Spells for Peace in Family, Family Bonding, Help with Blended Family

Unread post by **bythebeautifulsea** » Fri Dec 07, 2018 11:03 am

Dr Bonedaddy,

JayDee's advice above is great. I just wanted to add that the holidays might give you the perfect opportunity to send a gift or card to them dusted with Reconciliation powder!

Dr Bonedaddy · Unread post by **Dr Bonedaddy** » Fri Dec 07, 2018 3:14 pm

Great ideas and resources! Thanks Jaydee and Bythebeautifulsea!

Unread post by **Miss Athena** » Sat Dec 08, 2018 3:01 pm

Hi Bonedaddy,

You've been given good advice above. I would add that if you could use those same roots and oils in a white skull candle inscribed with his name, birthday and embedded with a personal concern of his (and Deer's Tongue in his mouth). Face the skull towards a photo of yourself. Petition that he speak to you about whatever is behind his action.

I hope this helps. Good luck.

Mom2him · Unread post by **Mom2him** » Sun Dec 30, 2018 3:15 pm

Peace and blessings

I have a 6 year old son that I believe picks on energy that his father and I go through we split over 2 years ago and last year my son and I move to Texas and his father and the rest of the family stays in our home town Indiana.

My baby is emotional and he is the only kid with my but his father has other from his current marriage. This year we have been going back and forth to court for custody and child support. Sometimes my son expresses to me he misses his family and wish his father and I can be a family or he wants to go to Indiana and doesn’t want to be in Texas.

I don’t want my son growing up hating me for this decision I made for the both of us.

This past week while he was out of town with family my sons father told me our son said he want to stay with him. I know my sons father will try to use this in court for his case to get custody of my son.

What spell can I do with my son so he can adapt to this change and also stabilize his emotions I always talk to him about him visiting any time and being open to talking to family and his father.

Unread post by **Miss Athena** » Sun Dec 30, 2018 6:39 pm

Hi Momtohim,

I'm sorry you are going through this.

Since your son lives with you, you can work with Peaceful Home products to keep your environment happy and calm enough for him to enjoy. You can also work with Influence on him to help persuade him to change his mind about wanting to live with his father.
http://www.luckymojo.com/peacefulhome.html
http://www.luckymojo.com/influence.html

Meanwhile, you can use I Can, You Can't to gain the upper hand with your ex and block any petition he might want to make for custody.
http://www.luckymojo.com/products-i-can-you-cant.html

Start with this and see how it helps you. Feel free to ask any associated questions on those products in their threads on the forum.

I hope this helps. Good luck.

Mom2him · Unread post by **Mom2him** » Tue Jan 01, 2019 9:49 pm

Thanks!

Xewn · Unread post by **Xewn** » Sun Feb 03, 2019 12:42 am

I'm interested in making a honey jar for a father who is feeling estranged from his two young sons. The sons are 9 and 12. The 12 year old can be a bit rebellious and belligerent. The 9 year old less so, but he is often lost in video games because his parents are too busy to spend time with him. The father is often very busy with work/school and has difficulty making time for his kids, but wants to very much. He feels disconnected from them and wants to reestablish the connection and is concerned about the 12 year old becoming more difficult. I was wondering if someone could suggest oils and herbs for the jar? Thank you

Unread post by **RevJames** » Sun Feb 03, 2019 10:44 am

Xewn -

There is a convenient herb blend and oil that I believe will be of help to you.

HEZ-MIX-PEAC
PEACEFUL HOME HERBS MIXTURE
$6.00

OIL-HOO-PEAC
PEACEFUL HOME OIL
$10.00

Hope this helps and good luck!

Xewn · Unread post by **Xewn** » Wed Feb 06, 2019 7:09 am

Thank you for your reply, Rev. James! The oil sounds perfect, but I'm not sure about the herb blend, since it has a marriage related component and this is for a parent-child relationship. I had thought of adding Balm of Gilead buds, since those are supposed to help with forgiveness for estrangement and I think there is some resentment on the part of the kids that they feel ignored. But I thought Balm of Gilead buds were usually associated with estranged lovers. Peacefulness is great, but are there any herbs that might add a sense of fun or playfulness to the mix or does Peaceful Home cover that too? I feel like I need a mixture that helps heal the estrangement, help with the rebellious elements (so peace is good here), and promotes a sense of joy and fun. But maybe the sweetness of the honey and the petition will add those things? It's a different type of working than I've tried before.

Unread post by **Miss Athena** » Wed Feb 06, 2019 7:49 am

Hi Xewn,

I think you may be over-thinking the herbs a bit. RevJames' recommendations are good for your situation. The herb blend works well for a parent-child relationship, and Balm of Gilead smooths over past hurts in all kinds of relationships, not just romantic ones. So you are fine.

The honey in your jar will keep things sweet, so if you want more playfulness and fun on top of that, you can add that to your petition in the jar. Is there a particular game or hobby you want them to pursue more often? Add a small token of it to your jar. Use your imagination.

Sounds to me like you've got a good plan in place so do the work and see what kind of results you get.

I hope this helps. Good luck.

Xewn · Unread post by **Xewn** » Wed Feb 06, 2019 9:59 am

Thank you, Miss Athena! That's very helpful. I appreciate the advice from both you and Rev. James. (I also couldn't decide if it made more sense in the long run to buy the Peaceful Home blend or to buy separate herbs that LM carries that promote peace at home, but can be used for other purposes too, so that I might get more mileage out of them, since I'm not sure I'll be doing a lot of Peaceful Home type workings.)

Unread post by **Miss Athena** » Wed Feb 06, 2019 11:40 am

Hi Xewn,

That choice is yours. Personally, I like the blends because I know that everything included is directly related to my goal, and it's a good value for a low price. You can get a lot of mileage from them as well, but it's up to you what works for your purposes.

Good luck.

Xewn · Unread post by **Xewn** » Thu Feb 07, 2019 8:55 pm

Okay-- thank you! Is there alternate use for Peaceful Home that would give me that extra mileage?

Unread post by **Miss Athena** » Thu Feb 07, 2019 9:51 pm

Hi Xewn,

Peaceful Home is one of those formulas that you can keep working on a situation over time. It's never a bad idea to burn candles for this purpose, to maintain a calm and supportive environment for yourself or your family. I personally like to keep it on hand, as it works beautifully and I value the end result. So you will likely find that you are using it more often than you expect you will be.

Just my thought. I hope this helps. Good luck.

krittur · Unread post by **krittur** » Fri Mar 08, 2019 8:17 pm

Hey All,

I'm putting together a mojo hand to repair a relationship with my daughter (soon to be 10).

She lives with her father and step mother and has since she was 4 and I have very limited interactions with her, as they keep her from me (one hour, once a week, supervised by them). Additionally, we were not able to form a strong mother/child bond when she was young as I was the sole income earner for our family and had undiagnosed and thus unresolved mental health issues, so even when I was home bonding was impaired.

I have spent the past several years working on the things I need to work on, and through all this time her father and step mother have demonized me, controlled what I can do or say around her (no honest conversations with her, no asking about her life, and I can't touch her (for no good reason, might I add)) and driven her further away from me. Because of all this she now says she hates me and that I am not her mother.

I am doing everything I can to bond with her and show her that I love her, and am putting together a mojo hand to help with this. What I have so far is thus:

Red and blue flannel
ammonite fossil
petition paper
herb mixture (blood root base with other herbs)

Feeding mixture Wednesdays (angelica root powder, couch grass, and other herbs in a self made peace water base).

I'm undecided of what sort of prayers and dressing oil to use to wake it up. I want to stay away from coercion or dominance and instead focus on healing and removing negativity and bad feelings.

I will be working a separate trick for her father and step mother, as well as one for when I take them to court in the near future.

Any thoughts or considerations for the mojo hand would be helpful.

Unread post by **Miss Athena** » Fri Mar 08, 2019 9:49 pm

Hello krittur.

Welcome to the Lucky Mojo forum! We are happy to have you here.

I have moved your post to the thread on repairing family relationships, as this seems most appropriate to your situation. We ask that you not start new topics as you did, since this is against forum rules. Please search the forum and post new questions in the topics they relate to, as you will find we have nearly every topic already covered.

You can read through this thread for additional spell advice on repairing your relationship with your daughter.

For your mojo hand, you are recommending products not sold by Lucky Mojo, therefore we can't advise on their use. This forum is to help customers of Lucky Mojo with their use of products bought from the company. If you want an authentic Reconciliation mojo hand, which would help your situation, consider this one which includes all of the ingredients you need (except for personal concerns, which you add yourself):
http://www.luckymojo.com/mojo-3x-reconciliation.html

It is designed for reconciling romantic relationships but can also be used to reconcile family members.

When you visit your daughter, you can anoint yourself in Reconciliation oil to help bring her back to you. You could also dissolve the bath crystals in the final rinse of your laundry of clothes you intend to wear when you see her.
http://www.luckymojo.com/reconciliation.html

Finally, put yourself and your daughter into a honey jar and include Balm of Gilead, which helps to smooth over past hurts. Here is the forum thread to help you understand how to construct a honey jar:
general-honey-sugar-sweet-jar-questions ... t5536.html
http://www.herbmagic.com/balm-of-gilead.html

I'm glad you will be going to court over this. Unless the judge has prohibited you from physical contact with your daughter, or limited your visits so severely, these are punitive measures your ex and his wife are taking and you are within your rights to have them amended. You can search the forum for our entire sub-forum on court case spell advice.

I wish you the very best luck with this, and please keep us posted.

jdsmooth85 · Unread post by **jdsmooth85** » Sun May 12, 2019 8:13 am

Hi,

I have a question regarding a particular scenario.

Ok, several years ago I was having some problems dealing with a few extended family members and it eventually led to a rather nasty falling out (actually it was more them than me) and I basically severed ties with them for good with no intention of coming back.

Last year they showed signs that they wanted to make amends (actually they have been wanting to since I cut them off) but I pretty much had no interest in reconciliation with them. The reason because they had done a lot of dirty things through gossip (there are always those extended family members who can't keep their noses out of people's lives, jealousy, etc) and they went too far with it.

Cut to the present time, there is a relative in the family who is ill and may not make it through the rest of the year, so next week the family is supposed to have a big gathering and the entire family from all over will make attendance.

Knowing how things currently stand with the aforementioned relatives at hand, I was thinking about doing a reconciliation spell to smooth things over before I make the trip to attend the gathering because I don't want to be around them with ill feelings and tension, but the thing is that there are actually several of them that I would need to do a job on.

That said, could I write the petition for the spell and just list the individual names of all those I want to do the reconciliation spell on? Or would this only work if I do separate spells for each person?

Thanks in advance.

Unread post by **JayDee** » Sun May 12, 2019 11:00 am

jdsmooth85,

You can do a honey jar on several people at once in the jar. The only issue is if the candles burn poorly you will not know by the candle burn which person is resisting the work. Otherwise there is no draw back to this work. Start it now and use some of the honey to make cookies or a cake that they will eat, replenish the honey in the jar after you cook. This is a great way to work a jar and to get the work on and in them.

jdsmooth85 · Unread post by **jdsmooth85** » Sun May 12, 2019 5:36 pm

Ok, I will try this tonight!

The thing is, being as this idea suddenly came up I do not yet have any reconciliation oil handy and usually when I order something from the shop it takes a good week to a week and a half to arrive and I do not have that much time before I have to leave for the event.

But I do have some peaceful home and love me oils left over from previous spells. I was wondering if perhaps I could perhaps use those to the same effect.

EDIT: Also with the persons in question, being as they are relatives I know them well and know their full names (obviously), but on the petition paper that will be placed in the honey jar, would I have to have a photo of each person, or would just a list of their names suffice?

Unread post by **JayDee** » Mon May 13, 2019 12:46 pm

jdsmooth85 ,

Names work or photos work, If I have the option as you do, I would use the photos with their full names wrote out as a petition paper. peaceful home will help keep things nice and kind when they are around. Love me with intent of love, add some soothing love herbs if you have them as well.

jdsmooth85 · Unread post by **jdsmooth85** » Tue May 14, 2019 9:50 am

I went ahead and made the honey jar with just the names written on the petition, my name crossed over their's 9 times and then the word 'reconciliation' crossed over that 9 times as well - in addition to the actual petition.

I had access to their photos to print but that would've been too much paper to fit in the squat honey jars I have. I couldn't fit a photo with all of them together either. That would've been better.

I guess the names alone will have to do. I am now on day 3 of working the jar. What I do is name each person in question, then I state the actual petition and try to 'send the energy out' to them.

I'm not sure how effective this actually is but only time will tell.

Ms. JuJu · Unread post by **Ms. JuJu** » Wed Jun 12, 2019 10:32 am

Hello Everyone,
I have a pretty complicated family dynamic that has been going on for three years. Without going into a whole story, I will give a general picture of what is happening, and I would appreciate any advice on what type of spell and for whom, would help reunify the family.

I have three adult children, and the issues all started as they were married and it appears there is a domineering female energy that keeps coming into the family, and each of them have to face it in one way shape or form. I believe it originated from my older sister, who was very abusive to my family, mentally, physically, and psychologically. I hadn't made the connection till today. She abused me all my life and I lived in fear of her, until I found out abuse happened to my children, and I was finally able to cut the ties with her. It was a long drawn out court case and really damaged my kids emotionally, having to go through this trauma. We've always been very close and they are wonderful souls. I love my children so much!!! Three years ago my oldest son's wife began to behave oddly when the youngest son brought home his then, fiance. Drama ensued and it was incredible. Causing such a ripple effect, our daughter left the family, then the oldest son's wife became pregnant and they divorced. He's been in a terrible custody battle for his baby and finally after a year, he won! We are thrilled. But in the process, his younger brother's wife has slowly, one by one, isolated him from us. it started with my daughter, then my husband and I, my mother... and now the final straw. Now that my oldest son has his daughter, he can finally introduce her to the family... and his brother's wife says she will never allow their kids around the baby, because she doesn't want the baby's mother to accuse her of anything.
We are pretty astonished that she is being this way, weve all been through so much pain, and we have fought for that little girl and won!! So why continue to prevent her from knowing her family this way? It dawned on me today after doing some pendulum work that this energy is the same as my sister. And while my oldest son had to regain his strength during this past year to fight for his child...and ultimately be free of the bondage of his ex-wife's control, my youngest son is going to have to do the same. I've been holding space and doing alot of healing work for my family the past three years, and when I started candle magic with my daughter for the court case, we saw everything shift immediately!!! It all is so incredible.

So my question is, what should I work on first?
1) I feel like there is an energy or entity attached to the family that needs to be healed or cleared... I know now it originated with my sister. My daughter in laws both exhibit the same characteristic controlling dominating of men that my sister did.

2)I want to see healing within my family. Completely restored relationships. I'ts coming together--- today I get to see my little granddaughter for the first time in six months!!! But my youngest son won't come because his wife doesn't want their children around the baby. It seems something could be done here, possibly to warm her up to connection?

3) I do feel that most importantly my youngest son needs support to be strong and use his voice, to feel his strength and stand up to his wife.

4) My main concern is to orchestrate all of this for the highest good of all involved. I don't want to set things into place and lengthen the process or interfere with what needs to happen in order for my son to wake up. Any suggestions on what would be advised would be so appreciated. Thank you!!

Unread post by **Miss Athena** » Fri Jun 14, 2019 5:49 pm

Hello Ms. JuJu,

Welcome to the Lucky Mojo forum! We're glad to see you here.

I'm sorry you're going through so much with your family. I'll answer your questions in the order in which they were asked.

1. You can read the posts in the following thread on removing curses from a family member:
spells-to-remove-jinx-or-curse-from-fam ... 21666.html

2. You can put your family members in a honey jar to sweeten relationships among them. Read about honey jars here:
general-honey-sugar-sweet-jar-questions ... t5536.html

3. You can help your youngest son gain courage to stand up for himself. The following thread has good spell advice for this goal:
spells-to-increase-courage-and-bravery-t17289.html

4. You can work all of these simultaneously, and don't worry about interfering with the natural order of things. If your family is experiencing difficulties, your work can help resolve those problems. That is a worthwhile goal in itself.

I hope this helps. Good luck.

Ms. JuJu · Unread post by **Ms. JuJu** » Sat Jun 15, 2019 6:00 pm

Thank you so much Miss Athena, that really helps me understand so much clearer and I will get started. The situation has come to an explosive climax today and the daughter in law in question has really blown up. I am going to get started working on all of this. Thank you again,
JuJu

Jhart · Unread post by **Jhart** » Tue Jul 23, 2019 11:26 am

Hello all. This is my very first time posting so I'm sorry if I'm in the wrong area. I was hoping to find some help, clarity, advice if possible. The last few months have been a whirlwind of chaos..so I appologize if I'm rabbling and long winded, I'm overly emotional.

1. My 16yr old daughter was hospitalized due to self harm and suicidal thoughts. She's been in counseling but with the school year ending it was too much for her. We've always been super close and for 12yrs was just me and her. As she was being released from the hospital She made claims against my husband/her step father that he shared drugs with her one weekend when I was away for a girls weekend. This sparked a child services investigation. (He and I share a son who is 18months old) he denied allowing her to do drugs but he has smoked with her in the past I discovered. Everything was unfounded and he is home however my daughter has decided to go live with her father, I'm full of resentment and mistrust and my son is incredibly clingy to his dad now that he is back home. My son won't even let me near him when dad is around.
2. In the middle of all that going on my step daughter who is 8yr old was dropped off suddenly for a summer visit. Her mother was also under investigation for abuse and neglect in California and was trying to "hide" her here with us in IL. We had not seen her in 2yrs. Once she was here she opened up to me and other family members about the abuse and neglect she was receiving since her mother left her step father. My step daughter is the middle child on her mom's side (5girls total. 4 different dads) she was basically raising the younger 2 sisters and her 11yr older sister was raising her. We immediately filed to get custody and we did infact win temp custody. My step daughter has repeatedly begged to stay here and has not at all wanted to talk to her mom.

My issue is her mother is extremely manipulative and a narcissist. She truly feels she is a great mom and has done nothing wrong. (We did our research and did have former friends, her ex husband, her mother, etc all confirming the girls reports of abuse) she is currently lying and manipulating her ex husband to believe she'll come back if he can pay for her to fight to get Madi back. She has turned the other sisters against my step daughter and plays mind games. Its her pattern sadly.

I want to protect my step daughter and her sisters so I'm not sure if I should drive the mom away or if there's anything that can be done to make her see what she's done and truly change not just scam. I don't want to break up a family but would like her true intentions shown so her ex and younger children aren't hurt by false hope.
Ive been doing house cleanings, protection candles and washes for my home, hung rosemary. Ive also wanted to do a honey jar for my teenage daughter, son, and husband. I also want to do one for my step daughter. I'm not sure the best route to take. Also was unable to see if it's better for individual honey jars or if a group family jar would be better.
I want everyone to heal and know they are safe and loved. I normally see a reader who helps direct me however she's unavailable and I'm nervous about trying someone new.

Thank you to all who took the time to read all this and thank you in advance for any advice. Sending blessings to all

Unread post by **Miss Athena** » Thu Jul 25, 2019 2:03 pm

Hello Jhart,

Welcome to the Lucky Mojo forum! We are glad to have you here.

I am sorry you're going through so much difficulty. To make things easier for you, put your entire family in a honey jar and also work with Peaceful Home products, to keep the energy in your family happy and loving. You can find them here:
http://www.luckymojo.com/peacefulhome.html

I would also put your step-daughter's mom in a freezer spell, to halt any further disruption she might make on your family. You can read about freezer spells here:
general-freezer-spell-questions-and-answers-t8676.html

If you want to expose the truth about her to the rest of your family, read through this thread for advice and ideas that you can adapt to your specific situation:
spells-to-punish-liar-thief-fraudster-w ... t1003.html

I hope this helps. Good luck to you and your family, they are lucky to have you!

Jhart · Unread post by **Jhart** » Fri Jul 26, 2019 8:22 am

Thank you so much Miss Athena, this is truly helpful. I can't tell you how much I appreciate you taking the time to give some advice.

SophiesMom · Unread post by **SophiesMom** » Sat Aug 17, 2019 6:06 pm

Hello . I'm new here. I apologize if I'm on the wrong thread, but I have a question. And I apologize in advance if this is too long.

My husband and I have been together for 6 years now and he has a 7 yr old child with his ex. We've been visiting his daughter every month (we live 12 hours away) and she'll stay with us over summer, holidays, etc..since she was 3.

We didn't have any issues at the beginning. However now, we've been having issues with his daughter with her being disrespectful to my husband and I and is just miserable when she visits with us.

I feel her mom has grown dependent on the love and company of only her kids (she has a 17 yr old son from another relationship) So she basically shuts all others out too. Men don't tend to stick around. And I suspect my step daughter just mimics what she sees and is told. She wont tell my husband she loves him. It's like she refuses to have fun with us at all. Like she doesn't want to hurt her mom's feelings or something. She makes comments like when she's 18 she and her mom are going far away and she will never leave her mom. Her mother also won't even attempt to co-parent as she doesn't try to support my husband on the way they each discipline my step daughter.

So my question is, if I would like to see my husband and myselves relationship sweeten with my step daughter , do we have to sweeten her mother as well? I mean I don't want any risks of her trying to get back into my husband's life in any other way, if you know what I mean.

Or do I try to do something to push her away, or keep her from telling my step daughter things that discourages her relationship with my husband?

Just being cautious. Thank you.

Unread post by **catherineyronwode** » Sat Aug 17, 2019 7:49 pm

Hello, SophiesMom --

I moved your question from the "General Honey Jar" thread to this more specific thread about "Blended Families."

I would use sugar or honey, whichever you like to cook with, and i would put the names of all concerned, including the ex-wife, her child from a former marriage -- and eve yourself -- into the sweetener on separate sheets of paper. Add some pleasing and lucky spices in whole form (not powdered, and not too much. For instance, you could add Cloves for friendship, Cinnamon for financial abundance, Nutmeg for luck, Allspice for money, Ginger for warmth, Vanilla Bean for affection -- and this will make spiced sugar. Pray over this every day for good things, then sift or strain the papers and spices out and use the sugar or honey in cooking, Reciting the 133rd Psalm over the food, and feed it to as many people involved as you can.

Psalms 133

1 Behold, how good and how pleasant it is for brethren to dwell together in unity!

2 It is like the precious ointment upon the head, that ran down upon the beard, even Aaron's beard: that went down to the skirts of his garments;

3 As the dew of Hermon, and as the dew that descended upon the mountains of Zion: for there the Lord commanded the blessing, even life for evermore.

SophiesMom · Unread post by **SophiesMom** » Wed Aug 28, 2019 1:03 pm

Thank you for your response. I can definitely make something that my step daughter would eat. I'm not sure she or her son would though. I will definitely try.

Cyra21_21 · Unread post by **Cyra21_21** » Sat Sep 28, 2019 2:25 pm

I need herbs or a spell to do to help my adult daughters behavior. She is 23 & acting wild... cheating on her man, being promiscuous, not paying bills, making poor life choices.

She is refusing any professional help so I’m trying to work within my realm

I was thinking a honey jar to help with self love & just need ideas of what to use. Also to help her come to her senses

Unread post by **Miss Athena** » Sat Sep 28, 2019 4:02 pm

Hello Cyra21_21,

Welcome to the Lucky Mojo forum.

I have moved your post to a more appropriate location, as we do not want new topics started. You will note that we already have nearly every topic already covered, so please search the forum before posting.

The spell advice and ideas in this topic can help you, so please read through starting on the first page and you will likely find something that speaks to you. If you still have questions after reading, feel free to ask us here.

I hope this helps. Good luck.

Unread post by **Nabeyta365** » Fri Dec 06, 2019 3:11 pm

Hello i am wanting to know if it is proper to use Reconciliation products for family members that have fallen out? To forgive one another and not hate one another. I was thinking to work it in a honey jar and burn candles with the oil, but i first wanted to know if this oil is suitable for that purpose.?

Unread post by **catherineyronwode** » Fri Dec 06, 2019 5:14 pm

Nabeyta365 --

Yes, Reconiliation products are suitable for repairing friendships and family relationsis, not only love affairs.

If the people have moved fa apart physically, add Return to Me products. (And, by the way, Return to Me can be used alone if there are no emotional issues and only distance is a factor).

OIL-HOO-RECO
Reconciliation Oil
$10.00

You can order right here in the Forum by clicking on the blue Add To Cart button.

For more information, see:
http://www.luckymojo.com/reconciliation.html

OIL-HOO-RETU
Return To Me Oil
$10.00

You can order right here in the Forum by clicking on the blue Add To Cart button.

For more information, see:
http://www.luckymojo.com/returntome.html

And once they are all in synch, work with Peaceful Home and Peace Water to keep the good vibes going on:

OIL-HOO-PEAC
Peaceful Home Oil
$10.00

You can order right here in the Forum by clicking on the blue Add To Cart button.

For more information, see:
http://www.luckymojo.com/peacefulhome.html

WAT-PEA-GL04
Peace Water, 4 oz.
$8.00

You can order right here in the Forum by clicking on the blue Add To Cart button.

For more information, see:
http://www.luckymojo.com/peacewater.html

Good luck!

Unread post by **Nabeyta365** » Fri Dec 06, 2019 11:31 pm

Thank you very much Miss Cat

thegoldcountrywitch · Unread post by **thegoldcountrywitch** » Thu Jan 16, 2020 1:58 pm

Hey Fam,
I've recently begun to realize that my mother is unstable - narcissistic, uses guilt to manipulate people, always makes herself out to be a martyr, very negative and obsesses on morbid things (in an unhealthy way, not an objective curiosity, brings really upsetting things up in regular conversation)... I didn't realize it growing up but I am seeing it now with fresh eyes and looking back am just blown away with how much my dad put up with. This behavior also drove away her most recent bf who was just the sweetest and most generous man and it broke my heart to not have him around anymore. My mom didnt like that his sons wouldnt connect with her (at the age 13/14 and 21... she's the new gf, I get why they would be nervous, shy or just uncomfortable) and would actually say unkind things about them like that they needed to lose weight (my mother is not a small person) and would call his older son a sex addict simply because he was in a polyamorous relationship. So heres the thing: she's incapable of recognizing any of this, won't make apologies and acts like a victim any time anyone brings up anything she's done that is harmful or wrong, blames everyone else and will actually completely change a narrative or straight lie about it to avoid admitting she did anything wrong. She regularly brings up how she can't share her religion with us (which is not true) and makes us feel guilty when we are busy and don't call or text back right away. I would really like something to awaken compassion in her. I already have plans to work clarity and healing, but I'd really love it if she would be more kind and empathetic with others and not manipulative. Its gotten so bad that neither myself nor my sister wants to spend much time with her or can trust her with just normal mom-daughter stuff and its extremely sad. Thanks, yall.

Unread post by **FreyaRose** » Fri Jan 17, 2020 10:43 am

Hi thegoldcountrywitch,

I'm so sorry to hear about this. I have to say, your mother sounds extremely similar to both my mother and grandmother, who I had to finally go No Contact with for my own mental wellbeing. Unfortunately, when personality disorders like Narcissism or Borderline Personality Disorder are in the mix, magic often isn't effective or advisable, because they don't react in the normal way. They have wounds inside of them that often don't allow for them to feel empathy or have the moments of clarity we desperately want for them.

Basically, you can't change someone's true nature, and if someone isn't capable of what you're hoping for, no amount of magic is going to make it happen.

There is this great group which really helped me a lot when I was coming to similar realizations about my family, and helped me get an idea of how to help myself and my family. It's called Out of the F.O.G. (which stands for Fear Obligation and Guilt):

https://outofthefog.website/

It's a great site with a support group. I highly recommend checking it out!

As for Hoodoo, I'd look into products to support YOURSELF as you take a closer look at your mother and how to handle the situation, like Crucible of Courage:

https://www.luckymojo.com/crucibleofcourage.html

Also make sure you're cleansing and protecting yourself:

spells-for-blessing-and-cleansing-the-h ... 8-600.html

general-protection-spell-questions-and- ... 8-120.html

Best of luck, Hon! You are not alone!

freespirit16 · Unread post by **freespirit16** » Thu Feb 20, 2020 11:15 am

Dear community:
This is my first post - cry of help so apologize if I have missed any rules here.
I come from a tight knit family, am the eldest and have one younger sister. She has always been the attention seeking, me me mine type and pretty emotional, comparison, jealousy etc.. We have all kinda mended our ways to accommodate that and I took her under my wings as she was growing up. My parents would always heed to my advice as we were handling her issues including her engagement break ups etc.. Finally she got married, good husband and had a child but he was diagnosed with a little medical problem and there started the problems again. She became this "sympathy seeking, attention grabbing energy vampire" at its best. Constant dis satisfaction, no gratitude for anything anyone does for her etc.. Me and my husband would have spent hundreds of 1000s of dollars on getting their situation better. But still she will be able to find something to criticize. If I ask her / my parents to tell her to take her life under control, stop complaining and be grateful for what we have, I would be labeled as insensitive and lacking empathy and this image has been cemented now. My parents who once were very rational and calling the spade a spade with this behavior have slowly started to heed into the sympathy waves and now have become completely surrendered (My mom more than my dad who nods it off to avoid any issues further). My mom has become her mini me and totally does not realize this is not good for them and not for her growth also. They are seeing me and my family as completely a third party and are not close anymore and also not acting / treating all grandchildren the same. Her child is their favorite and my mom, though she sees the poisonous ways of my sister doesn't do anything about it and my dad only complains about it to my mom. My mom almost is so scared to tick my sister off even slightly and never calls her out on anything out of fear. My sister beats her husband and my mom doesnt call her out and forces her to change her ways, else threaten that she won't stay with her and raise the family. My dad is very irritated by these acts but can't say anything. This is hurting my relationship and my kids' relationship with my parents.
What can I do to
1. Make my parents listen to me more, love me and my kids more and really start distancing themselves from her energy zone?
2. How do I make them stay away from her so that she starts to handle her life herself and hopefully starts appreciating the support system she has?
3. I just want my sister to suffer for her envy, separating me and my parents via constant poisonous back biting and making my words have no power with my parents.
4. Their fighting should increase to a point that my parents despise going there to their house and staying there. Thats the only way I think they can be away from them in short term.

Any suggestions? Thoughts? I am completely new to this hoodoo space and landed here by signs and accident

validated multiple times, so I know I am in the right space but have no clue how to navigate

Pls help.

Thanks!
Sai

Unread post by **Terra Rising** » Thu Feb 20, 2020 6:54 pm

freespirit16,

I moved your post here to help give you ideas on how to repair the relationship with your parents. I ask that you do not start new topics, instead please use the search bar in the upper right hand corner. Once you find the right thread, read through it and post any questions you have using the quick reply on the bottom of the page.

Your situation will not be solved with one spell, in fact it might take a few but if you make a plan step by step, I know you will have success.

1. For your parents, I would start a honey or sugar jar - https://www.luckymojo.com/honeyjar.html
2. For your sister, I suggest a freezer spell to stop her behavior and freeze her out for a bit until she comes to her senses. I wouldn't keep her in there for long, she is family after all - https://www.luckymojo.com/freezer.html
3. Cleansing for yourself. All the negativity that surrounds you and your family needs to be taken off. Cleanse your house with Chinese Wash and treat yourself with a Van Van bath. This will remove that bad gunk that might have built up over the years.
3. Protection- Always put up protection after you clean away the mess. Anointing the doors and windows with Protection oil and perhaps placing evil eye charms in the house would be a good idea.
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freespirit16 · Unread post by **freespirit16** » Fri Feb 21, 2020 6:40 am

Thank you so much Terra Rising. I will look up the right threads to post going forward. Sorry for any inconvenience.
Since this is my first time, few qns. for clarifications. I have been overhearing all lying vengeance filled conversations with my sister and my parents are hands-tied and I am just crying in shower, I don't want to expose it and ruin their image with my husband, kids. I love them so much and worried about their mental peace and that they are failing to see long term impact for my sister. My soul is hurt so much especially when it comes to vengeance and jealousy filled thoughts towards my kids. Even more that my own mom is putting up with her ill thoughts of her own grandkids (my kids) who she loved to pieces.
1. Is it "must" to have them eat that sugar / honey ?
2. Can I start a honey / sugar jar, with my parents pic and my family pic added to the jar, with a petition written on a normal paper and I just pray on it?

They are here with me for a week (4 months w/ my sister). I can start lighting candles on top of the jar once they leave so it is not evident. I will order other supplies after next week so I have the right privacy to do those.
What else should I do? or not do?

Huge gratitude!!!

Unread post by **Miss Athena** » Fri Feb 21, 2020 6:00 pm

Hello freespirit16,

To answer your two questions:

1. No, it is not a must but is a good way to work with the sweetening energy of your jar.

2. Yes you could do that.

Good luck.

freespirit16 · Unread post by **freespirit16** » Sat Feb 22, 2020 11:44 am

Thank you Ms. Athena.

AnitaSire · Unread post by **AnitaSire** » Tue Mar 10, 2020 11:30 am

Hi there,

I'm new to Hoodoo, but the jar spells attract me and I wonder if they could help me in my situation.

My husband has 2 ex wives and children with each. Both ex wives are friends or at least seem to be.

The second ex wive is not nice to me, but is nice to everyone else including my husband, which allows her to manipulate him (not aggressively, but very subtly, as "nice" manipulators do), so that I'm always the bad guy in my husband's eyes if I ever complain. A lot of their communications is sweet chatter which has nothing to do with the child who has his own phone and communicates with his father.

Same goes with her child who sees that his mother doesn't like me and it reflects in his behaviour.

At the same time, this ex wife is very nice and makes efforts to still be present in my husband's family and his children from first ex wife (i.e. her ex-step children). Yet, she's denying me the same thing with her child.

I also had some issues with the 1st ex wife (who crossed some boundaries) and since they both talk about me, whatever issue is then turned against me and kids are sometimes involved, so I always end up looking bad.

Concretely, I would like if possible to:

1) -Drive a wedge between my husband and the 2nd ex.

2) -Improve my relationship with her child.

3) -Drive a wedge between 2nd ex and 1st ex so that they stop talking about me.

4) -Drive a wedge between 2nd ex and a couple of other key family members (i.e. get her out of the family)?

5) Given that my husband doesn't know how to set boundaries with ex wives, what types of products can I use to assist him to set boundaries?

6) Also, is it possible to have several jars, both honey and vinegar, for the same person?

Unread post by **catherineyronwode** » Tue Mar 10, 2020 5:37 pm

Hello, AnitaSire , and welcome to the Lucky Mojo Forum.

1) A break-up spell in a Lemon named for your husband and the 2nd ex, placed inside a jar of vinegar would be useful for this situation.

2) A sugar jar for you and the child, made with a packet of edible herbs would be a good idea, especially if you use the sugar in cooking foods or sweet treats that the child may eat.

3) A similar spell to (1) above, named for the two ex-wives, but since the aim is to stop them talking trash, i would add Alum to silence them and freeze it in the freezer.

4) This could be included within (1) above if her name / personal concerns are ep apart from all family members including your husband. No need to make a separate jar for this.

5) I would use Influence, Controlling, Do As I Say, or Queen Eliabeth products in the form you prefer -- oil, bath crystals, incense, sachet powders -- to get him to see your side of things. Add love products too, such as Love Me, Fire of Love, Marriage, or Adam and Eve, to keep him eager to be by your side. You don't need more than four products total.

6) Yes, you can put a person in a sweet jar or bottle with you and at the same time put that person in a sour bottle or jar with another person.

Good luck.

AnitaSire · Unread post by **AnitaSire** » Wed Mar 11, 2020 6:18 pm

Thank you so much Catherine,
I'm not sure I understood the point 4: This could be included within (1) above if her name / personal concerns are ep apart from all family members including your husband. No need to make a separate jar for this.

You mean that I can make one jar to "break up" the ex with my husband and some of his family members at the same time? In this case, I put all the names on the paper?

Unread post by **Miss Athena** » Fri Mar 13, 2020 4:49 pm

Hello AnitaSire,

Yes, you got it correct. I would write each person's name on a separate piece of paper (one for each person) and add them to the jar.

I hope this helps. I wish you much luck for such a complicated situation!

AnitaSire · Unread post by **AnitaSire** » Fri Mar 20, 2020 5:36 am

Thank you soo much!

AnitaSire · Unread post by **AnitaSire** » Sat Mar 21, 2020 10:21 am

I'm sorry, I have 3 other questions:
1) When doing several jar spells (honey and vinegar), should I take one evening and do all of them and then shake all of them at a certain moment one by one or should I do one jar spell per day or should I wait until the completion of one to start another?

3) For the separation jar, is it ok to add let's say hair of one person even if I don't have anything from another?

2) I also have a son who was abandonned by his father and my husband is so absorbed by his exes/his children/work/etc. that he never really developped a relationship with my son (after several years of living together), not because he doesn't love him, but because he's busy and my son is very reserved too. Is it possible to do something to drive them closer or to create some fatherly feelings in my husband towards my son. His older children are adult, so it won't take anything away from them.

Thank you soooo much!

Unread post by **Terra Rising** » Sat Mar 21, 2020 2:07 pm

AnitaSire,

1) Some people work with days of the week or the cycles of the moon. You may want to consider breaking up your spells according to one of these. There is a whole thread on spell timing that will help you figure out which is best for you. Days of the week: spell-timing-planetary-influences-days- ... t1429.html or by the moon: spell-timing-moon-phases-moon-signs-moo ... -t442.html

2) Yes that is fine.

3) A sugar jar for the two of them could be a possibility. There isn't really a specific spell for this. More like different spells that could be adapted to work for your situation.

Page1968 · Unread post by **Page1968** » Sun Apr 12, 2020 3:46 pm

I need some help with me niece.

We were very close up until nov 29, 2019 when there was an argument with her and her boy friend and the cops were called and did show up.

She is blaming me for the problem.

I have tried calling and texting her but she won't talk to me. I really would like her and her 3 kids back in my life.

Unread post by **Miss Athena** » Mon Apr 13, 2020 2:08 am

Hello Page1968,

I'm so sorry this has happened.

You are in the right topic area and you can read through the posts here for great advice and ideas on what to do.

Personally, I would make sure to put you and your niece in a honey jar, to sweeten your relationship. You can read about them here:
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Add some Blood Root to the jar, as this is very useful in strengthening family relationships.

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I hope this helps. Good luck!

MoonGoddessKat · Unread post by **MoonGoddessKat** » Fri Apr 17, 2020 5:17 pm

Hi all, I have a situation I was looking for input on. Sorry if this post turns out to be long, I just like to give as much info as I can so I can get the right advice on what to do. I have in my mind what I think I want to do, I just want to make sure I am headed in the right direction before I place an order for what ever I don’t have that I will need.

I'm in a romantic relationship that I have been in for a little over 7 months, with a man where the 2 of us were attracted to each other instantly when we met 3 years ago. The timing was just never right for the two of us until this past year.

I've had several readings regarding him since I met him, in which all were very positive for us, kind of confirming what I had felt the moment our eyes locked the first time. We had been looking for each other for a long time. If you believe in soul mates, that was it.

Anyway, this last month and a half, I wouldn’t say things got rocky, but they arent as good as they were. He ususally stays on the weekends, Friday night through Monday morning, or at least a night or two over the weekend. He had been spending much more time here starting at the end of March, coming and staying during the week as well since I was/am currently laid off from work because of the various stay at home orders over the COVID19 virus, and his hours were reduced where he works. The more he was here I think the more he started thinking of things.

He hadnt been over to visit in over a week and he talked to me the other day telling me why. I have a 3 year old, she will be 4 in a few days. And he said he hadn't come over because he just needs to rest and recharge and he cant always get that at my house. That he doesn’t want to be the "bad guy" but he thinks she can be unruly at times. (I think shes just being a toddler) He said he wasn’t sure if he could handle being a step dad but that he's trying because he's never wanted to be with someone more and that he hadn't been around long enough to feel what it's like to be a 'family' but he's willing to give it a try. He said that was what he felt he needed to get off his chest before he came over again, which he is supposed to this weekend so we will see.

Now this is from a man who says he never settled down and had a family because he never found a person he wanted to do that with, he turned 40 this year. He hasn’t really had many long term relationships for the same reason. I am the first relationship he has had in about 6 years.

Next is from a conversation we had, gosh over a year ago now, but it stuck with me. One of his exes had 5 kids and he said the reason they ended was because he couldn’t take the unruly behavior anymore. So it worried me when he called her "unruly"..that conversation just flashed back in my mind. He has talked about moving in before so I would like that to still be a possibility. I want him to be at peace when he is here and think of my daughter more sweetly. She's just a kid, and he isn't used to being around them is the issue I think. I'm waiting for a response in an email from my reader I typically work with to confirm.

But in the meantime, I am thinking of doing is maybe getting a honey jar for him to think of her a little more sweetly, putting his hair and her's in it with healing/peaceful herbs? And the petition stating that? Or would you do a peaceful home kit? I'm not totally sure which direction to go. I could do both. I haven't been in this situation before so not totally sure how to proceed! Looking for suggestions to see what I should order next. I am familiar with the use of honey jars, I actually have one that I have worked for his and my relationship for over a year now. I am just unfamiliar with what to do with one for this situation or what I would put in it.

Unread post by **Miss Athena** » Fri Apr 17, 2020 9:16 pm

Hello MoonGoddessKat,

I would do both a honey jar and Peaceful Home spell for this situation.

You have the right idea for your honey jar, using both of their hairs and petitioning for a sweeter relationship between them. Peaceful Home can help with calming the energy in your home. Wash your bed linens with a few bath crystals dissolved in the final rinse for when he plans to stay with you overnight.

I hope this helps. Good luck.

MoonGoddessKat · Unread post by **MoonGoddessKat** » Sat Apr 18, 2020 7:09 am

Thanks so much Miss Athena, I placed an order for both and also added some peace water as well.

purple aura · Unread post by **purple aura** » Mon May 18, 2020 5:24 pm

Hello Everyone,

First time posting here. I apologize if I am posting incorrect. But I can relate to the subject here. My daughter and I have been arguing so much for the past year. Mainly because of her boyfriend and her not listening to what I tell her to do, she is 20. Our arguments are about her dropping whatever she is doing to leave and hang out with this boy. She is a sweet girl but when it comes to this boy she changes. she gets very angry when I even mention the kid. I just want peace with my baby girl and her to be back to her sweet self. We argue every single day and it's not healthy for either one of us. I love candles and I light them for health healing. Just wanted some advice on how I can calm her down somehow. Thank you,

Unread post by **Terra Rising** » Tue May 19, 2020 11:44 am

purple aura,

Tranquility products could bring peace back in the home. You could sprinkle a bit of the bath crystals in the laundry for her. Put some dabs of oil on her hair brush for when she does her hair in the morning. Clarity would be good to add as well. It could help her to see the influence he has and how the fighting is harming the family. Peace Water could be poured in a mister so you can spray some around the home. I would also start a sugar jar and put the names of everyone in your family into it. Pray over it and use the sugar in your cooking.

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Clarity - https://www.luckymojo.com/clarity.html

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I hope this helps.

browneyes · Unread post by **browneyes** » Mon Jun 08, 2020 2:50 pm

Hello,

I had a reading a few months back by an AIRR affiliate. She gave me things that I could do to help my situation and I just need clarity on where to start. A little background, my partner and I recently moved in together. He has kids in another state by 2 separate women. It seems that the closer we get to marriage, there's always something that pushes us back. The reader told me that one of the children's mother is doing separation work against us. She has also sent clothing items to our house that were dressed in oils to harm my child. He has also shown me very crazy texts she has sent saying she hates me and my son so there's no doubt that the reader was right.

I have frozen both of their names/pictures in alum water. I've tied our socks together and placed them under the bed. I purchased the Uncrossing Kit, a Honey Jar Kit, Bride & Groom candles for marriage, 4 thieves vinegar for vinegar jars for both women, and a Nation Sack along with a variety of bath crystals and oils.

1) Can I make ONE vinegar jar for both women to force them to move on with their lives and leave him alone so that we can live peacefully? In the jar can I put hot foot powder?

2) I plan to work the Honey Jar on MWF and the Vinegar Jar on TuTh. Would it be too much to use the Bride & Groom candles with deer tongue and Nation Sack during this time as well? Is there anything else I can do to clear our path for marriage? He is so afraid to lose his kids because these women keep threatening him.

3) Do I need to cleanse my house every day that I perform this work? I typically use sage and want to incorporate the ChineseWash. It's hard for me to burn candles and do the baths when he is home. I am trying to do this work discreetly because he isn't a believer.

4) Are dimes required for the Nation Sack to be effective?

It's a bit overwhelming because I feel like I am all over the place but I am so tired of living is discord constantly all because this lady cannot move on with her life after they've been separated for over 13 years. I can see the stress all over his face and he's aging fast because he tries to be happy but can't because there's constant drama every single day!

Unread post by **Terra Rising** » Tue Jun 09, 2020 10:56 am

browneyes,

1) Yes, the one vinegar jar can be used for both of them. Hot Foot can be added but it is an entirely different spell. Hot Foot is to make someone leave. Since these women are in different states, I'm not sure what good it will do. The blood bond between your partner and his kids is very strong and would be difficult to cut completely. I know your target are the women but they are all connected. Alum was the right move and maybe think about placing them in a mirror box. You can read more about mirror boxes here: mirror-spells-and-mirror-box-spells-que ... t2140.html

2) I would do the honey and vinegar jars first. Work them as you mentioned and see how it goes for a week or so. Then move on to the other spells. It is possible to do to much at once and this only confuses the target and drains you. Focus your energy on one spell at a time for a bit. Yes, you can work all of them at once but make sure one is going steady before beginning the next.

3) Cleansing after negative work is important. Different workers have different suggestions. I would definitely cleanse yourself once a week while working the vinegar jar. Then the house every couple of weeks. Once it comes time to deploy/dispose of the jar, do a full cleaning.

4) I'd say coins are but it doesn't need to be a mercury dime. The dates on the coins are important.

As a final suggestion I would like to add, sometimes the negative work isn't necessary and only causes more harm. For instance, if you sour their lives and they lose their jobs or other financial misfortune, more drama could happen as they will try to gain more support. If they divorce or suffer in love, then they will focus more on the past lovers. Do you see? Sometimes it is better to bless them on so they forget and move toward the future.

Best of luck!

MyLifeInHeels · Unread post by **MyLifeInHeels** » Thu Oct 15, 2020 6:20 pm

Good day everyone I need advice on mending a relationship between (Brother & Sister) both feel very hurt by one another & are not speaking after a big argument

Unread post by **Miss Athena** » Wed Oct 21, 2020 4:21 pm

Hello MyLifeInHeels,

Welcome to the Lucky Mojo forum! We're glad to see you here.

Arguments like that do happen in families and you are in the right topic for spell advice. If you have not already done so, please read through all of the pages in this topic and you will find lots of advice and ideas that can help you. If you still have questions after reading, feel free to ask us here.

Good luck.