · Unread post by **sneakyjeff80** » Wed Sep 29, 2010 4:51 pm

for the next couple of nites im tryn something i read on here instead on the back yard which i did i sleep down stairs on the floor i took another pair of underwear and put it under the carpet where i sleep will anything happen from that

sneakyjeff80 · Unread post by **sneakyjeff80** » Wed Sep 29, 2010 7:25 pm

i tied her underwear in a knot put them under the carpet where i lay mu blanket down will anything happen from me doing this if so what will or i am i doing something wrong

Sight_Unseen · Unread post by **Sight_Unseen** » Wed Sep 29, 2010 8:08 pm

Please get a reading from an AIRR member you can find one here
http://www.readersandrootworkers.org.

These readers and root workers are very kind and will give you the answers you need. They will help you to find the proper direction for your situation.

If you are unable or unwilling to get a reading I suggest you look into the Reconciliation Spell kit in the catalog on Lucky Mojo's website.

Good Luck

antares · Unread post by **antares** » Wed Sep 29, 2010 10:29 pm

Hi - there is a lot of discussion on the Intranquil Spirit working-with-the-intranquil-spirit-t5469.html and this page http://www.luckymojo.com/intranquility.html which is linked from the one you had.

It's really not a way to get someone to love you, or fix the problems leading to the breakup; it's to torture someone into coming back, and they may not be very happy when they do. It works by calling on a restless spirit excluded from Heaven and I wouldn't recommend it to beginners. Cleanse well if you go ahead with it.

Good luck.

ck333 · Unread post by **ck333** » Thu Sep 30, 2010 1:26 am

thank you Antares, so is there any other infallible spell you would recommend for reconciliation ?

Unread post by **Turnsteel** » Thu Sep 30, 2010 2:28 am

ck333 wrote:thank you Antares, so is there any other infallible spell you would recommend for reconciliation ?

Their is no such thing as an infallible spell. No act, magical or otherwise, is a sure thing. Put the idea out of your head.

antares · Unread post by **antares** » Thu Sep 30, 2010 7:01 am

It would depend on the reasons for the breakup, I think, and what's keeping the two of you apart. A honey jar is a gentle approach to sweetening people up to you and the relationship; I'd really recommend getting a reading from one of the AIRR workers who can discuss your specific situation, read on your partner and the obstacles you may have to overcome and make specific recommendations of work you can do.

I had a good experience with Miss Michaele of AIRR though I'm sure they all are excellent. I was able to get an appointment fast; some people are booked up for a while. They should all be able to advise you of the kind of waiting time to expect if you email them.

Tammyw · Unread post by **Tammyw** » Thu Sep 30, 2010 12:00 pm

I know everyone here believes I should move on from working on this but I just feel the need to work until the end that being tommorrow. I'm nervous about facing him in court so I did have a court case set today and a st expedite set at misc. I'm going to do another return to me bath tonight and work my honey jars. Most of my candle reports were good but does show his resistance. One of the candles my reader set had surprising events happening last minute I'm just hoping it's good. I guess until people are in your situation it's hard to understand not wanting to give up. I even have all my facebook friends praying for my situation I just want a good outcome. I'm also taking everyones advise to do healing for myself.

route95 · Unread post by **route95** » Thu Sep 30, 2010 3:16 pm

Read this page to learn about what you can do about personal concerns in hoodoo. Use underwear can be really good. You already were told you can use it to make a dollbaby out of it or put it in a dollbaby. (if i recall correctly). http://www.luckymojo.com/bodyfluids.html

there's a section that says

SUBSTITUTES FOR BODY FLUIDS: THE MAGICAL LINK

I am often asked what a person can use for this type of rootwork if bodily fluids cannot be gotten. In descending order of strength, according to hoodoo folk magic, here is a list of substitute magical links:

Genital fluids: menstrual blood, semen, vaginal fluid
Other biological concerns: urine, feces, sweat, blood, spit
Hair: pubic, head, armpit, beard
Person's unwashed clothing: underwear, socks, handkerchief
Person's foot track lifted from the dirt
"Shed" body items: nail clippings, baby teeth
Person's bath water, wash water, drinking water
Person's handwriting on paper
Something Person owned or wore
Something Person touched, e.g. butt from smoked cigarette
Photo of Person
Drawing or silhouette of Person
Person's business card
Person's full name written on paper 9 times

good luck. please try to be calm and patient when trying to figure out what to do. it takes a lot of planning and understanding. and it's just good overall to try and have a clear mind in distressing situations.

route95 · Unread post by **route95** » Thu Sep 30, 2010 6:00 pm

If you want to try out the vinegar jar spell to sour the relationship between your ex and his new person, first check out this general info about how bottle and vinegar spells work in general:

http://www.luckymojo.com/bottlespells.html.

Then check out the loooooong, thorough thread about vinegar bottle spells.

vinegar-jar-questions-and-answers-t5581.html

good luck!

Unread post by **jwmcclin** » Thu Sep 30, 2010 7:17 pm

There are several options available for reconciliation spell work, you can combine the two by using the honey jar Reconciliation & Return, HEAL EMOTIONAL DISTANCE spell found here http://www.luckymojo.com/mojocatspells.html (scroll down toward the bottle of the page, its listed under Mini Honey Jar Spell kits). Also read about Reconciliation found here http://www.luckymojo.com/reconciliation.html and about the history of honey jar spells in hoodoo found here http://www.luckymojo.com/honeyjar.html

All of this is very good information and remember information is power...Good Luck swtdrmz1

Also, consider a reading on your ex to see what his head is, read and identify someone to your liking among the list of AIRR readers found here http://www.readersandrootworkers.org. It may be a first start to unravel and outline what to do...but the honey jar is always a good first step to sweeten someone to you.

Unread post by **Devi Spring** » Fri Oct 01, 2010 8:03 am

Remember - conjure is not just tying some underwear in a knot and putting them somewhere. There's a great deal of energy, prayer, and intent that goes into working. It is in no way like following a recipe and if you do certain actions then X will happen - you need to tap into the spirit and work the spirit and get the Divine working on the case.

I strongly suggest that you get a reading with an AIRR worker, so you're not just running around doing things without a complete understanding of how and why you're doing them.

Tammyw · Unread post by **Tammyw** » Fri Oct 01, 2010 12:16 pm

So today was dooms day. Still wasn't able to stop it but did get movement. We actually talked and hugged and kissed after the hearing. I now understand why he wouldn't talk to me a woman scorned can be evil and I will take my blame. I did get some of his concerns when I was home from the laundry room a shirt, a t shirt, pair of socks and some hair and a gym towel and a wash cloth. Now what can I do with them? I worked my honey jars and petitioned st Martha, st Jude and st st expedite last night I asked the divorce be dismissed that didn't happen but there was movement in a kiss and hug after a month of him ignoring me. Do I still pay the saints? I will continue working honey jars what else can I do with the personal concerns? Before someone else makes moves on him?